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lilylilylily
10-02-2016, 07:35 AM
Ok I met a dude last night at a bar, was very cute and tall and hes from London,England, love his accent. That's all I know about him so far. I hope he calls me.
whirlerz
10-02-2016, 08:09 AM
I need new medical insurance.
Check out Harken if you're in IL or GA, otherwise, United Healthcare, who backs them
xStacey
10-02-2016, 10:30 AM
I want my first pair of Louboutin lol (was never a shoe gal but now I really want a pair!).
Vyanka
10-02-2016, 11:25 AM
I want my first pair of Louboutin lol (was never a shoe gal but now I really want a pair!).
Most uncomfortable shoes ever. Good luck. Lol.
lilylilylily
10-02-2016, 11:54 AM
The guy I met last night just called me! He actually called, not send me a text which is great, but I didn't answer cuz i'm too nervous to speak to him on the phone LOL. I kinda wish he texted
whirlerz
10-02-2016, 12:54 PM
Most uncomfortable shoes ever. Good luck. Lol.
Yea. In my opinion, a lot of 'civvie' shoes are not made well..they may be made w/expensive materials but..
lynn2009
10-02-2016, 07:15 PM
I'm a little biased but I really think my cat is the cutest thing that's ever existed. He's usually really needy for attention or wants to be left alone but this weekend he's started laying nicely next to me while I'm working on my laptop and I love it.
chanzep
10-02-2016, 07:33 PM
I tried my very first Pumpkin Spice Latte, and I hated it.:weeping::yuck::thumbsdow
Im a Starbucks girl all the way, and REALLY wanted to love it, so it could be my new obsession.
Damn it!:'(
Salted Caramel Mocha is better.
Glamourmilf
10-02-2016, 10:05 PM
Salted Caramel Mocha is better.
Ah, I didn't even know about that, thank you.
Today I was out of town at a Starbucks I've never been to, and this girl was hitting on me.
It made me very uncomfortable. She was standing in line behind me, and first complemented me on my hair...but kept saying it. Then she told me I look like Barbie.
I guess I should have been flattered, but she wasn't hot, and it just seemed a bit..... 'off'.
xStacey
10-03-2016, 09:46 AM
Lol kids who live off their parents constantly brag about their condo, cars and trips. Students who don't come from well-off families but received scholarships to study at prestigious universities either say they did their master in England when they studied at Oxford or just say they studied in the States when they went to Harvard...
whirlerz
10-03-2016, 01:12 PM
Well, it happened again..yrs ago there was a young girl murdered by her 2 'friends', it was made into a tv movie Murder among friends w/Patty Duke. The book was Missy's Murder. Btw both girls are now free, the main one was on Dr Phil awhile bk, & is now trying to profit by writing 'her story'.
I was searching on bing, it was yesterday, that was the day she died, which I didn't know! Weird how I just had the feeling to do that.
Same thing happened in Aug w/Dorothy Stratten a murdered playmate
xStacey
10-03-2016, 02:49 PM
It's been only one month since I am back to school but already so tired, can't wait till the holidays break to sleep.
seashell
10-03-2016, 07:26 PM
I just had a dream that I was hanging out with the Real Housewives... some from New Jersey and some from New York.
I told Bethenny Frankel how much I loved her book Naturally Thin. She was pretty friendly.
XD
Vyanka
10-03-2016, 08:56 PM
I just had a dream that I was hanging out with the Real Housewives... some from New Jersey and some from New York.
I told Bethenny Frankel how much I loved her book Naturally Thin. She was pretty friendly.
XD
I find her so unattractive. Lol
Aurora_Sunset
10-04-2016, 07:59 PM
I don't want to go to bed because I am not, in any way, excited about the rest of the week. I just want to cling to this day and pretend tomorrow doesn't have to happen.
DonaDiabla
10-04-2016, 09:07 PM
Is it a good time to make clown fetish clips? :)
LAChloe
10-04-2016, 09:17 PM
I want my first pair of Louboutin lol (was never a shoe gal but now I really want a pair!).
Don't do it....they are so uncomfortable!!!! I promise. They are my biggest retail regret!
miss.a.p1600
10-04-2016, 09:27 PM
You know I have never liked him, I do not think his comedy is funny at all and something about how dead he looks behind his eyes has always rubbed me the wrong way too, but the chick in the article is rubbing me the wrong way too. For instance when he's asking her about signing those papers or whatever and she says 'I can't even look at them, all I can do is keep checking twitter to make sure you're okay.' That seems unbalanced to me, this guy is being a dick to you even though he just allegedly gave you 3 stds and all you can do is stalk his twitter because you're worried about him...? Especially when the purpose of the papers she is supposed to sign are allegedly to keep her from talking about the STD situation? I wonder if that was the real purpose of the papers anyway because he was being very short and rude with her and would you be that way with someone you were trying to get to sign papers so they couldn't badmouth you publicly? I feel like he would be talking to her a little differently if he really was needing that kind of a favor from her......
And then after all of the cruelty he has dolled out to her she says this? 'God can see that and can see how much love I have for you........I will always have love in my heart for you.' Still talking about how she loves him after all this?
I think they are/were probably both 2 loonies tbh.
A large percentage of celebrities are narcissist especially the men. She prob fell in love with a narcissist who convinced her he would take care of her and to sleep with him raw. She probably was star struck and naively believed he was trustworthy. If those texts are real you can tell he is selfish and bails on her when a serious matter comes up and she needs comforting. He also doesn't want to be blamed for anything, what narcissist does? And throws blame back at her saying she probably got the herp from another dude.
The balance in narcissistic/codependent relationships is where the codependent focuses so much on catering to the narcissist needs and totally neglects their own. They tolerate the abuse because they've been manipulated. Google Stockholm syndrome as this happens in abusive relationships where the victim ends up sympathizing with their abuser.
So fucked up. She shouldn't have killed herself. But people who are victims of narcissistic abuse end up being emotionally and sometimes physically abused/traumatized. He knew she was weak minded and convinced/pressured her not to sue.
He sounds like a classic narcissist and he will never take responsibility or apologize like she was hoping he'd do. Now the husband is getting justice.
I bet Jenny McCarthy knows the truth since Jim was her ex.
I like Jim Carey back in the days but after this I will never watch his movies or shows.
Velveteen.Rabbit
10-05-2016, 02:19 AM
Lately I've been falling asleep to Spanish ASMR videos. Usually makeup roleplays. I feel like a pervy dude typing things like "latina roleplay" into the youtube search box... But it's sooo relaxing! ;D
ASMR videos are my guilty pleasure. Ironically, many nights I fall asleep to them in headphones.
I've always LOVED going to the dentist, and never understood why most people hate it so much, and I realized I enjoy it because I have an ASMR experience every time.
lynn2009
10-05-2016, 05:12 PM
A few days ago someone was giving me a hard time about writing a script of sorts for my class presentation saying it's harder. But I just presented and idk what his problem was. I think writing a script is idiot proofing your talk. Even if it sounds like you are reading off a sheet of paper it's better that reading off your slides which is what everyone else does.
carmen_b
10-05-2016, 07:24 PM
Yesterday I was mad at the bf for not traveling with me.
I'm kind of digging it today though.
Three quiet baths in 24 hours ! Ha. I don't think it's even been 24 hours here yet.
I brought the dog too of course.
baer45
10-07-2016, 04:45 PM
A guy friend was here to complaint about his life. I agree that he had some hiccups at the moment. He had lost his job the second time in two years. Not that he didn't give his best try for work. Shit happens. Money is running out quickly but he has never lived in poverty yet. So I told him stop whining. He got mad. Then I confronted him that he should go live in a different city with no money and no friend for a few weeks. He actually agreed. He wanted me to drop him off at greyhound station tomorrow.
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-07-2016, 05:18 PM
Is it a good time to make clown fetish clips? :)
Yes!!!
Aurora_Sunset
10-07-2016, 05:32 PM
I finally watched Carrie for the first time.
I have no desire to ever watch it again.
Most dramatic, drawn-out, teenage revenge fantasy, wtf ending...
Well, now I can cross it off the list.
whirlerz
10-07-2016, 06:04 PM
Did you watch the original, or the remake w/Chloe Grace Moretz???
I gotta know!
There was also a couple 'Carrie part II' not good @ all
Aurora_Sunset
10-07-2016, 06:17 PM
Did you watch the original, or the remake w/Chloe Grace Moretz???
I gotta know!
There was also a couple 'Carrie part II' not good @ all
Original. I have the remake ready to watch, but now I'm not sure I want to lol
Aurora_Sunset
10-07-2016, 07:07 PM
Also, I'm watching Nightmare Before Christmas now and I just remembered seeing a string of yards back in my hometown last year that did an elaborate Nightmare Before Christmas decorating theme. This same section of town does a thing every year called "Candy Cane Lane" where pretty much every house on 5-6 streets next to each other does elaborate Christmas decorations and they make a whole procession out of cars going up and down the streets to see them. These 6 or 7 house collaborated on Halloween last year with these decorations and called it Candy Cane Lane. It was SO COOL. I wish I knew what I did with the pictures I took of it.
baer45
10-07-2016, 07:11 PM
I had cheers on all day. I did not watch it though.
BarbieNYC
10-08-2016, 03:14 AM
My coworker at work got me so wasted with her customer. Am currently lying in bed afraid to go to sleep for fear of the hangover I am for sure guaranteed in the morning. Trying to chug this gallon of water before I go to sleep.
Currently drunk stripperwebbing and thanking everyone who posts about leaving a relationship with a fuckboy ex. I really am thankful for stripperweb because you guys help motivate me to stay strong and go through with this breakup.
Also side reminder to myself to not forget to do my discussion for my online class tomorrow.
Will probably delete this post tomorrow. Am never drinking jager bombs again
Velveteen.Rabbit
10-08-2016, 06:25 AM
My coworker at work got me so wasted with her customer. Am currently lying in bed afraid to go to sleep for fear of the hangover I am for sure guaranteed in the morning. Trying to chug this gallon of water before I go to sleep.
Currently drunk stripperwebbing and thanking everyone who posts about leaving a relationship with a fuckboy ex. I really am thankful for stripperweb because you guys help motivate me to stay strong and go through with this breakup.
Also side reminder to myself to not forget to do my discussion for my online class tomorrow.
Will probably delete this post tomorrow. Am never drinking jager bombs again
Gonna find you a non-hoodrich non-Santa claus
whirlerz
10-08-2016, 08:02 AM
Original. I have the remake ready to watch, but now I'm not sure I want to lol
Ugh! That one REALLY sucked,& I wanted to like it too!
seashell
10-08-2016, 09:06 AM
My biggest guilty pleasure in life is Youtube drama. There is some ex-relationship drama happening with Anthony from Smosh, and I am LIVING for it! XD
buttonpop
10-08-2016, 05:50 PM
I need some advice.
I've been seeing this guy who's great in every way (funny, kind, interesting, smart, great job/car/house) but he is TERRIBLE in bed. I thought it was just a fluke at first or maybe his anxiety so I gave it a couple of tries.... still bad.
He makes out with me for about ten seconds, then immediately jams his fingers in my pussy without even spitting on them and lord knows the 2 seconds of making out isn't enough to make me wet.... so this is painful and makes it harder for me to get turned on after that. he is actually pretty talented with his hands/mouth/dick but its the in between stuff that he seems clueless on. I try to guide him with my hands or with suggestions but his technique is all wrong; for example I asked him to pull my hair and he yanked on it super hard at the ends of my hair instead of squeezing tightly at the roots... He has no intuition or grace. He doesn't pick up on cues; I've stopped him from fingering me when i'm not wet without any spit several times by physically moving his hand away or even sticking his fingers in my mouth first. Then the next time he just does it again. He doesn't know how to tease. He doesn't seem to understand the concept of kissing someones neck, running your fingers down their body, pulling their hair, squeezing their ass. He just takes my clothes off and goes for it. Clearly he thinks that fingering/oral is "foreplay" but I consider teasing/kissing/massaging foreplay. It doesn't feel good to get oral when I'm not at least a little bit turned on to begin with, it just feels like nothing. He is also very closed off and bad at communicating about sensitive subjects, i tried to talk to him about it before and he just got SUPER awkward and changed the subject.
I'm so over it. I can't tell if he's inexperienced or if he just doesn't care. The latter makes me extremely angry. I think he needs to know he's bad; the only way an attractive 28 year old man is still this bad in bed is if nobody has told him before. How do I tell him he's bad in bed, and should I end things or try to give him another chance? Can you teach someone those kind of very specific skills? I've taught someone how to eat me out before but thats different than teaching someone how to tease you.
Aurora_Sunset
10-09-2016, 06:13 AM
I need some advice.
I've been seeing this guy who's great in every way (funny, kind, interesting, smart, great job/car/house) but he is TERRIBLE in bed. I thought it was just a fluke at first or maybe his anxiety so I gave it a couple of tries.... still bad.
He makes out with me for about ten seconds, then immediately jams his fingers in my pussy without even spitting on them and lord knows the 2 seconds of making out isn't enough to make me wet.... so this is painful and makes it harder for me to get turned on after that. he is actually pretty talented with his hands/mouth/dick but its the in between stuff that he seems clueless on. I try to guide him with my hands or with suggestions but his technique is all wrong; for example I asked him to pull my hair and he yanked on it super hard at the ends of my hair instead of squeezing tightly at the roots... He has no intuition or grace. He doesn't pick up on cues; I've stopped him from fingering me when i'm not wet without any spit several times by physically moving his hand away or even sticking his fingers in my mouth first. Then the next time he just does it again. He doesn't know how to tease. He doesn't seem to understand the concept of kissing someones neck, running your fingers down their body, pulling their hair, squeezing their ass. He just takes my clothes off and goes for it. Clearly he thinks that fingering/oral is "foreplay" but I consider teasing/kissing/massaging foreplay. It doesn't feel good to get oral when I'm not at least a little bit turned on to begin with, it just feels like nothing. He is also very closed off and bad at communicating about sensitive subjects, i tried to talk to him about it before and he just got SUPER awkward and changed the subject.
I'm so over it. I can't tell if he's inexperienced or if he just doesn't care. The latter makes me extremely angry. I think he needs to know he's bad; the only way an attractive 28 year old man is still this bad in bed is if nobody has told him before. How do I tell him he's bad in bed, and should I end things or try to give him another chance? Can you teach someone those kind of very specific skills? I've taught someone how to eat me out before but thats different than teaching someone how to tease you.
Maybe, maybe not. Rather than trying to get him to "pick up on the hint" by moving his hands or dong nonverbal things, have you tried specifically saying "Stop, I'm not wet yet/Do this first - it really turns me on." Or framing "the talk" in a way that doesn't say "you're bad in bed" but rather "this is what I really like."
But there are some guys that just... aren't gonna get it. If you specifically tell him what to do and he either doesn't do it or does it for 10 seconds and then goes back to the same ol' shit... you may just have to give it up. I had a conversation not too long ago with a friend where we were discussing "bad in bad" and sexual compatibility. And we came to the conclusion that "good in bed" meant being able to listen to your partner to do what it takes to get them off instead of thinking that a certain set of motions should do the trick for everyone, but that if the things your partner needs to get off don't appeal to you and you find them boring, then you're just not compatible sexually. This guy sounds like a combination - doesn't listen to what you need, so he's bad in bed, and if you need a lot of teasing to get turned on (me too) and he has no interest in anything other than going straight for things, you sound not super compatible in what interests you sexually in the first place, and if he's never going to be into learning how to tease...
I would try to be a bit more direct, but unless you're super committed to him as a person already, the headache may not be worth it.
buttonpop
10-09-2016, 02:35 PM
I think you're right. Thank you for the perspective.
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-09-2016, 03:15 PM
This is a weird thing to vent about but I figure this is the right place to do it .....I discovered that somebody that dicked me over several years ago is a straight-up sociopath. I got a hold of one of his relatives that grew up with him & from communication with her I realized I didn't just dodge a bullet by cutting him out of my life. I dodged a torpedo. I guess this is a positive vent but overall I just kinda wish I never met the guy.
definitely was not a good impact on my life...
seashell
10-09-2016, 04:07 PM
Maybe, maybe not. Rather than trying to get him to "pick up on the hint" by moving his hands or dong nonverbal things, have you tried specifically saying "Stop, I'm not wet yet/Do this first - it really turns me on." Or framing "the talk" in a way that doesn't say "you're bad in bed" but rather "this is what I really like."
But there are some guys that just... aren't gonna get it. If you specifically tell him what to do and he either doesn't do it or does it for 10 seconds and then goes back to the same ol' shit... you may just have to give it up. I had a conversation not too long ago with a friend where we were discussing "bad in bad" and sexual compatibility. And we came to the conclusion that "good in bed" meant being able to listen to your partner to do what it takes to get them off instead of thinking that a certain set of motions should do the trick for everyone, but that if the things your partner needs to get off don't appeal to you and you find them boring, then you're just not compatible sexually. This guy sounds like a combination - doesn't listen to what you need, so he's bad in bed, and if you need a lot of teasing to get turned on (me too) and he has no interest in anything other than going straight for things, you sound not super compatible in what interests you sexually in the first place, and if he's never going to be into learning how to tease...
I would try to be a bit more direct, but unless you're super committed to him as a person already, the headache may not be worth it.
Totally agree. Some guys, like my ex-boyfriend of 5 years, absolutely cannot and will not listen to what you want. It will probably not be limited to the bedroom, either.
I would give him a chance, but being compatible in bed is pretty important.
Will it make me look shallow if I don't accept this friend request on Facebook? It's from an ex childhood friend who talked shit about me and my family to somebody she didn't even know. It's been over 10 years since we've spoke. I know people CAN change and it's only Facebook but I don't want her going through my photos and knowing about my travels. I have an extremely low tolerance for people who have been disloyal to me.
carmen_b
10-10-2016, 11:56 AM
Oh .... it just sounds so bad and uncomfy. :(
I need some advice.
I've been seeing this guy who's great in every way (funny, kind, interesting, smart, great job/car/house) but he is TERRIBLE in bed. I thought it was just a fluke at first or maybe his anxiety so I gave it a couple of tries.... still bad.
He makes out with me for about ten seconds, then immediately jams his fingers in my pussy without even spitting on them and lord knows the 2 seconds of making out isn't enough to make me wet.... so this is painful and makes it harder for me to get turned on after that. he is actually pretty talented with his hands/mouth/dick but its the in between stuff that he seems clueless on. I try to guide him with my hands or with suggestions but his technique is all wrong; for example I asked him to pull my hair and he yanked on it super hard at the ends of my hair instead of squeezing tightly at the roots... He has no intuition or grace. He doesn't pick up on cues; I've stopped him from fingering me when i'm not wet without any spit several times by physically moving his hand away or even sticking his fingers in my mouth first. Then the next time he just does it again. He doesn't know how to tease. He doesn't seem to understand the concept of kissing someones neck, running your fingers down their body, pulling their hair, squeezing their ass. He just takes my clothes off and goes for it. Clearly he thinks that fingering/oral is "foreplay" but I consider teasing/kissing/massaging foreplay. It doesn't feel good to get oral when I'm not at least a little bit turned on to begin with, it just feels like nothing. He is also very closed off and bad at communicating about sensitive subjects, i tried to talk to him about it before and he just got SUPER awkward and changed the subject.
I'm so over it. I can't tell if he's inexperienced or if he just doesn't care. The latter makes me extremely angry. I think he needs to know he's bad; the only way an attractive 28 year old man is still this bad in bed is if nobody has told him before. How do I tell him he's bad in bed, and should I end things or try to give him another chance? Can you teach someone those kind of very specific skills? I've taught someone how to eat me out before but thats different than teaching someone how to tease you.
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-10-2016, 03:18 PM
Will it make me look shallow if I don't accept this friend request on Facebook? It's from an ex childhood friend who talked shit about me and my family to somebody she didn't even know. It's been over 10 years since we've spoke. I know people CAN change and it's only Facebook but I don't want her going through my photos and knowing about my travels. I have an extremely low tolerance for people who have been disloyal to me.
I rejected a friend request from someone like that
....I don't owe them a damn thing
Velveteen.Rabbit
10-10-2016, 03:33 PM
I rejected a friend request from someone like that
....I don't owe them a damn thing
Lmao I only enjoy keeping people I'm either REALLY close with and like, or people I barely know but are really interesting, as Facebook friends. Everyone else I'm like nooooope. I have a handful or two of childhood friends on there also, but none that talked shit no matter how close we were lol
Velveteen.Rabbit
10-10-2016, 03:35 PM
Omg I can't be bothered to wear makeup anymore unless I'm going out. I look so plain Jane but I swear the only time I get hit on is when I have next to no makeup on. Maybe I'll just wear a bright lip while running errands
xStacey
10-11-2016, 01:08 PM
Omg I will be so busy in November. It's the recruitment year and I already have 20 events scheduled for the next month, 20!... With all the firm tours, cocktails and conferences....
buttonpop
10-11-2016, 06:59 PM
I have been thinking about taking vocal lessons. I've always wanted to do vocals for an indie band, but my voice isn't great. Has anyone here taken voice lessons? Is it possible to significantly improve your voice or are voice lessons more for people who are already naturally talented to further improve their skills?
Aurora_Sunset
10-11-2016, 07:04 PM
I have been thinking about taking vocal lessons. I've always wanted to do vocals for an indie band, but my voice isn't great. Has anyone here taken voice lessons? Is it possible to significantly improve your voice or are voice lessons more for people who are already naturally talented to further improve their skills?
I don't consider myself a good singer naturally, and I took a couple voice lessons a few months ago and noticed a significant difference when I learned how to breathe properly and make the notes come from the right "place" with the help of a good teacher. But, I had taken voice lessons for years in high school, from a crappy teacher who basically just printed off music and made me sing it... without much instruction. Voice lessons can make a significant difference - even if you aren't naturally talented - as long as you find a good teacher. I would recommend it. Even the couple lessons improved my confidence a lot and I want to continue in the future.
Elektra Luxx
10-12-2016, 10:34 AM
Does anyone else leave a spot of condensation when you get up after sitting? You know like when the AC is turned really low and the chair or table is plastic and your body heat between your legs or between your butt cheeks and you leave a wet spot. It's so embarrassing. Please tell this happens to someone else.
baer45
10-12-2016, 11:00 AM
Alexandra Daddario is so beautiful but her eyes are also a little scary to me.
lilylilylily
10-12-2016, 11:14 AM
Does anyone else leave a spot of condensation when you get up after sitting? You know like when the AC is turned really low and the chair or table is plastic and your body heat between your legs or between your butt cheeks and you leave a wet spot. It's so embarrassing. Please tell this happens to someone else.
Yes I remember I went to an outdoor festival and I was sitting down amongst tons of people and when I got up there was a wet spot on the chair. Embarrassing, but I'm sure it's normal
Velveteen.Rabbit
10-13-2016, 12:18 PM
Just had a convo with a friend whose pregnant who had assumed that she'd quit her job around the 6 month mark. She told her guy she was getting ready to quit and he flipped out on her and called her a deadbeat and she's pissed. He has a good job and she assumed it wouldn't be an issue because they live together obviously.
This reminds me of the story the girl I met at the hostel in summer had told me. How she waited til 34 and was engaged to a guy she knew for awhile who was wealthy and had his own successful company. When she told him she was pregnant, his first words were "are you getting a job?" They had both wanted kids.
I swear men today are more scared of gold diggers or a woman not working and contributing (despite how much he makes), than they are of a woman getting fat or cheating. Must be the media brainwash.
xStacey
10-13-2016, 01:17 PM
I don't consider myself a good singer naturally, and I took a couple voice lessons a few months ago and noticed a significant difference when I learned how to breathe properly and make the notes come from the right "place" with the help of a good teacher. But, I had taken voice lessons for years in high school, from a crappy teacher who basically just printed off music and made me sing it... without much instruction. Voice lessons can make a significant difference - even if you aren't naturally talented - as long as you find a good teacher. I would recommend it. Even the couple lessons improved my confidence a lot and I want to continue in the future.
This really makes me want to take voice lessons! I am naturally very soft-spoken and sometimes it's difficult for me to speak louder (at least my voice is not high-pitched) but I would love to improve this aspect, wondering if it would help if it won't be for singing?