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persianprincess
12-08-2016, 09:53 AM
I used to love RH ... now it's all getting a little repetitive ... I'll watch Bev Hills and the OC ... loved Brandy ...
Selina M
12-08-2016, 12:06 PM
I don't get people who drag arguments on for ages. Let it go that you were wrong, stop sending me shit meant to change my mind. Go get a job instead of being a keyboard warrior hippie...
BarbieNYC
12-08-2016, 02:09 PM
My nails look sooo ratchet, I'm in desperate needs of a brazilian wax and pedicure, I've been slacking on the gym and have been eating like shit, and I am currently sitting on the floor cramming for finals.
It's a miracle I managed to get my roots and eyebrows/moustache done. My moustache was looking crazy.
For the first time in a while I don't have to worry about money, but now there's no time to spend it! I quickly made a bunch of appointments for the week after finals. Which was actually really difficult to do because it's the week before Christmas.
Ahhh! I never realized how much upkeep I did while I was dancing full time. I've been looking so homeless lately I feel like if my 21 year old self saw how I looked right now she would slap me. LOL
seashell
12-08-2016, 02:40 PM
Agreed about Real Housewives.
Random thought... can't decide if I want a studio apartment or a one bedroom with a separate kitchen. Knowing me, if I get a studio I'm going to make some godawful mess in my kitchen and then have to sleep next to it. Hmm...
persianprincess
12-08-2016, 02:48 PM
One Bedroom - that little extra space/seperate rooms make the world of difference xo
22lligm
12-08-2016, 07:41 PM
I am so lazy I really need to exfoliate and go get a spray tan before they close at 10 and I DO NOT want to. Right now all I do is work at the club so my life consists of pampering myself when I'm not at work.. so much that I'm turning into a brat I think lol. Like on my day off I go get a mani/pedi, maybe the hair salon, maybe the medspa, maybe the tanning salon, maybe do a little shopping.. then at the end of the day I'm like 'ugh i'm so exhausted!'. Talk about first world problems lol. I'm enjoying it though it'll obviously not last forever.
Unless I find a rich husband to take care of me and then maybe it will ;D
We had a rabbit like you
12-08-2016, 07:49 PM
I figured out that I love westworld so much cause I see it as a metaphor for the sex industry. I'm sure that's not what the writer had in mind, but I see sooo many parallels. Like rich asshole customers using the club as their fantasy and thinking they can do what they want cause we aren't real people to them..and it really does show who the misogynistic assholes are lmao.
William also gave me major captain save-a-hoe vibes with his "she's different than the others, we need to get here out of here" speech.
I need my sci fi fix now, started watching x files since I was too young when it aired the first time. Delightfully hokey so far
LoveyDovey
12-08-2016, 10:17 PM
Burning sage in my home. I love the way it smells. And I have rosemary oil in my hair. I smell like a hippie in a forest lol.
LoveyDovey
12-09-2016, 12:10 AM
Oh my. Spent a little time reading threads from 8 years ago. Seems there were a lot more users on here back then as opposed to now. And some of them were crazy. Like that Sophie Marie chick. Miso soup and fiji water anyone? Lol!
LoveyDovey
12-09-2016, 12:56 AM
Yet another random thought (I'm just full of them tonight )... I wonder how many of these brides on Say Yes to the Dress wind up divorced.
Not a pleasant thought, but a random thought nonetheless.
22lligm
12-09-2016, 09:51 AM
Lol! ^ I always think of things like that
persianprincess
12-09-2016, 10:01 AM
drinking wine at 12pm ... not healthy but it's one of those days
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-09-2016, 06:01 PM
ugh I feel like the Universe gave me the tummy equivalent of a "titty twister". ugh ugh ugh. this day needs to end
xStacey
12-10-2016, 03:42 PM
So fed up of studying =_____= 1 week left
lilylilylily
12-10-2016, 09:13 PM
Sometimes I think about this guy I was in to a couple months ago, who didn't like me back. He would call me by my nick name which is also my stripper name and nobody else calls me that. He also randomly brought up the name of the only drink I order at work into a couple of conversations, which was weird. So sometimes I think could he have some how known what I do? Doubtful, but I can't help but wonder lol
lilylilylily
12-10-2016, 11:00 PM
I received the padded panties I ordered off amazon today. Thought WTH, I'll try it just for fun but Omg does my flat butt look amazing in my jeans now! Don't know why I never thought of this before
lynn2009
12-11-2016, 03:02 PM
Ok so my first final is graded and in that class without the participation grade I am barely keeping a B-... which I know is nothing to celebrate but it is better than a C+. The participation grade is 20% and basically a function of how much she hates me. I really hope I can skate by with an 80. Either way I REALLY hope she posts final grades tonight so I don't have to keep worrying about this. Plus if I get a B- in this and a B in the other I can keep a 3.5 overall which is my only real concern.
Edit: I got a B!!! Really not anything to be over the moon about but I'm so relieved!! Time to hopefully not fuck up the next one...
LoveyDovey
12-11-2016, 04:33 PM
My xmas tree looks nice, and I havent even decorated it yet.
xStacey
12-11-2016, 06:53 PM
Can't find the work clothing thread but just discovered Gooseberry Intimates :drool:, ordered a couple of outfits I cannot wait to wear during the holidays at work ! Hopefully it fits, their lingerie look amazing, although the brand name is not as sexy lol
Bananabunny
12-12-2016, 03:13 PM
I can't wait to see my sugar daddy like he is in America with his family on Christmas and I will be here meanwhile alone...Ugh I wish he could finally decide to marry me and taking me over to America so I can quit camming for good and get married to him. I made like 5 cents today in 1 hour no goddamn conversations no NOTHING fuck this shit...Hopefully tonight will be better.
Also I text my SD so many times but he seems so busy working at the moment :( I feel like I'm too clingy help...He just read but not answered 3 messages behind a row...am I too annoying? I'm getting waaay too attached to him but he's only 30 and we only met almost 1 month ago in my city...Ugh he's just too perfect to be true. Please let this dream not end!! I don't want another sugar daddy...Everyone else is disgusting and he is sooo soft and cute and aicfhksdhfdslfhdsuf I shouldn't be in love with him yet I know orz
We had a rabbit like you
12-12-2016, 03:47 PM
Stupid "YouTube celeb" gossip but..I am cringing SO HARD for Trisha paytas right now..like girl, do you not have friends/family to talk to? Or like, any sense of privacy or shame?? The thought of millions of asshole strangers seeing me have a total breakdown and be totally vulnerable sends a chill down my spine. Or is YouTube culture all just over-sharing these days..but good god. She's making herself a laughing stock and I feel so bad for her
seashell
12-12-2016, 03:55 PM
Stupid "YouTube celeb" gossip but..I am cringing SO HARD for Trisha paytas right now..like girl, do you not have friends/family to talk to? Or like, any sense of privacy or shame?? The thought of millions of asshole strangers seeing me have a total breakdown and be totally vulnerable sends a chill down my spine. Or is YouTube culture all just over-sharing these days..but good god. She's making herself a laughing stock and I feel so bad for her
Is it any worse than usual? She's been a trainwreck for quite a while...
We had a rabbit like you
12-12-2016, 04:43 PM
It was pretty bad, like spend that money on a GOOD therapist. Hell, if I had her money I would
whirlerz
12-12-2016, 04:53 PM
Does she get paid for that somehow?
I've watched a couple of her vids, mostly the 'haul' ones, kinda boring!
miss.a.p1600
12-12-2016, 05:24 PM
Stupid "YouTube celeb" gossip but..I am cringing SO HARD for Trisha paytas right now..like girl, do you not have friends/family to talk to? Or like, any sense of privacy or shame?? The thought of millions of asshole strangers seeing me have a total breakdown and be totally vulnerable sends a chill down my spine. Or is YouTube culture all just over-sharing these days..but good god. She's making herself a laughing stock and I feel so bad for her
What the heck?!? I like watching her videos. What happened? The dude she was dating was secretly bisexual? Looks like she's getting sued. Yeah it sucks to be sued cause not only do you have to waste money but then literally everything you say and do can be twisted and turned against you.
Genoveve
12-12-2016, 06:42 PM
^^^Omg she is a nutcase! I started watching her like a year ago, I really liked her at first but after watching more videos I can't stand her and I only watch maybe 25% of her videos now. I am living for the Sean drama though. I feel kind of bad though because when I first started watching her I was definitely under the impression that people primarily watch her to hate on her and I'm one of them now, but at the same time I feel like she gets that that's most of her audience and she purposely plays to that.
Velveteen.Rabbit
12-12-2016, 07:04 PM
Stupid "YouTube celeb" gossip but..I am cringing SO HARD for Trisha paytas right now..like girl, do you not have friends/family to talk to? Or like, any sense of privacy or shame?? The thought of millions of asshole strangers seeing me have a total breakdown and be totally vulnerable sends a chill down my spine. Or is YouTube culture all just over-sharing these days..but good god. She's making herself a laughing stock and I feel so bad for her
No, she does. Several other YouTubers like my favorite Channon Rose have addressed that they contacted her with no response.
What people fail to realize about Trisha is that she has borderline personality disorder. It's "I hate you don't leave me" disorder where she pushes everyone away just so she can feel abandoned. It's not like she moved to a new place or got a new job, her life has been the same forever and there's no reason for her to feel abandoned. It's BPD.
Not many people do really want to be around BPD people for that long and that's why people who actually are close to Trisha, like Sean was, really want nothing to do with her. My mom has it. I can't stand being around her. Why? All she does for hours when she gets home is she calls everyone on the phone to talk shit about everyone else and how awful of a person they are, only to end up calling all those being and being super niceynicey fake while talking shit about someone else. They get off on making people hate other innocent people. I mean if they really disliked someone, they'd ghost that person and not keep them in their lives and act nice to their face.
chanzep
12-12-2016, 07:30 PM
Oh my. Spent a little time reading threads from 8 years ago. Seems there were a lot more users on here back then as opposed to now. And some of them were crazy. Like that Sophie Marie chick. Miso soup and fiji water anyone? Lol!
I do this too, some of the old threads were the best. Back then it would take hours to catch up with everything if I missed a few days, it was very busy on here.
miss.a.p1600
12-12-2016, 07:38 PM
No, she does. Several other YouTubers like my favorite Channon Rose have addressed that they contacted her with no response.
What people fail to realize about Trisha is that she has borderline personality disorder. It's "I hate you don't leave me" disorder where she pushes everyone away just so she can feel abandoned. It's not like she moved to a new place or got a new job, her life has been the same forever and there's no reason for her to feel abandoned. It's BPD.
Not many people do really want to be around BPD people for that long and that's why people who actually are close to Trisha, like Sean was, really want nothing to do with her. My mom has it. I can't stand being around her. Why? All she does for hours when she gets home is she calls everyone on the phone to talk shit about everyone else and how awful of a person they are, only to end up calling all those being and being super niceynicey fake while talking shit about someone else. They get off on making people hate other innocent people. I mean if they really disliked someone, they'd ghost that person and not keep them in their lives and act nice to their face.
How do you distinguish between BPD and narcissist? They seem very similar.
Velveteen.Rabbit
12-12-2016, 07:52 PM
How do you distinguish between BPD and narcissist? They seem very similar.
Because Trisha has vaguely mentioned borderline before and she's been to therapists. So she says.
BPD is found more in women and NPD is found more in men but theoretically both can be comorbid. BPDs often attract narcissists so lol. Sean was probably NPD but I don't know enough about him. I did like them as a couple but I knew they wouldn't last because Sean's fetish is muscles and fitness and Trisha does not have that body type or lifestyle.
Trisha is for sure borderline because of her inappropriate bipolar-like mood swings and how she feels everything is the end of the world and pushes people away farther. Borderlines go from rage to calm in seconds and often for no real reason which is why you have to walk on eggshells around them at all times not knowing which mood they'll be in since it flips for no reason. Narcissists only flip mood swings when you (most likely accidentally) criticize their greatness. Narcissists also lack empathy and borderlines may or may not.
Another reason is because Trisha talks about how she pushes away all the people she loves til they hate her. This is true in a few instances but it is mostly imagined abandonment (hence how Channon said she reaches out all the time with no response) because they had abandonment in their childhood and now see everything through the lens of abandonment, which is why she is acting the way she is about Sean (and previous men). They end up abandoning her because they can't deal with her unstable and irrational mood swings of things she makes up in her head totally unaware. She talks about this all the time.
Trisha was abandoned by her mom who left her children to date men and she has talked about this a lot. She wasn't close with her mom til she was like 23-24 and I honestly think it's because she has money now. Though Trisha's mom did inherit a large amount recently I think. Trisha's mom was totally a gold digger when that career path was still viable and accepted and they have both alluded to that many times, which is probably the only major reason why they are close. Trisha's dad was indifferent about her but she lived with him for several years but they don't seem to be close at all now and her brother doesn't even like being around her, not sure why. My mom was orphaned as a child so I know why she is BPD.
Also, like I've told everyone a million times, LA attracts borderlines, narcissists, and sociopaths like a motherfucker. It's the reason why I moved slightly out of central LA because most are in central and west LA where materialism roams free.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-12-2016, 07:52 PM
How do you distinguish between BPD and narcissist? They seem very similar.
Just imo but I feel like BPDs show more vunerability. Typical Narcs have more control over their reactions because they're good at planning things, being steps ahead of others.
edit to add- my mom & aunt were orphaned too, totally explains their mental issues. So sad.
Velveteen.Rabbit
12-12-2016, 08:04 PM
Just imo but I feel like BPDs show more vunerability. Typical Narcs have more control over their reactions because they're good at planning things, being steps ahead of others.
edit to add- my mom & aunt were orphaned too, totally explains their mental issues. So sad.
Exactly. Narcissists only want you around if you can do something for them in some way and they aren't emotionally unstable. In fact they are more similar to a sociopath in that they feel absolutely nothing but can also pretend to so you don't realize it. A narcissist being emotionally unstable would completely invalidate their ability to keep people around, so they usually seem calm or generally happy at almost all times unless you enrage them by not praising their greatness or aiding them in a beneficial task.
The reason I was wondering if Sean was a narcissist is because he literally just walked away and disappeared when he was caught doing something wrong and weird AF (lol kissing some guy and ignoring her + cheating), and that is NOT a normal reaction. If he cared about her, he would at least write an appolgy text or email and say goodbye. Or at least let her know it's not her fault he is a closet case. BTW there are SO many closet gay men in LA and I've dated a bunch and I cannot figure out why the fuck they are in the closet. It's 2016!!!
Borderlines are emotionally unstable and are more similar to a bipolar person with paranoid schizophrenic tendencies. They do not realize their emotional reactions are abnormal because that is how they have always been feeling things. They also supposedly "feel things deeper" than other people. They are often not in a laid back stable calm mood for very long. It's either being angry or enraged, or crying. Although, you often wouldn't think anything is wrong with them if you saw them in public because they're usually good at acting very social and normal but only in public. They hate being abandoned so they often do like to be around others, but they are full of fear that they will eventually be abandoned. And they usually are but only because the person can't deal with their unstable moods that the BPD person doesn't even realize is abnormal.
Genoveve
12-12-2016, 08:14 PM
Random thought: My friend brought me the frozen hot chocolate mix once from that Serendipity 3 restaurant, they sell it so that you can make their frozen hot chocolate at home, well it was so bomb and I just realized that you can probably do the same damn thing with any hot hot chocolate mix. I guess I know what I'm doing tomorrow.
http://www.kevinandamanda.com/nyc-cupcakes/best-nyc-cupcakes-17/
Velveteen.Rabbit
12-12-2016, 09:16 PM
I always end up writing so much because I use talk to text lol
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-13-2016, 03:32 PM
Exactly. Narcissists only want you around if you can do something for them in some way and they aren't emotionally unstable. In fact they are more similar to a sociopath in that they feel absolutely nothing but can also pretend to so you don't realize it. A narcissist being emotionally unstable would completely invalidate their ability to keep people around, so they usually seem calm or generally happy at almost all times unless you enrage them by not praising their greatness or aiding them in a beneficial task.
Borderlines are emotionally unstable and are more similar to a bipolar person with paranoid schizophrenic tendencies. They do not realize their emotional reactions are abnormal because that is how they have always been feeling things. They also supposedly "feel things deeper" than other people. They are often not in a laid back stable calm mood for very long. It's either being angry or enraged, or crying. Although, you often wouldn't think anything is wrong with them if you saw them in public because they're usually good at acting very social and normal but only in public. They hate being abandoned so they often do like to be around others, but they are full of fear that they will eventually be abandoned. And they usually are but only because the person can't deal with their unstable moods that the BPD person doesn't even realize is abnormal.
This is right on.
BTW I got into a confrontation with a Narc. co-worker & quit on the spot. She got fired weeks later because I had flipped out on her in front of the GM & wasn't afraid to speak my mind. I've dealt with soooo many Narcs & assorted personality disordered people....sigh.
My sister is tragically textbook BPD. I can't even talk to her, it's sad.
Bananabunny
12-13-2016, 04:57 PM
I'm so worried that's the 4th message I've sent to my sugar daddy and he left it on seen AGAIN!! I swear I just reactivated my account on that sugar daddy dating website and I saw he was just online TODAY. I'm going to find someone else if he's not serious with me. He said he is searching for someone serious and doesn't wants to juggle between many girls...Bitch so why aren't you serious yourself?! No logic here...Damn I hate it that I get emotionally attached so quick. We women can't count on men anymore these days!! Ugh!!
seashell
12-13-2016, 05:52 PM
I have reconnected with my love of headbands. They are freaking awesome for windy weather and second-day hair.
Genoveve
12-13-2016, 06:35 PM
So the lens of the front cam on my new replacement phone must be in there screwy because it takes photos crooked. I use the front cam to record myself when I exercise and when I was setting it up last night I thought my vertigo was back for a sec, the room was tilted. When I looked at myself standing in front of it through it I almost looked like MJ doing the Smooth Criminal lean. I've never heard of this malfunction before. Needless to say I have a replacement for the replacement on the way....
Also the day before yesterday I was on the phone with Verizon having my phones' service switched, at one point I made a joke to the guy helping me about being fine so long as my phone doesn't explode and he was like "Yo! I've never ever dealt with a customer that had that happen to them until the lady I was talking to right before you!" LOL.
buttonpop
12-13-2016, 07:15 PM
I just now discovered the "view first unread post" button on this forum. For those who don't know, its the blue icon to the left of the Thread titles.
Gotta keep track of my ladies. Even when I'm not posting much I still read this thread & "confessions". ya'll are my favorite and I love hearing about your lives.
lynn2009
12-13-2016, 09:55 PM
My university has an online program everyone has to do about sexual assault and it's well done but lots of stories from victims (so far one guy) andddd it's still going on and I don't really want to listen to rape stories anymore...
Selina M
12-14-2016, 12:24 AM
Last night this cat (I see it sleeping on the neighbors doorstep often & it's friendly so it may be their cat) followed SO to the door, so he put food out for it.
Tonight I heard yowling for like 10 minutes straight. I cracked the door to see if it was him... and a totally different cat shot inside. Chaos ensued as the dogs went nuts & it ran into the spare room. That was random as fuck :rotfl:
So now it's hanging out in there. It's very friendly... but HUGE. I'm 80% sure it's a Savannah cat (a hybrid of a domestic cat and a serval), judging by its size/coloring/face shape & its strange vocalizations. He was obviously someone's pet but I feel like if he lived nearby, it wouldn't have run into a random house.
I swear, that man is a cat homing beacon... he's acquired all of his cats in this fashion. Oy.
I wonder if the other cat was like "Hey bro, that's where the suckers live... just meow and when they open the door, run inside."
baer45
12-14-2016, 03:48 AM
Savannah cat is expensive. The F1 is like $5000, and they play fetch.
Selina M
12-14-2016, 04:36 AM
^ I know! He's probably an f3 or f4 by his size but still. I'm surprised he'd be loose given the prices. I'm trying to make sure he doesn't belong to anyone before getting attached.
Vyanka
12-14-2016, 10:11 AM
^ I know! He's probably an f3 or f4 by his size but still. I'm surprised he'd be loose given the prices. I'm trying to make sure he doesn't belong to anyone before getting attached.
Look through FB. Sometimes ppl put in missing pets ad on there. He/she may also be microchipped.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-14-2016, 11:26 AM
Savannah cat is expensive. The F1 is like $5000, and they play fetch.
My neighbor had a Savannah cat. They are really striking, and also way too hyper..lol
baer45
12-14-2016, 12:11 PM
^ I know! He's probably an f3 or f4 by his size but still. I'm surprised he'd be loose given the prices. I'm trying to make sure he doesn't belong to anyone before getting attached.
Look through FB. Sometimes ppl put in missing pets ad on there. He/she may also be microchipped.
My neighbor had a Savannah cat. They are really striking, and also way too hyper..lol
For the cat that's so expensive like Savannah cat the owner should put a collar on it. These cats don't meow like normal cats.
And I believe the hyper. Just watch this video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVaiYSPn380
whirlerz
12-14-2016, 12:30 PM
Wow, it's pretty & I wouldn't F w/it tho..
Funny, Sel! I hope you get to keep him, if you want?!
Selina M
12-14-2016, 01:04 PM
Right, I agree that if he was lost outside its because the owner dumped him out there, or else took him to a shelter where someone else adopted him and treated him like a normal cat.
He's not the obvious spotted style but more tabby so def a few generations out... But he is so damn huge there's no way he's fully domestic. He matches a lot of f3 Savannah pics online & a few people immediately asked if he was. His behavior is the obvious indicator though, he's very smart and self assured and has a super intense stare like he's going to attack. It's kinda bizarre actually.
I posted and checked a bunch of FB groups and we will go check for signs around... I'm refusing to post pics though, don't want someone claiming him who isn't his owner.
Anyway the on-topic random thought: No matter how old you get or how large a house you have, your mom will always say "Se-leen-UH! You don't need another cat/dog in that house!"
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-14-2016, 01:31 PM
Right, I agree that if he was lost outside its because the owner dumped him out there, or else took him to a shelter where someone else adopted him and treated him like a normal cat.
He's not the obvious spotted style but more tabby so def a few generations out... But he is so damn huge there's no way he's fully domestic. He matches a lot of f3 Savannah pics online & a few people immediately asked if he was. His behavior is the obvious indicator though, he's very smart and self assured and has a super intense stare like he's going to attack. It's kinda bizarre actually.
An angry ex-lover or crazy roomie might have let the cat out on purpose.
Vyanka
12-14-2016, 03:48 PM
SelinaM, how are your dogs doing around him?