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whirlerz
12-21-2016, 07:11 PM
You guys my hairdresser gave me a starbucks gift card for Christmas. She had snuck it into my bag and it was such a nice surprise. What would be a nice gift for her?

Well, I just found out the mgr @ my hotel's giving me a gift (Idk what) - I had a mini makeup brush set from Sally's, but that looked cheap so I'm got her a 20.00 Ulta gift card. I know she likes Bath/Body works, but I'm not going in the mall, & the smells will set off my allergies.
I'm seeing my hairdresser Fri, I'm just going to give her extra $.

Genoveve
12-21-2016, 10:06 PM
I tried using Hydroxycut & hated it..it made me feel incredibly sick... Years later was told I had a heart murmur. Moral- listen to your body.

I have a heart murmur too! :heartbeat They said it is extremely insignificant though.

xStacey
12-21-2016, 10:31 PM
I don't understand why some girls who have breasts implants, lie and tell people they're real, and they're so proud when people believe them ? lol. Then they go and tell everyone and the guy was like woow and it's natural too!

Mine are fake and I'm totally fine admitting it, I don't see the point pretending when deep inside you know it's not real LOL. I find beauty in artifice, it just means you had to work harder to get what some people might have naturally been blessed with.

LoveyDovey
12-21-2016, 11:24 PM
Also, am I the only woman who is offended by the word cunt? I feel like I am and people are always throwing it around for people who are being assholes and it drives me fucking insane. It is an incredibly vulgar word for vagina and hearing or reading it is like nails on a chalkboard to me.

I do not like that word. There is only one female I'd call that word, and that's because she's an evil, narcissistic, selfish bitch who paid people to murder me and my son. So yes, it fits her. And I know she's use that word to describe me, but it is only because I completely outsmarted her. Other than that, I try not to use it.

lynn2009
12-22-2016, 07:03 AM
I got a B in my other class too, so I have a 3.56 now.

Elektra Luxx
12-22-2016, 03:14 PM
Yaaayy!!! She's back. Where the hell does a cat disappear to for 3 days? Anyway, she's back.

I'm getting home from work and I see Babs running from another building and another cat chasing after her. I jump out of the car and run after her and she runs in the opposite direction. I cornered her in a breezeway and grab her. She's all wild eyed and spooked but she finally calms down. She is a complete mess and covered in dirt. I gave her a quick bath and dried her off. She seems okay now. She is looking out of her window perch. The cat that was chasing her is outside, but keeping his distance. I've seen him before, he fluffy and dark brown. He almost looks like my other cat Pickles. I've seen him a few times before. The local bad-boy cat, The "hit it and quit it" type.

I explained to Babs that cats like that are nothing but trouble. The pretend to be nice at first and then they get you to really like them, but then they start arguing with you for petty reasons and they take off all pissed off. But you find out later that he was chasing other cats the whole time you were together. So now you're home alone on the weekends pretending that you're happy by yourself, but really are desperate to find someone who loves you for who you are, flaws and all. Maybe she will find someone nice someday.

lynn2009
12-22-2016, 05:20 PM
I'm so glad you found her!!!! Silly cat.

LoveyDovey
12-22-2016, 06:13 PM
I can't help but feel sad that on Christmas, I'll be alone. In the afternoon, after I drop my son off at his dad's. I found a day spa that's open that I think I'm going to hit up. I'll sit in the steam bath and saunas for a while. Maybe go for a run too. Sucks being alone for the holidays.

baer45
12-22-2016, 06:39 PM
I explained to Babs that cats like that are nothing but trouble. The pretend to be nice at first and then they get you to really like them, but then they start arguing with you for petty reasons and they take off all pissed off. But you find out later that he was chasing other cats the whole time you were together. So now you're home alone on the weekends pretending that you're happy by yourself, but really are desperate to find someone who loves you for who you are, flaws and all. Maybe she will find someone nice someday.

Yes she will. I am certain.

baer45
12-22-2016, 07:05 PM
I can't help but feel sad that on Christmas, I'll be alone. In the afternoon, after I drop my son off at his dad's. I found a day spa that's open that I think I'm going to hit up. I'll sit in the steam bath and saunas for a while. Maybe go for a run too. Sucks being alone for the holidays.

let me give you a hug. a baer hug.

http://img.ta2she.com//master/post_img/2016/0128/20160128113139xbHAJ1.jpg

LoveyDovey
12-22-2016, 07:25 PM
let me give you a hug. a baer hug.

http://img.ta2she.com//master/post_img/2016/0128/20160128113139xbHAJ1.jpg

Thanks, Baer. I needed that.

We had a rabbit like you
12-22-2016, 07:38 PM
Also, am I the only woman who is offended by the word cunt? I feel like I am and people are always throwing it around for people who are being assholes and it drives me fucking insane. It is an incredibly vulgar word for vagina and hearing or reading it is like nails on a chalkboard to me.

I was just talking about this today ..so in the US, it's a very hateful, nasty, gendered term for women..like the nastiest thing you could call a woman that I can think of. But in Australia or the U.K. It's a word like "dick" or "asshole" and it's casually thrown around and used equally for men and women..but when you say that here it's like whoa, whole diff ball game.
And since I'm American yes I hate it too

lilylilylily
12-22-2016, 08:11 PM
Yaaayy!!! She's back. Where the hell does a cat disappear to for 3 days? Anyway, she's back.

I'm getting home from work and I see Babs running from another building and another cat chasing after her. I jump out of the car and run after her and she runs in the opposite direction. I cornered her in a breezeway and grab her. She's all wild eyed and spooked but she finally calms down. She is a complete mess and covered in dirt. I gave her a quick bath and dried her off. She seems okay now. She is looking out of her window perch. The cat that was chasing her is outside, but keeping his distance. I've seen him before, he fluffy and dark brown. He almost looks like my other cat Pickles. I've seen him a few times before. The local bad-boy cat, The "hit it and quit it" type.

I explained to Babs that cats like that are nothing but trouble. The pretend to be nice at first and then they get you to really like them, but then they start arguing with you for petty reasons and they take off all pissed off. But you find out later that he was chasing other cats the whole time you were together. So now you're home alone on the weekends pretending that you're happy by yourself, but really are desperate to find someone who loves you for who you are, flaws and all. Maybe she will find someone nice someday.
I'm happy she's back. You must be so relieved.

Elektra Luxx
12-22-2016, 08:35 PM
I'm happy she's back. You must be so relieved.

Yes, I'm very relieved. When I get scared or worried I get very angry at the person (cat) that is making scared or worried.

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-23-2016, 09:03 AM
I was just talking about this today ..so in the US, it's a very hateful, nasty, gendered term for women..like the nastiest thing you could call a woman that I can think of. But in Australia or the U.K. It's a word like "dick" or "asshole" and it's casually thrown around and used equally for men and women..but when you say that here it's like whoa, whole diff ball game.
And since I'm American yes I hate it too

I don't like using the word "c*nt" but on the other hand I get in trouble by getting more creative with insults. Sigh.

LoveyDovey
12-23-2016, 10:53 PM
Watching this Scientology special with Leah Remini. Very interesting.

Vyanka
12-24-2016, 01:05 AM
Love watching, "Lottery Dream Home" & "Tiny House, Big Living".

I'm almost tempted into getting a tiny house, since i'm single. They're so cute. I can't see giving up my favorite huge vanity though. Never.

Not sure if one of those homes would be an investment. I'm gonna go to one of the tiny homes conventions and see. :) hmmmmm.... Let's see.

ScarletKitten
12-24-2016, 03:46 PM
^I actually thought about living in a tiny home, until I had to live in a tiny RV for several months this year. Never again. I need space. Living in a tiny space makes me stir crazy and claustrophobic.

seashell
12-24-2016, 04:43 PM
I like the idea of a tiny home, since you don't have to pay property tax and it's portable. Hell to the yes. But living in one... meh. I wouldn't feel safe, it would be so cramped, and I couldn't have people over. :\

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-24-2016, 06:16 PM
^I actually thought about living in a tiny home, until I had to live in a tiny RV for several months this year. Never again. I need space. Living in a tiny space makes me stir crazy and claustrophobic.

I'm the opposite way but I'm really short so I guess small spaces are painless for me.

Random Thought- I gotta stop eating so much. So fun but getting fat again.

Vyanka
12-24-2016, 07:06 PM
That's why I'm questioning it so much too. For reasons you girls posted. At the same time, when I see it on tv.. makes me want to at least see one irl. Just to see.

If not, I think I'm gonna buy a condo.

seashell
12-25-2016, 06:09 AM
I just finished watching that documentary about young girls in porn, Hot Girls Wanted, and I feel so bad for the girls in it. They're 18 years old and got sucked into porn by this shady guy on Craigslist who's basically a pimp. They talk about doing forced blowjob scenes, and ending up alone with one creepy porn actor and his tripod, and being scared to leave.

People hate on stripping and camming, but at least it puts the woman in charge.

Elektra Luxx
12-25-2016, 10:27 AM
Holiday family getogethers are a chance to catch up with people you haven't seen since the last getogether. Is it weird to develop a thing for your brother-in-law's cousin? He's nice, cute, polite, smart and single. Oh and BTW younger than me.

whirlerz
12-25-2016, 01:52 PM
E, glad the kitt's back
Yeah, I'm alone too, & my hair suks
Just trying to appreciate what I do have n' get thru the day OK
I did attend church this morning, had to change seats cause some staring ass dude

lynn2009
12-25-2016, 08:30 PM
Three weeks ago I was told this guy who volunteers Sunday mornings at the cat clinic was interested in me and I immediately was like, tell him I have a boyfriend, definitely not interested. Then the week after he kept following me around, not being a creep but asking me questions about work and stuff, general trying--too- hard things that basically made him really obnoxious not only to me but everyone who was just trying to get work done. Then yesterday he was hanging around me the whole time but being really cool and nice to talk to - which is really saying something coming from me because I constantly just want to be left alone. But yeah, I was talking to another woman at the clinic as we we're leaving I wish he was always like this instead of trying so hard, I could start to be interested in him. Then tonight we all met up for a holiday dinner and he was being really cool again and I'm starting to think about it.

It would be SO nice to have a relationship build naturally, even if we stayed pretty casual. I don't think I ever dated anyone I didn't meet online not to mention how draining stripping and SA was on me. I'm very low-key key IRL, no make up or anything, so it's really cute to me he didn't give up right away. It's nice to feel wanted.

I went into the cat clinic today like usual since I don't have my own family to worry about and was decided I was going to tell him, let's call him Derek, that I don't really have a boyfriend and see where it went from there. I got there much earlier than usual because of Christmas and he got the much later than usual (because he was trying to arrive around the same time as me). We were SO awkward all day and I couldn't decide how to bring up going out, and one woman said to give it another week which I was going to do so I said Merry Christmas to him and left and he ran out a side entrance and asked what the odds were of him getting my number and I said he could and it was really awkward because I am shy and genuine attraction from a guy is hard anyway we chatted for a few minutes before I said I really needed to leave to go to my parents house. When I got back to my apartment (to pick up my cat) I saw he texted me hey. He already called me once while we were talking at the parking lot so I didn't know when he sent it. I replied with hey, don't know when you sent this. I'll let you know when I'm back in town, Merry Christmas. And now I feel like that was too cold, I hope he doesn't think so, I'm a really awkward person it's not him...

Anyway, I'm thinking about two things: there's a local company I always pick up small gifts at for co-workers, acquaintances, should I get something for him? I feel like it would make a nice gesture after he was the one brave enough to finally ask me out.

Idk what to do when we get together later this week. I've been told he used to have a drinking problem, so bars are out. Also I don't know how much to dress up. It's not often I bother with hair/makeup on a first date (and I'm kind of bitter because the last time I did I really liked that guy too and he ghosted). Plus if I did, it would be obvious I was doing it for him. He's already seen me at my worst at the clinic.

Help meee.

PS. I was texting a woman from the clinic after and she said he came in while she was wrapping up a deceased cat (that's rare) and he said that's so sad but couldn't keep a big smile off his face and while they were leaving she said he got the best Christmas present and he agreed. Plus he's getting divorced (I knew this) and she told him not to mess around with me and he said he won't, he's too old to play games.

JessaJade
12-25-2016, 10:17 PM
^I think it'd be nice to wear some makeup for the first date...nothing wrong with him thinking maybe you made a bit of an effort, just depends on how you'll feel more comfortable.

When I'm trying to look like I haven't made too much effort I dress kind of casual subtle sexy with simple makeup.

LoveyDovey
12-25-2016, 10:21 PM
Watching The Devil Wears Prada on Bravo. I love the scene in Paris, at the Valentino show. Those dresses.... *drool*

Glamourmilf
12-26-2016, 05:19 AM
Watching The Devil Wears Prada on Bravo. I love the scene in Paris, at the Valentino show. Those dresses.... *drool*

Love the scene where she gets to wear all the designer clothes for the first time, and they do a montage of her running through the streets of NYC

DamnJolene
12-26-2016, 05:39 AM
Why does sleeping on my bed usually aches my back, but the floor is comfortable?

Vyanka
12-26-2016, 10:51 AM
I feel bad for being a Grinch this holiday. I declined two gifts from two ppl. I feel bad, but I rather ppl get their money back rather than the gift they bought me is just sitting there collecting dust.

xStacey
12-26-2016, 10:56 AM
It's not going too well and I left the guy I've been seeing for three years on xmas eve. He wanted me to be his girlfriend, but I never said yes after all those years. I feel lonely, when everyone else is spending time with their friends and family. Almost wanted to contact my ex, when I remembered why I cut him off...

There was a guy I was seeing a couple of years ago, I met him when I was still with my ex, it wasn't going well between us and he was cheating on me (I didn't know then). When I started seeing the guy he was really nice, the sex was great but I had to make a choice and I decided to stay with my ex since I've known him longer and things were geting better, what a mistake. When I told the guy I already had someone in my life he was so disappointed and said he doesn't even want to be friends and could no longer trust me.... I said well you never asked me if I were single and when we met you told me you weren't interested in a relationship, he was really hot and looked like a bad boy lol he said it's not because I said I didn't want one that I wasn't thinking about it... I still regret it today because I chose the wrong guy.

Last year he came up in my friend suggestion list and I saw he was in a relationship there were plenty of pictures with him and his new gf.... last night he was in my friends list again and suddenly no more pictures with her, relationship status hidden and only pics of his fancy cars, I forgot her name. Wondering if he's now single lol, my friend said well you could always try sending him a friend request, but why don't you try a guy you don't already know? LOL I think she's right. I like familiarity and I always go back to the same guys I already dated when it obviously ended for a reason.

xStacey
12-26-2016, 12:41 PM
The ex looks so fine on his xmas photos...

JGB2009
12-26-2016, 05:20 PM
I was sick for 4 days....and of course that included xmas....the misery. Uhgggg never again. Last night I took a alka-selzer and felt better in a hour. I then started cleaning my house and did laundry. I was such a GRINTCH this year. So much happier now :)

BarbieNYC
12-26-2016, 08:04 PM
My mom gave me a slow cooker for Christmas and OMG how did I not get one sooner?!?!?!

I love to cook, but my ex was such a picky eater (only ever liked fried or junk food) that I just stopped. I've gone back to cooking but complained to my mom about all the pots and pans I have to wash and she gave me her spare crock pot. I'm so mad at myself for taking so long to get one.

Aurora_Sunset
12-27-2016, 12:23 PM
If I get a text or email with "??" in it somewhere, is that what happens when an emoji doesn't show up? I had never seen it before but lately I've been getting a lot of these double question marks at the end or middle of texts and I thought it was just a passive aggressive way of stating a question but maybe I'm wrong and it was supposed to be an emoji that my iPhone doesn't support?

lynn2009
12-27-2016, 12:35 PM
Xxxxxxx

whirlerz
12-27-2016, 02:10 PM
Aurora, it does that on my phone, unless I use the sw smlies or put in parentheses & colon.
I love Barnes & Noble there's one not too far, but they closed the other one

Can't wait for my shitty former hairdresser to call me about how she THINKS she's going to redo my hair (she's not)

Bananabunny
12-27-2016, 05:05 PM
I have a cyberbullying issue with a person on an Art website. She is harassing me for an old drama I had with her back in the early 2010's (I was 14/15 and did much crap but I apologized and moved on). I am an anime artist and that's why I am on this website. Now since she called me out over an old issue provoked by an impersonator, (apparently someone commented anonymously to one of her old comments about me), claiming to be me and calling her names, she became furious and put many tumblr post blogs of my old behavior in a so called "journal" for everyone to see on that art website. I told her via PM that I wasn't the one sending that anonymous comment, and of course she didn't believe me. Since I wanted to deactivate my account long ago to escape my past behavior since I still got blocked by various users out of nowhere and I was fed up, I did so 2 days ago after finding out she called me out. She also said that she will call all of my new accounts out whenever I will be back. I have a new account already and it's scary to think that she will stalk me and call me out for old shit again and again!! So I decided to not post any artwork until next summer or possibly even next fall/winter on my new account, for security reason. I am uploading my art meanwile on another plattform, hoping she won't find it. I want to improve in my art style and I don't want to be recognized anymore as the bad person I was back then. I have reported her call out journal to the staff of the website but I doubt they will do anything against it. I am totally scared because this person called me several names including "bitch" "pathetic" and "psycho" (how ironic when she is psychotic herself...?) If she really finds my new account someday (the world is small so the possibility is here), then I will go to the police. I have also contacted one of my hacker friends, maybe she can help me taking it down. I seriously can't take it anymore art websites are full of fetish people, perverted old men and drama llamas :( But I want to keep contact with my art friends and not be scared 24/7 that a cray cray person like her can harass me this way.

Vyanka
12-28-2016, 12:08 AM
Eww! Why do these girls take pictures with this Dan Bilzerian guy? He seems like a royal alpha-douche to the max.

rareaspasia
12-28-2016, 07:57 AM
Aurora, it does that on my phone, unless I use the sw smlies or put in parentheses & colon.
I love Barnes & Noble there's one not too far, but they closed the other one

Can't wait for my shitty former hairdresser to call me about how she THINKS she's going to redo my hair (she's not)

I'm doing my roots today, the last time I paid someone to do it she overprocessed it and it started breaking off so now I don't trust anyone with my hair but me. I can't afford to have to cut it all off because someone fucked it up, my hair makes me a lot of $$$. Plus it's gotten so much thinner they'd probably leave me with bald spots. I can't find anyone here I'd trust with my color. The downside is I can be really lazy and my roots are like three inches long. I've been telling everyone it's not roots it's ombré lol

JessaJade
12-29-2016, 06:57 AM
I think I might buy a load of cheap earphones to carry with me so I can hand them to the fucking idiots who are apparently unaware they exist and play their shitty music and videos out loud or have conversations on loudspeaker everywhere.

Yes, I'm becoming a crabby old lady.

LoveyDovey
12-29-2016, 10:25 AM
I like watching Botched, but can't watch the actual surgeries. Makes me so squeamish.

Selina M
12-29-2016, 04:24 PM
There are some 'interesting' new members lately... One is starting to remind me of Nikatrina Fury...

Aurora_Sunset
12-30-2016, 06:40 AM
3 days ago: I'm gonna make healthy breakfasts and lunches to get back on track with my diet and lose weight!

This morning: Has half a carton of cold McDonald's french fries and a chocolate covered strawberry for breakfast

lynn2009
12-30-2016, 07:06 AM
^I think it'd be nice to wear some makeup for the first date...nothing wrong with him thinking maybe you made a bit of an effort, just depends on how you'll feel more comfortable.

When I'm trying to look like I haven't made too much effort I dress kind of casual subtle sexy with simple makeup.

Our schedules didn't match up all week, until yesterday I called him as I was leaving the clinic to make plans for yesterday night. He was close by, on his way in to help me, and said to meet him at this sushi place so we did that. I told him visiting probably smell like cat poop and he said not to worry about it. I will try again for date #2.

Elektra Luxx
12-30-2016, 11:30 AM
Note to self, always lock bathroom door while I'm in here. My younger brother is Asperger and has trouble recognizing personal space. Either that or the little jerk is messing with me. Lol

Genoveve
12-31-2016, 06:32 PM
1.) I still feed my neighbor's horse every night that the weather permits, it's crazy because sometimes it's so dark that I can hear he is very close yet I can't see him. It's unnerving that something that big can be coming towards you and you can't see it at all.

2.) I am still so in love with my temporarily-super dark areolas, I wish I had a date to go on so bad so I could wear a pale shirt with no bra to torture the guy.

lynn2009
12-31-2016, 06:56 PM
People are talking politics someone help me

BarbieNYC
12-31-2016, 08:17 PM
It's new year's eve and it's raining like crazy outside so I don't wanna leave the house.

I am eating leftover cold pizza and starting a Breaking Bad marathon. Happy New Year's!

victoriavein
12-31-2016, 08:34 PM
I feel like I have all these things in common with these Christian blogging moms...DIY, couponing, cooking, saving $, and now I'm looking into homeschooling..except I'm 100% atheist, covered in tattoos and fuck myself online for money. I wish I could find one good Mom blog that's not plastered in Jesus talk. Maybe I can start my own atheist, alternative mom blog. hmmm