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whirlerz
01-26-2017, 08:28 PM
Can they read it? I remember when I first joined SW I couldn't even see this section existed, but I knew about it from references to it in other threads. I couldn't see it until I had posted so many times, or maybe one of the mods verified me, idk.

They can read it, yes. I posted something about making an after hours bank deposit, & this guy I never heard of contacted me by pm & answered me.
I know if I'm not signed in I can't read or post on ladies only, I can read other parts of the forum.

hamdinger
01-26-2017, 08:29 PM
Anyone else here enjoy eating peanut butter straight from the jar?

Late on this one but HELL YEAH. PB on a spoon is my nocturnal zombie snack supreme. I get pissed when my boyfriend buys Nutella cause that goes like 10x faster down my nocturnal zombie throat.

I have a problem with eating in the middle of the night.

buttonpop
01-26-2017, 08:33 PM
God, whats even better than nutella or pb from the jar is cookie butter. If you haven't had it before, it tastes EXACTLY like those biscotti things you get on Delta. mmm.

Selina M
01-26-2017, 10:05 PM
Musings from today's 'burnout refreshment shopping trip':

- Cheap makeup like ELF and Wet & Wild are the shit. No more guilt about wasted money when I inevitably buy a lipstick color that looks bad... it was only $2. I can buy a boatload of new stuff for $15. AND, some of it is actually better than the more expensive brands; the foundation I bought is the first time in years a shade has actually matched almost exactly.

- Beauty stores in the hood are the shit as well. I wanted clip-in extensions, and went to this fancy pants store in a nice area, expecting to drop $100. Despite the doorbell, nobody came out to help me for 5 solid minutes. So I went 2 blocks over into the 'hood', to a hole-in-the-wall store meant for black women, and they were SO DAMN NICE and super helpful. I got some nice feeling synthetics for $20.
They may turn out to be not awesome, but I'm just testing out extensions anyway so whatevs!

seashell
01-27-2017, 12:49 AM
"Will you still love me when I'm no longer young and beautiful" lyrics should really be "Will you still love me when I take out my hair extensions"

eta: this wasn't related to the above post, but hell yes to cheap extensions!! :)

BarbieNYC
01-27-2017, 01:27 AM
Sometimes I trip out when I realize how easy it is for people to come up with fake lives on forums/social media

I spill so much of my personal life on this site and it's so weird to think of making up a fake persona and keeping up with it. I've actually cut back on posting about my.personal life because I think people could put 2 and 2 together and figure out who I am. But I also am thankful for all the support from everyone. This is an awesome community of ladies.

I gotta get off instagram lol it's getting to me

JGB2009
01-27-2017, 05:46 AM
Burrrr can't wait till summer.

Glamourmilf
01-27-2017, 06:00 AM
Yeah, I've already lost interest in him. I am so not interested in dating anyone. I just want to make a new friend actually. I have no desire for romance or sex. The idea of texting/talking to someone everyday and having to cater to them emotionally or sexually....ugh.....it turns me off and makes me want to be a hermit. But at the same time, I know being a social hermit 24/7 is not healthy. But I'm loving my alone time tbh. I can't even imagine being in a relationship ever again with a guy. I think I'm ruined. lol

I've been feeling the same way, especially since I moved into my own place. I love being alone and not have to account for my time.
I talk, AND text for a living, and deal with hundreds broke ass dudes everyday.
The thought of having to do that with some dude who I met online who's needy, =.total turnoff.
I only did it because I was living with horrible roommates and wanted to be out. When I was homeless I dated for a meal, or a hot shower.

Elektra Luxx
01-27-2017, 06:32 AM
...you are—beautiful, strong, perfect...

I was just re-reading your post and thinking.....well......I'm strong, but not that strong, but overall pretty strong. jk lol

LoveyDovey
01-27-2017, 07:34 AM
Late on this one but HELL YEAH. PB on a spoon is my nocturnal zombie snack supreme. I get pissed when my boyfriend buys Nutella cause that goes like 10x faster down my nocturnal zombie throat.

I have a problem with eating in the middle of the night.

It's soon goooood!
I'm not going on my run today. Yesterday we had to do 3 song sets. I came home from work last night and crashed out by 7:30. Got 10 hours of sleep last night. And I have to go back in today. So no running for me today. Have to rest.

Aurora_Sunset
01-27-2017, 08:01 AM
Yeah, I've already lost interest in him. I am so not interested in dating anyone. I just want to make a new friend actually. I have no desire for romance or sex. The idea of texting/talking to someone everyday and having to cater to them emotionally or sexually....ugh.....it turns me off and makes me want to be a hermit. But at the same time, I know being a social hermit 24/7 is not healthy. But I'm loving my alone time tbh. I can't even imagine being in a relationship ever again with a guy. I think I'm ruined. lol

Aw, I wouldn't use the word "ruined." I think most people just grow up with this socially-ingrained notion that relationships and romance are just things that everyone wants and does. But it makes no more sense to say that than to say that every single person wants to run their own business and be their own boss. Even if there are tons of people like that, and I'm sitting there like "Why wouldn't you want to be your own boss!?" I know people who are adamantly like "I need a boss and a regular schedule." It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them. There's also nothing wrong or ruined about people who want to live in Alaska as opposed to Hawaii or who want to move every 5 years to experience new places instead of buying a house. Nothing wrong with the flip side either, but not every path is for everyone. Some people just grow up to have way different priorities to focus on aside from romance, sex, and relationships. There's so many other things to do with our time here, some people just want to devote it all to personal things instead of giving that time and effort to another person romantically. It's a perfectly valid feeling and choice.

Aurora_Sunset
01-27-2017, 08:05 AM
I swear, any time I'm just driving to and from random places, I pass all these cute bars/taverns/pubs that I'm like "That would be a cool place to go have a beer late at night when I'm off work! Looks super low key and interesting." But of course they're nowhere near me, and anytime I decide I'll just get in my car and drive around until I pass something..... nada.

We had a rabbit like you
01-27-2017, 11:59 AM
So I had my height measured recently and it said 5'5 and 3/4. So if you're half an inch or 3/4 of an inch you just round up?? With shoes on I'm definitely 5'6. And here my whole adult life I thought I was 5'5 lmao.
Also, what constitutes tall for a female? Cause to me that's average but everyone tells me I'm tall and it used to,drive me nuts.
Thank god for the random thoughts thread, idk where else I'd ask dumb questions like this haha

baer45
01-27-2017, 12:13 PM
I was just re-reading your post and thinking.....well......I'm strong, but not that strong, but overall pretty strong. jk lol

http://cdn-media-2.lifehack.org/wp-content/files/2015/09/12163459/wecandoit-1024x768.jpg

ScarletKitten
01-28-2017, 01:03 AM
Musings from today's 'burnout refreshment shopping trip':

- Cheap makeup like ELF and Wet & Wild are the shit. No more guilt about wasted money when I inevitably buy a lipstick color that looks bad... it was only $2. I can buy a boatload of new stuff for $15. AND, some of it is actually better than the more expensive brands; the foundation I bought is the first time in years a shade has actually matched almost exactly.

- Beauty stores in the hood are the shit as well. I wanted clip-in extensions, and went to this fancy pants store in a nice area, expecting to drop $100. Despite the doorbell, nobody came out to help me for 5 solid minutes. So I went 2 blocks over into the 'hood', to a hole-in-the-wall store meant for black women, and they were SO DAMN NICE and super helpful. I got some nice feeling synthetics for $20.
They may turn out to be not awesome, but I'm just testing out extensions anyway so whatevs!

Let me know how the synthetic extensions work out! I've been debating whether to get real or synthetic.

ScarletKitten
01-28-2017, 01:05 AM
So I had my height measured recently and it said 5'5 and 3/4. So if you're half an inch or 3/4 of an inch you just round up?? With shoes on I'm definitely 5'6. And here my whole adult life I thought I was 5'5 lmao.
Also, what constitutes tall for a female? Cause to me that's average but everyone tells me I'm tall and it used to,drive me nuts.
Thank god for the random thoughts thread, idk where else I'd ask dumb questions like this haha

I would say tall for a female is 5'7'' and up. 5'3''-5'6'' is average. 5'2'' and under is short.

persianprincess
01-28-2017, 08:28 AM
Had boobs done, currently in a hotel recovering - these pain pills are the worst.

Elektra Luxx
01-28-2017, 10:39 AM
Had boobs done, currently in a hotel recovering - these pain pills are the worst.

You going to be really sore for a few days, so take it easy for least a week and don't mess with bandages. Hope you get better soon.

persianprincess
01-28-2017, 10:44 AM
Thanks Elektra ... yeh I am sitting in my hotel dosed up on painkillers and muscle relaxers ... wasn't expecting so much pain but I've got 700cc in there which is more than most get.

Great experience tho other than feeling this pain xox

miss.a.p1600
01-28-2017, 11:32 AM
Anyone ever feel the need to get completely, shitfaced wasted on a weekday? I don't have any hard drugs, but I think I'm going to drink myself stupid. Invite over the guy I've been causally seeing and let him have his way with me. It's just been one of those days. If anything does happen I'll post in the FuckFest thread.

Why not? Especially if you're single with no kids. Even if you're in a relationship and with kids, set up some adult time and do what the hell you want on whatever day you want.

The people who get shitfaced on weekends only are people who have 9-5 jobs. I like to go left when the masses go right. So get drunk or high on the weekday because you can and there is no time frame for recreational adult extracurriculars.

Just be responsible - which seems like you are :)

LoveyDovey
01-29-2017, 07:23 PM
Watching SAG awards, red carpet stuff. Natalie Portman looks like a pissed off marshmallow. Love her work though.

whirlerz
01-29-2017, 07:27 PM
IDGAF if anyone likes me, I like myself

Elektra Luxx
01-29-2017, 11:11 PM
IDGAF if anyone likes me, I like myself

Who doesn't like you? Who wouldn't like you? You remember birthdays, you "thank" almost everyone's posts, we like the some of same things in men (wink, wink) and that's just 3 quick things I came up with . I think you're great!!!

Elektra Luxx
01-29-2017, 11:22 PM
Does anyone have pain from always clenching your jaw? Lately I've been getting jaw pain while eating. I always clenching my jaw and I think it has to do with the ADD meds I take and probably from my constant low level anxiety.

whirlerz
01-30-2017, 01:21 AM
Could it be this: TMJ disorders — a type of temporomandibular disorder or TMD — can cause pain in your jaw joint and in the muscles that control jaw movement. The exact cause of a person's TMJ disorder is often difficult to determine. Your pain may be due to a combination of factors, such as genetics, arthritis or jaw injury.

Elektra Luxx
01-30-2017, 06:15 AM
Could it be this: TMJ disorders — a type of temporomandibular disorder or TMD — can cause pain in your jaw joint and in the muscles that control jaw movement. The exact cause of a person's TMJ disorder is often difficult to determine. Your pain may be due to a combination of factors, such as genetics, arthritis or jaw injury.


This is me after reading "temporomandibular disorder or TMD" at 7:00 in the morning.

http://i.imgur.com/MyDMtZ1.gif

I'm not sure, but if it continues I'm going to a dentist or doctor?

lilylilylily
01-30-2017, 08:22 AM
My friend that I've known since high school is bitter and man obsessed even tho she has 2 young kids, I don't know how she finds the time to go on all kinds of dates. I went out with her on Sat bc i wanted to celebrate getting my new car and she treated me like crap, I really felt like I was cramping her style, she was gonna ditch me for a guy also. Cutting off contact with her for sure. She's always been annoying but I just kept trying to see the good in her. I just need to make new good friends.

victoriavein
01-30-2017, 08:36 AM
The only thing making me happy lately is writing my silly books and escaping reality. It's just playing pretend for grownups. I'll probably have a dozen fantasy novels written by the end of trumps term.

KariSwitch
01-30-2017, 02:22 PM
Why do I find it necessary to have to buy other things I don't need when buying condoms or tampons??? Yes, that pack of gum totally hides the tampons or condoms...

BarbieNYC
01-30-2017, 09:31 PM
Went on a date with a ridiculously good looking guy and just wondering why the hell he wants another. I don't like being the ugly one -_-

Also I am not into white boys so you know this man was fiinnnneee. He showed up in a suit because he was in between meetings. Lordy lordy it took all my effort not to stare he looked like a model. I didn't think we had chemistry though and he patted me on the back when we hugged lmao but he wants another date so we will see... Men are fucking weird

baer45
01-30-2017, 10:15 PM
I am thinking of going on a vacation in Cancun next month. Last time I was there, I stayed in a hotel called Oasis Viva. Geez, 2014, that seems a long time ago.

baer45
01-30-2017, 10:16 PM
Why do I find it necessary to have to buy other things I don't need when buying condoms or tampons??? Yes, that pack of gum totally hides the tampons or condoms...

Amazon is your friend.

JGB2009
01-30-2017, 11:17 PM
If I could tell you I love you anonymously.....I would do it in a heart beat!!!!

Elektra Luxx
01-30-2017, 11:40 PM
About a month ago I see a friend coming of a store who I haven't seen in maybe two years. We used to work together and we got along really good. She would come by my desk a visit me sometimes we would have lunch. So we greet each other with hugs and catch up a little, then I say we should hang out sometime and I asked for her number, but she said let me get yours and I'll call you.

But something terrible happened to my friend. Apparently she fell off the face of earth and didn't take her phone with her. It's tragic really. Oh well, such is life. It hurts my feelings if I let it.

So if someone hurts your feelings, but you don't allow yourself to get your feelings hurt, are your feelings really hurt?

DamnJolene
01-31-2017, 12:15 AM
^ The world is between our ears. We're just a bunch of atoms at the end of the day.

lilylilylily
01-31-2017, 10:10 AM
Luke Perry will play Archie's dad in the new show Riverdale based off the old Archie Comics. I used to be obsessed with archie's when I was a kid, can't wait to see this.

carmen_b
01-31-2017, 12:39 PM
Haha. Even traditionally " perfect " looking people want to date ! :)
I'm sure you held your own just fine, but I know what you mean. I've been there and thought " ok, that went well, but obviously he is not calling again ". Haha. In my case, he called ..... it failed for other reasons but give your guy a shot!
Went on a date with a ridiculously good looking guy and just wondering why the hell he wants another. I don't like being the ugly one -_-

Also I am not into white boys so you know this man was fiinnnneee. He showed up in a suit because he was in between meetings. Lordy lordy it took all my effort not to stare he looked like a model. I didn't think we had chemistry though and he patted me on the back when we hugged lmao but he wants another date so we will see... Men are fucking weird

seashell
01-31-2017, 01:07 PM
^Yes! Even the hottest guys still need love. This board is filled with girls that are looked at in the same way. :)

My random thought is that I must be annoying the hell out of my airbnb neighbors. I will never ever ever get a studio apartment again... if I can hear people in the hallway, I'm 100% sure they can hear me all day long, either playing ukulele or doing cam shows. >_>

carmen_b
01-31-2017, 02:15 PM
I *REALLY* want to close another a bit more in sales commissions at the day job by the end of the month ( yes, the end of the month that ends in 10 hours ).
I do have HOPE though. I have one person sitting on an invoice that will yield me $340 , another sitting on one for $500 profit , and I'm hoping to just *circle* to everyone else else offering a special deal or something if they close within 4-5 days.

I was traveling all of Dec. and only made enough to cover my costs on the ground where I was.

I wanted to dial it up in Jan. since I'm grounded at home and aim for 4k in commissions.
Come on Universe - all I need is a few people to hit that " Pay Invoice " button in their email ......

baer45
01-31-2017, 04:16 PM
About a month ago I see a friend coming of a store who I haven't seen in maybe two years. We used to work together and we got along really good. She would come by my desk a visit me sometimes we would have lunch. So we greet each other with hugs and catch up a little, then I say we should hang out sometime and I asked for her number, but she said let me get yours and I'll call you.

But something terrible happened to my friend. Apparently she fell off the face of earth and didn't take her phone with her. It's tragic really. Oh well, such is life. It hurts my feelings if I let it.

So if someone hurts your feelings, but you don't allow yourself to get your feelings hurt, are your feelings really hurt?

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lynn2009
01-31-2017, 05:49 PM
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Genoveve
01-31-2017, 06:32 PM
I'm so excited. :hyper: :hyper: :hyper: My mom and I have been planning her trip here for later this year and we decided that we don't want to stay at my house but want to go stay at some cool places in Socal that we haven't stayed at before. I have been wanting to stay with her on the Queen Mary for so long that I forgot about it, I found out that season 1 of Unsolved Mysteries is on Amazon Video today so I was watching it and ended up watching the episode with the Queen Mary on it. I booked our reservations for the ship, I can't wait. We love visiting haunted places. :heartbeat :scull:

Elektra Luxx
02-01-2017, 12:11 AM
I have job interview in Austin on Thursday. I'm kind of nervous. I have the schooling, certifications and experience, so I know the job. If the money is good, I'm going have to take it.

DonaDiabla
02-01-2017, 12:17 AM
Good luck, Elektra :) I just had a job interview on Saturday and I was kind of nervous as well. I am sure that you would get the job ;)


I have job interview in Austin on Thursday. I'm kind of nervous. I have the schooling, certifications and experience, so I know the job. If the money is good, I'm going have to take it.

Glamourmilf
02-01-2017, 02:13 AM
My random thought is that I must be annoying the hell out of my airbnb neighbors. I will never ever ever get a studio apartment again... if I can hear people in the hallway, I'm 100% sure they can hear me all day long, either playing ukulele or doing cam shows. >_>

I feel the same way.
My last airbnb was a studio too. Never again!
I would cam at 3 or 4 in the morning, and I was SURE that the guy in the next room could hear me.
Luckily it WAS a guy, because he never complained, AND the owner left me stellar reviews.
But I was kind of retaliating for always hearing the doors slamming by everyone all day into the night.
The guesthouse was perfect for me, and I miss it dearly.

Elektra Luxx
02-01-2017, 01:10 PM
Went on a date with a ridiculously good looking guy and just wondering why the hell he wants another. I don't like being the ugly one -_-

I felt like the "ugly one" in my last relationship too. He was super good looking. When we went out he attracted too much attention. Waitresses would ask him for his order and flirt and small talk him and then turn to me and say "Yes mam, what can I get for you?" How about an order of "stop flirting with my boyfriend!!!"

Vyanka
02-01-2017, 01:29 PM
I felt like the "ugly one" in my last relationship too. He was super good looking. When we went out he attracted too much attention. Waitresses would ask him for his order and flirt and small talk him and then turn to me and say "Yes mam, what can I get for you?" How about an order of "stop flirting with my boyfriend!!!"

Ugh. That's annoying. I don't mind being the ugly one, with the trophy. It inflates my ego. Lol.

I had an exbf who was a fitness model back then, and I remember a girl asking permission to touch his abs. Lol. The nerve. I said, "sure".

whirlerz
02-01-2017, 04:34 PM
I felt like the "ugly one" in my last relationship too. He was super good looking. When we went out he attracted too much attention. Waitresses would ask him for his order and flirt and small talk him and then turn to me and say "Yes mam, what can I get for you?" How about an order of "stop flirting with my boyfriend!!!"

OMG, this so bring bk memories!
My ex was model/rockstar good lookng, I swear I wasn't jealous, but I wanted to slap some bitches around the block over the very shit u mentioned! Annoying AF!

baer45
02-01-2017, 07:17 PM
Sorry, I am always the fabulous one.

xStacey
02-01-2017, 10:45 PM
" When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it. "