View Full Version : The Random Thoughts Thread...
charlie61
04-09-2017, 07:59 PM
We actually have a recent ish thread on peep shows. As for this thread, let's get back to the randomness! :-*
seashell
04-10-2017, 10:31 AM
Just discovered Amazon Prime Now, and I'm OBSESSED. You can buy everything on there... groceries, household items, take-out from restaurants... Also, looks like stripper shoes are available with Amazon Prime one day shipping in my area. :D *happy dance*
22lligm
04-10-2017, 10:35 AM
I went out after work Saturday night and I still feel hungover two days later. I think I'm getting too old to be drinking like that still. My body is like please no more liquor it's never a good idea lol. Bleh.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-10-2017, 11:09 AM
Super randomness- in the last two weeks I've had a super weird "paranormal experience" & heard about a friend of a friend having one too. This has rocked my latest worldview (embracing science to explain everything.)
So I don't leave everyone in suspense, here is my odd experience- I have a co-worker at my day job (I'm gonna call her "Jill.") She overheard me lose my temper at a pest of a male co-worker. I yelled at him "I know your type! I know how to read people!" Later she asked me how I would "read" her from my observational skills. She was happy with my guesses about her personality (I used the terms "free spirit...a hippie...")
What I didn't tell her was I sensed that she had deeply religious grandparents.
Several days later I was having another teasing conversation with the brat male co-worker & I made an offhand comment about how long Roman Catholic Mass can run (some go for over an hour.) Jill said she knew how long Mass lasts because her grandparents have been going to the same church for over 35 years...every week.
Honestly I chalked that all up to lucky guess. (I live in the Midwest. Religion is still big here.)
My friend of a friend's experience was he felt an invisible hand grabbing his shoulder when he was near a private graveyard in the middle of the night. I told him my dad had the same thing happen, but in my dad's case it happened near where a murder victim had been dumped years prior.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-10-2017, 11:22 AM
There's this guy from back home who I've known for a couple years but always just as friends. We've hooked up like twice after going out and partying together but that's it. Anyway recently we've been talking to each other alot more and more flirty.. and he keeps saying he wants to date me and 'wants us to work'. It just seems really out of the blue to me because we haven't seen each other in months. Why is he so into me like that all of a sudden? He said he used to look at my instagram when I was with my ex and he would 'be so salty'. Which I was surprised to hear because I never got a vibe from him that he was into me like that.. I remember once we went out and he was saying he doesn't care if I wanna meet other guys because we're "cool like that" lol.
The only thing that's kind of annoying me is he keeps asking for pictures and sending me dick pics lol. Oh and he told me he doesn't want me "fucking anybody else". Like why would I start sending you pictures and be exclusive when I haven't seen you in months and we're in two different states? He's also an athlete so I have a hard time believing that he isn't talking to anyone else and is only into me. Idk this is just out of nowhere to me and a little weird. He's coming out here in a couple weeks so we'll see if we even have chemistry like that in person since he's always just been a friend to me. He is hot though lol. We shall see.
Lie to him. I had a guy try to tell me to not fuck around while he was chasing every skirt that walked by.
Always look out for Number One.
LoveyDovey
04-10-2017, 11:46 AM
Well after my 10 day in a row work binge last week, it's now day 3 of not being able to do much else other than lay on the couch and sleep. I just can't snap out of it.
JGB2009
04-10-2017, 04:16 PM
I have a cold and it is making me feel grumpy. Other things are making me feel grumpy as well but wutever!!!
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-10-2017, 07:58 PM
I want a mini pig so bad. I would actually even like a huge one, I love all pigs but obviously I'm not set up for a 200lber. But I've always heard that they are very high-maintenance and that because they're so intelligent it's more like having a kid than it is a pet. My friend's ex used to have one and she said he had to give it away because it would learn how to open and get into everything and that it learned to start screaming in order to get what it wanted.
Pigs are disturbingly intelligent. This is why I have a hard time eating pork. I want a pot bellied pig as a pet but don't have the right accomodation.....
22lligm
04-11-2017, 08:04 AM
My friend got a mini pig and at first I thought it was so cute but it was actually pretty gross lol. The pig stank and the whole apartment smelled nasty. She ended up having some health issues and died though :(
DonaDiabla
04-11-2017, 11:00 AM
I am trying to figure out some of these foreign cam companies naming policies. Places like 2lipslive just allow you to have any old name to cam with. Seriously,some models are named after diseases, nazi commanders, Japanese war crimes, gases used in World War 1, poisons, and other just off the wall things. Before it was just light-hearted yet outrageous names but now people are out doing themselves. However, I got to give up to models who can rock names such as Rust my flesh :) LOL!
carmen_b
04-11-2017, 12:57 PM
I am kind of settling into this lower cost lifestyle.
I think it threw me a bit after our move out of an expensive area but I'm feeling content on how we chose to do things . My rent is $405 ( each of us pay it for our one bedroom ). All these little things ( having a cheaper car instead of buying newer for example) seem like they are Finally adding up to more free time and energy.
We are cooking more and doing a lot of free event outings ( I get free Tix to things from an arts organization I'm volunteering with ). We go outside with the dog a lot which is low cost.
It's different and a nice change of pace for now.
I still have my fancy fixes ( I sneak off for spa stuff ) but mostly we are so much lower key now and it's working.
WendiStarr
04-12-2017, 07:53 AM
44 more days until my vacation. I can't wait to be in the mountains again, away from the city life, and with no neighbors for miles. I'd take dealing with stray cows or horses over loud, smelly neighbor downstairs repeatedly tampering with my stuff and parking in my assigned parking spot any day(unfortunately she's related to Nazi landlord so she won't do anything about her).
seashell
04-12-2017, 01:04 PM
I just signed up to volunteer at the animal shelter. Orientation is next weekend. Super excited! I used to volunteer, and being in the "cat room" with kittens crawling all over me was just absolute heaven, lol. I will happily work for those little furballs. :)
chanzep
04-12-2017, 05:38 PM
I know I am getting older mentally now because I can't take change as much as I used to, im surprised at myself I was always ready to leave everything quickly before esp clubs and jobs now Im like it it one more week wtf. I still don't put up with shit tho still have the I can work anywhere attitude lol.
JGB2009
04-12-2017, 07:46 PM
Do you really think I would sleep with you again..............pffffttt nope.............cause u have not changed one damn bit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
JGB2009
04-13-2017, 06:32 AM
Ever had a day where u just wanna crawl up in ur bed and feel absolutely nothing................that's me right now.
WendiStarr
04-13-2017, 06:43 AM
I wish I could find a female exercise buddy. Winter is finally over where I live and I want to go outside and ride my bicycle or find a walking or jogging buddy. I also want to try aerial silks class but I know I'll probably have to do that alone because that's kinda a bit risky. Trying to find someone has been proving to be much easier said than done. What few female friends I have here, one of them is heavily pregnant and has 5 kids so she's too exhausted to do anything. The other one just found out that she's pregnant and put herself on bed rest because she's afraid of having another miscarriage. The others ladies don't want to do anything other than get drunk or high all the time. I'm not about that that life anymore. I already went through that phase 10 years ago.
seashell
04-13-2017, 03:12 PM
^I've been thinking about doing aerial silks, too! It looks so fun and challenging, in a good way. If you do it, let us know how it goes! :)
Aurora_Sunset
04-13-2017, 04:36 PM
^^I thought about aerial silks for awhile. My old pole studio does lyra though and I think that looks like a ton of fun. I've considered going back there and getting a membership again to do that.
WendiStarr
04-13-2017, 08:24 PM
Out of nowhere my fuck buddy told me via text message that he loves me. I'm just like 0.0 and I changed the subject to a different topic. Then he texts,"I love you" again. How does a man go from just fucking, don't want any strings attached to that? I think maybe he's drunk or maybe he meant to send that to someone else. Wtf?!
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-13-2017, 10:21 PM
I wish I could find a female exercise buddy. Winter is finally over where I live and I want to go outside and ride my bicycle or find a walking or jogging buddy. I also want to try aerial silks class but I know I'll probably have to do that alone because that's kinda a bit risky. Trying to find someone has been proving to be much easier said than done. What few female friends I have here, one of them is heavily pregnant and has 5 kids so she's too exhausted to do anything. The other one just found out that she's pregnant and put herself on bed rest because she's afraid of having another miscarriage. The others ladies don't want to do anything other than get drunk or high all the time. I'm not about that that life anymore. I already went through that phase 10 years ago.
Look on FaceBook? A lot of women in my region meet up that way for platonic reasons because it's hard to make friends out here.
chanzep
04-14-2017, 08:47 PM
Im watching a crazy LMN movie and the crazy is a stripper lol.
LoveyDovey
04-14-2017, 10:27 PM
There is nothing better than a hot after-work shower.
22lligm
04-15-2017, 06:56 AM
Last night I was in such a bad mood after a shitty day at work and just alot of annoying shit happening plus I'm on my period. I was like theres no way I'm going to work tomorrow. But when I went to bed I was saying in my head "I choose to be happy and attract positive energy" over and over again. I ended up having a good dream and then waking up in a really good mood! So now I'm ready to get shit done today and make some money at work.
The power of positive thinking is real.
whirlerz
04-15-2017, 09:44 AM
There's currently a not so little black spider chilling @the very top of the wall where it meets the ceiling.
Maybe he's a little messenger to watch over me ( see feeling pissy post about the guy perving by my room .
I think I'll move the ironing board by the window though
WendiStarr
04-15-2017, 09:57 AM
I went bike riding at park, felt great. I wish park was closer.
Genoveve
04-16-2017, 05:39 PM
I was watching a youtube video on a smaller channel that I guess is mostly dedicated to stories of missing persons, the guy running it did a story on a chick who was a stripper that went missing and I was shocked that he treated the story with complete respect. He just presented the facts with no judgement and no salacious commentary and he even pointed out that he had a feeling that law enforcement doesn't get as involved as they should when dealing with crimes committed against adult entertainers. I didn't get a save-a-ho vibe either.
It's a shame that that was so shocking to me but unfortunately every time I see a story involving some awful fate that has befallen an adult entertainer the commentary always goes like this: "Well what did she expect," "Well that's what happens when you do that for a living," "She was scum anyway." Etc.
Aurora_Sunset
04-16-2017, 08:52 PM
WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME? omg, ew lol
I think I just had my "Official" "Oh-my-god-I'm-almost-30" moment tonight and I do not like it. I visited my hometown this weekend and everyone around me felt so much OLDER and grown up. One friend has a business that had a rough start but is now booming. I found out from my aunt that my childhood best friend (who I haven't actually seen in years) just passed the federal bar exam. Another aunt and uncle have just purchased a new home in a different state to be near my cousin who is going to have a kid soon - which led to discussions about how my uncle is retiring in the next year, and then found out another aunt is retiring... and I was like holy shit - I didn't realize they were that old that they would be relatives that aren't working soon. One friend is traveling to Ecuador this summer. Another one just bought a house and got a dog.
The last one threw me off the most because it gave me such a weird feeling to go see it. I have never EVER been a "I want to buy a house, get a dog and a fence, and live the American dream" person. In fact, I am, on most levels, very adamantly against ever buying a house and "settling" down. Cuz that feels like being tied down, everything is your responsibility instead of a landlords... ugh. But her house was so cool. It was a really neat design. The basement and yard especially needed to be fixed but had tons of potential. Listening to her go through all their plans for renovation, I got caught up in the feeling of how cool it would be to own something that cute and have it be all mine to make into a project that becomes anything I want. I started really wanting that... That's an "adult" feeling I didn't ever think I'd ever feel... In addition to the fact that before this even happened, I just bought a new book this week on balcony gardens in small spaces, wanting to "pretty up" and personalize my apartment. And have been seriously considering long - like 5-10 year plans concerning career paths...
Omg, this is so creepy I think I might actually be sick
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-17-2017, 06:57 AM
I was watching a youtube video on a smaller channel that I guess is mostly dedicated to stories of missing persons, the guy running it did a story on a chick who was a stripper that went missing and I was shocked that he treated the story with complete respect. He just presented the facts with no judgement and no salacious commentary and he even pointed out that he had a feeling that law enforcement doesn't get as involved as they should when dealing with crimes committed against adult entertainers. I didn't get a save-a-ho vibe either.
It's a shame that that was so shocking to me but unfortunately every time I see a story involving some awful fate that has befallen an adult entertainer the commentary always goes like this: "Well what did she expect," "Well that's what happens when you do that for a living," "She was scum anyway." Etc.
There's a couple "Forensic Files" that deal with the murders of exotic dancers. They treat the cases without prejudice because it's the standard set up for the episodes.
LoveyDovey
04-17-2017, 08:05 AM
I wish I could just have a normal love life.
BarbieNYC
04-18-2017, 07:38 AM
Thought I flunked my midterms but ended up passing one with a C, one with an A, and the other with a D, but through some miracle that D only brought me down to a 90% in that class lollolol
I need to get it together.
lynn2009
04-18-2017, 09:02 AM
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JGB2009
04-18-2017, 10:42 AM
So last night I went to the store to do a product review with my cam on my phone. May I add the store lighting made me look horrible SMH.
Selina M
04-18-2017, 11:20 AM
I don't think I've ever given notice at a job before. Like, ever.
I kept giving it 'a few more days' because of the owners personality and then when I did the math for the last week the money was so atrocious on average that it's not worth it.
I think I partly don't see the sense in giving notice on my end. By the time I realize how bad the money is, I'm not gonna stick around 2 more weeks. I can be in the club tomorrow.
The whole 'it's the right thing to do' makes me feel a bit bad but they have a girl on-call and most of my shifts are unnecessary (aka so slow they can easily handle it without me).
WendiStarr
04-18-2017, 12:29 PM
When I was younger, I had a carroty orangish red hair color. Over the years it has been turning more brown than red. I don't like brown on me. It looks dull to me and I wanted to find a way to add more red tones to my hair. I was reading about henna being able to add red tones to hair. I used henna, thinking that would be a good way to add more red to my hair and since it's non-toxic that helped put me at ease. What I wasn't expecting is that I was going to end up Marcia Cross red like this:
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/9d/a6/a1/9da6a12b20811a508ecaa752c01ddb55.jpg
It's pretty but I wasn't expecting that color at all. Because my skin is fair and I have hazel eyes that sometimes turn green, my daughter thinks I'm a mermaid now. :-D
SexxiLexxi
04-18-2017, 01:48 PM
If you don't have something nice to say.....Well, I hope you choke on your words, bitch.
JenniferNorth
04-18-2017, 03:45 PM
I don't think I've ever given notice at a job before. Like, ever.
You are my long-lost sister from another mister. I also don't give jobs notice, and yeah, just don't care.
Today I was talking with my mom about how much I hate how jobs will whine and complain that you don't do x, y or z well enough, and in general nothing is ever good enough for them (they think the crappy wages they offer are bomb diggity). Then my mom was going on how that is the reason behind most people going into business for themselves and I agreed. If anything, adult stuff has made me realize how much I don't want to work for someone else's dream.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-18-2017, 08:29 PM
Ugh I'm so grateful for the adult industry, otherwise I'd be in debt until my 50s for my education.
Selina M
04-18-2017, 09:09 PM
You are my long-lost sister from another mister. I also don't give jobs notice, and yeah, just don't care.
Today I was talking with my mom about how much I hate how jobs will whine and complain that you don't do x, y or z well enough, and in general nothing is ever good enough for them (they think the crappy wages they offer are bomb diggity). Then my mom was going on how that is the reason behind most people going into business for themselves and I agreed. If anything, adult stuff has made me realize how much I don't want to work for someone else's dream.
Yeah exactly! I kinda enjoy the work but the owner is nit picky and borders on rude most of the time. That's why I stay in adult work, very little management interaction necessary and everyone else you can tell to fuck off when needed.
I was debating texting to let them know vs just ghosting but I don't want the shit fit she will likely throw, nor do I wanna explain. The stress of confrontation isn't necessary to me.
buttonpop
04-18-2017, 09:20 PM
I just stumbled upon an article about sensory processing disorder and I am convinced I have it. I can't believe I've lived all my life with these symptoms just thinking I was quirky and picky about weird things, and struggled in sooo many ways because of them. I honestly think that 75% of my anxiety has actually been the sensory processing disorder all along.
I think I'm gonna make a separate thread about it because I have so much to say.
chanzep
04-19-2017, 08:42 AM
My cat is giving me the most pissed off look because Im up early. she really looking at me like uh uh we just worked a night shift lol.
seashell
04-19-2017, 11:42 AM
I really want to make these sweet potato veggie burgers, but I know I'll be the only one eating them. They were one of my faves when I was a vegetarian. :)
https://chubbyvegetarian.blogspot.com/2013/04/vegan-chipotle-sweet-potato-burger.html
carmen_b
04-19-2017, 01:42 PM
I am too ! The industry saved me big time after the recession ( even though I AM jealous I didn't work much before it ). I still dabble as I feel like it even thought I'm mostly out.
Ugh I'm so grateful for the adult industry, otherwise I'd be in debt until my 50s for my education.
lynn2009
04-19-2017, 03:05 PM
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JGB2009
04-19-2017, 09:15 PM
I so wanna snuggle with you. I just wanna snuggle and fall asleep in ur arms.
WendiStarr
04-20-2017, 02:21 PM
Apparently hip dips are a thing. I always thought that they were just some weird anatomical feature that only I was cursed with.
buttonpop
04-20-2017, 05:25 PM
Apparently hip dips are a thing. I always thought that they were just some weird anatomical feature that only I was cursed with.
Also called violin hips. I have them. hardcore.
its the only thing between me and a pear shaped body :(
I do those dog-peeing-on-a-fire-hydrant exercises (get on your hand and knees and lift your leg up to the side, keeping your knee bent at 90degrees, like youre trying to pee like a dog, keeping your foot flexed) which are supposed to help but I haven't seen any results yet.
lynn2009
04-20-2017, 06:36 PM
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JenniferNorth
04-21-2017, 03:40 PM
My husband is training for a WAH call center, and in the virtual training room, someone keeps calling in and making sex noises. This is for a vanilla company....I don't know if I should cry or laugh.
JGB2009
04-22-2017, 02:28 AM
My husband is training for a WAH call center, and in the virtual training room, someone keeps calling in and making sex noises. This is for a vanilla company....I don't know if I should cry or laugh.
When I used to work the graveyard shift for a psychic line, I would to get people calling me doing the same thing. Funny memories.