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WendiStarr
04-22-2017, 07:54 AM
I remember overhearing years ago a conversation between my mom and one of her friends. They were talking about period blood and voodoo, something about women sneaking it into men's spaghetti, coffee, and such to magically make them fall in love with the woman. That sounds gross to me and I'd never do it because I wouldn't want anyone to do that kind of shit with me if I was dating a woman, but it got me wondering. Is there any truth in it? I'm wondering if that voodoo magic stuff can apply if the guy accidentally got it in his mouth? Fuck buddy has been acting strangely obsessive towards me since then. Everything was always just amazing sex with him but lately he's been telling me that he loves me(despite him being anti-commitment), giving me hickeys(we'd agreed before not to do that), and behaving unusual for a fuck buddy. He moved out of state but a work assignment brought him back here and he voluntarily extended his time out here. Wtf!? He was fun, now he's getting creepy.

ScarletKitten
04-22-2017, 10:58 AM
^Are you saying he got some of yours in his mouth?

22lligm
04-22-2017, 11:47 AM
Aw I had the best little Saturday morning with my dog lol. I took her on a long walk around the cute neighborhood that I live by and then to the pet store to get some food and toys and other stuff. She really does not need anymore toys but I can't help it! I always end up spending so much there lol she is so spoiled. I got her groomed the other day and they tied a little bandana around her neck and it looks so cute so I've been putting it on her for our walks. Idk if that makes me look like an annoying pet owner but idc it's just too damn cute! And now when I 'get her dressed' she sits there patiently while I'm getting her ready lol I think she likes wearing it.

Aurora_Sunset
04-23-2017, 05:56 PM
3 weeks into my diet and the skin on my face this week has looked AMAZING. I haven't even worn makeup aside from eyeliner and mascara for most days, because I look in the mirror and see no need for foundation. Maybe a little green stick to cover some red spots from zits that recently went away in the last couple weeks. But other than that...

I think it might be a hydration thing from not drinking and making it a point to drink a lot of water each day. I think it was stated in a thread on this site (maybe several), that people talked about how different their skin looks when they are properly hydrated. I've never been consistently sober for a long enough period of several weeks to see the truth of it. Awesome!

WendiStarr
04-23-2017, 06:09 PM
^Are you saying he got some of yours in his mouth?

Yes. Don't ask me why he always feels the need to lick his fingers after. I guess he forgot. He seriously was parked on road by my apartment. He was blowing up my phone but I didn't answer because it was mama and daughter bonding time. I don't allow fuck buddies to meet my daughter either. My brother and sister-in-law came and picked us up. I was glad he didn't follow us.

lynn2009
04-24-2017, 05:50 PM
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chanzep
04-24-2017, 11:21 PM
Aww Im sorry sounds like your really going thru it. I hope things get better for you.

BarbieNYC
04-25-2017, 03:37 AM
^^omg lynn *hugs* I hope you are okay. What a truly awful day. I hope you were able to get yourself somewhere for the night. If you didn't and there is a korean spa in your area, please go there the entrance fee should be pretty cheap. Also airbnb does last minute instant book if you just need to get a room to yourself. Definitely contact them about how you felt very uncomfortable with the host trying to get personal information when you have already been verified through airbnb. State that while you understand that as a host, he can be worried about the safety of his home, but as a woman traveling alone by herself, you have to worry about someone having your info like your address and driver's license #. He should've stated on his profile that he goes through that extra verification in person, but it actually might be against airbnb rules

*hugs*

lynn2009
04-25-2017, 04:35 AM
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BarbieNYC
04-25-2017, 01:58 PM
I've been in the gym around twice a day since cutting my ex off. There are so many hot guys that are my type that go to my gym. I never noticed cuz I was so wrapped up in my ex. Smh

But I need to stay away cuz 1) I go to planet fitness and most people who go to planet fitness do so because they can't afford a more expensive gym. I realize there are exceptions like people who work odd hours and those who can afford a better gym, but like planet fitness. Planet fitness being 24 hours has saved me on more than one occasion.

2) I go to the one by the university and during unemployed/student times. So chances of finding someone who isn't unemployed or a student are slim. Lol

Oh well nice eye candy though. At least until I get to their legs. Why do guys skip leg day?!?! Girls look at booty too!

JGB2009
04-25-2017, 04:09 PM
Aw I had the best little Saturday morning with my dog lol. I took her on a long walk around the cute neighborhood that I live by and then to the pet store to get some food and toys and other stuff. She really does not need anymore toys but I can't help it! I always end up spending so much there lol she is so spoiled. I got her groomed the other day and they tied a little bandana around her neck and it looks so cute so I've been putting it on her for our walks. Idk if that makes me look like an annoying pet owner but idc it's just too damn cute! And now when I 'get her dressed' she sits there patiently while I'm getting her ready lol I think she likes wearing it.

I saw someone the other week that had their dog in a dress. It was a very small dog and it was so cute.

JGB2009
04-25-2017, 04:10 PM
Funny how you can feel so differently about something in a whole week. On a side note I am so bored right now.

WendiStarr
04-25-2017, 04:38 PM
I really hope this apple cider vinegar works because I can't stand the smell or taste. Bleh!

LoveyDovey
04-25-2017, 05:49 PM
I really hope this apple cider vinegar works because I can't stand the smell or taste. Bleh!

I drink it all the time. You'll get used to it. It's helped me lose a few at least, and my skin looks really good.

lilylilylily
04-25-2017, 10:39 PM
I love Acv too. Def helps speed up metabolism and improves my skin. My green smoothie tastes bland without it
I now love olives. I can't believe I never got into them before, they are so salty and I love salt. I'm eating them every day

JGB2009
04-25-2017, 11:11 PM
So like my best friend is a guy. We have been friends for like almost 9 years. He is like family to me. On a side note he always text me saying he loves me. Tonight he verbally said it over the phone and I started laughing cause I never heard him say it before. He is the most awesome person ever. I hope we are like friends forever!!!

Vyanka
04-26-2017, 10:31 AM
I want to learn how to ride a motorcycle, and get a harley! Bad!

WendiStarr
04-26-2017, 11:01 AM
Anybody here have high, tilted internal lady parts and use sea sponge tampons? I want to try them but after bad experience with Instead softcup getting lodged up there and trying to get it out myself for several hours before finally resorting to a medical professional, just..ugh. I don't ever want to go through that again. I wonder if it would be possible to put string on them or would that just cause the sponge to break off into pieces. Oh, the joys of being female. :-(

whirlerz
04-26-2017, 11:29 AM
There's some threads in Body Business on this^

lynn2009
04-26-2017, 02:16 PM
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Aurora_Sunset
04-26-2017, 02:38 PM
I want to learn how to ride a motorcycle, and get a harley! Bad!

Me too! I've been seriously considering lessons over the summer.



I registered for my first full marathon later this year, along with a bunch of fun 5ks and mud runs throughout the summer. I'll run the marathon 2 days before I turn 29!

lynn2009
04-27-2017, 03:52 PM
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BarbieNYC
04-27-2017, 04:01 PM
^^I love going to happy hour alone! Do it! In fact, you have me thinking I want to go to one right now lol

lynn2009
04-27-2017, 04:04 PM
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WendiStarr
04-28-2017, 03:18 PM
I had two no show body rub appointments. The customer I was supposed to cam with at 4:30pm never signed on. Bf is in a bad mood because of work and said he wants to be left alone tonight. Even fuck buddy is acting salty. What the heck is with today? I had such a rockin' day yesterday. I feel like I want to go to sleep right now and wake up to a new, positive day.

carmen_b
04-29-2017, 08:53 AM
Do it. I love sitting and enjoying a drink / muchies without having to focus on conversations! :)
^^I love going to happy hour alone! Do it! In fact, you have me thinking I want to go to one right now lol

Glamourmilf
04-30-2017, 05:23 AM
I had two no show body rub appointments. The customer I was supposed to cam with at 4:30pm never signed on. Bf is in a bad mood because of work and said he wants to be left alone tonight. Even fuck buddy is acting salty. What the heck is with today? I had such a rockin' day yesterday. I feel like I want to go to sleep right now and wake up to a new, positive day.

I feel ya.
I hate days like that, particularly if the previous day was rockin'.
I used to try really hard to turn things around.
I've stopped doing that, because it seldom does.
Now when a bad day happens, I just go to sleep.

BarbieNYC
04-30-2017, 11:17 AM
I randomly got a job offer when I was volunteering at school last week. I went in for the formal interview and got hired and could start as soon as my fingerprinting was up to date. I don't wanna say too much because it seems too good to be true and I don't wanna jinx it, but it's an amazing opportunity.

Also this made me really happy I don't have a criminal record or do drugs. I saw a girl make it to the end but not get hired cuz she didn't pass the drug test :/ and they spring it on you on the spot so no one has time to prepare lol

Had to drop a class though because I was barely hanging on to my grade as it was :/ oh well with working and my full course schedule I should be able to explain the W no problem. Honestly feel a little relieved after dropping it, like a huge weight was lifted off of my shoulders

Aurora_Sunset
04-30-2017, 05:01 PM
I have certain friends on Facebook that I was best friends with in high school but have not actively spoken to or hung out with in damn near 10 years since starting college. I occasionally "like" their posts because they're funny or whatever and I figure as long as I have someone as a Facebook friend, it shouldn't be weird to interact online even if we never talk in person (I have several "Facebook only" friends, as weird as that is lol). But the thing is, these "friends" never ever ever interact back or in a similar way. I can only imagine that every time I like something, they're like "Why is this weirdo bitch liking my status?" But of course they won't just delete me... lol it's a stupid thing to think about.

Oh well, "random thoughts" lol

miss.a.p1600
04-30-2017, 05:40 PM
I've thought about that too. Some people I like their stuff a lot then I'm like wait! I don't recall them ever liking my stuff. So I have unfriended non mutual likers lol. I guess they notice me enough to notice when I unfriend them because the send me friend request. I'm like heaux you just want me to keep liking your shit you Facebook narcissist!

The whole Facebook culture just irks me anyways. It breeds narcissism, encourages privacy breeches (ex adult career customers and clients showing up in your friends you may know list, showing your friends all your likes, facial recognition software, etc), and is a time sucking black hole.

I think I'm the weird one who would rather post on stripper web over Facebook.

miss.a.p1600
04-30-2017, 05:48 PM
How does everyone feel about going to happy hour alone?

I did it recently when I went out of town. Felt invigorating because the past few years I've been way too introverted and withdrawn from the world so it turned out to be a pleasant challenge.

I plan on trying it again by going to some steakhouses here.

I will say the times in the past when I was more outgoing I would have someone meet me up there at a certain time but go say 15-20 min earlier. And dudes will talk to an attractive lady out by herself so I doubt you will be "alone" for long.

lynn2009
04-30-2017, 06:08 PM
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JGB2009
04-30-2017, 06:12 PM
I have certain friends on Facebook that I was best friends with in high school but have not actively spoken to or hung out with in damn near 10 years since starting college. I occasionally "like" their posts because they're funny or whatever and I figure as long as I have someone as a Facebook friend, it shouldn't be weird to interact online even if we never talk in person (I have several "Facebook only" friends, as weird as that is lol). But the thing is, these "friends" never ever ever interact back or in a similar way. I can only imagine that every time I like something, they're like "Why is this weirdo bitch liking my status?" But of course they won't just delete me... lol it's a stupid thing to think about.

Oh well, "random thoughts" lol

Haha that's exactly me lol. So my thoughts. Only thing is over time I stopped liking anything cause they aren't interacting with me ever.

JGB2009
04-30-2017, 06:23 PM
For the past month I have been talking to my 4 year olds father. In a week I will be seeing him in court for child support. It is what it is!!!!

miss.a.p1600
04-30-2017, 06:26 PM
I must have intense bitch face cause no one approached me for over an hour lol

Interesting. Also you can approach them too if you feel comfortable. I sat by myself for about 20-30 min idk maybe longer because sadly I went to the bar after happy hour was over and everyone was gone. A guy finally sat one seat over from me and ordered coffee so I initiated the convo and was like "hey how's the coffee" and we chatted from there.

I also had a glass of wine (and I rarely drink) just to help take off a bit of the anxiety I was feeling. I don't recommend it but I really want to fulfill a mission without my fear getting in the way.

Your next one may go more like you have in mind.

chanzep
05-01-2017, 01:46 AM
Club was so stressful the fact that my period coming not helping. Im about to stay up for a few hours watching tv with cat to chill out.

chanzep
05-01-2017, 01:54 AM
I don't know what id do if I did not have this site to vent on after work. I did not for the first few years mostly because I was drunk!, but when I got serious I always found it a great way to unwind after work.

lilylilylily
05-01-2017, 05:39 AM
My friend just told me this guy she's been seeing freaked out because she suddenly got her period during sex and she bled all over him. He didn't handle it well at all. I think he just showed her his true colors by not being mature enough to get that women get periods and that can happen. but I know she really likes him though..

lilylilylily
05-01-2017, 06:52 AM
I knew it... she's already making up excuses for his behavior by saying he was already annoyed at her when she first got to his house because she was really late, so the period thing just made him blow up

Vyanka
05-01-2017, 07:09 AM
I knew it... she's already making up excuses for his behavior by saying he was already annoyed at her when she first got to his house because she was really late, so the period thing just made him blow up

He sounds like a keeper... ::)

lynn2009
05-01-2017, 02:19 PM
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Vyanka
05-01-2017, 04:35 PM
I feel like I'm the only one without instagram.

LoveyDovey
05-01-2017, 05:09 PM
I feel like I'm the only one without instagram.

I dont have it either. Or Facebook.

I am at work and it is so damn boring and I hope someone comes in soon.... $$$$

whirlerz
05-01-2017, 05:34 PM
I feel like I'm the only one without instagram.

I have Tumblr only, a lot of Insty ppl cross post on there

lilylilylily
05-01-2017, 06:37 PM
I'm only on FB and I don't post any pics of myself

LoveyDovey
05-01-2017, 07:48 PM
I dont have it either. Or Facebook.

I am at work and it is so damn boring and I hope someone comes in soon.... $$$$

Yay, someone came in. So the day wasn't a total waste.

Glamourmilf
05-02-2017, 08:23 AM
I'm randomly thinking of having random sex with a stranger.
Not because I'm horny, but because I feel betrayed. * Too long of a story, but let's just say I need to have the last word ( or last fuck), in this situation.
Where would I go to find someone? Definitely not on online dating sites. Those guys have zero interest in actually meeting someone.
I don't drink, and would stick out in a bar.
Hmm. Any ideas? 47977 in

charlie61
05-02-2017, 10:30 AM
I think I've slowly worked my way into a minor zinc deficiency. Started supplementation yesterday.

Isn't it funny how, the healthier you are (lots of exercise and eating super cleanly), the more likely you are to develop certain low-key deficiencies and whatnot? The more extreme your lifestyle, the more likely you are to accidentally miss out on or lose too much of certain nutrients. I'm not that extreme, but I've been through this low - zinc thing before due to exercise (elliptical and sauna - lots o sweating) and hardly eating any meat (plus eating lots of foods that inhibit zinc absorption). Signs and symptoms of low zinc include skin issues, hair loss (more than is normal), anhedonia..

Aaaanyway...

seashell
05-02-2017, 02:56 PM
I've been giving into my inner nerd lately and rewatching old anime episodes... I just rewatched the finale of Cowboy Bebop, and it's SO SAD. So much worse as an adult in my mid-20's, going through a quarter-life crisis.

It's also a really funny show, but you know, one of those deals where you laugh/cry/wish it didn't have to end. lol

baer45
05-02-2017, 05:26 PM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/05/02/07/3FD23CB300000578-4457030-Red_alert_Katy_Perry_gala_co_chair_covered_up_in_c hiffon_her_Mai-a-145_1493705632367.jpg

Seriously, Katy Perry, are you a ghost bride?