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Aurora_Sunset
05-14-2017, 02:30 PM
I have no desire to participate in the women's shelter's reading group, but it's part of my internship. I just don't like the book they've picked for awhile. It's a bunch of seemingly feminist essays, but a lot of them just play up the whole condescending "any woman who uses her sexuality might think she's empowered but she is mistaken and actually bringing down all womankind in the process" bullshit. I haven't been to the reading group so I have no idea what others' opinions on these pieces are, but since the book has been being used for so many months, I imagine that a lot of them have to agree with this nonsense... I don't want to vehemently argue a sex worker's POV in this group.
seashell
05-14-2017, 03:23 PM
For the past 6 months, I wore the same 2 outfits at the strip club... literally identical bras and thongs from VS, one set in black and one in red. I wanted to save money. Well, I finally bought some new outfits and shoes, and it's like I can't get enough! I want moar! Thinking about hitting the thrift store or TJ Maxx, lol
seashell
05-14-2017, 03:33 PM
Also, I started watching Rick and Morty, and omg it is hilarious.
WendiStarr
05-14-2017, 07:55 PM
I don't know what the heck is going on with me but it's driving me nuts. I have ibs-d and the only times I've ever had bloating this bad or been constipated is every time I was pregnant. My belly currently looks like I'm 5 months knocked up. If I'm not pregnant, I swear I will wear my waist trainer 24/7 and extreme diet, very low carbs and no sugar at all, not even fruit. I have this fear of getting fat unless it's because of pregnancy. I hate playing Google doctor because then I'm like omg, what if I have ovarian cancer? I know someone who had it and she looked knocked up, too but wasn't.
Aurora_Sunset
05-14-2017, 08:41 PM
I need to go to bed. I am so tired, and even though tomorrow I have most of the day off, the rest of the next 2 weeks is going to be insane, and I am already sleep-deprived from only 2 days of work-related craziness which will only get crazier. But I don't want to sleep. I want my free night to myself.
lilylilylily
05-14-2017, 09:12 PM
My mom had to put her cat down today. He was such an amazing animal. Super affectionate and he loved her so much. He had problems with his heart. At least she had him for 6 years. Just why did it have to happen on mothers day
xStacey
05-15-2017, 08:03 AM
I want to install a pole in my place so bad !!!
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-15-2017, 08:04 AM
For the past 6 months, I wore the same 2 outfits at the strip club... literally identical bras and thongs from VS, one set in black and one in red. I wanted to save money. Well, I finally bought some new outfits and shoes, and it's like I can't get enough! I want moar! Thinking about hitting the thrift store or TJ Maxx, lol
I got tons of outfits at Ross Outlet, thrift shops & clearance racks.
I still hit up stripwear shops but to have a fresh rotation of items it's easy to find things at the above places.
Glamourmilf
05-15-2017, 08:59 AM
I need to get off of my phone more often.. get back to reading and meditating. On weekend mornings, I jump between Tumblr, Amazon, stripperweb, random online shopping, Instagram, YouTube. I'll put my phone down for a minute and pick it right back up. Like damn...i need a digital cleanse.
I have been thinking the SAME thing lately.
Since I work online, it's that more difficult to not BE online surfing the net even when I take a day off.
I recently,( purposely) subscribed to 3 fashion magazines, because in the past it brought me such joy to lose myself in them.
I noticed they've been piling up, so yesterday I decided to spend some time out in my yard, and just read them cover to cover, so I could throw them out.
Went to check my mailbox, and there were 2 more sitting in there! Lol!
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-15-2017, 12:30 PM
Yay, my sex drive came back.
& I might have a new boyfriend this summer if the guy I'm thinking of completes rehab. (I'm too old & wise to get with him before he is finished with inpatient.) He is super cute, just not right now with what chemical dependency has done to his looks.
whirlerz
05-15-2017, 06:44 PM
I don't know what the heck is going on with me but it's driving me nuts. I have ibs-d and the only times I've ever had bloating this bad or been constipated is every time I was pregnant. My belly currently looks like I'm 5 months knocked up. If I'm not pregnant, I swear I will wear my waist trainer 24/7 and extreme diet, very low carbs and no sugar at all, not even fruit. I have this fear of getting fat unless it's because of pregnancy. I hate playing Google doctor because then I'm like omg, what if I have ovarian cancer? I know someone who had it and she looked knocked up, too but wasn't.
Have u been to a gastroenterologist?
Mine diagnosed me with IBS, I stopped dairy (except plain yogurt) & fried food
I hope you can get some relief.
For me I ate a fresh grapefruit, but that may not be good for u.
I know what u mean about the bloating
WendiStarr
05-15-2017, 07:02 PM
Yes, I have ibs-d(ibs-d is the diarrhea form of ibs but I didn't feel like putting that in the post so I just put ibs-d). I've been having the complete opposite problem than d. :-/ I've never had bloating this severe before. I cannot even fit into any of my pants right now. I have to do the rubber band trick. A relative seen my belly and got excited that I was having another little one. I don't think I'm pregnant, although I guess there's a very small chance. It's so frustrating. Unless I'm pregnant I want my flat belly back. :(
whirlerz
05-15-2017, 07:21 PM
Right, I knew what you meant..
Mine is both, mostly the constipated, but I get it where it alternates too.
miss.a.p1600
05-15-2017, 09:36 PM
Despite everything, pussy stocks are rising.
xStacey
05-16-2017, 07:33 AM
Omg I had a nightmare, I was giving extras and having sex at the club, while the owner was watching me through the surveillance cameras and I got fired from the classy and clean club where I make the most money.
WendiStarr
05-16-2017, 08:28 PM
Green olives are awesome. That is all, lol.
xStacey
05-16-2017, 08:54 PM
When you keep making the same mistake over and over again after six years expecting different results... sigh.
I am reminding myself big changes are gradual and take some time. I notice huge improvements though. Soon, these bad habits will be completely gone.
Glamourmilf
05-17-2017, 07:30 AM
Green olives are awesome. That is all, lol.
Ikr? So are black olives. I just bought some that were imported from Israel. Yummy delicious.:)
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lilylilylily
05-17-2017, 11:19 AM
I so agree about olives. Amazingly salty yet good for you. I bought a huge jar organic green with the pit in it from Costco but don't enjoy eating them as much cuz of the pit. Love stuffed olives too, green or black
Elektra Luxx
05-17-2017, 01:04 PM
My boss/exbf took me to lunch at Panera (more on that later) and I went right into defensive mode and ready for a fight. He still thinks he can give his opinions about things going on in my life and it pisses me off to no end. But today he was nice and kept it all business. Well mostly, but he didn't bring up my life. So now I'm suspicious as hell. What's his angle?
SimoneGray
05-18-2017, 06:32 AM
I want to get my boobs done and I think I am going to. I don't really have a lot to lose, so I figured why not, after all it can really only help my sex work career.
xStacey
05-18-2017, 01:41 PM
I recently started taking Pole Fitness classes and it's so much fun !!! Really wish I could do the Summer Pole Camp offered by Milan Pole Studio it's one week in St-Martin, 4-star hotel, 2-hour of pole training daily, healthy meals and protein shake, photoshoot and a performance night... Unfortunately it's July-August and I will be away for an internship abroad... Oh well, maybe next summer, my pole tricks skills will have improved and perhaps someone from SW might want to join me ?! :)
WendiStarr
05-18-2017, 01:44 PM
Attention citizens: The outside temperature is currently 88 degrees in our area with humidity levels at 55% and climbing. Swamp ass conditions may result. An official 'Powder Your Fun Parts' advisory has been issued.
whirlerz
05-18-2017, 02:26 PM
Lol! Thanks, I need that humor!
Hot AF here rn, but TG going down in temp tomorrow
Elektra Luxx
05-19-2017, 05:46 AM
This is my rent car until at least next Friday. Insurance says they are not going to settle until the police have 2 weeks to locate my car.
http://i.imgur.com/d3SNOVE.png
baer45
05-19-2017, 07:46 AM
This is my rent car until at least next Friday. Insurance says they are not going to settle until the police have 2 weeks to locate my car.
http://i.imgur.com/d3SNOVE.png
well, is insurance company paying for your rental car?
WendiStarr
05-19-2017, 01:02 PM
I love Tim Horton's ice capp so much but dang, do they trigger anxiety. I'm jittery as heck. Now I'm not feeling like taking on any more appointments today.
Selina M
05-19-2017, 11:59 PM
I am starting to really enjoy drinking at home but I hope I don't get a tolerance for it. It's fantastic being pretty close to toasty after 1/2 of a $5 bottle of wine.
Glamourmilf
05-20-2017, 07:17 AM
48079
Starbucks Smores Frappicino
Yummers.
Elektra Luxx
05-20-2017, 11:35 AM
well, is insurance company paying for your rental car?
Yes, for 30 days or until we settle which ever comes first. I wish I had installed a tracker on my car.
Elektra Luxx
05-20-2017, 11:38 AM
I love watching beach volleyball and they is a tornament in Austin this weekend and I completely forgot about it.
baer45
05-20-2017, 11:58 AM
Yes, for 30 days or until we settle which ever comes first. I wish I had installed a tracker on my car.
30 days... That's the up limit. Make sure you know what the daily limit is... last time I had rent something exceed their daily limit I ended up paying $300 out of my pocket. Do you research of your lost car's actual cash value. ... I know when the insurance adjuster report your cars value they don't need to be specific about the condition since your car is "pretty much" gone now. Tell them your car is in excellent condition, well maintained, and you would like to be paid top dollars. My point is...you can bargain...get as much as you can. And if I were you, i will start shopping for the next car. Car shopping can be very stressful...better to do it earlier.
Why is it that the people who ask for the most stuff tip the least?
Elektra Luxx
05-21-2017, 12:49 AM
I know I've said this before on this forum, but I've fine with staying single. I don't want to be controlled by a guy or feel like I have limits in a relationship. I soon as I get into a relationship, I start to feel like I want my space and I need alone time.
That said, the last time I said this I started a relationship that lasted for almost a year.
miss.a.p1600
05-21-2017, 06:33 AM
I think i can relate.
You seem like a nice lady and maybe you have your introvert moments so you need a partner who understands and accepts this about you. Some guys are so insecure that if you need alone time their mind instantly defaults to .....hmmm she must be fucking another dude/cheating on me so now I must control the situation.
Me personally, I used to think I HAD to have a man for dating/bf/etc because I got so much backlash when I was single (when are you getting married?, what you're too pretty to be single something must be wrong with you, you need a man to do {insert task here})
Like I literally lost my mind temporarily when I was single because I didn't want to face the stigma or be uncomfortable around my coupled friends.
Well they were more uncomfortable with me being single than I was. I started saying "self, fuck that shit - I'm not going to let someone else's insecurities and irrational beliefs affect me" because I'm going to feel good regardless of my relationship status and I'm going to enjoy the advantages of being single while I can and if/when I get into a relationship it will be enjoyable too or I will ditch the dude quickly.
Sometimes I feel so much happier being single than I did when I was trying to land men for a relationship that I do worry a bit but I know the universe works in our favor and when the timing is right everything will fall into place.
Aurora_Sunset
05-23-2017, 10:53 AM
I think I might take a year off from school. I usually have a "cash savings" lump in my closet that I use for big purchases (usually things like car repair or vet appointments), and I have completely burnt through it with tuition for the last year. The thing is, I used to use the money from one really good regular to fund that cash savings, and he has not been seeing me very often since I started going back to school. I can't rely on that anymore. I'm sure if I was just good with saving money this summer (which I should be, since I can't really travel due to an internship), I could still squeak it out starting in the fall semester. But I'm sick of being in this cycle. I go into debt, claw my way out, and then when I'm just starting to get ahead, I throw all my savings into something, and then end up going into debt again. Not that tuition or a nicer place to live is "throwing money away" or not valid purchases, but I need to get a handle on my financial roller coaster.
I honestly think I'd like to spend a year doing all the strip-trip and escort touring stuff I always wanted to do. Then when I turn 30 and am officially burnt out (which I could totally see happening), I'll have the money and the inclination to focus hardcore on school and start in other career fields. Right now I feel torn between keeping a foot in both worlds, but will have to devote myself to the vanilla world eventually, and I don't want to have regrets about not maximizing my free years and youth. I already told myself I would spend this summer working on my body and appearance, and why not proceed to capitalize on that?
baer45
05-23-2017, 05:32 PM
I would get the school done asap. just from my personal experience...might not sound the best to you.
chanzep
05-23-2017, 05:37 PM
Thanks to the storm that is starting, now I have a legit excuse not to go to the store until tomorrow.
Glamourmilf
05-23-2017, 07:33 PM
I had an appointment with a new dentist where I now live, and he's hot as fuck! Damn it!
Just when I decided to be celibate.:'(
I was referred by his ( ugly as fuck) son, who works at my bank. I did NOT expect Dr to be so yummy.
Plus, he wasn't wearing a lab coat, so I could see every outline of his tight, fit body in his street clothes. And I mean EVERY outline.
I'm not going to use him for the work I need done. Why? He's kind of an asshole, and has zero bedside manner.:-\
But, damn.
baer45
05-23-2017, 08:53 PM
http://www.lumidolls.com/en/
It's happening.
DonaDiabla
05-23-2017, 08:59 PM
Yes, I heard about them for a year now and they have been quite active in the doll fetish community. I knew it was just an question of time that a doll brothel would become real. ;) However, they used to have nice black and Latin American dolls but they got rid of them because of negative reactions from the guys online. :( This doll brothel is located in a pretty upscale neighborhood in Spain. That is what I know.
http://www.lumidolls.com/en/
It's happening.
WendiStarr
05-23-2017, 09:11 PM
http://www.lumidolls.com/en/
It's happening.
Oh my god! That's for real? Wow! Hmm, I wonder how a doll brothel would work here in the US.. lmao!
Elektra Luxx
05-23-2017, 09:15 PM
http://www.lumidolls.com/en/
It's happening.
I almost thought it was a joke. I guess my days are numbered. Lol. Maybe some guys like having sex with something non responsive. Like Bill Cosby drugging women.
I think I'd go with Katy. She looks like a good time, but I'd swipe back the money I left on the dresser when she's not looking.
Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?
WendiStarr
05-23-2017, 09:42 PM
There really should be a NiteFlirt Blacklist. I've seen outdated ones from 2014. I have an asshat who was a regular caller of one of my lines who got pissed off that I wouldn't meet up with him in person. He purchased all of my Goody bag content, just to leave negative feedback, purchased a recorded phone call only to do the same, and left a bunch of negative feedback from past calls that he made to me. I blocked him but apparently they can still leave feedback. Seriously, I have so much negative feedback right now all from this idiot and it's negatively affecting me. I think I'm going to have to delete my NiteFlirt account and create a new one and go by a different name than Wendi, since I'm sure he'd just find me again on there. I hate creepy asshole men.
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-23-2017, 09:45 PM
I love Tim Horton's ice capp so much but dang, do they trigger anxiety. I'm jittery as heck. Now I'm not feeling like taking on any more appointments today.
I love Tim Horton's. Canadians are good at keeping secrets because I barely heard about Tim Horton's until I moved close to the border.
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-23-2017, 09:48 PM
I think I might take a year off from school. I usually have a "cash savings" lump in my closet that I use for big purchases (usually things like car repair or vet appointments), and I have completely burnt through it with tuition for the last year. The thing is, I used to use the money from one really good regular to fund that cash savings, and he has not been seeing me very often since I started going back to school. I can't rely on that anymore. I'm sure if I was just good with saving money this summer (which I should be, since I can't really travel due to an internship), I could still squeak it out starting in the fall semester. But I'm sick of being in this cycle. I go into debt, claw my way out, and then when I'm just starting to get ahead, I throw all my savings into something, and then end up going into debt again. Not that tuition or a nicer place to live is "throwing money away" or not valid purchases, but I need to get a handle on my financial roller coaster.
I honestly think I'd like to spend a year doing all the strip-trip and escort touring stuff I always wanted to do. Then when I turn 30 and am officially burnt out (which I could totally see happening), I'll have the money and the inclination to focus hardcore on school and start in other career fields. Right now I feel torn between keeping a foot in both worlds, but will have to devote myself to the vanilla world eventually, and I don't want to have regrets about not maximizing my free years and youth. I already told myself I would spend this summer working on my body and appearance, and why not proceed to capitalize on that?
I can share about this tomorrow. I'll get back to this thread.
WendiStarr
05-24-2017, 07:47 AM
I love Tim Horton's. Canadians are good at keeping secrets because I barely heard about Tim Horton's until I moved close to the border.
Eh? I seriously have 5 Tim Horton's within a 5 mile radius from my home, lol. One of them is less than a mile away. Then again, I live in a state that is close to Canada.
Glamourmilf
05-24-2017, 08:38 AM
http://www.lumidolls.com/en/
It's happening.
Yes, I saw this a few months ago.
If it's legal in the U.S., I'm definitely opening one.
P.S. I love your new gif.
baer45
05-24-2017, 10:28 AM
I almost thought it was a joke. I guess my days are numbered. Lol. Maybe some guys like having sex with something non responsive. Like Bill Cosby drugging women.
I think I'd go with Katy. She looks like a good time, but I'd swipe back the money I left on the dresser when she's not looking.
Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?
tick-tock ^ tick-tock
I had a jerk slip in a $100 Counterfeit bill before. That's why I always ask the new customer go to the bathroom to fresh up first /leave the money there. When he's out, I will go inside and check it, and come out all sexy. :)
baer45
05-24-2017, 10:29 AM
Yes, I saw this a few months ago.
If it's legal in the U.S., I'm definitely opening one.
P.S. I love your new gif.
The only question I have is, who's going to clean the dolls?