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WendiStarr
05-24-2017, 10:42 AM
The only question I have is, who's going to clean the dolls?

Eww, now that is one job that I would not want. Sex doll cleaner. Surely several men using the same doll cannot be sanitary. I wonder if they'd have them wear condoms..lol or operate on a "clean up your own mess" policy, leave cleaning supplies, and hope that the guys would actually properly sanitize it? Weird.

Aurora_Sunset
05-24-2017, 11:37 AM
I would get the school done asap. just from my personal experience...might not sound the best to you.

Yeah, that was my original plan, but I really thought that I would be in a better financial situation right now, and I'm not. Not only is it the money, but it's not just grad school - if it was just a matter of "get the degree, you don't necessarily need to use it right away" I would just power through it. But the other part of school is technical training, where I would not get out of school and not immediately look for a job to solidify those skills in my brain. And then of course "stay in this job for at least a year" and then wonder "what's the next best company I could work for?" And I feel like the second I commit to that, I am committed to going down that hole for the next several years. And when that time comes, I'll be fine with it, because it is what I ultimately want to do. I just don't know if I'm ready to toss everything else to the side to focus on that in only a few months from now.

lilylilylily
05-24-2017, 02:21 PM
I feel so much happier after drinking coffee. I think I'll make another one but it's kind of late in the day, will effect my sleep, but coffee is just so good

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-24-2017, 05:25 PM
tick-tock ^ tick-tock

I had a jerk slip in a $100 Counterfeit bill before. That's why I always ask the new customer go to the bathroom to fresh up first /leave the money there. When he's out, I will go inside and check it, and come out all sexy. :)


Good tip.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-24-2017, 05:28 PM
Yeah, that was my original plan, but I really thought that I would be in a better financial situation right now, and I'm not. Not only is it the money, but it's not just grad school - if it was just a matter of "get the degree, you don't necessarily need to use it right away" I would just power through it. But the other part of school is technical training, where I would not get out of school and not immediately look for a job to solidify those skills in my brain. And then of course "stay in this job for at least a year" and then wonder "what's the next best company I could work for?" And I feel like the second I commit to that, I am committed to going down that hole for the next several years. And when that time comes, I'll be fine with it, because it is what I ultimately want to do. I just don't know if I'm ready to toss everything else to the side to focus on that in only a few months from now.


Can I PM you about all this? My standard answer is at your current age I don't see a 1 year break from school as being so bad. If your plan is to work and save money, I think it's ok.

Aurora_Sunset
05-24-2017, 06:33 PM
Can I PM you about all this? My standard answer is at your current age I don't see a 1 year break from school as being so bad. If your plan is to work and save money, I think it's ok.

Yes, please do!

baer45
05-24-2017, 07:04 PM
Yeah, that was my original plan, but I really thought that I would be in a better financial situation right now, and I'm not. Not only is it the money, but it's not just grad school - if it was just a matter of "get the degree, you don't necessarily need to use it right away" I would just power through it. But the other part of school is technical training, where I would not get out of school and not immediately look for a job to solidify those skills in my brain. And then of course "stay in this job for at least a year" and then wonder "what's the next best company I could work for?" And I feel like the second I commit to that, I am committed to going down that hole for the next several years. And when that time comes, I'll be fine with it, because it is what I ultimately want to do. I just don't know if I'm ready to toss everything else to the side to focus on that in only a few months from now.

Your situation is different than mine. My school work didn't include technical training.

miss.a.p1600
05-24-2017, 09:09 PM
I started drinking mothers milk tea because I has fenugreek which also helps promote breast enlargement. I swear it's working already and I've only been doing this for 2 days.

Or it could the placebo effect

Either way the girls seem slightly bigger and I hope I can buy some new bras .... one size up

Glamourmilf
05-25-2017, 09:45 AM
The only question I have is, who's going to clean the dolls?

It's funny you say that, because my mind IMMEDIATELY went there when I first read the article.
Probably the same people that clean up at the adult bookstores/ arcade.
Cause I'm sure as fuck not going to do it. Lol!

WendiStarr
05-25-2017, 09:47 AM
I created a group for blacklists on NiteFlirt. I've never had a group before but I didn't know where else to put it because I'd rather it stay private without potential callers from being able to see it. If any pso wants to join let me know but I will likely be delayed in responding due to going on vacation tomorrow. I'll be in Smoky mountains and the reception isn't that great where I'll be.

WendiStarr
05-25-2017, 09:51 AM
I started drinking mothers milk tea because I has fenugreek which also helps promote breast enlargement. I swear it's working already and I've only been doing this for 2 days.

Or it could the placebo effect

Either way the girls seem slightly bigger and I hope I can buy some new bras .... one size up

Good luck with that! I've tried that before and all it did was make my boobs feel sore and start lactating. Then again, the fact that I had stopped breastfeeding 6 months before that might have had something to do with the lactating. I respect your goal and admire your patience though. I'm not patient at all and ended up cheating and buying big boobies.

miss.a.p1600
05-25-2017, 06:15 PM
Omg!

I'm wondering if the tea or the pills would be more efficient. And if I can find a hot guy to massage them even better.

I would totally have a top surgeon give me the A+ body I envision but I'm such a scaredy cat when it comes to surgery like big time fear so yeah I admire you ladies right back.

I wore a cleavage enhancing dress today and noticed I got a few stares and one guy comes up to me and says "you have pretty........hair" lol.

Spicecake
05-25-2017, 06:38 PM
I've missed the gym for the last two weeks because of finals. I need to get back to my 3 days a week routine but I've lost so much weight I've lost my little booty thinking of trying a weight gainer because I have no appetite.

Elektra Luxx
05-26-2017, 12:04 AM
tick-tock ^ tick-tock

I had a jerk slip in a $100 Counterfeit bill before. That's why I always ask the new customer go to the bathroom to fresh up first /leave the money there. When he's out, I will go inside and check it, and come out all sexy. :)


Good tip.

That is a good tip.

I've had clients try to short me and play innocent. That's the worst because they think I'm that stupid. Anywhoo, I've never had one try to pass counterfeit money.

chanzep
05-26-2017, 12:41 AM
I met up with some vanilla friends today who I used to work with, I had fun and one of them has some scandal going on so no one was interested in what "bar" I had been working in great. If only we can not eat/drink so much.

Vyanka
05-26-2017, 06:11 AM
So I decided to join a dating site. It doesn't specify how tall the men are. Ok, idk... i haven't joined a dating site in years.

I'm scared my shallowness will show by asking how tall they are.

baer45
05-26-2017, 08:47 AM
That is a good tip.

I've had clients try to short me and play innocent. That's the worst because they think I'm that stupid. Anywhoo, I've never had one try to pass counterfeit money.

NVM, good luck with your party

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2017, 09:25 AM
So I decided to join a dating site. It doesn't specify how tall the men are. Ok, idk... i haven't joined a dating site in years.

I'm scared my shallowness will show by asking how tall they are.

It's not shallow. The men do the same thing to us checking for our weight, butt, and boob size.

Good luck with your online dating ventures. I used match last year but I didn't do online dating properly. I'm considering doing it again this summer but prob going to use e harmony.

Elektra Luxx
05-26-2017, 01:02 PM
I don't want to do anything today. I just want to go home after work and sleep the weekend away. But I have a family birthday party out of town and I said I would be there and other members of my immediate family are not going and I'm suppose to represent. Arrrrrgggh!!!!! I hate family politics!!!

JGB2009
05-27-2017, 06:30 AM
Summer is here. Well kind of right? My son is out of school and my 4 year old starts swim lessons again next week. I am gonna start camming again but I am having a hard time staying awake during those times. Now I have to retrain myself uhggggg. Wish me luck....

SimoneGray
05-27-2017, 11:04 AM
I wish I was better at flirting...when I was in my early 20's I could do it right up there with the best of them. Then I became really insistent on being genuine, so I could get rid of all these guys who started dating me and got dissatisfied at who I was. So I stopped flirting, because while doing it I always felt like I had to run game somehow etc. Now though...I realise it is necessary, but like, how does one do it without misrepresenting oneself? Because I find I'm not particularly exciting, but I feel like when I flirt I have to seem like I am. That's not the version of me though that I want to put out there. I want to make sure that whoever gets involved with me knows exactly what/who I am and that the reason they are there is because of that.

Vyanka
05-27-2017, 12:09 PM
It's not shallow. The men do the same thing to us checking for our weight, butt, and boob size.

Good luck with your online dating ventures. I used match last year but I didn't do online dating properly. I'm considering doing it again this summer but prob going to use e harmony.


I just love me some tall ass men. The taller, the better. Someone has got to protect this pint sized princess. :-P

snakesandmonkeys
05-27-2017, 07:10 PM
Just spent the most hellish day in the ER trying to be there for a friend. He has had rheumatoid arthritis since he was a baby, is legitimately handicapped and lives most of his life in pain. But, I sat next to him for 6 hours while he yelled at everyone who crossed his path, me included, at the hospital I work at, only to see him rip his iv out and leave AMA. He then broke down in the parking lot talking about how much he wants to die and then drove off. I feel like I've been run over by a mac truck and he just now sends me a text, "I'm feeling better, I feel bad about today, thank you for being there" which is as close to an apology as I'm gonna get.
I know this is what I get for being the female version of captain save a hoe, and being drawn to broken people, but damn. I don't think I have another day like that one in me for this kid.

charlie61
05-28-2017, 12:38 PM
So I decided to join a dating site. It doesn't specify how tall the men are. Ok, idk... i haven't joined a dating site in years.

I'm scared my shallowness will show by asking how tall they are.

Could we start a thread on online dating? I'm considering doing the same.

Glamourmilf
05-29-2017, 10:46 AM
I don't know why Starbucks and all food drive thru places NEVER get my order right.
I've been to several in 5 different cities in the last 3 years.
I even go inside to order and it's still the same mess.
Who's training these idiots?
I'm done. It's too much of a hassle, and too overpriced anyway.:(
48146

DonaDiabla
05-29-2017, 04:08 PM
Sorry but it is necessary for all of these cam sites to pop up? I mean I am all for fresh meat in the camming world but it just seem like these new sites are ran by the same type of people. People without any marketing or advertising experience hoping the cam site bandwagon. People who lack adult experience. Then they expect us to bring in traffic and stuff. CamSuzane taught me to wait until these cam sites are more established before hoping on them. Just saying :)

JGB2009
05-29-2017, 10:04 PM
Best friends...what are those? My best friend of almost 9 years I just blocked on facebook!!! Goodbye and have a nice life!!!!

chanzep
05-29-2017, 10:40 PM
I would text her. maybe it was a accident.

Aurora_Sunset
05-30-2017, 07:18 AM
I got into a conversation with a friend yesterday about a mutual friend who has been pining after me for years. Apparently, he finally got through to him that we would never date and that he wouldn't want to date me, because he's not seeing me as I actually am as a romantic partner, he's been pining after a fantasy version of me. He's the kind of guy who wants to be with his partner every day, all the time, would constantly be paranoid that I'm cheating on him because of his ex, and is SUPER anti-non monogamy in anyway. I need tons of alone time, can't stand paranoid insecurity, and he would never be ok with dating a sex worker. But I've never shared my job with him, so I never knew how to impress that upon him. Our friend finally worded everything in a way that apparently finally made him understand enough of the basics.

I was grateful, but then he went on to tell me that it was my own fault for continuing to hang out with him and accept things from him, like show tickets and extravagant gifts. I said that was bullshit because I had been completely forthcoming, many times, with said guy that we were not dating, I was not interested in dating him, and I was not going to change my mind. I never asked for anything he gave me, and I offered several times to pay my own way to anything we did together. If he was going to insist on doing things for me, under some delusion that he was going to "buy" my affection, that's his own dumbass fault.

But idk, over the course of the conversation, I admitted that I knew that he was trying to buy my affection, and I knew that every time I even entertained accepting anything from him that he thought he still had a chance and that it hurt his feelings when nothing would come of it. I just didn't care. I didn't care because I had been clear with my intentions toward him and I was angry at him for not listening. I was angry at him for constantly projecting his fantasy bullshit onto me instead of seeing the real me and accepting that I was not there to heal his broken heart by being what he wanted me to be. I was insulted and angry at the idea that he seriously thought he could "buy" me through gifts. Not giving a shit if he continued to labor under some delusion when I would accept things from him was like a form of revenge for the fact that he was objectifying and not listening to me. I admitted that to my friend and he said "So you were both being bad friends. I think it's hard for sex workers to separate personal life from how they use men at work. You were essentially enacting asshole tax on him for being a bad "customer"/friend."

I don't know about all that... I still don't feel bad. I don't know if that was his goal with that comment. Like I said, I never asked for any of it - I just didn't turn it down. But I wonder if he has a point. Though I don't think it's a "sex worker exclusive" thing. I think a lot of vanilla women also enact some form of "asshole tax" on men in everyday life who do this same shit to them, - they just don't have a phrase it for it.

Vyanka
05-30-2017, 04:10 PM
Could we start a thread on online dating? I'm considering doing the same.

Meh. Go for it. I already lost interest. Lol.

Bunch of frauds. I don't have time for that shit. Sorry... this one dude i was suppose to see annoyed me. Just deleted my profile.

seashell
05-30-2017, 04:31 PM
I just had pad thai from a legit Thai restaurant, and it was freaking amazing. omg. Where has this been all my life.

baer45
05-30-2017, 07:29 PM
I just had pad thai from a legit Thai restaurant, and it was freaking amazing. omg. Where has this been all my life.

Seafood or chicken?

seashell
05-30-2017, 09:53 PM
Seafood or chicken?

Tofu :) I want to try seafood next time!

baer45
05-31-2017, 05:42 AM
Tofu :) I want to try seafood next time!

You won't regret it. I love seafood pad Thai. And if you like spicy food, you should try another dish called "Pad Kee Mao".

Elektra Luxx
05-31-2017, 06:24 AM
You won't regret it. I love seafood pad Thai. And if you like spicy food, you should try another dish called "Pad Kee Mao".

Anyone like "guy hung lo"?

baer45
05-31-2017, 06:45 AM
Anyone like "guy hung lo"? Do you?:optimist:

Elektra Luxx
05-31-2017, 04:12 PM
Do you?:optimist:


Uhmm....

JaceyLynn
05-31-2017, 07:10 PM
I really wish my sister would just fuck the fuck off already!!

JGB2009
06-01-2017, 06:28 AM
I would text her. maybe it was a accident.

Its all sorted now. LOL all is good :)

JGB2009
06-01-2017, 06:33 AM
I was gonna work one hour this morning with my phone job. That turned into a no after the kids started being loud and the dog decided she wanted to bark. Camming tonight it is then when everyone is sound to sleep.

lilylilylily
06-01-2017, 01:05 PM
Talking to people on the phone really drains me

baer45
06-01-2017, 07:00 PM
I love tape face.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YlaWGd1cUms

chanzep
06-01-2017, 07:06 PM
I am happy that my body clock is getting off the club hours. I cant ever imagine being a 6 am person but 9am feels better.

xStacey
06-02-2017, 12:59 AM
I love taking the train in Italy! So clean, comfortable, huge windows, the landscape is beautiful and a lot of space with a desk to work during the ride, quiet and not bumpy. I was also reading Atlas shrugged by Ayn Rand in the plane so I really have a thing for trains lately LOL

baer45
06-02-2017, 08:27 AM
I love taking the train in Italy! So clean, comfortable, huge windows, the landscape is beautiful and a lot of space with a desk to work during the ride, quiet and not bumpy. I was also reading Atlas shrugged by Ayn Rand in the plane so I really have a thing for trains lately LOL

Be careful, if you buy your ticket at station, you need to check in before you board. There are some machines for that at the end of platform. Do Not Forget That! They will fine you $70 if you don't do it!
If you purchase it online, you can avoid all these trouble.
I have seen many foreigners got screwed by this. It was stated on the back of the ticket with the smallest print as possible.

Elektra Luxx
06-02-2017, 02:12 PM
I'm going to the beach with family this weekend for some sun and fun. Last week I went to the lake for a family birthday party. Me and my sister were trying to keep up the alcohol consumption with my cousin who's in the Army. She about 5 foot and 98 pound drank us under the table. I had to be carried to my room.

carmen_b
06-02-2017, 04:17 PM
Wow, May was such a shit show for Vanilla earnings. I don't want to even add up the monthly total !

There is hope though ..... I got a call a couple days ago and this sale may close today or tomorrow. It's a good sized one ( $1750 - $2,000 commission ) so it would save a very lean looking month. Fingers Crossed.

carmen_b
06-02-2017, 04:20 PM
It sounds AMAZING . Please take some pictures and add your favorite towns to the Nomadic Thread !!
I love taking the train in Italy! So clean, comfortable, huge windows, the landscape is beautiful and a lot of space with a desk to work during the ride, quiet and not bumpy. I was also reading Atlas shrugged by Ayn Rand in the plane so I really have a thing for trains lately LOL

seashell
06-02-2017, 05:42 PM
The only thing making me want to go into work today is my new gold stripper shoes.

Aurora_Sunset
06-02-2017, 08:40 PM
Martinis are amazing. You're basically sipping 2 shots of straight alcohol. Drinking two can keep you entertained for a couple of hours, consuming a decent amount of liquor, getting you nice and buzzed without the sugary mixers or heavy beer feeling, and only about 200 calories (or less) per drink. And then you get to eat olives at the end. I am now pretty convinced that this is precisely why they are the stereotypical drink of alcoholic trophy wives.