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LoveyDovey
10-07-2017, 07:08 PM
^^^ Yay!!!
Just took a walk on the boardwalk near my house. Why is it that every time I overhear a song, I imagine a really awesome pole routine to go with it?
Elektra Luxx
10-08-2017, 07:10 AM
Spending time with my brother today. He's into Japan and it's culture, so we're going to a Japan Fall Festival.
WendiStarr
10-08-2017, 08:13 AM
I've had an itchy nose, itchy throat, and been sneezing since I woke up. Allergy meds are not working and I took the 24 hour one so I can't take more. It's such a nice day out though that I'm going to go for a bike ride, sneezing attacks and all.
seashell
10-08-2017, 09:24 AM
I had the best pho today! It didn't come with any sauce to add in (like sriracha) but it had some misleadingly small red peppers, and OMG they packed a punch... it was like putting a few tablespoons of sriracha into the soup. MMM :D
Elektra Luxx
10-08-2017, 04:44 PM
Spending time with my brother today. He's into Japan and it's culture, so we're going to a Japan Fall Festival.
Went to the Japan Fall Festival just me and my brother. No bf. Flirt O'Rama!!! Japanese guys, so cute!!!
DonaDiabla
10-08-2017, 06:18 PM
I just love Autumn and Halloween season :)
whirlerz
10-08-2017, 06:24 PM
I just love Autumn and Halloween season :)
OMG! IKR? I just now posted in Lounge about Halloween, dressing up, & haunted house..
I love the season, the leaves, pumpkin flavor stuff, all of it!
There's a bar in my area, they show The Exorcist on their heated outdoor patio!
JGB2009
10-08-2017, 07:12 PM
Who wants to give me some duct tape to help keep my eye lids open.......must stay up for a few hours at least.
baer45
10-08-2017, 07:24 PM
I don't understand why men like to drink Scotch. I had my first taste of Scotch today, Macallan 18, freaking expensive, but I felt i was drinking rubbing alcohol.
Elektra Luxx
10-09-2017, 12:38 PM
I took the day off and allergies are killing me. Runny nose, puffy, itchy eyes and sinus pressure.
baer45
10-09-2017, 12:53 PM
I took the day off and allergies are killing me. Runny nose, puffy, itchy eyes and sinus pressure.
I hope you feel better soon sweetie.
lilylilylily
10-09-2017, 02:33 PM
I read up on which fruits are ok to buy non organic cuz the grocery stores near me don't sell organic frozen fruit for my smoothies. Pineapple and mango are fine and I heard they make your lady parts smell amazing too so that's a bonus
Aurora_Sunset
10-09-2017, 09:53 PM
It's almost 1am and I decided I'm gonna spend almost an hour making a baked potato for dinner. Cuz fuck it, that's what I want.
Vyanka
10-09-2017, 10:25 PM
I just love Autumn and Halloween season :)
Ditto. But I feel like the east coast won't even have fall weather. :( It is hot.
Elektra Luxx
10-10-2017, 02:54 AM
I took the day off and allergies are killing me. Runny nose, puffy, itchy eyes and sinus pressure.
Stayed home. Allergies bad. Don't think I'm going to make it. Remember all the good..times...we....had.......togeth............^_ ______^_________________(suppose to be a flatline)
WendiStarr
10-10-2017, 11:15 AM
Ok, I am totally perplexed as to how this happened but a check that I've been waiting on finally came in the mail today. That was fine and dandy until I realized that somehow someone else's check was enclosed in the envelope with mine. At first I thought they had sent me two checks and was wondering why, until I looked at it more closely and realized that one of them is mine and the other is some out-of-state stranger's. I have no idea how that even happened because I am in Michigan and this person's address clearly shows a Chicago, Illinois address. I am going to mail the check out to this person and hope that it reaches her and that she doesn't think that it's junk mail. I don't think that I want to put my return address on it, just in case this person thinks that I'm some weirdo stealing random mail. I have no clue why or how her check was enclosed in with mine. This is weird.
baer45
10-10-2017, 02:46 PM
Stayed home. Allergies bad. Don't think I'm going to make it. Remember all the good..times...we....had.......togeth............^_ ______^_________________(suppose to be a flatline)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDcuRgk-JEI
JGB2009
10-10-2017, 04:09 PM
Blahhhh I so need some excitement!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
seashell
10-10-2017, 04:42 PM
Ok, I am totally perplexed as to how this happened but a check that I've been waiting on finally came in the mail today. That was fine and dandy until I realized that somehow someone else's check was enclosed in the envelope with mine. At first I thought they had sent me two checks and was wondering why, until I looked at it more closely and realized that one of them is mine and the other is some out-of-state stranger's. I have no idea how that even happened because I am in Michigan and this person's address clearly shows a Chicago, Illinois address. I am going to mail the check out to this person and hope that it reaches her and that she doesn't think that it's junk mail. I don't think that I want to put my return address on it, just in case this person thinks that I'm some weirdo stealing random mail. I have no clue why or how her check was enclosed in with mine. This is weird.
I bet whoever was doing the payroll was rushing to get them mailed out, and made a mistake. It definitely shouldn't happen, but the process of inserting checks into envelopes is tedious, and it just takes one wrong move to screw it up. I used to work in a corporate office, and the people handling your money are not always as "put together" as one might hope!
whirlerz
10-10-2017, 06:31 PM
Wendi, gimme my damn check, girl! *joking*
For anyone w/allergies, get Sinus Plumber off Amazon.
Also, I use w/that Ocean saline nasal spray to keep passages clear, I use that 1st, then follow w/Sinus Plumber.
For eyes, I use separate allergy eye drops, but it affects my sinuses more
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-10-2017, 06:51 PM
Great news... I'm not dying. I am having a bout of viral flu instead.
whirlerz
10-10-2017, 07:01 PM
Ooh, hope you feel better soon!
I got my flu shot early this year as I heard it's going around.
WendiStarr
10-10-2017, 09:09 PM
Great news... I'm not dying. I am having a bout of viral flu instead.
Hope you feel better soon!
WendiStarr
10-10-2017, 09:13 PM
My daughter apparently must've caught stomach flu. Poor girl finally fell asleep. I should probably be sleeping too. I'm not sick but gotta keep my energy up in case she wakes up and needs me.
MissMoore
10-10-2017, 09:30 PM
The guy I was starting to get to know on a more personal level.... UGH...... I do not foresee things ever taking off the ground now. On multiple occasions he brings up other chicks with an attribute I really don't possess..... I am already riddled with insecurities.... I don't need be attached to someone who deep down always makes me really question if I'm good enough physically and will be pining away for that "specific type". I honestly just want to text him to just to fuck with girls who have all the features he is looking for. What kind of dummy asks the woman they're trying to take out "so what do u think of so and sos ass? " WTF. In the past I was going to get the surgery but it isn't presently on the agenda..... but still..... all I feel like that is a round about way of telling me he doesn't really like my body. Really upset about this.
amberlly
10-11-2017, 01:14 AM
The guy I was starting to get to know on a more personal level.... UGH...... I do not foresee things ever taking off the ground now. On multiple occasions he brings up other chicks with an attribute I really don't possess..... I am already riddled with insecurities.... I don't need be attached to someone who deep down always makes me really question if I'm good enough physically and will be pining away for that "specific type". I honestly just want to text him to just to fuck with girls who have all the features he is looking for. What kind of dummy asks the woman they're trying to take out "so what do u think of so and sos ass? " WTF. In the past I was going to get the surgery but it isn't presently on the agenda..... but still..... all I feel like that is a round about way of telling me he doesn't really like my body. Really upset about this.
What a jerk.
MissMoore
10-11-2017, 03:55 AM
What a jerk.
Yeah. Pretty much how I’m feeling. He tells me I’m super beautiful and all this other shit but brings up other girls. Guess I can’t be that beautiful or interesting when he brings up other girls. I know some guys are dumb but I just don’t have the patience. Just sounds like a load of bull shit that I can’t grin and bear from someone who isn’t a client.
seashell
10-11-2017, 05:52 AM
Yeah. Pretty much how I’m feeling. He tells me I’m super beautiful and all this other shit but brings up other girls. Guess I can’t be that beautiful or interesting when he brings up other girls. I know some guys are dumb but I just don’t have the patience. Just sounds like a load of bull shit that I can’t grin and bear from someone who isn’t a client.
Yeah, not worth it. I think that kind of behavior is dehumanizing and objectifying. He either doesn't understand your feelings, or gets a kick out of making you feel insecure. A good guy won't do that to you.
My random thought... I've been putting salt, black pepper, and crushed red peppers inside my sandwiches... and it is sooo good! lol
WendiStarr
10-11-2017, 08:40 AM
The guy I was starting to get to know on a more personal level.... UGH...... I do not foresee things ever taking off the ground now. On multiple occasions he brings up other chicks with an attribute I really don't possess..... I am already riddled with insecurities.... I don't need be attached to someone who deep down always makes me really question if I'm good enough physically and will be pining away for that "specific type". I honestly just want to text him to just to fuck with girls who have all the features he is looking for. What kind of dummy asks the woman they're trying to take out "so what do u think of so and sos ass? " WTF. In the past I was going to get the surgery but it isn't presently on the agenda..... but still..... all I feel like that is a round about way of telling me he doesn't really like my body. Really upset about this.
I think that you can do better than this guy. He brings up other chicks because he's probably fucking them since they have whatever trait that he perceives to be "desireable" or "ideal". I am sure that you are beautiful as you are. He is clearly a superficial jerk and he will only make you feel more insecure and miserable about yourself, trust me. I've been with that type before and they will continue to sleep with the other women, while belittling you for not having that trait. Even if they had the ideal big booty/big tits/big whatever characteristic, he'd still be chasing other women with that trait because guys like that are often never satisfied with what they have. always looking for someone that they think is "better". He sounds like a shallow, immature, asshole. Get rid of that jerk!
lilylilylily
10-11-2017, 08:58 AM
I had a customer who would bring up other chicks in the club to try to make me jealous and would try to get a reaction from me. Always complimented them, asked if I would mind if he took them for dances etc. I would tell him "go ahead" and that wld bother him.Maybe he's just trying to make you jealous?
MissMoore
10-11-2017, 10:40 AM
Yeah... he says he wants to date me me but during our conversation I mention something about Eastern European chicks and he says he has a thing for them. I let that one slide. I had just randomly asked him if he had like any celebrity crushes and he said this beautiful porn star. I had agreed she was super hot but he keeps bringing her up. I literally just want to scream to book her ( and honestly not in a shitty or cunty way either cuz she escorts on the side too). Then he asks me if I want to go running... I was like enough!!! This guy hasn’t even fucked me yet and he seems bored!!! Wtf
I think I’m just going to tell him his words ring hollow when he tells me how beautiful he thinks I am yet in the same conversation says he has a thing for EE women and asks me what I think of another women’s ass and where I stand on doing an ass aug. rofl I don’t think I’m over reacting. If he contacts me again I think I’m going to tell him exactly how I feel. How can He say I’m in the most beautiful woman to you yet even think about another chick while we’re speaking? Bringing up another chick just negates whatever he said about me being so great.
If this guy had never been generous with me I would have screamed fuck off and book her! Lol however he has been generous with me. I don’t even know if I want to explain this to him. It just sounds like he wants a lot of woman but really enjoying his company or gifts I don’t think it’s worth it to continue. I think I’m just going always to be really insecure about it... and tbh im scared to get my butt done!! So many girls die it’s seems like.
WendiStarr
10-11-2017, 12:31 PM
^ Don't stay with someone who makes you feel insecure. With guys like that even if you did have a big butt, he'd probably still find a way to make you inadequate. The problem isn't you. It's him. He likely enjoys making others feel inadequate and low about themselves, because deep down he feels that way about himself. Misery loves company. As far as the surgery goes, some people do die. That is true of any surgery, whether it's emergency surgery or plastic surgery. The fear of possible death during surgery is common. I had that fear myself before I got my boobs done. It's a risk that you take and hope for the best. Have you looked into non-surgical alternatives? I'm not blessed in the booty department so I don't know but I do know people who have grown a bigger butt from doing squats religiously.
MissMoore
10-11-2017, 01:37 PM
^ Don't stay with someone who makes you feel insecure. With guys like that even if you did have a big butt, he'd probably still find a way to make you inadequate. The problem isn't you. It's him. He likely enjoys making others feel inadequate and low about themselves, because deep down he feels that way about himself. Misery loves company. As far as the surgery goes, some people do die. That is true of any surgery, whether it's emergency surgery or plastic surgery. The fear of possible death during surgery is common. I had that fear myself before I got my boobs done. It's a risk that you take and hope for the best. Have you looked into non-surgical alternatives? I'm not blessed in the booty department so I don't know but I do know people who have grown a bigger butt from doing squats religiously.
Yeah..... it sucks but it was so easy at first and I liked to talking to him BUT I make good money on my own.... he isn't doing anything I can't do for myself. I'll tell him and slowly ghost out. Wendi, you're exactly right. I get the feeling he will NEVER be satisfied with anyone even the porn star he talks about. I bet he could have her and then if I wasn't available he be trying to get with me or talking about me.... just how some guys are.
As far as the surgery.... I've had two BAs but I think I'm going to have to go to Miami for the BBL. It just seems like there are SO many deaths down there. ;/... but idk if it's just a numbers game at this point since the plastic surgery numbers are sky high. I had booked with a surgeon in my area however he gave me weird vibes like he fuck my body up. His bedside manner did not put me at ease or else I think I would have had the surgery by now. I've done squats, deadlifts, lunges, heavy weights, etc. I have a nice butt I just don't have a that really big "POP" or projection in my ass. Even before I met this guy I wanted the surgery so it's not like " I'm going to get it down because of him!" If anything if I get this done I will still be forever resentful of this dude for being such a nasty prick about it. I just don't feel like the total package without it.... so if that dude hits me up I'm also going to tell him I don't have time to talk because I'm working on getting the money up to travel for this little adventure.
amberlly
10-12-2017, 10:16 AM
I think that you can do better than this guy. He brings up other chicks because he's probably fucking them since they have whatever trait that he perceives to be "desireable" or "ideal". I am sure that you are beautiful as you are. He is clearly a superficial jerk and he will only make you feel more insecure and miserable about yourself, trust me. I've been with that type before and they will continue to sleep with the other women, while belittling you for not having that trait. Even if they had the ideal big booty/big tits/big whatever characteristic, he'd still be chasing other women with that trait because guys like that are often never satisfied with what they have. always looking for someone that they think is "better". He sounds like a shallow, immature, asshole. Get rid of that jerk!
Agreed. 100% life's too short for those types
I bet you are gorgeous either way. I know nothing about bbls so can't comment but seriously people who criticise others bodies usually have Major issues themselves.
Personally I've now decided to walk at the first sign of any teasing or criticism on a date that doesn't stop at the first warning. It never changes. Life's too short. We are made to be adored. Or well paid. Xxx
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-12-2017, 06:24 PM
Eeeeeew oh my God the worst thing happened today. I ran into a former client who is enfatuated with me. He works at an Asian restaurant even though he is white. I realized he is using the restaurant job to be near Asian women (he has that fetish. I look Eurasian to some so that's why he bothered me for a long time.) This experience made me realize that he is not as pathetic as I thought. He obviously is more calculating than I thought .......I'm glad I got this insight into the world of a sexual stalker but ughhhhh.
carmen_b
10-12-2017, 07:53 PM
From your photo, this is very odd he would do this. It might be some weird strategy he is trying so you'll " prove " your sexiness or something.
I would bail personally ( and have before ) on something like this .
The guy I was starting to get to know on a more personal level.... UGH...... I do not foresee things ever taking off the ground now. On multiple occasions he brings up other chicks with an attribute I really don't possess..... I am already riddled with insecurities.... I don't need be attached to someone who deep down always makes me really question if I'm good enough physically and will be pining away for that "specific type". I honestly just want to text him to just to fuck with girls who have all the features he is looking for. What kind of dummy asks the woman they're trying to take out "so what do u think of so and sos ass? " WTF. In the past I was going to get the surgery but it isn't presently on the agenda..... but still..... all I feel like that is a round about way of telling me he doesn't really like my body. Really upset about this.
Elektra Luxx
10-13-2017, 05:50 AM
Going to see doctor this morning. I've been losing my balance, but I'm not dizzy.
JessaJade
10-13-2017, 10:44 AM
I joined a foodie meetup group and am feeling judged for not being as fat as some of the longterm members.
Aurora_Sunset
10-13-2017, 06:33 PM
Why do horror movies always depict kids and teenagers as just being murderous little psychopaths with no conscience whatsoever? Like, there's a difference between brutal bullying and just straight up killing someone. I think most children/young adults can tell the difference and wouldn't take it that far.
I know it's a stupid thing to criticize about horror movies, but they do this ALL the time. It's such a trope. Oh, there's a kid/teenager as the main character? Oh, that kid got bullied and it almost killed them/killed them/turned them into a vengeful killer? Well, wasn't just bullying - these peers straight up just DIDN'T GIVE A SHIT that they were fucking killing someone/close to killing someone. Who is writing the scripts about these young characters? Can we have something more original than just taking it as some sort of "given" that children just have no concept of right or wrong or the line between being a bitch and a fucking murderer? lol
Elektra Luxx
10-13-2017, 10:53 PM
Going to see doctor this morning. I've been losing my balance, but I'm not dizzy.
Doctor adjusting meds I'm taking for impulse control and anxiety. I'm also getting a weird reflex reaction again. I'm lying down and I feel like my brain is signaling my body to flinch. Like my body is reacting to a jump scare. I even get the fear sensation too.
Plus, gained 2 pounds. I knew it wouldn't last. My body is not use to being that thin. Do ya'll remember the last pic I posted, I was rail thin. I think I'm going to have accept having being heavier.
Plus, plus, I got to spend time with my little niece today.
Glamourmilf
10-14-2017, 06:58 AM
While waiting for my Starbucks coffee, ( the kiosk is inside the supermarket).
This beatch walks by and quickly grabs a handful of straws and puts them in her bag.:O
Really??
Straws are like $2 for a hundred of them in the market.
I didn't want to be a narc, but I knew the market had cameras, and didn't want to be a silent witness.. So I told the Starbucks waitress what had happened.
She said that it happens all the time.
Geesh.
What a cleptomaniac.
WendiStarr
10-14-2017, 07:05 AM
^ Smh. Sounds like my aunt. She steals straws, napkins, packets of ketchup, plastic silverware, even the cheap toilet paper from restaurants. Embarrassing.
carmen_b
10-14-2017, 10:16 AM
Yeah for cooler weather and not having to wash your hair everyday ( shopping for dry shampoo today ). :)
JGB2009
10-14-2017, 11:48 AM
I never know how to break up with people....I'm just not good at it!!!
Elektra Luxx
10-15-2017, 03:30 AM
I like 2% milk.
BarbieNYC
10-15-2017, 12:42 PM
I've been watching Charmed and I am digging Alyssa Milano and Shannen Doherty Season 1 hair. I love 90s short hair. I could never pull it off though but it's nice to see it on pretty ladies
Edit* not digging 90s hairstyles for men lol
Just had to get this out.
Alyssa Milano Season 3 brassy blonde is no good D:
Blonde shades are very iffy depending on skin tone and that blonde does not suit her yikes.
Holly marie combs bangs were always greasy and bugging me, but now that they took away her bangs i miss them lol. She looks a lot older without bangs.
Shannen Doherty hasn't done me wrong in the hair department yet. We shall see lol
JGB2009
10-15-2017, 04:09 PM
My heart is so numb.................life goes on.
WendiStarr
10-15-2017, 06:38 PM
Vagina dentata. I ended up on the weird part of the internet thanks to that movie called Teeth.
lilylilylily
10-15-2017, 09:50 PM
Wow. Just saw in the news this chick I used to work with at a vanilla job over 10 years ago is in a lot of trouble for running a scamming operation, she robbed people of over $30.000 and most people she scammed were her close friends and family. I hope she gets thrown in the slammer. She was such a bitch to me when I worked with her.Was shocked to see her mug shot in the news. She's a lot fatter now but I still recognized her face
Selina M
10-16-2017, 12:28 AM
It's after midnight & the next door neighbor was going OFF. Like full on screaming and cursing out some guy who was digging through the dumpster. I came out to see and then we had a nice little bitch fest about how shitty the management is here and all the lame residents.
It was pretty hilarious to be like "Hey! We hate all the same people!" cause sometimes I feel like I'm a loony for seething so much at people parking like douches and leaving their trash on the stairwell. #vindication