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baer45
10-25-2017, 01:02 PM
Probably partially from medication. It's very sad. She has severe mental health issues. Iirc her parents had her conserved.
I love her movies. She's a good actress.
JGB2009
10-25-2017, 01:36 PM
I know it was posted somewhere on the message board here, but I can't find it. What is the name for the online counseling website that is free? Anyone know please? ~Thanks
Aurora_Sunset
10-25-2017, 02:28 PM
I know it was posted somewhere on the message board here, but I can't find it. What is the name for the online counseling website that is free? Anyone know please? ~Thanks
Are you thinking of 7 cups of tea?
JGB2009
10-25-2017, 03:02 PM
Are you thinking of 7 cups of tea?
I think so, but I see where they charge now. Is there anything else?
whirlerz
10-25-2017, 03:10 PM
I think so, but I see where they charge now. Is there anything else?
You know, there is..can you do a search on Tumblr, also check out http://www.onlinecounselingcollege, http://www.psych2go.net
whirlerz
10-25-2017, 03:19 PM
Depression hotline: 630 482-9696
Suicide hotline: 800 784-8433
Still working..
whirlerz
10-25-2017, 03:22 PM
Lifeline: 1800 273-8255
Rape & Sexual Assault Support 800-656-4673
Sexuality Support 800-246-7743
Are U in the US?
JGB2009
10-25-2017, 06:00 PM
Lifeline: 1800 273-8255
Rape & Sexual Assault Support 800-656-4673
Sexuality Support 800-246-7743
Are U in the US?
Yes I am
whirlerz
10-25-2017, 06:23 PM
Grief Support: 650-321-5272
Trevor Project: 866-488-7386
Eating Disorder hotline: 846-831-3438
Transgender Suicide hotline: 877-565-8860
http://imalive.org
WendiStarr
10-26-2017, 05:02 PM
I need some real dick so bad but I can't even right now. Men are pissing me off something fierce. When will they come out with more realistic feeling toys?
lilylilylily
10-26-2017, 06:40 PM
Yesterday it was a lot of fun chit chatting to dudes on the dating site but today I'm totally not into it. Feels like a chore to have to make convo. Its always like that
JGB2009
10-27-2017, 08:46 AM
Even though I don't wanna do it, I am about to exercise in a few minutes.
carmen_b
10-27-2017, 09:04 AM
JGB : the university of Phoenix has free ( in person ) counseling from their grad students in case one is near you.
Elektra Luxx
10-27-2017, 01:52 PM
I'm spending the weekend with my younger brother because bf is still pissed at me.
lilylilylily
10-27-2017, 01:53 PM
When dudes ask, 'why are you on a dating site?You don't need to be here' Same reason you're here, buddy. Starting to get annoyed lol
Aurora_Sunset
10-27-2017, 02:22 PM
When dudes ask, 'why are you on a dating site?You don't need to be here' Same reason you're here, buddy. Starting to get annoyed lol
You should respond with "Soo... the implication is that no one who would need to use a dating site would be here... so, what's wrong with you that you have to be on here?"
Elektra Luxx
10-27-2017, 02:58 PM
I hate fighting with bf on weekends because then I'm alone and I hate being alone.
baer45
10-27-2017, 03:47 PM
I hate fighting with bf on weekends because then I'm alone and I hate being alone.
Hate being alone is not a good reason to be with someone...but I hope things work out for you and your bf.
lilylilylily
10-27-2017, 04:02 PM
My mom received a letter addressed to my dad who died 4 years ago, it was an ad for an eyeglass store. Maybe it's a sign that he's watching over her
JGB2009
10-27-2017, 06:51 PM
I just came back from shopping for my sons birthday. He's hard to buy for. Any who I enjoyed the ride on the interstate. I love driving like that at night. I went to drive by the lake close to my house, but the moon wasn't out, so I could not really see anything. Tomorrow I will be picking up my sons cake. He likes sports so it is done in a basketball theme. I feel kind of refreshed so I will be taking a shower and will be getting on cam soon.
WendiStarr
10-27-2017, 06:59 PM
^ Aww, I hope he has a good birthday!
baer45
10-27-2017, 11:12 PM
bwtween 1 - 100, pick a number...
SimoneGray
10-29-2017, 03:20 AM
No matter where in the world I travel to, literally nothing can beat the charm of eggs, bacon and fried tomatoes for breakfast. It's like the one meal that is great everywhere, no matter where I go, I've never encountered an establishment that has managed to fuck it up. Don't get me wrong, when I travel its all about trying new foods and things, I just find it kinda cool how this particular meal has always been good, no matter where I've had it.
JGB2009
10-29-2017, 04:17 AM
I woke up feeling kind of tense. Maybe I was thinking in my sleep? In about 3 hours I am going to take my dog to the dog park. She is gonna love that and its gonna be so much fun to watch :-)
DonaDiabla
10-29-2017, 04:10 PM
Personally, I believe that Tori Amos is getting hotter and hotter with age. :)
Selina M
10-29-2017, 05:48 PM
Ya know what's ironic? Poker night.
There's 3 girls that play, but one is that 50 y/o chain smoking waitress type, the other is her daughter who's a tomboy, and the last one is someone's gf who is also such a tomboy she may as well be a guy. Basically, none of the cute girls are invited.
They have an 8th seat that 'wobbles'. My SO pushed for me to get it, so I played a few times.
The one guy (whose gf plays) is such a whiny fucking crybaby when he loses. Like, the gf took all his money one night and he didn't speak to her for a full day. He whines and talks shit about whoever beat him and sulks for an hour after. He seems to really hate losing to me.
Last time I played, he got on my nerves. Kept narrating what I *probably* had and scaring everyone out of whatever hand I went in on.
So he's in against someone, and they bluff him out when he's already put a HUGE stack in. They showed their cards. He lost his fucking mind and had a temper tantrum, almost flipped the table over.
I was done with his crap and said something like "Jesus Christ, it's just a poker game, if you can't handle losing a hand you shouldn't play".
He got really pissed off and didn't speak to anyone all night, and later my SO got an earful about what I said. The 8th seat has been conveniently 'full' ever since.
TL;DR The irony of poker night: It's treated as "boys night" but when I called a guy out for acting how they think women act, I get uninvited.
What a whiny little bitch.
JGB2009
10-29-2017, 06:58 PM
Life turns out really weird.......things can change so fast and then everything is so different.....................
chanzep
10-29-2017, 09:22 PM
So now I have finally worked my fake vanilla job.
carmen_b
10-29-2017, 10:20 PM
Feeling " meh " again about the idea of traveling alone here and there over the winter instead of with my partner.
I'm proud of him for making some career strides ( starting Monday, we will have an increase in income making life at home a lot more fun ).
At the same time though, I'm kind of sad about the lack of flexibility. I think that I really SO badly wanted him to get a digital job. ;/
carmen_b
10-29-2017, 10:27 PM
I added this small service bundle ( a smaller variation to our normal service ) in my vanilla business and I can't decide what to charge for it.
I closed one a couple weeks ago for $750 and I now I have a couple people who responded to my offer and I'm trying to sell it to for $995. I am so confused by it sometimes because I don't want to undercharge but I am just desperate for some consistency in earnings. I think I will stick my guns on these two new leads though and try to charge them $995. It's just a number I feel " better " about but on the other hand, the $750 person bought it within 24 hours. It's a weird service because I'm only onsite for 3 hours but I have to drive about 4.5 hours EACH WAY to get to the job. I think if I sell too many at the lower price I will start to regret it. ;(
~*SwanPrincess*~
10-30-2017, 12:04 AM
I thought getting a part time job would be a good idea since I'm getting a little older, but all its really done is made me feel like I'm wasting my time and made me "homesick" for the strip club.
WendiStarr
10-30-2017, 08:44 AM
I've been marketing towards vanilla house cleaning this week and so far I've been getting bombarded with,"Are you still available?" emails. Ugh, it's like seriously people, come on! I just posted my ad an hour ago. It's not likely that someone is going to post a vanilla ad for cleaning services and instantly be booked solid within the span of an hour. When I respond back with, "Hello. Yes, I'm still available. What day and time are you looking for to have me come clean for you?" I either get crickets or people wanting me to come clean their house right now when they live an hour or more away or asking if I can come clean their house at unreasonable times like 10pm. I feel like vanilla potential clients can be equally annoying as sw clients.
carmen_b
10-30-2017, 11:04 AM
^ UGH ! I completely FORGET about other businesses also having these same struggles!
I sometimes CRINGE even placing my massage ad ( that says " 3 hour notice minimum VERY clearly ) .
Has no one heard of scheduling ? People can be RUDE.
Just as a brainstorm , maybe you can list a price with 24-48 hours notice and then a very high premium price for same day ? This will spell it out in a way the customer understands.
People are so rude these days that the rare time I get someone offering 24 hours notice, I get paranoid and always think it's the cops.
seashell
10-30-2017, 11:41 AM
^It's true... vanilla work can be just as bad, if not worse, because of the lower pay and the way people think they can treat you.
My random thought... I spent forever today just laying in bed, daydreaming. Anyone else do that? I'm into creative writing and art, so I guess I have one of those brains that wanders. But I could literally sit alone by myself for hours, lost in an imaginary world.
JGB2009
10-30-2017, 04:49 PM
If you don't like what I say...then delete me......no love lost at all buddy!!!!!
ScarletKitten
10-30-2017, 04:54 PM
I really like Jennifer Lawrence alot. I think she's an amazing human being, sweet, funny, beautiful, cool, charming, just all around awesome chick!
baer45
10-30-2017, 07:04 PM
https://s1.postimg.org/8ar9ka7v1r/Mnf_DBUg.jpg
Having a little tummy is considered normal before.
WendiStarr
10-30-2017, 08:09 PM
^ Ha, my tummy looks like that when I sit like that, too. I don't think it was considered "normal", seeing as how she was labelled by some as "plus size", but it worked for her and helped people to see that the curvy hourglass shape is sexy too.
Selina M
10-31-2017, 02:47 AM
I know we all encounter shitty men regularly given the industry but there's a couple members who take the Men Are Pigs thing a bit far. You really can't paint an entire gender the same.
ScarletKitten
10-31-2017, 01:52 PM
^ Ha, my tummy looks like that when I sit like that, too. I don't think it was considered "normal", seeing as how she was labelled by some as "plus size", but it worked for her and helped people to see that the curvy hourglass shape is sexy too.
Marilyn Monroe is considered plus size?! She looks pretty slim to me! And honestly, doesn't everyone's tummy stick out a little like that while sitting? Unless you're freakin' anorexic or something.
WendiStarr
10-31-2017, 02:15 PM
^ She's not considered "plus size" by today's standards but back then, the sizing system was way different. She was actually the modern day equivalent of a size 4 or 6 which is not plus size at all. I've seen fat shamers using pictures of her when she was pregnant while referring to her as "plus size". Everything's so ass backwards. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, regardless of what size the label on her clothing says, imo. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. :)
LoveyDovey
10-31-2017, 03:05 PM
I had so much incredible morning sex that I have no energy for work. I may not go in. I heard it is slow and Idk about working Halloween night And I already had like 6 orgasms so now I am sleepy.
WendiStarr
10-31-2017, 07:33 PM
I didn't want to wear my glasses for pictures in my Halloween costume because I didn't want to totally ruin the old time saloon girl look. I should've at least put my glasses back on when reviewing pictures before posting. I had a partial nip slip in one of the pictures and didn't realize it until after posting it, which reminds me, I need to order more contact lenses.
SugarCookies
10-31-2017, 08:53 PM
Mixed feelings about going in to work. No idea what's going on either. Thought there was going to be tons of girls working like last Tuesday, but apparently only 6 showed up according to the roll call on the club's site. As for customers, I feel most people are probably with their kids, friends, at parties. I just stayed home in the end.
My husband is nagging me about getting a new vanilla job. lol. He wants me to keep up 2 jobs again so we can save more money. I have been keeping an eye out and have resumes ready. The job I quit earlier this month was so understaffed and stressful, I just don't want to go through that again.
JGB2009
11-01-2017, 04:03 AM
I wish I could just stay in bed all day.......of course I am up.....but still
BarbieNYC
11-01-2017, 08:33 AM
Law of attraction lol
I went to work last night cuz i had nothing else to do and on the drive there all i could think about was making money off one young cute guy. The universe sent me a hot barely 21 year old who came up to me for dances and i never had to ask for a dance from him he would just let me know when he was ready to go do another string again. He spent good money. I made all of my money off of him and felt some stuff down there i haven't felt in a long time. Lol if he wasn't so young and a customer i definitely would have hopped on that dick
Elektra Luxx
11-01-2017, 12:19 PM
I spent quiet evening with bf last night giving out candy, watching TV and canoodling.
JGB2009
11-01-2017, 07:06 PM
My phone used to receive messages non stop......now nothing and not really used to it.
baer45
11-01-2017, 11:01 PM
2017 is almost over, time passes fast,
WendiStarr
11-02-2017, 07:00 AM
My daughter used her pink star stamp on my leg, above my knee while I was sleeping. She was sleeping when I went to sleep or at least appeared to be because she didn't protest when I turned the tv off. I was thinking was she fake sleeping, waiting for me to fall asleep, just so she could do that or did she wake up in the middle of the night, and decide, "Mama, really needs a pink star on her leg". Kids! Lol