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Elektra Luxx
01-08-2018, 07:20 PM
I live in a constant state of aniexty. It spikes to a high level when things happen, most of the time it's at a low level, but the aniexty is always there. The only time that my aniexty is at zero is when I'm drunk or zonked out on Xanax. I'm trying not to drink to get drunk anymore. I did over do it on New Years Eve, but it had been months since that happened and bf was with me and I don't do Xanax anymore. Despite these unhealthy ways, I can manage the aniexty in other ways. So since things are going okay with bf lately, the main anxiety is work. I'm a semi-supervisor and it's a difficult, because I'm hit from above and below. So to deal with the extra aniexty, when I get home, I take a warm shower. I stand under the shower head and let the water just it the top of my head and visualize water washing away my axiexty. I will do this until I feel more relaxed, maybe 10 minutes. So to make a long post longer, do you all have ways to decompress after a long day? Should I start a thread?
miss.a.p1600
01-08-2018, 08:10 PM
^Listen to soothing spa music, yoga, warm shower/bath, massage, deep breathing....
Eliminate or avoid anxiety triggers
Visualization is good too as is self-hypnosis and guided meditation
There is also a systematic desensitization
If it's moderate to severe then many of the anti-depressants also happen treat anxiety in addition to elevating and or stabilizing mood
WendiStarr
01-08-2018, 08:48 PM
^ I take magnesium for anxiety. It seems like it helps but it doesn't seem to be effective if you drink or eat something with caffeine in it.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-08-2018, 09:07 PM
^ I take magnesium for anxiety. It seems like it helps but it doesn't seem to be effective if you drink or eat something with caffeine in it.
Magnesium helps with regular bowel movement too.
Elektra Luxx
01-08-2018, 09:39 PM
^Listen to soothing spa music, yoga, warm shower/bath, massage, deep breathing....
Eliminate or avoid anxiety triggers
Visualization is good too as is self-hypnosis and guided meditation
There is also a systematic desensitization
If it's moderate to severe then many of the anti-depressants also happen treat anxiety in addition to elevating and or stabilizing mood
I'm taking Effexor for aniexty and impulse control.
Elektra Luxx
01-09-2018, 01:04 AM
Bf gave me a robot vacuum cleaner for Christmas and I lost it. I think it's under my bed.
It was under my couch.
JGB2009
01-09-2018, 04:10 AM
I'm taking Effexor for aniexty and impulse control. I'm most messed up person I know.
I remember my dad taking Effexor. I used to take Lexapro, but I only stayed on it for 2-3 years.
seashell
01-09-2018, 04:17 AM
I remember my dad taking Effexor. I used to take Lexapro, but I only stayed on it for 2-3 years.
I used to be on Lexapro, too. And xanax for anxiety (never again).
I would looove a thread on ways to get rid of anxiety! I think it would be great to see everyone's methods, since we're all in a pretty stressful line of work.
Glamourmilf
01-09-2018, 04:54 AM
I live in a constant state of aniexty. It spikes to a high level when things happen, most of the time it's at a low level, but the aniexty is always there. The only time that my aniexty is at zero is when I'm drunk or zonked out on Xanax. I'm trying not to drink to get drunk anymore. I did over do it on New Years Eve, but it had been months since that happened and bf was with me and I don't do Xanax anymore. Despite these unhealthy ways, I can manage the aniexty in other ways. So since things are going okay with bf lately, the main anxiety is work. I'm a semi-supervisor and it's a difficult, because I'm hit from above and below. So to deal with the extra aniexty, when I get home, I take a warm shower. I stand under the shower head and let the water just it the top of my head and visualize water washing away my axiexty. I will do this until I feel more relaxed, maybe 10 minutes. So to make a long post longer, do you all have ways to decompress after a long day? Should I start a thread?
A gf of mine who is extremely anxious (she says it's from doing fbsm in her home), swears by Gaba. You get it from health food store/Trader Joe's.
I'm not anxious, but wanted to stop taking Melatonin to sleep. I like it. Puts you in a calm, idgaf mood.
You might want to try it.
kamiliam
01-09-2018, 04:55 AM
I used to be on Lexapro, too. And xanax for anxiety (never again).
I would looove a thread on ways to get rid of anxiety! I think it would be great to see everyone's methods, since we're all in a pretty stressful line of work.
I used to have severe anxiety, lots of panic attacks, triggers, social anxiety etc. I kinda just learned to control it, talked myself down, gave myself coping mechanisms. The side effect is I now have bouts of depression. This sucks to say but I miss the anxiety, at least I understood it... OCD still kicking though!
JGB2009
01-09-2018, 11:03 AM
I suppose you are gonna play dumb now!!!!!! Yea pretend you saw nothing!!!
lilylilylily
01-09-2018, 02:12 PM
I had a weird dream last night. A favorite reg begged me to come to the club for one night to see him so I reluctantly agreed, and my grandfather who died over 20 years ago drove me to work, and when I got out the car he hugged me goodbye. When I got there I realized I forgot to bring all my stripper necessities and then my tape in extensions started falling out. All the girls kept asking me where I've been for so long... I don't remember what happened after but I think I just ran out of the club. Lol
WendiStarr
01-09-2018, 05:57 PM
Anyone hear of baddatelist.com? It looks fishy like something LE would create, disguised as protecting sex workers but really, just getting us to write incriminating evidence against ourselves. I don't know why but I get a bad vibe from it.
JGB2009
01-09-2018, 08:20 PM
My daughters dad has started off by paying no child support at all. So far he is two months behind among other stuff he has not done. Keep in mind he didn't pay his own attorney in November and I still don't know if he has paid her yet. Yup yup......SMH!!!!!
SugarCookies
01-10-2018, 02:20 AM
I want to go back to school this year. I never really experienced college. I took a one year course at a small and expensive vocational school after high school, but now I'm not really sure if it's something I'd be passionate about making a career out of for the rest of my life. Mostly I just went because my mom wanted me to continue going to school and it was a rushed decision, not because I was serious about it. Now I have clear goals. Also since I don't feel like stressing myself out at just any minimum wage job, I might as well just spend some of that extra spare time developing some skills, getting out, and possibly make some friends.
Glamourmilf
01-10-2018, 07:57 AM
I've been buying lots of Christmas decorations that are on sale for 75% off! Some of the stuff I've seen at full retail, and didn't buy any of it because it was way over priced.
Score!
baer45
01-10-2018, 11:42 AM
49332Forgot which one of you were interested in the electrical toothbrush. Costco has it for sale.
Aurora_Sunset
01-11-2018, 09:34 AM
I find Matthew Perry's face weird. I don't know what it is... like he has resting asshole face maybe? But the more I watch him, the most disturbed I am by him.
Vyanka
01-11-2018, 11:49 AM
Today's age of makeup looks so damn complicated. I'm seeing all of these gorgeous makeup artists on IG adding a shit ton of different shades of makeup on their face to look the same, or weird. Excess useless paint. Whoever started this over the top contouring trend??
The glowing white strip on the nose. Just weird. Looks greasy.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-11-2018, 01:19 PM
I find Matthew Perry's face weird. I don't know what it is... like he has resting asshole face maybe? But the more I watch him, the most disturbed I am by him.
He's had substance abuse issues for years. He's also living proof that limitless money won't necessarily make you happy.
ScarletKitten
01-11-2018, 03:49 PM
Today's age of makeup looks so damn complicated. I'm seeing all of these gorgeous makeup artists on IG adding a shit ton of different shades of makeup on their face to look the same, or weird. Excess useless paint. Whoever started this over the top contouring trend??
The glowing white strip on the nose. Just weird. Looks greasy.
I agree. I can't STAND the current makeup trends. The over-the-top contouring, the drawn-in faded eyebrows, the highlighting, all of it. My makeup routine is so simple. Why can't bitches keep it simple?! lol
Glamourmilf
01-12-2018, 07:47 AM
I stumbled across a store that sells knockoffs of my favorite designer~Chanel!
She also has other designers too, like Luis Vuitton, Prada, Michael Kors, etc.
But Chanel is my jam!
I don't know where she gets it from, because all my other connections back in LA have long since been busted.
Her storefront is right on the main drag too.
I've been buying so much of her Chanel stuff, just to stock up in case she gets busted.
Bought this canvas tote, and lots of jewelry.
Christmas shopping for my rich friends was so easy this year, because despite all their money, they all told me they can't find this stuff anywhere.
Yezzz!!
#ChanelGirl49335
49336
WendiStarr
01-12-2018, 09:07 AM
I wish that Amazon had the option to weed out foreign sellers, just like eBay does. It's not that I have a problem with buying from foreign sellers. It's just that I have zero patience and hate waiting for 1-2 months for my item to arrive.
Savannah Lee
01-12-2018, 11:19 PM
Just finished an incall. Went to go to bed and saw my brand new white sheets had a brown stain on them. Sigh
JGB2009
01-13-2018, 06:41 AM
It would be nice to wake up....and finally just feel one way about something. That would make my life so much easier.
Glamourmilf
01-13-2018, 07:38 AM
I wish that Amazon had the option to weed out foreign sellers, just like eBay does. It's not that I have a problem with buying from foreign sellers. It's just that I have zero patience and hate waiting for 1-2 months for my item to arrive.
I agree. I've been an eBay buyer since day one, but recently switched over to Amazon. I bought a ring in December, but when I got the shipping details, they said I'd get it around Feb 8th! WTF?
Luckily it got here within a week, but, really!
Elektra Luxx
01-13-2018, 03:52 PM
Well, it's a new year and is your resolution to get busy more this year. Me too! So we want to hear all the Naughty details.
For anyone that doesn't feel comfortable posting in this thread please feel free to post in the "Naughty Details 2018" group. This a private invite only group so PM me if you want an invite.
OMG!!! I'm so so thrilled! I've received so many requests to join this group, please be patient with me I will get you in.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/group.php?groupid=192
SugarCookies
01-13-2018, 07:26 PM
This has been my lazy vacation week. I feel I deserved some time off. I worked as much as I could over the holidays, and I'm a little embarrassed about a 5 pound weight gain. I needed some time for myself.
lynn2009
01-14-2018, 01:09 AM
I meditated earlier and really tried to lay quietly to fall asleep for a long time at a reasonable hour like people who function well but here we are at 3am and I am wide awake
JGB2009
01-14-2018, 06:45 AM
I had the worst sinus headache yesterday. I am thankful I feel better now.
Glamourmilf
01-14-2018, 06:48 AM
I find Matthew Perry's face weird. I don't know what it is... like he has resting asshole face maybe? But the more I watch him, the most disturbed I am by him.
A girlfriend of mine and I started referring to white guys with small dicks as Matthew Perry. She came up with the analogy back when "Friends" was still on.
She said he looked like he had a small Weiner?
JGB2009
01-14-2018, 06:52 AM
I was briefly looking at guys on a dating website. None of them are cute.
Elektra Luxx
01-14-2018, 06:28 PM
I'm trying this on bf...before I try it.
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/baby-foot-peel
WendiStarr
01-14-2018, 07:44 PM
I have to pee but my kid is sleeping horizontally across my bed with half her body on me. If I move and she wakes up, she's gonna be grumpy. I think I have to go in slow ass sloth mode now, like that commercial of the sloth drawing the tandem bicycle, lol.
baer45
01-14-2018, 10:44 PM
why does Hermione like Ron? He looks like a mouse.
Elektra Luxx
01-15-2018, 01:27 AM
why does Hermione like Ron? He looks like a mouse.
Are you talking about Harry Potter? I never got that either. Hermione and Harry should have got together.
Nina_
01-15-2018, 01:58 AM
I got drunk tonight and had the random thought to spend 20 mins braiding some corn rows halfway back so I can still wear a high ponytail with the rest of my hair. Looks a lil messy, but kinda cute, cause you know, the drunkenness. Hahaha.
baer45
01-15-2018, 08:07 AM
Are you talking about Harry Potter? I never got that either. Hermione and Harry should have got together.
Yes. That's what I think too.
seashell
01-15-2018, 12:56 PM
^A while back, the author confessed that she originally intended for Harry and Hermione to get together, but went with her heart while she was writing the books, and paired Hermione with Ron. I honestly like them together, as a sort of flawed-but-happy couple. But we all know he is SO not on her level. :P
baer45
01-15-2018, 01:56 PM
^A while back, the author confessed that she originally intended for Harry and Hermione to get together, but went with her heart while she was writing the books, and paired Hermione with Ron. I honestly like them together, as a sort of flawed-but-happy couple. But we all know he is SO not on her level. :P
https://typeset-beta.imgix.net/rehost/2016/9/13/4eda55a0-6dfc-408d-add7-ce64b11b7ec3.jpg
WendiStarr
01-15-2018, 03:20 PM
Pink Sugar hair perfume rocks! Love it!
SugarCookies
01-15-2018, 09:17 PM
My schedule got messed up after I went to Morongo with my husband on Thursday night. I sleep at 5 am, wake up at 2 am. I haven't had any contact with sunlight for 3 days and by the time I feel ready to go out everything is closing. It feels so weird. On the brightside my tan lines will fade.
lynn2009
01-15-2018, 09:19 PM
My boss is hiring full-time remote employees now and I'm so fucking bitter over it. Not only am I COMPLETELY convinced that Derek would have been fine if I hadn't moved, I loved my old apartment and area I lived in. I remember moving in and being so excited I finally had a nice 1 bedroom apartment and could stop moving around like a fucking idiot.
Ginnyyy
01-15-2018, 09:30 PM
I went out to drink a coffee with a friend this morning and his tooth literally felt on the table after sipping a little. I got a hold on myself not to laugh that hard because it s some serious issue there, but still. He said the tooth was moving since last night.
JGB2009
01-16-2018, 08:01 AM
So last night I got a phone call from the phone company telling me that the phone technician would be at my house today from 11:30am-3:30pm. So this morning at 9am I get a call from the technician telling me he is almost at my house. I'm like I am not home and I was told you would not be at my house till 11:30. What was the point of anyone calling me last night? People!!!!!
JGB2009
01-16-2018, 08:35 AM
I love reading everything here. I think all of you who post are so awesome!!!
SuccubusSasha
01-16-2018, 08:42 AM
Truly random thought...I think the Reality Show age has helped younger people understand group social dynamics better than my generation (X). I read a lot in youth & gave other people way too much credit. Portraying some people as they selfish/shallow shits they are definitely prepares people for real life.
I agree!
I remember when 16 and pregnant came out adults were scared it would glamorize pregnancy,
But then it was reported that it actually taught more teens that they too can get preggo and to be careful.
SuccubusSasha
01-16-2018, 08:43 AM
I love reading everything here. I think all of you who post are so awesome!!!
I thinkg YOURE awesome.
Elektra Luxx
01-16-2018, 11:27 AM
https://typeset-beta.imgix.net/rehost/2016/9/13/4eda55a0-6dfc-408d-add7-ce64b11b7ec3.jpg
I like spiders. They're really cool creatures and so beneficial. If I see one I won't swat it unless it starts walking my way or tries to touch me. Then I will get someone else to kill it, because...well, I like spiders. I remember being in bed and feeling something on my arm, I thought it was my hair, I look down and it's this HUGE! daddy-long-legged spider. It seemed like it was the size of the spider in the picture and it was trying to get me. I remember screaming and panic and more screaming. And later goose-bump skin creeps.
WendiStarr
01-16-2018, 11:58 AM
When you have a 10 with sexy face, hot body, and a big dick . Oh my lord!