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SnuffleUffleGrass
01-16-2018, 12:01 PM
I agree!
I remember when 16 and pregnant came out adults were scared it would glamorize pregnancy,
But then it was reported that it actually taught more teens that they too can get preggo and to be careful.

Omg years ago me & my coolest Sugardaddy of all time spent an afternoon together watching "16 And Pregnant." He came from a pretty wealthy background so I think he was surprised that poor people on the show expected something like unwed teen pregnancy to improve their lives. (I grew up around poverty so I had seen all the teen pregnancy trainwrecks up close.)

Back on topic it took me a long time to be able to mentally get over how horrible SOME people are. It seems a lot of reality TV shows stage/script someone to be "the villain" whether it's relevant or not.

Elektra Luxx
01-16-2018, 12:08 PM
Yay! Because of bad weather everyone is allowed to leave work. It's 28 degrees, really cold and sleeting.

baer45
01-16-2018, 12:14 PM
I like spiders. They're really cool creatures and so beneficial. If I see one I won't swat it unless it starts walking my way or tries to touch me. Then I will get someone else to kill it, because...well, I like spiders. I remember being in bed and feeling something on my arm, I thought it was my hair, I look down and it's this HUGE! daddy-long-legged spider. It seemed like it was the size of the spider in the picture and it was trying to get me. I remember screaming and panic and more screaming. And later goose-bump skin creeps.

I hate rats more than spiders and cockroaches. If I see a rat in the house, I will freak out. Yes, I will absolutely freak out.

Vyanka
01-16-2018, 02:04 PM
How cute is this....

https://instagram.com/p/Bd_KQOdnFlX/

I also cant stop giggling. Volume up.

ScarletKitten
01-16-2018, 05:58 PM
I like spiders. They're really cool creatures and so beneficial. If I see one I won't swat it unless it starts walking my way or tries to touch me. Then I will get someone else to kill it, because...well, I like spiders. I remember being in bed and feeling something on my arm, I thought it was my hair, I look down and it's this HUGE! daddy-long-legged spider. It seemed like it was the size of the spider in the picture and it was trying to get me. I remember screaming and panic and more screaming. And later goose-bump skin creeps.

Daddy Long Legs are not spiders and are completely harmless.

Elektra Luxx
01-16-2018, 07:50 PM
Daddy Long Legs are not spiders and are completely harmless.

Yes, I've heard that, but they still freak me out.

baer45
01-16-2018, 08:06 PM
Yes, I've heard that, but they still freak me out.


Pholcidae, commonly known as cellar spiders, are a spider family in the suborder Araneomorphae. The family contains about 1500 species divided into about 80 genera.

Some species, especially Pholcus phalangioides, are commonly called daddy long-legs spider, granddaddy long-legs spider, carpenter spider, daddy long-legger, or vibrating spider. Confusion often arises because the name "daddy long-legs" is also applied to two distantly related arthropod groups: the harvestmen (which are arachnids but not spiders), and crane flies (which are insects).

google helps you learn the facts.

SuccubusSasha
01-16-2018, 08:51 PM
Tinder and Craigslist personals are sexist.
For months I was on Tinder, I reported several guys for harassing me, one tried to rape me, and their profiles still exist.
Just today I change my profile to a femdomme profile, and tell the guys I wanna be spoiled with gifts from my wishlist. Tinder deletes my profile in an hour.

Craigslist - full of crazy male for female posts, most looking to pay for sex, some just rants about how they hate women. I see these posts updated and never taken down.
But when I try to make a post offering findom, or just to exchange chatting for gifts my posts are immediately flagged and removed.

UGH this kind of thing just pisses me off so much because its so obviously unequal and targeting the women and not the men!

Elektra Luxx
01-17-2018, 04:47 AM
Pholcidae, commonly known as cellar spiders, are a spider family in the suborder Araneomorphae. The family contains about 1500 species divided into about 80 genera.

Some species, especially Pholcus phalangioides, are commonly called daddy long-legs spider, granddaddy long-legs spider, carpenter spider, daddy long-legger, or vibrating spider. Confusion often arises because the name "daddy long-legs" is also applied to two distantly related arthropod groups: the harvestmen (which are arachnids but not spiders), and crane flies (which are insects).

google helps you learn the facts.

BTW, just reading that gave me the creeps, Thanks for Googleing that for me. I just love you.

Elektra Luxx
01-17-2018, 04:48 AM
Daddy Long Legs are not spiders and are completely harmless.

Thanks for the info. Love you girl.

Glamourmilf
01-17-2018, 05:35 AM
I was at my grief counseling group last night, and there was someone new. A straight guy. He was a real macho, hot DILF construction worker.
As he was telling us that he's there because his son just died of an overdose, he started crying.
And crying...And crying.:'(
It's the first time I've ever seen a man cry.
If I sound cold hearted by saying it was a turn off, then so be it. I'm probably going to hell anyway, so no big deal.
I really wanted to hug him to comfort him:hug:, then sit on his face and straddle that handlebar moustache.:beaver:

Ginnyyy
01-17-2018, 07:58 AM
I like spiders. They're really cool creatures and so beneficial. If I see one I won't swat it unless it starts walking my way or tries to touch me. Then I will get someone else to kill it, because...well, I like spiders. I remember being in bed and feeling something on my arm, I thought it was my hair, I look down and it's this HUGE! daddy-long-legged spider. It seemed like it was the size of the spider in the picture and it was trying to get me. I remember screaming and panic and more screaming. And later goose-bump skin creeps.

I throw them out on the window.

ScarletKitten
01-17-2018, 02:24 PM
I want to run away to Hawaii. It's 79 °F in Honolulu right now.

ETA: This is seriously weird.....where I am in Texas right now is 6 degrees colder than Edmonton, Canada! That makes no sense!!!

chanzep
01-17-2018, 04:23 PM
^ Yes its so cold school has been out yesterday and today.

baer45
01-18-2018, 09:43 AM
I got up this morning and decided to live the day in reverse. I have two appointments tonight, but as of the morning...

Pour myself a glass of wine.

Put on my beautiful dress.

Dance to the jojo effect


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxMdeuYDAeI

Relax, enjoy the life I have chosen while I still can.

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-18-2018, 04:37 PM
I was at my grief counseling group last night, and there was someone new. A straight guy. He was a real macho, hot DILF construction worker.
As he was telling us that he's there because his son just died of an overdose, he started crying.
And crying...And crying.:'(
It's the first time I've ever seen a man cry.
If I sound cold hearted by saying it was a turn off, then so be it. I'm probably going to hell anyway, so no big deal.
I really wanted to hug him to comfort him:hug:, then sit on his face and straddle that handlebar moustache.:beaver:

Awww this is sweet. All of it.

JGB2009
01-18-2018, 07:22 PM
I HATE winter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WendiStarr
01-18-2018, 07:53 PM
I just want to be held and cuddled so bad.

Glamourmilf
01-19-2018, 06:59 AM
I just want to be held and cuddled so bad.

Same here. :-[
I like to wander around to neighboring towns, just to explore and see different things.
While I was at a Starbucks, I noticed that there was a Target across the way.
I'm not a Target person anymore, but figured, oh well, why not.
I happened to stumble across a huge clearance sale on makeup. Like 70% off ! What??? Count me in!
Found so many things for a dollar.
Even Sonia Kashuk stuff was on sale. Score!
I also found some cute Valentine's Day decorations.
Edit to add: The BEST thing about this particular Target, was that it was quiet. None of that overbearing, loud, piped in music.
Loved the silence.

Elektra Luxx
01-19-2018, 09:59 PM
I'm spending the evening with my little brother. We're playing PS4, talking and eating honey-roasted peanuts. He's drinking soda, but I sticking with water and lemon wedges.

Ifyouseekamy
01-20-2018, 05:42 AM
There’s no way I’m getting up at 11 am for the women’s march.

I hate when people play the victim, but the woman’s march thing made me realize a lot of my problems come just from being female. I’m working my recovery and I believe in focusing on me and not blaming others, but part of the equation is all the abuse I’ve dealt with from men-before working in the industry. I think taking care of myself and going back to school help the women rights movement. Self care is an act of women’s empowerment. Being a woman is so hard! We get slut shamed! Omg we get shamed for everything when guys can go around and act like dicks and not deal with the same consequences. I like my recovery program, but you have to take in to account heirarchy and sexism because there’s no way I’d have the issues If I wasn’t a woman.

carmen_b
01-20-2018, 10:16 AM
Ugh, sales.

I've grown to dislike a couple of the slower moving clients at my day job. I'm really hoping the next 10 days of the month shape up so I don't need them. I'd really prefer not to work with them. I'm not in a position to just decline the jobs but I hope some faster moving ones will come in and just swoop up the spots so I can be " booked " and unable to assist them.

carmen_b
01-20-2018, 10:19 AM
Also, an ode to the massage trolls ...... it's you guys that make me barely work anymore. Quit being dicks / being slow moving to reserve / asking or photos / being needy before even meeting. The good guys are missing out on sessions with me because I don't have time to sort who is who right now.

DonaDiabla
01-20-2018, 01:45 PM
I am happy that I decided to update some of my cam equipment and my phone lines. Next will be my computer, webcam, and housing :) Yay,I am almost there.

Aurora_Sunset
01-20-2018, 02:22 PM
I wish I could hire someone to sext for me. Trying to hold conversations on tinder, like "What's up cutie?" I... Idk, I don't know how to flirt via text lol

seashell
01-20-2018, 03:29 PM
I wish I could hire someone to sext for me. Trying to hold conversations on tinder, like "What's up cutie?" I... Idk, I don't know how to flirt via text lol

I saw a job listing on Craigslist awhile back, for a company that did this. They would log into your dating apps, handle the conversations, and get you dates. Not a bad concept ;D

WendiStarr
01-22-2018, 09:10 AM
The weather warmed up to 44. I know, funny how 44 suddenly feels nice compared to the single digit and below zero temperatures. The ice is melted and I'm feeling almost 100% better. I plan on getting outdoors for some exercise.

JGB2009
01-22-2018, 10:01 AM
I was not planning this yesterday, but I adopted a cat. She is adorable and so perfect!!!!

carmen_b
01-22-2018, 05:28 PM
If I was in the market, I would absolutely outsource my online dating exchanges and have someone set up the dates at pre-arranged times!
I wish I could hire someone to sext for me. Trying to hold conversations on tinder, like "What's up cutie?" I... Idk, I don't know how to flirt via text lol

Elektra Luxx
01-23-2018, 05:26 PM
I'm taking a shower and I seal up every nook and cranny with a towel to keep all the heat in. So I in there at least 15 minutes decompressing from the day and it's nice and warm and my little brother opens the door and is yelling "Rae!, Rae!" and I'm like in a panic "What happened!, what's wrong!" And he says "I like chocolate". Little jerkass! Plus he let all the heat out.

WendiStarr
01-24-2018, 10:15 AM
I've decided that I'm not going to order anything online again for a very long time. USPS can't even get their shit together. They sent my package to the wrong address and then all the way to a different state. It's supposed to be coming back to my city today. My other package showed that it was due to arrive Monday, arrived in my home city, went to NY on Tuesday, and is on it's way back to my home state as of today. Wow.

JGB2009
01-24-2018, 10:49 AM
I love my kitty so much.

WendiStarr
01-24-2018, 05:40 PM
I hate when I get paranoid of being stalked and suddenly every vehicle looks like that one. White SUV's aren't that uncommon but I never seen one hanging around before and suddenly every time I go outside my apartment I see one. I'm gonna stealth get their license plate # next time to see if it's the same person. I guess it's possible that it could be a new woman that moved in at a different building nearby and I'm just being paranoid. I'm feeling on high alert though.

Elektra Luxx
01-24-2018, 09:27 PM
I love my kitty so much.

I love my kitty too much. To the point it's hurts. I'm always jamming toys into my kit...wait...you mean the one you just adopted? Awkward...

queenelayliah
01-24-2018, 10:16 PM
I hate when I get paranoid of being stalked and suddenly every vehicle looks like that one. White SUV's aren't that uncommon but I never seen one hanging around before and suddenly every time I go outside my apartment I see one. I'm gonna stealth get their license plate # next time to see if it's the same person. I guess it's possible that it could be a new woman that moved in at a different building nearby and I'm just being paranoid. I'm feeling on high alert though.


Have you been stalked before I'm just curious on why your paranoid to be stalked but still stay safe and definitely get the plate number.

WendiStarr
01-25-2018, 04:56 AM
Have you been stalked before I'm just curious on why your paranoid to be stalked but still stay safe and definitely get the plate number.

Yes, I have before, three times but it was guys from sc or otc work who got too obsessed and couldn't separate fantasy from reality. I don't think this is the case now, but I suppose someone could've hired a PI or something.

Ifyouseekamy
01-25-2018, 05:36 AM
^^^ I was stalked by my ex husband’s affair. The nerve to wreck my home than STALK ME! Oh well, they beat the shit out of each other cause they are both crazy as fuck-karma. But yeah I’ve been stalked. Always be careful, but it gets better with time.

Glamourmilf
01-25-2018, 05:43 AM
I've decided that I'm not going to order anything online again for a very long time. USPS can't even get their shit together. They sent my package to the wrong address and then all the way to a different state. It's supposed to be coming back to my city today. My other package showed that it was due to arrive Monday, arrived in my home city, went to NY on Tuesday, and is on it's way back to my home state as of today. Wow.

THIS! OMG!
I ordered a camera from HSN that both UPS AND USPS fucked up so bad! The tracking notice said out for delivery, then said that it was being returned to the sender because the address was undeliverable. Huh????
I just HAD a delivery from HSN last month to my address.
I stayed home for TWO days this week, waiting for that camera. Worried that one of my skeevy neighbors would intecept it and take it.
Now I find out that a letter I sent to my aunt with a bunch of photos never got to her. Even though I physically went IN to the post office, and had THEM put the correct amount of stamps on.
Ugh! I could have just bought a camera at Best Buy. But I use HSN because they let me pay in installments.
So pissed!

JGB2009
01-25-2018, 06:13 PM
I wish you missed me enough to do what is right. Nahhhh of course that is not gonna happen!!!!

WendiStarr
01-25-2018, 06:33 PM
I want Chinese food.

Elektra Luxx
01-26-2018, 06:23 AM
Last night my little brother is eating a double cheese burger in my living room while watching TV and I see him use my couch throw pillow to wipe his mouth. :O:O:O

Are you freaking kidding me!!! >:(>:(>:(

WendiStarr
01-26-2018, 09:01 AM
Last night my little brother is eating a double cheese burger in my living room while watching TV and I see him use my couch throw pillow to wipe his mouth. :O:O:O

Are you freaking kidding me!!! >:(>:(>:(

I think that some guys are unable to comprehend that this isn't acceptable behavior. My little brother does the same thing and he's in his late 20's. It's just like the guys and towels thing, where they will use your hand towel, your decorative towel, your personal towel, and every towel in sight to dry themselves off with, except for the one towel that they were supposed to use.

lilylilylily
01-26-2018, 12:32 PM
I'm so glad I had laser eye surgery a few years ago. I so appreciate walking in to a heated place from the cold and not having fogged up glasses and having to wait forever to be able to see through them.

Elektra Luxx
01-27-2018, 12:44 PM
Do you ever feel like starting an argument with your bf because he's too comfortable in the relationship and you feel like being a bitch?

Me neither because that's just crazy.

JGB2009
01-27-2018, 04:10 PM
I have been sick since yesterday and have been a total BITCH because of it!!!!!!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-27-2018, 10:45 PM
Do you ever feel like starting an argument with your bf because he's too comfortable in the relationship and you feel like being a bitch?

Me neither because that's just crazy.

Well call me crazy cuz I do that to my husband at least twice a month for sport. :hyper: BUT he always sees it coming and just ignores it. And then I'm like, Dafuq am I supposed to do with these feelings?

https://media.giphy.com/media/hEc4k5pN17GZq/giphy.gif

Glamourmilf
01-28-2018, 08:12 AM
I bought these boots from Walmart this week for just $20. Mukluks a la mode Sweater Boot.
They are by far the warmest ( fake fur lined), most comfortable boots I've owned.
Bonus was when a guy on cam saw them, and paid me $150 to send him a clip of me wearing them.
How random, because I thought only I thought they were sexy. Lol!;D
49407

JGB2009
01-28-2018, 09:59 AM
So my cousin always post stuff on facebook that gets on my nerves. She comes off like Mary sunshine and plus she is a closet racist. Time to hide her from my news feed.

chanzep
01-28-2018, 11:37 AM
craving ciabatta bread, I do not want to go outside today, I suppose its good but I want it so bad grr. I wont go outside because the water is off at my apartments and I feel dirty, Im also lazy.

WendiStarr
01-29-2018, 10:21 AM
I wish this damn period would come on already. It still hasn't started but awful cramps off and on. I've tried hot ginger tea, parsley tea, light therapy device, masturbation, rough and deep sex, etc. Hot ginger tea and light therapy device always did the trick in the past but nothing is working now. Grr, hormones!