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_Elle_
02-09-2018, 12:36 AM
So my daughters dad just announced he is in a relationship. Some desperate soul he has been talking to for like a year. Mind you he is still hanging out on POF every single day looking for a woman. SMH yea she's got herself a good man!!!!
Oh! I just divorced one of these! Not only did he look for a new wife on pof while sending me his sad emails...he also posted on CRAIGSLIST looking for a new WIFE. I should send the poor woman he's dating a thank you note for occupying him (for now) and letting my divorce go through without the much threatened fight.
_Elle_
02-09-2018, 12:38 AM
Oh, and my random thought is about why I came back onto SW after foreverrrr. Foot fetishes. Where does this come from? Not so much liking feet...moreso liking raunch shoes?
And on another note...armpit fetishes. Just...why?
WendiStarr
02-09-2018, 04:07 AM
I wonder if somehow Nazi apartment landlord can control the hearing in my apartment. It got up to 80 degrees in here, despite it being off(I had turned it off when I was out of town working). I woke up sweating, seen that it was at 85. I swear I think somehow she's controlling the heat, making it hot in here so that I can get a high heating bill. I do know that she can turn heat off and on because every April it goes off and she doesn't turn heating on until after Thanksgiving day, but can she somehow control heat temperature too?
Glamourmilf
02-09-2018, 06:53 AM
Has anyone else tried these? I just discovered them.
Yum Yum=My new addiction.:)
I can also get paid to eat them. ( Feeder shows and clips)
Win win. Caching!
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SnuffleUffleGrass
02-09-2018, 08:54 AM
Oh, and my random thought is about why I came back onto SW after foreverrrr. Foot fetishes. Where does this come from? Not so much liking feet...moreso liking raunch shoes?
And on another note...armpit fetishes. Just...why?
Odor. Many people have distinctive body odor.
_Elle_
02-09-2018, 09:30 AM
Odor. Many people have distinctive body odor.
But to want to lick your armpit? That one was a first for me....!
JGB2009
02-10-2018, 06:50 PM
I am bored and would love to have someone to chat with. I could turn on my FB messenger but people on there are annoying me. No one really text me anymore. Its always some dumb app I get contacted on. Oh well guess I will just be bored.
chanzep
02-10-2018, 06:54 PM
Looking for a weird movie to watch something like American Psycho.
Aurora_Sunset
02-11-2018, 03:45 AM
Looking for a weird movie to watch something like American Psycho.
Have you seen May?
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0303361/?ref_=fn_tt_tt_1
It's a favorite of mine and definitely weird. I recommend it to anyone who hasn't seen it and is into that sort of genre.
JGB2009
02-11-2018, 08:44 AM
Maybe I am just having a moment......but I think Love is just BS!!!!!
WendiStarr
02-11-2018, 10:17 AM
But to want to lick your armpit? That one was a first for me....!
Eww, gosh! This reminded me of a guy friend back in high school. He liked to lick girls' armpits because allegedly(according to him) whatever a chick's armpit tastes like will taste the same as her pussy. He told me this after randomly licking my armpit one day. It was creepy and I don't think that that could be an accurate way to test that anyways because well, most of us wear deodorant on our armpits. Also, I think there's different bacteria, flora, and such between armpits and vaginas.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-11-2018, 10:53 AM
But to want to lick your armpit? That one was a first for me....!
Many guys have a craving for certain body odors. Ever wonder about some of the weirder things gay guys love? Same concept.
I really like my own personal scent but some people don't. Same idea as dancer preferences in the club.
I think armpit licking is both about the scent & also violating a boundary...
Glamourmilf
02-11-2018, 10:57 AM
I've probably said it on here before, but I REALLY love Russians.
I met this Russian woman at a yard sale on Saturday. I could have listened to her talk all day.
Her accent was music to my ears.
I never meet Russian people out here.
She was from LA too, so we had a lot common.
Her name was the same as my Mom, too.
I'm far from being Russian, but relate to them on some deep level. Don't know why. Maybe I was Russian in a past life?:thinking:
If I ever move back to LA, I'm going to get a place in the Russian neighborhood.
Does anyone else feel an affinity for a group of people and you don't know why?
_Elle_
02-11-2018, 05:52 PM
Many guys have a craving for certain body odors. Ever wonder about some of the weirder things gay guys love? Same concept.
I really like my own personal scent but some people don't. Same idea as dancer preferences in the club.
I think armpit licking is both about the scent & also violating a boundary...
This makes sense. He was disappointed I had deodorant on and wouldn't let him lick it. But also kept asking me if I wanted a drink over and over again which gave me the distinct impression he was trying to put something in it (we don't have alcohol or anything where I work).
JGB2009
02-12-2018, 06:14 PM
I am mentally drained.....................I have nothing else to give!!!
Aurora_Sunset
02-12-2018, 08:11 PM
I'm torn between continuing on the fulltime vanilla career path right now and filling in the gaps with other vanilla work, or going down to part-time status so I can do more sex work or filling in the gaps with dancing 1-2 nights a week. A part of me is really wanting to start transitioning away from the adult industry and seeing if I can live on vanilla work and just have a "normal" life - but honestly, right now I have so much debt and will need another 10k+ to go back to school in the fall, it just doesn't seem feasible to accomplish these goals in the right timeframe without hustling in sex work.
Then I'm torn between even staying here or moving back home. Moving home would be a good move financially but the paramedic program here is tons better. I could also move back for a year, not go to school for another year, and save extra extra money doing so while I work.... but I would be so sad to defer school for another year. It really makes the most sense to just get my butt back in a club, which I've been researching the fuck out of, but my heart is just not in it.
I really did want to be at my vanilla job full time though and get health insurance through them... :/ Idk
JGB2009
02-13-2018, 07:44 AM
I have one male friend I can tolerate. The rest can so straight to hell. I am not in no mood for someone who wants everything their damn way!!! Either work with me or FUCK off!!!!
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-13-2018, 10:32 AM
My boyfriend finally admitted he's a germaphobic person. For all the dumb reasons we might have ever had to break up.....this might be the last straw for me. Sigh.
baer45
02-13-2018, 10:59 AM
My boyfriend finally admitted he's a germaphobic person. For all the dumb reasons we might have ever had to break up.....this might be the last straw for me. Sigh.
Really? LOL. Sorry.
WendiStarr
02-13-2018, 04:08 PM
Girl on a Train is on tv. Awesome sauce!
I don't want to make another post so I'll add to this one. Guess who contacted me today? Adorkable client from a couple months back. I seriously had a dream about him last night! Wth, universe?
JGB2009
02-14-2018, 09:15 PM
I just ate two tacos.....yum!!!!!
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-15-2018, 11:36 AM
Really? LOL. Sorry.
Well my boyfriend has some deeply held quirks that run counter to how I am. He's extremely fussy and annoying when he is upset. & His germaphobia makes him unable to enjoy life like he'd like to.....
Related story- this morning I had to text him that our condo reeked of a perfume/cologne smell. I was worried that he'd think I allowed some random guy into the condo. It still stunk when he came home for lunch. (My guess is the guy in the neighboring condo broke a cologne bottle near an air vent. OR the roomie downstairs has a Scentsy burner. Anyway I had to be concerned to keep Boyfriend from jumping to unfounded assumptions.)
baer45
02-15-2018, 12:55 PM
Well my boyfriend has some deeply held quirks that run counter to how I am. He's extremely fussy and annoying when he is upset. & His germaphobia makes him unable to enjoy life like he'd like to.....
Related story- this morning I had to text him that our condo reeked of a perfume/cologne smell. I was worried that he'd think I allowed some random guy into the condo. It still stunk when he came home for lunch. (My guess is the guy in the neighboring condo broke a cologne bottle near an air vent. OR the roomie downstairs has a Scentsy burner. Anyway I had to be concerned to keep Boyfriend from jumping to unfounded assumptions.)
Some men are very bitchy when they are upset. I bet he wants to have most of saying of how you should handle things in your life.
I hate people put on too much perfume/cologne. Especially the fruity, thin, cold, go straight to your nose kind, stink up the whole place.
I like smoky, warm, thick, strong type of scent...you won't smell it unless you are very close. But it's strong, will last for a long time.
JGB2009
02-15-2018, 06:06 PM
Sometimes I wonder if you know my secret........oh well
WendiStarr
02-15-2018, 08:14 PM
Only 4 days until I get the keys to my new place. I can't wait.
JGB2009
02-16-2018, 03:58 PM
So today was not such a bad day. I was able to take a lot of pictures for promotion, did my nails, and took my cat to the vet. So a productive day, and I can't complain :)
baer45
02-16-2018, 11:04 PM
moved.
baer45
02-16-2018, 11:38 PM
moved.
Aurora_Sunset
02-17-2018, 07:09 AM
All I've wanted for breakfast for the last two weeks is eggs and toast - but specifically the way my dad makes them.
I'm going to make sure he makes me some when I visit in March.
baer45
02-17-2018, 12:27 PM
moved.
seashell
02-17-2018, 04:09 PM
Just bought tickets to see one of my favorite bands. :D
WendiStarr
02-18-2018, 08:25 AM
Just went to grocery store and seen a lady who looked like Cher in the facial features department. She had dark sunglasses. I doubt someone like Cher would come grocery shopping in Michigan.
Glamourmilf
02-18-2018, 08:57 AM
I took a class yesterday from a medium, on how to become one.
Hmm, I'm a skeptic, so let's investigate this, shall we?.:thinking:
He had us pair up with each other.
Mind blowing results! All I had was a photo and a pen of my partner's Dad. I knew so many things about him.
She did the same reading my Dad, even though I forgot to bring something of his.
I chose my Dad, and so did she. Interesting that we both lost them 10 years ago, but never feel them around us.
I feel my Mom around all the time, since her passing in September.
I'm now a believer, both in the medium, and in all of us having the ability to be a medium.
Has anyone else had experience with mediums?
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BarbieNYC
02-18-2018, 10:20 AM
Haven't been on here in forever. Just a quick tidbit
If you catch this nasty flu strain going around, buy NAC and Selenium supplements. NAC is especially very effective at preventing cytokine storms from happening. Cytokine storms are the reason a lot of healthy people have been dying from complications from the flu. I got the flu pretty bad and immediately went and bought these. after one day of taking the supplements I am feeling much better. It really cut down my symptoms and recovery time.
baer45
02-18-2018, 12:29 PM
moved.
Aurora_Sunset
02-18-2018, 04:13 PM
My ex is being a shit this evening because I attempted to extend an olive branch and talk to him this week, and he brought up testing a beta for a PS4 game that's out this weekend only. I've been busy as fuck and sleep deprived all weekend, and the only times I was really able to do it, he was working - oh well. I have dinner plans tonight, texted him that I was free for about an hour, but he's out right now. Oh well again. Shit happens. Sometimes schedules don't match up.... but he's taking it super personally that I didn't carve out this special time in my schedule to play a fucking video game with him.
Tried calling me, left me a shitty voicemail that he had something to say to me. I told him that whatever he had to say, he could text it. And of course, his entitled ass just calls again immediately following that text... He left me, what I assume, is a super long bitchy voicemail. But my phone's voicemail has legitimately been fucking up lately and it wont even load it for me to listen to.
:smellie_t
I should text him and tell him that, but fuck him - it'll drive him even crazier to think that I listened to it and just don't care - instead of the fact that I have no idea what shade he's throwing at me tonight while I go enjoy my fancy dinner in a nice restaurant with a different man.
JGB2009
02-19-2018, 04:44 PM
I cleaned, cooked, did all my laundry, and took the dog to the dog park. Just gotta get on cam tonight on time. I love it when I get everything done.
lilylilylily
02-19-2018, 07:37 PM
I'm watching the bachelor tonight and I just sensed that Ari was a Virgo so I looked him up and I was right
carmen_b
02-19-2018, 08:39 PM
Ugh.
Bad planning ( on my part ) has me temporarily trapped in a snowy town.
On the plus side , I had such a great past two weeks with my partner. It was just a really fun time where things flowed incredibly well.
xStacey
02-19-2018, 10:01 PM
I've always been vague about what I do for work, saying waitressing or coat check, sometimes bartending but people never really asked me any substantial questions about bartending, but it's something that always stresses me out. I am thinking of taking an intensive bartending course of around 40 hours for one week so it will be more credible when I say I used to bartend and I won't be as worried about people discovering I'm lying. I've always been interested in learning more about mixology and in bartending, but when I discovered the sex industry I no longer bothered, but I heard it is possible to make almost as much as stripping in upscale places hmm.
I'm applying for legal jobs and have interviews in March so I'm worried if they ask what other part-time jobs I had during my studies, if I say bartending and they start asking specific questions or to describe a time I encountered a difficult customer I wouldn't be able too ugh. I make really good money so I am not really looking for a bartending job, but it might be nice to keep the option open. I keep thinking of taking a sabbatical year to teach abroad but I know I will be bored working only 30-40 hrs a week, so it might be fun to be able to supplement my income with sex work and bartending, plus the knowledge to create a credible cover story.
Yeah, about to graduate in two months with my civil law degree, but I'm still attached to sex work and the night life. Ugh, maybe I should just focus on my professional career but I'm moving to complete my JD in Toronto and I'm contemplating doing an LLM so I might have one or two more fun years ahead of me and it might be nice to be able to work part-time in a job I can put on my resume. I have quite a lot of legal experience and extracurriculars now, but I always think how my application would look so much better if they could see I also worked X number of hours, but I can't do that with sex work and only doing part-time legal jobs doesn't pay enough. I'm willing to give bartending a try for the sake of having something on my resume if it pays almost as well and an intensive 40 hours week of training is nothing.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-20-2018, 12:15 PM
Did anyone else loss their Verizon Cloud account when Verizon deleted everything without notice last week? I lost a lot of text screen shots and pictures with Derek.
Yup...mine is gone. Ugh. I was in Mexico at the time so I really couldn't do anything about it.
seashell
02-20-2018, 12:40 PM
I'm watching the bachelor tonight and I just sensed that Ari was a Virgo so I looked him up and I was right
I am so addicted to that show. But I totally do NOT understand his picks. At all.
WendiStarr
02-20-2018, 01:15 PM
I dropped off lease paperwork and I get my keys at 4:30. It's raining cats and dogs all day and I was hoping to get some stuff moved in today. Weather won't cooperate.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-20-2018, 01:15 PM
Slightly funny WTF story- my boyfriend just fired one of his employees. The last straw was the guy texting a pic of HIS girlfriend wearing see through lingerie (I saw it & assumed the guy meant to send that to someone else) ....There's a little more to the story but my boyfriend made it his lunchtime errand to fire the guy & get a replacement worker lined up.
I seriously wonder about the logic of some types of people. I've never in my life done anything that unprofessional for a regular job except for once & it was a lesson I learned from (not misdirected pictures but - I got rude with a worker & the situation got worse. Never did it again.)
I guess this is a lesson in investigating things for yourself because I get the feeling this recently fired worker has poor judgement in general. The worker HE replaced committed theft & did a bunch of crackhead shit because.....crackheads. TD ;LR - some people literally cannot maintain employment...
JGB2009
02-21-2018, 06:17 PM
I would love to know why are you being so silent.....seriously wow!!!!
WendiStarr
02-21-2018, 06:40 PM
My best guy friend decided to be nosy and snoop through my stuff. He seen the copy of my lease at my new place and asked me,"What's going on here?". I asked him what he meant. He said that he wanted to know how I was able to afford an apartment that expensive. He's super close-minded and conservative so I've kept him in the dark about that part of my life the entire time I've known him. He just knows of my vanilla cleaning job. He's one of those anti-porn, "strip clubs are bad", dudes with like no sex drive or interest in anything sex-related at all. He gets mad at people for making sex jokes or talking about sex for gosh sake, so I've not felt that I could be open with him about that. I know he wouldn't understand. I just don't get why he felt the need to look through my paperwork on the table and is demanding to know how I'm able to afford it. I told him,"Well, I do have a job, you know." The fuck? I don't see why it's any of his business. He's not going to be paying my bills or rent.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-21-2018, 07:56 PM
My best guy friend decided to be nosy and snoop through my stuff. He seen the copy of my lease at my new place and asked me,"What's going on here?". I asked him what he meant. He said that he wanted to know how I was able to afford an apartment that expensive. He's super close-minded and conservative so I've kept him in the dark about that part of my life the entire time I've known him. He just knows of my vanilla cleaning job. He's one of those anti-porn, "strip clubs are bad", dudes with like no sex drive or interest in anything sex-related at all. He gets mad at people for making sex jokes or talking about sex for gosh sake, so I've not felt that I could be open with him about that. I know he wouldn't understand. I just don't get why he felt the need to look through my paperwork on the table and is demanding to know how I'm able to afford it. I told him,"Well, I do have a job, you know." The fuck? I don't see why it's any of his business. He's not going to be paying my bills or rent.
He probably is assuming you have a Sugar Daddy helping with bills.
Aurora_Sunset
02-22-2018, 07:46 AM
My best guy friend decided to be nosy and snoop through my stuff. He seen the copy of my lease at my new place and asked me,"What's going on here?". I asked him what he meant. He said that he wanted to know how I was able to afford an apartment that expensive. He's super close-minded and conservative so I've kept him in the dark about that part of my life the entire time I've known him. He just knows of my vanilla cleaning job. He's one of those anti-porn, "strip clubs are bad", dudes with like no sex drive or interest in anything sex-related at all. He gets mad at people for making sex jokes or talking about sex for gosh sake, so I've not felt that I could be open with him about that. I know he wouldn't understand. I just don't get why he felt the need to look through my paperwork on the table and is demanding to know how I'm able to afford it. I told him,"Well, I do have a job, you know." The fuck? I don't see why it's any of his business. He's not going to be paying my bills or rent.
God, this happens to me ALL the time and it drives me crazy. My apartment is fairly nice, but it's still a pretty cheap city and honestly much cheaper than a 2-bedroom usually is. But people who don't know what I do are always questioning me on how I can afford it - or a vacation, or literally anything that they've decided I shouldn't be able to afford. When did this become such an acceptable question to ask someone? It's not even as though I share my "vanilla" salary with people, so how the fuck do they think they know what I can afford or not?
JGB2009
02-22-2018, 05:34 PM
Anybody have any suggestions besides facebook? I want a new place to hang out at.....
lynn2009
02-22-2018, 07:25 PM
Anybody have any suggestions besides facebook? I want a new place to hang out at.....
Reddit