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JGB2009
03-01-2018, 05:56 PM
I was supposed to go to drag queen bingo tonight with one of my gay male friends. I've never been to that before and was looking forward to it. A damn blizzard hit out of nowhere and it's cancelled. :( Netflix it is.
Sounded like that would have been fun.....
carmen_b
03-02-2018, 03:08 PM
I want to plan a couple road trips and extend invites, but I'm scared to be the organizer. I am just so burnt out from my day job ( heavy right now with logistics organizing ).
I'm worried that all it will take is one stupid question ( weather related or anything else googleable) to make me regret inviting people.
WendiStarr
03-03-2018, 08:27 AM
This guy friend that I have strong feelings for keeps trying to hang out. It's not that I don't want to see him again. It's just that he has flaked out last minute on our plans so many times that I feel worried he's gonna flake on me again. I have this fear that if I show up he won't be there and I'll be let down again. Maybe I should tell him that if he wants to see me he has to come to my place or somewhere nearby that I would hang out anyways like a bookstore or coffee shop, that way if he doesn't show up I'll be somewhere I was going to go anyways.
JGB2009
03-03-2018, 10:11 AM
I'm gonna join a dating app.............. I used to have 5 male friends. Now all that's left from that 5 is one guy. I need more back in my basket.
seashell
03-03-2018, 12:24 PM
Why does everyone on Tinder still live with their parents... >_>
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-05-2018, 08:35 AM
Weird random thought- I found out one of my first escorting clients died. I'm kind of amused by the situation because 1) I had to quit dealing with him due to his behavior (he acted like he had serious mental issues) and 2) he got off on abusing women.
So it turns out he died early, probably alone and the mortuary that handled his remains was a cheap one. He was a money obsessed loser who got packed out of existence like a hotdog wrapper that got sent to the dump.
Maybe there is a God after all.
Glamourmilf
03-05-2018, 09:53 AM
I had a new cam customer yesterday, who was jacking off, while driving in his car!:O
He turned his cam on, put it on the dashboard holder, then went at it.
I've only had one other guy do that. ( That I know of, cause lots of guys don't always put their cam on). But at least THAT guy was pulled over under the underpass on the hwy.;D
I ask the dude where he is, and he tells me Massachusetts.
Um, excuse me, but aren't you in the middle of a nor'easter? Lol! I know we New Englanders are a resilient bunch, but, c'mon man.
All I kept doing was silently praying for him to stay in the show, but at the same time not get to into an accident.
All I kept thinking was.,....>>>>>>>>>>>>≥
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WendiStarr
03-05-2018, 11:08 AM
I went to a new doctor today who was Indian and looked like the actress Sheetal Sheth, so gorgeous! She had those same eyes, face, and everything. I was just like :O Why the heck do I have to have such a beautiful doctor. I felt embarrassed being there talking to her about yeast infection and then on top of it, being on my period. I have to see her again next week too. I might have to switch doctors. I can't talk to a beautiful doctor about gross problems. I'd prefer an ugly one that I'm not physically attracted to.
Vyanka
03-05-2018, 11:26 AM
I went to a new doctor today who was Indian and looked like the actress Sheetal Sheth, so gorgeous! She had those same eyes, face, and everything. I was just like :O Why the heck do I have to have such a beautiful doctor. I felt embarrassed being there talking to her about yeast infection and then on top of it, being on my period. I have to see her again next week too. I might have to switch doctors. I can't talk to a beautiful doctor about gross problems. I'd prefer an ugly one that I'm not physically attracted to.
My regular doctor is an Indian lady in her mid 40s, I kid you not... she looks like an 18 yr old, at most 21. Such a young plumped baby face. She hasn't aged since I last saw her. Which has been almost 10 years.
I agree. I cannot see good looking doctors either. Makes me uncomfortable. Lol.
Vyanka
03-05-2018, 11:27 AM
I had a new cam customer yesterday, who was jacking off, while driving in his car!:O
He turned his cam on, put it on the dashboard holder, then went at it.
I've only had one other guy do that. ( That I know of, cause lots of guys don't always put their cam on). But at least THAT guy was pulled over under the underpass on the hwy.;D
I ask the dude where he is, and he tells me Massachusetts.
Um, excuse me, but aren't you in the middle of a nor''easter? Lol! I know we New Englanders are a resilient bunch, but, c'mon man.
All I kept doing was silently praying for him to stay in the show, but at the same time not get to into an accident.
All I kept thinking was.,....>>>>>>>>>>>>≥
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God, men are so fucking stupid when it comes to sexual behavior. Lol
Glamourmilf
03-06-2018, 07:55 AM
God, men are so fucking stupid when it comes to sexual behavior. Lol
Understatement of the year right there.
The questions I get asked in free chat too. I ask them if I can screenshoot it, because my friends don't believe me when I tell them this shit.
WendiStarr
03-06-2018, 08:53 AM
Now I remember why I don't like seeing couples. I've not been doing any body rubs other than a handful of long-term regs. One of them who I haven't heard from in a month contacted me today saying that he has a girlfriend now and she's interested in getting a body rub too. That would be fine except when he asked me how much and it was double the amount of what he's used to, he tried to haggle me down. No, I'm not going to give a free body rub just because she's a woman. I don't care if she's attractive or not. A one hour body rub for each person is 2 hours of my time. People who don't actually do this work don't realize how taxing that is on the provider's body to give a body rub for an hour straight, let alone two hours. I can't be bothered with that right now.
carmen_b
03-06-2018, 10:18 AM
^ This business sucks sometimes. I placed an ad after a months long disappearance ( Vegas road trip money ) and I just got a call asking for 30 minutes. NO . I just hung up.
JGB2009
03-06-2018, 01:25 PM
I accidentally left my phone at home for 4 hours. I thought I would return to see lots of text. Nope...only text I got was telling me that my cell phone bill is due.
JGB2009
03-06-2018, 06:55 PM
If you are lying to me I will find out. You better be hoping you are telling the truth!!!!
seashell
03-07-2018, 03:59 AM
The Bachelor finale. D: OMFG. Wow.
JGB2009
03-07-2018, 04:27 AM
LMAFO....u say you think I have someone watching you!!!! What.......I don't need to do that!!! You tell on yourself!!!! The truth always comes out!!!!!
WendiStarr
03-07-2018, 12:27 PM
I don't know why but I'm so tired today. I woke up late to clean a house, only had enough time to put on deodorant, clothes, grab a protein shake, and run out the door. I have another house to clean later today and I'm struggling to stay awake. I feel like I could sleep the day away.
DonaDiabla
03-07-2018, 02:05 PM
Am I the only one who thinks there are too many cam sites out there? Just saying every year...it's like a hundred more :) Does anyone remember that cam site that was also a online casino? :)
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-07-2018, 07:22 PM
Am I the only one who thinks there are too many cam sites out there? Just saying every year...it's like a hundred more :) Does anyone remember that cam site that was also a online casino? :)
How long ago?
DonaDiabla
03-07-2018, 07:32 PM
I discovered that site called SlotCamsCasino last year and it close down last year. I guess it was around for 3 years before I saw it.
How long ago?
seashell
03-08-2018, 06:33 AM
Ugh... sometimes I would give anything to speak the local language. Just went to a store and was unable to communicate with the people in line & the checkout clerk when they were trying to talk to me. They were mad about something. What did I do wrong this time? I will never know. lmao.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-08-2018, 11:49 AM
I discovered that site called SlotCamsCasino last year and it close down last year. I guess it was around for 3 years before I saw it.
I remember a casino/adult site from the early 2000s but it's probably long gone by now.
JGB2009
03-08-2018, 05:20 PM
We so need to talk in person. Its way long over do. I hope it happens soon. Fingers crossed!!!
TheBrownFox
03-08-2018, 10:01 PM
Am I the only one who thinks there are too many cam sites out there? Just saying every year...it's like a hundred more :)
Yes! It's just too many damn sites to choose from that it's a bit overwhelming! I've also said the same thing about the number of apps and bots there are on Chaturbate. LOL.
Vyanka
03-09-2018, 12:03 AM
Am I the only one who thinks there are too many cam sites out there? Just saying every year...it's like a hundred more :) Does anyone remember that cam site that was also a online casino? :)
It caught up like strip clubs. Too many as well.
Glamourmilf
03-09-2018, 06:53 AM
Why, oh why are gay men so much fun to be around?:'(
I purposely go out of my way to avoid them, but it seems like every social event that I go to......... Woomp, there they are.
They all are drawn to me, and it makes it difficult to then relate to straight guys, after hanging with them.
I was at a photography meet up yesterday, and this gay guy opened up the conversation with, " How do you get your hair color to look so pretty and natural?" He wanted to talk in depth about it. Ugh!
Most of the other attendees were gay, and they were just as fun, and interesting.
My brother s gay, but he has dementia now, and lives far away, so I don't have deep talks with him.
I'll just have to admit to it= Glam- Hag since 1972
* Well, I'm off to see my gay hairdresser today who makes me laugh more than anyone else I know. Waah!
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SnuffleUffleGrass
03-09-2018, 07:56 AM
Today needs to be Craft Project day at home because life has been stressful lately.
Aurora_Sunset
03-09-2018, 11:36 AM
One of my male coworkers has WAY nicer hair than mine. It's such a pretty blonde color too - it's kinda depressing lol
The thing is, every other aspect of him is very gruff - scraggly beard, short, pudgy, kinda crappy tattoos all up and down both arms.... but his hair? Majestic as fuck.
JGB2009
03-09-2018, 11:42 AM
One of my male coworkers has WAY nicer hair than mine. It's such a pretty blonde color too - it's kinda depressing lol
The thing is, every other aspect of him is very gruff - scraggly beard, short, pudgy, kinda crappy tattoos all up and down both arms.... but his hair? Majestic as fuck.
I love good hair on a guy!!!!!!! LOL hair is very important to me.
xStacey
03-09-2018, 01:19 PM
I'm obsessed with videos of cute cats on Happy Cats Facebook page. I want a kitten !!!
whirlerz
03-09-2018, 01:22 PM
I'm obsessed with videos of cute cats on Happy Cats Facebook page. I want a kitten !!!
I know! I have so many cute re-blogs of cats, vids & pics from tumblr. Other animals too
Glamourmilf
03-10-2018, 09:09 AM
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Just a reminder:-*
WendiStarr
03-10-2018, 09:28 AM
Now I remember why I don't like seeing couples. I've not been doing any body rubs other than a handful of long-term regs. One of them who I haven't heard from in a month contacted me today saying that he has a girlfriend now and she's interested in getting a body rub too. That would be fine except when he asked me how much and it was double the amount of what he's used to, he tried to haggle me down. No, I'm not going to give a free body rub just because she's a woman. I don't care if she's attractive or not. A one hour body rub for each person is 2 hours of my time. People who don't actually do this work don't realize how taxing that is on the provider's body to give a body rub for an hour straight, let alone two hours. I can't be bothered with that right now.
It's funny how things work out. He ended up changing his mind and agreeing to my rate. His girlfriend and I got along really well and she asked me for my number. She ended up inviting me out to dinner the next night. I went and had a good time. That was exactly what I needed. I don't have many female friends.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-10-2018, 10:10 AM
It's funny how things work out. He ended up changing his mind and agreeing to my rate. His girlfriend and I got along really well and she asked me for my number. She ended up inviting me out to dinner the next night. I went and had a good time. That was exactly what I needed. I don't have many female friends.
This is awesome
chanzep
03-10-2018, 06:27 PM
so today I tried shipt today because im done with instacart and im so impressed. I will probably pay the monthly fee now after my 2 week trial. I did not have my days off together this week which I hate now I have a full time vanilla job and the thought of Grocery store on a Saturday was too much. Sometimes I don't mind the store but other times ugh, I also got to clean up while my shopping was being done so I feel good that I did both lol . Now I can survive the next 5 days at work, I also had kinda of made plans with 2 people today and was relived when none of them called me lol.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-10-2018, 06:40 PM
owwww so much physical pain oowwwww
lilylilylily
03-10-2018, 06:43 PM
Black forest cake is really gross. At least the piece I had. Dry as hell
JGB2009
03-11-2018, 03:34 AM
I wanted to get on cam last night so bad but I have a cold form fuckin HELL. I hope tonight I can actually work smh!!!!
Glamourmilf
03-11-2018, 07:42 AM
so today I tried shipt today because im done with instacart and im so impressed. I will probably pay the monthly fee now after my 2 week trial. I did not have my days off together this week which I hate now I have a full time vanilla job and the thought of Grocery store on a Saturday was too much. Sometimes I don't mind the store but other times ugh, I also got to clean up while my shopping was being done so I feel good that I did both lol . Now I can survive the next 5 days at work, I also had kinda of made plans with 2 people today and was relived when none of them called me lol.
Great tip! Thank You.:-* I will try them. Sometimes ( oftentimes) food shopping is just too annoying, what with all the crowds).
Last week I was grocery shopping at Trader Joe's. I left my cart, which was full, for less than a minute to grab something across the aisle.
When I turned around, some old guy had taken my cart! Luckily I caught him before he got lost in the crowd.
Jeesh!
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-11-2018, 08:39 AM
The letitgo app is pissing me off so badly I'm just going to start posting crap on it and see if people actually buy the items. lol.......
JGB2009
03-11-2018, 10:13 PM
Saturday I noticed this guy kept staring at me in the store. Mind you he had a girl with him that was already pretty who looked similar to me. It was just annoying cause he kept looking at me!!!! Creepy!!!!
WendiStarr
03-12-2018, 08:00 AM
I went and seen Red Sparrow last night. It was pretty good. I could've done without some of the bloody scenes but damn, Jennifer Lawrence is hot! She's my celebrity crush of the month.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-12-2018, 08:37 AM
I went and seen Red Sparrow last night. It was pretty good. I could've done without some of the bloody scenes but damn, Jennifer Lawrence is hot! She's my celebrity crush of the month.
"Red Sparrow" seems like a re-make of a TV movie from the mid 1980s that featured Linda Hamilton as a Soviet honeypot spy. I'll check the movie out sometime, I love J Law
WendiStarr
03-13-2018, 02:03 PM
I need to eat more veggies and cut out the sweets. I've been eating too many leftover birthday sweets. I texted a guy friend with a sweet tooth that he'd better come get them tonight or else I'm taking them out to the dumpster. I can do this. Kind of funny that I treat sweets like it's a drug or something. I guess because I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs, sweets have filled that void, but sugar addiction is bad too.
Vyanka
03-15-2018, 03:31 AM
Omg. This dude I use to be infatuated with as a teen has gotten so fucking fugly! He ruined his looks with hard drugs and steroids. It's so bad that he microbladed his brows and head. He lost a of hair due to drugs, I'm assuming. Like wtf is going with your head..dude???
His arms look terrible.
JGB2009
03-15-2018, 01:40 PM
I used to be afraid that I would forget what you sound like....................funny many moons later I can hear you so clearly.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-15-2018, 02:43 PM
Omg. This dude I use to be infatuated with as a teen has gotten so fucking fugly! He ruined his looks with hard drugs and steroids. It's so bad that he microbladed his brows and head. He lost a of hair due to drugs, I'm assuming. Like wtf is going with your head..dude???
His arms look terrible.
I've seen this happen to a lot of people I've known from the bar business. I honestly think the biggest penalty for abusing one's health is having to look like crap in middle age...
JGB2009
03-15-2018, 06:41 PM
I am bored and sleepy. What a combination!!!!
Aurora_Sunset
03-15-2018, 06:46 PM
I'm getting a second chance at an interview at a nice restaurant that I blew off a couple weeks ago cuz I didn't think they'd take me. Hopefully, this is a sign of some sort. If this interview doesn't pan out either, it may be back to dancing after a crash diet. :/