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kortneykay
11-05-2017, 02:57 PM
just kicked my ex out so after years of putting up with shit & putting myself second, I can finally focus 110%. I need a new car for christmas. fucking hate my dad vehicle with bad gas mileage (13.5 mpg) & the tranny is on it's last leg. time for something new and sexy. I want to feel like I earned that shit 100% on christmas morning. may even put a bow on it just to be extra af. so basically my mantra for the next 6.5 weeks will be
http://i.perezhilton.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/work-bitch-gifs-6.gif
no more 20hr weeks. Will I be exhausted? yup. Will I probably bitch and moan after a couple weeks? no doubt. Will I have a new car and money in my pocket left over at the end? yup!

YASSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! You're going to be so proud of yourself. Delayed gratification is worth it.

DeepThoughts
11-06-2017, 08:36 AM
I have the opposite problem. When I have a good day I tend to want to slack off and tell myself I deserve a day off and then it becomes two days and sometimes more.

I love the idea of a money goal and an hours goal though! I need to be more disciplined. I have not been working enough hours and tend to give up too soon and get discouraged.

This thread has such great ideas, love it!

I have this same problem only its not daily its weekly! Had a great week so now I want to slack. I no longer allow that. I dont want to post my exact goals here but my hourly goal is 8 hours a day but a minimum of 6 when there is something else going on and I expect to make say 250 a day but if I hit 300 then I quit for the day no matter what. So I have had to get myself into this mind set of "Your waking up and going to work by 10.30 and putting in 8 hours" like if I was working for another company and not for myself. I try to trick myself into believing that I have to be at work at 10.30 or I will be fired. Thats how I stay disciplined and once I fall into that routine and I see the $'s adding up then I feel motivated to keep going because I want to close off my week with a big $ value coming my way!

Its weird cause I always loved working a 9-5 job and was always an hour early for work. Never was late, never had a sick day but some how with camming I started letting myself slack and I really think it comes down to routine. I had to have a strict routine when I worked for others and I HAVE to have one working for myself as well. And dont let yourself believe that you "deserve" a day or days off cause you did well. Doing well means you made your daily goal and got the rest of the day off! Not the rest of the week or even the next day ;)

Teddy_Bear
11-06-2017, 05:27 PM
I'm so glad to see this thread back on the front page. My self-discipline is my worst enemy and I am setting a goal for myself until January that I have to get online every day for a minimum of 8 hours no matter what time I log on.

We'll see how many I manage...

thatgingercamgirl
01-05-2018, 03:28 PM
BUMPING cause I can't be the only one who needs some KK wisdom right now

kortneykay
01-07-2018, 09:38 AM
BUMPING cause I can't be the only one who needs some KK wisdom right now

HAHA. I'm reading this thread front to back to get some for myself. It's JANUARY 2018- 2nd week, we can literally kill it the next 7 months and have a great summer!

kortneykay
01-07-2018, 09:44 AM
Back to take my own advice, lol. Going to put in 8-9 hours 6 days a week split into shifts of 3. The holidays are over, it's a new year, and nothing beats hustling while hibernating.

I wrote down the goals I'd like to accomplish this year, threw some dates on my calendars to remind me and I'm eager to set it off. Wanting to travel a lot more this yr, get a desktop computer for work, and finish this fitness journey. Above all, I really want to become a workaholic. I actually like and miss that feeling of total exhaustion but also seeing the money pile up every week.

LET'S GET IT!

DahliaSimone
01-07-2018, 09:44 AM
I really have to buckle down and practice better self discipline. My biggest downfall is I get bored or distracted by/during long quiet spells. I HAVE to buckle down. This year WILL BE my year.

kortneykay
01-07-2018, 10:34 AM
I really have to buckle down and practice better self discipline. My biggest downfall is I get bored or distracted by/during long quiet spells. I HAVE to buckle down. This year WILL BE my year.

YESSSS! Is there a way to split your screen and busy yourself by online browsing, playing sims/games, reading, etc? I try and have two windows (10, who am I kidding) when it gets slow and have one open on the chatroom, and another on something that captures my attention.

DahliaSimone
01-07-2018, 10:46 AM
I do, I just gotta get better at not letting my entertainment impede on my work. Which I'm going to consciously work on. Last year was my first year camming full time (a year previous part time) and I learned a lot, but I have massive improvements to make bc I know I SHOULD be making 10x what I do. Maybe complacency got me, but....fuck that. This year is the time that I become a real businesswoman, buckle down, forget outside distractions, and make that $ that girls like you, the Ivy's, and others make. I can do it, I know I can, I just have to get my self-discipline in check. That's my New Years resolution: build my brand and rake in all that $ that's out there for us to grab.

Bridgetxo
01-08-2018, 12:43 AM
I've been working a ton since the new year started and I've made so much already. I'm just super afraid of getting burnt out. I haven't taken a day off yet. I try to do around 6 hours per day everyday. I mean what else would I be doing if I wasn't on cam? I'd probably be watching tv and eating. I'm trying to lose a few pounds also and I don't eat while on cam so that has helped curb my eating a bit. I'm hoping I can keep this up as much as possible. I'm so addicted to the money right now. I also want to become a workaholic.

minniesoporno
01-08-2018, 11:37 AM
So 2018 makes 15 years of me camming, working from home and a whole bunch of other accomplishments for me. SO I am really trying to get myself in a mode to celebrate that. but it also has me on this performance reflection review

A few interesting articles from ynotcam.com has me really putting things in a different perspective. Where I want to set myself on personal challenge every year. I am in this for the long haul, there is no let me quit working from home for the last 15 years so I can demote myself into a job working for someone else, who will never value my experience or my knowledge of what it means to run a business.

Self-discipline is the only way this new challenge and plan will work. starting with I need to challenge myself to reach $100,000 which would open up some serious opportunities for me. Then Last year I got hit with some emergencies where if I had my finances in order they would be just a blip on my radar

I am 33 this year. time to really put myself in a position where I can completely take care of myself and everyone who is not on board or supportive of what I am doing can exit my life completely. It's the only annoying habit that is still around thinking I need to keep certain people in my life because I am afraid of moving past them.

kortneykay
01-09-2018, 05:59 AM
So, yesterday was interesting. Got up early, drank my smoothie, worked out, meditated and still had a shit day early on. I kept at it though, and before long I made a few hundred without even trying. Glad I didn't give up like I wanted to. Guess it was the case of the Monday's.

Today is a new day, I'm exhausted, and love it (even though I had a full 8-9 hours) but I'm up early again ready to kick today's ass. I'm dragging my feet but I had my green smoothie and will work out here in a bit. My net is still kicking me off every hour but I gotta do what I gotta do. I hope you ladies are having a fantastic day. My intent is to keep this up, 6 days a week.

JustCallMeBree
01-09-2018, 07:09 AM
I want to start off by saying I love you this thread and kortneykay! I swear I'd never would of made it as a cam girl without some of your advice.

I'm coming back to full time camming after a year of burn out/depression. I knew I'd be slacking but seeing my year-end statement shocked me. I made 3x less in 2017 than 2016. I can't let that happen this year. Self-discipline is my main enemy but I'm determined to overcome it. I know once I start making more money it'll get easier to get on. My goal is to begin camming for at least 4 hours a day or to my daily money goal. Then to move up by an hour each month till I'm at 7 hours a day and triple my daily money goal.


The money's out here Ladies and we can get every dime if we try.

Teddy_Bear
01-12-2018, 10:02 AM
My self-discipline is still completely out of control and I took whole weeks off at a time recently due to de-motivation and illness it sucks as I just want to work to a schedule. I'm not lazy just have no motivation to log on let alone STFO :'(

xxxGothBarbie
01-13-2018, 11:31 PM
I need to jump on this asap, I've been slacking with camming lately & only making enough to live comfortable but I wanna live like the fucking queen I am & start treating myself & my new boy to lavish trips & such <3

Cutie101
01-14-2018, 01:05 AM
2017 was draining and exhausting. Low earnings and everything.
January isn't helping either, but, I can only push trough and hope it will be better.
Everything is dead everywhere and I only wonder "what else cand I do??". It's getting me depressed and annoyed.
In this situation, the discipline is the only one that helps me dragging my ass on cam. Motivation is lost, somehwere in the universe...

kortneykay
01-14-2018, 10:24 PM
I can certainly understand the pressure. I'm guessing the guys are all paying up for last month's holiday gifting. Alas, it'll pick up for everyone again, soon. It's good to have more eggs in more baskets so at least you're making money somewhere.

This week was a drag but my intent is still the same. Glad I get a new week. My internet still keeps disconnecting every hour, lol. Eager and excited for tomorrow. I did a lot of cleansing and journaling this past week. This week I'd like to stick to my schedule a bit more, and practice more self-discipline in areas like food, work, and fitness. I want to crank out at least 54 hours this week.

Let's get it!

BriiBratty
01-17-2018, 08:47 PM
One thing that has DEFINITELY motivated me to get on is that my viewers ask me all the time what my schedule is...so I made one and posted it.
Your viewers trust that you'll keep to that schedule if you make it, and if you don't they'll think you're too flaky sometimes.

Once I made that and posted it I KNEW I couldn't change it at least for a week. It sounds silly, but it has been working for me and I HATE GETTING ON!!! I love camming, it's logging on initially that sucks lol.

Also, rent motivates me. I don't have a lot on MV for sale, so I don't make too much money outside of camming.

kortneykay
01-17-2018, 10:09 PM
This week started off slow, but it's picking up. So happy for midweek men and the discipline used to stay on. Could've missed on on $370 tonight had I logged off early. There's been a few times I've wanted to give up this week but staying the course has paid off. I'm waking up early, completing my daily goals, and making money. I'm tired, but it's the good kind.

1pandoradesire
01-21-2018, 03:35 PM
I have revisited this thread because it got bumped and I am so happy that it did!
I have been thinking on this for three days. Intent and self -discipline are requirements for this choice of career if you intend to hang in there for any amount of time. I am now six years into this adventure. I was recalling a conversation that my Husband and I had a few years ago about this very subject. On a piece of paper he asked me to one side column write, why I do this, what amount i want to make and why. It changed so much for me. My reasons for starting was for money and to leave a corporate job that was slowly killing me. But it needed to be deeper than just money for me. So it looked like money to take my grown daughter to do special things, money to fund my photography business, money to visit my daughter in Seattle, the ability to take time off when i choose, the freedom to help my grown son with Asperger get his collage degree. Money to meet my girlfriend for wine time every Friday afternoon. We added this all up, and it gave me a money goal. With the money goal we could calculate how many hours a week i needed to put in. All of that was a turning point for me but the real tipping point came when I realized that "Flow" that Tony Robbins talks about happens for me when I am in my chat room. How could it be I would think that being in porn is my passion? Rather than judge it, I have learned to go with it. It has had ups and downs, and I even took some time off, but here I am at 51 and loving it... inspite of all the issues with Streamate, I just work around all of that. Once you learn your real reason of why... what is behind wanting the money I believe it makes all of the difference. Thank you so much for this thread!

Hello Camboys and Camgirls! With so many awesome threads such as "Camming Rocks" and "Get The Fuck Online" to use as motivation, it's no wonder they're bumped almost daily. But is that enough? What actually drives us to continuously get online? In what ways has self-discipline and intent enriched your work life? For those of you who transition from being lazy to workaholic; have you experienced any down sides of success?

Self-discipline wakes you up in the morning. Intent is the reason you keep logging in. What is your real/true purpose for hustling?

I think it's very important to have an actual reason to log on as well as practice enough discipline that it becomes second nature. If anyone has any advice that would be awesome. I know that logging in is a very hard thing to do for quite a lot of us. Perhaps if we could get to the root of the problem we can apply them to our own lives and start making our lives extraordinary.

kortneykay
01-21-2018, 08:40 PM
I have revisited this thread because it got bumped and I am so happy that it did!
I have been thinking on this for three days. Intent and self -discipline are requirements for this choice of career if you intend to hang in there for any amount of time. I am now six years into this adventure. I was recalling a conversation that my Husband and I had a few years ago about this very subject. On a piece of paper he asked me to one side column write, why I do this, what amount i want to make and why. It changed so much for me. My reasons for starting was for money and to leave a corporate job that was slowly killing me. But it needed to be deeper than just money for me. So it looked like money to take my grown daughter to do special things, money to fund my photography business, money to visit my daughter in Seattle, the ability to take time off when i choose, the freedom to help my grown son with Asperger get his collage degree. Money to meet my girlfriend for wine time every Friday afternoon. We added this all up, and it gave me a money goal. With the money goal we could calculate how many hours a week i needed to put in. All of that was a turning point for me but the real tipping point came when I realized that "Flow" that Tony Robbins talks about happens for me when I am in my chat room. How could it be I would think that being in porn is my passion? Rather than judge it, I have learned to go with it. It has had ups and downs, and I even took some time off, but here I am at 51 and loving it... inspite of all the issues with Streamate, I just work around all of that. Once you learn your real reason of why... what is behind wanting the money I believe it makes all of the difference. Thank you so much for this thread!

Such an inspirational post! It's a new week, i'm really enjoying the 'flow' you spoke of. And when the night is settling down and you realize what you created financially during your flow puts the cherry on top. I hope we all have an outstanding week.

kortneykay
02-07-2018, 02:48 PM
Hope you're doing well, ladies. My intent has been really strong, lately. I've been dividing my work days into bills and rewards and I've been knocking things down one after another. I'm in hibernation mode so I'm all about hoarding cash, and getting my body summer ready. The net I'm using still won't allow me to stream (it's that slow) high quality so I'm working my non-cam eggs, pretty much daily. I miss logging in when I wanted and being super busy. Now it's like watching paint dry. Glad I'm A.D.D and can find a plethora of things to do while waiting.

It hasn't been the easiest but it's building my patience. I just really miss streaming is all and streaming boosts income dramatically. It's like missing a limb right now having to wait a little longer for the income. I'm just grateful for the extra eggs I do have. I'm doing a camathon around the 16th as soon as my net gets updated.

charlott
05-24-2018, 05:45 PM
I feel like my time goes by without realizing it and at the end of the day I do not do a camera. >:(

could you give me advice on how you disciplined?

CatBBW
05-24-2018, 06:13 PM
You just DO IT. Set the time (in your head) as to what time you will go to work, and show up at that time. Every day.

minniesoporno
05-24-2018, 06:46 PM
You have to keep the promises to yourself first. go with following the four agreements to yourself is a start. It's a horrible feeling when you let yourself down when you are also the same person who can make thing right for yourself.

KatM
05-24-2018, 06:50 PM
Imagine u have to go to work at a specific time. You never worked there? Or that u need to go to school or wherever else. You just have to do it unless u just playing with the idea of camming but never really wanting to.

naomi_doll
05-24-2018, 07:11 PM
Here's a great thread on discipline - https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?203436-Self-Discipline-amp-Intent-Camming

kortneykay
05-24-2018, 09:55 PM
You have to make that decision on your own. Everyone has their own reasons but the top ones for me are that BILLS come consecutively, and on time. I've never had one single company bill me days, weeks or months later after the billing date. So, if you want to feed, clothe, and shelter yourself; you must hu$tle to keep the lights on. Or, get married to a wealthy man and not work. Your choice. But someone has to pay the bills or LIGHTS OUT FOR YOU!

Also, I have an awesome camsister that busts her ass daily and gets up EARLY, you just figured out your issue. You mentioned time is going by, and without you realizing it and that 'at the end of the day' you haven't cammed. Flip that around and cam early during the day so at the end of the day you've cammed, and the time that flew by was done doing something productive that gave you a financial return. I'm quite sure whatever you're doing isn't making you money. I get it. I struggle too, and I've slept in and not gotten up early but I still log on. Work hard now, so you can relax later.

Esixxx
05-26-2018, 01:40 PM
This thread is awesome!

When I made the decision to cam full time 3 years ago my motivation for camming was FREEDOM and my intent was (and still is) to be able to enjoy my life to the fullest (money is part of that equation.)

The year before I quit my vanilla job, my daughter was hospitalized for a week and I couldn't take the time off of work to go see her because we were understaffed at work, with the exception of my days off. That feeling sucked. I wanted the time to spend with my family and if there was ever an emergency to come up that I could be there for support. Along with doing fun things- like taking road trips with my kiddo.

Last year while my daughter was still living at home she was hospitalized twice. I was able to visit her, I didn't work that much during that week; but I did bank (my definition) that week- My marketing for the week was set up and content sales were good. I would not have been able to do that with my vanilla job.

Fast forward to present day, I am officially an empty nester. My motivation and intent is still freedom- freedom of the stress of struggling, freedom to set my schedule to take care of myself and my overall well being and the freedom to make memories, connect and have fun with the people I care about. Taking road trips with my daughter, explore new places and things. We are taking a day trip out of state of Monday.

I recently switched my work schedule around to overnights so that I can get my time in online distraction free. I had a problem with being tempted to log off too much during the day and I also wanted enough time to go to the gym, clean and cook, and get some study time for personal development and business.

Paradoxx
05-26-2018, 01:49 PM
Also, I have an awesome camsister that busts her ass daily and gets up EARLY, you just figured out your issue. You mentioned time is going by, and without you realizing it and that 'at the end of the day' you haven't cammed. Flip that around and cam early during the day so at the end of the day you've cammed, and the time that flew by was done doing something productive that gave you a financial return. I'm quite sure whatever you're doing isn't making you money. I get it. I struggle too, and I've slept in and not gotten up early but I still log on. Work hard now, so you can relax later.

^^^

This is so damn true, camming as early as 7am changed my whole hustle. Gives me the whoooole day to hit my goal. I'd like to eventually start even earlier.

xxxGothBarbie
05-30-2018, 12:29 AM
^^^

This is so damn true, camming as early as 7am changed my whole hustle. Gives me the whoooole day to hit my goal. I'd like to eventually start even earlier.

I'm not usually a morning person but what time are you guys going to bed if you're waking at 7 am?

Paradoxx
05-30-2018, 05:47 AM
I'm not usually a morning person but what time are you guys going to bed if you're waking at 7 am?

Oh, I don't wake up at 7am, I START at 7am haha or at least I try. :) I wake up anywhere from 4:50am to 5:30am because I wear a ton of makeup that can take a while to apply.
And I make a conscious effort to try to be asleep by 11pm at the absolute latest.

xxxGothBarbie
05-30-2018, 04:09 PM
AH yes this thread helped me to stay logged on late last night & it finally paid off.

SimoneGray
06-04-2018, 03:08 AM
Self discipline is the ultimate form of self care. In our line of work, working consistently is the best you can do for yourself, so think of working as caring, and it'll get much easier to do.

KiaraK
06-04-2018, 11:00 PM
You just DO IT. Set the time (in your head) as to what time you will go to work, and show up at that time. Every day.
I think my biggest problem is not doing it, but becoming overwhelmed by what must be done. I know I need to market, improve listings, etc. not to mention keep up with existing, (though few for me) customers. So, how do you prioritize? For me, this is my biggest problem when it comes to motivation. It’s not that I’m not doing, just that my efforts are scattered everywhere at the same time. It’s kind of self defeating. Like if I’m on cam every day from 6-2 but am falling short on marketing, then i feel like those hours aren’t as productive as they could’ve been, especially if I’m not getting the traffic or the sales.

Cutie101
06-04-2018, 11:14 PM
I think my biggest problem is not doing it, but becoming overwhelmed by what must be done. I know I need to market, improve listings, etc. not to mention keep up with existing, (though few for me) customers. So, how do you prioritize? For me, this is my biggest problem when it comes to motivation. It’s not that I’m not doing, just that my efforts are scattered everywhere at the same time. It’s kind of self defeating. Like if I’m on cam every day from 6-2 but am falling short on marketing, then i feel like those hours aren’t as productive as they could’ve been, especially if I’m not getting the traffic or the sales.

I guess some days are lazier than the others. Nothing wrong with that, just allow yourself to login in some days and just be online and that's it, without stressing with something else. And in other days, when you are feeling better, do what you have to do.

naomi_doll
06-05-2018, 06:45 AM
I think my biggest problem is not doing it, but becoming overwhelmed by what must be done. I know I need to market, improve listings, etc. not to mention keep up with existing, (though few for me) customers. So, how do you prioritize? For me, this is my biggest problem when it comes to motivation. It’s not that I’m not doing, just that my efforts are scattered everywhere at the same time. It’s kind of self defeating. Like if I’m on cam every day from 6-2 but am falling short on marketing, then i feel like those hours aren’t as productive as they could’ve been, especially if I’m not getting the traffic or the sales.

I usually do all of those things during my period or when I get sick. That way I'm getting them all done for the month (there are tons of apps that let you schedule social media posts in advance) and I don't feel guilty about not being on cam. Then during the rest of the month I just focus on streaming.

anouk.oui
07-02-2018, 03:55 AM
I see girls say they're doing 5-12 hour shifts.
I'm a bit down with the flu at the moment but still after the first hour of constantly smiling and being perky and waving and typing my back and neck get sore and I lose energy fast. I have endured 3 hours max previously but i need to take regular breaks and often guys on MFC just silently hang around or do nothing and its hard to talk to everyone and be engaging continuously.
Other times I do fine, I guess it depends on the custys too.
When too many people park in my room and do nothing and won't tip or go pvt I go 'away' for a bit and try again with a fresh audience plus I don't want too much online inactivity to affect my cam score.

how do you keep energised / break down / get through your camming shifts?

DeepThoughts
07-04-2018, 02:32 AM
http://i63.tinypic.com/2lc4c2d.jpg

I cam from my couch :D

Marina Starr
07-04-2018, 05:52 AM
How do you like hoeing on the couch? I'm debating if I should get one.

I cam from my couch :D

DeepThoughts
07-04-2018, 08:40 AM
How do you like hoeing on the couch? I'm debating if I should get one.

Honestly when I was on a lap top it was fine but now that I have this serious fucking desktop computer I am thinking about installing a desk in my living room and camming from a big ass chair. Sofa chair I think. Something I can really play around more with. I cant really stand up and cam from the sofa cause my camera and screen are on the living room table and its short! I need more flexibility!

Marina Starr
07-04-2018, 09:47 AM
I'm the opposite, I hardly ever stand, I sit on my bed. I prefer laptop for mobility.


Honestly when I was on a lap top it was fine but now that I have this serious fucking desktop computer I am thinking about installing a desk in my living room and camming from a big ass chair. Sofa chair I think. Something I can really play around more with. I cant really stand up and cam from the sofa cause my camera and screen are on the living room table and its short! I need more flexibility!

Jassi
07-15-2018, 05:02 PM
I also wanted to add that this is something I struggle with in every day life and not just work. I only just recently became "independent" as I had people (ex, parents/family, uncles, etc) taking care of me my whole life. I can blame it all on my A.D.D and PTSD but at the end of the day it really all boils down to me and what lengths I'm willing to go to discipline myself. The only thing that will change anyone boils down to a decision. It's simple. I either decide to get up and work, or I decide to lay in bed. Each choice has consequences. Lately I've been eating better and working out and sticking with it so I'm hoping that work will follow suit.

I know this was from 3 years ago...but this is me currently.
So hard to motivate myself lately, even with bills piling up and my fear of not having money.
This is a great thread...helps to see that I'm not the only one who needs better motivation actions.
It's my actions that will make me more money, my intention is to make more money.
I need action to create my intention.
It seems simple, and it is really...my motivation needs to grow stronger than my well intended plans.

kortneykay
07-15-2018, 07:49 PM
I know this was from 3 years ago...but this is me currently.
So hard to motivate myself lately, even with bills piling up and my fear of not having money.
This is a great thread...helps to see that I'm not the only one who needs better motivation actions.
It's my actions that will make me more money, my intention is to make more money.
I need action to create my intention.
It seems simple, and it is really...my motivation needs to grow stronger than my well intended plans.

You got this! I understand how hard it can be.

Cutie101
07-15-2018, 10:45 PM
I try to give this advice everywhere I can, in allt he threads: Try to get yourself 1-2 days per week off. Choose those days and declare them your weekend :)) And work hard the rest of 5 days.
Ever since I am not working weekends anymore, I am able to stick to my schedule and work consistently. Because I know I have those 2 days coming.
I work sunday night- to thursday night and I am all great. I go out with my friends, I can clean my house properly, I can relax and play computer games, I can read, etc. 2 days only for myself!
Believe me, I come back to work really motivated and I stick to my discpline a whole lot more!!! And my mental health improved, I am less anxious and week by week, I start brining out the old camgirl within myself.
You don't have to take saturday and sunday off, you simply pick 2 days (preferable 2 days in a row, so u can actually feel the time off, but it's good if you split them during the week either).
You'll see you're more productive that way and be able to work longer hours!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-04-2019, 06:55 PM
Bumping for the new year and positive vibes.

Miss_ShaSha
02-05-2019, 02:07 PM
When I decide that I want something, I go all in and all out. I'm kinda the obsessive type who strives for success. I have backed off full time Spinning instruction (my passion) due to overtraining. My resting heart rate went from 38 BPM to 56 BPM. I was literally sick from teaching 15 classes a week on the bike. But when I decided to become an instructor I had the goal of becoming a ROCKSTAR & I did through long hours, extra education, and small goals along the way.

Now I'm a full time camgirl and my new goal is to become SM's top foot fetish model. I also have an additional income goal I'd like to meet in the next 2 months, but I really just desire to be one of the most popular foot models.

This idea is constantly there. I see myself as ranking well & put in the hours so I can be seen. Having a dream/goal/intention helps me stay motivated and logging in even when I hardly make my income goal.

An "I can" attitude has gotten me very far in life. I attribute it to my father's discipline method (he's retired NAVY).

Like NIKE I just do it LOL.

But to stay motivated I engage in a lot of self care: eat clean, hydrate optimally, exercise regularly, meditate daily, practice positive affirmations, listen to binaural beats, get 8-9 hrs sleep a night, socialize regularly, and take breaks accordingly during my 8 hr long camming shifts.

Cutie101
02-05-2019, 02:28 PM
When I decide that I want something, I go all in and all out. I'm kinda the obsessive type who strives for success. I have backed off full time Spinning instruction (my passion) due to overtraining. My resting heart rate went from 38 BPM to 56 BPM. I was literally sick from teaching 15 classes a week on the bike. But when I decided to become an instructor I had the goal of becoming a ROCKSTAR & I did through long hours, extra education, and small goals along the way.

Now I'm a full time camgirl and my new goal is to become SM's top foot fetish model. I also have an additional income goal I'd like to meet in the next 2 months, but I really just desire to be one of the most popular foot models.

This idea is constantly there. I see myself as ranking well & put in the hours so I can be seen. Having a dream/goal/intention helps me stay motivated and logging in even when I hardly make my income goal.

An "I can" attitude has gotten me very far in life. I attribute it to my father's discipline method (he's retired NAVY).

Like NIKE I just do it LOL.

But to stay motivated I engage in a lot of self care: eat clean, hydrate optimally, exercise regularly, meditate daily, practice positive affirmations, listen to binaural beats, get 8-9 hrs sleep a night, socialize regularly, and take breaks accordingly during my 8 hr long camming shifts.

I like iiiittt!!!! That's the spirit!!!!
Btw, I can't find the page where you said what you were listening to, can you please leave the link again?:))))) I am kidna down lately and need some uplifting stuff :))

Miss_ShaSha
02-05-2019, 02:52 PM
^^ your advice is quality too! Making time for yourself prevents burnout.

Yes, of course!

This is great & I listen to it for up to 4 hours on repeat. It calms my nerves & keeps me positive:

https://youtu.be/rYxYlgdWAxE

& I regularly listen to this & repeat all affirmations. Legit...I am happier as a result of committing to a month straight of repeating these!

https://youtu.be/63_8-pZ0Vl0

Cutie101
02-05-2019, 05:33 PM
^^ your advice is quality too! Making time for yourself prevents burnout.

Yes, of course!

This is great & I listen to it for up to 4 hours on repeat. It calms my nerves & keeps me positive:

https://youtu.be/rYxYlgdWAxE

& I regularly listen to this & repeat all affirmations. Legit...I am happier as a result of committing to a month straight of repeating these!

https://youtu.be/63_8-pZ0Vl0

Thank youuu!!!