View Full Version : When is it time to move on? Should I divorce?
kortneykay
10-19-2015, 01:03 PM
Nope. Nope. Nope. He's a mama's boy. Mama's boys tend to throw tantrums when they don't get their way. Their mom is always there to pick up the slack. To me, unless it's a dire emergency- he shouldn't have to move back or move you and your child with his parents. He needs to knuck up, get a job/career and take care of his business. I think you should divorce and figure out parental rights between the both of you for the baby. It doesn't look like he's motivated and no one should have to be motivated to be a responsible husband and father. Just my two cents.
ETA: Glad it's working out for you!
wednesday86
10-25-2015, 02:09 PM
Update on the soap opera that is my life...I deleted my bit about Dr. Sexy because i realized there are too many personal details and I want to protect his privacy. We are still dating and it's still going great. I'm thinking if we're going strong in a few months I'll let him meet my son.
Ex and I have been pretty split with the baby. We usually work it out so he stays with me for a week, then stays with him for about a week. It's working well so far.
The last time my ex dropped the baby off, he "left" then texted me 6 hours later saying "come outside and have a smoke with me." Turns out he never left town...he was waiting for our son to fall asleep so 'we could talk.' Then he starts going on about how he's still in love with me, blah blah blah, but doesn't want to come between me and the new guy. Honestly I really respected him for stepping aside. He'll never give me what I need in a relationship and I appreciate him letting me go.
Then he hugged me for about 7 minutes......and I was trying to let him say goodbye and get closure but it was annoying. Zero feelings on my side. Zero fucks given. If he 'loves' me he should have tried harder when the feelings were mutual. I told him to stop talking to me for a while and let himself get over it.
As far as Dr.Sexy 'moving too fast' I realized as I learned about Korean culture it's very normal (for him.) There's no "seeing each other" dating phase..You're either boyfriend/girlfriend over there or just platonic friends. The more I learn about his culture the more his behavior makes sense.