View Full Version : STREAMATE - Venting, Complaining, Discussing site issues
kortneykay
08-21-2017, 10:06 AM
For those of you who claim girls fake w tip vibes on SM- don't be so sure. Just because SM doesn't have a direct plugin for the vibes, doesn't mean that all the girls are faking. TrifflinCamho gave me some great pointers when I got mine a few months back, and I worked a way around it.
I keep my box nearby, and even sometimes press the vibe against the cam to show off the vibe if the guys are skeptical(they never are for me). I then keep the app on my phone open to manual touch, place and turn on the vibe, and when I get a tip, I press the app manually out of view which then sends the vibration to my clit. No faking here. The moan might be a few seconds delayed, but the guys don't know that.
In free chat, I only use my chair so my hands aren't in full view most of the time so a self-buzz is real, but just not visible.
You can even play this off in a GS standing by having your phone on you and buzzing yourself when you hear gold come in. Just a thought. You can offer a full song for gold, moans per tip, or even full control for bigger tips if they can add the app themselves.
Blovely
08-21-2017, 04:16 PM
Not directed at anyone but I don't even see the big deal if a girl is faking it. Nor do I understand the point of going into another girls room to judge her and then coming back out to talk shit to other girls or to customers....all of that is just mind boggling to me. I would stop watching other girls if watching them caused me to act like that.
Anyways if a chick is faking it so what, as long as her customers are satisfied then who cares. Its her room she can do whatever(well almost) she wants. Alot of girls fake it in private...whether its penetration, bj, anal, or orgasms and alot of women also fake it in the bedroom behind closed doors. If faking it gets a chick to her goal and helps her stay sane and her customers are happy with what she's giving them and she is happy then I don't really see the big deal.
kittykrane
08-23-2017, 10:41 AM
I haven't logged on here in ages, but gawd..traffic has been the pits!
imelly21
08-23-2017, 11:29 AM
My friend who hangs out with me in free chat tells me he saw the " im in a private" logo over my video several times lately while I was NOT in a private. He had to refresh to have this glitch go away. He knew I was actually not in private because I am chatting to him separately somewhere else.. Does anyone know why this happens or how to stop it from happening.
ep2002
08-23-2017, 12:38 PM
Uhm, because it is one of the things I offer. I also prefer the tip vibe to getting up for a strip tease, the psychological games of Femdom and fingering myself. This tip vibe thing is just easy money, the guys love it and I love getting tipped and letting out a moan more than back to back privates too.
People get so worked uo about these tip vibes. Its porn. Its fake/exaggerated. If guys dont know that I am more than happy to help them out of that dream. They pay for entertainment, and entertainment is almost always fake compared to real life/exaggerated.
People dont jump for real on the wings of a plane thats taking off, as shown in action movies. The waitress at the bar doesnt really like you but it overly friendly to get tips. Porn is shot in angles and positions that you dont use when having sex IRL. Squirting is just water in most of those movies. We play it up when being tipped with a tip vibe. I fake at least five orgasms a day on cam. Guys like it and pay for entertainment. Thats what they get.
I'm late in this conversation. Are you talking about the Lovense tipping vibrators where SM doesn't allow for the app? Or some other tipping vib?
Do you mind if I know your user name on SM (you can PM me if that's better for you) so I can see what you mean?
Thank you
imelly21
08-23-2017, 12:40 PM
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WHAT THE FUCK~!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??! It goes on and on !
BiancaNorwood
08-23-2017, 01:01 PM
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WHAT THE FUCK~!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??! It goes on and on !
I just asked myself out loud why they are popping in and out. It's ridiculous.
ChocoChanel
08-23-2017, 01:25 PM
Idk I feel bad cause some girls be straight catfishin on this site!:O:O:O I kinda wish they had the real time, thumbnail. My picture looks nice.. its the same one from here. I always make an effort to look nice beofre I go on cam. Damn some of these ladies, you click on their nice photo and then !!!!!!!!!!!!! I swear one lady is straight using fake photos cause i clicked on her ( I was doing BBW research) and she was just sitting in her underwear and the cam was pointed to here vag and she had crazy "just woke up" hair. And all her photos are literally from that strange angle and all you see is the same underwear she wears and her in this odd position.. Obviously she doesn't represent all bbw/plus size/ but damn, i thought her screen was frozen for a second, she ain't move for hella long lol.
If you are doing that ^^ please don't blame it on the site lol (not directed at any one, just an observation)
imelly21
08-23-2017, 01:36 PM
If you are doing that ^^ please don't blame it on the site lol (not directed at any one, just an observation)
I know you said not directed at anyone but trust me, I am not doing that. Im showing my face, greeting people, showing body, moving, the whole thing perfectly by the book.
SM_CamGirl
08-23-2017, 01:37 PM
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same here, this week has been a nightmare for me... SM its making me sick
imelly21
08-23-2017, 01:40 PM
SM_camgirl OMG I feel so bad for you too! :(
ChocoChanel
08-23-2017, 01:58 PM
I swear It wasn't at you! Ill timed comment though. The strange thing is this person had a decent amount of positive feed back so I guess something is working, but damn. It just really rubbed me the wrong way. It was like the definition of the "fatty slob" stereotype. There's just no where else for me to vent about it lol. I was just so shocked and think that if SM had the real time thumbnail, that might at least be helpful for customers. I hope it picks up for you though <3
Blovely
08-23-2017, 05:08 PM
My friend who hangs out with me in free chat tells me he saw the " im in a private" logo over my video several times lately while I was NOT in a private. He had to refresh to have this glitch go away. He knew I was actually not in private because I am chatting to him separately somewhere else.. Does anyone know why this happens or how to stop it from happening.
That's another glitch that has been reported to SM that they've refused to fix. I think it happens when the live stream is trying to load but it can't so it shows that you are in pvt. You can ask him to try using a different browser and or a computer if he was using mobile to see if that changes anything. If its the browser and or mobile device that's the issue then I'd create a preset message telling users to use a different browser and or a computer instead of a mobile device. I know that doesn't really help if a user is seeing you in private when you aren't really there but if they are eventually able to get your page to load they'll at least know what browser will work best for the site.
@imelly21 and SM_CamGirl the constant pop in and out coupled with it being extremely slow is exactly why I disabled user message alerts. I got tired of seeing everyone coming in and out of my room. Disabling that was the best decision ever. I've also muted my sound so that I don't have to hear people popping in and out. Now I just check my screen to see if someone is; in my room, talking, tipping or going pvt.
sexyadrienne
08-23-2017, 06:01 PM
Streamate has been extremely morherf*ckin Slow! I had to abandon ship and switch to MFC today.
PleasantFoxxx
08-23-2017, 06:46 PM
Streamate has been extremely morherf*ckin Slow! I had to abandon ship and switch to MFC today.
It was terrible today, like 0 traffic. Had to log off and film some vids!
CharleyQuinn
08-23-2017, 11:55 PM
That's another glitch that has been reported to SM that they've refused to fix. I think it happens when the live stream is trying to load but it can't so it shows that you are in pvt. You can ask him to try using a different browser and or a computer if he was using mobile to see if that changes anything. If its the browser and or mobile device that's the issue then I'd create a preset message telling users to use a different browser and or a computer instead of a mobile device. I know that doesn't really help if a user is seeing you in private when you aren't really there but if they are eventually able to get your page to load they'll at least know what browser will work best for the site.
@imelly21 and SM_CamGirl the constant pop in and out coupled with it being extremely slow is exactly why I disabled user message alerts. I got tired of seeing everyone coming in and out of my room. Disabling that was the best decision ever. I've also muted my sound so that I don't have to hear people popping in and out. Now I just check my screen to see if someone is; in my room, talking, tipping or going pvt.
I had NO IDEA we could do that, fuck yessssss!
christylive
08-24-2017, 05:14 AM
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same here, this week has been a nightmare for me... SM its making me sick
This was my chatroom as well. so you're definitely not alone. Not sure what is going on. The guys who could stay logged in demanded freebies (go figure) or stayed around long enough to give a compliment followed by a freebie request. however the potential member box didn't have a problem reminding me how many people lurked from the outside. I also peaked in on a few top cam sisters and almost all of those rooms had nobody in it, nor were guys tipping into their gold shows. I'm beginning to wonder if SM is having payment processor issues? more often than not Guys say that it won't let them give gold. Definitely something funky going on. how is it somedays guys can give gold and spend and other days they can't?
christylive
08-24-2017, 05:34 AM
I swear It wasn't at you! Ill timed comment though. The strange thing is this person had a decent amount of positive feed back so I guess something is working, but damn. It just really rubbed me the wrong way. It was like the definition of the "fatty slob" stereotype. There's just no where else for me to vent about it lol. I was just so shocked and think that if SM had the real time thumbnail, that might at least be helpful for customers. I hope it picks up for you though <3
I'm sorry I'm having a hard time following this so pardon me for my ignorance. I don't get the "fatty slob" reference? And why would you feel the need to vent about someone else's appearance? the first thing that comes to my mind is maybe this particular model has health problems or a bad back and for whatever reason can't sit upright or to your liking. to me her positive feedback means she's doing something right. I personally Do my hair and makeup before each cam shift because I enjoy being dolled up. Being dolled up isn't everyone's thing and that's ok. I choose to "Beyoncé" it up while others choose the chill and relax look and that's totally ok. Everyone has their own personal style and taste as do guys. However, the glitches and lack of traffic have absolutely nothing to do with someone fitting into your idea of a slob or catfish. I've done my hair and makeup every shift for the last 4 years just as I've tracked my earnings and paid attention to the difference in earnings. there's a clear decline in the quality of traffic as well as the platform and such. 2 springtimes ago I started becoming self conscious in myself because I started noticing a decline in traffic and a rise in glitches, it started eating away at me and I came up with every possible thing in the world I thought it could be down from my slight weight gain all the way to my Internet. It got to the point to where I was having the internet tech come out weekly, investing thousands into laptops that I didn't really need because for sure it was me, I was the problem. Little by little more and more models starting experiencing little hiccups here and there. it wasn't until the last several months when things starting really showing, the glitches, the in and outs, the very sparse traffic. Not to mention the smglitch hashtag on twitter , I found that hashtag right as I was calling it quits because I felt like a failure. not trying to be rude, I have love for everyone - just think we can do better. Love, Christy
imelly21
08-24-2017, 08:57 AM
@imelly21 and SM_CamGirl the constant pop in and out coupled with it being extremely slow is exactly why I disabled user message alerts. I got tired of seeing everyone coming in and out of my room. Disabling that was the best decision ever. I've also muted my sound so that I don't have to hear people popping in and out. Now I just check my screen to see if someone is; in my room, talking, tipping or going pvt.
I appreciate you're taking the time to explain about disabling the user alerts thingy. I know about that and 99.99% of the time I have them disabled as well. The point is if out of so many people who are coming in to see me, noone are staying at all, what does this mean? they won't even stay for less then 1 second. Isn't this a sign of people not connecting correctly? I mean come on, Im not ugly hahah!!
BiancaNorwood
08-24-2017, 10:40 AM
That's another glitch that has been reported to SM that they've refused to fix. I think it happens when the live stream is trying to load but it can't so it shows that you are in pvt. You can ask him to try using a different browser and or a computer if he was using mobile to see if that changes anything. If its the browser and or mobile device that's the issue then I'd create a preset message telling users to use a different browser and or a computer instead of a mobile device. I know that doesn't really help if a user is seeing you in private when you aren't really there but if they are eventually able to get your page to load they'll at least know what browser will work best for the site.
@imelly21 and SM_CamGirl the constant pop in and out coupled with it being extremely slow is exactly why I disabled user message alerts. I got tired of seeing everyone coming in and out of my room. Disabling that was the best decision ever. I've also muted my sound so that I don't have to hear people popping in and out. Now I just check my screen to see if someone is; in my room, talking, tipping or going pvt.
I HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATE the in and outs. I cannot for the love of the fucking lord know why they do that. It seems to be a new trend. Why do they do it? Looking for a free nipple? Looking to see if we are fucking ourselves in open? Looking to see if I'm riding around my goddamn cam room on a fucking unicorn??? WHY?????????????
DancesWithSloths
08-24-2017, 11:31 AM
I cannot for the love of the fucking lord know why they do that. It seems to be a new trend. Why do they do it? Looking for a free nipple? Looking to see if we are fucking ourselves in open? Looking to see if I'm riding around my goddamn cam room on a fucking unicorn??? WHY?????????????
You ever find yourself listlessly refreshing FB or your other social network of choice, hoping something interesting has sprung up?
That's what they're doing: cycling through sites & rooms, hoping something will catch their attention for long enough to distract them from the howling void within. Don't worry about it.
christylive
08-24-2017, 12:21 PM
I HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATE the in and outs. I cannot for the love of the fucking lord know why they do that. It seems to be a new trend. Why do they do it? Looking for a free nipple? Looking to see if we are fucking ourselves in open? Looking to see if I'm riding around my goddamn cam room on a fucking unicorn??? WHY?????????????
Are the constant walls of in and outs human or just bot traffic? I almost never see the same name twice.. I also don't believe the entire # I'm seeing in the potential member box are all on SM, I woldnt be surprised if part of that number was a pop under box on a tube site somewhere...
ChocoChanel
08-24-2017, 12:34 PM
Why do you assume that not making most of your income off of tips means that someone is doing tons of toy shows? I haven't done a toy show or any sort of penetration in literally years now.
Oh could you elaborate on this, cause I went a little crazy with my hitachi and I think I'm good on masturbating for a day or 2. Do you just do fem dom and upper body stuff, or show and touch bottom but not full on masturbate? Cause your way sounds amazing
ChocoChanel
08-24-2017, 12:50 PM
I'm sorry I'm having a hard time following this so pardon me for my ignorance. I don't get the "fatty slob" reference? And why would you feel the need to vent about someone else's appearance? the first thing that comes to my mind is maybe this particular model has health problems or a bad back and for whatever reason can't sit upright or to your liking. to me her positive feedback means she's doing something right. I personally Do my hair and makeup before each cam shift because I enjoy being dolled up. Being dolled up isn't everyone's thing and that's ok. I choose to "Beyoncé" it up while others choose the chill and relax look and that's totally ok. Everyone has their own personal style and taste as do guys. However, the glitches and lack of traffic have absolutely nothing to do with someone fitting into your idea of a slob or catfish. I've done my hair and makeup every shift for the last 4 years just as I've tracked my earnings and paid attention to the difference in earnings. there's a clear decline in the quality of traffic as well as the platform and such. 2 springtimes ago I started becoming self conscious in myself because I started noticing a decline in traffic and a rise in glitches, it started eating away at me and I came up with every possible thing in the world I thought it could be down from my slight weight gain all the way to my Internet. It got to the point to where I was having the internet tech come out weekly, investing thousands into laptops that I didn't really need because for sure it was me, I was the problem. Little by little more and more models starting experiencing little hiccups here and there. it wasn't until the last several months when things starting really showing, the glitches, the in and outs, the very sparse traffic. Not to mention the smglitch hashtag on twitter , I found that hashtag right as I was calling it quits because I felt like a failure. not trying to be rude, I have love for everyone - just think we can do better. Love, Christy
This was my original comment
Idk I feel bad cause some girls be straight catfishin on this site! I kinda wish they had the real time, thumbnail. My picture looks nice.. its the same one from here. I always make an effort to look nice beofre I go on cam. Damn some of these ladies, you click on their nice photo and then !!!!!!!!!!!!! I swear one lady is straight using fake photos cause i clicked on her ( I was doing BBW research) and she was just sitting in her underwear and the cam was pointed to here vag and she had crazy "just woke up" hair. And all her photos are literally from that strange angle and all you see is the same underwear she wears and her in this odd position.. Obviously she doesn't represent all bbw/plus size/ but damn, i thought her screen was frozen for a second, she ain't move for hella long lol.
If you are doing that ^^ please don't blame it on the site lol (not directed at any one, just an observation)
**Oh well that came from a comment a little earlier. I was saying that I think some models are straight up using fake photo's on their SM accounts. I then thought of this one person in particular, who has a very attractive photo (head cut off), but when you click on her room, it looks like completely different person and that she's just sitting there, in what I find to be an odd/unflattering position. Also after looking at her photos, the ONE photo with a face is photoshopped. If you can call it that. Like a head copy pasted to another body. Because of this, I was saying that maybe if SM had the real time thumbnail, it could help with ins and outs (maybe) cause at least people coming in the room know what you are doing and what you actually look like before they go in.
Like I said, what she does seems to be work in some capacity because she had positive feed back. I'm still allowed to be confused or have commentary. This is a Venting thread, so I was just venting about that. As far as why do I care? Why do you care that I care? and so on and so forth. I wasn't trying to be mean, It was just something I observed that I had an opinion about, and I was under the impression that this was a space to share that without being judged myself.
imelly21
08-24-2017, 01:08 PM
Are the constant walls of in and outs human or just bot traffic? I almost never see the same name twice.. I also don't believe the entire # I'm seeing in the potential member box are all on SM, I woldnt be surprised if part of that number was a pop under box on a tube site somewhere...
Im pretty sure thats the case . That and the other sibling sites. Their white labels.
luvnrockets
08-24-2017, 01:10 PM
ARGHHH does anyone else keep getting the "Connection lost: The streaming connection was lost, please try again." error message??? I get EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I get on cam. It is INFURIATING. I'm ready to factory reset my laptop and just re-download everything! No idea what could be wrong!
I get this every time I cam too! Been happening for a longgggg time. Really can't figure out what it is. Anyone?
WendiStarr
08-24-2017, 06:14 PM
The freeloaders and timewasters are at an all time high tonight.
BiancaNorwood
08-24-2017, 09:06 PM
Are the constant walls of in and outs human or just bot traffic? I almost never see the same name twice.. I also don't believe the entire # I'm seeing in the potential member box are all on SM, I woldnt be surprised if part of that number was a pop under box on a tube site somewhere...
Someone else had said that it might be bots. Thanks!
MsJess
08-24-2017, 10:12 PM
back on 2005 there was the same ins and outs that we experience right now, so i guess they are not bots. Today i asked a guy what was the deal, why he was coming in and out of my chat and he said he was just checking me real quick? blehhhh
queenc
08-24-2017, 10:38 PM
You ever find yourself listlessly refreshing FB or your other social network of choice, hoping something interesting has sprung up?
That's what they're doing: cycling through sites & rooms, hoping something will catch their attention for long enough to distract them from the howling void within. Don't worry about it.
OMG, I'm dying laughing.
Thanks for this, it will help me when I go on and have to deal with the endless popping in and out.
what I don't get is when someone gives you gold for no reason and then just leaves. I mean it's nice and all but it happens a lot and I don't get it. I guess it's the tip Vibe. But I'm just used to other free sites where they expect to see your asshole for a nickel. Anyway I started on SM at the beginning of the summer and I really hope that it's the summers fault that there is so little traffic. Cuz SM is supposed to be the last of the guaranteed money sites where if you just get on and stay on, you will make money, ya know?
SamanthaSugar
08-24-2017, 11:10 PM
What's up with all the sudden requests for face time in exclusive???
Teddy_Bear
08-25-2017, 01:25 PM
Quiet for 2-3 hours of my normal 6 hour shift with some hours having 2-3 people popping in and out let alone speaking to me... that is not normal at all even with the glitches taking hold of the site like a boa constrictor that refuses to let go. Stayed the fuck on for an extra 2 hours and goal made, it really does pay off :)
I am so grateful for my big spending regs who are keeping me ticking over during this summer drought of new clients. However screw these damn glitches they almost cost me an exclusive this morning with one of my huge spending regs by cutting me off and then not letting me log back on for 15 mins >:( By the time I logged back on I thought he'd be long gone but nope he was loyally waiting for me and had even messaged to ask where I was... I love my regs sooooo much. He made my whole night once I was back :D
As a final vent what is with the new trend of other models tearing others down on CAM in front of customers? I've been called out by name a few times by some models I used to like, admire and even learn from in the early days. I don't even know or speak to these girls WTF? That's the last time I tip into their gold shows too. Wow, I talk about no one while streaming and I keep to the site rules so why am I the subject of bitter vitriolic rantings?!
P.S. Not saying it's anyone on here just saying that it appears to be rife at the moment on the site and it's not just me it's others being named too, it's not a personal attack on me just my name gets thrown into the weird rants. I'm confused are people just jealous of girls at the top of the page? :O It's no better up there than it is on page 10,000 at the moment.
BiancaNorwood
08-25-2017, 01:33 PM
back on 2005 there was the same ins and outs that we experience right now, so i guess they are not bots. Today i asked a guy what was the deal, why he was coming in and out of my chat and he said he was just checking me real quick? blehhhh
So this happened before in 2005? It's ridiculous. I don't think they are bots. I'm noticing the same names over and over. I guess these guys are just going from room to room. It's honestly my biggest pet peeve. I have no clue why - it just is.>:(
Arwen25
08-25-2017, 02:38 PM
As a final vent what is with the new trend of other models tearing others down on CAM in front of customers? I've been called out by name a few times by some models I used to like, admire and even learn from in the early days. I don't even know or speak to these girls WTF? That's the last time I tip into their gold shows too. Wow, I talk about no one while streaming and I keep to the site rules so why am I the subject of bitter vitriolic rantings?!
P.S. Not saying it's anyone on here just saying that it appears to be rife at the moment on the site and it's not just me it's others being named too, it's not a personal attack on me just my name gets thrown into the weird rants. I'm confused are people just jealous of girls at the top of the page? :O It's no better up there than it is on page 10,000 at the moment.
WTF? How horrific. I only do a few hours on here per day but this really, really puts me off. :( Do they just come in saying mean stuff or do you mean they sit in their rooms slagging off other models? Eep. I can take anything from guys but have yet to be trolled by models (as far as I know). X
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-25-2017, 03:04 PM
Quiet for 2-3 hours of my normal 6 hour shift with some hours having 2-3 people popping in and out let alone speaking to me... that is not normal at all even with the glitches taking hold of the site like a boa constrictor that refuses to let go. Stayed the fuck on for an extra 2 hours and goal made, it really does pay off :)
I am so grateful for my big spending regs who are keeping me ticking over during this summer drought of new clients. However screw these damn glitches they almost cost me an exclusive this morning with one of my huge spending regs by cutting me off and then not letting me log back on for 15 mins >:( By the time I logged back on I thought he'd be long gone but nope he was loyally waiting for me and had even messaged to ask where I was... I love my regs sooooo much. He made my whole night once I was back :D
As a final vent what is with the new trend of other models tearing others down on CAM in front of customers? I've been called out by name a few times by some models I used to like, admire and even learn from in the early days. I don't even know or speak to these girls WTF? That's the last time I tip into their gold shows too. Wow, I talk about no one while streaming and I keep to the site rules so why am I the subject of bitter vitriolic rantings?!
P.S. Not saying it's anyone on here just saying that it appears to be rife at the moment on the site and it's not just me it's others being named too, it's not a personal attack on me just my name gets thrown into the weird rants. I'm confused are people just jealous of girls at the top of the page? :O It's no better up there than it is on page 10,000 at the moment.
This isnt new and honestly has nothing to do with placement. Models do this on SM,MFC and CB. Escorts do it. Cash Dommes do it. PSO's do it. It's a flaw in their personalities. Mean girls in High School usually grow up to be mean women. There's some mean men out there too!
I've watched twitter beefs between models who had a handful of followers and when you click on their chatrooms it's fucking empty. :) They were too busy hate tweeting to their imaginary nemesis to pay attention to the tiny portion of traffic entering their chatrooms. I think it's dumb but fascinating because everytime they mention another models name in their chat, the guys will just come check you out. It's just added exposure. You might want to start a referral program for the haters if they're saying your name that much. Let them do their job.
Strong Language Warning
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7z_ztMxBgk
Ginnyyy
08-25-2017, 03:26 PM
I would like to vent about the ASSHOLE who rated me 4 stars when I have fucking quick text saying rate me 5 stars.. after I gave him the best slutty step mom I fucking could! And also to the asshole who asked if my tits were worth the amount of money I am chargin to see them.. FUCK YOU!!
I had my first 4 today too. From a one min and a half guy who barely had the time to tell what he's into. Contacted support. Funny one, but on XLoveCam for e.g., French ones they rate poor because they have few money: "Awesome show, but too bad is was so short" and bam,,,you see less stars.
Ginnyyy
08-25-2017, 03:28 PM
back on 2005 there was the same ins and outs that we experience right now, so i guess they are not bots. Today i asked a guy what was the deal, why he was coming in and out of my chat and he said he was just checking me real quick? blehhhh
I think the reason it's the site's nature. On many other sites you can see the preview of a room by hovering with your mouse over the girl's name. Here you cant, therefore they need to enter the room and get out quick, maybe they catch something to freeload.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-25-2017, 03:44 PM
I think the reason it's the site's nature. On many other sites you can see the preview of a room by hovering with your mouse over the girl's name. Here you cant, therefore they need to enter the room and get out quick, maybe they catch something to freeload.
Logged in members can hover over the chat box to check models out. But they can't see what models charge until they enter.
queenc
08-26-2017, 02:01 PM
Quiet for 2-3 hours of my normal 6 hour shift with some hours having 2-3 people popping in and out let alone speaking to me... that is not normal at all even with the glitches taking hold of the site like a boa constrictor that refuses to let go. Stayed the fuck on for an extra 2 hours and goal made, it really does pay off :)
I am so grateful for my big spending regs who are keeping me ticking over during this summer drought of new clients. However screw these damn glitches they almost cost me an exclusive this morning with one of my huge spending regs by cutting me off and then not letting me log back on for 15 mins >:( By the time I logged back on I thought he'd be long gone but nope he was loyally waiting for me and had even messaged to ask where I was... I love my regs sooooo much. He made my whole night once I was back :D
As a final vent what is with the new trend of other models tearing others down on CAM in front of customers? I've been called out by name a few times by some models I used to like, admire and even learn from in the early days. I don't even know or speak to these girls WTF? That's the last time I tip into their gold shows too. Wow, I talk about no one while streaming and I keep to the site rules so why am I the subject of bitter vitriolic rantings?!
P.S. Not saying it's anyone on here just saying that it appears to be rife at the moment on the site and it's not just me it's others being named too, it's not a personal attack on me just my name gets thrown into the weird rants. I'm confused are people just jealous of girls at the top of the page? :O It's no better up there than it is on page 10,000 at the moment.
to tell you the truth its against the site rules to do that. And I don't know what your experience has been in the past with SM support but for me they have been really nice and helpful which I didn't expect after dealing with the tools at chaturbate. So since this seems to be a new trend, and you were mentioned, maybe you should say something?
I was in this models room and tipped for her Gold show. She in usually in the top or 2nd spot so she isn't jelouse, anyway she starts ranting about other models who are stupid and can't add and they are fake and she isn't and she will never rip you off like the other models. SHe said a bunch of other stuff too but I can't remember all of it
Anyway you probably don't want to be a tattle tale or whatever but it seems to be a thing and you know they aren't going kick them off the site but they may send an e-mail out to everyone if enough people complain. I would never want to take someones livelihood away...probably why I was terrible as a supervisor at my last job, I would cry when firing people and my bosses had to make me fire people. But I don't thinkt hat the custies want to hear about other models and I feel like we need to keep people from going to the free sites as much as possible
BTW, SM support just told me today that I can suck a dildo in free chat. WHich I totally did not know. I only asked cuz I splitcam sometimes and I didn't want to get kicked off for messing with my squirting dildo. I won't be taking anyones money away for doing stuff in free chat cuz I am usually on the bottom of page 5. Page 3 if I am having a super good day. And also I usually cover up the screen for SM so they don't get too much for free but alot of times I have noone in my room. Not even potentials so I am basically broadcasting to the people who pirate streams and put me up on a site with the caption "chubby milf sucks a dildo" or "horny old fatty gets a facial"
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-26-2017, 03:25 PM
I was in this models room and tipped for her Gold show. She in usually in the top or 2nd spot so she isn't jelouse, anyway she starts ranting about other models who are stupid and can't add and they are fake and she isn't and she will never rip you off like the other models. SHe said a bunch of other stuff too but I can't remember all of it.
She's jealous and scrambling for the coin if that was her hustle. Top placement does not erase insecurities. If anything its probably worse because they have to work longer to maintain that spot.
ChocoChanel
08-26-2017, 04:37 PM
Not even potentials so I am basically broadcasting to the people who pirate streams and put me up on a site with the caption "chubby milf sucks a dildo" or "horny old fatty gets a facial"
lol the names they come up with though jeeez
MissMoore
08-26-2017, 05:18 PM
Has it been tragic on SM for anybody else the past couple of days?
queenc
08-26-2017, 05:48 PM
lol the names they come up with though jeeez
Well I was trying to be funny with the last one. I think I'd stop camming if I found a clip with me and that title lol. The first one is real though
Snowy0Star
08-26-2017, 07:28 PM
Has it been tragic on SM for anybody else the past couple of days?
Yes I thought it was just me it has been very dead on cams and cb too end of the month slump combined with the last weekend before labor day. It may get supper shitty before it gets better while dads prep for back to school
queenc
08-26-2017, 11:04 PM
Yes I thought it was just me it has been very dead on cams and cb too end of the month slump combined with the last weekend before labor day. It may get supper shitty before it gets better while dads prep for back to school
Hopefully today was better for everyone. I went on and had the biggest day ever but mind you, that's not a lot of money. But I was happy esp after the last week. I kicked myself out of an exclusive by accident and when I was camming on SM and cb, I had my tits out for a goal on cb and people ran out of my room on SM so I actually do think we have them trained on SM, there a just a few just are hoping for freebies.mthey will never change . I hate hate hate when they say show me your ass 1st then I will take you exclusive or whatever...when I was newer I fell for it and used to think they didn't like my ass when they left. Haha. No glitches today for the first time except..
my fucking audio isn't synced up with the picture. Is that on my end? I use SM broadcaster and have excellent everything on the report
Teddy_Bear
08-26-2017, 11:09 PM
to tell you the truth its against the site rules to do that. And I don't know what your experience has been in the past with SM support but for me they have been really nice and helpful which I didn't expect after dealing with the tools at chaturbate. So since this seems to be a new trend, and you were mentioned, maybe you should say something?
I was in this models room and tipped for her Gold show. She in usually in the top or 2nd spot so she isn't jelouse, anyway she starts ranting about other models who are stupid and can't add and they are fake and she isn't and she will never rip you off like the other models. SHe said a bunch of other stuff too but I can't remember all of it
Anyway you probably don't want to be a tattle tale or whatever but it seems to be a thing and you know they aren't going kick them off the site but they may send an e-mail out to everyone if enough people complain. I would never want to take someones livelihood away...probably why I was terrible as a supervisor at my last job, I would cry when firing people and my bosses had to make me fire people. But I don't thinkt hat the custies want to hear about other models and I feel like we need to keep people from going to the free sites as much as possible
BTW, SM support just told me today that I can suck a dildo in free chat. WHich I totally did not know. I only asked cuz I splitcam sometimes and I didn't want to get kicked off for messing with my squirting dildo. I won't be taking anyones money away for doing stuff in free chat cuz I am usually on the bottom of page 5. Page 3 if I am having a super good day. And also I usually cover up the screen for SM so they don't get too much for free but alot of times I have noone in my room. Not even potentials so I am basically broadcasting to the people who pirate streams and put me up on a site with the caption "chubby milf sucks a dildo" or "horny old fatty gets a facial"
That's just the point I don't want any part of it that's why it's so frustrating to me that women who have never even met or spoke to me are judging me or my behaviour. I know it happens and is rife in the world of sex work but seeing it so blatantly like that is annoying and completely unnecessary.
caramelcraze
08-27-2017, 06:51 AM
after having 6 sm shows IN A ROW get dropped midway through
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVxo_3MTjCI
I hate having to apologize to customers for something that isn't my fault.
HollyJaydeXXX
08-27-2017, 02:46 PM
Trying to do a gold show is like pulling teeth.
Did didn't hit goal, cancelled the show and then someone who tipped into the show had the audacity to say:
ryan4fun (invisible): lol have you checked out your competitors
way cheaper way hotter
way funner
1) I'm middle row, first page... everyone else was doing $5+ shows and I was doing $3. 2) Way hotter is an opinion. They were probably showing more skin, which I won't do if guys are sitting and staring. 3) Way funner... uh yeah when I am sitting here in a room with 15 guys who don't talk I am going to be a fucking hoot.
Despite being on here for seven years, they still get under my skin.
AuroraJade
08-28-2017, 05:14 AM
I'm late in this conversation. Are you talking about the Lovense tipping vibrators where SM doesn't allow for the app? Or some other tipping vib?
Do you mind if I know your user name on SM (you can PM me if that's better for you) so I can see what you mean?
Thank you
I use indeed a tipping vibe. I am not going to give you my username on sm because I prefer being anon.
WendiStarr
08-28-2017, 06:36 AM
Omfg! Both exclusive chats I had ended due to connection disconnecting. The first one was a minute into it and the second, 15 minutes in and then boom. It was with the same custie too. Ugh! Wtf!