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KatM
06-09-2018, 01:32 AM
^^^ You mean you asked SM and they won't answer at all or not anymore? By happening I saw a popular BBW model using that in her GS count down and I was wondering if SM is going to integrate that toy soon, I too wanna know considering I can only buy the toy from outside the country as we don't have it here yet, I too only cam on SM and rather buy the toy they going to implement on their site.

Blovely
06-09-2018, 03:14 AM
Does anyone have a link or know where to find the old Logitech camera setting/controller app. I just downloaded it from their site but its the newer one which doesn't have an option to turn auto-exposure off. I hate having to open up the Logitech Software and click controller just to be able to change settings. I like being able to use the camera settings app because I can pin it to the taskbar and easily open it whenever I need to change the settings.

DeepThoughts
06-09-2018, 03:42 AM
I’m in shock. I’ve asked so many times about the esca, if Sm is integrating it, if they are I want to know, buying this makes more sense than lush for me bc I only cam Streamate.

Communication stops

I just want to know. . I don’t give a shit if it’s a failure, I need to replace my toy. I need a toy bc my lush broke and I don’t want to fucking spend 200 fucking dollars bc Streamate has a toy. Like FUCK.
:D

Girl you lush is covered under warranty. Contact the company and tell them the damn thing stopped working and they will send you a new one. The did for me. My first one stopped and they just had me send a quick video showing me turning it on and it didnt work and the new one was delivered like 2 days later.

kendra0knight
06-09-2018, 06:23 AM
I just started SM yesterday. What a buggy piece of crap! Crash, crash, crash..... Private, 30 seconds...crash. I'm hoping they don't back charge me. So frustrating!

I like how their's a live chat for billing support, but tech support?... send an email that may or may not get answered. Is this how it always is?

DeepThoughts
06-09-2018, 06:49 AM
I just started SM yesterday. What a buggy piece of crap! Crash, crash, crash..... Private, 30 seconds...crash. I'm hoping they don't back charge me. So frustrating!

I like how their's a live chat for billing support, but tech support?... send an email that may or may not get answered. Is this how it always is?

Depends how you contacted support. Some of the methods just report the issue and some they will reply, usually with a generic reply and then you have to reply to that email to get any real help. Good news is there are no chargebacks on SM ever so you good there.

You really shouldnt be crashing so much though. Are you on WIFI? What are your computer Stats like. You really need to have and i5, i7 or AMD1800 or 1800x to support SM.


Does anyone have a link or know where to find the old Logitech camera setting/controller app. I just downloaded it from their site but its the newer one which doesn't have an option to turn auto-exposure off. I hate having to open up the Logitech Software and click controller just to be able to change settings. I like being able to use the camera settings app because I can pin it to the taskbar and easily open it whenever I need to change the settings.


Im using the Logitech Gaming software. 8.96 and it has the control for the over exposure. Which one are you using??

Glamourmilf
06-09-2018, 08:24 AM
Since when is it okay to take an iPhone and cam outside in public on Streamate? To show random strangers and dogs on cam who are walking by?
Ugh!!>:(
I hate when sites play favorites.
*Rant over.

BadBitch
06-09-2018, 10:30 AM
I’m in shock. I’ve asked so many times about the esca, if Sm is integrating it, if they are I want to know, buying this makes more sense than lush for me bc I only cam Streamate.

Communication stops

I just want to know. . I don’t give a shit if it’s a failure, I need to replace my toy. I need a toy bc my lush broke and I don’t want to fucking spend 200 fucking dollars bc Streamate has a toy. Like FUCK.
:D

I've had an issue with my Nora and Lovense sent me a new one! Email Lovense! They'll help you!

BadBitch
06-09-2018, 10:33 AM
When I go to check my placement, sometimes SM changes and it's "SexyCams". The layout is totally different. When I close out then look again, it looks like the old SM. I'll close it out and check again and it will switch back to "SexyCams". I just checked it again. It's the same layout as SM, but the logo in the top right corner says, "SexyCams". SM needs to get their shit together.

izshadow
06-09-2018, 12:29 PM
Since when is it okay to take an iPhone and cam outside in public on Streamate? To show random strangers and dogs on cam who are walking by?
Ugh!!>:(
I hate when sites play favorites.
*Rant over.

I saw that to and was like omg!!!! Now in your own backyard is one thing but out in the public like that and the parking lot is literally 10 feet away from you. Really? There was another time I saw a girl sitting in a coffee shop in a mall streaming on SM. What goes through their mind?!

Erika_Xstacy
06-09-2018, 12:36 PM
I didn’t think it could be replaced. A friend bought it for me but didn’t keep the receipt. I’ll try :)

I asked via twitter twice about the toy and email. I ask twice on twitter, once in email to [email protected] and that’s now a “team”.
I feel like no one cares and honestly hurts my feelings.
Loyalty and ignored. Most of you guys know I only work Streamate.

“tip toy today?”I say yes but since it’s not lighting up its not the toy. :(





I’m on my phone, it’s hard to quote.

Erika_Xstacy
06-09-2018, 12:46 PM
I just started SM yesterday. What a buggy piece of crap! Crash, crash, crash..... Private, 30 seconds...crash. I'm hoping they don't back charge me. So frustrating!

I like how their's a live chat for billing support, but tech support?... send an email that may or may not get answered. Is this how it always is?

Yup it’s slways been a issue with models.
Welcome to Streamate

About you getting cb, it doesn’t happen. The customer gets a free time before being charged. This free time covers chargebacks.

This forum and Streamate camgirls will help as much as we can.
This is what support will ask you
Are you hardwired?
Did you run a speedtest?
What is your operating system?
Are you using the smb emcoder, the built in interface or obs?
What is your blood type, first born child’s name and your favorite color? Of course I’m kidding except the first 3. They ask you that. Go ahead and have those ready.
Speakeasy.net choose Seattle and run the speedtest.

Erika_Xstacy
06-09-2018, 12:52 PM
The iPhone, I guess when they said anywhere, Models took that as ANYWHERE.
Lol imagine pissed ppl when they see their kids on a tube site. Customers love to record and post those shows.

It’s really not funny considering it can bring problems.
I’m scared to do anything outside my bedroom. Fuck that shit.

Erika_Xstacy
06-09-2018, 12:57 PM
Does anyone have a link or know where to find the old Logitech camera setting/controller app. I just downloaded it from their site but its the newer one which doesn't have an option to turn auto-exposure off. I hate having to open up the Logitech Software and click controller just to be able to change settings. I like being able to use the camera settings app because I can pin it to the taskbar and easily open it whenever I need to change the settings.

When I plugged my old cam in I was able to get the old settings

BadBitch
06-09-2018, 01:32 PM
Since when is it okay to take an iPhone and cam outside in public on Streamate? To show random strangers and dogs on cam who are walking by?
Ugh!!>:(
I hate when sites play favorites.
*Rant over.

Riiiiiight???? Yet, I can't get videos approved that contain 2 APPROVED performers!!!

kendra0knight
06-09-2018, 01:56 PM
Yup it’s slways been a issue with models.
Welcome to Streamate

About you getting cb, it doesn’t happen. The customer gets a free time before being charged. This free time covers chargebacks.

This forum and Streamate camgirls will help as much as we can.
This is what support will ask you
Are you hardwired?
Did you run a speedtest?
What is your operating system?
Are you using the smb emcoder, the built in interface or obs?
What is your blood type, first born child’s name and your favorite color? Of course I’m kidding except the first 3. They ask you that. Go ahead and have those ready.
Speakeasy.net choose Seattle and run the speedtest.

Ha!! Well, today was better. So frustrating though!

MILFYfun
06-09-2018, 11:52 PM
A chick at a University on the West Coast got kicked out, as well as a criminal charge for camming in the campus library. The forest, or out in the country or even in a private yard is one thing, but if I saw someone doing that, I would drop all my fellow camgirl loyalty, and straight up report them to the cops. I don't need to be worrying about that shit when I am out with my kid. Gross. SM should suspend the account. That's just plain wrong!!!

MILFYfun
06-09-2018, 11:57 PM
I saw that to and was like omg!!!! Now in your own backyard is one thing but out in the public like that and the parking lot is literally 10 feet away from you. Really? There was another time I saw a girl sitting in a coffee shop in a mall streaming on SM. What goes through their mind?!

My guess is... not much. They are fucking stupid. Probably just a bunch of empty space in there :)

Glamourmilf
06-10-2018, 08:11 AM
I saw that to and was like omg!!!! Now in your own backyard is one thing but out in the public like that and the parking lot is literally 10 feet away from you. Really? There was another time I saw a girl sitting in a coffee shop in a mall streaming on SM. What goes through their mind?!


The iPhone, I guess when they said anywhere, Models took that as ANYWHERE.
Lol imagine pissed ppl when they see their kids on a tube site. Customers love to record and post those shows.

It’s really not funny considering it can bring problems.
I’m scared to do anything outside my bedroom. Fuck that shit.


Riiiiiight???? Yet, I can't get videos approved that contain 2 APPROVED performers!!!

I had to get special permission to cam in my backyard. Even had to send in screenshots of what it looked like.^^And @BadBitch, ikr? Regarding adding approved performers, Liz added the option to my dashboard. But the guy I wanted to cam with didn't want to give me all his personal info to send in. ( Maybe I should have a guy apply on his own, then add him).
Anyway, regarding that girl who was camming outside, I think guys AND sadly her were getting off on the exteme danger of it. At first, She was out in the fields when the sun was setting. She kept telling guys that if something bad happens to her, to call SM customer support. Really? Not only creepy guys were around, but she said she's in California. Hello snakes, coyotes, mountain lions, and other creepy crawlies.
Dum,dum.

Erika_Xstacy
06-10-2018, 11:14 AM
Lush doesn’t replace bc I don’t have the receipt.
It was a gift from expired customer :(

I have the box but that’s not good enough :(

BadBitch
06-10-2018, 08:11 PM
A chick at a University on the West Coast got kicked out, as well as a criminal charge for camming in the campus library. The forest, or out in the country or even in a private yard is one thing, but if I saw someone doing that, I would drop all my fellow camgirl loyalty, and straight up report them to the cops. I don't need to be worrying about that shit when I am out with my kid. Gross. SM should suspend the account. That's just plain wrong!!!

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (removed). Why do they even have that as a feature? All it does is make premium an annoying waste of time in my world. I also feel like it makes an idiot of the cool dude who is actually paying. I wish they would do away with that!! OK, just had to vent. I set my premium at 14.99 and all I get is shit from people all night, then I lower it, and all I get are freeloading losers taking advantage of loyal paying clients. Fuck it. 14.99 it stays! It's not worth the money that I could make from some guys, if I see these annoying peepers coming in and out all night.

I would edit your post so as to not include the amount of time that is free. This is a public forum.

BadBitch
06-10-2018, 08:12 PM
Lush doesn’t replace bc I don’t have the receipt.
It was a gift from expired customer :(

I have the box but that’s not good enough :(

Fuck. That sucks. I mean, it's clearly their product. They should still replace it. Boo.

MILFYfun
06-10-2018, 08:39 PM
I would edit your post so as to not include the amount of time that is free. This is a public forum.

Cheers. Done. Will it come out of your response too (w/quote)? If not, I am sure you will erase that too. Never thought about that. Super tired. Last thing we need. Apologies.

DeepThoughts
06-11-2018, 06:37 AM
Fuck. That sucks. I mean, it's clearly their product. They should still replace it. Boo.

I agree! did you tell them it was a gift?? Are you not able to contact the client who bought it anymore?

Erika_Xstacy
06-11-2018, 06:18 PM
I agree! did you tell them it was a gift?? Are you not able to contact the client who bought it anymore?
I did tell them. I have asked him for the receipt, tracking, something,he never answered.
I gave the barcode on the box

Good news: I did not @ ohmibod.
I was bitching on Twitter.
They must have alerts but ohmibod esca said yes the toy works with chaturbate and Streamate. Streamate!!!!

I guess when we pay ppl they appreciate the income. Sarcasm


IT IS A FUCKN TOY. :D
.

End rant

Girly_Girl
06-12-2018, 08:36 AM
wtf is up with these dudes today??!! I had a new guy that's I've never done a show with take me exclusive and try to get me to meet him, said he'd give me $1,500 to meet, when I said no he upped it to $2000 with shopping and a high end motel. Plus he kept posting his phone # over and over in chat. Whole time I kept telling him that we are not allowed to meet and its against the rules (atleast I got a long exclusive out of it)....lol

Then I just had a regular that's been trying to get me to meet him for 2 years now and he just offered me $2500 and then $3000...lol. He kept typing his # in chat too. See where I am going with this? They keep offering me more and more!!! Maybe if I stayed on longer today I could get up to $5000 - $10,000!!!! I am just joking tho cause I would NEVER ever meet these guys no matter the money but wtf??

In all seriousness tho.....I use to tell these guys that I would think about it and that was my hustle to keep them in longer pvts but with this new fosta crap and sm's new thing where u have to check the box saying u agree to not exchange personal info or face to face meeting with anyone......I kept telling them nicely that its against the rules for me to meet or contact them.....just hoping I don't get into any trouble?? Would I be better off typing it in chat just so I don't get into trouble or is just saying it enough to cover my ass ? Don't want to lose the show either but I think most of these guys no but they just push their limits too!!!

Just wondering how strict sm will be on this kind of stuff with the new laws?

KatyBoleyn
06-12-2018, 08:43 AM
A lot of the regular channels for escorts and escort advertising have gone away, so this is returning a lot of both high spenders and sugardaddy wannabes to cammodel land. Camming is actually booming again.

AuroraJade
06-12-2018, 10:41 AM
Really? Not noticing here. Back to 20$/hr, I hate camming hate hate hate hate hate hate it.

minniesoporno
06-12-2018, 02:17 PM
I checked my feed, it says on their screen do not give out your personal info to the performer. So they know they are breaking the rules.

It depends now. but my rule with paid chat time is I never cancel the show. I might not move as fast or just smile a lot, but with no chargebacks on streamate I tend to leave the paid chat running until they log off.

I am more likely to get someone to spend loads of money on me then another site. so if I have to smile like my feed is moving slow I will do it to keep that paid chat time running.

Redcandy
06-12-2018, 04:15 PM
A lot of the regular channels for escorts and escort advertising have gone away, so this is returning a lot of both high spenders and sugardaddy wannabes to cammodel land. Camming is actually booming again.

Katy are you looking at 1 day and saying its booming again or the last 7days on sm?

KatyBoleyn
06-12-2018, 07:25 PM
I'm looking at the last 3-4 weeks. This is literally the best its been in about 4 or 5 years. Its not just Streamate either, its camming in general. We had tiny dip in late May for a few days where we were a little concerned the summer would be dogged out, and I said as much in our newsletter, but then it came roaring back and its been good ever since.

What's keeping this up is the economy. All the recovery efforts for the last 10 years have finally peaked and we're back in the same period of very high employment and very loose money that was there in the 2000's. That also means that in an economic sense, its an extremely dangerous time (the rise before the next crash), but for those in retail and service industries its boom time. From a regulation/government standpoint these are some scary times for adult workers, but for those that can shake off the fear its also very lucrative.

BadBitch
06-12-2018, 08:07 PM
wtf is up with these dudes today??!! I had a new guy that's I've never done a show with take me exclusive and try to get me to meet him, said he'd give me $1,500 to meet, when I said no he upped it to $2000 with shopping and a high end motel. Plus he kept posting his phone # over and over in chat. Whole time I kept telling him that we are not allowed to meet and its against the rules (atleast I got a long exclusive out of it)....lol

Then I just had a regular that's been trying to get me to meet him for 2 years now and he just offered me $2500 and then $3000...lol. He kept typing his # in chat too. See where I am going with this? They keep offering me more and more!!! Maybe if I stayed on longer today I could get up to $5000 - $10,000!!!! I am just joking tho cause I would NEVER ever meet these guys no matter the money but wtf??

In all seriousness tho.....I use to tell these guys that I would think about it and that was my hustle to keep them in longer pvts but with this new fosta crap and sm's new thing where u have to check the box saying u agree to not exchange personal info or face to face meeting with anyone......I kept telling them nicely that its against the rules for me to meet or contact them.....just hoping I don't get into any trouble?? Would I be better off typing it in chat just so I don't get into trouble or is just saying it enough to cover my ass ? Don't want to lose the show either but I think most of these guys no but they just push their limits too!!!

Just wondering how strict sm will be on this kind of stuff with the new laws?

I knew a model who used to take their money - whatever the guys were offering to meet - then she'd block them.

AuroraJade
06-13-2018, 04:05 AM
That is so boss. I should do that too. They shouldn't be that stupid to pay 2000 on a cam site for a meet up. Just call an escort if you are willing to pay that.

As for kicking customers out of paid chat, thats my rule too. I NEVER kick anyone out unless they are really bad (like pedos). Sometimes you have these guys who go pvt and just sit there, say nothing and dont respond to me talking. One time I made 50$ just from sitting there. Its their own responsibility :)

Girly_Girl
06-13-2018, 04:54 AM
I knew a model who used to take their money - whatever the guys were offering to meet - then she'd block them.

don't give me any ideas......lol

Girly_Girl
06-13-2018, 04:56 AM
but yeah I would never quick them unless they are pedos or something, I had a regular last month on another site that kept throwing huge tips cause he wanted me to meet him :P

DeepThoughts
06-13-2018, 06:12 AM
I'm looking at the last 3-4 weeks. This is literally the best its been in about 4 or 5 years. Its not just Streamate either, its camming in general. We had tiny dip in late May for a few days where we were a little concerned the summer would be dogged out, and I said as much in our newsletter, but then it came roaring back and its been good ever since.

What's keeping this up is the economy. All the recovery efforts for the last 10 years have finally peaked and we're back in the same period of very high employment and very loose money that was there in the 2000's. That also means that in an economic sense, its an extremely dangerous time (the rise before the next crash), but for those in retail and service industries its boom time. From a regulation/government standpoint these are some scary times for adult workers, but for those that can shake off the fear its also very lucrative.

Yeah its funny you say this cause in an earlier post somewhere else you wrote that it was gonna dive for summer now and I had like a huge internal sigh but then on cam I was banking like everyday! So I thought, huh, guess katy got it wrong for me at least. Good to hear its picked up for everyone!!! Now is the time to find those extra hours and put them it!

Glamourmilf
06-13-2018, 07:51 AM
wtf is up with these dudes today??!! I had a new guy that's I've never done a show with take me exclusive and try to get me to meet him, said he'd give me $1,500 to meet, when I said no he upped it to $2000 with shopping and a high end motel. Plus he kept posting his phone # over and over in chat. Whole time I kept telling him that we are not allowed to meet and its against the rules (atleast I got a long exclusive out of it)....lol

Then I just had a regular that's been trying to get me to meet him for 2 years now and he just offered me $2500 and then $3000...lol. He kept typing his # in chat too. See where I am going with this? They keep offering me more and more!!! Maybe if I stayed on longer today I could get up to $5000 - $10,000!!!! I am just joking tho cause I would NEVER ever meet these guys no matter the money but wtf??

In all seriousness tho.....I use to tell these guys that I would think about it and that was my hustle to keep them in longer pvts but with this new fosta crap and sm's new thing where u have to check the box saying u agree to not exchange personal info or face to face meeting with anyone......I kept telling them nicely that its against the rules for me to meet or contact them.....just hoping I don't get into any trouble?? Would I be better off typing it in chat just so I don't get into trouble or is just saying it enough to cover my ass ? Don't want to lose the show either but I think most of these guys no but they just push their limits too!!!

Just wondering how strict sm will be on this kind of stuff with the new laws?

Did he really say ' high end motel'? Lol! Didn't even know that there was such a place.
I do a screenshot of the chat of every session I do. If they type something that is against site rules, I type back to let them know it is, along with saying it.
I get all of my bad ratings taken off, even 4's, because I attach the screenshot.

Girly_Girl
06-13-2018, 08:33 AM
Did he really say ' high end motel'? Lol! Didn't even know that there was such a place.
I do a screenshot of the chat of every session I do. If they type something that is against site rules, I type back to let them know it is, along with saying it.
I get all of my bad ratings taken off, even 4's, because I attach the screenshot.

He really did say high end motel....lol......oops I guess he did say hotel...lol!

I am bad about saying motel instead of hotel.....idk why :D


50011

Glamourmilf
06-13-2018, 09:46 AM
He really did say high end motel....lol......oops I guess he did say hotel...lol!

I am bad about saying motel instead of hotel.....idk why :D


50011

Thank You for clarifying.:-*

BadBitch
06-13-2018, 01:31 PM
don't give me any ideas......lol

At first when she told me, I was a little taken back. But then I was like, "Well, if they can't follow the rules. That's what they get." I mean, what are they going to do, report it? "Yeah, hi, even though it's against the site, I paid Model X $2,500 to meet then she blocked me." I can see that going over REAL well with customer service. LOL!

anonamiss
06-13-2018, 02:39 PM
At first when she told me, I was a little taken back. But then I was like, "Well, if they can't follow the rules. That's what they get." I mean, what are they going to do, report it? "Yeah, hi, even though it's against the site, I paid Model X $2,500 to meet then she blocked me." I can see that going over REAL well with customer service. LOL!

i'd be too worried that this could be considered "fraudulent." [from our contract that's defined as "any activity on the site that results in complaints or chargebacks"]. if you lead a guy on about something that's against the rules, and you get paid for it, then you block the customer, it makes sense to me that SM could hypothetically punish the model too, because both parties could be interpreted as breaking the rules. plus the way it's worded now is pretty straightforward. "it strictly prohibited for you to engage in, participate in, assist, support, or facilitate any act of prostitution [...] or for you to take any action to arrange any type of face-to-face meeting." by letting him continue to talk about it, pay for it per minute, and then tip extra for it, I think that could be seen as "supporting" it.

i personally wouldn't risk it. i block any guy who insists on talking about something that's against the rules after i've told him it is against the rules. i know i lose money from it, and i know a lot of girls get away with it, but i don't want to end up being the exception and losing my ability to work.

MILFYfun
06-13-2018, 03:22 PM
I wouldn't risk it either, but that's only because I got a warning once for mentioning that I work on clip sites to a guy via messaging (after he asked). I did not say which ones, and I also told him I could not give him my offsite email, but support still emailed me and told me to knock it off, or my account would be suspended. So now I stick with the rules really closely. I block guys that bring up meeting up in free chat, who have never paid me anything before. I tell guys who have paid, and who get regular shows, NO and not to mention it again, as they are putting my livelihood at risk. That's my choice though. I have a child, and I don't live cam on any other sites, so I am not taking any risks.

I have had a few high paying guys, never return, after I was honest with them about that. It creeped me out so much though, that I am glad. Plus I just kind of get bored of some people, even if they are paying well, but they always want boring shows where I am expected to do all of the work w/ no interaction/ feedback.

AuroraJade
06-13-2018, 03:35 PM
Yeah I feel you. I myself am in the process of getting a regular job and I have no kids whatsoever so if a good scam opportunity comes along I will be the first one to play along with it ;) If SM permanently suspends me I just walk to the supermarket across the street and work there, and while I do that find something better.

euro_princess
06-13-2018, 03:48 PM
I just tell them my hubby is not interested in becoming a pimp. Works everytime. Buahaha.

MILFYfun
06-13-2018, 03:54 PM
Yeah I feel you. I myself am in the process of getting a regular job and I have no kids whatsoever so if a good scam opportunity comes along I will be the first one to play along with it ;) If SM permanently suspends me I just walk to the supermarket across the street and work there, and while I do that find something better.

Yeah exactly. Your context is totally different. I think it's kind of random who gets in trouble for what on there anyways. It's risky in free chat, because it could be another model trying to set you up. In paid chat, that is a lot less likely. I never get why other models do that. Every great while I try to check other models profiles on the first page, just to get an idea for pricing, but I never try to chat or anything, and I have learned that there is no point even worrying what others are charging, as it doesn't affect me, overall in the long term.

MILFYfun
06-13-2018, 04:00 PM
I just tell them my hubby is not interested in becoming a pimp. Works everytime. Buahaha.

LMAO That just gave me an idea... "...Oh yeah, my husband LOVES mmf threesomes" hehehe. I wonder how that would go down? Actually..on second thoughts...that is unlikely to be much of a deterent for about 50% or more of the guys who gets shows with me.

BadBitch
06-13-2018, 05:47 PM
i'd be too worried that this could be considered "fraudulent." [from our contract that's defined as "any activity on the site that results in complaints or chargebacks"]. if you lead a guy on about something that's against the rules, and you get paid for it, then you block the customer, it makes sense to me that SM could hypothetically punish the model too, because both parties could be interpreted as breaking the rules. plus the way it's worded now is pretty straightforward. "it strictly prohibited for you to engage in, participate in, assist, support, or facilitate any act of prostitution [...] or for you to take any action to arrange any type of face-to-face meeting." by letting him continue to talk about it, pay for it per minute, and then tip extra for it, I think that could be seen as "supporting" it.

i personally wouldn't risk it. i block any guy who insists on talking about something that's against the rules after i've told him it is against the rules. i know i lose money from it, and i know a lot of girls get away with it, but i don't want to end up being the exception and losing my ability to work.

I wouldn't do it. I report and block when a guy tries to talk about meeting. The model who I mentioned no longer works for the site. She and I are no longer friends. She actually did meet a guy from SM - in person. She then went on to try and meet one of MY customers in person! He was one of my whales. She actually turned him against me and he stopped coming to my room and started going to hers. She's a real fucking snake.

MilaRose
06-13-2018, 05:55 PM
Went on SM for first time today to look around, have an idea about the style the girls work ect.
Saw a few that inspired me, others that was :/...and finally a 18y old Russian girl crying about having to cancel 5 shows today.

Made me sad. Very very sad.

euro_princess
06-13-2018, 06:02 PM
LMAO That just gave me an idea... "...Oh yeah, my husband LOVES mmf threesomes" hehehe. I wonder how that would go down? Actually..on second thoughts...that is unlikely to be much of a deterent for about 50% or more of the guys who gets shows with me.

I'm straightforward. I tell them I have a man and I'm happy with him. I'm a sex worker because I am perv and I enjoy what I do, I am my own boss. But I'm not interested in putting myself at risk and escorting clients from there, even less engaging in relationships. Hello, I already give free pussy to a man, don't plan to extend the circle.

They all seem shocked that my man is cool with my job and try to tell me how much they would support me financially, so I wouldn't have to do camming anymore. Funny thing is, those guys never tip big or do long shows. But they brag about respecting women.

Sweetheart, I'm not interested. I want to have my own money and buy myself a Chanel lipstick whenever I want to.

Showing you're confident and a true boss pays off, people respect you because you value yourself. It's a way of teaching them who's in charge.

MILFYfun
06-13-2018, 06:19 PM
I'm straightforward. I tell them I have a man and I'm happy with him. I'm a sex worker because I am perv and I enjoy what I do, I am my own boss. But I'm not interested in putting myself at risk and escorting clients from there, even less engaging in relationships. Hello, I already give free pussy to a man, don't plan to extend the circle.

They all seem shocked that my man is cool with my job and try to tell me how much they would support me financially, so I wouldn't have to do camming anymore. Funny thing is, those guys never tip big or do long shows. But they brag about respecting women.

Sweetheart, I'm not interested. I want to have my own money and buy myself a Chanel lipstick whenever I want to.

Showing you're confident and a true boss pays off, people respect you because you value yourself. It's a way of teaching them who's in charge.

Same here, none of my big regulars care that I have a fiancé. I love it when models write blogs saying you have to lie and say you are single to be successful in the camming industry... It's such crap. I am first 2-3 rows (usually 1st) in SM when I log in, and I always make it clear I am in a relationship. I also never break rules, or promise anything I won't be coming through on (just how I do it, no judgement on anyone who does it different- I have a child, I have to). Prob makes my earnings higher. My fiancé is secure too, and knows that no person could ever be a threat to him. I am lucky though, lots of guys are not that cool, and for a while I thought I would never get married or have a child unless I gave up camming. I was SO wrong though. Go Scorpio men!! The BEST <3 <3 <3. Hehe..once you go Scorpio, you never go back :-)

I'm so using this site, as an excuse to procrastinate on actually working today. Off I go...

BadBitch
06-13-2018, 09:30 PM
I'm straightforward. I tell them I have a man and I'm happy with him. I'm a sex worker because I am perv and I enjoy what I do, I am my own boss. But I'm not interested in putting myself at risk and escorting clients from there, even less engaging in relationships. Hello, I already give free pussy to a man, don't plan to extend the circle.

They all seem shocked that my man is cool with my job and try to tell me how much they would support me financially, so I wouldn't have to do camming anymore. Funny thing is, those guys never tip big or do long shows. But they brag about respecting women.

Sweetheart, I'm not interested. I want to have my own money and buy myself a Chanel lipstick whenever I want to.

Showing you're confident and a true boss pays off, people respect you because you value yourself. It's a way of teaching them who's in charge.

I had a guy come in last week and ask if I was married. I told him "Yes" then asked why.

He asks, "Does he know what you do?"

I mean, come on. How fucking stupid are you.

I responded, "No. I hide this from him. Especially when we file our taxes together in April."

Fucking stupid mother fuckers.