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Glamourmilf
07-08-2018, 09:32 AM
What really bugs me about SM, is that the INSTANT I log on, I get ALL of the oddball questions, and time wasters.
These people NEVER show up at any other time during my shift.
You know the ones, " Can you fist, piss, shit, puke?"
" Will you jump up and down on a trampoline?"
And all the question askers. "What size are your boobs?" "Big Ass?"
I just block them, but it's the ones who ask for specific shows that seem legit.
"Will you titty fuck?"
" Will you put on heels?"
" Joi?"
Etc.
As soon as I say yes, they vanish.
My prices are low, so I don't think that's the reason they leave.
I really believe that either they're sent by studios, or they're bots. We all know about the bot cam girls SM lets stream, so what would they stop at? Nothing. That includes how much I can make.
I tested it out several times, by putting myself in a gold show.
Yet, out in my chat room, the questions still come in.
"How are you?"
"You're looking beautiful today"
I'm not even there!!
Ugh!
I would leave my screen for a while, but it fucks up my stream, and sometimes disconnects me.
BadBitch
07-08-2018, 04:46 PM
Yes. I received a t-shirt in the mail, just last week.
It was a thank you for being a guest on the @MrSkin podcast.
I don't kiss SM ass.
Anyone that knows my placement on the site can confirm that. Lol!
And this is the other thing: the Mr. Skin podcasts. I have not been contacted for it. It's a HUGE slap in the fucking face.
Glamourmilf
07-09-2018, 07:49 AM
And this is the other thing: the Mr. Skin podcasts. I have not been contacted for it. It's a HUGE slap in the fucking face.
I think I'm the one who contacted them. SM on Twitter, that is.
DeepThoughts
07-09-2018, 11:12 AM
And this is the other thing: the Mr. Skin podcasts. I have not been contacted for it. It's a HUGE slap in the fucking face.
I would just contact him. Ask him if you can do a podcast.
kendallkushxo
07-09-2018, 05:21 PM
^^^ it’s alwats good to ask the worst thing they can do is say no or ignore you. I’ve been ignored for podcast requests (from someone else not mr.skin) before, i personally think it’s worse than being told no lol
Glamourmilf
07-09-2018, 06:36 PM
Yet another contest on Friday for nude day. Yet we can't be nude in free chat.
Okay. Got it.
Lol!
anouk.oui
07-09-2018, 10:05 PM
xyz logged on
xyz logged off
rinse repeat
or they ask a ton of questions and try get stuff for free
then log off
seriously fuck off
^^^ Been like this all nite, after 3.5 hrs of nonsense i logged off, i dont have the patience or free will to sit on cam with this kind of traffic.
I feel announcing the contest 'helped' too, it's always but always like this for me, once a contest is announced my traffic dies.
I can only make money BETWEEN contests and as they have a contest once at a few weeks there i am, barely able to make a living.
Imlive is dead too and cheap AF, the member quality there is worse than on SM.
Cant do more than 2 sites at once & i only want private based sites so not too many options for me. Oh well...
I got sick after the first month. I know you gonna say is too early but is a very hard job. My respect for the people who do this for years is a very hard job. Seems funny when you are online but when you are off you feel how tired leaves you. On topic: there was a guy who said - 300 $ for taking out tha bra in free chat. I said no, he left.
The nude contest will not do good because now they pay to see us naked, when it will be free.. is a dangerous contest. They will get the taste of free nudity.
SuperPookie
07-10-2018, 07:06 AM
Yet another contest on Friday for nude day. Yet we can't be nude in free chat.
Okay. Got it.
Lol!
& there will be many girls showing their all regardless :/
XSelinex
07-10-2018, 07:33 AM
I'm afraid that soon contests would be non-stop.
DeepThoughts
07-10-2018, 07:34 AM
^^In my experience ImLive is always dead with only nonpaying members trying to convince me to give them everything for free. I seriously dont know how anyone makes money on that site. Years back when I did work there I would make like 4 to 5 hundred a week and then I would lose about 350 to 400 of it to charge backs. I hate that site.
As for SM traditionally the middle weeks of the month are always the slowest. This is the time you really have to log on and stay on if you can because they are out there but its not hoping like the first and last weeks of the month. Just hang in there, put in your hours and ignore the babies that want freebies!
DeepThoughts
07-10-2018, 08:00 AM
Yet another contest on Friday for nude day. Yet we can't be nude in free chat.
Okay. Got it.
Lol!
Seriously though The contest isnt called Nude in Free Chat day! Like Your a smart lady Im sure you see that a Celebration of nudity doesnt mean the same thing as breaking the rules! In our jobs most of us get nude and this is the day dedicated to nudity so they are running a contest. How does that equal being allowed to be nude in a public area or not??? Like I really dont understand you logic on this one GM. It seems like a dumb thing to complain about.
Glamourmilf
07-10-2018, 08:20 AM
Seriously though The contest isnt called Nude in Free Chat day! Like Your a smart lady Im sure you see that a Celebration of nudity doesnt mean the same thing as breaking the rules! In our jobs most of us get nude and this is the day dedicated to nudity so they are running a contest. How does that equal being allowed to be nude in a public area or not??? Like I really dont understand you logic on this one GM. It seems like a dumb thing to complain about.
I'm just complaining about the 'irony' is all. And the fact that there's yet another contest right after two others that were back to back.
You don't know me, but I'm NEVER nude, or even topless in free chat. Guys are lucky if they get to see a collarbone.
The contests have no affect on me, except the glitches seem to be out of control during that time.
Lovely_charlie
07-10-2018, 08:50 AM
Seriously though The contest isnt called Nude in Free Chat day! Like Your a smart lady Im sure you see that a Celebration of nudity doesnt mean the same thing as breaking the rules! In our jobs most of us get nude and this is the day dedicated to nudity so they are running a contest. How does that equal being allowed to be nude in a public area or not??? Like I really dont understand you logic on this one GM. It seems like a dumb thing to complain about.
Woow BAM i dont think she was serious, she made a joke, i thought it was pretty funny to for them to point out the nude thing, indeed the irony... #alsonevernudeinfree
Vlodina
07-10-2018, 10:43 AM
Any of you having trouble with cam 2 cam? Last night I would click to enlarge their pic and it would move to the big box but stay the same size.
Ginnyyy
07-10-2018, 11:07 AM
there was a guy who said - 300 $ for taking out tha bra in free chat. I said no, he left.
The nude contest will not do good because now they pay to see us naked, when it will be free.. is a dangerous contest. They will get the taste of free nudity.
Topless is allowed.
FreakyFranky
07-10-2018, 11:55 AM
cam2cam hasnt worked the last week or so.... :(
^^In my experience ImLive is always dead with only nonpaying members trying to convince me to give them everything for free. I seriously dont know how anyone makes money on that site. Years back when I did work there I would make like 4 to 5 hundred a week and then I would lose about 350 to 400 of it to charge backs. I hate that site.
As for SM traditionally the middle weeks of the month are always the slowest. This is the time you really have to log on and stay on if you can because they are out there but its not hoping like the first and last weeks of the month. Just hang in there, put in your hours and ignore the babies that want freebies!
I hate that site myself with passion for the exact reasons u talking about, i have the account since 2005 there and 35% percent for being a veteran and i stay in Private mode only because freechat is just full of freeloaders and beggars. I do get shows sometimes if i stay in pvt mode but not too many.
Seriously though The contest isnt called Nude in Free Chat day! Like Your a smart lady Im sure you see that a Celebration of nudity doesnt mean the same thing as breaking the rules! In our jobs most of us get nude and this is the day dedicated to nudity so they are running a contest. How does that equal being allowed to be nude in a public area or not??? Like I really dont understand you logic on this one GM. It seems like a dumb thing to complain about.
She was sarcastic LOL
Woow BAM i dont think she was serious, she made a joke, i thought it was pretty funny to for them to point out the nude thing, indeed the irony... #alsonevernudeinfree
Yes, joking LOL
Any of you having trouble with cam 2 cam? Last night I would click to enlarge their pic and it would move to the big box but stay the same size.
Yes cam2cam is glitchy for a while now
Topless is allowed.
I bet the amount was a hoax, he tested her but yes, u can show tits on SM
cam2cam hasnt worked the last week or so.... :(
Same here, many could not connect especially mobile users cant connect, dont even know how to guide them on sending their cam on mobile?!
I got sick after the first month. I know you gonna say is too early but is a very hard job. My respect for the people who do this for years is a very hard job. Seems funny when you are online but when you are off you feel how tired leaves you. On topic: there was a guy who said - 300 $ for taking out tha bra in free chat. I said no, he left.
The nude contest will not do good because now they pay to see us naked, when it will be free.. is a dangerous contest. They will get the taste of free nudity.
Imagine how it is to be on cam for almost 18 years like me, i got sick too, literally (damaged back with severe pain sometimes and all the time moderate pain -> nite and day) plus a dozen of cell brain gone and some other health issues.
This job is not easy money, is fucking hard earned money!
You can show tits on SM for gold just no genitals. You mentioned in another post where u from, i am from same place like you, if u need help with work i can help u in our language if u dont get some things here in english or dont know SM very well just yet.
This contest is not about showing nudity, is a celebration of Nude day as an international holiday, u not supposed to offer nudity in ur free chat.
All the best!
Glamourmilf
07-10-2018, 02:26 PM
'why is this sucking ass more than usual'
'oh yeah. another contest for NUDE day... of course we cant be nude.'
fuckdoggit.
eta: Not that I'd like to be able to be nude in free, just why the fuck theme contests and then have no advantages or perks for us to do them.... oh yeah, it's not about what's best for us. Gotta keep that in mind.
So we're celebrating something we can't really do in free chat? We can get nude in paid chat..but we were already able to do so? So where's the specialness with Nude day then? lol
Hmm.
Very interesting.
OMG i die here LOL. Nude day exists as a holiday so why not use it as a contest reason? The theme DO NOT MATTER in my opinion, SM will use ANY reason to throw a contest! If u ask me i'll say this theme on a cam site is about celebrating our nudity, it has nothing to do with the performance on site.
On the last contest did it had anything to do with the 4th of july as a national USA day? They even said u dont have to wear anything or do anything at all, "u just need to cam because we use the holiday as a contest reason" would be the following words SM wont tell LOL.
I am just 'amazed' some people are seeing this specific 'Nude day' contest as an invitation to get nude in freechat?! Am i the only one shocked here?!
BadBitch
07-10-2018, 05:09 PM
I would just contact him. Ask him if you can do a podcast.
I did (weeks ago). I received no response.
BadBitch
07-10-2018, 05:11 PM
Imagine how it is to be on cam for almost 18 years like me, i got sick too, literally (damaged back with severe pain sometimes and all the time moderate pain -> nite and day) plus a dozen of cell brain gone and some other health issues.
This job is not easy money, is fucking hard earned money!
You can show tits on SM for gold just no genitals. You mentioned in another post where u from, i am from same place like you, if u need help with work i can help u in our language if u dont get some things here in english or dont know SM very well just yet.
This contest is not about showing nudity, is a celebration of Nude day as an international holiday, u not supposed to offer nudity in ur free chat.
All the best!
I was JUST joking about this with my husband. I said, "They're having another contest. Nude Day." He says, "But you're not suppose to show your hootch in free chat, bb." We died laughing. This site is a fucking joke anymore.
XSelinex
07-10-2018, 05:22 PM
Well members already spoiled after lot of contests and not hurry to undress me in paid chat,they're just sitting as on myfreecams and waiting for someone tip and get mad when I do not show any nudity in free chat.Year ago guys knew that they should go to pvt,but with all these contests they try to cheat,wait for tipper and avoid paid area.If this contest would be full with totally nudity it would be a help later when guys may stop pay at all and wait for free nudity.
Erika_Xstacy
07-10-2018, 07:33 PM
I miss the days when streamate was just streamate. A nice clean site with trifling models trolling each other.
Lovely_charlie
07-11-2018, 12:25 AM
Anyone else having a very very very very slow week on SM or is it just me ? last week was good, this week ughhhh
kamiliam
07-11-2018, 12:49 AM
Anyone else having a very very very very slow week on SM or is it just me ? last week was good, this week ughhhh
last night wasn't HORRIBLE, but tonight was totally dead for me. I already planned on this week being so so since I took my busiest night off for vacation, but if the rest of the week is like tonight I wish I would have said fuck it and continued my vacation
Lovely_charlie
07-11-2018, 12:58 AM
last night wasn't HORRIBLE, but tonight was totally dead for me. I already planned on this week being so so since I took my busiest night off for vacation, but if the rest of the week is like tonight I wish I would have said fuck it and continued my vacation
im just going to stay the fuck on the rest of the week and hope it pays off
Scorpio Girl
07-11-2018, 05:03 PM
Anyone else having a very very very very slow week on SM or is it just me ? last week was good, this week ughhhh
Yes! Last week was great. Last night was okay thanks to one guy but Monday I made $5. So frustrating!
SuperPookie
07-11-2018, 05:18 PM
Yes! Last week was great. Last night was okay thanks to one guy but Monday I made $5. So frustrating!
I made a whopping $8 :/. There was almost no traffic but what there was was rude freeloaders
^^^ Same here ladies, is terrible, is dead simply! No business, it feels like i am invisible, thank god is not just me cause i started to freak out it's me only or so, i mean is not good that u too experience this but glad its not my fault, i always start to doubt myself when its this bad.
BadBitch
07-11-2018, 08:14 PM
^^^ Same here ladies, is terrible, is dead simply! No business, it feels like i am invisible, thank god is not just me cause i started to freak out it's me only or so, i mean is not good that u too experience this but glad its not my fault, i always start to doubt myself when its this bad.
Same!!!! I tend to take it personally.
Lovely_charlie
07-12-2018, 01:00 AM
^^^ Same here ladies, is terrible, is dead simply! No business, it feels like i am invisible, thank god is not just me cause i started to freak out it's me only or so, i mean is not good that u too experience this but glad its not my fault, i always start to doubt myself when its this bad.
me too, and sometimes dont log in for weeks, but not this time, stay online girls, there are a few payers out there, who make it worth it in the end
Serena113
07-12-2018, 01:10 AM
I made a whopping $8 :/. There was almost no traffic but what there was was rude freeloaders
Sounds similar to my night. I had plenty of traffic, but a weirdly high percentage of rude freeloaders, people asking/demanding things I expressly state in my profile I don't do, and one who did take me exclusive because my wireless mouse froze when I tried to decline it was an asshole. I've never declined an Exclusive before, but he was demanding and rude from the moment he entered my room. Not cool.
I logged off after about 50 minutes because it was putting me in a bitchy, angry mood and I don't want my customers to see that. Unless they're into humiliation, but those ones need to take me Exclusive if they want my inner bitch to come out }:D
Hoping tomorrow is better for all of us!
Is due to this Football Championship, my opinion. A few days more and it's done.
XSelinex
07-12-2018, 05:53 AM
I've noticed too that not so much fetish guys on site as it was before,no one even ask about footfetish,leather,bellyfetish,sph,joi,and it's a huge cut of my income.Only left very rare boobsfetishists so all I got it show boobs,show pussy and fast fuck yourself,as they're not interested in any fetishes.
Also they moan that my 2.49 for pvt and 2.99 too expensive,so I had 2.49 because it was good for them before and in pvt was more than one.
Now good if one guy come in pvt after sitting 10-20 mins in free chat and staring at me,but not for too long.They even dare to tell that they're got to condition in the free gold shows,so they're came in pvt for two mins almost ready to cum on my face.I miss my shifts when I had a lot of long fetish exclusives and now it become to fast masturbate,they won't teasing at all,even get angry on it,only hurry get naked and fuck,so much exhausting and upsetting.
Same!!!! I tend to take it personally.
I guess is normal to take it personally because IT IS personally in our perception for the ones that cam for many years now, i compare things with the past and think i got old, ugly or fat (i gained weight compared to when i started), i think i did better money because i was young, slim and beautiful and now i am not anymore, 'that's why they dont come to me anymore' i think.
I know it cant be really true just partially but i cant help to think of it like this because i have terms to compare to how i was when i started.
A model who is starting now or started recently or not long ago dont have this issue to feel she changed over time.
This is me at least and my perception and as we know & was proven scientifically few years ago, truth is relative and personal, reality itself does not exist but reality is our perception seen and felt with our own consciousness.
At the end of my 4.5 hrs shift a guy came in and saved my day otherwise i would have made peanuts, at least i went to bed happy and relaxed.
Pheww!!
KiaraK
07-12-2018, 07:23 AM
I guess is normal to take it personally because IT IS personally in our perception for the ones that cam for many years now, i compare things with the past and think i got old, ugly or fat (i gained weight compared to when i started), i think i did better money because i was young, slim and beautiful and now i am not anymore, 'that's why they dont come to me anymore' i think.
I know it cant be really true just partially but i cant help to think of it like this because i have terms to compare to how i was when i started.
A model who is starting now or started recently or not long ago dont have this issue to feel she changed over time.
This is me at least and my perception and as we know & was proven scientifically few years ago, truth is relative and personal, reality itself does not exist but reality is our perception seen and felt with our own consciousness.
At the end of my 4.5 hrs shift a guy came in and saved my day otherwise i would have made peanuts, at least i went to bed happy and relaxed.
Pheww!!
I know personally it’s hard not to take it personally but try not to let the negative thoughts get to you. I have seen some ladies absolutely banking who are much older and BBW. As a matter of fact, there’s is a “dirty old granny” persona on another site who can get away with charging much more than a lot of others on one of my sites. She appears to be mid 60s, almost SSBW and this woman banks. Her placement is often much higher than the typical “young hot girl next door” and I am quite envious of her lol.
^^^ True indeed, as I said is a matter of perception, that woman has the confidence that sells, the way she feels inside matters, I work on things here and do my best on cam, I also had a total histerectomy surgery last year and this is not helping with the way I feel as a woman, it hit me hard on my confidence when I was finally just getting over with the issues I had regarding cam work. Ty for support xxx
BadBitch
07-12-2018, 09:51 AM
I guess is normal to take it personally because IT IS personally in our perception for the ones that cam for many years now, i compare things with the past and think i got old, ugly or fat (i gained weight compared to when i started), i think i did better money because i was young, slim and beautiful and now i am not anymore, 'that's why they dont come to me anymore' i think.
I know it cant be really true just partially but i cant help to think of it like this because i have terms to compare to how i was when i started.
A model who is starting now or started recently or not long ago dont have this issue to feel she changed over time.
This is me at least and my perception and as we know & was proven scientifically few years ago, truth is relative and personal, reality itself does not exist but reality is our perception seen and felt with our own consciousness.
At the end of my 4.5 hrs shift a guy came in and saved my day otherwise i would have made peanuts, at least i went to bed happy and relaxed.
Pheww!!
It's totally NOT you! The quality of customers has gone DOWN!
BiancaNorwood
07-12-2018, 11:21 AM
Checked my tags last night. One was "2 expensive". I find that absolutely hilarious especially since I lowered my prices for the summer. Too bad that guy cannot afford anything higher than $4.99/6.99 per min.
Wait until the fall when my prices go back up! Mwah ha ha ha!
XSelinex
07-12-2018, 02:01 PM
Checked my tags last night. One was "2 expensive". I find that absolutely hilarious especially since I lowered my prices for the summer. Too bad that guy cannot afford anything higher than $4.99/6.99 per min.
Wait until the fall when my prices go back up! Mwah ha ha ha!
Seems they can`t afford even 2.49/2.99 because I`ve got expensive tag too.
anonymous camgirl
07-12-2018, 04:50 PM
Same here!.. you know me.. it's been 16 yrs.. older and fatter and sick..lol feel the same way..
I guess is normal to take it personally because IT IS personally in our perception for the ones that cam for many years now, i compare things with the past and think i got old, ugly or fat (i gained weight compared to when i started), i think i did better money because i was young, slim and beautiful and now i am not anymore, 'that's why they dont come to me anymore' i think.
I know it cant be really true just partially but i cant help to think of it like this because i have terms to compare to how i was when i started.
A model who is starting now or started recently or not long ago dont have this issue to feel she changed over time.
This is me at least and my perception and as we know & was proven scientifically few years ago, truth is relative and personal, reality itself does not exist but reality is our perception seen and felt with our own consciousness.
At the end of my 4.5 hrs shift a guy came in and saved my day otherwise i would have made peanuts, at least i went to bed happy and relaxed.
Pheww!!
^^^ Yes, i think we are the very few on this forum camming for these many years, it's hard to understand when u dont carry the same experience. Be blessed! You, me, everyone!
DahliaSimone
07-12-2018, 06:04 PM
Alll day only got 2 pvts cause traffic sucked, and i lost BOTH of them because c2c isnt working.....yet again. Get your shit together, SM, this is ridiculous. Goddamn it im so mad.
Alll day only got 2 pvts cause traffic sucked, and i lost BOTH of them because c2c isnt working.....yet again. Get your shit together, SM, this is ridiculous. Goddamn it im so mad.
I am fuming myself here, this guy tried several times to send me his cam and was not able to, it was working before with him so not his issue but SM's issue, he stayed in exclusive (thank god!) but he was frustrated same like i was, luckily he is a nice young guy that adores me, i got lucky this week with him cause he really saved my week, god bless him!
DeepThoughts
07-13-2018, 06:27 AM
Yeah even Im seeing that my clients are unable to cam or have to switch browsers or even computers to make it work. I always expect it to not work when they are a new client but some of my regulars who have zero issues havent been able to upload the cam.
Glamourmilf
07-13-2018, 08:37 AM
Alll day only got 2 pvts cause traffic sucked, and i lost BOTH of them because c2c isnt working.....yet again. Get your shit together, SM, this is ridiculous. Goddamn it im so mad.
I am fuming myself here, this guy tried several times to send me his cam and was not able to, it was working before with him so not his issue but SM's issue, he stayed in exclusive (thank god!) but he was frustrated same like i was, luckily he is a nice young guy that adores me, i got lucky this week with him cause he really saved my week, god bless him!
Yeah even Im seeing that my clients are unable to cam or have to switch browsers or even computers to make it work. I always expect it to not work when they are a new client but some of my regulars who have zero issues havent been able to upload the cam.
Same here.
I've lost at least HALF of my income because guys leave when they aren't able to get their camera to turn on!
With an already summer slowdown, it's super frustrating.
*Showing us their dick, is such a MAJOR part of the Streamate experience, ( or a horny guy experience in general), you'd think SM would fix the glitch.
Truly sad.
Took me 3 hours for preparation (false eyelashes kept on falling) for 2.48$. In 44 minutes. I left. Got to sleep. ☺☺☺