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DeepThoughts
06-13-2019, 07:30 AM
I find it useful only cause I wasnt always clear when I was in a private or exclusive if I didnt here the client enter so I think this is why they added it.

DahliaSimone
06-13-2019, 08:00 AM
^^ Exactly.
I lost a show from a reg yesterday, because he wanted phone, and SM connect didn't have the option.:(
Two things that I noticed they were working on during the contest are:
1). Now the gold show can be stopped mid show by simply pressing the stop stream button. ( Used to have to press the tab button.)
Edit to add. Now there's a gold stripe appearing at the top of my chat when I start a gold show.
2) The earnings page has a notice saying after the 25th, it will be phased out, and replaced by the new interface.
If anything else is changed, I'll report back.

Ditto here, lost two potential shows yesterday due to no phone. I wish theyd work on that instead of all the dumb shit that we dont need.

ravenskyy
06-13-2019, 08:59 AM
Why do guys that have done a show with me in the past, come into my room and not say anything to me? No hi, no tips, no nothing!! And it's the same guys, over and over again. Almost every day that I'm on and a few times during each shift. Stop coming into my damn room!

XSelinex
06-13-2019, 09:34 AM
Why do guys that have done a show with me in the past, come into my room and not say anything to me? No hi, no tips, no nothing!! And it's the same guys, over and over again. Almost every day that I'm on and a few times during each shift. Stop coming into my damn room!

Same here, guys with numbers just popping in and out without saying any word. But as I know from my experience they're broke at this moment and just sneaking around until someone pay for a flash or tip something then they suddenly start to talk and leaving when I start dressing lol, so cheap from them, as I don't see who exactly tipped me and will spoil them with free dirty talk.

izshadow
06-13-2019, 10:30 AM
Same here, guys with numbers just popping in and out without saying any word. But as I know from my experience they're broke at this moment and just sneaking around until someone pay for a flash or tip something then they suddenly start to talk and leaving when I start dressing lol, so cheap from them, as I don't see who exactly tipped me and will spoil them with free dirty talk.

It makes me very hard to offer tit flashing. I battle this one daily. I want to make those tips but at the same time, I dont want to flash those free losers. Why should they see something off someone else's money?

XSelinex
06-13-2019, 10:38 AM
It makes me very hard to offer tit flashing. I battle this one daily. I want to make those tips but at the same time, I dont want to flash those free losers. Why should they see something off someone else's money?

Yes that's sucks, I even offering to tippers go to pvt because want make happy those jackals who wait for free meat.
But most time technically I can't kick or invite in pvt because guys tip me to stand, then tip for tits and I'm standing far away from my comp, when I return on my bed all ran away from my room lol.
But some of them someday returns and take pvts so I don't much mad at them.

SweetSouthernElle
06-13-2019, 12:50 PM
Yes that's sucks, I even offering to tippers go to pvt because want make happy those jackals who wait for free meat.
But most time technically I can't kick or invite in pvt because guys tip me to stand, then tip for tits and I'm standing far away from my comp, when I return on my bed all ran away from my room lol.
But some of them someday returns and take pvts so I don't much mad at them.

"[B]Swim (invisible):make a deal
[Swim (invisible): show me what ur hiding under that clothing.. then we go to pvt for u to try dp and hopefully cum for mre
"


YEAH no deal dude. I don't work for free. WTF does?!

XSelinex
06-13-2019, 01:39 PM
I had guys today who claims that I'm not at all smilling,I always have a cute and friendly smile on my face but nope, it's not enough and I should smile so wide as I can and show all my teeth for every freeloader.Seems today day off in asylum or from where they come here lol.

~Carmen~
06-13-2019, 07:29 PM
Broke loser: I like your eyes

Me: Gold is the best compliment

Broke loser: Well then you have shitty eyes

Me: Blocks and can't help bursting into laughter

Erika_Xstacy
06-13-2019, 07:38 PM
im tripping over members not in chat but they are typing to me

one guy thinks it is bc he didnt chose a member name and a credit card...

i assume its a smglitch?

Nikki_Fox
06-13-2019, 09:21 PM
im tripping over members not in chat but they are typing to me

one guy thinks it is bc he didnt chose a member name and a credit card...

i assume its a smglitch?


ive had the same thing happen - pretty sure it s a glitch

~Carmen~
06-14-2019, 12:08 AM
ive had the same thing happen - pretty sure it s a glitch

Same. I thought I was hallucinating. LOL

PixiieGirl
06-14-2019, 05:50 AM
Yes that's sucks, I even offering to tippers go to pvt because want make happy those jackals who wait for free meat.
But most time technically I can't kick or invite in pvt because guys tip me to stand, then tip for tits and I'm standing far away from my comp, when I return on my bed all ran away from my room lol.
But some of them someday returns and take pvts so I don't much mad at them.

I actually had something similar - a guy the other day tipped for a tit and ass flash, I did it, then the other guy in the room took me pvt haha

Glamourmilf
06-14-2019, 08:45 AM
Why do guys that have done a show with me in the past, come into my room and not say anything to me? No hi, no tips, no nothing!! And it's the same guys, over and over again. Almost every day that I'm on and a few times during each shift. Stop coming into my damn room!

I ask myself this too. 8 years of this, and I'm at my wit's end.
I now kick them out. They either come right back and talk and spend. Or if they come back and don't get the hint, I permanently block them.
I'm a femdom. So lots of guys love abuse. They sit and WAIT for me to kick them, just so they can come back and buy a show. Or not. Doesn't always work.
I have to remind myself daily, that most, if not all of these guys are sex addicts. Most, if not all have some serious mental issues.
I try not to take it personally, and just look at it as being a babysitter all day.
Boring. But, it comes with the job.

KatM
06-14-2019, 02:37 PM
^^^ 18 years on this & i came to the same conclusion, most have mental issues or are impotent or have very small dicks and yes i too feel like a 'grown up men sitter' haha!

TrifilinCamHo
06-14-2019, 03:34 PM
Why do guys that have done a show with me in the past, come into my room and not say anything to me? No hi, no tips, no nothing!! And it's the same guys, over and over again. Almost every day that I'm on and a few times during each shift. Stop coming into my damn room!


I've recently started paying closer attention to dudes that do this and if they haven't spent any money on me in a year or more, I kick them. If they come back a second time and don't say hi or spend money pretty much instantly, I block. It's ALWAYS the same type, that being a level one spender who you haven't ever gotten more than like $20 (your cut) out of, so whatever. My sanity is more important than the possibility of doing like a 4-minute private or possibly getting an annual $5 tip (and thats if they ever planned on spending again) from someone who is just gonna continue to be mildly irritating pretty much every time I'm online forever.

Erika_Xstacy
06-14-2019, 07:22 PM
I have been doing good at my private show price. i dropped it by 3 bucks and couldn't sell a show
Raised it back up and the same guys lurking chat at my low price exultantly bought shows at the higher price.

BubblyBlonde
06-14-2019, 08:06 PM
I've recently started paying closer attention to dudes that do this and if they haven't spent any money on me in a year or more, I kick them. If they come back a second time and don't say hi or spend money pretty much instantly, I block. It's ALWAYS the same type, that being a level one spender who you haven't ever gotten more than like $20 (your cut) out of, so whatever. My sanity is more important than the possibility of doing like a 4-minute private or possibly getting an annual $5 tip (and thats if they ever planned on spending again) from someone who is just gonna continue to be mildly irritating pretty much every time I'm online forever.

I’ve decided to start blocking more. I give a lot of guys too many chances. It’s the same names repeatedly saying they want a show, asking a shit ton of questions and then bolting. I’m done wasting my breath with them.

LittleTransClit
06-15-2019, 06:33 AM
Yeah honestly, I've started charging tips for answers to "sexy questions" before I answer them (unless it's obviously about what will go down in private/excl, and even then I only answer a few before asking if they're just wanking in guest chat lol)

whirlerz
06-15-2019, 06:45 AM
I’ve decided to start blocking more. I give a lot of guys too many chances. It’s the same names repeatedly saying they want a show, asking a shit ton of questions and then bolting. I’m done wasting my breath with them.


Yeah honestly, I've started charging tips for answers to "sexy questions" before I answer them (unless it's obviously about what will go down in private/excl, and even then I only answer a few before asking if they're just wanking in guest chat lol)


Ooh, Great ideas, thanks!
F these a/holes

euro_princess
06-15-2019, 07:21 AM
Yeah honestly, I've started charging tips for answers to "sexy questions" before I answer them (unless it's obviously about what will go down in private/excl, and even then I only answer a few before asking if they're just wanking in guest chat lol)

I agree, don't engage in sexy topics. Some of them would ask questions like: "what's the biggest dick, what's your fav position, when did you fuck last time, yadda yadda", just to have some help stroking.
Unless they are paying you, no sex details. Steal me for pvt and I will tell you all the juiciness of my slutty life.

Miss_ShaSha
06-15-2019, 08:15 AM
Yeah honestly, I've started charging tips for answers to "sexy questions" before I answer them (unless it's obviously about what will go down in private/excl, and even then I only answer a few before asking if they're just wanking in guest chat lol)

My immediate response to the first "sexy" question is: "I'll be happy to indulge all of your questions in private" with a genuinely sexy smile. They escorts themselves right out. No stress. No mess LOL

BubblyBlonde
06-15-2019, 08:26 AM
Yeah honestly, I've started charging tips for answers to "sexy questions" before I answer them (unless it's obviously about what will go down in private/excl, and even then I only answer a few before asking if they're just wanking in guest chat lol)

Oh yeah, same! I don’t answer anything unless it’s about private.

KatM
06-15-2019, 10:04 AM
^^^ ^^^ I ask for gold or to be taken pvt when they ask sexy questions but the funny part is when they ask about sex positions, cock size and what not, i mean dude, i dont care about anything u asking me really cause u not going to fuck me for real anyway so u can imagine u have a horse dick, u put me doggy and penetrate me to my brain, whatever, i am just a picture to you and this is amazing, i dont need to deal with ur cock, sweat, breath or whatever u got there, just pay me already and make a story in ur head about all the hot things u wanna do with me!
Soo soo good our clients are mostly men cause they like big kids and when horny they soo easy to work with, luckily i am a woman otherwise i would be a pussy slave like our customers :)))))))

izshadow
06-15-2019, 10:32 AM
^^^ ^^^ I ask for gold or to be taken pvt when they ask sexy questions but the funny part is when they ask about sex positions, cock size and what not, i mean dude, i dont care about anything u asking me really cause u not going to fuck me for real anyway so u can imagine u have a horse dick, u put me doggy and penetrate me to my brain, whatever, i am just a picture to you and this is amazing, i dont need to deal with ur cock, sweat, breath or whatever u got there, just pay me already and make a story in ur head about all the hot things u wanna do with me!
Soo soo good our clients are mostly men cause they like big kids and when horny they soo easy to work with, luckily i am a woman otherwise i would be a pussy slave like our customers :)))))))

I just laughed so hard I almost fell off the bed. LMAO omg that was fantastic!

KatDaniels
06-15-2019, 12:28 PM
I agree. guess I'm a big bitch, lol, but when I see someone come in 3x and has not shown any love I kick. If it is 3 visits to my room within a month or 6 months. No excuse not to tip some gold to hang out. Even the hey just stopping by to say hello, wow you look so great, man i missed you blah blah, to me is a wanking excuse. I don't expect a show everytime but for the price of a happy meal I do expect them to do something. I don't take it personal nor do I mind kicking or blocking if it continues. It's business. And as some have said, once I start the kicking they start spending. Have fun out there chicas!

Nikki_Fox
06-15-2019, 02:09 PM
You ladies are seriously motivating me to up my kicking game :)

Genoveve
06-15-2019, 04:02 PM
once I start the kicking they start spending.

Same same same.

euro_princess
06-15-2019, 04:13 PM
You ladies are seriously motivating me to up my kicking game :)

Yeah. I need SM to bring back "filter customers by entrance to chat", so I can have it on Smconnect. I used to hammer that kick button. Been in there 10 minutes, not answering to my hello, byeeeeeee. Don't care if you spent $100 in a pvt show 3 years ago, now you're wasting space and energy in my chat.

Also, I've heard in one of their podcasts that SM is working on a new feature. To attach gold in a msg (as inbox msg). This way, if you block somebody, they can actually pay for you to unblock them! Faster, SM. My inner bitch needs this option asap.

~Carmen~
06-15-2019, 04:33 PM
Is anyone else having connection problems with OhMiBod? Mine will not stay connected. I just got the Esca2 yesterday.

anonamiss
06-15-2019, 06:41 PM
u not going to fuck me for real anyway so u can imagine u have a horse dick, u put me doggy and penetrate me to my brain, whatever

hahaha this is gold XD

magicgembliss
06-16-2019, 12:55 AM
So who the heck do I get in touch with from Streamate? I've sent them two questions in their support mailbox and have received NO automated reply that they even received them. They force you to send al these irrelevant screenshots...My resolution is constantly in the red now and I don't even remember the second question. I was thinking of sending a third about the disconnection issues. I've had people now actually message me to tell me that *I* kicked them out of their room...during a private..now wtf would I do that? omg...apparently all the short sessions I've been having are all the site kicking them out of my room and them thinking I kicked them...I would have made a lot more...Ive given up on SM and dont take it seriously anymore... wtfwtftf Streamate this is killing our profit...

Klafae
06-16-2019, 03:16 AM
Not really streamates fault but I hate when you block someone and they make a new account to play again....had 2 guys do this 3 times and then after the show ask why I blocked them previously.....morons need to realize thats creepy as fuck and will result in an instaban :/ wish we could just block their computer rather than username haha

Sweet_Sadie
06-16-2019, 10:52 AM
Question: I did like some of you guys are doing. I didn't engage in sexy chat. I told him to take me private. I was in an exclusive show, the guy wanted to take me off the beaten path, as far as what I'm currently featuring. I told him to send me some gold tip, he shut down the show. In a way, I wish I had went with it cause I probably could have held him for five more mins. But I don't want to do freebies. No answering questions. No showing off my body/what I'm wearing.

But is there a way to be cute about asking for tips for sexy questions/chat, or do I just say "TIP ME FOR THAT!" ?

euro_princess
06-16-2019, 11:01 AM
If I'm in a show and they ask me to do something outside my normal things, I tell them to make things more comfortable for me. So let me give you an example. I don't like gagging, sore throat and makes me vomit. But I have a very good custie that's in love with it. At first I told him: "Look, John, I love pleasing you, but this is something I don't normally do. Can you meet me halfway and maybe make things a little bit more worth the sacrifice/exclusivity for you?"
99% of the time, they will ask if a tip is good and how much. This way you still make them feel special, but put boundaries and negotiate a little for your performance.

Dahlia Fallon
06-16-2019, 11:12 AM
Also, I've heard in one of their podcasts that SM is working on a new feature. To attach gold in a msg (as inbox msg).

You can send gold in a PM on a phone.

I'd like to be able to add a message to a kick so they see why they were removed. Would be mint if that auto saved on their customer notes also. Come back in with being kicked x number of times in a day/week whatever your tolerance level is, then it's a ban.

Dahlia Fallon
06-16-2019, 11:17 AM
Not really streamates fault but I hate when you block someone and they make a new account to play again....had 2 guys do this 3 times and then after the show ask why I blocked them previously.....morons need to realize thats creepy as fuck and will result in an instaban :/ wish we could just block their computer rather than username haha


If you check out the June 2019 news and updates in your inbox there is a suggestion for how to deal with this. Bullet point 6 under helpful tips might be what you could start doing.

Sweet_Sadie
06-16-2019, 11:35 AM
If I'm in a show and they ask me to do something outside my normal things, I tell them to make things more comfortable for me. So let me give you an example. I don't like gagging, sore throat and makes me vomit. But I have a very good custie that's in love with it. At first I told him: "Look, John, I love pleasing you, but this is something I don't normally do. Can you meet me halfway and maybe make things a little bit more worth the sacrifice/exclusivity for you?"
99% of the time, they will ask if a tip is good and how much. This way you still make them feel special, but put boundaries and negotiate a little for your performance.

Perfect! Very tactful way of getting that tip. Thanks hun!

anonamiss
06-16-2019, 12:26 PM
But is there a way to be cute about asking for tips for sexy questions/chat, or do I just say "TIP ME FOR THAT!" ?

this is exactly the kind of thing that makes every camgirl a little different, and is frankly what makes camming difficult for some. Personally I think its all about coming off as personable and conversational rather than demanding and transactional. You have to subtly make them forget they're paying you and seduce them into it. You can have boundaries but still be flirty and sexy about it.

Also, I never let a guy go private or exclusive without talking about it in free chat first, that way there are no unexpected requests and he understands what I will and won't do. If he says something super basic like "I wanna see u cum" then I say "oh really? Do you plan to direct me or do I get to get off the way I like?" Usually when I phrase it that way they either describe more of what they're expecting or they let me do what I want. If he described something I don't want to do, I let him know and we usually find a compromise, without having to awkwardly discuss it mid-show (or he leaves, which is fine too.)

XSelinex
06-16-2019, 01:07 PM
I got a tag today 2 expensive, shall I remove it or left? Is this negative or may attract rich guys?

Sweet_Sadie
06-16-2019, 01:13 PM
I'd get rid of it. Then I'd laugh at that freebie-seeker. Most of the dudes on here want freebies, so anything close to what's a fair rate is gonna be "too expensive." SMH...

magicgembliss
06-16-2019, 01:46 PM
But I don't want to do freebies. No answering questions. No showing off my body/what I'm wearing.

But is there a way to be cute about asking for tips for sexy questions/chat, or do I just say "TIP ME FOR THAT!" ?

You can ask however you feel comfortable. But keep communicating/interacting with them.

So many barely-human douches ask for freebies and your attention regardless of how many other paying customers you currently need to attend to, or demand a lot in a (non exclusive) show then tag you with something insulting or vanish when when you don't give it. So why would you do something for them when they're not giving you anything and only want free shit from you?

euro_princess
06-16-2019, 03:27 PM
I got a tag today 2 expensive, shall I remove it or left? Is this negative or may attract rich guys?

I keep all. I have expensive bitch, ridiculous rate, full of herself, pricey etc. That's the truth, I'm on the higher end and proud of it. None of my fault they have an empty bank account. I'm not meant to fit in any budget. Camming is not a necessity, it should be a luxury service, being intimate with somebody and actually fulfilling their fantasy. Fuck, not even their wives do it right. They can complain about bread and butter being expensive, cause those should be in every fridge. My pussy, my time, my dedication are not discounted items.

Horny
06-17-2019, 05:14 AM
Anyone else having problems? Connect won't connect SMB puts me on page four lol

Horny
06-17-2019, 05:21 AM
Only 870 online so yes I guess its not working

Horny
06-17-2019, 05:24 AM
Back on if anyone else is struggling just keep trying its let me back in now.

DeepThoughts
06-17-2019, 08:10 AM
Its working for me

SweetSouthernElle
06-17-2019, 01:55 PM
Is anybody having issues with ins and outs today? I have had a ton of ins and outs and just had somebody tell me my cam won't load but everything is fine on my end

Esixxx
06-17-2019, 02:14 PM
Is anybody having issues with ins and outs today? I have had a ton of ins and outs and just had somebody tell me my cam won't load but everything is fine on my end

Same here. I haven't had anyone complain about my stream yet

izshadow
06-17-2019, 02:23 PM
Is anybody having issues with ins and outs today? I have had a ton of ins and outs and just had somebody tell me my cam won't load but everything is fine on my end

Same. I'm about to log off. Five hours, with zero made. Just in/outs and barely any hellos. No one has said anything about my stream and I've checked myself on my phone and look/hear just fine so I dunno.