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princess_casual
09-19-2019, 09:37 AM
Just watched a girl take a sh*t on SM. Nice. SM, new home of public shows and why making a buck is near impossible for many.
hold on what... how? why? and you stayed to watch? I'm so confused
izshadow
09-19-2019, 11:15 AM
hold on what... how? why? and you stayed to watch? I'm so confused
It was in free chat for the whole world to see. Had her legs up over her head and she kept pushing and I'm like wtf is this girl doing and then .......
Holly_xoxo
09-19-2019, 11:29 AM
It was in free chat for the whole world to see. Had her legs up over her head and she kept pushing and I'm like wtf is this girl doing and then .......
I think I just puked a lil :O
princess_casual
09-19-2019, 12:53 PM
It was in free chat for the whole world to see. Had her legs up over her head and she kept pushing and I'm like wtf is this girl doing and then .......
my god, you should send her your therapy bill
princess_casual
09-19-2019, 12:59 PM
Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...
Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.
I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...
Thoughts?
NitaBaby
09-19-2019, 01:09 PM
Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...
Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.
I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...
Thoughts?
This has been pitched to support enough times for us to assume they just don't want to do it. I've emailed them about it after seeing another girl here in the forum mention emailing them over it but they just sent one of those canned 'thanks for your suggestion' replies.
izshadow
09-19-2019, 01:10 PM
Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...
Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.
I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...
Thoughts?
I know on LJ, you could click on a members name and see if they are an actual spending member and have money on their account. Not sure if its still that way but it was some years back. I think it would be a great idea so we can flush out the freeloaders and time wasters. It would let me know who to focus my energy on.
bigbum
09-19-2019, 01:15 PM
am i the only one whos computer crashes and freezes when trying to run the SM software? i still have to logon and run it from the web browser. ugg i have fast fiberoptic and a HD cam. my computer seems to be holding me back.
princess_casual
09-19-2019, 03:48 PM
This has been pitched to support enough times for us to assume they just don't want to do it. I've emailed them about it after seeing another girl here in the forum mention emailing them over it but they just sent one of those canned 'thanks for your suggestion' replies.
Yeah, I figured as much. BOOOOOO.
LaraLee
09-19-2019, 04:00 PM
I take notes on every guy that comes in my room, sometimes I just write beggar or only goes to show for 2 mins ect. I will post a $ sign for the guys that always take me to show. Plus it gives me something to do while i'm waiting to go to show
MarleyCat
09-19-2019, 07:49 PM
Hi ladies!
It's been a REALLY long time since I posted on here.
I was curious if anyone knew if Liz was still working at SM?
I've taken some time off and I got a guy rating me one star because I told him no.
In the past, I used to just message Liz and she would take care of it but this time I haven't heard from her.
Wouldn't be surprised if she was on vacation or something, she's always been super chill and there for all my questions in the past.
Thanks!
anonamiss
09-19-2019, 08:50 PM
Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...
Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.
I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...
Thoughts?
I don't see any benefit to a customer rating system because ratings would be incredibly subjective. You say "we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc." Say a guy comes into your room and doesn't take you into a show right away, or wants to "get to know you" before going (IMO that is totally reasonable and is often the way I score new regulars, though a lot of models disagree with having full conversations in free chat). I could see how several girls would automatically "rate" him low or note him as a freeloader as a way to "warn" other models. But maybe he just wasn't that into that particular model. That in no way indicates he's not a spender in general. Models have extremely different standards and preferences for members. I'm sure tons of guys that have been blocked by other models have ended up in my room and spent money.
And seeing how much a guy has spent over time on the site isn't really helpful to anyone either. If a guy hasn't spent much money and it shows on his customer profile, maybe it's just because he's new or doesn't log on much. Or he's just picky, which customers absolutely have a right to be. And on the flip side, just because someone is an obvious whale to another model and has spent thousands on the site doesn't mean he'll spend anything on other models. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Edit: Once a guy enters your room and says even a few words, I don't think it's difficult to figure out who you should and shouldn't focus your energy on. But I guess it really depends on your general camgirl intuition and the way you hustle and run your room in the first place. Guys who come in and say two words and type like horny teenagers are almost never worth my energy. The guys who want to ask a few questions and not jump straight into private usually are.
Edit 2: The *one* useful thing I think would be nice would be to see what a guy's daily limit is and how much he's already spent that night. To me that is the only relevant data I could realistically use.
Marina Starr
09-20-2019, 05:14 AM
When did you wrote her? She's still around. I would suggest writing support first. If you don't hear back from them in a few days then write Liz because she's very busy.
Hi ladies!
It's been a REALLY long time since I posted on here.
I was curious if anyone knew if Liz was still working at SM?
I've taken some time off and I got a guy rating me one star because I told him no.
In the past, I used to just message Liz and she would take care of it but this time I haven't heard from her.
Wouldn't be surprised if she was on vacation or something, she's always been super chill and there for all my questions in the past.
Thanks!
Serena113
09-20-2019, 06:54 AM
Hi ladies!
It's been a REALLY long time since I posted on here.
I was curious if anyone knew if Liz was still working at SM?
I've taken some time off and I got a guy rating me one star because I told him no.
In the past, I used to just message Liz and she would take care of it but this time I haven't heard from her.
Wouldn't be surprised if she was on vacation or something, she's always been super chill and there for all my questions in the past.
Thanks!
I’ve had good luck with messaging
[email protected] :) She’s super nice and takes care of things pretty quickly.
Ms.Lacey
09-20-2019, 09:02 AM
Is anyone else having connection issues because I’ve been kicked from pvt 2x in an hour
Ms.Lacey
09-20-2019, 09:10 AM
I see what the issue is. C2C is making my bit go nuts.
euro_princess
09-20-2019, 09:15 AM
I see what the issue is. C2C is making my bit go nuts.
Yes, I have the same issue. My bitrate goes all over the place when I do C2C, but none of the guys has complained so far, so fuck it. I don't care if I look all pixelated if they still like it. :)) Apparently, it shows only on our side, cause all of them said it was crystal clear, so don't bother worrying about it.
Erika_Xstacy
09-20-2019, 10:45 AM
I was pixelting bad last night and all my speedtest showed it was my end
just before my internet went to shit, I was having those issues
emkato
09-20-2019, 10:57 AM
venting: I wasn't able to work much this week because i had my landlord fixing my bathroom floor so I was relying on these past few days to make up for it and I'm struggling not to fall asleep on cam today.... is no one horny anymore? lol. its a snooze fest and Im already getting bitchy towards these broke ass freeloaders.
whats weird too is its mostly just 1 or 2 in and outs at a time but then sometimes ill get like 7 or 8 people all at once and i get excited but then they all leave just as quick as they came in. am i that hard on the eyes?? lol :/ #stressed
Miss_ShaSha
09-20-2019, 11:29 AM
venting: I wasn't able to work much this week because i had my landlord fixing my bathroom floor so I was relying on these past few days to make up for it and I'm struggling not to fall asleep on cam today.... is no one horny anymore? lol. its a snooze fest and Im already getting bitchy towards these broke ass freeloaders.
whats weird too is its mostly just 1 or 2 in and outs at a time but then sometimes ill get like 7 or 8 people all at once and i get excited but then they all leave just as quick as they came in. am i that hard on the eyes?? lol :/ #stressed
This week has been so fucking terrible for me. Less traffic than June when it was pretty bad. I have no clue what's going on. I'm pretty stressed about it too. I'm doing everything right, but it's not working.
Hang in there. You're not alone.
emkato
09-20-2019, 11:59 AM
This week has been so fucking terrible for me. Less traffic than June when it was pretty bad. I have no clue what's going on. I'm pretty stressed about it too. I'm doing everything right, but it's not working.
Hang in there. You're not alone.
thank you for the kind words:heartbeat its def comforting knowing im not alone. i stay positive, put on my makeup and cute outfit and encourage conversation but how am i supposed to hustle when theres no interaction from these dudes? sometimes it feels like its MY fault im not making money and its easy to get insecure about things, at least for me.
Miss_ShaSha
09-20-2019, 12:15 PM
thank you for the kind words:heartbeat its def comforting knowing im not alone. i stay positive, put on my makeup and cute outfit and encourage conversation but how am i supposed to hustle when theres no interaction from these dudes? sometimes it feels like its MY fault im not making money and its easy to get insecure about things, at least for me.
Girl, it's easy to internalize it. I'm fighting NOT to let it get to me. I too have been positive. I max out on self care, but this is just a really bad week. It's not us, and like you said...if we don't have good paying traffic then we can't work the room. I'm doing more this week than I have in the past and it's just not working. As long as we try then we cannot fail.
Girl...hang in there. It will not be like this always. Good for you for getting cute and doing what's necessary. For all we know, new guys who stop by are faving us and will come back when they have money. We never know all the reasons for guys entering then leaving without a hello. Stay up. We got this!!!
AcidYellow
09-20-2019, 01:29 PM
Yes for me aswell was very slow. The past two weeks were good as usual when the month begins but this one, aiaiaia Waiting for the first days of october for things to pick up again for all of us. For me usually end of month is horrible cuz my regular customers come Once a month so the rest of the days I have to strugle, I know we have to turn new guys into spenders but is hard when they dont show interest at all Or are cheap. Send u more positive vibes :)
Erika_Xstacy
09-20-2019, 01:43 PM
its been slow for me.
I did a speed test last night, for hours it acted wonky and got a tech out here today. I had a loose connection outside of my home.
My speeds are back up to normal but Im not hitting 2.50 bitrate in smconnect using obs it sits around 2.20
Last night I was pixelating bad but today I didnt seem to be pixeling
I wonder if my dark walls make a difference. sometimes i think its a light reflecting.
Miss_ShaSha
09-20-2019, 01:44 PM
Yes for me aswell was very slow. The past two weeks were good as usual when the month begins but this one, aiaiaia Waiting for the first days of october for things to pick up again for all of us. For me usually end of month is horrible cuz my regular customers come Once a month so the rest of the days I have to strugle, I know we have to turn new guys into spenders but is hard when they dont show interest at all Or are cheap. Send u more positive vibes :)
Yes, turning new members into regulars can be tough. I'm smiling and trying to think happy thoughts. I even did an abundance meditation and negative energy clearing...still bad.
I hope, like you mention, Oct is much better. I hope all the good I'm doing will result in reward. Hang in there sister...sending you good vibes.
its been slow for me.
I did a speed test last night, for hours it acted wonky and got a tech out here today. I had a loose connection outside of my home.
My speeds are back up to normal but Im not hitting 2.50 bitrate in smconnect using obs it sits around 2.20
Last night I was pixelating bad but today I didnt seem to be pixeling
I wonder if my dark walls make a difference. sometimes i think its a light reflecting.
I used to stream with 2.5 ALL THE TIME but for some reason i sit at 2.4 max now, wonder why?! RTT is 37. Same equipment here, same everything, i guess it's them limiting the bitrate on SMC?!
Erika_Xstacy
09-20-2019, 10:41 PM
I used to stream with 2.5 ALL THE TIME but for some reason i sit at 2.4 max now, wonder why?! RTT is 37. Same equipment here, same everything, i guess it's them limiting the bitrate on SMC?!
I thought it was obs but it does it with the c922 and that auto streams 1080 and 2.5 is needed to support that
I put my ring light on it and got it up to 2.3-2.40 lol
what webcam do you use?
seicento
09-21-2019, 01:48 AM
^I wouldn't bother with the bitrate for now, it started going crazy the day they announced working on video page. The new layout is in too and who knows what else they're working on. My bitrate has been all over the place and then stabilized at 2.6 which I never had before, was always 2.5. RTT is not showing for me for the last 2 days.
EDIT: Today it's all over the place again and sure it ain't me.
ASandra
09-21-2019, 03:46 AM
Not sure what is going on but for me it is the worse week ever. worked double the time for not even the minimum goal. hopefully things will get better? fingers crossed for us, girls!
Meanwhile don't do like me :)) I get angry very easily and let that affect me, i even snap at members
Yes Sha, will follow you on the meditation sessions, I think that's the best thing to do for now
TooNiceToHustle
09-21-2019, 05:58 AM
It got better traffic-wise, had some tips followed by shows. My gf still can't do shifts much longer than 1 hr, so haven't made goal, but we'll be back.
izshadow
09-21-2019, 10:33 AM
My bitrate is fluctuating this afternoon. Is this normally due to lighting issues? What can cause it to do that?
seicento
09-21-2019, 10:45 AM
My bitrate is fluctuating this afternoon. Is this normally due to lighting issues? What can cause it to do that?
Usually would be the light. But I posted earlier, mine does the same. In my case, not my end. It started earlier this week. It's the stupid site.
izshadow
09-21-2019, 11:03 AM
Usually would be the light. But I posted earlier, mine does the same. In my case, not my end. It started earlier this week. It's the stupid site.
Thanks. I dont have my photography lights on to save my eyes since its slow. Just my ceiling light but usually have had no issues in the past with doing that. I noticed there is a longer lag in my stream to then usual so I guess its just still buggy.
Erika_Xstacy
09-21-2019, 12:12 PM
^I wouldn't bother with the bitrate for now, it started going crazy the day they announced working on video page. The new layout is in too and who knows what else they're working on. My bitrate has been all over the place and then stabilized at 2.6 which I never had before, was always 2.5. RTT is not showing for me for the last 2 days.
EDIT: Today it's all over the place again and sure it ain't me.
it is all over the place.
I started communication w support a month ago but when the hurricane hit I had forgot about cam.
little annoyances started for me a month ago and it could very well have been the loose cable outside so I am glad that is taken of.
I emailed them in the same thread since the issue was never resolved just to see if I can get a answer that it is universal on the site right now.
Im not happy w my computer for personal reasons but it is more than enough to do sm.
Before smc I could edit, upload and cam another website but now it fucks everything up. :P
seicento
09-21-2019, 01:44 PM
it is all over the place.
I started communication w support a month ago but when the hurricane hit I had forgot about cam.
little annoyances started for me a month ago and it could very well have been the loose cable outside so I am glad that is taken of.
I emailed them in the same thread since the issue was never resolved just to see if I can get a answer that it is universal on the site right now.
Im not happy w my computer for personal reasons but it is more than enough to do sm.
Before smc I could edit, upload and cam another website but now it fucks everything up. :P
My bitrate today has been in between 1.2 and 2.6. Earlier this week has been as low as 0.8 while I never have that happen and I didn't change anything and I have a stable connection. While c2c is worse. Others have reported the same issues this week, which is why I stopped trying to fix what's not broken here. I expect it to miraculously get back to normal after the contest.
Miss_ShaSha
09-21-2019, 01:47 PM
That whale I did a show with is in my room today trying to meet offline. He's been in my room for 20 min trying to get my phone number to meet up. UGH! And he can't do a show because he hit his limit. I might need to block this guy.
And my favorite level 3 member could only do a 9 min show.
I'm tired and just want to make money then go to bed, but it's not happening. Fuck...sucks right now.
Erika_Xstacy
09-21-2019, 02:37 PM
That whale I did a show with is in my room today trying to meet offline. He's been in my room for 20 min trying to get my phone number to meet up. UGH! And he can't do a show because he hit his limit. I might need to block this guy.
And my favorite level 3 member could only do a 9 min show.
I'm tired and just want to make money then go to bed, but it's not happening. Fuck...sucks right now.
Remind him he prob doesn't make enough to cover your income for one year if you are permanently suspended for sharing contact info. Thats just one year.
lol its a nice way of saying fuck off
JoyKitten
09-21-2019, 07:26 PM
Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...
Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.
I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...
Thoughts?
Models already have the 'notes' feature, so I doubt Streamate would build a rating system about guys to share among other models.
I agree that other mode's opinions of guys generally isn't relevant to me, so keeping my own notes about each show with a guy is the most important sales tool I have. Since I never do Gold Shows, only private & exclusive, I make notes on every guy, especially my whales or anyone earning me (my take) over $10. Sample:
$11e Dean loves titty fucking, 5stars!
- That way the next time Dean visits I can call him by name, thank him for the stars (or gold, or shake my tits so maybe he'll take another show)
Anyone I don't care about:
pi (pop-in)
or
block! repeated pi no $
Something like that. Notes ARE my business =)
JoyKitten
09-21-2019, 07:34 PM
Gold Show Issue using the NEW SMConnect
All day long, Saturday 21st, Gold Show description is NOT APPEARING.
Using the old classic version, SMBroadcast, everything appears fine. It's only using the NE SMConnect that you'll need to keep putting into your chat feed what your show is about. Otherwise guys will have no idea what you'll be doing for them.
Or, better still, until they fix it, go back to using the old classic streaming page SMBroadcast.
I've reported & documented this, but I was hearing models say that support was kind of blowing them off, so check your stream, and if your Gold Show description is not appearing for customers, screen capture it & report it.
Miss_ShaSha
09-22-2019, 10:17 AM
Remind him he prob doesn't make enough to cover your income for one year if you are permanently suspended for sharing contact info. Thats just one year.
lol its a nice way of saying fuck off
This is good advice. And I've said something similar to other members. You know what? I just kept on like a broken record "I'll take your call in exclusive. This is how we can talk via phone." I was seriously tired from interacting with him.
I was wasted from his persistence and immediately hit the break button. He left then came back. He must have got the message cause he took me exclusive for 50 min!
Girl, I almost blocked him too. So glad I just kept repeating myself LOL.
Erika_Xstacy
09-22-2019, 03:02 PM
This is good advice. And I've said something similar to other members. You know what? I just kept on like a broken record "I'll take your call in exclusive. This is how we can talk via phone." I was seriously tired from interacting with him.
I was wasted from his persistence and immediately hit the break button. He left then came back. He must have got the message cause he took me exclusive for 50 min!
Girl, I almost blocked him too. So glad I just kept repeating myself LOL.
Its a whole different ballgame when you mention paying someone a salary.
I have one guy lol he is hilarious said I am listed on his aunts estate and another guy is waiting to win the lottery. It can become a joke.
Ive met 2 guys from online and both I knew for years. some of these guys do become friends but their life is totally different.
1st guy told me for years he worked at a aquarium. He lives alone, single and at that time he was 35 (I was 33 at the time)
I go to Fla. We have a blast. He had to be at the aquarium on Saturday but his mom wanted o hang out with me.
His mom actually comes to his home on Saturdays and dropped off prepared meals for the week, pick up his laundry to wash, dry and fold. The moment she walked in the house everything turned cold, she had a snobby attitude.
We go out for coffee and we talk about my life being a single mom, working and if I had relation plans/goals. She asked me if I stayed in my own race. Im as white as she is so I am confused lmfao this woman says "you are Greek or something? you have such olive skin, your very exotic" I have had dumb shit to said to me in my lifetime but that almost topped the cake.
I go back to his home, he is not there, Im bored, I start going through his personal shit.
I had my bags packed and ready to go by the time this 43 yro man that worked at the local FISH STORE came home. I was at the airport changing my flight. you aint about to kill me, im going home.
He was truly a nice guy in the end, we still talk after I got over he lied to me. He was scared he wasnt good enough for me.
He was one of my first cam customers. Hes the one that talked me into working streamate when pcams shut down. He was telling me where girls went.
2nd man
he was 57, nice, well kept, federal lobbyist, manners, jazz, blues, movies We did a lot of phone talk before w met
he painted a picture and the dream was coming true lol Hes has a home in Arizona and DC....
I arrive in DC, I go to his Watergate apt that he is "refurnishing", he needs to move the Picasso, hes needs to pay the yearly dues
We meet at the bar downstairs at the hotel part, typical "pretty woman" moment. hes like 6'7 and Im all of 5ft, Im in love lol the story is about to get good
We go to his apt and there is no damn Picasso, everything is wicker furniture and glass table tops. The bed was a rollout from the 80s. Here I am, about to get murdered.
There was a damn framed photo of Jimmy Carter. He wanted me to see the great view lol so I go to the balcony and immediately go puke in the bathroom. I opened the cabinet to grab toothpaste and the whole cabinet crumbled in my hand.
I tell him I broke the cabinet door. He got mad lol and yelled "this cant be replaced!!!"
watch your tone Ill set this whole goddamn apt on fire. piece of shit apartment, idgaf its at the Watergate.
We ate Chinese food, I hate Chinese food.
He decided to tell me he was bisexual and I should be ok with that bc of porn lol and hes seen my videos telling them I love two dicks, I want to be with two men as lovers.. forgetting its fantasy. He wanted a nice young man, buff 25 year old with blonde hair. He also loves young women in their 20s.
His dick was about 5 inches
and he had hair plugs
^^ lol "dont touch my neck area at my hairline =) its still sensitive" His hair was not even his
Lmfao I do know models that have met great guys online But Im not one of them.
ask another girl but these are my two meeting a customer experience lol
^^^ I too have two meeting stories from the 18 years camming but i wont give details in open forum, it ended not good and they both lied a lot, did not meet my expectations at all.
Some girls met great guys who eventually married them but not me either :shrug:
Miss_ShaSha
09-22-2019, 03:26 PM
Its a whole different ballgame when you mention paying someone a salary.
I have one guy lol he is hilarious said I am listed on his aunts estate and another guy is waiting to win the lottery. It can become a joke.
Ive met 2 guys from online and both I knew for years. some of these guys do become friends but their life is totally different.
1st guy told me for years he worked at a aquarium. He lives alone, single and at that time he was 35 (I was 33 at the time)
I go to Fla. We have a blast. He had to be at the aquarium on Saturday but his mom wanted o hang out with me.
His mom actually comes to his home on Saturdays and dropped off prepared meals for the week, pick up his laundry to wash, dry and fold. The moment she walked in the house everything turned cold, she had a snobby attitude.
We go out for coffee and we talk about my life being a single mom, working and if I had relation plans/goals. She asked me if I stayed in my own race. Im as white as she is so I am confused lmfao this woman says "you are Greek or something? you have such olive skin, your very exotic" I have had dumb shit to said to me in my lifetime but that almost topped the cake.
I go back to his home, he is not there, Im bored, I start going through his personal shit.
I had my bags packed and ready to go by the time this 43 yro man that worked at the local FISH STORE came home. I was at the airport changing my flight. you aint about to kill me, im going home.
He was truly a nice guy in the end, we still talk after I got over he lied to me. He was scared he wasnt good enough for me.
He was one of my first cam customers. Hes the one that talked me into working streamate when pcams shut down. He was telling me where girls went.
2nd man
he was 57, nice, well kept, federal lobbyist, manners, jazz, blues, movies We did a lot of phone talk before w met
he painted a picture and the dream was coming true lol Hes has a home in Arizona and DC....
I arrive in DC, I go to his Watergate apt that he is "refurnishing", he needs to move the Picasso, hes needs to pay the yearly dues
We meet at the bar downstairs at the hotel part, typical "pretty woman" moment. hes like 6'7 and Im all of 5ft, Im in love lol the story is about to get good
We go to his apt and there is no damn Picasso, everything is wicker furniture and glass table tops. The bed was a rollout from the 80s. Here I am, about to get murdered.
There was a damn framed photo of Jimmy Carter. He wanted me to see the great view lol so I go to the balcony and immediately go puke in the bathroom. I opened the cabinet to grab toothpaste and the whole cabinet crumbled in my hand.
I tell him I broke the cabinet door. He got mad lol and yelled "this cant be replaced!!!"
watch your tone Ill set this whole goddamn apt on fire. piece of shit apartment, idgaf its at the Watergate.
We ate Chinese food, I hate Chinese food.
He decided to tell me he was bisexual and I should be ok with that bc of porn lol and hes seen my videos telling them I love two dicks, I want to be with two men as lovers.. forgetting its fantasy. He wanted a nice young man, buff 25 year old with blonde hair. He also loves young women in their 20s.
His dick was about 5 inches
and he had hair plugs
^^ lol "dont touch my neck area at my hairline =) its still sensitive" His hair was not even his
Lmfao I do know models that have met great guys online But Im not one of them.
ask another girl but these are my two meeting a customer experience lol
OMFG nightmares. LOL, you're so funny tho. Burn the whole GD apt down? Hahahaaaaa
JGB2009
09-22-2019, 03:32 PM
^^^ LOL gr8 stories ...thanx for shaing
kamiliam
09-22-2019, 04:00 PM
I have a number of guys that I wouldn’t be scared to meet, but why break the fantasy for both parties? I need the crowd sourcing to support my lifestyle, and I think only one former whale could. In fact I fully expect him to track me down and play Santa Clause if he ever runs for political office like he was thinking. Oh the stories I and his other cam girls could tell!
anonymous camgirl
09-22-2019, 04:28 PM
So basically, we all only meet 2 men? I have only met 2 also , that was the first year of camming.. it was such a mistake never again: These guys spent ALOT of money on me.
One was an older lonely truck driver I think that lived in same state as me and after meeting him for lunch with my youngest son, he always wanted to meet for lunch and never go to pvt anymore.. So I lost $500 a month off that guy.
The other one was Married 36 yr old guy who worked for Sun Microsystems. as an engineer.. It's true .. I verified and can view his resume on LinkedIn til this day.. He literally was going to leave his wife and new baby for me.. that lasted a whopping 3 months that one used to spend $1500 a month plus lingerie and bought things for my house.. So I learned after that .. those 2 men just by meeting them and making it reality costed me $2 grand a month so I never would meet another one..
Don't mess with mama's money!!
euro_princess
09-22-2019, 05:04 PM
Such an outside the box topic, but fun. :))
I've met one of my regulars years and years ago. More than 6, I was just starting camming. Rockie mistake, fall in love with a custie in your first month. But damn, he was the sweetest. Our first private, he got dressed in a costume with tie and everything and told me: "I dressed properly, cause I want you to feel like we are on a date". That mindfucked me! To this day, he still shows up on cam in a costume. :)
Long story short, I flew miles and countries to see him. Dumb ass, what if he wanted to murder me? He didn't ofc. :)) So he picks me up from the airport, but he's cold. And I'm wtf, do I look this bad in real life? I thought I was pretty and I knew he made a lot of effort for my arrival. He bought new bed sheets (sent me pics and told me to pick what I wanted), cleaned the house, booked reservation at the nicest restaurant, got his best costume dry cleaned, stuffed the fridge with food he wanted to cook for me and all that yadda yadda.
So here I was all fucking confused and disappointed, cause I was wearing a sexy body suit under my clothes. We get at his apartment, I start to get sexy, half naked, trying to show him I'm actually fine AF.
Suddenly, I hear a key opening the door and there is this chubby chick yelling her lungs out! HIS FUCKING EX.
She starts rumbling about "You meet this hoe online and that's why you don't wanna get back with me?! You piece of shit". And there I was, with my tits out (I didn't hide shit, cause that's what a badass bitch does when she's insulted, she shows her best assets), listening to this cry baby.
She leaves. I finally get to fuck him. Probably best fuck of his life, he still remembers and feels sorry we couldn't get more of that. But everything was fucked also, because she can't stop calling him and threatening to kill herself because of me! So my guy is all chicken out and spends the next day at her place, trying to calm that piece of shit of a woman.
3rd day I take a flight and go home with my heart broken. And it wasn't even his fault. :) Well, it was, cause he told her he wanted to start something with somebody else and that he wanted his key back, because this new chick comes on Friday! Who does that?!
Moral of the story, don't give your heart online. That was my only experience, first and last. I was depressed for months. All water under the bridge now. Just take care of you chicks, your emotional and mental state are far more important than some cute big dick guy.
NitaBaby
09-22-2019, 05:21 PM
^ I enjoyed your story far too much.
euro_princess
09-22-2019, 05:38 PM
^Haha, thx. Funny story after I left, she came at his house dressed in a corset and said: "See, I can get dolled up too and fit in a corset". Nice try, bitch.
^^^ A hotel room would have been better for you two, just saying.
The way he did things and the situation he put u in OMG, i feel for you!