View Full Version : STREAMATE - Venting, Complaining, Discussing site issues
SM_CamGirl
10-07-2019, 01:15 PM
OMG thanks God, its happening to me, im still online but i cant log into my account to see my earnings or anything, i was so scared to log off and never can come back... thinking i was suspended, thinking what the hell i did, looking for a message or something in my inbox..... i almost had a heart attack!!!!
Hazelcam
10-07-2019, 01:15 PM
I'm in but my account has been wiped!!!!!
It's back. OMG! I was gonna bitch fit!
glad its back!!!
ravenskyy
10-07-2019, 01:16 PM
wiped?
My account was back to the application process. No ratings. $0 in my earnings. It was asking for my ID again. It's back to normal now but omg. I was about to scream!!!
Miss_ShaSha
10-07-2019, 01:21 PM
I'm in using Google Chrome. But I just checked how many models are on and it's like 1400. This must be a huge issue for a set number of accounts.
Shit, my anxiety is bad today. If that happened to me and I didn't have SW I'd have legit had a massive panic attack.
ravenskyy
10-07-2019, 01:27 PM
And now no one is talking to me. Just a bunch of in and out bs. Nice.
anonymous camgirl
10-07-2019, 01:28 PM
I was on my own before I found out of stripperweb for like 9 yrs!! I had a few cam girlfriends that I talked to about stuff like that though.
I'm in using Google Chrome. But I just checked how many models are on and it's like 1400. This must be a huge issue for a set number of accounts.
Shit, my anxiety is bad today. If that happened to me and I didn't have SW I'd have legit had a massive panic attack.
Miss_ShaSha
10-07-2019, 01:37 PM
^^SW is like a lifeline for me. I honestly don't know what I'd do if I didn't have a community like this to turn to. And SW is far more helpful with shit than SM support. I turn to the ladies here before I hit up support or Liz.
anonymous camgirl
10-07-2019, 02:01 PM
Me to.. much better customer support here hahaha
^^SW is like a lifeline for me. I honestly don't know what I'd do if I didn't have a community like this to turn to. And SW is far more helpful with shit than SM support. I turn to the ladies here before I hit up support or Liz.
Nikki66
10-07-2019, 03:08 PM
Hi everyone!
Ladies,I need your help.This two weeks are horrible!I have noone in my room.I have to wait more that 10 minutes for someone to enter my room.
No idea what is going on.My resolution and everything else is perfect.I have 5 stars and lots of tags but still nothing.
Two weeks ago everything was fine.
What can be wrong?
The only thing is my timeonline,I have only 66 hours and my 4 GB Ram.
Sorry for my English but I but I really need help :(
NitaBaby
10-07-2019, 07:27 PM
This anxiety I've developed for pressing the green button has gotten a bit out of hand. I'm actually afraid to log in.
Nah. I'm just gonna put my dildos up and go to bed.
Miss_ShaSha
10-07-2019, 07:34 PM
Hi everyone!
Ladies,I need your help.This two weeks are horrible!I have noone in my room.I have to wait more that 10 minutes for someone to enter my room.
No idea what is going on.My resolution and everything else is perfect.I have 5 stars and lots of tags but still nothing.
Two weeks ago everything was fine.
What can be wrong?
The only thing is my timeonline,I have only 66 hours and my 4 GB Ram.
Sorry for my English but I but I really need help :(
It could be a slump. I just experienced a major drop in income & traffic recently. These things happen even when you're doing things right. It'll pick up soon I'm sure.
AcidYellow
10-07-2019, 08:21 PM
Im pissed rn! One good regular I have, came in and I was very happy to see him after a few days and what a surprise: He asked me if I could Lick my own pussy in pvt¡ Ofc , good for those who can but ,cmon, let me alone. He wanted to see me doing that because he saw a girl in a movie doing that. Even if I was that Flexible, I wouldnt do it. Oh well well, now seems like I have to start learning acrobatics to earn More money. Pfff Plus he didnt spend cuz wanted that show in specific. Bye then¡ others will come.
laurielegs
10-07-2019, 11:00 PM
My problem is that I need hand-holding. Example: when I tried to switch over to being a dom I looked for clips of girls doing that type of stuff and it just didn't teach me anything. Everyone seems to do it their own way so there weren't any particular things that stood out as a "must do", it was so all over the place that I gave up on that crap. With roleplay, I would seriously need clips of cam girls performing roleplays for customers. Not clips of a roleplay scenario because I can watch any bad porno from the 80's for that. I have to see it done in the way that I'm being expected to do it- and I'm sure that type of resource doesn't exist. When something isn't clicking for me it REALLY doesn't click. For me, watching roleplays as a way to learn how to roleplay would be like watching a surgery as a way to learn how to perform surgery. We all about to die.
Like now, I've made mental note of what you just said about the maid thing and... I am completely stuck on what I'd say after all of that. It's not intuitive for me and watching roleplay videos is pretty much like watching other girls do gold shows. I see what's being done but I'm not learning how to apply it when it's my turn. I need "say this, not that" and with that type of spoon feeding required I feel like I'm better off not even asking people about it.
I also used to hate roleplay and feel like I couldn't do it but I was totally overthinking it. I get super good reviews on Niteflirt for my roleplay both on cam and phone but all I really do is follow along with whatever the guy is saying. Let him do most of the talking.
Usually they have the whole scenario in their heads already and also you have to remember they have a hard dick so no blood flow to the brain, lol. They are perfectly happy with cheesy and dumb stuff, just a few words here and there to play along. Sometimes its so goofy I can hardly keep from giggling.
ravenskyy
10-07-2019, 11:17 PM
This anxiety I've developed for pressing the green button has gotten a bit out of hand. I'm actually afraid to log in.
Nah. I'm just gonna put my dildos up and go to bed.
Nita, are we the same person? Because girl, same. I battle with this issue daily. It sucks. Idk where it even comes from, but it's really getting out of hand. This is one of the main reasons why I get behind on bills. Stupid anxiety. Stupid brain.
laurielegs
10-08-2019, 01:40 AM
Nita, are we the same person? Because girl, same. I battle with this issue daily. It sucks. Idk where it even comes from, but it's really getting out of hand. This is one of the main reasons why I get behind on bills. Stupid anxiety. Stupid brain.
Me three!
I think with me it's mainly fear of not making money and sitting there in a dead room. I'm stoked and happy to be on when it's busy. I'm seeing others posting in that $1000 a day thread that they have hours of dead times too and are on 10 plus hours. I need to have that kind of dedication and persistence. I want to see what I can accomplish so I'm determined to overcome this stupid reluctance to log in! ugh...
I'm both glad to see I'm not alone but sorry to see you two are struggling with this stuff too. Let's just log on and see how long we can stay on. Got to be online and available for that $$$ to find us!
NitaBaby
10-08-2019, 01:55 AM
^ For me it is definitely the fear of not making money. I have somehow equated all of the dead days with my lack of attractivenesss. I need only to step outside to be reminded that that isn't true. But the doubt still creeps in when I see other women's "bad days" equaling my goal for the week - and still being unable to make that. I've never believed that some women 'just have it like that'. If I see a woman with that dream guy or dream house or dream income then I seriously believe that is the universe saying I can have (my version of) that, too. So knowing that someway, somehow I am capable of something and yet falling tragically short everyday is making me question everything about myself. I don't go places where I feel constantly unwelcome. But this time I have go there if I want to pay my lights? Ugh.
Side note.
My daughter woke me up in a panic over her breathing so she's skipping school today, we're seeing a doctor asap. But now I'm awake. So you know what? I'm going to try to make just $100 and act like it's Sunday morning. I am only ever happy to cam on Sunday's.
Horny
10-08-2019, 05:29 AM
This has been the weirdest day in a long time its super dead. Any ideas why?
PixiieGirl
10-08-2019, 07:35 AM
support are doing my head in, asking for all my laptop specs and internet and stuff - Im telling them the widget is glitched and not showing me the stream Im streaming at wtf does that have to do with those things lol
izshadow
10-08-2019, 07:57 AM
support are doing my head in, asking for all my laptop specs and internet and stuff - Im telling them the widget is glitched and not showing me the stream Im streaming at wtf does that have to do with those things lol
All they know how to do is copy and paste. Support has zero idea how to actually support.
Miss_ShaSha
10-08-2019, 08:02 AM
This anxiety I've developed for pressing the green button has gotten a bit out of hand. I'm actually afraid to log in.
Nah. I'm just gonna put my dildos up and go to bed.
Nita, are we the same person? Because girl, same. I battle with this issue daily. It sucks. Idk where it even comes from, but it's really getting out of hand. This is one of the main reasons why I get behind on bills. Stupid anxiety. Stupid brain.
Ladies, my anxiety was so bad Sunday and Monday. On Sunday I forced myself to log in early and on Monday I was 10 min late for my shift. FUCK, when my anxiety is bad I literally feel like I'm gonna have a heart attack. It's so wretched. And it made no sense cause Sunday was my best earnings day EVER!!! I swear...like you're saying Raven, my fuckin brain sucks sometimes.
I try to have a ritual. I do the Ho'oponopono before my shifts and try to play my favorite music to set the tone, but I still don't feel like logging in. And until I get that first show: I'm shaking like a leaf. FUCK...enough brain ENOUGH!!!
Miss_ShaSha
10-08-2019, 08:04 AM
This has been the weirdest day in a long time its super dead. Any ideas why?
Tuesdays usually suck for me. I take it off. Sorry to hear. Sending good vibes.
xStellaBlue
10-08-2019, 09:08 AM
anytime a customer tries to C2C with me, they tell me that my cam freezes but they can still hear audio. what the fuckkkkkkk
anonymous camgirl
10-08-2019, 10:00 AM
Ladies, my anxiety was so bad Sunday and Monday. On Sunday I forced myself to log in early and on Monday I was 10 min late for my shift. FUCK, when my anxiety is bad I literally feel like I'm gonna have a heart attack. It's so wretched. And it made no sense cause Sunday was my best earnings day EVER!!! I swear...like you're saying Raven, my fuckin brain sucks sometimes.
I try to have a ritual. I do the Ho'oponopono before my shifts and try to play my favorite music to set the tone, but I still don't feel like logging in. And until I get that first show: I'm shaking like a leaf. FUCK...enough brain ENOUGH!!!
have you ever tried something high in carbs or sugar when you have bad anxiety? even just a glass of fruit juice? High adrenaline causes you to have anxiety a lot of times.
PixiieGirl
10-08-2019, 10:04 AM
All they know how to do is copy and paste. Support has zero idea how to actually support.
aye think Ill see what they reply this time then contact Liz lol
ok I finally got a relevant answer and they're saying the "stream resolution" it shows is the max you're capable of, not what you're actually outputting
is that the case for you girls? Mine used to show what I was actually outputing?
Nikki66
10-08-2019, 01:01 PM
wait,so the resolution that we have in stream health is false ?What the point of it..
Miss_ShaSha
10-08-2019, 01:08 PM
have you ever tried something high in carbs or sugar when you have bad anxiety? even just a glass of fruit juice? High adrenaline causes you to have anxiety a lot of times.
Yes, good question. I have a banana & water. It helps only a little. I do have an anxiety medication (Gabapentin) but I only take it in emergencies. But I've suffered from bad anxiety since a child. I've got skills in CBT, ACT, & DBT which help but the anxiety can still be debilitating. Thanks for asking.
anonymous camgirl
10-08-2019, 01:27 PM
Yes, good question. I have a banana & water. It helps only a little. I do have an anxiety medication (Gabapentin) but I only take it in emergencies. But I've suffered from bad anxiety since a child. I've got skills in CBT, ACT, & DBT which help but the anxiety can still be debilitating. Thanks for asking.
I did my genetics on Fitness genes and it says I have a HIGH adrenaline baseline level which makes me more prone to easily being stressed and anxiety more than other people.. genetics is so fascinating.
PixiieGirl
10-08-2019, 01:37 PM
wait,so the resolution that we have in stream health is false ?What the point of it..
Tbh I don’t even know, mine used to be my output but the past 3-4 weeks mines shown 1080 constantly despite the fact I know I’m not streaming that high, support reckon it’s because my laptop could handle 1080 so shows the top resolution I could get, which sounds like bullshit tbh lol
xStellaBlue
10-08-2019, 01:51 PM
Having problems logging in the second day in a row, right around the same time and SM is my biggest egg right now.
Nikki66
10-08-2019, 01:57 PM
Tbh I don’t even know, mine used to be my output but the past 3-4 weeks mines shown 1080 constantly despite the fact I know I’m not streaming that high, support reckon it’s because my laptop could handle 1080 so shows the top resolution I could get, which sounds like bullshit tbh lol
Wow!I have the same situation!I guess,this is why we have no traffic.It is so dead 2 weeks..
ravenskyy
10-08-2019, 02:00 PM
Traffic sucks today. Everyone is being cheap or wasting my time. My hourly average is down by $18 now. Wtf is going on!? I haven't even made $100 yet and I've been on for almost 3 hours!!!
PixiieGirl
10-08-2019, 02:10 PM
Wow!I have the same situation!I guess,this is why we have no traffic.It is so dead 2 weeks..
they've just replied again and said they'll look into it as they've realised it is a glitch and what they told me wasnt true lol - if they give me a fix Ill let you know :)
Nikki66
10-08-2019, 02:32 PM
they've just replied again and said they'll look into it as they've realised it is a glitch and what they told me wasnt true lol - if they give me a fix Ill let you know :)
oh, thank you so much!I tried to talk to support millions of times, nothing helpful :( Hopefully we will fix it soon
anonamiss
10-09-2019, 01:30 PM
Didn't we JUST HAVE a week long contest? For fucks sake. Ugh.
TrifilinCamHo
10-09-2019, 01:38 PM
Didn't we JUST HAVE a week long contest? For fucks sake. Ugh.
I'm seriously fucking livid about this right now. This week has been suuuuuuper brutal so far and now they're pretty much guaranteeing another shitty slow glitch-laden week directly after this one when they had a week long contest literally 2 weeks ago? The audacity.
DahliaSimone
10-09-2019, 01:59 PM
Thanks for fucking up right as a findom client was gonna take me exclusive, SM, when I havent made shit all day. I hate this site more and more every fucking day. Kinda convenient it chose right as he was hitting to go exclusive to fuck up.....
NitaBaby
10-09-2019, 02:03 PM
I'm seriously fucking livid about this right now. This week has been suuuuuuper brutal so far and now they're pretty much guaranteeing another shitty slow glitch-laden week directly after this one when they had a week long contest literally 2 weeks ago? The audacity.
wait..what.
a contest?
ravenskyy
10-09-2019, 02:05 PM
GREAT!!!! Now I have to work 2 shifts a day, for the second week in a row. If it was just a bonus week, I wouldn't care but this contest in particular has always been bad for me and given me anxiety. I just got over my last mental breakdown, but fuck it, I'll take another one!
xStellaBlue
10-09-2019, 02:54 PM
How does Streamate manage to get worse each week? I'd rather have something like, I get 50% of my earnings if I work 25, 40 hours in a week etc. than these bullshit contests.
NitaBaby
10-09-2019, 02:58 PM
How does Streamate manage to get worse each week? I'd rather have something like, I get 50% of my earnings if I work 25, 40 hours in a week etc. than these bullshit contests.
I would eat, sleep, and clip my toe nails on sm if they offered that.
Miss_ShaSha
10-09-2019, 02:59 PM
GREAT!!!! Now I have to work 2 shifts a day, for the second week in a row. If it was just a bonus week, I wouldn't care but this contest in particular has always been bad for me and given me anxiety. I just got over my last mental breakdown, but fuck it, I'll take another one!
Dude, I fuckin wore myself out last contest. This contest? Dear FUCK Jesus...I'm gonna have to work harder than fuck. 50 hrs? I guess so. I'll be checking into a mental ward by weeks end.
Raven, I hear you girl! UGH!!!
Yeah, i was expecting a contest cause we have one every 2 weeks now, it's crazy!
When there is no paying traffic i dont know what is worse, a dead room or a contest taking place, there is no difference anymore, not to me :(
NitaBaby
10-09-2019, 03:13 PM
^I feel like contests are worse only because I have zero hope when they're going on. Low traffic sucks ass but there is always a part of me that's like ".....maybe if I stay on just 10 more minutes...?". With contest I already know that shit is a waste of time.
Erika_Xstacy
10-09-2019, 03:43 PM
just got thrown into free chat masturbating
he was getting errors when trying to enter exclusive then that happened
i logged into my members accct to tally models- i read streamate lies about models online-it just doesnt show true number bc models are geo blocking-after logging in-i saw that the numbers tally correct
BUT
all my favorite models are no longer Favorited - happen to anyone else?
laurielegs
10-09-2019, 06:03 PM
Still no check this week yet again. I've learned not to count on my pay until a week or more passes but fuck its demotivating. With the low traffic I haven't been able to get ahead to switch to monthly and get paid by Fedex. I just can't justify spending more than $30 a month just to get my damn paycheck. It's so annoying to not be able to count on getting paid.
Miss_ShaSha
10-09-2019, 06:35 PM
Still no check this week yet again. I've learned not to count on my pay until a week or more passes but fuck its demotivating. With the low traffic I haven't been able to get ahead to switch to monthly and get paid by Fedex. I just can't justify spending more than $30 a month just to get my damn paycheck. It's so annoying to not be able to count on getting paid.
Right. Good point. Ugh!
seicento
10-09-2019, 11:25 PM
I was looking forward to the weekend. Well, I guess no good sunday is coming now :(
emkato
10-10-2019, 05:37 AM
Ive been making more money on my sexting app than i have on streamate lol thats concerning considering i have the sexting app just for extra income and now im low key relying on it to make up for my pitiful paychecks from SM.
and now another contest? so the same models can place and make a fat bonus they dont need while we make chump change? also only a $25 BONUS IF YOU MAKE 250??? I am not gonna say the number but i used to make wayyy more than that easy in a week and now its hard to even reach $250, as embarrassing as it is to say.
im starting to hate this website for real.
NitaBaby
10-10-2019, 07:33 AM
I'm showered, shaved up, and logged into 4 different sites but I just do. not. wanna. do. dis. shit.
I need to amp myself up somehow.
ggminx
10-10-2019, 07:42 AM
when i feel like that, i tell myself, 5 minutes, just 5...and usually i end up on for an hour! just hit the button!