View Full Version : STREAMATE - Venting, Complaining, Discussing site issues
Erika_Xstacy
08-17-2016, 01:39 PM
So I had some dickhead rate me 1 star the other day because I wouldn't show him pussy in the first minute of the show. I wrote support and asked to have it removed. They wrote me back saying they removed it. I went in and looked and they removed a 5 star rating I had (I had two 5 star ratings and a 1 star left that day) and left the 1 star!! What the actual fuck? They just get more incompetent as time goes by.
Email them and tell them! I would *hope* they fix it
SoloDesire
08-17-2016, 02:06 PM
Email them and tell them! I would *hope* they fix it
I did! It took them a day and a half to respond to the first email so I'll give it some time lol.
JaneBurgess
08-17-2016, 02:38 PM
Is it just or are females that come in to ur room the absolute worst? They expect to chitchat all day or night long without paying u a dime. I also hate couples with a passion too as far as customers go.
Im not so sure. Ive done a lot of shows with women or they said they were women I dont really know.
MistressX
08-17-2016, 02:39 PM
I injured my back on sunday and haven't been able to work all week. I'm going back on SM today, and am going to try to split cam with Cams.com and see what happens. This will be my very first time splitcamming in the 10 years I have cammed.. I just dont have that big of an attention span lol.. So we'll see how it goes. With SM being so bad right now I'll try pretty much anything.. I will not, however, lower my rates. I believe that ends up hurting more than helping in the long run. Eventually that hurts everyone because prices get cheaper and cheaper, girls will start offering more and more for less and less just to get a pvt or gold show.. I won't contribute to that. My prices will stay as they are or maybe I'll even raise them. They want a pvt, they will pay, and it keeps the riff raff out.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-17-2016, 03:29 PM
Someone here on SW had a very genius post on charging different rates throughout the day. But I can't remember who that was? I'm currently on a freechat hiatus but I can tell you that it worked. And charging different rates from site to site works too. Can anyone reference that post? I know one of you wise camyodas can do it.
Melyssax
08-17-2016, 03:36 PM
I injured my back on sunday and haven't been able to work all week. I'm going back on SM today, and am going to try to split cam with Cams.com and see what happens. This will be my very first time splitcamming in the 10 years I have cammed.. I just dont have that big of an attention span lol.. So we'll see how it goes. With SM being so bad right now I'll try pretty much anything.. I will not, however, lower my rates. I believe that ends up hurting more than helping in the long run. Eventually that hurts everyone because prices get cheaper and cheaper, girls will start offering more and more for less and less just to get a pvt or gold show.. I won't contribute to that. My prices will stay as they are or maybe I'll even raise them. They want a pvt, they will pay, and it keeps the riff raff out.
Totally my mindset but on the same token I understand ladies gotta do what they gotta do. If it works for you, then roll with it, because we are all trying to eat.
ETA: And if some of you cam vets are saying that this is seriously the worse you've seen it that's kinda scary lol..
Erika_Xstacy
08-17-2016, 03:51 PM
Someone here on SW had a very genius post on charging different rates throughout the day. But I can't remember who that was? I'm currently on a freechat hiatus but I can tell you that it worked. And charging different rates from site to site works too. Can anyone reference that post? I know one of you wise camyodas can do it.
This would be so helpful. I have played with my rates and can say day time just sucks for me at this time no matter my rate.
I banked less than a 2 hour shift last night expecting the same today but nope.
Im not at all opposed to changing my rates bc at the end of the day, its about earned income. The more I am in paid chat the better.
I tweak shows according to rates. Always. A 1.99 private is nothing like a 5.99 or 12.99.. nothing like it
gingerstripper
08-17-2016, 03:54 PM
i dunno how you ladies to show after show after show. my pussy gets sore after one :(
SoloDesire
08-17-2016, 03:59 PM
i dunno how you ladies to show after show after show. my pussy gets sore after one :(
I can't speak for others but I don't masturbate in all of my shows. That's the best way from getting sore...offer other things or just offer penetration in exclusive only or exclusive blocks only. I only offer masturbation in exclusive...so that cuts back on having to fuck myself.
SoloDesire
08-17-2016, 05:57 PM
I did! It took them a day and a half to respond to the first email so I'll give it some time lol.
They removed it! Still didn't get that removed 5 star back though :\
JaneBurgess
08-17-2016, 06:52 PM
i dunno how you ladies to show after show after show. my pussy gets sore after one :(
I do a lot of fetish shows so I dont use toys a lot of the time.
Erika_Xstacy
08-17-2016, 07:56 PM
Im usually a visual performer and not vocal but when I flip my prices I am more vocal.
when I charge more I feel obligated to cram every nook and cranny with toys, not waste too much time chatting and teasing.
MistressX
08-17-2016, 08:15 PM
It's very difficult to cam when my back is the way it is, good lord! But in one hour I got ONE private and thankfully it was a very very long one. And a new customer (hopefully a repeat). I haven't been on streamate long (like 3 years now) and this is the worst I've seen it maybe aside from streamgate. Because there really aren't any paying customers right now. I split with cams and got my first private there thankfully. Little by little I'll make this work.. But good god my back hurts!
JaneBurgess
08-17-2016, 11:15 PM
Totally my mindset but on the same token I understand ladies gotta do what they gotta do. If it works for you, then roll with it, because we are all trying to eat.
ETA: And if some of you cam vets are saying that this is seriously the worse you've seen it that's kinda scary lol..
This is seriously the worst Ive ever seen in eleven years of camming. I blame the cam sites for cheapening their sites to make a buck and not giving a damn what happens to us. I was offered a job that starts at $15 an hour and Im seriously considering taking it. I dont know if it is going to get better on any of these sites and I cant lower my rates too much, I would rather just quit. I lowered them today and almost cried that I had to because these cheap fuckers are such losers. :(
MistressX
08-17-2016, 11:29 PM
One of the reasons the guys have become so cheap is a lot of girls doing gold shows, $5 buy in plus a bagillion free videos.. The guys have come to expect very cheap rates and cheap buy ins and free stuff. If you don't have any of that or don't want to lower rates how do you compete? I know there are some guys out there who will pay but because streamate sucks so bad with glitches all the time and poor customer service they are chasing away a lot of good paying guys. If their bottom line hasn't changed much what do they care? I worked on cams this evening for an hour and made $55 bucks. Maybe I'll just work there... Cause this sucks balls. I did a few hours tonight and got ONE private. The worst I have literally ever done on SM. Lord help us
JaneBurgess
08-18-2016, 12:01 AM
One of the reasons the guys have become so cheap is a lot of girls doing gold shows, $5 buy in plus a bagillion free videos.. The guys have come to expect very cheap rates and cheap buy ins and free stuff. If you don't have any of that or don't want to lower rates how do you compete? I know there are some guys out there who will pay but because streamate sucks so bad with glitches all the time and poor customer service they are chasing away a lot of good paying guys. If their bottom line hasn't changed much what do they care? I worked on cams this evening for an hour and made $55 bucks. Maybe I'll just work there... Cause this sucks balls. I did a few hours tonight and got ONE private. The worst I have literally ever done on SM. Lord help us
I give up on SM for good. I keep trying and it's RTT issues, than a different glitch, freeloaders, etc. When you have to consider lowering your rates to dirt cheap, its time to move on. Im seriously not going to ever go back on that site, I should send them a nice fuck off email and thank them for destroying their site. If you see this SM fuck off and now that I dont cam on your site anymore I can tell you to fuck off on social media and you cant do shit me to.
Yes Im frustrated but I seriously wont ever cam on there again. Im going to have a damn heart attack from stress if I do and my health is way more important than any damn job.
JaneBurgess
08-18-2016, 10:25 AM
I give up on SM for good. I keep trying and it's RTT issues, than a different glitch, freeloaders, etc. When you have to consider lowering your rates to dirt cheap, its time to move on. Im seriously not going to ever go back on that site, I should send them a nice fuck off email and thank them for destroying their site. If you see this SM fuck off and now that I dont cam on your site anymore I can tell you to fuck off on social media and you cant do shit me to.
Yes Im frustrated but I seriously wont ever cam on there again. Im going to have a damn heart attack from stress if I do and my health is way more important than any damn job.
EDITED --- Im in a better mood today but still decided to close my SM account and move on. I love you ladies but I really dont believe these are just summer issues and I dont want to continue to bust my ass on a site that really isnt worth it anymore. I really hope it picks up for you all come September.
MistressX
08-18-2016, 10:35 AM
I went back in time on this thread and it's been the same bullshit for like 4 years. Glitches and falling traffic, especially since 2014. I don't really believe it's just summer issues either. But since streamate has been my main focus for 3 years now I haven't got any other main sources of income. I'm going to put more hours into cams and try to do a 50/50 split with hours with both. If by the end of the year things haven't changed, I'm gone too.
JaneBurgess
08-18-2016, 10:53 AM
I went back in time on this thread and it's been the same bullshit for like 4 years. Glitches and falling traffic, especially since 2014. I don't really believe it's just summer issues either. But since streamate has been my main focus for 3 years now I haven't got any other main sources of income. I'm going to put more hours into cams and try to do a 50/50 split with hours with both. If by the end of the year things haven't changed, I'm gone too.
All the glitches honestly started when they rolled out the Gold shows. Before Gold shows the site was amazing and I dont remember any real glitches. I dont know if coding messed up the site, or if it was too much for the servers to handle, but something happened there. Once Gold shows came out the customer base changed as well. Before people had no problem paying your rate and doing shows. Gold shows gave customers the chance to be cheap and demanding. Also the site didnt do shit to regulate them like make them at least a buck a minute for shows and ban $0 shows. So the customers became cheaper and cheaper and performers had to keep lowering rates in order to make money. From what I heard a lot of performers cant hit goals anymore because jackasses now feel free to wait for the cheapest show possible and join. Once again SM rolled out an idea that sounded good but they didnt think of the long term ramifications. Cam sites like to have new ideas that will make them money they think, but they dont ever factor in how it will impact the cam performers. No way in hell they dont read these forums or social media and see how their dumbass decisions are making performers broke and scared of how to pay bills. I am good friends with two ladies that are always on the top row of the site. Both have said they are not making decent money and are stressed about how they are going to pay bills for September. I suggest everyone have another site to work on and do phone and indy sites too. This very well may be how SM stays and it may not get any better.
MistressX
08-18-2016, 11:01 AM
Yep I agree I am normally on the second row sometimes top and it's just ridiculous. It's definitely changed. I am branching out. I am actually considering putting my ad back up for live FemDom sessions. It's better money but I hate actually dealing with men in person because 75% of them want sex with it and that gets awkward. But what else can I do? I have to pay bills and my landlord has informed me that he is raising my rent October 1st because he doesn't think I'm paying enough for the hearses (to be fair $150 for storage for 4 hearses is paltry). So that's another $250 I have to come up with per month.. Ugh
Bootsie
08-18-2016, 11:04 AM
i dunno how you ladies to show after show after show. my pussy gets sore after one :(
1) LUBE ZOMG seriously. I am naturally crazy crazy wet but on dry days I regularly put a fingerful of coconut oil up my vag so I don't forget to keep it wet.
2) I use dildos more than vibrators (especially because my only vibe just DIED ugh) because too much vibe on me starts to ache.
3) Smooth toys. When shopping for toys I avoid the veiny and ridged ones. On very busy days I use my smooth curved glass dildo a lot. Guys like that it doesn't really block their view and I like that aside from a bit of a bulge at the tip it is smooth as...glass.
4) Small toys. Sure, guys ask for massive toys, but all of mine (except 1) are medium to small size. Very few guys complain, especially when I explain that I am really tight so even a mid-size toy is a stretch for me. I have one "big" toy...but I am very clear that is a toy for exclusive and only with lots of lube and taking it slow. The guys who really want to see me take it are happy to pay for the extra time and effort for it.
Yup. When they say pound it harder just keep doing it like you are but say oh bb I'm pounding it harder. Or if you're good at faking it move your hand faster. Don't let them dictate your show. As you get more confident you'll handle it better. Some guys will still be assclowns about it. But the cool ones won't ask you to maim yourself for their viewing pleasure.
Petite-
08-18-2016, 11:58 AM
Streamate has been really good to me lately. But there are still glitches here and there. Yesterday I kept checking my RTT and I'd say it's probably the biggest factor in deciding my traffic. My RTT is normally under 100, and I have around 10-15 people in my room. As soon as it went up to more than 100, multiple users would log off at the same time and 2-5 members stayed in my room. At one point, my RTT shot up to 120, at that time no one came in or stayed in my room. Luckily it wasn't for long.
anonymous camgirl
08-18-2016, 02:04 PM
Yea I don't get who makes these ideas up to give the customer more for less? Most of the clientele is MALE.. everyone knows men try to get away with everything they possibly can with a woman IRL and they do the same shit online.. I have been telling them lately (freeloaders) think of me as an online hooker.(hookers want to get paid). so fed up with the beggars...
All the glitches honestly started when they rolled out the Gold shows. Before Gold shows the site was amazing and I dont remember any real glitches. I dont know if coding messed up the site, or if it was too much for the servers to handle, but something happened there. Once Gold shows came out the customer base changed as well. Before people had no problem paying your rate and doing shows. Gold shows gave customers the chance to be cheap and demanding. Also the site didnt do shit to regulate them like make them at least a buck a minute for shows and ban $0 shows. So the customers became cheaper and cheaper and performers had to keep lowering rates in order to make money. From what I heard a lot of performers cant hit goals anymore because jackasses now feel free to wait for the cheapest show possible and join. Once again SM rolled out an idea that sounded good but they didnt think of the long term ramifications. Cam sites like to have new ideas that will make them money they think, but they dont ever factor in how it will impact the cam performers. No way in hell they dont read these forums or social media and see how their dumbass decisions are making performers broke and scared of how to pay bills. I am good friends with two ladies that are always on the top row of the site. Both have said they are not making decent money and are stressed about how they are going to pay bills for September. I suggest everyone have another site to work on and do phone and indy sites too. This very well may be how SM stays and it may not get any better.
foxirox
08-18-2016, 02:28 PM
All the glitches honestly started when they rolled out the Gold shows. Before Gold shows the site was amazing and I dont remember any real glitches. I dont know if coding messed up the site, or if it was too much for the servers to handle, but something happened there. Once Gold shows came out the customer base changed as well. Before people had no problem paying your rate and doing shows. Gold shows gave customers the chance to be cheap and demanding. Also the site didnt do shit to regulate them like make them at least a buck a minute for shows and ban $0 shows. So the customers became cheaper and cheaper and performers had to keep lowering rates in order to make money. From what I heard a lot of performers cant hit goals anymore because jackasses now feel free to wait for the cheapest show possible and join. Once again SM rolled out an idea that sounded good but they didnt think of the long term ramifications. Cam sites like to have new ideas that will make them money they think, but they dont ever factor in how it will impact the cam performers. No way in hell they dont read these forums or social media and see how their dumbass decisions are making performers broke and scared of how to pay bills. I am good friends with two ladies that are always on the top row of the site. Both have said they are not making decent money and are stressed about how they are going to pay bills for September. I suggest everyone have another site to work on and do phone and indy sites too. This very well may be how SM stays and it may not get any better.
In the words of Gary Vaynerchuk "Marketers ruin everything!".
When I check things out lately I HAVE been pleasantly surprised to see ladies standing their ground. It was a total mental orgasm.
I know it's supposed to be the fantasy and all. But really they need to be told that yes, you're working here.
Can you imagine running a company and your method to make money is give it all to them and hopefully they'll pay you. Double hopefully they'll pay you what it's worth for you to provide the service.
Um no. You'd be out of business.
Erika_Xstacy
08-18-2016, 07:35 PM
Im going to take a chill pill and get over this summer slowness. I usually have more shit going on than this to keep me occupied.
xCamLovex
08-18-2016, 07:45 PM
All the glitches honestly started when they rolled out the Gold shows. Before Gold shows the site was amazing and I dont remember any real glitches. I dont know if coding messed up the site, or if it was too much for the servers to handle, but something happened there. Once Gold shows came out the customer base changed as well. Before people had no problem paying your rate and doing shows. Gold shows gave customers the chance to be cheap and demanding. Also the site didnt do shit to regulate them like make them at least a buck a minute for shows and ban $0 shows. So the customers became cheaper and cheaper and performers had to keep lowering rates in order to make money. From what I heard a lot of performers cant hit goals anymore because jackasses now feel free to wait for the cheapest show possible and join. Once again SM rolled out an idea that sounded good but they didnt think of the long term ramifications. Cam sites like to have new ideas that will make them money they think, but they dont ever factor in how it will impact the cam performers. No way in hell they dont read these forums or social media and see how their dumbass decisions are making performers broke and scared of how to pay bills. I am good friends with two ladies that are always on the top row of the site. Both have said they are not making decent money and are stressed about how they are going to pay bills for September. I suggest everyone have another site to work on and do phone and indy sites too. This very well may be how SM stays and it may not get any better.
so true! yes, the degraded the quality of customers that are now prowling for Gold Shows is beyond ridiculoud. The in n outs are also due to people scrolling to find cheap Gold Shows. They don't even care what we look like or what we offer...they just burst in asking for everything in a copy paste message. there are guys that are still into quality but they are on maybe once a week? not regular enough to jump up and down for.
i've been asked today for gold shows by rather regular customers. i've been beyond vocal about how i think gold shows are ruining the site. surprisingly, people take me into shows once i tell them "no. gold shows are killing this cam site." bam! so i know some agree. HOLD OUT LADIES. I just don't believe making $10-$20 gold shows are going to make any difference in the long run in your earnings. Once guys knows they cant get the punani in a gold show, someone will eventually fork it out for an exc.
i'm SO DONE with Gold Shows, affiliate marketers have destroyed the trust there on that. You will perform for a cheap price, get recorded, and then have your high quality work and effort exploited for pennies while they spam you on tube sites.
fuck that. out of principle, i cannot feed into that cycle.
kiki399
08-18-2016, 08:59 PM
As far as my opinion, traffic and paid shows were going good on SM, until they pulled the 10 day contest b.s.. other sites are slow too, it is August. But I have been getting a lot of foreign guys, looking for what it seems some online romance like imlive. Watching top models, not getting shit tonight, scares me. When things are running smoothly for SM, they love to fuck it up for us.45703
NovaSensei
08-18-2016, 10:29 PM
So far I havent had any glitching issues. Just a bunch of lame people coming in and out of my room.
I'm hoping that once the olympics are over traffic resumes to normal.
I've had numerous people say they are watching the olympics.
xxxGothBarbie
08-19-2016, 01:25 AM
My side has been shitty too ladies :/ I spent around 6 hrs tonight split camming from both SM & cams & it's weird bc I'm starting to have fewer traffic on both sites due to me standing my ground & almost over hustling these idiots. I also raised my rates & I've done a few shows today but nothing spectaular. I doubt I've made $100 in the last day or 2 I've cammed. :(
foxirox
08-19-2016, 04:46 AM
No disrespect to ladies of other origins, but just had some wanker come into my room, telling me they always go for the "cheap latinos" . And " A wank's a wank". GTFO of my room then. Bleugh!
xoprincessremy
08-19-2016, 10:57 AM
Before I was going to retire last fall (retired but missed it to much, lol) I gave Cams.com a try and I loved it. What I didn't like was being responsible for chargebacks, but hey it would be the case in any business really. The customers on Cams are pretty good, and I had so much traffic to my room, like SM when I first started to cam there four years ago. When coming back I came back to SM because of my regulars, and I like the weekly pay but this site is just not what it used to be unfortunately. I am going to try early mornings again this week on SM and if it is no good, then I am going back to Cams. I have a NightFlirt account, and I will try that as well I just need to take the time to figure that one out. Best of luck to all!
p.s. the Support on Cams is awesome!!! You can even call and talk to a live person.
there's chargebacks on cams? :O
how often does this happen?
anonymous camgirl
08-19-2016, 12:00 PM
I haven't gotten one in months.. I wouldn't be to concerned about it
there's chargebacks on cams? :O
how often does this happen?
Girly_Girl
08-19-2016, 01:03 PM
I've had several guys that will be in pvt chat and then all of a sudden I see this? user has logged off (reason: user timed out) wth?...anyone know what its about or means?
Marina Starr
08-19-2016, 01:08 PM
I think if their hands are not on their dicks for a while, they get timed out. They must fap at all times!
I've had several guys that will be in pvt chat and then all of a sudden I see this? user has logged off (reason: user timed out) wth?...anyone know what its about or means?
Girly_Girl
08-19-2016, 04:06 PM
idk but it just happened AGAIN!!!!!! MF!!!!!!!!
Erika_Xstacy
08-19-2016, 04:51 PM
i think they are the mobile users tbh
MsJess
08-19-2016, 05:17 PM
Unfortunately yes, there are plenty of latin studios that recruit girls who have no idea that they could be charging alot more, so the studio set the girls fee from $1.99 to 2.99 and the thing is that most of them offer hardcore shows
No disrespect to ladies of other origins, but just had some wanker come into my room, telling me they always go for the "cheap latinos" . And " A wank's a wank". GTFO of my room then. Bleugh!
CamChik
08-20-2016, 06:26 AM
Tried again last night even though I felt like total crap yet didn't show it on cam. Slow traffic, chatty but nice guys and 0 shows. I was leery of going somewhere else but I'm going to have to. Shit. I love the atmosphere at Streammate and love my awesome regulars (I've been blessed, these guys are wonderful) but I cannot pay my bills. Seems like unless I have a regular or romance the shit out of someone first I can't make any money. I'll keep SM in my back pocket of course but it's time to move on for now. I'll pop back in during September and see how things go.
MistressX
08-20-2016, 01:33 PM
I'm with you on that ^ I cant make money for the life of me. I am getting traffic and guys talking. No shows.
DahliaSimone
08-20-2016, 01:38 PM
Sat for two hours today with guys coming in and out pretty regularly, but nobody talking and no shows....two hours is my limit to not make anything, had to pack it up for the day. Hopefully next week and more consistent schedule will help. I have been doing about $30 an hour throughout the week during the worst hours (12pm-3 or 4 ish), so I am hoping I can up the ante working some splits between mornings and early evenings next week. $30 an hour isnt great by camgirl standards, BUT its something at least. Overall today just SUCKED though.
EllieGold
08-20-2016, 01:38 PM
"A wank's a wank?" Sure dude. Just like all restaurants are created equal. *Sarcasm*
We all have something unique to offer to the table and smart men will notice that. Cheap asshole.
Horny
08-20-2016, 01:43 PM
Sat for two hours today with guys coming in and out pretty regularly, but nobody talking and no shows....two hours is my limit to not make anything, had to pack it up for the day. Hopefully next week and more consistent schedule will help. I have been doing about $30 an hour throughout the week during the worst hours (12pm-3 or 4 ish), so I am hoping I can up the ante working some splits between mornings and early evenings next week. $30 an hour isnt great by camgirl standards, BUT its something at least. Overall today just SUCKED though.
I'm only making money off regs no one new at all! Here's hoping things improve next week it's getting so depressing now I'm thinking of splitting with other sites but don't want to make my placement worse it's a bitch
Betsyxo
08-20-2016, 01:44 PM
guys, dont kill me or anything..... but have you considered trying a token site dedicating your full attention to it, no splitcamming? im letting streamate go for a bit and moved back to my token site where i started.... its a breath of fresh air, im surprised actually, ive been gone for a year
Horny
08-20-2016, 01:53 PM
guys, dont kill me or anything..... but have you considered trying a token site dedicating your full attention to it, no splitcamming? im letting streamate go for a bit and moved back to my token site where i started.... its a breath of fresh air, im surprised actually, ive been gone for a year
I've never been on a token site it scares me a bit but I have spent more time on my original AW and done well off that. I'm worried with split camming that I will lose out anyway tbh which is why till now I've not done it
DahliaSimone
08-20-2016, 01:54 PM
guys, dont kill me or anything..... but have you considered trying a token site dedicating your full attention to it, no splitcamming? im letting streamate go for a bit and moved back to my token site where i started.... its a breath of fresh air, im surprised actually, ive been gone for a year
I actually moved to Streamate from Chaturbate because I was sick of the incessant amount of beggars and cheap guys. Plus, it seems the only way to get top placement on CB is to be naked on cam the whole time, to draw them in, and....well, I just got sick of giving away the goodies for free. So far I have made more on Streamate than I ever did on CB, but I had a much larger following on CB. Once I catch my groove on SM, I do plan on putting in a little more time on CB as well, though...right now its too hard for me to make it through a whole broadcast on SM, much less diversify lol. Splitcamming for me? No way. Lol. I don't think I could keep up. Then again, I'm relatively new to all of this....
Betsyxo
08-20-2016, 01:58 PM
That girl has been online less than 3 hours i promise... see that 1400? That is $140 in her pockets. no cut. I know token sites are not for everyone, and im only saying this because so many of us have been struggling lately and getting stressed out... It's not for everyone... I know the mass of traffic and freeloaders is scary esp when you come from a private based website. But the mob is there to serve you, believe it or not. you dont have to cater to them AT ALL. They are TRAFFIC, and when you are noticeable that drags the tippers in and believe me there are plenty of whales to be found. you just need to pay attention to them
Im not an advocate or anything, but maybe there's an alternative? what are your thoughts?
DahliaSimone
08-20-2016, 02:05 PM
I managed 30 minutes today on CB after the SM Gods smote me.....after 30 minutes I remember why I had left lol. BUT, I know my heart wasn't really into it and I was in a pissy mood when a guy asked me why I had been gone for so long and I told him that my fiancee had died and I had to take an extended break, and his answer was 'lol'. Its that insensitivity and sense of entitlement from a lot of those token-site guys that I just can't deal with....but, I should give it another go on a day when I feel up-to-par.
JustCallMeBree
08-20-2016, 02:07 PM
You just put another models boobs on a public forum. Edit?