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miss.a.p1600
12-01-2015, 08:04 PM
I totally agree. Somethings and some people just don't follow logic.
Most reasonable black people that don't like others to use the word also don't use it themselves.
However there are groups of black people, like mentioned before lower class and rappers for example, who use the word amongst themselves but get livid when hearing non black people use the word around them. These are the people who make it confusing.
Then there are the black people who use the word and don't care if non black people use it.
But if you don't want to walk on eggshells just ask how they feel about the word before using it. You never know you may encounter some black people who consider you like family and don't care about using the word around them. The word n*gga is in id say 50% of rap music today so if you inquired and your black friends don't care and your favorite Kanye west song comes on feel free to rap along word by word
Marina Starr
12-01-2015, 08:09 PM
miss.a.p1600,
you've made some great points. I just have to remind myself that some people were just raised differently...
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I totally agree. Somethings and some people just don't follow logic.
Most reasonable black people that don't like others to use the word also don't use it themselves.
However there are groups of black people, like mentioned before lower class and rappers for example, who use the word amongst themselves but get livid when hearing non black people use the word around them. These are the people who make it confusing.
Then there are the black people who use the word and don't care if non black people use it.
But if you don't want to walk on eggshells just ask how they feel about the word before using it. You never know you may encounter some black people who consider you like family and don't care about using the word around them. The word n*gga is in id say 50% of rap music today so if you inquired and your black friends don't care and your favorite Kanye west song comes on feel free to rap along word by word
Magical_Hoohah
12-01-2015, 08:15 PM
I am not black nor white but I am a woman of color so I can look at things from a third perspective. I always wonder why do a large amount of black folks like to call each other the N-word then get upset when non-black folks use it? Why not just stop using the word altogether because it's very confusing when you preach something that you don't practice? Wouldn't it be more effective to lead by example? Wouldn't it take less effort and minimizes confusion when you don't have to constantly telling people 'you're not black so you cannot use it!'?
A black friend of mine, who doesn't personally use the n-word, but says he kind of gets it, explained to me what he has thought and heard about it.
He pointed out that there are VERY few things in life that a black American can have that a white person can't have more easily or can't steal. For example, at their inception, jazz, hip-hop, and rap were all exclusive to black culture, but white people came to appreciate those types of music, and eventually became successful musicians in those fields, not to mention producers and so forth. Whenever something good blooms out of black culture, white people eventually find ways to appropriate it and use it to their own benefit. Meanwhile, it's not like black people can use any aspect of white privilege to their own advantage. Thus, it can seem desirable to have even one thing that white people are forbidden to use or appropriate, and as a bonus, can be used by black people to make most white people profoundly uncomfortable.
Beyond that, if white people can't use the word at all, we have no power to determine how it evolves or gets redefined. So in that way, black culture can take a word that was once used for oppression, and can have exclusive power to reshape and mold that word into anything they want it to be. At the end of the day, only one group of people should have a say in whether the n-word lives, dies, or becomes something new.
Marina Starr
12-01-2015, 08:31 PM
Magical_Hoohah,
thanks for sharing that. I like his view on it.
I do wonder what Dr. Martin Luther King Jr who fought for black civil rights and Rosa Parks
who refused to surrender her bus seat feels about the use of the word :)
A black friend of mine, who doesn't personally use the n-word, but says he kind of gets it, explained to me what he has thought and heard about it.
He pointed out that there are VERY few things in life that a black American can have that a white person can't have more easily or can't steal. For example, at their inception, jazz, hip-hop, and rap were all exclusive to black culture, but white people came to appreciate those types of music, and eventually became successful musicians in those fields, not to mention producers and so forth. Whenever something good blooms out of black culture, white people eventually find ways to appropriate it and use it to their own benefit. Meanwhile, it's not like black people can use any aspect of white privilege to their own advantage. Thus, it can seem desirable to have even one thing that white people are forbidden to use or appropriate, and as a bonus, can be used by black people to make most white people profoundly uncomfortable.
Beyond that, if white people can't use the word at all, we have no power to determine how it evolves or gets redefined. So in that way, black culture can take a word that was once used for oppression, and can have exclusive power to reshape and mold that word into anything they want it to be. At the end of the day, only one group of people should have a say in whether the n-word lives, dies, or becomes something new.
pippapippa
12-01-2015, 08:33 PM
I personally can't do race play because I live in the south and I'm so incredibly used to that word having such an awful connotation. I've met so many racist fucks who use it in a degrading way. It's incredible how many people here use it casually as if it's nothing.
I will say that I had a conversation with some people who were in one of my African American studies classes (not that these people were experts, just students interested in the field) a few years ago and they actually advocated doing race play because they felt it was a situation where black men could potentially feel empowered and in control by allowing someone to use that word in a scene that they would feel is safe.
Obviously not everyone feels that way, but I thought that might add to the discussion a bit.
EDIT: And obviously I missed where Magical_Hoohah JUST said this is a much more eloquent manner. Oh well.
Prussia
12-01-2015, 08:46 PM
I have people ask me to use the n word, and other racial slurs as well. I feel dirty after thinking about doing it.. there's just something about it that makes me feel uncomfortable. Like, I wouldn't do it in real life so to me I wouldn't do it in a cam show, kind of like incest play. Does that make sense? I get the whole BBC dirty talk thing, but I can't do it. I dunno, to each their own, everyone has their own comfort level. Having said that, I do religious play all the time, but not specifically slurs, just taboo religious play (i.e. using a crucifix, rosary beads, bible verse quotes, nun role-play, confession etc) in my shows and some people are so offended that I incorporate religion into cam shows, so I can see kind of see where people are coming from being ok with role-play/doing taboo requests. Secondary to all that I said, if I get recorded doing religious play and it was posted all over the internet I would not bat an eyelash for having done it.
miss.a.p1600
12-01-2015, 08:46 PM
Magical_Hoohah,
thanks for sharing that. I like his view on it.
I do wonder what Dr. Martin Luther King Jr who fought for black civil rights and Rosa Parks
who refused to surrender her bus seat feels about the use of the word :)
They're probably turning over in their graves right now as we speak.
I honestly think America has made great strides for race relations. This generation of Black people has more opportunities, can integrate with other cultures more easily than past generations, and has legal protections from racial and ethnic discrimination but we still have a long way to go. Allowing words used as racial slurs into mass media does not help the cause. Only thing we can do is not use the word ourselves, not allow our families and friends to use it, and not support artists who use it.
If you're doing raceplay and okay with racial slurs then keep it private like others have mentioned and charge the guys way more for this type of thing.
newb2
12-01-2015, 08:49 PM
Tbh I don't see anything wrong in saying the n word if you're quoting direct speech.
Other than that it shouldn't be said by anyone.
Just my $0.02
(I'm black btw)
OpenBobsBB
12-01-2015, 08:53 PM
Magical_Hoohah,
thanks for sharing that. I like his view on it.
I do wonder what Dr. Martin Luther King Jr who fought for black civil rights and Rosa Parks
who refused to surrender her bus seat feels about the use of the word :)
I think it's worth mentioning that black people probably didn't use the word during Rosa and Dr. King's time as they do now. I think it might be more accurate to look at what current black rights activists have to say about it today rather than those of decades ago. For instance, many past women's rights activists probably wouldn't be okay with a lot of things women currently do (including sex work/camming!)
miss.a.p1600
12-01-2015, 09:01 PM
^^^I think they did use the term often back then too though especially the younger crowd and lower class groups. However, I do think media was more censored back then than it is now.
Marina Starr
12-01-2015, 09:05 PM
I'd love to know why they didn't use the word back then :)
Sex work is not a current thing so it has never been okay with the majority of women's rights activists but there are some who are pro sex work!
I think it's worth mentioning that black people probably didn't use the word during Rosa and Dr. King's time as they do now. I think it might be more accurate to look at what current black rights activists have to say about it today rather than those of decades ago. For instance, many past women's rights activists probably wouldn't be okay with a lot of things women currently do (including sex work/camming!)
OpenBobsBB
12-01-2015, 09:31 PM
I'd love to know why they didn't use the word back then :)
Sex work is not a current thing so it has never been okay with the majority of women's rights activists but there are some who are pro sex work!
Racism isn't a current thing either, my point is that we try to evolve with as a society and that current activists might be better to reference for current issues. Though I'm sure there are current activists who feel that way, different perspectives are important!
From what I'm reading though it wasn't really used that way til the late 60's/early 70's. Not found a source on why yet but if I had to guess it's probably because white people were still widely openly calling them the n-word and it likely wasn't very easy to reclaim for themselves.
Marina Starr
12-01-2015, 09:38 PM
Well on a lighter note...
#blackcocksmatter, #whitecocksmatter, hispaniccocksmatter
#asiancocksmatter? #allcocksmatter
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miss.a.p1600
12-01-2015, 09:52 PM
Slaves would call each other n*
[email protected] Now the educated free blacks or the house slave might not have used this word because they knew it had an oppressive connotation and wouldn't use it, not even amongst each other.
Also, rap culture becoming mainstream in the 80s, The media allowing more explicit content, and technology making information easily and quickly available means that it's bringing to light something that's been going on for decades but changes over time are making us more aware of what has been going on 'behind closed doors' so to speak. I don't think it's something that hasn't been going on just something that we are becoming more aware of due to changes in the way we share information.
But hey, it's you're opinion open bobs - not trying to argue.
Ms.Lacey
12-02-2015, 12:51 AM
Ok so some things written on this thread are disturbing in this thread lol http://www.finalcall.com/artman/publish/Perspectives_1/Willie_Lynch_letter_The_Making_of_a_Slave.shtml
^^^ read that and I think that will create a better understanding. I read the willie lynch letter in college and it was eye opening.
Now I'm not trying to make anyone change how they makes money because I don't really care how anyone makes their money but it's just an answer to questions asked with a full raw explanation.
JessRyan
12-02-2015, 08:58 AM
How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop? How many minutes does it take to get to the end of a thread? Not many usually. All threads are important to read through BEFORE posting a response. This thread is one of them.
I do raceplay in exclusive. It's for sexual pleasure, not motivated by hate. It's taboo. And some guys really get off on that. You never know who is at the other end of your private. Could be white, could be black. But he IS hard and aroused. Certain words have an effect of people and those "words" sometimes turn people on. I've had guys request I use the strangest words while playing with myself. To each their own. If you don't like it, don't offer it. Then you never have to fake your way through.
lolabunny
12-02-2015, 09:25 AM
This thread asked a simple yes or no question.....
The question was answered multiple times so why it this thread still going on at this point?
I feel some of y'all are intentionally being insensitive and need to cut it out.
Prussia
12-02-2015, 09:38 AM
This thread asked a simple yes or no question.....
The question was answered multiple times so why it this thread still going on at this point?
I feel some of y'all are intentionally being insensitive and need to cut it out.
Because it's not a simple yes or no answer? Members are having a discussion?
lolabunny
12-02-2015, 09:47 AM
Because it's not a simple yes or no answer? Members are having a discussion?
Hmmmmmm
Does anyone have experience with this and if so, is this something that could get me in trouble or is it all good? I appreciate any response. Thanks! xoxo!
Is that not simple enough for you to comprehend? She asked if doing this could get her in trouble and that was all she asked. It's really not that complex as you're making it. I have no issue when people can have a discussion respectfully, but when it starts to go left, people should be mature enough to leave well enough alone.
DeepThoughts
12-02-2015, 09:58 AM
^^ Wow I am loving this thread. Yes we Expanded beyond the OP's question and started to really explore this topic but how is that a bad thing??
Would you feel better if we just started a new thread with a more general description about race play where we could discuss all this or is that also insensitive?
lolabunny
12-02-2015, 10:06 AM
^^ Wow I am loving this thread. Yes we Expanded beyond the OP's question and started to really explore this topic but how is that a bad thing??
Would you feel better if we just started a new thread with a more general description about race play where we could discuss all this or is that also insensitive?
Don't twist my words and don't make it seem as if some of the comments in this thread were not inconsiderate ;)
Marina Starr
12-02-2015, 10:09 AM
Besides the on going typing out of the whole N-word by some posters that was told to cut it out, I don't see any insensitivity here. We are so conditioned to being told NOT to use certain words and that should be the end of it. All questions and discussion thus far was done so with the intent of wanting to be educated, the desire for a better understanding. I see no malice here.
I'm not a robot. If I don't understand something, I ask questions.
Prussia
12-02-2015, 10:11 AM
Hmmmmmm
Is that not simple enough for you to comprehend? She asked if doing this could get her in trouble and that was all she asked. It's really not that complex as you're making it. I have no issue when people can have a discussion respectfully, but when it starts to go left, people should be mature enough to leave well enough alone.
I did not insult you in my post, it would be most excellent if you could do likewise when responding to me.
Obviously you are alone with that thought since many other members have felt the need to expland on the OP's question. If you feel this conversation has gone sideways you're welcome to leave this discussion.
lolabunny
12-02-2015, 10:22 AM
I did not insult you in my post, it would be most excellent if you could do likewise when responding to me.
Obviously you are alone with that thought since many other members have felt the need to expland on the OP's question. If you feel this conversation has gone sideways you're welcome to leave this discussion.
Repeating what I said: "I have no issue when people can have a discussion respectfully, but when it starts to go left, people should be mature enough to leave well enough alone."
JessRyan
12-02-2015, 10:49 AM
I get what you're saying lola Some of the most rewarding conversations have started with one simple question. Do animals have rights? Is there a God? Are there aliens? Will race play get me into trouble? Who did leave the cake out in the rain? And with every simple question some people will run with it. ;-)
lolabunny
12-02-2015, 11:04 AM
I get what you're saying lola Some of the most rewarding conversations have started with one simple question. Do animals have rights? Is there a God? Are there aliens? Will race play get me into trouble? Who did leave the cake out in the rain? And with every simple question some people will run with it. ;-)
maybe read my previous comment? ;)
DeepThoughts
12-02-2015, 11:15 AM
Don't twist my words and don't make it seem as if some of the comments in this thread were not inconsiderate ;)
I did not find a single inconsiderate comment in this entire thread. I also did not "twist" your words. If there is something specific here that you found inconsiderate then you know you can speak up about it. I do not think it is necessary to say that this whole (amazing) thread should have stopped once the OP's question was answered because you found something insensitive.
If I have missed something "insensitive" here then I truly would like to hear your view on it. In my opinion that would be the mature thing to do.
Ms.Lacey
12-02-2015, 11:18 AM
It was inconsiderate to continually write out the word after being warned not to.
lolabunny
12-02-2015, 11:20 AM
I did not find a single inconsiderate comment in this entire thread.
You a whole lie lmaooooooo, I'm stopping right there, not reading the rest lol
and last time I checked this was a sub-forum based on camming, so shouldn't the threads be ummm related to camming?
DeepThoughts
12-02-2015, 11:22 AM
It was inconsiderate to continually write out the word after being warned not to.
Me?? because I stopped using the word here once we were asked not to. I do not agree with the views of on that but I respect this forum and its rules. Plus its really no sweat off my brow to write it in a different way.
luvnrockets
12-02-2015, 11:27 AM
no 'please' is neccessary
nor should this even still be an issue
from here on out I'm issuing infractions every time I have to edit a post to remove the racism some of y'all seem insistent upon posting.
show some respect at the very least for that which some of y'all seem determined not to comprehend
site rule #3 applies here btw, this is not a subjective judgement call on my part in case anyone feels that my own politics are blurring in
that word is vile, hateful, is trailed by a legacy of pain and oppression and has no productive purpose here. it is by any rational, educated definition racist material
cut it the fuck out
My apologies for using the n-word in my post. I was quoting Chris Rock, and simply cut and pasted the quote, so I didn't think anything of it. If the words were my own, I would certainly not say it. It's sorta like another thing Chris Rock said, about when a rap song comes on the radio and you're hanging out with a white guy and he's singing along, and then gets all unsure about whether or not to sing the n-word lol.
I personally think it's ok to use it in a quote. It's about context, and nothing I said was racist. But even if you share that view, I get that you'd want to censor any usage of the word in this forum.
Ms.Lacey
12-02-2015, 11:31 AM
You feel the word should be used freely on here to prove what point? I was talking about everyone that kept using the word.
Blovely
12-02-2015, 11:39 AM
I'm not speaking for Lola but to me it seems like what she's getting at is how this thread started as a simple discussion on whether or not Raceplay is ok and whether you do it or not to people being insensitive with the n-word, questioning why they can't use the n-word(I personally don't understand why non-black would want to use the word in the first place) and slavery. If I'm right with what I said then I can understand where she's coming from because the n-word, non-black people questioning why they can't use the n-word, and slavery is still a very much sensitive subject and I think it will always be.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-02-2015, 11:50 AM
I have this phonesex reg who thinks I'm white. After 5 years I'm sure he has his suspicions. But from time to time he'll call and say tell me how much that little pussy craves n-word dick. And he actually says n-word versus
[email protected]$3r. And each time I take this opportunity to give him a hard time. Its funny to me. This entire thread is both hilarious and disturbing.That's typically how these sort of convos go. So what I tell him and all the others who go "Can you say the n-word" I go sure can but can you? What n-word are we talking about? Mmmm baby I love nasty dick. No say the n-word. Oh okay my bad. I just can't get enough of big ol Neanderthal dicks. Naughty Dicks, Numb dicks, Nerd dick etc. And this is all on their dime IDGAF if you want me to say it, then you better be prepared to say it first. Like Louie CK said we're all in this together folks. Don't put your shit on me
audritwo
12-02-2015, 11:51 AM
This happens all the time with these controversial topics.
I think we can all agree the n word is bad.
Slavery is bad.
Racism itself is bad.
Raceplay is based on your comfort level. The ladies who do offer race play here do it because it's consenting and the word has been fetishized. It's a taboo for nonblack people to say. Most social taboos with be fetishized at some point. The human sexuality is weird like that.
Also some powerful shit
http://i.imgur.com/relN6zV.png
luvnrockets
12-02-2015, 11:53 AM
This happens all the time with these controversial topics.
I think we can all agree the n word is bad.
Slavery is bad.
Racism itself is bad.
Raceplay is based on your comfort level. The ladies who do offer race play here do it because it's consenting and the word has been fetishized. It's a taboo for nonblack people to say. Most social taboos with be fetishized at some point. The human sexuality is weird like that.
Also some powerful shit
http://i.imgur.com/relN6zV.png
Bill! Bill! Bill! Bill!
And maybe it's just me, but I think it's a wonderful thing that we've been able to fetishize social taboos. It's creative, and sexually enlightening. Or maybe I'm just a dork.
DeepThoughts
12-02-2015, 11:55 AM
^^ Okay this thing here by bill nye has been my entire point. So how can you proceed it with saying racism is bad?? WTF is it??? I mean I seriously do not understand what it is! This word should only exist when referring to E.T.'s.
And maybe you would all like me to stop saying the"N" but I wont! Because I love everyone and I refuse to give that word power to hurt someone! It is just a damn word and the power you think is associated with it all comes from YOURSELF!
luvnrockets
12-02-2015, 11:57 AM
^^ Okay this thing here by bill nye has been my entire point. So how can you proceed it with saying racism is bad?? WTF is it??? I mean I seriously do not understand what it is! This word should only exist when referring to E.T.'s.
And maybe you would all like me to stop saying the"N" but I wont! Because I love everyone and I refuse to give that word power to hurt someone! It is just a damn word and the power you think is associated with it all comes from YOURSELF!
Woah woah woah. I don't think Bill Nye goes around saying "I'm colorblind! Racism can't be bad cause race doesn't exist!" Racism totally exists! Race is a social construct, and it is therefore real, in a non-biological sense. And racism followed it.
Dude.
DeepThoughts
12-02-2015, 12:00 PM
^^ Okay then so which race is it that "black" skinned people belong to??
luvnrockets
12-02-2015, 12:02 PM
^^ Okay then so which race is it that "black" skinned people belong to??
I think you missed the part about it being a social construct, rather than a biological phenomena.
EDIT: There are a handful of names for that race, including the plural of the n-word.
Look, I'm with you; I believe it's ok to use the n-word in an academic sense, or to quote someone. But to say that race and racism isn't a thing...I mean, we'd all like to live in a utopia, but we don't get there by ignoring world issues.
DeepThoughts
12-02-2015, 12:04 PM
but even if it is a "social construct" it has a name right? So what is the name of it?
audritwo
12-02-2015, 12:05 PM
This thread is just getting loads on conflict over a stupid word. I was just making obvious points. I don't think anyone is being racist. Seriously every needs to calm down, stop being afraid you are going to hurt someone's feelings, and hug it out.
Really yins, this happens every time race is brought up, I would be shock if it doesn't get locked out in a few.
sovereignv
12-02-2015, 12:08 PM
The point is that even if race is a social construct, the race a person is percieved as has very real consequences for how people treat them and the opportunities they receive in life. Just closing your eyes and going "racism doesn't exist" doesn't actually make racism stop existing? Quite the opposite I would say as it cripples any discussion to pretend the issue isn't real. Even if YOU personally love people regardless of race or whatever it doesn't mean everyone does. Plus even really racist people will very rarely call or consider themselves racists...
I honestly think it's delusional and harmful to consider yourself incapable of racism. When you are raised in a society that teaches you through various means that people DO NOT have the same value it's inevitable that you pick up that idea yourself, even in subtle ways. The best thing in my opinion is to 1. acknowledge the problem, 2. be willing to listen, and 3. be critical and vigilant of your words, thoughts, and actions.
That's all.
DeepThoughts
12-02-2015, 12:09 PM
Im up for hugging it out! Okay Im done. Im sure you all understand my point and if you dont agree with it that is cool with me. Sorry I got all carried away this is a subject that I feel very passionate about.
**HUGS**
absolutelyadorable
12-02-2015, 12:10 PM
This thread is just getting loads on conflict over a stupid word. I was just making obvious points. I don't think anyone is being racist. Seriously every needs to calm down, stop being afraid you are going to hurt someone's feelings, and hug it out.
Really yins, this happens every time race is brought up, I would be shock if it doesn't get locked out in a few.
Right. But unfortunately, it's a word that has a LOT of negative connotations, and somewhere along the way we derailed OP's point. :/
I just feel like if it's someone's fetish then go for it! It's been used for hate for long enough so if it gets someone off then great. It's when it's being slung around in a nasty and hateful way that it becomes a problem. Then again, I'm not telling anyone anything that they don't already know. Like Audri said, let's all hug it out, we're in this together anyway.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-02-2015, 12:11 PM
And this is what I find Hilarious. You try quoting Bill Nye while placing an offer on a house when you have dark skin and "exotic names" Or try to walk home vs drunk driving on a Friday night. These fools out here don't care about Bill Bye and science. They're not gonna stop and go oh wait that black boy over there is a human being. Let's not stop and frisk him. Y'all mean well but many of you have no idea. And to bring it back on topic this crosses over into the media/porn and now camming. Its all a reflection of what we see day to day. And what we are told is beautiful. Its Conditioning. And from this comes raceplay.
Marina Starr
12-02-2015, 12:18 PM
Though I appreciate Bill's sentiment, this is not reality but far from it. He's speaking from a well intented privileged white man point of view. This goes beyond the color of your skin, if you don't fit the norm you'll be treated as such.
This happens all the time with these controversial topics.
I think we can all agree the n word is bad.
Slavery is bad.
Racism itself is bad.
Raceplay is based on your comfort level. The ladies who do offer race play here do it because it's consenting and the word has been fetishized. It's a taboo for nonblack people to say. Most social taboos with be fetishized at some point. The human sexuality is weird like that.
Also some powerful shit
http://i.imgur.com/relN6zV.png
DeepThoughts
12-02-2015, 12:24 PM
And this is what I find Hilarious. You try quoting Bill Nye while placing an offer on a house when you have dark skin and "exotic names" Or try to walk home vs drunk driving on a Friday night. These fools out here don't care about Bill Bye and science. They're not gonna stop and go oh wait that black boy over there is a human being. Let's not stop and frisk him. Y'all mean well but many of you have no idea. And to bring it back on topic this crosses over into the media/porn and now camming. Its all a reflection of what we see day to day. And what we are told is beautiful. Its Conditioning. And from this comes raceplay.
Brain Food!!! Love it!
Im a white, Canadian girl living in Spain. Catalunya to be exact. Catalans dont like outsiders. I couldnt rent the house I wanted until I had a Catalan friend of mine contact the real estate agent and make my offer with his Catalan accent in Catalan. I also get stopped by the police regularly and I am ALWAYS pulled over to blow into a Breathalyzer while other drunken Catalans are waved through. And to date, with the exception of a couple of guys, every friend I have here or have made is a foreigner like me. Its not race. Its not America. Its discrimination and not just black Americans who have to deal with it.
I get it that its sucks cause I live it everyday in everything I do! Maybe some of you will think Im full of shit and I dont really get it cause of slavery or some other argument but the reality is that what your all discussing is how you live in America and that is weak cause this is a problem around the entire world and is not exclusive to one skin colour, nation, religion or creed. I do not agree with the term "racism" because we are one race. The term itself is ment to divide us and make us feel as though we are different from one another when we are not. I use every word in English with out acceptation. I do not censor my words I own them and I will not allow them to divide me from others or my beliefs. Words exists to straighten these bond!
Exxotica
12-03-2015, 09:13 AM
Magical_Hoohah,
thanks for sharing that. I like his view on it.
I do wonder what Dr. Martin Luther King Jr who fought for black civil rights and Rosa Parks
who refused to surrender her bus seat feels about the use of the word :)
Rosa Parks and Dr. King were great people but King was a known adulterer and Parks was not the first to refuse her seat but was chosen to be the face of the movement due to her lighter skin
With that being said, human beings are complex and multifaceted and nobody's believe is of ultimate supreme. I'm sure plenty of friends of both King and Parks used the N word. Its been part of the black lexicon for ages.
hyori
12-03-2015, 09:52 AM
I don't like using the word, and I sure as hell am not anywhere near the cultural worthiness to be entitled to using it. I still do raceplay and like I said before and aftercare is important. The reason why raceplay is such a turn on for some people is that it's so bad, taboo and horrible. Anything that is remotely taboo or "dirty" can be a sexual trigger, some more than others. We all have kinks and raceplay is part of that world. It's how you respect the boundaries and play with them that make sexuality fun.