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absolutelyadorable
12-29-2015, 01:07 PM
I turn 30 on 1/1/16 so I'm thinking...perfect time to start camming :)
HEY we have the same birthday!! ^______^
Genoveve
12-29-2015, 01:23 PM
I turn 30 on 1/1/16 so I'm thinking...perfect time to start camming :)
And mine is the 8th, we're the same decan! You guys are lucky to be New Years babies that's cool.
ExoticBeauty4U
12-29-2015, 02:27 PM
I do have one goal for this new year. Get pregnant. Ideally I would like twins. Can twins be a goal :D
Haha having identical twin girls was a goal of mine and now I have fraternal twin girls, close enough lol. Now aiming for a boy within the next couple of years.
Candy_Woman
12-29-2015, 05:09 PM
My goal is to have discipline, LOL. With that I get everything else:
-Earn enough to support themselves and not need another job.
-Save, The better. Life is much simpler with good insurance.
-Start paying retirement insurance.
-If everything else goes well, ask me seriously have a son before it's too late.
BambiCutie
12-29-2015, 05:20 PM
Feel like the end of December flies with chaos before restarting the New Year. My resolutions..
1) Start my diet and stick to it, no backing out, no binge, sugar, added salt or other junk that is unhealthy.
2) Make goal charts and keep a routine camming time.
3) Working out, weight lifting and getting into shape, investing in herbs, proteins and other natural cures.
4) Get on my feet, contribute and learn to finally relax.
wednesday86
12-29-2015, 08:40 PM
HEY we have the same birthday!! ^______^
yay birthday twins! high fives!
jculp90
12-30-2015, 10:49 AM
I have a pretty long list of goals for 2016 but I know I can do it!
Work Related
-40 hours a week mimimum, but would like to do closer to 50
-Make a schedule and stick to it!!!!
-1 new clip a day!
-3 hours studying a week, I know this one might seem silly but I need to come up with better scripts for my roleplays
-get off of Daily Pay accounts, even though I love getting paid daily I am losing some money
-advertise myself more through social media
Money Related
-$1000 week minimum, $2,000 high goal
-pay off debt
-build a savings of $10,000 for emergency fund
-start saving to buy a house in a couple years
Health Related
-lose 60lbs mimimum
-run 1/2 marathon
-workout 5x a week
-stop drinking soda
I am going to make 2016 my bitch!
SexxiLexxi
12-30-2015, 11:43 AM
First things first - AWESOME THREAD! If this isn't motivation, I dont know what is HAHA!
Well, Hi again....I'm back from quite the hiatus...I missed being here hehe.
My goals for 2016:
1: Get back into the camming world. And this time, give it my all! I'm very self conscious about the way I look and my weight. Some people were just so mean which made me rethink not doing it and because I was working - I just let it go. But it is something I want to accomplish.
2: Lose weight. This is something I have been struggling with. I'm about 200lbs and want to lose about 50lbs to 70lbs. It is very difficult because I don't eat veggies! I wanted to do the shakeology but that shit is so expensive to keep up with. I tried these frozen smoothie ones...it was blueberry with a bunch of veggies in it...omfg it was so NASTY! I drank one cup and about puked. Disgusted just thinking about it haha. I'm going to stop drinking soda (mountain dew is my weak spot), drink more water, and limit if not stop the fast food. Damn you Chickfila LOL.
3: Stick with the exercising. I got to the point where I could do situps and NOT die! HAHA It was awesome. My friend stopped and so I did too. I had no motivation....but I'm just going to go all in and do it myself then.
4: Make my other business a top of the list priority and try my best to make more money and keep customers in mind. After being employed by two VERY WELL KNOWN companies and made to feel like just a number in their system....I know exactly how NOT to treat employees. The last company I was with is the largest online retailer and they were giving people hope of being a full time instead of just seasonal and then after peak, they were letting people go left and right. On top of the fact that a lot of people were let go by having their access to the building just cut off so people who came into work didn't know until their cards didn't work. To me, that is beyond FUCKED UP! Enough on that though. I want to be a VERY successfully businesswomen who cares about their customers as well as employees
5: This might be tmi but the thread did say "All Purpose" HAHA! Having more sex with the hubby......I dont know wtf my problem is because I use to be the equivalent to having a sex drive of a 16 year old boy lol. Sex was ALL I thought about. Now I'm just like....not in the mood. Im going to change that by sucking it up and seeing a doctor to see what my problem is.
6: Kind of goes along with #5, to see a doctor because my period is not normal. I have looked this up on several occasions and some of the things listed scared me right into being afraid of the results after seeing a doctor.
7: Start doing clips. I'm nervous but it has to be done damn it if I want to be successful in this industry.
I think that is all for now. It is quite scattered. I'll try to fix it up nice and tidy later.
sovereignv
12-30-2015, 02:25 PM
I thought of two other things I want to do:
1. Invest in a piece for my wardrobe every month. Doesn't have to be super expensive but shouldn't be super cheap either, $30-100 would be ideal. I really don't have an excuse not to... when you work purely in fetish wardrobe is IMPORTANT.
2. Ease myself into working out more again... I worked out regularly before I started camming (thought I needed a perfect body to do it, lol) but for various reasons I ended up stopping. I think I kind of overdid it and made myself resent it. I'm totally out of shape but I'm also thin with small tits so I can't really work the curvy angle. Anyway, I want to feel more confident in my body and I want that confidence to translate to my screen presence.
LizzyMe
12-30-2015, 04:50 PM
1. Work out like I used to. Continue to improve on my body with meditation, yoga, strength training and eating better more regularly.
2. Schedule more time to spend with friends.
3.Learn more about photography and technology thru the website Lynda. Excellent online classes there.
Someone22
12-30-2015, 09:34 PM
My goals for 2016-
1. Average $1500 minimum per week between cam work and dancing, ideally more. But I don't want to put too much pressure on myself if I have a bad week here and there.
2. Work 15 hours minimum/week on cam
3. Start making clips to sell. I'll aim for making a couple videos each week.
4. Work in strip club 2 nights minimum, ideally 3, but when I'm not up to going in, I will focus more on cam work.
5. Drink less- focusing more on cam work will help me with this, because I have a hard time not drinking at the strip club.
6. Continue trying to eat healthier- more fresh fruits and veggies, and try to maintain my weight since sometimes I have a low appetite and get too thin.
7. Exercise more- I want to get back into yoga and try to go twice a week, and I also need to do some strength training.
8. Keep focusing on paying off my student loans. I have about $22,000 I want to pay off in the next 2-3 years
9. Save more money- for retirement, if I want to return to school, and a down payment for a house/condo eventually
10. Take myself on a nice vacation :) probably by myself, hopefully somewhere warm and just relax.
Staples
12-31-2015, 02:02 AM
I'm amending my list to add that I would also like to start using my daily work checklist again. I used it earlier this year with a lot of success but I ran out and forgot to print more so I kind of just stopped.
CharlieTen
12-31-2015, 10:47 AM
-Work 4-5 day weeks, every week until May.
-Earn a bare minimum of £300 a week.
-Have £3000 saved for my Japan trip, plus money for flights. (I'm 2/3 of the way there already)!
-Go out more, have fun, take walks in the morning and go to comedy nights once a week to keep me cheery.
-Be less negative, tell jokes and be peppy on cam and in general.
-Keep up the veggie/pescetarian diet with some vegan replacements for things.
-Keep my hair colour unnatural.
-Stay away from tobacco (tonight is possibly an exception) for at least 6 months, and smoke weed only after cam shifts and not during.
Issabelle
12-31-2015, 10:56 AM
I'm going to tack onto my goals list a few fun/reach type goals that I just want to do in the interests of seeing what I'm capable of:
- $1000 in a single pay day (I think my standing high earning day is $700ish)
- 24 hour camathon (with scheduled breaks, so over maybe 28-30 hours in reality)
- $5000 in a single pay period (one week) across all my sites (currently my record is probably $2800ish)
If I don't make them, fine, but I'd love to just throw them in sometime in the New Year. :)
seicento
12-31-2015, 02:05 PM
Cam related
Learn and do what it takes to be a better camgirl
Work more
Earn more
Raise my rates and keep them raised
Professional lights
New computer
Start filming again
Be more patient and learn editing
Non cam related
Save some money.I never had savings,time to start
Help my mother more
Spoil my cats
Lose this damn weight
Work out
Stay healthy,eat better,keep anxiety away
Get together with my crush at least for a one night stand
Go out more
Have more fun
Stop befriending drama queens and needy guys
Figure what I want to do with my life and with whom I want to spend it
Move to another apartment
Sounds like a looot but if I get to do half of this I'll be pleased.
Please be good with our goals 2016 ;)
Glamourmilf
12-31-2015, 04:17 PM
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This sums up my attitude when it comes to achieving my goals.:)
SuperPookie
01-01-2016, 01:09 PM
My goals are mostly uncamming related so far.
1. Finally manage to combine houses with my husband as we've been married over a year and still live separately.
2. Pay off some debt I accrued doing home repairs.
3. Finish my associates. I have one class to go.
4. Go on a vacation. The last one I took was the summer before my daughter started kindergarten. She's a junior in college lol.
5. I'm giving up all meat except for fish.
6. Exercise more. I'm not overweight but I do have health issues that are exacerbated by sitting on my a**.
sweetandnaughty
01-01-2016, 02:43 PM
Now this is what I needed to read!!
My goals for 2016 are BIG and I know I can do it.
1. Move to Vegas - check..I'm moving on Jan 18!! Woo hoo
2. Get a Part time vanilla job that will pay basic living costs of rent, food, insurance etc of $2000 a month.
3. Cam enough and make $500 a week to put in savings. Goal is to save $2000 a month and have $24000 in saving by year end
4. Revive my videographer\editor and multimedia freelance biz. I have mad design and video skills and had a thriving freelance biz. I want to revive my wedding videographer\editor biz in Vegas...another reason I'm moving there. Lots of new tech too. I want to branch out and work in and with the adult and camming world in video and multimedia.
5. Never ever ever allow myself to backslide into depression and lazy habits.
I have a confession and this is the only place where I'll say this. I allowed my laziness and depression to almost make myself homeless. I barely made enough to rent a cheap room and even have up paying basic bills like insurance etc. I lost all my stuff in an auction sale on my storage unit because I didn't earn enough to pay the bill. That was the lowest I ever got in my life. Now I have everything I own in my car and everything ncan be replaced and that's OK. Depression is a sickness and you have to kick its ass or it will kick yours. It kicked mine for 3 years but no more. I
I'll never forget that feeling of fear and hopelessness of not having a place to live and having my income taken away from me. Thats why I want a vanilla job and camming. If one gets taken away I'll have a backup and growing my own freelance biz will bring in extra $$$.
Threads like this have literally saved my life and I can't express how much I appreciate this forum. It is my shrink, best friend and bartender all in one.
I hope 2016 is the best year ever for everyone!!! Happy new year ladies!!!! Now get there and kick some ass!
Sally Says
01-02-2016, 12:16 PM
I need to get my sh*t together. I need to start making money not covering the minimum and then chilling. I have a secret holiday to fund in 3 months!
Staples
01-02-2016, 01:43 PM
Now this is what I needed to read!!
My goals for 2016 are BIG and I know I can do it.
1. Move to Vegas - check..I'm moving on Jan 18!! Woo hoo
2. Get a Part time vanilla job that will pay basic living costs of rent, food, insurance etc of $2000 a month.
3. Cam enough and make $500 a week to put in savings. Goal is to save $2000 a month and have $24000 in saving by year end
4. Revive my videographer\editor and multimedia freelance biz. I have mad design and video skills and had a thriving freelance biz. I want to revive my wedding videographer\editor biz in Vegas...another reason I'm moving there. Lots of new tech too. I want to branch out and work in and with the adult and camming world in video and multimedia.
5. Never ever ever allow myself to backslide into depression and lazy habits.
I have a confession and this is the only place where I'll say this. I allowed my laziness and depression to almost make myself homeless. I barely made enough to rent a cheap room and even have up paying basic bills like insurance etc. I lost all my stuff in an auction sale on my storage unit because I didn't earn enough to pay the bill. That was the lowest I ever got in my life. Now I have everything I own in my car and everything ncan be replaced and that's OK. Depression is a sickness and you have to kick its ass or it will kick yours. It kicked mine for 3 years but no more. I
I'll never forget that feeling of fear and hopelessness of not having a place to live and having my income taken away from me. Thats why I want a vanilla job and camming. If one gets taken away I'll have a backup and growing my own freelance biz will bring in extra $$$.
Threads like this have literally saved my life and I can't express how much I appreciate this forum. It is my shrink, best friend and bartender all in one.
I hope 2016 is the best year ever for everyone!!! Happy new year ladies!!!! Now get there and kick some ass!
Congrats on moving to Vegas. I've been trying to talk my fiance into moving there for two years. We're getting married there in May.
miss cleo
01-03-2016, 02:01 AM
Goal for 2016
-earn at least £1000 a week
-work minimum 25 hours a week
- use my nutri bullet everyday to make smoothies with loads of green veggies.
-have more patience with can custies
-get started with saving a deposit to put down on a holiday apartment in the sunshine
- continue to overpay my mortgage each month.
chocolatebombshell
01-27-2016, 01:54 PM
Goals for 2016!
*work atleast 4 nights a week,maybe 5 nights.
*save for my boob job for a nice birthday present to myself!
*save up for school and enroll fall 2017!
*start promoting my dancer outfits I make. I make clothing,but don't do anything to actually get myself out there! I sold 3 outfits last night and it was only because she asked where I get my outfits from.
*stop spending so much unnecessary shit!
FreakyFranky
01-27-2016, 07:20 PM
2016 GOALS! (Filling out WHILE on cam for EXTRA motivation! Haha)
* Work at least 24 hours a week live on cam (Huge jump from what I Work now!)
* Work a total of at least 32 hours a week total, including promoting, clips, etc.
* Be making at least $2500/month by July 2016.
* Purchase a car that isn't 15+ years old!
* Start saving for my plastic surgery ($15-18k)
* Lose 40 lbs and do it the right way and keep it off!
* Start getting back into taking college courses for my dream career
* Get better at pole dancing
* Get back into Modeling
* Take up Photography
* Convince my Partner to get into this with me!
Best of luck to all of you ladies! WE CAN DO THIS!