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JessRyan
03-03-2016, 07:30 AM
Jess what do you mean lovense doesn't work?

I had tried it before (lush) with Bonga (just camming on that site, no splitting) and it didn't work. I've used the Lush successfully with both CB and MFC so I know I set it up right. It didn't work at all. The guys did tip for it, but I had to fake it which I really don't like. Nothing happened, no auto reply thankyou or anything. But it did work with CB and MFC so I know it wasn't me.

hyori
03-03-2016, 07:44 AM
^^ Lovense has the necessary code to make the toys work, I am assuming they will have it working with the next big update. The toys sort of work, you will see when you connect the toy a notification shows up in Bongs chat that the toy is connected.

hyori
03-03-2016, 10:06 AM
The Lovense toys work on Bonga and Naked now! To make them work, you need to install the extension manually. The instructions are here: http://lovense.com/cam-model/guide/add-extension-manually

I am also cutting and pasting instructions here:

http://i.imgur.com/RvT0pnk.png
http://i.imgur.com/mP9etAw.png
http://i.imgur.com/qIkaCJM.png

TheBrownFox
03-03-2016, 10:12 AM
Sorry, but I think it's rude to tell a cam girl to "hurry up" just because your cheap, bargain-basement ass wants to pay Walmart prices for a cam show. And telling her to "hurry up" is more likely to irritate her than get her "in the mood."

"The customer is always right" doesn't apply here. Start treating your models better...

hyori
03-03-2016, 10:19 AM
Let's hope no scamming members are here reading about how "hurry up" gets them a free flash, LOL.

Actually, I highly doubt Bongs will dare refund a member for doing that going forward. God forbid a member try that with me. There will be blood.

Hxchayley
03-03-2016, 10:21 AM
Hahahaha, thank God for these forums. I was kind of juiced, now I won't even be completing registration. Thankfully I kept reading all of this.

Tsani
03-03-2016, 12:06 PM
Honestly not surprised from a company that spends way more time on GFY than here. They've got the slimy culture of that site all up in their brains now.

But yeah, the marketing is VERY misleading. They'll cover chargebacks only once it's been taken out of the customer's credit card, but they won't cover token refunds. Makes sense from their point of view but for the models it's pretty much the same thing. She ended up doing work that she normally gets paid for... for free. That's the bottom line.

At least we're clear on the policies now and can make our decisions about this site based on truth instead of marketing tactics going forward.

DonaDiabla
03-03-2016, 12:15 PM
Tsani, you are so right because I saw some of their threads on GFY and I said to myself "Yikes!" But now the truth is out there :)



Honestly not surprised from a company that spends way more time on GFY than here. They've got the slimy culture of that site all up in their brains now.

But yeah, the marketing is VERY misleading. They'll cover chargebacks only once it's been taken out of the customer's credit card, but they won't cover token refunds. Makes sense from their point of view but for the models it's pretty much the same thing. She ended up doing work that she normally gets paid for... for free. That's the bottom line.

At least we're clear on the policies now and can make our decisions about this site based on truth instead of marketing tactics going forward.

justanothercamgirl
03-03-2016, 12:23 PM
Judging by the chat logs, we really don't find it rude to ask once to hurry up in a private chat. It just seems strange to ban a paying member just for stating it one time only.

<snip>

We don't encourage models to tolerate anything that they may find offensive, but given the situation when a member in a private chat was banned for the abovementioned, the decision was made in favor of that member. If the member's request during a private chat is something beyond models ability, then, of course, no token refund is applied. That is why it is suggested to discuss beforehand with the model what she is capable of doing.

<snip>

On the contrary, we always have our models' best interests in mind, but unfortunately this was a case when a member was entitled to a token refund.



If you actually had your model's best interests in mind then you would support her choice to ban a customer at any time she was feeling uncomfortable enough to do so.

I can tell you that I have *personally* banned members on more than one occasion for being rude to me a single time during a show since I am unwilling to tolerate rude customers for my own personal mental health. I have also done this without a single warning or explanation to the customer. The fact that you think that a model should have to put up with rudeness more than once and that it is the job of the model to police the customer's behavior shows that you have ZERO concern for your model's mental health. You are essentially saying that your company believes that it is within a model's ability to put up with rudeness. Even worse than that you are also essentially saying that it is up to your company to decide what is within a model's ability to provide and therefore whatever the model's personal boundaries are is completely irrelevant.

Before I was a cam model, I actually worked in tech support and if a customer was rude to me a SINGLE time over the phone my company fully supported my hanging up on them. There was no 'scale of rudeness' that I was required to follow since they knew I was obviously smart enough to judge for myself what I found to be rude since I was the one who was actually on the phone taking the call. So, I am not sure why your company is having such a hard time wrapping your mind around this concept.

I want you to really think about this for a minute logically, Olga. The model in question was making money and she made the choice to give up making any more money on that customer because her personal boundaries were crossed. Do you really think she would just decide to stop making money on some sort of a sheer lark?

What is more likely in this situation? That you and your company are completely in the wrong for penalizing a camgirl for making a decision to protect her own mental health....or that a camgirl just decided to herself 'Oh goodness me, I've made more money then I'd ever need in this lifetime so I am just going to ban this customer for no reason....what...so...ever.

KatM
03-03-2016, 12:49 PM
Just look on SM for the tags 'ban happy', 'fast ban' so on, all ban related, we ban like crazy but make thousands there, we as models in general.
"Hurry up" to me is rude no matter what, if a guy says this to me i think: "you a cheap wanker who wants to cum as fast as possible over me and bugger off asap" so i either stop performing, slow down a lot or ban (depending on my mood lol), that guy is not going to spend much anyway so why cum over me for that cheap?
I am a luxury product not a commodity. If u guys at bonga allow cheap members on ur site to treat models like this & refund them the tokens u'll stay a cheap site with only cheap members there.
Up ur standards guys, seriously. I was really hoping u'll come back with better news....

justanothercamgirl
03-03-2016, 01:20 PM
I give BongaCams this.....they have caused me to have a whole new appreciation for Streamate than I ever have had before. (*laughs*)

KatM
03-03-2016, 01:34 PM
^^^ Why do u think i digged the money to upgrade my system?

BambiCutie
03-03-2016, 02:05 PM
That's like going to McDonalds, ordering fries and you tell them to hurry it up, eat the fries and then tell the manager that you want a refund because the fries took too long to make, and then to top it off, they dock it from the workers pay!!!!

Go to hell BONGA.

^^ This right here..

MistressX
03-03-2016, 02:08 PM
Yeah GFY is a disgusting community and it makes me disgusted at men even more. The sad fact is that in front of their own kind, most men behave like this. I wish I was a lesbian to be quite honest

KittieVenom
03-03-2016, 07:36 PM
Everyone, let's just be thankful that Bonga is there to tell us what we can and cannot consider rude. I mean, why respect us and our boundaries? THEY don't find it rude, why would anyone else? I mean, that's just insane! *biggest eyeroll ever*

DelishIrish
03-04-2016, 03:02 AM
We don't encourage models to tolerate anything that they may find offensive, but given the situation when a member in a private chat was banned for the abovementioned, the decision was made in favor of that member. If the member's request during a private chat is something beyond models ability, then, of course, no token refund is applied. That is why it is suggested to discuss beforehand with the model what she is capable of doing.

On the contrary, we always have our models' best interests in mind

Models are not obligated to put up with rudeness.

WHAT? This is the most back & forth contradictory mumbo jumbo I have ever seen.
And the disgusting part is you state here anything that is physically possible for a model to do, she should do. Forget each of our personal boundaries & mental limitations, right? All models are blow up dolls to this site.. Had it bookmarked for weeks, but I am NEVER applying to Bonga now. I'll go back to FWC before I try Bonga!

Whatta joke. Sad, sad joke of female "support"

Honestly shit like this makes me wanna quit camming altogether. Thanks for not sucking this hard, Streamate.

Olga BongaCams
03-04-2016, 08:02 AM
If you actually had your model's best interests in mind then you would support her choice to ban a customer at any time she was feeling uncomfortable enough to do so.

I can tell you that I have *personally* banned members on more than one occasion for being rude to me a single time during a show since I am unwilling to tolerate rude customers for my own personal mental health. I have also done this without a single warning or explanation to the customer. The fact that you think that a model should have to put up with rudeness more than once and that it is the job of the model to police the customer's behavior shows that you have ZERO concern for your model's mental health. You are essentially saying that your company believes that it is within a model's ability to put up with rudeness. Even worse than that you are also essentially saying that it is up to your company to decide what is within a model's ability to provide and therefore whatever the model's personal boundaries are is completely irrelevant.

Before I was a cam model, I actually worked in tech support and if a customer was rude to me a SINGLE time over the phone my company fully supported my hanging up on them. There was no 'scale of rudeness' that I was required to follow since they knew I was obviously smart enough to judge for myself what I found to be rude since I was the one who was actually on the phone taking the call. So, I am not sure why your company is having such a hard time wrapping your mind around this concept.

I want you to really think about this for a minute logically, Olga. The model in question was making money and she made the choice to give up making any more money on that customer because her personal boundaries were crossed. Do you really think she would just decide to stop making money on some sort of a sheer lark?

What is more likely in this situation? That you and your company are completely in the wrong for penalizing a camgirl for making a decision to protect her own mental health....or that a camgirl just decided to herself 'Oh goodness me, I've made more money then I'd ever need in this lifetime so I am just going to ban this customer for no reason....what...so...ever.

Please understand that in no way did I want to imply that models should tolerate rude customers, and most certainly models can and should ban members when they feel that their personal boundaries are crossed. In this I totally support their decision.

Regarding this situation, I've already answered that we just acted according to our policy and hopefully this was a one-case scenario.

I realize why you feel about it the way you do, but still hope that you can understand why we had to make this decision.



Are you being dense on purpose? This is the most back & forth contradictory mumbo jumbo I have ever seen.
And the disgusting part is you state here anything that is physically possible for a model to do, she should do. Forget each of our personal boundaries & mental limitations, right? All models are blow up dolls to this site. Pigs. I am NEVER applying to Bonga. I'll go back to FWC before I ever try Bonga.

Whatta joke. Sad, sad joke of female "support" Honestly shit like this makes me wanna quit camming altogether.

Thanks for not sucking this hard, Streamate.

I must've gotten you confused by what I said. I just wanted to state that if a model isn't comfortable with a member’s request, she shouldn't do it.

DeepThoughts
03-04-2016, 08:27 AM
Please understand that in no way did I want to imply that models should tolerate rude customers, and most certainly models can and should ban members when they feel that their personal boundaries are crossed. In this I totally support their decision.

Regarding this situation, I've already answered that we just acted according to our policy and hopefully this was a one-case scenario.

I realize why you feel about it the way you do, but still hope that you can understand why we had to make this decision.

Olga the problem with saying your support a girls decision to ban a client and then refusing to pay her what she is owed because she banned a client means that your words and your actions are in direct conflict with one another.

Also when your advertisement stats that you do not do chargebacks or refunds under any circumstance and then you do a refund and quote specific circumstances for the reason your statements and actions are in direct conflict with one another.

Okay so you get to decide to refund a customer because he felt that his show was sub par. That is your right as a company and I support your decision. However you are then obligated to pay the model what she is owed from your own pocket because your policy stated that you no longer do refunds under any circumstance.

If you want to defend your position that buried way down in your terms and agreements there is some vaguely worded paragraph that allows to you to not pay the model what she is owed then you need to take the "under any circumstance" wording out of your ads and replace it with an * that will direct them to your terms and agreements page.

Just saying you "realize why we feel the way we do" means your not understanding that this is not based on feelings its based on the fact that Bonga Cams is lieing. When cam sites lie to us we call it out like a spade!

sexysusie
03-04-2016, 08:59 AM
Please understand that in no way did I want to imply that models should tolerate rude customers, and most certainly models can and should ban members when they feel that their personal boundaries are crossed.

... except for the fact they won't get paid if they do this lol, how very kind of you.

You cannot say "we support the model's right to ban a rude customer", and then not pay her when she bans a rude customer. That is NOT supporting the model, that is called penalising her. You do not get to decide what is rude either, that is up to us.

Let's make this clear for you - if you refund members out of models pockets the following is going to happen:

1) the model will stop working for you = you lose money
2) new models will not sign up with you = you lose potential money
3) models working on your site stop accepting private chats in case they get a refund case = you lose money

Can you see what I am saying here?

Pay the $2 back to the model and ensure you don't give refunds again out of the model's pocket unless you've changed your advertising. It is really very, very simple.

justanothercamgirl
03-04-2016, 11:17 AM
Please understand that in no way did I want to imply that models should tolerate rude customers, and most certainly models can and should ban members when they feel that their personal boundaries are crossed. In this I totally support their decision.

Regarding this situation, I've already answered that we just acted according to our policy and hopefully this was a one-case scenario.

I realize why you feel about it the way you do, but still hope that you can understand why we had to make this decision.

I must've gotten you confused by what I said. I just wanted to state that if a model isn't comfortable with a member’s request, she shouldn't do it.

I do understand why you had to make the decision, Olga. It is because your company's policy sucks. ;)

I also do truly appreciate you responding to me.

Thank you.

xCamLovex
03-04-2016, 11:34 AM
Everyone needs to broadcast themselves in their underwear and have someone demean them the entire time before taking a job speaking on behalf of cam models and what they feel is appropriate. Restaurants refuse the right to serve people and why can't we again?! Shut up with trying to please these bottomfeeders.

Chargeback cunts bleed sites dry with no backbone. Just like chain restaurants that 86 (hello food industry gals) items on a cheap customers checks after they eat the whole fcking steak and claim they didn't like it. They'll come back next time and do it with the lobster, ect.

There is no winner when your practices lack intregrity and rewarding bad behavior will only garnish you the worst clientele. There is probably a forum where guys are talking about how to get a refund after a show and which sites they can do it on. they now know bonga is one of them!

JessRyan
03-04-2016, 12:33 PM
this horse is dead

anonymous camgirl
03-04-2016, 12:42 PM
443754437644376So I had to put up with this rudeness yet again!.. Instead of kicking him out or banning him I had to put up with it, so I can be paid for the show.. how humiliating and degrading it is. For the record I showed him everything he wanted and sat down to printscreen all of this!.. I wanted to BAN him so bad!.. but I want to be paid for my shows

Hxchayley
03-04-2016, 01:22 PM
Dear god, is that the same guy? I've never ever come across this rudeness, let alone multiple times!! The customers on this website are a fucking joke!! Who would want to work like that? I'm so sorry hun <3

sexysusie
03-04-2016, 01:22 PM
I'm impressed AC, 4 mins stretch :D

Bonga sucks. Each retarded post they make here just pisses me off more.

anonymous camgirl
03-04-2016, 01:26 PM
Well I just got done talking to Ronni.. I was ballistic in my room that I am tired of dealing with this and I just had to put up with yet another rude guy bla bla bla.. you get the point.. so Ronni messaged me to ask what the problem was.. He assured me this is NOT the way they treat their models and he will get to the bottom of this.. I mentioned this forum and Olga's responses.....And told me they want models to feel comfortable working there.. so he will get back to me early next week he said about this Tyler Refund Issue..

anonymous camgirl
03-04-2016, 01:28 PM
No it's a different one.. I started print screening the rude ones .. because there is a lot of guys saying hurry up I have encountered.. the last one was rushing me because he had surgery in 15 mins.. yea right!... give me a break.


Dear god, is that the same guy? I've never ever come across this rudeness, let alone multiple times!! The customers on this website are a fucking joke!! Who would want to work like that? I'm so sorry hun <3

MistressX
03-04-2016, 01:50 PM
Again, I find eastern europeans to be some of the most rude people I have ever encountered. I had to deal with a bunch of them in college. They truly think that men are superior and that they own all women's bodies, basically. These are the types of men who will just grope a woman on the fly, because in their mind they are entitled to this. The fact this cam site originates from that area is not surprising with how they treat their models. It's sad and amusing at the same time to see olga here trying to say they support a model's right to decide what she doesnt want to do.. because we all know that once youre in a show a guy could and often does spring something on you that you dont want to do. What they prove here is that if that happens and then he complains and wants his money back the model would then not be paid for her show, no matter how long into the show he asked for something or said something outside her comfort zone. How is that standing behind your models? your company is pathetic and hypocritical, and as someone already mentioned, a bunch of liars. How could I expect anything less from people like you?

KatM
03-04-2016, 01:58 PM
Ty for posting these print screens AC, i understand now the context, is a cultural thing babes, what we consider to be rude is not rude to them, bonga cams & many of the members on the site.
The guy even says he is not rude, he is not even abusive, HE IS PLAIN CHEAP babes, he is used with the girls who sit naked and spread open so he wants the goodies fast.
You had any chance to check where the guy came from AC, or the other guy, the 1st one?
These guys are not there to talk, get to know the model, take their time, so on, they want it fast like in the other rooms.
Not the member type i wanna put up with.
I did not cam there yet as i upgraded my pc in the last 3-4 days & was considering bonga, now i made up my mind.

KatM
03-04-2016, 02:05 PM
Again, I find eastern europeans to be some of the most rude people I have ever encountered. I had to deal with a bunch of them in college. They truly think that men are superior and that they own all women's bodies, basically. These are the types of men who will just grope a woman on the fly, because in their mind they are entitled to this. The fact this cam site originates from that area is not surprising with how they treat their models. It's sad and amusing at the same time to see olga here trying to say they support a model's right to decide what she doesnt want to do.. because we all know that once youre in a show a guy could and often does spring something on you that you dont want to do. What they prove here is that if that happens and then he complains and wants his money back the model would then not be paid for her show, no matter how long into the show he asked for something or said something outside her comfort zone. How is that standing behind your models? your company is pathetic and hypocritical, and as someone already mentioned, a bunch of liars. How could I expect anything less from people like you?

I am eastern european girl with a western mind set, men here in this part of the world really suck, why do u think i am single for many years?
Cause of the men quality in this region. Here if a guy takes u out for a coffee he wanna fuck u after.
This site is not for western girls cause these guys wont respect and take their time with women, this site IS NOT FOR ME even i come from this region. To be Avoided! Here guys treat women like a piece of meat, most guys are like this.

anonymous camgirl
03-04-2016, 03:20 PM
Yes he was from INDIA!.. which I always had a problem with them no matter how many times I gave them a chance..


Ty for posting these print screens AC, i understand now the context, is a cultural thing babes, what we consider to be rude is not rude to them, bonga cams & many of the members on the site.
The guy even says he is not rude, he is not even abusive, HE IS PLAIN CHEAP babes, he is used with the girls who sit naked and spread open so he wants the goodies fast.
You had any chance to check where the guy came from AC, or the other guy, the 1st one?
These guys are not there to talk, get to know the model, take their time, so on, they want it fast like in the other rooms.
Not the member type i wanna put up with.
I did not cam there yet as i upgraded my pc in the last 3-4 days & was considering bonga, now i made up my mind.

KatM
03-04-2016, 03:58 PM
Yes he was from INDIA!.. which I always had a problem with them no matter how many times I gave them a chance..

In india they dont even have the chance to see tits, ass or pussy before marriage from what i know, the indians literally own their women, they buy them in money/ gold so when an indian comes on this site he might see tits or pussy for the 1st time in life LOL.
SM by default blocks many countries in certain regions and dont allow sign ups so on SM u mostly get guys who are able to pay.
Rarely i have an indian, mexican in my room and i always wonder how they registered, i ask them to tip/pvt and they say they dont have money on their card, they just used a card to register with to prove age but not able to spend (i suspect they lie and they use stolen CC actually to sign up with). SM is filtering their clientele a lot. Looks like on bonga a lot of guys from all over the world are allowed to register and pay for shows.

What is the clientele on bonga, where the members come from pls? Just curious.

JessRyan
03-04-2016, 04:14 PM
well I guess I have a really high tolerance when it comes to men. I've been on BC a lot since last week. I split it with CB and they guys on BC consistantly tip in guest chat and I've had some privates. I hate banning unless it's REALLY bad. But I have my own personal limits with what I'll put up with and I know each of us has different cut off points. The lovense toys work on BC and the guys tip for it. I don't have any major complaints except the PM issue where VIP's can PM and dist rub your chat, I wish there was an option to only allow full private or at least several rate for private options like they have on Chaturbate. Now I don't make a ton of money on Bonga, but it's better than MFC, so I'll stick it out.

KatM
03-04-2016, 04:24 PM
Yes at the end is a matter of model's tolerance level...
ETA: i have a low tolerance when about men Jess, cant stand the cheap & abusive guys, i kick them out of my room on SM if they dont talk within 2-3 mins & i ban at the 1st insult ;)
Lucky You! xx

anonymous camgirl
03-04-2016, 04:46 PM
lots from Croatia , Serbia, Russia, bulgaria then there are a few USA, Germany, Norway, Denmark.. but I think majority are from the first I mentioned that I keep seeing.


In india they dont even have the chance to see tits, ass or pussy before marriage from what i know, the indians literally own their women, they buy them in money/ gold so when an indian comes on this site he might see tits or pussy for the 1st time in life LOL.
SM by default blocks many countries in certain regions and dont allow sign ups so on SM u mostly get guys who are able to pay.
Rarely i have an indian, mexican in my room and i always wonder how they registered, i ask them to tip/pvt and they say they dont have money on their card, they just used a card to register with to prove age but not able to spend (i suspect they lie and they use stolen CC actually to sign up with). SM is filtering their clientele a lot. Looks like on bonga a lot of guys from all over the world are allowed to register and pay for shows.

What is the clientele on bonga, where the members come from pls? Just curious.

anonymous camgirl
03-04-2016, 04:48 PM
Yea I don't know what the deal is.. I kinda actually like the site? for some reason.. maybe I like to be abused or something Love/hate.. even though I am way past that behavior from anyone.. But I will work anywhere to earn money no matter what.. >> I am in it for the money!...even if it kills me.. lmao

KatM
03-04-2016, 04:53 PM
I see, ty for the info AC, now we came to understand what the issue is right? When dealing with people from the countries mentioned above just be prepared to read "hurry up, show me this and that", is their way of saying "i am cheap, i dont have a lot of money, i never saw a pussy in my life" or whatever other thing.
When dealing with people from the west then u get another kind of 'treatment' LOL.
Is nothing personal, these guys are not native in english, they might know good english but also just a few words, they dont mean to be rude, is their way of expressing themselves in a short basic manner.
Dont take it personal AC, is the site culture and the members they have there. xx

ETA: and now my head is spinning, i am spending soo much time on this forum delaying my shift on SM (which i read is slow as fuck anyway), i am doing my make up and reading/posting in here cause i really wanted to get to the core of this specific situation.
What the heck, i also need another egg besides SM. I too am in for the money. I take into consideration all aspects, pls tell me there are money to be made on bonga even with these type of members!? ;)

hyori
03-04-2016, 05:01 PM
I have never been so pissed off in all my life. These fuckers on Bonga were pieces of SHIT today and not just any shit, the kinda shit that's been sunbaked and covered with maggots. They were criticizing my camera, (oh, what a nice camera, but the autofocus is not as fast as mine), WTF, the way I was reacting to my toys (the fuck?), the way I was putting my camera angles..etc. fucking everything. Then to top it off, show tits, show ass, show pussy, do it now bitch...on and on, I thought I was being punked by other models. You know, I wouldn't be surprised if they were fucking cunt models.

I completely lost my shit. I told them they ruined the show for all the nice guys and logged out.

Went to SM and finished there.

I hope this was an off day on Bonga. If I get continuously abused there, I'm no longer camming there. WTF. I still can't believe the shit I just went through.

audritwo
03-04-2016, 05:22 PM
fuck hyori, that blows. im sorry babes.

I have a feeling the title of this thread will soon be changed.

hyori
03-04-2016, 05:26 PM
Now I'm wondering if the EE models on Bonga are pissed that a bunch of new Western models are closing in on their turf or something.

JaneBurgess
03-04-2016, 05:27 PM
I have never been so pissed off in all my life. These fuckers on Bonga were pieces of SHIT today and not just any shit, the kinda shit that's been sunbaked and covered with maggots. They were criticizing my camera, (oh, what a nice camera, but the autofocus is not as fast as mine), WTF, the way I was reacting to my toys (the fuck?), the way I was putting my camera angles..etc. fucking everything. Then to top it off, show tits, show ass, show pussy, do it now bitch...on and on, I thought I was being punked by other models. You know, I wouldn't be surprised if they were fucking cunt models.

I completely lost my shit. I told them they ruined the show for all the nice guys and logged out.

Went to SM and finished there.

I hope this was an off day on Bonga. If I get continuously abused there, I'm no longer camming there. WTF. I still can't believe the shit I just went through.


Im so sorry Hyori. I hope that the next time you go on they are nice.

JessRyan
03-04-2016, 05:48 PM
well that (Hyori's post) made me laugh and shaking my head. Sorry for your bad day. The guys are for the most part European in my room too. I get the occasional American. And I get guys, "Thank god finally a girl who speak english!" I like the site is general, but as I said, I have a high tolerance for dumb dumbs. Men just can't help themselves. Open ass, 4 fingers in pussy, show pussy, poo bb, squirt, squirt, squirt...and I just logged on and don't have any tokens. LOL I just laugh at them and say "dude, I need some damn tokens to show you my pussy" I've banned a couple guys as a last resort for the excessive graphics and "dumb old whore" or shitty remarks like that. But there are assholes no matter where you go. Unfortunately. I think there is a language barrier and a simple lack of understanding that most businesses have when trying to communicate with cammodels. They don't want to get close. In Olga's case, a lack of sensitivity. But it's not to be mean. Sometimes it's a dog with a bone theory. However difficult when you are stubborn in your stance to just say "I'm sorry. I was wrong, you were right. The customer is wrong, you were right and here's your money back" That is difficult for some people in business. As is being nice and respectful to camgirls for some men. We should all be more forgiving.

hyori
03-04-2016, 05:54 PM
^^ Normally, I'm OK with a few here and there, but today it was relentless. I think I banned over 50 guys and they just kept showing up. It was unreal. I was truly flustered. I was on Bonga a few times before and they were never near as bad as today. Maybe I've just been fortunate. So, is it normal to have to ban 50 guys in 2 hours? I don't think that should be the case.

sexysusie
03-04-2016, 05:57 PM
Does anyo9ne know how to turn sounds off on Bonga please? It is driving me INSANE when spy chat is on and all the boing boing noises!!

MistressX
03-04-2016, 06:05 PM
Sounds like jealous models to me, especially the comment about how your camera wasnt as good as theirs. Dead givaway... They are totally feeling threatened. Part of me wants to register now just to stick it to them lol

Dorothea
03-04-2016, 06:50 PM
We don't know that and is not fair to accuse. guys have seen camgirls for a while now- some of them figured models have a camera and some read these forums and pick up topics from here.I seen guys getting more and more manipulative toward models and aware what models do , like and don't like etc... The guy who told model to be faster was also a manipulative lying dick trying to save 20 tokens. I noticed some other tricks they pull but not going to post here - too public. In my experience models are not hurtful to other models - they usually just try to advertise themselves and steal customers but do not emotionally hurt other models - this is more of the members play field.

Dorothea
03-04-2016, 07:00 PM
Yes is normal to ban a lot of them on bonga.
I banned about 10 a day on my two shifts so far about two weeks ago.Since then was not back.
I think it is normal on the site where telling a model to hurry up fuck herself is not considered rude. The guys who got banned are probably confused as to why . After all telling a model stuck bottle in your asshole cunt and might tip you something then- is probably normal chit chat to them.

sexysusie
03-04-2016, 07:47 PM
I have never been so pissed off in all my life. These fuckers on Bonga were pieces of SHIT today and not just any shit, the kinda shit that's been sunbaked and covered with maggots. They were criticizing my camera, (oh, what a nice camera, but the autofocus is not as fast as mine), WTF, the way I was reacting to my toys (the fuck?), the way I was putting my camera angles..etc. fucking everything. Then to top it off, show tits, show ass, show pussy, do it now bitch...on and on, I thought I was being punked by other models. You know, I wouldn't be surprised if they were fucking cunt models.

I completely lost my shit. I told them they ruined the show for all the nice guys and logged out.

Went to SM and finished there.

I hope this was an off day on Bonga. If I get continuously abused there, I'm no longer camming there. WTF. I still can't believe the shit I just went through.

I'm so sorry you had this shit from them today :( I actually just ignore pretty much everything on that site, even when in private, unless they tip me 100 tokens +. They just rabbit on and on happily and I have no idea if they're talking crap or not. It makes it easier x

Tsani
03-04-2016, 08:14 PM
Can you block countries on there? Like maybe block the countries where the majority of the disrespectful guys are from? Who knows though, maybe that would get rid of nearly all the traffic and that wouldn't be good.

JessRyan
03-04-2016, 10:37 PM
^^ Normally, I'm OK with a few here and there, but today it was relentless. I think I banned over 50 guys and they just kept showing up. It was unreal. I was truly flustered. I was on Bonga a few times before and they were never near as bad as today. Maybe I've just been fortunate. So, is it normal to have to ban 50 guys in 2 hours? I don't think that should be the case.

Yes, don't worry. And you know, I have good news about banning. I banned over 800 guys the last year I've been on SM. I've unbanned (half way) all the guys that weren't "Those Guys" (you know the guys you really want and need and to ban like long term chronic peepers) anyway, the good news is that 8 out of 10 of them redeemed themselves. I wouldn't say anything when they ventured into my guest chat...I just gave them another chance and wow, I've been surprised at how they turned that shit around.
Of course a few ended up right back in the dog house, but hey at least I gave them another chance.
Let me tell you. I'm impressed (even though she lacked connection) that Olga has tried to mend fences and explain their actions. I'm impressed with Bonga's service towards me. I've DM'd them on Twitter about concerns, got immediate response and they've come forward on this forum several times to calm the storm. Ronni was messaging with me today asking about the Lovense toys and was very polite during my pubic shows. I think THIS is a work in progress that deserves a chance. Things can escalate very quickly when thoughts run wild. Let's give it chance girls. Less than 600 girls on there....see? Let's go get em!