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Chellyinparadise
02-05-2016, 09:39 AM
I have caught myself feeling that way at times too, its very easy to do when you are having a bad day or week etc.. you are a beautiful woman inside and out.. what i do when im feeling that way is i just try to log off a few moments and take a deep breath and relax or put something funny on to watch to change my mood.. i do notice that if im down whether i try to pretend and fake it or not they see right through it and it affects my earnings, so i try to do those things i mentioned to get my head out of that funk.. Try not to burn yourself out i know its hard to take a day off but try to once in awhile to just pamper yourself.. Its not you its the way things are for all of us but i know how you feel because ive had those times ive felt the same way and it is hard to get through that especially when you need to work and make money.. im sorry you felt that way.. i hope things pick up for you. But trust me its not you.. its happening to alot of us.. it seems now we have to work harder than before well i have noticed that for myself.. if i could give you a hug i would.. hope things turn around and you start to feel better..

BadBitch
02-05-2016, 09:46 AM
I have caught myself feeling that way at times too, its very easy to do when you are having a bad day or week etc.. you are a beautiful woman inside and out.. what i do when im feeling that way is i just try to log off a few moments and take a deep breath and relax or put something funny on to watch to change my mood.. i do notice that if im down whether i try to pretend and fake it or not they see right through it and it affects my earnings, so i try to do those things i mentioned to get my head out of that funk.. Try not to burn yourself out i know its hard to take a day off but try to once in awhile to just pamper yourself.. Its not you its the way things are for all of us but i know how you feel because ive had those times ive felt the same way and it is hard to get through that especially when you need to work and make money.. im sorry you felt that way.. i hope things pick up for you. But trust me its not you.. its happening to alot of us.. it seems now we have to work harder than before well i have noticed that for myself.. if i could give you a hug i would.. hope things turn around and you start to feel better..

Thank you. I really, really appreciate it. I just can't deal with the low traffic or guys not staying in my room. It's so depressing.

Chellyinparadise
02-05-2016, 09:51 AM
Thank you. I really, really appreciate it. I just can't deal with the low traffic or guys not staying in my room. It's so depressing.

Yea i know how you feel, i have had to work way longer hours and push gold shows etc.. its hard to do but hopefully things will improve.It can really wear you down physically and emotionally. I hope the traffic picks up..we can convert if we get people in to do so.. Try to keep your head up and dont let the guys make you feel like its you that is the problem, because it definately isnt you. Stay strong and try to push through it..you will be ok.. things will improve they always do in time..hugs

JoyKitten
02-05-2016, 11:59 AM
Uplifting dance break, anyone?
Shift the energy. Power UP!
There are some classics within this playlist.
Find a couple that resonate, then search do a quick search on youTube to find the song in it's entirety.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U9jkMxjWWXc

Works for me.

BadBitch
02-07-2016, 01:25 PM
Uplifting dance break, anyone?
Shift the energy. Power UP!
There are some classics within this playlist.
Find a couple that resonate, then search do a quick search on youTube to find the song in it's entirety.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U9jkMxjWWXc

Works for me.

Awesome!

I'm just getting tired of sitting on cam for 4-5 hours at a time. It's sheer torture anymore. Forget waterboarding. Maybe foreign countries should try this tactic as a new form of torture!

ggminx
02-07-2016, 09:10 PM
This is a great thread. I think we all need positive words...other than "ur hot bb." I've been camming for a while and I get down, and quite depressed, when custies aren't spending. It's so easy to tie up our self worth into what is being spent on us. We are selling our personalities to typed words on a chat screen minute by minute while we are streaming. It's mentally draining...and when we go 5...10...15...45 minutes without entering a paid chat, we can't help but think, "what am I doing wrong?"

It isn't always us. Yeah, I believe there is always room for improvement, but you still have to be you to do this job. Being a completely different personality would be utterly exhaustive. Just be confident in you. We are all suffering right now. Our average hourly earnings are down. It hurts. But whatever you do, don't get desperate. These guys can sniff that shit out from a continent away...even through cam!

I truly believe we need to stay true to ourselves, our personalities, so we can stay sane and work the hours we do. The money will come when the guys get over Christmas bills and tax returns start rolling in. The main thing is don't be wishy-washy in what you are portraying on cam. That can run your current custies off and confuse the new ones rolling through your room and wanting to get to know you

BadBitch
02-07-2016, 09:24 PM
This is a great thread. I think we all need positive words...other than "ur hot bb." I've been camming for a while and I get down, and quite depressed, when custies aren't spending. It's so easy to tie up our self worth into what is being spent on us. We are selling our personalities to typed words on a chat screen minute by minute while we are streaming. It's mentally draining...and when we go 5...10...15...45 minutes without entering a paid chat, we can't help but think, "what am I doing wrong?"

It isn't always us. Yeah, I believe there is always room for improvement, but you still have to be you to do this job. Being a completely different personality would be utterly exhaustive. Just be confident in you. We are all suffering right now. Our average hourly earnings are down. It hurts. But whatever you do, don't get desperate. These guys can sniff that shit out from a continent away...even through cam!

I truly believe we need to stay true to ourselves, our personalities, so we can stay sane and work the hours we do. The money will come when the guys get over Christmas bills and tax returns start rolling in. The main thing is don't be wishy-washy in what you are portraying on cam. That can run your current custies off and confuse the new ones rolling through your room and wanting to get to know you

Great response! Thank you!