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AlyssaJane
03-30-2016, 10:50 AM
So anyways nobody smelled bs but the models they ZTHOUGHT she was lying so they started a huge rumor about it ,she wasn't there just jealous the poor girl gets this shit all the time and she doesn't even have a twitter to defend herself and they always kick her off this site even when she did nothing..It's just the life of a famous camgirl,she doesn't mind it's annoying Ya but it's better then not being hated on so much.There is no doubt people kick her off her and make up lies about her on twitter CONSTANTLY cause there jealous

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PlayfulDesire
03-30-2016, 01:32 PM
I don't think crying to every single guy will get you anything. However if were had a lot of GFE type of things and they thought they were helping you randomly when you were down on your luck tha tmight work. Read the book hotactics . Talks about how to use having a sob story to bank. I've never made anything up. I've had some bad moments where a few regulars ( mostly subs or video buyers) would buy more or tribute more but not the same.

Sunnylexie
03-30-2016, 02:30 PM
I try not to complain when on cam because I'm very suggestible. When I keep talking about bad things happening in my life for a while I soon find myself unable to think about anything else. That not only kills the chatroom vibe, but may ruin my mood for the rest of the day, so not my kind of hustle.

KatM
03-30-2016, 11:05 PM
My life is a sob story in itself lol but i'll never display it to public, i go on cam to entertain horny men & get the money, on cam i am a Goddess even in my private life i might suffer & struggle.
I dont care about the money as a number, i care how i make that money & i wanna make them 'happy camming', i want my members to log off happy and satisfied & return for more because i am their fantasy girl, the one who brings happiness in their lives, the one they adore.
I might tell some 'story' to a very good regular but this in exclusive chat let's say, to soften his heart and make him 'loose' his pocket but never ever in public chat, that is not my approach, i care for my reputation LOL, on cam i am a Diva even off cam i might be a mess hahaaa

ETA: by the way, the second reason i work my cam room like i do is because i know the human nature too well to let people see in me more than i want them to see, i am very well aware that members and other models might be watching me invisibly when on cam, i dont want them to have any reason to pick on me or start rumors and ridicule me for the things i do or say on cam.

In this superficial world of cam/ adult industry being famous, different or even real can work against you really. Sometimes.
Yes a lot of jealousy, judgement & misconception around cam performers, i seen this with my own eyes over the years, i got to read a lot of 'forum material' to understand things, when u reach the top in the industry u also reach the 'spot' for all the haters, gossipers & competitors, it comes with the 'ranking' i reckon.
For some people is more difficult to handle success than for others simply, some ignore all the negative aspects and carry on & for some it's really a difficult situation to handle, they get affected then angry and start 'fighting back'.

audritwo
03-30-2016, 11:28 PM
Hey let's refrain from posting cammodel names. <3<3


Rumors are rumors. They suck.

LittleSexBunny
03-31-2016, 12:31 AM
poor one girl who must not be named.... I like her.. we text and she's cool.. maybe we just have the same type of, "money personality." I think it's "stripper mentality" and we all have it to a certain degree... Hope nobody hates me for that. That's just how I think. We all change from the money a bit.... :/ it is what it is... Stay humble. That's my two cents. This job is hard. Mentally and physically. We all need somebody.

KatM
03-31-2016, 05:51 AM
^^^ I questioned the girl a lot last year when she came here on this forum because i happen to know her very well from the very beginning, yes she was and is famous & a great person from what i seen over the years on the other platform she cammed on but i got confused of what is happening to her now, why is she not happy? so i wanted to understand but only now i understand all her actions come from pain actually.

Girl with no name named, pls know u have all my sympathy here, u hurt because people pick on u and are jealous on you, right?!? And u want them to stop the rumors & trolling i reckon.

Well, u have two options here i see, Ignore or Fight back. If u cant ignore then just fight back!!
Make urself a twitter account & fight anyone talking crap about you, fight anyone that causes u trouble, fight like a lioness, ok? I know i do it all the time when needed lol, i am not afraid to fight, i fight people & sites if i know they on the wrong towards me.

Also, u not helping urself by posting ur income in these forums, people are not ready to see that high amounts of money simply, u not helping other models either because they cant make the money u make girl, u are unique simply, there is nobody like you, we all unique in our own ways, some of us can bank on cam using our talents some not.

Just know no matter how much money u make & how much u want to help people as u said before, many will envy you, u cant please everyone & u cant make people love u by showing them ur income. If u need validation find it near the people who really care for you, ur family & friends, just know all the rest are ur competitors.
When u understand this u'll be more happy believe me, IT IS A COMPETITION, it is a jungle.

I am too spiritually evolved to even allow hate & jealousy into my heart but most people are not like this, dont u know & see this already? You should know after soo many years on cam ;)

So, protect urself girl, continue to do what u do cause u do it good and either ignore the haters or fight back with all the tools & resources u have, just know the only person caring about urself is Yourself.
Stay safe & Good luck!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-31-2016, 06:13 AM
Man Stripperweb has gotten weird AF :O

lilmerry
03-31-2016, 06:38 AM
Man Stripperweb has gotten weird AF :O

Too much sugar from easter? Actually, I agree. There has been a bit of an 'off' atmosphere recently, which is why I don't tend to post as much but still observe.

hyori
03-31-2016, 06:55 AM
I thought it was just me! The vibe is so off on CC. I can't seem to get through the threads without wincing. Literally, I feel pain when I read stuff on here.

AlyssaJane
03-31-2016, 08:04 AM
Sorry everyone for using a name. I let the curiosity get the better of me, won't happen again. It wasn't meant to be mean but I see it wasn't fair either.

audritwo
03-31-2016, 06:14 PM
I thought it was just me! The vibe is so off on CC. I can't seem to get through the threads without wincing. Literally, I feel pain when I read stuff on here.

I feel like most threads now need a cyanide capsule when exiting. The baiting, conspiracies, and rehashing of old rumors is mind numbing. I'm kinda done with it all.

Kitcatt
03-31-2016, 08:36 PM
I personally do nice and then just go full cunt. Never go full cunt :)

LittleGianna
04-01-2016, 08:56 PM
Dear "Girl who cannot be named" - you are one of my closest friends and the person who has unselfishly helped me the most. Its ridiculous that banning happens for mere mention of a name on here. Shows the bias of the forum. Since Im real life friends with you i among others know that you really DID suffer a death during that contest and the person who started the rumor is a jealous little twit who has never even come close to earning what you do. But I will say this: you go girl, and keep on raking in $4000 a week because it obviously PISSES A LOT OF PEOPLE OFF!

SweetJulia
04-01-2016, 10:18 PM
A sob story hustle can backfire, cuz it can make more predatory customers think you're desperate enough to do more for less. Plus, I don't like who pity camgirl. This is the best paying job I've ever had and earn more than most if my customers. I have no commute, no boss, make my own schedule, and can ban rude people after cursing them out. It's my world and they're lucky I let them in it, they need to be reminded of that at times :)

caramelcraze
04-01-2016, 10:44 PM
The only time I really care about cammer's sob stories are when they're obviously fake AND involve life threatening diseases. Dog is "sick'? bummer. Roommate left and now you have to pay double the rent the day before it's due? best of luck to you. Car got totaled in an accident and you need a new one? Should've had better car insurance & I hope you're back on your feet soon. Break an ankle and are in a cast? I'll hope for your speedy recovery. That being said, "I have cancer and am going through chemo" but still have all of your head/body hair will make me lose all respect for you & invoke visions of removing all of your body hair myself with an industrial belt sander. Don't fake sick; once it actually happens to you and no one will believe you anymore, you'll be a sorry sicko.

KatM
04-02-2016, 02:17 AM
You know what is the 'funny' part here? That some people have real sob stories from their life they never wanna use on cam while others try to make up sob stories to make money off them.
There are people out there who really been thru dramatic situations in life and they still have flashbacks from the past & have problems coping and then some people come up with extremely heavy made up stories to melt guy's hearts & pockets.
How ironic that is. I will say "never challenge fate" cause u never know when the universe is sending u that exact thing u role-played for profit, it can get real one day.

audritwo
04-02-2016, 09:03 AM
Dear "Girl who cannot be named" - you are one of my closest friends and the person who has unselfishly helped me the most. Its ridiculous that banning happens for mere mention of a name on here. Shows the bias of the forum. Since Im real life friends with you i among others know that you really DID suffer a death during that contest and the person who started the rumor is a jealous little twit who has never even come close to earning what you do. But I will say this: you go girl, and keep on raking in $4000 a week because it obviously PISSES A LOT OF PEOPLE OFF!

Its just a rule not to mention ANY models names.

SimoneGray
04-03-2016, 02:00 PM
Maybe a little late to add to this, but I seldom use my struggles to get money on cam, I have however been upfront about them with a few trusted regs, just because at the time, I'd had those guys for so long that they actually sensed that something was wrong, and in those cases I told the truth. It did feel kinda good to unload onto someone that wasn't close to me. They also then understood why my mood wasn't always happy or why some of my fun seemed a little fake. Did it get me more funds? In some cases yes, but overall not really.

I do think sometimes, if you can talk about the situation at hand, its useful to let your tried and trusted group know, especially if its the kind of stuff that's really life affecting, as it can affect how you are on cam.