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charlie61
03-14-2016, 11:32 PM
^Agreed. It's important to note, too, that women are catty / competitive (partially) because society consistently encourages those qualities in and between women.

LilLadyLux
03-14-2016, 11:39 PM
I have a feeling you come off completely differently to others then you think you do. You may just want to be hyper aware of how you behave and how others react so you can adjust to be more charming to your peers.

red.velvet
03-15-2016, 11:11 AM
I have a feeling you come off completely differently to others then you think you do. You may just want to be hyper aware of how you behave and how others react so you can adjust to be more charming to your peers.

I think LA attracts a number of narcissists and self-centered people teetering on the brink of sociopathy. Women included. That is the average person living there. They put all their value in looks and anything that deviates from the median (like education) is seen as a threat because of the global push for education. Nevermind the fact that education is a business, but it still can lead to a career.

There are a lot of model/actress girls here with the sole intention to become a stay at home wife and that's it. They end up becoming under the radar sexworkers to make ends meet and provide them with the quality of life they think they deserve. Not that anything is wrong with being a stay at home wife, its just not a viable option to accommodate everyone here who wants that because the men here act 13 and chase the newest shiniest toy. So I feel like any time a degree is brought up, it just reminds women without degrees of the reality they are desperately trying to avoid.

LilLadyLux
03-15-2016, 11:47 AM
True. And that could 100% be the case, haters are everywhere. IMO when you have one person reacting negatively to you, fuck 'em, two people, fuck 'em both. If your having the same reaction over and over again you are coming off like a snob. Is it possible you pepper A LOT of your conversations with information about your intellectual prowess? Most people have no reason to know about your education and your languages.

Some people want to separate themselves from others consciously or not, and people will pick up on that and react defensively.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-15-2016, 11:54 AM
I avoid becoming friends with any sexworker. Some are casual acquaintances because we are in the same places at the same times, but I will not be friends with them. Sexwork isn't my career, just a side hobby with an end date and I would never cross paths with these people in any other situation.

You know to a lot of people this is comes off as an insult? I understand being guarded and paying close attention to who you let in your circle. But NO sexworkers? LOL It's like you just elevated yourself. I'm starting to imagine you getting the side eye every time you open your mouth. For many people sex work is a career. So when someone comes along and puts it out there that they're moving on to bigger and better things...it just comes off all wrong. That's probably why they don't wanna be friends with you either. So no real issue there I guess? I've made that mistake before, running my mouth about the future and my ideals etc etc Not everyone is a hater. Sometimes you just have to match the convo to the audience. Keep it lite. Maybe less talking? More listening

red.velvet
03-15-2016, 01:37 PM
^Sorry but when you live in massive cities, you pick and choose who your friends are. You can't be friends with everyone unless you consider friends you know nothing about and randomly see 2 or 3 times per year as your friends. I'm not going to befriend people I have nothing in common with and have nothing to do with my long term goals. That sounds like a waste of time for both parties.

DonaDiabla
03-15-2016, 01:49 PM
OMG, your comments have nothing to do with the op's statements :)


I find a sex workers that have degrees sexy, because I find intelligence sexy (not that everybody who has a degree is intelligent or those without one aren't intelligent, but it at least hints at intelligence).

And when I say I find intelligence sexy, I don't mean it in that bullshit look at how evovled I am way, its entirely self interest.

1. When a smart chick does something really filthy and dirty, its way hotter then a dumb chick, because the hot chick is aware of how dirty she's being, she understands the significance of it, while a dumb chick just doesn't get it.

2. Smart Chicks are better at understanding and following instructions, dumb chicks get confused. I do sympathize, with db chicks, were all stupid at some point in our lives, but it can be annoying.

3. Better at pattern recoginition, makes it easier to teach them how to talk dirty, or they already know how.

4. Better after the action convo.

lemiwinks31
03-15-2016, 02:17 PM
I have a feeling you come off completely differently to others then you think you do. You may just want to be hyper aware of how you behave and how others react so you can adjust to be more charming to your peers.


OP....you might want to read this again. Because it is spot on(and VERY politely worded by the way) You quoted it, but your response had absolutely nothing to do with it.

Surely someone as smart as you can understand what this poster is saying.

lemiwinks31
03-15-2016, 02:21 PM
I think LA attracts a number of narcissists and self-centered people teetering on the brink of sociopathy.



Damn those narcissists.

AnoniCat
03-15-2016, 02:29 PM
Pettiness and cattiness are not limited to the sex worker world and nor just women. The corporate world is full of narcissistic, vindictive sociopaths. I've worked in a Wolf of Wall Street type of environment and there is as much shade and belittling going on there too. Competitive environments bring out the ruthless nature in folks. Shoot, why do you think adderall first became popular at Ivy league colleges? Hell, even in an hourly vanilla job there are those who want to climb the ladder or secure their position.


As a few mentioned already, people feel the need to justify their actions- no matter what they are. If you value shopping and looks, then why would you care about anything else? If you value an education, then not spending money or time to get one seems idiotic. People have vastly different reasons for working in our field. Some may do it just for fame and red-bottoms. Some want to get ahead financially and then get right out, while others may have limited options and mouths to feed. The point is, it's not your place to judge or even worry. Just remember we all have different paths, upbringings, insecurities, triggers and maturity levels.

Perhaps you are in fact, coming off as less than neutral.

There is something called the actor-observer bias: When people judge their own behavior, and they are the actor, they are more likely to attribute their actions to the particular situation than to a generalization about their personality. Yet when an observer is explaining the behavior of another person (the actor), they are more likely to attribute this behavior to the actors’ overall disposition rather than to situational factors.

If you must interact with certain individuals who view you as competition then put your charm skills to use and handle them with care. The next time someone comments on your college education, ability to speak 4 languages and super awesome thin figure- a positive response goes a long way. Something along the lines of "It wasn't easy, but I did it and if you want, you can too. If you ever want to know how I did it, just let me know!" They may not want your help or even care, but it helps deflect the "let them eat cake" vibe.

*When I worked in corporate, I had a female friend who couldn't understand why I or anybody would spend $400+ on a Mont Blanc pen. Despite my efforts to explain that my very wealthy clients would appreciate my knowledge and use of one and trust me with more of their money, she thought it was pointless. She told me I was stupid for having it. And I of course, thought she was a basic broad for not being able to understand the concept (at the time). Kinda like the salad fork analogy.

red.velvet
03-15-2016, 02:31 PM
^I live in LA guys. Of course I smile and nod a lot. It is the culture here. I don't walk around hostile. I am very personable. I would never bring up anything intimidating in front of others. Its other girls who bring it up. Other girls who DO know me, and who ask about me or introduce me to others. Everyone around hears these conversations and acts accordingly. I am more than aware that you often need to act fake and downplay successes in order to gain trust and get what you want. More than aware lol. This is common where I am located.


OP....you might want to read this again. Because it is spot on(and VERY politely worded by the way) You quoted it, but your response had absolutely nothing to do with it.

Surely someone as smart as you can understand what this poster is saying.

Its not very accurate. I have a huge social life outside of sexwork and these problems are only limited to sexwork girls. I am very well liked outside sexwork and always have been :)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-15-2016, 02:35 PM
^Sorry but when you live in massive cities, you pick and choose who your friends are. You can't be friends with everyone unless you consider friends you know nothing about and randomly see 2 or 3 times per year as your friends. I'm not going to befriend people I have nothing in common with and have nothing to do with my long term goals. That sounds like a waste of time for both parties.

NO you said I won't be friends with a sexworker. Or ones you only see a few times a year. You didn't say that big city sexworkers are pointless vs. small town. Which is really pointless. The magnitude of your city is not always synonymous with your Mental reach. You just don't know how to talk to people. It seems as if you've already made up you mind that only people of a certain caliber are worthy of your friendship and time. So I'm wondering why are you hanging out on a sex workers forum?

red.velvet
03-15-2016, 02:38 PM
NO you said I won't be friends with a sexworker. Or ones you only see a few times a year. You didn't say that big city sexworkers are pointless vs. small town. Which is really pointless. The magnitude of your city is not always synonymous with your Mental reach. You just don't know how to talk to people. It seems as if you've already made up you mind that only people of a certain caliber are worthy of your friendship and time. So I'm wondering why are you hanging out on a sex workers forum?

I live a very busy life between working full time and doing sexwork on the side. Factor in dating, hobbies, gym, and errands and there's very little time left. I'm not going to befriend a sexworker when I already have a huge network of friends and am more than fulfilled by the ones I already do have.

Specialty forums are excellent resources to increase business and income.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-15-2016, 02:43 PM
You're a snob. That's why people don't like you.

red.velvet
03-15-2016, 02:45 PM
You're a snob. That's why people don't like you.

Not accurate. I am very well liked outside sexwork. I have a nice position at work because I'm well liked. I have lots of friends and always have. I keep to myself around sexworkers and act friendly when the time is right during interactions. Its their problem, not mine, if they don't like me lol. I know it is most definitely jealousy though. Its not every girl, but its a lot of them. I get along great with many sexworkers, just not the insecure or vindictive ones.

I was just posting to see others with the same experience, not to have my life critiqued under a microscope. I'm quite happy with my own life :)

lemiwinks31
03-15-2016, 02:49 PM
^


Its not very accurate. I have a huge social life outside of sexwork and these problems are only limited to sexwork girls. I am very well liked outside sexwork and always have been :)


are you calling me a sexwork girl?

AnoniCat
03-15-2016, 03:14 PM
I live in LA, have a degree from a prestigious private university and am working my way towards a PhD. I'm terrible at learning languages and so I only speak 1. But, like most people, I've got other gifts and talents. I've always been a well liked person, although I tend to keep a small group of friends. Anyway, I say that to say that I haven't had the same negative experiences from other sex workers. But then again, I'm not skinny. Maybe that's what it is.... Guess I need to get down to a size 2 to get the haters.

lemiwinks31
03-15-2016, 03:27 PM
I live in LA, have a degree from a prestigious private university and am working my way towards a PhD. I'm terrible at learning languages and so I only speak 1. But, like most people, I've got other gifts and talents. I've always been a well liked person, although I tend to keep a small group of friends. Anyway, I say that to say that I haven't had the same negative experiences from other sex workers. But then again, I'm not skinny. Maybe that's what it is.... Guess I need to get down to a size 2 to get the haters.

You will probably need to pick up at least one language as well. And you say you are well liked, but have a SMALL group of friends. You will need to up your game there also.(make sure they are outside of sexwork)

AnoniCat
03-15-2016, 06:53 PM
You will probably need to pick up at least one language as well. And you say you are well liked, but have a SMALL group of friends. You will need to up your game there also.(make sure they are outside of sexwork)

I was being cheeky.

Obsession91
03-15-2016, 07:52 PM
You're a snob. That's why people don't like you.

Yeah I can see how people could perceive her as snobbish too.Sometimes I wonder when people try to big themselves up so much is there a deeper issue at hand?

arielbriel
03-15-2016, 09:07 PM
While I appreciate education and I do think some girls at work could benefit from it, I make sure not to make myself holier than thou. I don't want them to feel inferior to me. You never know who can help you with your next pay day so I don't make enemies. I strip so it's a little different but I don't want to be a snob when this chick who may or may not be intelligent can bring me in the room with her, you know? I guess it would be the same with escorting. You said these girls can hinder your money if you get black listed, right? It's time to play nice. =)

red.velvet
03-15-2016, 09:11 PM
While I appreciate education and I do think some girls at work could benefit from it, I make sure not to make myself holier than thou. I don't want them to feel inferior to me. You never know who can help you with your next pay day so I don't make enemies. I strip so it's a little different but I don't want to be a snob when this chick who may or may not be intelligent can bring me in the room with her, you know? I guess it would be the same with escorting. You said these girls can hinder your money if you get black listed, right? It's time to play nice. =)

That's exactly how I think. Again its not ME doing the information letting. Its other girls bringing it up and talking about it. Probably in an attempt to make me SEEM holier than thou, but I'm not even the one commenting about it or bringing it up.

I get along really well with other sexworkers in the real world by the way. Its just SOME that not only make it miserable for me, but miserable for other sexworkers too. They look for things in other people, then take those things and run with them. Trying to get others to turn on you by portraying you to others as something you're not. I am the victim here, not someone purposely rocking the waters. I'm smart enough to know better than to do that because in places like LA, you never know who your next big connection is.

arielbriel
03-15-2016, 09:19 PM
How did they find out all this info about you?

lynn2009
03-15-2016, 09:52 PM
That's exactly how I think. Again its not ME doing the information letting. Its other girls bringing it up and talking about it. Probably in an attempt to make me SEEM holier than thou, but I'm not even the one commenting about it or bringing it up.



FFS, let it go. I worked at one club with some crazy bitch who decided I was a snob and thought I was better than anyone else (things I would never say) and she straight up harassed me and I found out later had told a regular customer she wanted to beat me up in the parking lot. She threw paper clips at me in the club (I guess all she had on her), threw all my shit around in the dressing room, tried to provoke me verbally all the time and all I did was ignore her, eventually the manager bitched her out since she was a fat drug addict and I was presentable and made money. The fact you keep harping on this makes you sound incredibly immature.

red.velvet
03-15-2016, 10:30 PM
How did they find out all this info about you?

You guys, please read the whole thread because I've outlined it pretty clearly.

At escorting hobby meetup style events, which is the only way to make a lot of money as an escort in oversaturated Los Angeles, there are often a lot of catty sexworkers who attend. You often need to attend these to be exposed to these caliber of men who pay well. You won't find these men responding to ads or on sugar daddy websites. Its similar to dancing in that respect.

While there, girls you do know will bring things up because they haven't seen you in awhile, and other girls will hear it. Other girls see added benefits as competition and then act either incredibly rude to you, or try to lower your social standing to get you blacklisted from these type of events. Its most certainly a competition thing, and not something I actively participate in or feed into. It is unavoidable.

I only made this thread to ask about who else has had these types of situations happen to them. Others will comment without reading and then I'm left defending myself over something that isn't accurate. If I don't defend myself, the thread spirals out of control because a poster reads the last couple of comments and assumes whatever conclusions that person has jumped to, are legitimate, when it was a conclusion made from lack of reading or comprehension.

arielbriel
03-15-2016, 10:59 PM
I read the whole thread...

audritwo
03-15-2016, 11:57 PM
This is my opinion.

You come off as a huge snob to me. Personally I think you are too high sniffing your own farts. Just get off it. Who fucking cares what others think and why do you feel this constant need to be right?

People suck. People suck even more when they generalize and stigmatize a group of people.

jekka
03-16-2016, 07:34 AM
Newsflash: you are an escort and a sexworker too! And what's even more bizarre is you apparently don't need to do it and somehow get off on not needing to do it and consider yourself slumming. Slumming on this forum and slumming in real life with other escorts. If this is just a hobby it doesnt seem very fun at all.

Many of us on here are educated but dont feel a need to wear it on our sleeves. Some of us have even taken Socialism Indoctrination 101 I mean Sociology and Chinese! Education level is not an indicator of intelligence, especially this day and age.

lemiwinks31
03-16-2016, 11:03 AM
I was being cheeky.

I figured.....so was I

IvyAdams
03-16-2016, 11:33 AM
OP,
It seems like there might be a lot of unresolved emotion surrounding the fact that you're a sex worker. Maybe you've pushed the guilt into a subconscious level, and the only way to re-assure yourself is to point fingers and blame game it up with everyone else who is in the same industry that you (like it or not) have taken part in. Insecurities scream through the cracks darling, and yours are written all over every single word you say.

I'm sure you're going to respond to this post with some version of...

"I don't have any insecurities. I am brilliant and wonderful and have TONS of friends and live IN LA where dreams come true! Please read the whole thread before posting next time so you can see that I was simply trying to have a conversation about experiences."

I'm going to tell you now not to waste your breath on explaining anything to me. It won't make a difference, you see.. because much like you do when you categorize an entire industry of women (most of whom you have never met), I have already deduced that you have some serious self image issues and instead of seeking a therapist to help you through, you come on this forum and try to make yourself feel better by putting down others who have actually accepted themselves.

Wait for it...

"I don't put down others, I'm simply stating MY experiences from having taken part in sex work, even though I don't need to and it is in NO WAY what I'll be doing for the rest of my life (GOD FORBID!) as well as living in a big city and already having my own group of friends. Insert another thinly veiled insult here to all the women you're talking to on this forum "

The first step is ADMITTING that you have a problem, dear.

...oh, if you ever DO decide to talk to someone about all of this, let me know. I can point you in the direction of some really good therapists that I went to school with. You know, where I got my fancy degree that puts me above everyone else that I talk to. ;)

I know, I know...

"I'm not even the one bringing UP my Degree that I can use to be successful in life! It's all of YOU who consistently bring it up"

44449

red.velvet
03-16-2016, 01:13 PM
Lol I mean if I didn't want this job, I would quit? I obviously enjoy it or I wouldn't do it anymore.

I'm not here to argue about my life, I'm here to find people who have had similar experiences.

audritwo
03-16-2016, 01:43 PM
Wow Ivy, you can predict the future! lol

Velveteen.Rabbit
03-16-2016, 02:01 PM
I'm also in LA and I've mentioned before that people that act in those ways are common here but not so much most other places. The pathological liar girl I talked about in this thread was an escort. I'm not sure she was involved with that scene but she was most definitely invited to those event things from the things she told me. She called them meet and greets and she said it was to increase business but that's all I know. She said she didn't want to go because she had ads up and it draws attention to you from law enforcement. She could have been lying though, so who knows.

But the point is, a lot of those girls in that scene are sociopaths. They also make excellent money and then spend it all on things to increase their networking. I swear it's almost like playing the stock market. In order to get that far though, a lot have to be sociopathic or ultra materialistic because the LA provider scene is dependent on flash and living a glamorous life. So you are definitely encountering sociopaths and a lot of the posters who are replying don't understand because they either haven't lived in LA or aren't a part of that scene here to see how it works.

I mean, I was a victim of it. The girl I wrote about above tried to make everyone hate me by strategically planting seeds and lies. It was scary. But sadly, a lot of the girls here are like that. LA is full of sociopaths, narcissists, and cutthroat girls who refuse to tolerate competition.

LA is for sure its own little world that is hard to understand unless you've lived here. It's all theatrics. Every model girl I know either comes from money or escorts. No one actually makes money off of that. What they do though is use their status and beauty to network in order to secure real job positions or at least sugar daddies. No where else, aside from maybe Manhattan, is actually like this. So if you have never lived and interacted in one of those two worlds, it's impossible to understand because you're only seeing what's presented to the audience/consumer via the media.

Side note, but I hate when people stereotype LA to be a place where dreams come true. I see nowhere where the OP did this, it's other people. 90% of LA is exactly like the stereotype of Compton. The other parts are hard to afford with one income which is why most people have a roommate or a studio. Being the city where dreams come true was definitely a thing before the 1980s, but when the Internet became as advanced as it is now, it basically made LA obsolete for this and very oversaturated. Most people that live here are not involved with acting, modeling, or theater. The ones who are tended to move here after they started to become successful. If people move here to become successful at that, they soon learn within a year of moving here that those careers are non sustainable. No one knows this unless they've lived here for a bit. Like I wrote above, all those people either come from wealth or are escorting to survive. That's why it's not as it seems and one of my biggest pet peeves is people stereotyping it to be something it's not.

AnoniCat
03-16-2016, 02:16 PM
Wait for it...

Off topic, but your profile pic made me do a double take. You're fn' gorgeous! And your hair color: the cat's me-ow. Just had to throw that out there.

AnoniCat
03-16-2016, 02:38 PM
The girl I wrote about above tried to make everyone hate me by strategically planting seeds and lies. It was scary. But sadly, a lot of the girls here are like that. LA is full of sociopaths, narcissists, and cutthroat girls who refuse to tolerate competition.

LA is for sure its own little world that is hard to understand unless you've lived here. It's all theatrics.

I'm not from LA, but I've lived here 10 years. I haven't had the same experience, but I have experienced hateful sociopath girls who tried to fck me over before I even considered sexwork. Perhaps that's why I'm very picky who I let into my personal circle and since I was burned by fake, hostile females I'm much more aware and will not tolerate it. I also don't think the provider scene in LA is limited to the industry scene. There are other niches out there, it's just that it's whats expected and thus the main one. But you're right, the majority of LA is not Beverly Hills. And I wouldn't encourage anyone to come out here to make it big unless they had a solid foundation (getting MFA in acting or something legit) and a way to support themselves otherwise.

The industry sucks. And finding a down to earth girlfriend in LA is like randomly finding a solid gold nugget in your cereal box.

Velveteen.Rabbit
03-16-2016, 02:47 PM
I'm not from LA, but I've lived here 10 years. I haven't had the same experience, but I have experienced hateful sociopath girls who tried to fck me over before I even considered sexwork. Perhaps that's why I'm very picky who I let into my personal circle and since I was burned by fake, hostile females I'm much more aware and will not tolerate it. I also don't think the provider scene in LA is limited to the industry scene. There are other niches out there, it's just that it's whats expected and thus the main one. But you're right, the majority of LA is not Beverly Hills. And I wouldn't encourage anyone to come out here to make it big unless they had a solid foundation (getting MFA in acting or something legit) and a way to support themselves otherwise.

The industry sucks. And finding a down to earth girlfriend in LA is like randomly finding a solid gold nugget in your cereal box.

Yes this is something unique to LA. People move here for all kinds of delusional reasons due to LA's stereotype. That creates an over abdundance like you've never seen before of sociopaths, narcissists, and people doing whatever it takes to become famous or marry rich. This is one of the worst cities to try to marry rich in IMO. All the men act 12 and want this weird glamourous life of dating 30 hot women at once. So you can only imagine how this magnifies issues that are already seen in Sexworker worlds like with borderline and histrionic. I think the high end escort world is a mess from what I have heard and read. Most of the girls want to become more and more famous and then fight to stay at the top. From what I've seen they either make their circle ultra exclusive and tiny or they act like crazy people and do sociopathic things. I've experienced it more than once by more than one girl. Luckily I'm not in that world, but there's a lot of overlap within my circles here I guess so I hear about it. If it's what I'm thinking it is.

There are good groups of people for friends, just everything in LA is hidden and elite. That's the entire culture here, and it often breeds hostility like I guess it does in the escort world. There are good groups here like these: but it can be hard to find in general. I can only imagine how difficult it is for someone whose primary social scene is other escorts. I would probably move away lol

jekka
03-16-2016, 03:10 PM
Velveteen.Rabbit and Red.velvet appear to be the same individual...this is getting weirder.

Velveteen.Rabbit
03-16-2016, 03:18 PM
Velveteen.Rabbit and Red.velvet appear to be the same individual...this is getting weirder.

Because our usernames are set up similarly? That's like rule #1 to not do if you're going to do something like that haha. I had a different username before and many girls know me here because I've gotten PMs about it. Ive had 3 old usernames here since 2008. The last one I don't have the login for. Also, I'm a pro domme not an escort. I've never escorted. We just live in the same city and have a . in our name because my last username I can't log into without my login info.

lemiwinks31
03-16-2016, 03:19 PM
LOL^

good call.



Yes this is something unique to LA. People move here for all kinds of delusional reasons due to LA's stereotype. That creates an over abdundance like you've never seen before of sociopaths, narcissists, and people doing whatever it takes to become famous or marry rich...............



OP: "I think LA attracts a number of narcissists and self-centered people teetering on the brink of sociopathy. Women included. That is the average person living there."

TheWeirdOne
03-16-2016, 03:27 PM
OP,
It seems like there might be a lot of unresolved emotion surrounding the fact that you're a sex worker. Maybe you've pushed the guilt into a subconscious level, and the only way to re-assure yourself is to point fingers and blame game it up with everyone else who is in the same industry that you (like it or not) have taken part in. Insecurities scream through the cracks darling, and yours are written all over every single word you say.

I'm sure you're going to respond to this post with some version of...

"I don't have any insecurities. I am brilliant and wonderful and have TONS of friends and live IN LA where dreams come true! Please read the whole thread before posting next time so you can see that I was simply trying to have a conversation about experiences."

I'm going to tell you now not to waste your breath on explaining anything to me. It won't make a difference, you see.. because much like you do when you categorize an entire industry of women (most of whom you have never met), I have already deduced that you have some serious self image issues and instead of seeking a therapist to help you through, you come on this forum and try to make yourself feel better by putting down others who have actually accepted themselves.

Wait for it...

"I don't put down others, I'm simply stating MY experiences from having taken part in sex work, even though I don't need to and it is in NO WAY what I'll be doing for the rest of my life (GOD FORBID!) as well as living in a big city and already having my own group of friends. Insert another thinly veiled insult here to all the women you're talking to on this forum "

The first step is ADMITTING that you have a problem, dear.

...oh, if you ever DO decide to talk to someone about all of this, let me know. I can point you in the direction of some really good therapists that I went to school with. You know, where I got my fancy degree that puts me above everyone else that I talk to. ;)

I know, I know...

"I'm not even the one bringing UP my Degree that I can use to be successful in life! It's all of YOU who consistently bring it up"

44449

Lol. Epic

red.velvet
03-16-2016, 03:29 PM
LOL^

good call.




"I think LA attracts a number of narcissists and self-centered people teetering on the brink of sociopathy. Women included. That is the average person living there."

I don't understand what you're trying to say. LA has that as a universal stereotype. That part is true.

No, I'm sure there is a function to automatically ban two people with the same IP login. Every forum has that to prevent spam.

lemiwinks31
03-16-2016, 03:29 PM
I'm not here to argue about my life, I'm here to find people who have had similar experiences.


Well then how cool is it that you found velveteen.Rabbit

jekka
03-16-2016, 03:36 PM
So is Velveteen rabbit an imaginary friend or, since she's a dominatrix, is she an alter ego like sahsha fierce? Is she even really a she?

Velveteen.Rabbit
03-16-2016, 03:47 PM
So is Velveteen rabbit an imaginary friend or, since she's a dominatrix, is she an alter ego like sahsha fierce? Is she even really a she?

Read through our posts? I skimmed through hers I'm not tall, Asian, or an escort. I also live in eastside LA and don't often encounter the people she encounters. I also vividly remember disagreeing with her on things. Is AnoniCat also our triplet since she's in LA too? In my car thread alone there's multiple girls from LA who commented. Not gonna be replying unless it's to people who aren't making comments like this lol.

lemiwinks31
03-16-2016, 04:11 PM
Pettiness and cattiness are not limited to the sex worker world and nor just women. The corporate world is full of narcissistic, vindictive sociopaths.


Looks like it might be a threesome.

jekka
03-16-2016, 04:27 PM
Haha goodness! If that's the case, I dont think she's trying to have a conversation with herself, rather trying to steer the conversation how she wants it, kind of showing us what she wants to see.

Yes, apparently there are many nut bags in LA.

red.velvet
03-16-2016, 04:44 PM
Not true. Just reported the thread

audritwo
03-16-2016, 05:11 PM
Good. This thread needs closed. Please stop creating these social experience threads. KTHANKSBAI!

wednesday86
03-16-2016, 05:48 PM
Because our usernames are set up similarly? That's like rule #1 to not do if you're going to do something like that haha. I had a different username before and many girls know me here because I've gotten PMs about it. Ive had 3 old usernames here since 2008. The last one I don't have the login for. Also, I'm a pro domme not an escort. I've never escorted. We just live in the same city and have a . in our name because my last username I can't log into without my login info.

...and you have the exact same writing style, and seem to know an awful lot about each other...and the fact that you're now reporting the thread and trying to close it. Scooby Doo where are you?

AnoniCat
03-16-2016, 09:40 PM
LMAO!!! I can't! This thread. :weeping: :banghead: I'm pretty sure Red.Velvet already said that she's unique.

By LA standards I'm a BBW (size 12), therefore it's likely I'm not in her league *no tea, no shade*. My point is that there is crazy everywhere, it comes in both vanilla and spicy varieties. Also, I think this is the first topic that I've seen Red.Velvet and Velveteen.Rabbit agree on something.


LOL @ social experience threads