View Full Version : Sweetie, I cannot do it for free because...
BadBitch
03-09-2016, 10:29 PM
I've asked this before and I'll ask again....how the fuck don't these assholes get it?? They go from room to room begging. Most likely, girls are giving them the same answer, "Tip me or we can go pvt".
So why do these assholes continue to fucking ask???
laurielegs
03-09-2016, 11:17 PM
good question, I know...
and I bet lots of the models have this question. just a feeling
Because, I, personally, do not like to deal with " u are here just for the money", That leads to things such as " well, u dont worth x price/min or x tips"
There are plenty of men who do get it though. In giving attention to those who don't you may be passing over those who do and who would pay very high rates and leave nice fat tips just because they enjoy watching.
The ones who try to be cheap or complain about price aren't my target market. I usually ban them.
princess_casual
03-10-2016, 02:06 AM
As Tsami said, everyone's got their own hustle... but I want them to know that this is a business transaction, not a free sex chat site. I also want them to know that I don't take any shit.
Sunnylexie
03-10-2016, 12:25 PM
There are plenty of men who do get it though. In giving attention to those who don't you may be passing over those who do and who would pay very high rates and leave nice fat tips just because they enjoy watching.
The ones who try to be cheap or complain about price aren't my target market. I usually ban them.
^^This. "You're here just for money" translates as "I'm here just for freebies".
BadBitch
03-12-2016, 11:00 PM
^^This. "You're here just for money" translates as "I'm here just for freebies".
Yes, yes, yes!!!!
Classy_Katy
03-13-2016, 02:37 AM
You have to consider who else is in your room...you might want to be a bitch to that obvious freeloader but also sitting in your room could be a guy about to take you into a long show, who thinks you're an angel...you may not want to shatter his illusion!
NicoleNichols
03-13-2016, 12:09 PM
I give them one chance, "Sweetie, we can go pvt and do that"... after that it's ban city.
Semyonovna
03-16-2016, 04:09 AM
I don't like to be a complete bitch if guy isn't complete moron, sometimes I give them a peek of my ass in panties if I'm in the mood, but usually I say "I don't like doing stuff for free" which I really don't :D $$$$
SuperPookie
03-16-2016, 10:53 AM
Because this is my job asshole and bills don't pay themselves so get the fuck out of my room you freeloader.
princess_casual
03-16-2016, 12:44 PM
You have to consider who else is in your room...you might want to be a bitch to that obvious freeloader but also sitting in your room could be a guy about to take you into a long show, who thinks you're an angel...you may not want to shatter his illusion!
This is so true. I've noticed that when I'm a bitch to the freeloader, my room tends to clear out. I try to keep my cool for that reason. If it's dead and he's the only one in the room, though... it's on }:D
BadBitch
03-21-2016, 08:25 PM
This is so true. I've noticed that when I'm a bitch to the freeloader, my room tends to clear out. I try to keep my cool for that reason. If it's dead and he's the only one in the room, though... it's on }:D
Yep. Same. I'll type "Tip me for that request, please". Or, I'll just ignore them.
jackiebee
03-21-2016, 10:03 PM
Yep. Same. I'll type "Tip me for that request, please". Or, I'll just ignore them.
Yeah I just post my tip menu in the chat every time they ask. Either they read and tip or leave immediately. Works everytime and I get to stay sweet as pie.
Staples
03-21-2016, 11:24 PM
I use the "sweet girl" hustle but I also make it clear that this is my job. It's just a job that I LOVE. I act like this is the best job in the world (because it is) and I try to make it clear there is nowhere else I would rather be but here helping them get off BUT I still need to be paid for my time. My longest privates have come from the guys I've been the sweetest to.
Shanda1836
03-21-2016, 11:50 PM
I have got to take the time to read this whole thread, this is priceless! I use nice AND ENTERTAINTING freeloaders to help me make money and keep my room going. I just tell them, and I'm on CB, that I have a tip menu, that my clothes come off and vibrator goes off for tokens. When they start begging I tell them "Don't beg, it's not manly, and I'm not your momma." I kick the really rude ones. and I silence the rest to train them.
I really love their excuses, I don't believe in credit, or I don't have enough money, when they really mean they are trying to talk you into for free because they're too cheap to pay for porn. Porn ain't free, but it's become dirt cheap for us to perform, and I'm not willing to go any lower...
I just wanna know how many cam girls they actually get to do things for free? I mean really, there's got to be a payoff for them to continue to beg, in the U.S. that is. Now on Bonga, it's just the way it is.
On the paid sites, they ought to know better, like someone said earlier, there's a notice on their screens1///
Shanda1836
03-21-2016, 11:51 PM
I have got to take the time to read this whole thread, this is priceless! I use nice AND ENTERTAINTING freeloaders to help me make money and keep my room going. I just tell them, and I'm on CB, that I have a tip menu, that my clothes come off and vibrator goes off for tokens. When they start begging I tell them "Don't beg, it's not manly, and I'm not your momma." I kick the really rude ones. and I silence the rest to train them.
I really love their excuses, I don't believe in credit, or I don't have enough money, when they really mean they are trying to talk you into for free because they're too cheap to pay for porn. Porn ain't free, but it's become dirt cheap for us to perform, and I'm not willing to go any lower...
I just wanna know how many cam girls they actually get to do things for free? I mean really, there's got to be a payoff for them to continue to beg, in the U.S. that is. Now on Bonga, it's just the way it is.
On the paid sites, they ought to know better, like someone said earlier, there's a notice on their screens!
Sunnylexie
03-22-2016, 03:52 AM
If someone brings up genitals, I bring up money. Yeah I'm "all about money"! You're all about your dick, to each their own.
Because this is my job asshole and bills don't pay themselves so get the fuck out of my room you freeloader.
This. Yes. this. By the way- this. Did I mention--this? ^^^^^^^^^^
But then again the guys thinking that we don't have to pay for the roof over our heads, the light bill, the car, gas, the pets, food, phone, cable, credit card,ect are probably the same guys that think this is real. That girl he's watching really gets off on fucking a bat/fist/multiple dildoes. Anal 20 x a day with the biggest toy. And hell, she doesn't need money for anything besides buying new sex toys and lingerie. There just is no explaining to these types of guys. They should just be castrated so they don't breed stupid.
BadBitch
04-04-2016, 03:08 PM
This. Yes. this. By the way- this. Did I mention--this? ^^^^^^^^^^
But then again the guys thinking that we don't have to pay for the roof over our heads, the light bill, the car, gas, the pets, food, phone, cable, credit card,ect are probably the same guys that think this is real. That girl he's watching really gets off on fucking a bat/fist/multiple dildoes. Anal 20 x a day with the biggest toy. And hell, she doesn't need money for anything besides buying new sex toys and lingerie. There just is no explaining to these types of guys. They should just be castrated so they don't breed stupid.
Yeah, I've discovered that these men are fucking morons.
Melyssax
04-05-2016, 04:15 PM
For some reason in the sex industry many people on both sides, the sex workers and customers, don't want to acknowledge the elephant in the room by stating we are only here one reason which is money. I do not know why some guys catch an attitude when they realize they have to pay for services especially it is out in the open. When you go to a strip club, cam site, escort site,ect. it is visible you have to pay money to get what you are looking. It is not like we are in a romantic relationship with a person and I am misleading the individual that I love him when I am using him for the money.
Those passive aggressive tactics are attempts to make the sex worker feel bad because the guy does not want to pay or they are looking for a relationship in the adult industry and he realized the girl has no interest forming a romantic relationship after buying their services.
Depending on the request, I will say tip or take me private because I will get in trouble with the site. If they continue to beg, I will ban the person without making a scene.
ALL
Of
T H I S!
Melyssax
04-05-2016, 04:23 PM
I'm not as nice as y'all are when dealing with freeloaders. Sure, I'm friendly and polite, and answer a few of their questions. But I'm not gonna spend 10 minutes answering questions about my age, where I'm from, and what's the best dick I've ever had, etc. And when the line of questioning turns into "Ever had white cock, bb?," that just tells me that they're trying to get off to my responses for free. When I've had enough of the free chitchat (and I'm referring to this ImLive feature where I'm in 'private chat only' mode, and a window pops up where guys wanna talk me to death), I say something like "If you'd like to chat further and see me live on cam, I'm available now for private." The other day there was this guy on there talking me to death, and when I told him this, he said he can't spend money on there because he's a college student.
I don't know why a guy would come right out and tell a cam girl he can't spend money on her, and think it's okay to continue sitting there making small talk. This isn't one of those free AOL chatrooms from the 90s. I would be embarrassed to go to my favorite karaoke spot, sit at the bar, and tell the bartender "I don't have money, so I'm just gonna sit here, stare at your boobs, and not buy anything." I'd just keep my ass at home, because I'd rather not be a freeloader and earn the reputation of being a freeloader. I'd rather return at a later date when I can spend a little money.
And this...
BadBitch
04-05-2016, 08:54 PM
And this...
Yep, I always tell them that it's not a 90's AOL chatroom.
dahlia_love
06-04-2016, 09:19 PM
Sweetie I can not do it for free because....
I am not Costco
There are no free samples here
anonymous camgirl
06-05-2016, 03:32 PM
Because I am a WHORE who doesn't want to be POOR!.. that's my new line when someone calls me a whore.. hehehe
anonymous camgirl
06-05-2016, 03:33 PM
This is not Burger King!.. You cannot have it your way!
anonymous camgirl
06-05-2016, 03:34 PM
Because if I wanted to be used and taken advantage of honey, I'll go on a date!.. lmao
KPTfiend
06-05-2016, 04:30 PM
I think the one that's worked best for me so far is:
"I'm cheap and easy baby but I'm not free."
It's not a very classy thing to say I supppse lol but reminding them that this actualy is pretty cheap and easy compared to what it wpuld take/cost in real life. If you (they) walk up to a random girl you find attractive and ask her to pretend to be totaly into you and fuck herself in front of you til you cum for 10 minutes and you'll give her 20 dollars- She's going to say NO and probably call the cops hahah. Essentialy they are already getting a pretty sweet deal even if it's 5per min. They need to be reminded.
imelly21
06-05-2016, 04:36 PM
"I'm cheap and easy baby but I'm not free."
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whatever works! thats awesome to remind them THIS is not free! WE are not free!. I get it they get confused. Cause of the free chat. The free video chat .And the free lots of things lots of us do before a show. Most of us do it . I think I can count on 1 hand the models who really do not show anything other than their face and part of the upper body. Thats fine. Whatever works for them. Even more so they remind these guys that we are not free. GOOD for them if they can pull that off. Honestly. It takes patience and skills in today's camming world.
Cutie101
06-05-2016, 05:04 PM
Because I am not stupid and I am on a paid live site for a reason, otherwise I would have been on facebook asking for dick pics.
DancesWithSloths
06-06-2016, 01:57 AM
I get it they get confused. Cause of the free chat.
I've started referring to free chat as "guest chat" in all conversations with dudes, because guest/paid distinction is less confusing to the poor dears.