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lSexyS2
04-04-2016, 10:13 AM
I'm going to take the unpopular route here...

OP, I'm seeing a lot of holes and excuses here. You gotta stop making excuses and just do what you gotta do. Love yourself. First things first, I'm glad you got some food for a few weeks. I hope you can get on Daily Pay like so many have suggested. You need to eat and take better care and love of yourself, first.

Also might I suggest lowering your mygofundme to maybe a few hundred if you're accepting money for groceries? You'll get to a small goal a lot faster. As much as debt is a problem, it's still your personal debt, and I don't think too many people will help you raise $10k for that.

Join DP as soon as you can. Once you're all caught up with necessities (not your debtors) upgrade your look by investing in quality wigs, make up, lashes. You'll boost your income big time that way. Good luck!

Can someone suggest an actual amount, cause I don't really know go fund that well, just put a random number to create it

kortneykay
04-04-2016, 10:20 AM
Can someone suggest an actual amount, cause I don't really know go fund that well, just put a random number to create it

200-300GBP or $300-400USD should suffice. You want to get the most help, the quickest way possible.

Miss-Trust
04-04-2016, 10:30 AM
Sexy you have 88 pouches of cat food that should arrive between the 7th and 9th April so you have an extra £20 free to eat, pay debts etc with this month.

I don't have anything else spare at the tick, but when Ive paid my next lot of bills off IM happy to send over a bit more.

If your comfortable with me sending you money via either PayPal or to your bank account, then PM me your details. Otherwise I'll keep on getting bits from Amazon.

I would give you money via your gofundme campaign but the money not instant and I'd rather all of the money GOTO you instead of paying them a % of it.

Stick with it hun and you certainly don't need to sell any of your pets. Your friend obviously has a very cold heart!

Xxx

lSexyS2
04-04-2016, 11:22 AM
Sexy you have 88 pouches of cat food that should arrive between the 7th and 9th April so you have an extra £20 free to eat, pay debts etc with this month.

I don't have anything else spare at the tick, but when Ive paid my next lot of bills off IM happy to send over a bit more.

If your comfortable with me sending you money via either PayPal or to your bank account, then PM me your details. Otherwise I'll keep on getting bits from Amazon.

I would give you money via your gofundme campaign but the money not instant and I'd rather all of the money GOTO you instead of paying them a % of it.

Stick with it hun and you certainly don't need to sell any of your pets. Your friend obviously has a very cold heart!

Xxx

THANK YOU, THANK YOU

Gofundme also takes a big chunk of anything given

Redcandy
04-04-2016, 12:21 PM
THANK YOU, THANK YOU

Gofundme also takes a big chunk of anything given

Not sure how else to get money to you ISexy. Do you want me to send it to your gofund or do you have a Paypal?

SimoneGray
04-04-2016, 12:37 PM
Set up a Paypal for girls that can use that service, you also get a 100% of the money. If you need Amazon gift cards, also let us know. I can't use paypal due to country restrictions, but I will see if I can tip into your gofundme. If not, do you have Payoneer or Paxum? Because those can be funded person to person as well.

TheBrownFox
04-04-2016, 12:53 PM
ISexy, I'm on the bus reading your pm. I need your PayPal email address. What you sent me looks like it's a link? I know you're in the UK. I hate reading StripperWeb from a cell phone. Lol. I'll be home in 10 minutes. Then I can send the money via PayPal.

lSexyS2
04-04-2016, 12:56 PM
I have a payoneer, gofundme, I have a wishlist on amazon with some groceries and etc but think it's a bit messy due to the 3rd seller thingy... but can use amazon giftcard to get the items instead, pm if you want the email, plus i can get things not available on amazon through amazon 3rd, I have a free student premium trial so can even get basics like milk and eggs with amazon. I have paypal but I have to be very cautious who I give it to as some people can be on here pretending to be girls :( but you can pm me if thats the option you want, again everyone, if you yourselves need the money don't worry, don't put yourselves into difficulties because of myself. If you send money and want to see a receipt let me know, or want me to buy something specific like packet of beans and pasta, please allow me to get noodles also, as as low value nutrition they may be they do help fill the gaps, especially if I need a meal at college, or run out of food for a few days, they have been my holy grail.

lSexyS2
04-04-2016, 12:59 PM
ISexy, I'm on the bus reading your pm. I need your PayPal email address. What you sent me looks like it's a link? I know you're in the UK. I hate reading StripperWeb from a cell phone. Lol. I'll be home in 10 minutes. Then I can send the money via PayPal.

the link is a paypal service called paypal me, you can google it to double check, basically a new service paypal offer where you can make a link for friends or family to pay you http://www.pcworld.com/article/2978809/web-apps/paypal-launches-paypal-me-a-person-to-person-payment-service.html meant to make it saffer

TheBrownFox
04-04-2016, 01:00 PM
The absolute fastest way to send her money for something to eat would probably be an e-giftcard to a local restaurant chain or grocery store chain, no processing time, no need for personal info apart from email

Ok, I love this idea! ISexy, I don't drive, please give me a list of the grocery stores and restaurants near you. My bus stop is up next, and when I walk through my door I'll hop onto my laptop and send you an e-gift card, if you'd rather do that. Please respond to me asap.

Thanks, Missbeth!

lSexyS2
04-04-2016, 01:13 PM
Ok, I love this idea! ISexy, I don't drive, please give me a list of the grocery stores and restaurants near you. My bus stop is up next, and when I walk through my door I'll hop onto my laptop and send you an e-gift card, if you'd rather do that. Please respond to me asap.

Thanks, Missbeth!

ASDA TESCO Sainsburys Morrisons

Found this site
edit found this M&S but they are the posh supermarket can get more in the others, Tesco is a bit more pricy but can have good promotions

but all of them seem to require real cards, posted to the sender


edit they seem to have e vouchers for many stores including supermarkets

lSexyS2
04-04-2016, 01:16 PM
last one (edit)

TheBrownFox
04-04-2016, 01:23 PM
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Yeah, I see that. :( I'll probably just do PayPal then. Not really liking the idea of needing your real address. They just won't make it easy on us, will they? Lol. I'm taking my son to get his haircut in about a half hour, but I'm gonna do this first and will post here shortly once it's gone through.

TheBrownFox
04-04-2016, 01:31 PM
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They'll only let me send in increments of 1 GBP, 5 GBP, or 10 GBP. Wtf. I wanna send more than that. Do you want me to put in 10 GBP, and just order a bunch of them (Will they let you redeem several 10 GBP vouchers in one trip? Lol.)?

lSexyS2
04-04-2016, 01:42 PM
Is it risky to put my paypal email here?

TheBrownFox
04-04-2016, 01:48 PM
Okay, I sent you some money via the PayPal.me option. You will get £75.00 GBP, and the funds will be available to you on April 5th.

Miss-Trust
04-04-2016, 01:50 PM
Don't put your email in the forum in public hun. Just PM the people that ask to send you PayPal money with your email. X

Cam_Model_Jess
04-04-2016, 02:05 PM
Okay, so I don't expect anything, and if anyone does give let me know if you'll let me pay you back once I get sorted.

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It seems like none of the grocery items can be sent to a wishlist address. :(

lSexyS2
04-04-2016, 02:35 PM
I can give a paypal add to the girls per request if you're okay with it, if you want something specefic to be bought let me know. Thanks for all and any help so far, will have some extra groceries soon thanks to TheBrownFox

loveshooks
04-04-2016, 06:16 PM
received some reports about this thread

know I come off as the bad guy here but this thread isn't ok. and I think I'm far to the left of most of y'all so hope this is received with the spirit intended

OP, sincerely wish you the best and hope you've found some help that benefits you here. Both tangible and in-, both help remind us that not everyone sucks on a really bad day and I hope you're able to move forward as a strong woman who won't let life kick her down. We're all tougher than that =)

That being said, not ok to solicit funds here. We are a support community (in more ways than one, as you've found) and if you want to do some social media stuff independently more power to ya. but this thread is closed and all links about to be removed. changes the culture of this site is threads like this stand, hope you can understand that

and sincerely, wish you the best

keep yo head up