View Full Version : Has this happened to anyone else?
TrifilinCamHo
04-05-2016, 07:19 PM
Uh...what?
Don't feed the trolls.
SimoneGray
04-05-2016, 07:34 PM
Hey OP, please give us an update, even if its just to let us know you're ok...this situation overall is rather worrisome.
Magical_Hoohah
04-05-2016, 07:49 PM
Wew damn I need a cigarette after reading this
LOL! Didn't realize it was so pornographic. I haven't gotten laid in a month or so, and I might be getting a bit "frustrated" with cocks that aren't attached to a person. :P
On another side note, I don't know very much about mental/emotional abuse, and you ladies are so enlightening! I think that in my next relationship, I'll be more attuned to what is acceptable behavior and what is borderline abusive, so thank you guys for always calling out abuse when it shows up on the forum.
LOL! Didn't realize it was so pornographic. I haven't gotten laid in a month or so, and I might be getting a bit "frustrated" with cocks that aren't attached to a person. :P
On another side note, I don't know very much about mental/emotional abuse, and you ladies are so enlightening! I think that in my next relationship, I'll be more attuned to what is acceptable behavior and what is borderline abusive, so thank you guys for always calling out abuse when it shows up on the forum.
On a funny side note here, i forgot how real cock feels lol, it's been few years already ;)
I miss one but it has to be attached to a nice good man, unless i meet him i stay single & use my toys or fingers for sexual satisfaction, the effect is almost the same, same like for our members lol, better a quick masturbation/ orgasm on or off cam & a decent life free of stress (if connected to a douche next to u) than a real cock of a douche plus all the mess he comes with.
I prefer to be single and happy than in a bad relationship & unhappy.
Stay safe, be happy babes, always decide what is best for YOU. xx
TheBrownFox
04-06-2016, 07:02 AM
Don't feed the trolls.
I wasn't, actually. I was genuinely asking WTF they were talking about, as I wasn't 100% sure if they were a troll (I figured they were), or if they were just foolishly agreeing with the OP's boyfriend that her toy usage was the problem.
kitty_frost
04-06-2016, 09:44 PM
Everyone on here has already told you to dump the D, but I'm here to enforce it. My first relationship was emotionally abusive and he would always make me feel awful about myself, but he would phrase it so it sounded like my fault. He would yell at me for half an hour, and then tell me it only happened because I made him mad, and I shouldn't do that next time. Problem was, every day he was mad about something different. For 2 years he made me feel like shit, so it made sense to stay with him, because he was pretty shit too. When I finally broke up with him it was amazing how free I felt.
The problem with abusers is they're only nice while they're getting what they want, and when they're not, they manipulate you until you give them it. This can happen to any woman(or man), because abusers are very practiced at finding out how to best get to you. Right now this man is getting a free home and free sex, and I'm assuming free things that come along with living with someone else, like food. He may have already known you were camming, but many guys have the idea that you'll stop, or at least cam much less, if they're man enough for you. Heavens knows I've had enough guys tell me that if I come live with them I won't need to cam because they can fuck me all day every day (like any girl actually wants that). Your guy has lived with you long enough to realize that you're not going to stop camming, and he's probably realized that you actually enjoy doing it, and not just for the money. This has probably made him feel insecure, and so he's trying to manipulate you to stop doing the thing he doesn't like.
Also, You wouldn't take it if he started saying things like "You know, you use to be skinnier. I spend a lot of time hugging you and even if you don't think so, I know you've gained some weight." You'd dump his ass in a moment, right? He's saying the same thing to you now, but because girls are sadly ingrained to think that their vaginas are for other peoples pleasure more than their own, it sounds much more acceptable for him to say it to you. your body is for you, and you alone. You can share it with people, and if they don't like it they don't have to take it.
caramelcraze
04-07-2016, 02:36 AM
Has he found a job yet?
Why are you wasting your time with this shrimp dick loser? Are you a glutton for disappointment? I just don't understand the appeal. Like he's verbally abusive, doesn't know how to communicate, has NO money, & apparently has a small dick... Like at this point even if he looks like David Beckham (sexy accent included), & I'd kick him to the curb for a dude that looked like mick jagger but treated me well... or at least contributed to the household.
Lose the pinky packer, get a maid, get a dog if you're lonely, buy a killer dildo with the money you save from NOT taking care of him, & live happily ever after.
TheBrownFox
04-07-2016, 10:01 PM
^Haha, caramelcraze! The first time I watched Gran Torino, Clint Eastwood's 'shrimp dick' remark had me DYIN', and I was like "I'm sooo using that when dealing with trolls and loser guys!"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVLoc_iOiRY
caramelcraze
04-11-2016, 06:23 AM
^Haha, caramelcraze! The first time I watched Gran Torino, Clint Eastwood's 'shrimp dick' remark had me DYIN', and I was like "I'm sooo using that when dealing with trolls and loser guys!"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVLoc_iOiRY
OMFG :') I've never seen this! Totally love it though. I first heard it used on a SPH blog and thought it was the funniest phrase I'd ever heard.