View Full Version : Dealing with Clients who claim to be in love
avalon_rose
06-11-2016, 05:20 PM
Girl, yes! These guys are a trip. Like really? You know what it was from day 1. They change on you and guilt trip and trap you into feeling some type of way. No sir. Business is business. Dude was trying to visit for a week saying once he's here he won't wanna go back. So I asked if I were to say yes, would he be compensating me $5k that week for loss of income? All of a sudden the claws came out. "You're just a golddigger, I thought I meant more to you." "I don't want to fuck, I just want to grab a coffee." "I don't have to pay to hang out with a woman, I'm XYZ and paying for camshows is different." and my all time fav. "You know you're going to end up alone. No guy is going to want a money hungry woman." I just had to laugh and ask why he thought that being lonely was a bad thing and why he thought I needed or cared for male validation.
I kinda' wanna know what he said next. *grabs popcorn*
kortneykay
06-11-2016, 05:26 PM
I had many of them, they all eventually stop paying, but still claiming to be in love. All they want is free stuff. Last night, my best paying custie and who was there since I started camming came to my room and sit there to talk, in free chat, without spending a dime, about how lonely he was, how sad he was, how bad his misery was, completely killing the mood, FOR FREE. I used to put up with that because he was actually a good paying member, not anymore. He became a frog, and this not necessarily happen overnight, but ALWAYS happen, eventually.
Yawl better quit putting it down on them like that. Working these men so good you're making them fall in love with a bih. HAHA! We're out here virtually pussy whipping these guys and fucking up our own income! LMAO.
kortneykay
06-11-2016, 05:49 PM
I kinda' wanna know what he said next. *grabs popcorn*
He basically said that he looked past my job(aww that's so sweet of him), fell in love with me, and just wanted to meet me. That if I just met him (and probably fell on his golden penis) that I wouldn't want him to ever leave. And when I said no...He also said that girls like me in my industry would grow old lonely, and that I was acting like a bitch, and how sex work wasn't a real job. Basically he thought guilt tripping me would work.
To come to his defense, he is a great guy- and I did lead him on a bit because I did develop feelings for him- or so I thought until we got into it. We've had some heated arguments and it even got to the point I gave him FREE shows because we were 'dating'. I'd spend hours talking to him about vanilla shit over skype. But as amazing as he is- it's the same song. They fall for you, you fall for them and your money disappears. Nah, son. A guy who loves and cares about you understands that as a woman you need to be secure and the only way clients can do that is to come off that cheese.
I refuse to get into a relationship with a man who would only support me if I was dating him and not charging him. Fuck that. He's already told me he hated that he was a client and how other guys getting shows from me would hurt him. And how he needed to be sedated to deal with dating a sex worker. Fuck. That.
Even after I cut it off he wished me well. However I'm not going to allow even Jesus Christ to meet me in person for free if he met me online working, nor am I going to allow any may to insult me and my fellow sex working sisters. Sorry not sorry.
He's foine as fuck and his family has $$ and under certain circumstances I'd be all for it but- nah. I'd rather die lonely surrounded by the shit I bought with my hard earned whore money, and the people I love than, share my REAL life with a guy who feels not only a certain way about my job and industry- but who thinks men validate women and speaks so poorly about my future.
avalon_rose
06-11-2016, 06:08 PM
He basically said that he looked past my job(aww that's so sweet of him), fell in love with me, and just wanted to meet me. That if I just met him (and probably fell on his golden penis) that I wouldn't want him to ever leave. And when I said no...He also said that girls like me in my industry would grow old lonely, and that I was acting like a bitch, and how sex work wasn't a real job. Basically he thought guilt tripping me would work.
To come to his defense, he is a great guy- and I did lead him on a bit because I did develop feelings for him- or so I thought until we got into it. We've had some heated arguments and it even got to the point I gave him FREE shows because we were 'dating'. I'd spend hours talking to him about vanilla shit over skype. But as amazing as he is- it's the same song. They fall for you, you fall for them and your money disappears. Nah, son. A guy who loves and cares about you understands that as a woman you need to be secure and the only way clients can do that is to come off that cheese.
I refuse to get into a relationship with a man who would only support me if I was dating him and not charging him. Fuck that. He's already told me he hated that he was a client and how other guys getting shows from me would hurt him. And how he needed to be sedated to deal with dating a sex worker. Fuck. That.
Even after I cut it off he wished me well. However I'm not going to allow even Jesus Christ to meet me in person for free if he met me online working, nor am I going to allow any may to insult me and my fellow sex working sisters. Sorry not sorry.
He's foine as fuck and his family has $$ and under certain circumstances I'd be all for it but- nah. I'd rather die lonely surrounded by the shit I bought with my hard earned whore money, and the people I love than, share my REAL life with a guy who feels not only a certain way about my job and industry- but who thinks men validate women and speaks so poorly about my future.
Where are the preachy hands when I need them?!
anonymous camgirl
06-12-2016, 06:36 AM
I'd rather be a WHORE than be POOR and deal with a man and his bad behavior, bad manners, narcissistic, ego-tripping, manipulation, guilt trips, gas lighting , sociopathic , psychopathic bullshit.
He basically said that he looked past my job(aww that's so sweet of him), fell in love with me, and just wanted to meet me. That if I just met him (and probably fell on his golden penis) that I wouldn't want him to ever leave. And when I said no...He also said that girls like me in my industry would grow old lonely, and that I was acting like a bitch, and how sex work wasn't a real job. Basically he thought guilt tripping me would work.
To come to his defense, he is a great guy- and I did lead him on a bit because I did develop feelings for him- or so I thought until we got into it. We've had some heated arguments and it even got to the point I gave him FREE shows because we were 'dating'. I'd spend hours talking to him about vanilla shit over skype. But as amazing as he is- it's the same song. They fall for you, you fall for them and your money disappears. Nah, son. A guy who loves and cares about you understands that as a woman you need to be secure and the only way clients can do that is to come off that cheese.
I refuse to get into a relationship with a man who would only support me if I was dating him and not charging him. Fuck that. He's already told me he hated that he was a client and how other guys getting shows from me would hurt him. And how he needed to be sedated to deal with dating a sex worker. Fuck. That.
Even after I cut it off he wished me well. However I'm not going to allow even Jesus Christ to meet me in person for free if he met me online working, nor am I going to allow any may to insult me and my fellow sex working sisters. Sorry not sorry.
He's foine as fuck and his family has $$ and under certain circumstances I'd be all for it but- nah. I'd rather die lonely surrounded by the shit I bought with my hard earned whore money, and the people I love than, share my REAL life with a guy who feels not only a certain way about my job and industry- but who thinks men validate women and speaks so poorly about my future.
kortneykay
06-12-2016, 11:42 AM
I'd rather be a WHORE than be POOR and deal with a man and his bad behavior, bad manners, narcissistic, ego-tripping, manipulation, guilt trips, gas lighting , sociopathic , psychopathic bullshit.
Amen, sis! But thankfully sex workers don't have to be poor, lol. They want us to be miserable so bad and want to paint us all with the same brush.