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Elektra Luxx
06-30-2016, 09:08 PM
...this thread, was not meant for us escorts. When people say, "everybody has a price." That statement was referring to something people don't normally do. So a monetary incentive might change people's mind and do that "something". We, escorts fuck people for a living and we have an everyday price.

Maybe every now and then, some girls might use a bit condescending tones discuss similar issues. But I don't fucking care when I am too busy counting money.

Escorts are a dirty, little secret. Illegal, immoral and unwanted in proper society, but like you said business is booming.

baer45
07-01-2016, 05:50 AM
Escorts are a dirty, little secret. Illegal, immoral and unwanted in proper society, but like you said business is booming.
All sex work are not well accepted by that "proper society". We live in a hypocritical dog eat dog society. Stay positive, stay safe.

miss.a.p1600
07-01-2016, 04:35 PM
Is it just me or are any other escorts getting a weird vibe from this thread for doing what we do?

Do I have a "yuck" thing about me because I have sex for money? Just a discussion, honesty please.

No you don't have a yuck thing just because of the sex for money issue. You are an awesome lady.

I was thinking the same and I was feeling slightly offended as I read and Im not even an escort. I think thats the nature of the forum. People say whats on their mind not realizing or not caring if what they said was offensive. Ive inadvertently done that myself.

A lot of people think dancers are prostitutes anyways. And some low tier clubs do hire women fresh off the track. Thats why all those idiot men come in the club asking for sex not dances lol.

I personally don't think having sex for money has anything to do with morals per say because There are a plethora of people sucking and fucking for free with loose morals. For example, Go to any college campus and you will find coeds getting wasted, random hookups, indiscriminate raw sex, unnecessary abortions, rapes, and the list goes on. And I bet its these same people looking down on adult work, like okay pot meet kettle?!?

As long as a person is safe (using condoms, dental dams, refraining from mind altering substances) then fuck away (money or not). Something about the exchange of money that instantly makes people think of something 'dirty'. I don't get it because the money helps to improve your economic standing. And if you spend the money wisely then even better.

IDK. I guess everyone has an opinion. To each her own.

Kochana
07-01-2016, 04:56 PM
No. I know it's one of the only things I couldn't do and feel good about myself with.

AlicexEden
07-03-2016, 07:14 PM
No, but I think sex is disgusting and I wouldn't do it for free with a partner either.

lokikola
07-04-2016, 04:28 AM
Removed

SimoneGray
07-04-2016, 05:52 AM
No...but that's not because I think sex for money is yuck or anything. I don't like contact with people that I don't know and sex is very full contact. It's also the reason why I don't strip, because of the contact. For me, I feel safer and more comfortable being behind a webcam knowing that no one can physically touch me.

It's all about deciding what parts of sex and sex work you are comfortable with. I know where I stand and that's what helps me make my decisions in the sex industry etc.

Elektra Luxx
07-04-2016, 08:50 PM
Oh, and someone (customer) also showed us a video of one of our massage girls riding dick. So yeah they definitely trash talk afterwards!

I hate this!!! It's such a violation of a persons privacy and trust. Okay, yes she is doing extras in the club and she shouldn't done in the first place, but I'm sure she doesn't want him showing video of her either.

baer45
07-05-2016, 12:27 PM
I hate this!!! It's such a violation of a persons privacy and trust. Okay, yes she is doing extras in the club and she shouldn't done in the first place, but I'm sure she doesn't want him showing video of her either.

on the side note, it's very difficult to remain private when you are in sex industry. Especially for a starter... we all have some pictures are out there. Some girls might use your pictures in their ads. It took a lot of effort to chase them down one by one. I don't allow any picture or videos during my session. But when you enter someone's mansion and god knows how many hidden cameras are out there. We can only do our part. A girl allow a customer to film the sex act. What do you expect? We all know guys don't feel guilt.

lynn2009
07-05-2016, 01:59 PM
If a guy ever filmed me during sex without permission and made it public in any way I would end his life and not even care if I spent the rest of mine in jail afterwards.

Elektra Luxx
07-05-2016, 06:01 PM
...it's very difficult to remain private when you are in sex industry. Especially for a starter... we all have some pictures are out there. Some girls might use your pictures in their ads.

Yup, somewhere on the internet are some lovely, full-color, studio HD pics of a barely legal, yours truly and the photographer (the handsome male model who was scheduled for the shoot was inexplicably a "no show" and the photographer, older gentleman, graciously volunteered to "fill in.") in some of the raunchiest poses you can think of. And as luck would have it my face is in every pic while his is fortuitously blurred. I still cringe when I think of it. With my luck, I'll be married to someone running for public office and the pics will be splashed all over the news.

baer45
07-05-2016, 08:48 PM
Yup, somewhere on the internet are some lovely, full-color, studio HD pics of a barely legal, yours truly and the photographer (the handsome male model who was scheduled for the shoot was inexplicably a "no show" and the photographer, older gentleman, graciously volunteered to "fill in.") in some of the raunchiest poses you can think of. And as luck would have it my face is in every pic while his is fortuitously blurred. I still cringe when I think of it. With my luck, I'll be married to someone running for public office and the pics will be splashed all over the news.

I've never gone for a photo shoot because I am very confused about who owns those photos. It's me or photographer?

miss.a.p1600
07-05-2016, 10:19 PM
^^^supposed to review the contracts before the photo shoot https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Model_release

I did the same too in my young naive days - i reluctantly allowed myself to be photographed in a sheer top so my nips are probably on the net somewhere.

Zofia
07-06-2016, 05:07 AM
I've never gone for a photo shoot because I am very confused about who owns those photos. It's me or photographer? No question about it, the photographer owns the photos. That said, neither the photographer nor anyone else can publish the photos without a release from the model and the photographer. There is one exception, identifiable people, in public have no right to privacy in a public place. So their photos taken in public places can be published without a release.

Here are some examples:
1. A celebrity walking down the street. A photographer takes the celebrity's photo. He sells it. A magazine publishes it. No problem and the celebrity gets nothing from the publisher.

2. A celebrity goes to a studio for a photo shoot. The photographer gets the celebrity to sign a release (probably pays generously for it, but even if not) the photographer then sells the photos to a magazine. If the magazine wants to publish the photos, it needs to comply with the signed release. That release may require further payment to the model, or it may not. Read carefully.

3. An ordinary person goes to a photographer for some "artful" nudes. She doesn't sign a release, but the photographer agrees to make prints of the photos and give them to the person. Here, the person owns the photos, but so does the photographer. Absent a release, neither can republish the photos. So, if the photos are awesome and the model decides to send some to a porn producer, the porn producer can't then publish them on his website to publicize his new talent. Likewise, the model cannot post the photos on instagram to promote her budding porn career. Unless, she gets a release from the photographer. Likewise, the photographer can run a set of prints for his own collection. He can decorate his office, or wherever with them. But, he cannot publish them by putting them in his own portfolio and presenting those photos to prospective buyers of his services, without a release. Read carefully.

4. Ordinary person (not a celebrity) goes to a Pride parade and bares her breasts. A newspaper photographer takes her picture. The newspaper happens to be an alternative weekly and decides to publish the photos without her release. That, they can do because the ordinary person was in a very public place.

5. A police officer (not in Illinois) pulls someone over and instead of politely giving the driver a ticket, decides to offer racial slurs and ultimately arrests the driver without any cause. All this is caught by someone with a video phone. The videographer decides to post the video online and send it to the local newspaper and all four network TV stations. The Fox station and the local paper decide to publish the video. The city decides to fire the officer, for being impolite in violation of city policy requiring public employees to treat people politely. The police officer wants to sue the Fox station and the newspaper. He loses because he is an identifiable person in a public place with no expectation of privacy.

HTH
Z

baer45
07-06-2016, 07:35 AM
Thanks, That explains.

LilLadyLux
07-06-2016, 10:11 AM
I don't think any escorts should take offense to this thread. You could easily replace "sex with a guy" for stripping and ask women off this forum and get much the same response. "Maybe I'd strip for 50,000 but it would take a lot for me to let men see my precious boobies!". And thank god, if everyone would do it, none of us gals would bank like we do.

Would I have sex with a guy? Sure, but the price would vary. How hot is he? What does he smell like? What kind of sex? Ugly, nasty and anal requires a 50,000+ ha!

miss.a.p1600
07-06-2016, 10:45 AM
I think the offensive part is women on here saying "oh I could never do that, it goes against my morals and I could never live with myself" yet these are the same people one blowjob away from doing the EXACT same sex acts as a sex worker.

A woman is never "free" - she may not flat out accept hundreds/thousands but this is a society in which nothing is free and it cost your boyfriend/husband MONEY to be with you. Unless you're a virgin or sugar mama, Everyone on this thread has indirectly had sex for money or something of monetary value.

People saying these comments are clueless and hypocritical.

But you're right. Sexworkers are supposed to have thick skin and not be easily offended especially by anonymous characters online.

emma383
07-06-2016, 11:17 AM
Depending on the price, the man, the set up, and, 'oh yeah' did I mention THE PRICE...would absolute have sex for money.

Nina_
07-06-2016, 12:16 PM
I have turned down similar deals. I think escorting would mess with my psyche. I guess if I had just one good spending sugar daddy, it would be nice, but I'm still not sure if I would go through with it. Lol

JaneBurgess
07-11-2016, 11:44 PM
My answer to this thread is of course. I have I am and I will continue. Everyone has their price. And I've said this on various places On Stripper Web. I made a lot of money in the VIP room crossing the line and I've made a lot of money as an escort either through people I have met in the VIP room or others who I have met at the Marriott Marquis in Atlanta so there. I find it strange that so many girls on this forum have said no. Perhaps they are married perhaps they do not wish to violate their own personal morals but I still think that represents a minority of girls. When I danced at the Cheetah in Atlanta some of us talked about it. And the fact is that I'm certain that the girls who wouldn't go and be escorts were the ones who didn't talk about it so I received my information from a skewed population of strippers. However there were enough girls who would consider being escorts or who were escorts for me to believe that having sex for money is not an isolated or limited population


I would appreciate if you didnt go in the cam section on this site and say cam performers are beneath you. We could come on here and talk badly about you because you have sex with men for money, but we dont. It might be hard but try something called class because you seriously lack it. We are all sex workers, we should be supporting each other, not being rude.

Vyanka
07-12-2016, 10:03 AM
No. Especially for that amount. I get most of my money until he can't with me any more.

That said, I never met a guy who tempted me with an offer that blinded me. Don't think I'll ever will either, tbh. Sex is too easy these days( ex. Social media/Tinder and hot naive girls fucking pseudo sugar daddies for free or very little from these SD websites).

Cashmere Star
07-17-2016, 12:01 AM
About regrettable photos, I almost had that happen with a scummy photographer (I can PM people in the Bay area his modelmayhem account so you know who to avoid). He seemed professional at first, but once I arrived to his home/studio, he exclaimed some shit about "I didn't know you were Asian, I thought you were russian or something" (wtf) and then shit slowly went down from there. He tried to get me to drink (a big fucking nono, it could've been spiked for all I know) even though I was supposed to make an hour drive back. I pretended to drink some because he kept pestering. Once he thought he got me tipsy, he tried to pressure me to do sexual poses with my ass spread n shit. I looked him in the eye and said "no" in an stern voice. Then he paid me more than I asked for, and I went home.

I didn't feel like my life was in danger, he was smaller than I was honestly. But if I gave in I would've regretted it forever. Still makes me insulted and dirty just thinking about it.

Another is I did do a photoshoot in my stripper gear for a good pay ($120/hr) but once I was shown the pictures, I got so mad because the lighting and everything was fucking horrendous and I looked flat and fat. I am not fat at all in real life, what the fuck is wrong with you, photographer? They never gave me any model release, though they said they would. I don't know if they'll use any of the photos of me for anything, they were pretty shitty anyway and if they ever surface into the public I'll be so mad. Mad not because they're nude pictures of me, but mad because they make me look fat and ugly goddammit. I wouldn't care much if there was a hot naked pic of me floating in the internet lol.

Obsession91
07-17-2016, 10:09 PM
Ladies concerned about privacy especially escorts, they also make hidden recording device detectors for about $50-100 if you feel you'd like to make that investment.Sweep the areas before anything starts (private dances, escort session or massage) It's seriously creepy to know that they even make eye-wear(glasses) containing hidden cameras.

And omg @missap1600 one blowjob away that shit was fckin hilarious & genius {stealing it}.

In regards to the topic I don't have the guts to do it + I barely have sex as it is.I don't see anything wrong with women who do though as long as it's not interfering with my money $$$$ idgaf.I think that's also why I have such an admiration for escorts, it seriously takes balls & then some.

Cashmere Star
07-18-2016, 04:53 AM
Ladies concerned about privacy especially escorts, they also make hidden recording device detectors for about $50-100 if you feel you'd like to make that investment.Sweep the areas before anything starts (private dances, escort session or massage) It's seriously creepy to know that they even make eye-wear(glasses) containing hidden cameras.

And omg @missap1600 one blowjob away that shit was fckin hilarious & genius {stealing it}.

In regards to the topic I don't have the guts to do it + I barely have sex as it is.I don't see anything wrong with women who do though as long as it's not interfering with my money $$$$ idgaf.I think that's also why I have such an admiration for escorts, it seriously takes balls & then some.

Thanks, I'll look into the device recorder detectors. Didn't even know that was a thing!

btw love your sig pics :p

LoveyDovey
07-30-2016, 12:04 PM
I couldn't do it, no judgement to those here who do. Sex is a spiritual and emotional thing to me. I'm a little conservative as a stripper. In my town we give fully clothed lap dances and I wouldn't even want to give a lapdance topless out of fear that someone will try and eat my boob. Kissing, sex, making out are for boyfriend only. If you guys can do it, cool, but I just couldnt. I just feel it would create to much drama to my inner world.

Obsession91
07-30-2016, 01:04 PM
A fully clothed lapdance :O:O:O
Ummm so nobody gets naked? If so how are you a stripper?:O Is it a bar or something?

22lligm
07-30-2016, 01:23 PM
She probably means bikini dance? That's how it was in my old city too strictly bikini lap dances.

carmen_b
07-30-2016, 02:31 PM
^ That's interesting ! Never worked in a bikini place!

wish
07-30-2016, 04:41 PM
I've tried it once...no twice. I did it the first time for this old nasty guy who couldn't get it up and spent 2 hours trying to stuff a soft dick in me and eating my pussy he gave me $2500 which is what he promised me. I met him on a sugar daddy site. He called to schedule another date with me a few weeks later. He wanted to pay me the same price and spend the weekend with me. I said no as politely as I could think to while I throw up in my mouth a little. We used protection.
The second time I met him on a sugar daddy site too. He was hot in the fact that he said he was 35 and when I googled him found out he was 53. I don't know why exactly but he promised me $500 and I took it. But I didn't allow him to enjoy it really because I told him I didn't want to do it on the first date and he kept begging literally. I wouldn't touch him or let him eat me and I timed him.
Honestly I don't feel any way about it. It was just an experience. I feel better that I was paid then a few of the guys I let hit for free. Would I do it again? If the price was right yes but I've since deleted my sugar daddy profiles so I doubt that's going to happen.

fbsmgirl
07-30-2016, 04:52 PM
did it for much less.....oh yeah!
Same here! And it was FUN!


Is it just me or are any other escorts getting a weird vibe from this thread for doing what we do?

Do I have a "yuck" thing about me because I have sex for money? Just a discussion, honesty please.

Yeah... I got the same vibe and it's funny. I mean... really. I don't know what bubble these women are living in but to most cities we're all just "whores" anyway. I don't think the OP wanted a response from actual escorts. 5k? *eyeroll*

22lligm
07-30-2016, 04:54 PM
I probably would for a high enough price. I mean a guy gave me like 2k once to literally just hangout for like an hour or two so I always compare everything to that. Like it would have to be over 2k for me to do it. And the guy would have to be somewhat decent looking because I don't think I could physically have sex with someone really old or really gross lol. But one super lame reason why I couldn't be an escort is I would feel pressure to give the guy like amazing sex and I suck (no pun intended) at giving head lol the guy would probably ask for a refund after. Like wow I paid for that? Lol

We had a rabbit like you
07-30-2016, 08:26 PM
Same here! And it was FUN!



Yeah... I got the same vibe and it's funny. I mean... really. I don't know what bubble these women are living in but to most cities we're all just "whores" anyway. I don't think the OP wanted a response from actual escorts. 5k? *eyeroll*

Yeah the self respect and "disease" comments are a bit nasty to hear..everyone's entitled to their own boundaries and bodies absolutely..but blanket statements are offensive and unintentionally hilarious on a sex worker forum.

LoveyDovey
07-31-2016, 01:21 AM
A fully clothed lapdance :O:O:O
Ummm so nobody gets naked? If so how are you a stripper?:O Is it a bar or something?

It's a topless club. We dance topless onstage, but we keep our tops and bottoms on during dances.

LoveyDovey
07-31-2016, 01:23 AM
Yeah the self respect and "disease" comments are a bit nasty to hear..everyone's entitled to their own boundaries and bodies absolutely..but blanket statements are offensive and unintentionally hilarious on a sex worker forum.

And it's not like you get std's from sex for money situations only. You can get them even if you're not receiving money.

baer45
07-31-2016, 08:31 AM
I actually just earned 5k today. This occasional client of mine had a friend come over from China. I was promised $4000 for the night. I had sex with the guest twice and sex went okay. The guy looks like 40-50 years old, very polite (probably because he only knows "nice, thank you, okay" in English) and no monkey business. I was also instructed to wake him up at 7:00 am and drop him off at airport. My client met us at airport and handed over another envelope with 1k in it. Thank you for the extra bonus Mr. Li/lee! I really need to learn some Chinese since I ran into Chinese business men a few times already. Anyway, I just did it again, have sex for money.

Cashmere Star
08-04-2016, 04:35 PM
I actually just earned 5k today. This occasional client of mine had a friend come over from China. I was promised $4000 for the night. I had sex with the guest twice and sex went okay. The guy looks like 40-50 years old, very polite (probably because he only knows "nice, thank you, okay" in English) and no monkey business. I was also instructed to wake him up at 7:00 am and drop him off at airport. My client met us at airport and handed over another envelope with 1k in it. Thank you for the extra bonus Mr. Li/lee! I really need to learn some Chinese since I ran into Chinese business men a few times already. Anyway, I just did it again, have sex for money.

China is booming with "new money" people and it's the fastest growing market for luxury goods. They also have a really big mistress culture to them so if you're open to playing the "exotic/foreign white mistress" role, there might be something for ya there.

baer45
08-04-2016, 05:56 PM
China is booming with "new money" people and it's the fastest growing market for luxury goods. They also have a really big mistress culture to them so if you're open to playing the "exotic/foreign white mistress" role, there might be something for ya there.

I don't have any Chinese/or Asian regulars yet. But they come around every now and then. And they pay handsome money for my service.

AnoniCat
08-10-2016, 06:17 PM
I've never stripped and I wouldn't because I am terrified of pictures popping up one day when I'm waist deep into my professional career. On the other hand, having sex for money isn't a big deal to me. I'm very cautious and will refuse to see someone if they make me feel uncomfortable in any way. I like that I'm in control, if they want to see me they will pay what I ask. I can't even fathom fucking for free. I can connect emotionally during sex with almost anyone. But unless the dick was super excellent, I'm over it when were done. Although my ego gets off on making these dudes fall in love.

"Self-respect is something you tell yourself you've got when you've nothing else." Joan Crawford in the Damned Don't Cry

Elektra Luxx
08-10-2016, 06:41 PM
I've never stripped and I wouldn't because I am terrified of pictures popping up one day when I'm waist deep into my professional career. On the other hand, having sex for money isn't a big deal to me. I'm very cautious and will refuse to see someone if they make me feel uncomfortable in any way. I like that I'm in control, if they want to see me they will pay what I ask. I can't even fathom fucking for free. I can connect emotionally during sex with almost anyone. But unless the dick was super excellent, I'm over it when were done. Although my ego gets off on making these dudes fall in love.

"Self-respect is something you tell yourself you've got when you've nothing else." Joan Crawford in the Damned Don't Cry

Very well said!!!

HoneyMachado
02-24-2021, 11:32 AM
happily.

moneybags
02-26-2021, 08:12 PM
Baby stripper me: no way! Me now: Fuck yes!!!!

indiegirl
02-26-2021, 10:07 PM
Baby stripper me: no way! Me now: Fuck yes!!!!


So true.
Me brand new in the dressing room: Eww that smelly guy offered me 2000 to have sex with him. I'm not some prostitute.
Me now: How much?

LOLLLLLL

kimbe
03-01-2021, 11:46 AM
I think very few girls actually enter the world og stripping/dancing with the intent of offering sexual favors for money. But after working hard for your money a while you start to realize how much more money there is in just sacrificing (or adjusting) some of your personal preferences.

laurielegs
03-01-2021, 12:52 PM
Wish I were smarter in the past and hadn't hooked up with some of the losers who were cute but with no personality or sexual skills.

When I look back at the partners I've had in the past I do regret giving them my time and attention for free. So much of the sex really was not that good or satisfying at ALL. At least if they had paid me I would have gotten some benefit out of the time lol.

charlie61
03-02-2021, 06:53 PM
Escorts are probably lurking in this thread like, uhhh, do you mean y'all are having sex for FREE? We should have a corollary thread where we talk about how crazy it is that most of us are out here fucking for free, lol.

moneybags
03-02-2021, 07:14 PM
^^^I have been celibate for 5 years-. I don’t fuck for free, or anyone for that matter. Dating is a fucking joke. I’d rather read a book about quantum physics than entertain some loser for free.

I remember an older dancer talking badly about the girls that let customers touch them
saying they were doing extras...lol.

charlie61
03-02-2021, 07:31 PM
^^^I have been celibate for 5 years-. I don’t fuck for free, or anyone for that matter. Dating is a fucking joke. I’d rather read a book about quantum physics than entertain some loser for free.

I remember an older dancer talking badly about the girls that let customers touch them
saying they were doing extras...lol.

Ha! The problem with extras in the club is very different - it's more about an unequal marketplace / product. So I've definitely complained about that.

And i think there's nothing wrong with having sex for free - people have sex for all kinds of reasons, and they choose to not have sex for all kinds of reasons. Feminism is all about protecting the choices we make for ourselves.

:hug:

Raven88
03-09-2021, 11:43 AM
I personally wouldn't. It's not enough money to make real changes in my life. Maybe if it was a once a week arrangement with someone I reasonably know is only seeing me and no one else. And it went on for a year at least.

chanzep
03-09-2021, 06:14 PM
No if I was I would do it properly high end. I have close friend who were escorts who quit dancing and said it was easier. They never did it in the clubs.
As for extras they vary from place to place. I have worked in a ton of club's where touching was considered a extra and have seen girls fired for it.

xxxGothBarbie
03-17-2021, 02:01 AM
I used to have this guy friend in LA I hung with & got drunk with at night clubs 10 yrs ago and he would literally beg me to & offer up money. I usually turned him down bc he never offered enough for what I'd consider my personal value. even when later on I'd "test" him when he was sober it still wasn't enough IMO. He would say "Oh come here & be my gf for awhile & I'll take care of you" *eyeroll* ya no!

Really honestly depends on what the guy looks like & how much I was offered/promised & money most def upfront before any action. I'm a snob, if you're gross I'm so not fucking you LOL Don't care how poor I am.