View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
seicento
08-15-2019, 08:08 AM
Thanks, ladies!
Happy birthday! Best wishes x
Marina Starr
08-15-2019, 08:30 AM
Great music for mediation, peace, and de-drain.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hYANNzFIc4&t=26s
PixiieGirl
08-15-2019, 08:45 AM
Ive a job interview tomorrow, Im 80% sure I wont take it as its a long commute, and tbh the money isn't great. it is the sector I want but eh. Plus two other jobs Ii REALLY want have just come up so, Im hoping for them tbh.
part-time ofc, wanna keep hoeing to ;)
Marina Starr
08-15-2019, 08:47 AM
I hope you get the job that you truly want. I love being a part time Hoe.
Ive a job interview tomorrow, Im 80% sure I wont take it as its a long commute, and tbh the money isn't great. it is the sector I want but eh. Plus two other jobs Ii REALLY want have just come up so, Im hoping for them tbh.
part-time ofc, wanna keep hoeing to ;)
PixiieGirl
08-15-2019, 09:07 AM
I hope you get the job that you truly want. I love being a part time Hoe.
its the utter dream tbh, able to keep the creativity and fun that I love of this job, without the stress of having zero stable income
Miss_ShaSha
08-15-2019, 10:43 AM
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Thanks, SW!
Happy birthday!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-15-2019, 05:14 PM
ThatGirlJayCole truly understands the greedy girl struggle. Uber Eats is the DEVIL!
https://www.instagram.com/p/B1Mj_gljZNx/?igshid=bk0ln4xs2n4s
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-15-2019, 06:22 PM
its the utter dream tbh, able to keep the creativity and fun that I love of this job, without the stress of having zero stable income
How's the new apartment?
whirlerz
08-15-2019, 07:04 PM
Did anyone get a Free Lipstick, for Lipstick Day?
Wondering
Miss_ShaSha
08-15-2019, 07:24 PM
^^I had no idea that was a thing. No I didn't.
~Carmen~
08-15-2019, 10:36 PM
I thought the season finale was three weeks ago? And then last night I realized I had three episodes to catch up on. And the answer is yes, yes I did stay up all night to catch up on the season. I'm so tired right now. But it was sooo good.
I thought you had some kind of connection to get episodes early. LOL!!!
seicento
08-16-2019, 04:41 AM
I am furious! One of my cats started vomiting yesterday when it was a holiday here and most had day off and anyway I never take her to vets from the first day coz she has liver issues and she does vomit sometimes once or twice then stop, I never know if she's having a crisis, until next day. So I take her to vets and I hear one of the vets commenting that I don't have an appointment and then I'm almost yelled at for not making an appointment. I did call before and they told me they're full but bring her anyway. They know her history and they should realize I can't know when a crisis happen! Only recently they started working with appointments, I'm going there for 3 years and I had to wait 2-3 hours sometimes and never commented or yelled for that! Yet, they almost yell at me. Like I should guess by now when my cat is going to have a crisis! I hate being treated with disrespect in the places I am paying for services! They are good vets and I would like to keep going there but today I felt disrespected and if they were not so good professionally wise, I would start looking for others right now. I am so so so pissed off, I'll take my cat again tomorrow and then I might tell them how I feel and that, while I fully understand the appointment system they introduced and I will use it every time the situation allows, sometimes shit happens with our pets and it is unprofessional to treat your paying customers like this.
whirlerz
08-16-2019, 06:34 AM
^^I had no idea that was a thing. No I didn't.
Yes, MAC started doing it, I think it's only in the US?:
No purchase, but I think you must be a 'loyal' custy.
Some of the other co's have followed suit It was around the end of July:-*
PixiieGirl
08-16-2019, 08:26 AM
How's the new apartment?
It’s great! Only downside is we can’t get good internet but I am so glad we moved :) thanks for asking!
Miss_ShaSha
08-16-2019, 08:42 AM
I am furious! One of my cats started vomiting yesterday when it was a holiday here and most had day off and anyway I never take her to vets from the first day coz she has liver issues and she does vomit sometimes once or twice then stop, I never know if she's having a crisis, until next day. So I take her to vets and I hear one of the vets commenting that I don't have an appointment and then I'm almost yelled at for not making an appointment. I did call before and they told me they're full but bring her anyway. They know her history and they should realize I can't know when a crisis happen! Only recently they started working with appointments, I'm going there for 3 years and I had to wait 2-3 hours sometimes and never commented or yelled for that! Yet, they almost yell at me. Like I should guess by now when my cat is going to have a crisis! I hate being treated with disrespect in the places I am paying for services! They are good vets and I would like to keep going there but today I felt disrespected and if they were not so good professionally wise, I would start looking for others right now. I am so so so pissed off, I'll take my cat again tomorrow and then I might tell them how I feel and that, while I fully understand the appointment system they introduced and I will use it every time the situation allows, sometimes shit happens with our pets and it is unprofessional to treat your paying customers like this.
Geez, that sounds upsetting. You're already worried about your furbaby, and then they're yelling at you? That had to raise your stress levels even more. I'm sorry. How is kitty now?
seicento
08-16-2019, 09:56 AM
Geez, that sounds upsetting. You're already worried about your furbaby, and then they're yelling at you? That had to raise your stress levels even more. I'm sorry. How is kitty now?
Thank you for asking, Sha. Received antivomitives and she stopped vomiting which is a good thing. She seems to be hypertensive now although she is on meds for that, will see tomorrow. She's an old lady. Beside my cat issues, I tried for a few hours to catch a puppy so I can take him to vets to check if he has a chip as he looks abandoned or lost and couldn't, he was rolling and yelling when I put a leash on him so I could't do anything for him other than feed him, ugh. I'm going crazy with so many animals abandoned here! I was meant to be on cam long ago, I have a video request I should send today and it's already 8pm, oh well.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-16-2019, 01:51 PM
It’s great! Only downside is we can’t get good internet but I am so glad we moved :) thanks for asking!
Awesome! New place...new job! I love new beginnings. I personally find them exciting and a bit scary. But the scary parts are what makes it so exciting. Good luck to you.
PixiieGirl
08-16-2019, 02:33 PM
Awesome! New place...new job! I love new beginnings. I personally find them exciting and a bit scary. But the scary parts are what makes it so exciting. Good luck to you.
Thank you! Tbh having looked into it and the hours I’d be spending 1/3 of my wage on travel so I don’t think I’ll take the job, but it was nice practise at interviewing lol
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-16-2019, 02:35 PM
Thank you for asking, Sha. Received antivomitives and she stopped vomiting which is a good thing. She seems to be hypertensive now although she is on meds for that, will see tomorrow. She's an old lady. Beside my cat issues, I tried for a few hours to catch a puppy so I can take him to vets to check if he has a chip as he looks abandoned or lost and couldn't, he was rolling and yelling when I put a leash on him so I could't do anything for him other than feed him, ugh. I'm going crazy with so many animals abandoned here! I was meant to be on cam long ago, I have a video request I should send today and it's already 8pm, oh well.
I currently have quite a few pets as well. My oldest is 11 years old this month. He's my precious angel and at the beginning of this year I thought I was going to have to say goodbye to him. He had started losing weight as well as refusing food. It was pretty heavy. And sometimes vetinarians aren't always as supportive as they should be. They can become jaded and burned out to the point of snapping at pet owners. It's not right and it doesn't feel good at all.
Back in January a vet quoted me an amount of $700 to treat my dog. When I asked her if they accepted payments and for a breakdown of what that would include... she then gave me a full lecture on how people shouldn't own pets if they can't afford them. I was like Como Se WHAT BITCH? I agree with her to a point but people should always ask questions. Ask as many as you can before you agree to pay. It's a stressful moment and although it's pet medicine, it's still the medical field. Doctors get paid to suggest treatments and drugs that your pet may not even need. They get bonuses from pharmaceutical companies. I got the price down to $400 and then ended up taking him elsewhere for a second opinion.
Currently my dog is doing well but I still worry and watch him like a hawk. LOL It's like he knows I'm talking/thinking about him because he just ran over to stare at me while I wrote this last bit. If the vet makes you feel bad, then let them know. They could be having a bad day. And if they don't care then go somewhere else.
seicento
08-16-2019, 03:28 PM
I currently have quite a few pets as well. My oldest is 11 years old this month. He's my precious angel and at the beginning of this year I thought I was going to have to say goodbye to him. He had started losing weight as well as refusing food. It was pretty heavy. And sometimes vetinarians aren't always as supportive as they should be. They can become jaded and burned out to the point of snapping at pet owners. It's not right and it doesn't feel good at all.
Back in January a vet quoted me an amount of $700 to treat my dog. When I asked her if they accepted payments and for a breakdown of what that would include... she then gave me a full lecture on how people shouldn't own pets if they can't afford them. I was like Como Se WHAT BITCH? I agree with her to a point but people should always ask questions. Ask as many as you can before you agree to pay. It's a stressful moment and although it's pet medicine, it's still the medical field. Doctors get paid to suggest treatments and drugs that your pet may not even need. They get bonuses from pharmaceutical companies. I got the price down to $400 and then ended up taking him elsewhere for a second opinion.
Currently my dog is doing well but I still worry and watch him like a hawk. LOL It's like he knows I'm talking/thinking about him because he just ran over to stare at me while I wrote this last bit. If the vet makes you feel bad, then let them know. They could be having a bad day. And if they don't care then go somewhere else.
Glad your dog is doing well. And good that you watch him, that makes you a good pet owner. Hope he'll be doing well many years from now on. It gets hard as they get old, especially when health issues come up. The cat I was took to vets today is 15 years old and she is my first cat from my adult life. Hard to see her getting old and...sick.
That vet was so rude lecturing you. While I know that it's a big responsibility to get a pet or more, there can be times when we can't afford the medical services for them right that moment but that doesn't mean that we should't have pets or that we don't know our responsibilities. Most of my cats were strays, I doubt they'll still be alive now if I didn't take them. My vets are nicer, they'll let me pay later or split the payments. That's one of the things that made me keep going to them, they wouldn't yell if I didn't have money that day. Plus they were the only who actually gave this cat the right treatment for her liver. And they are very kind and loving with pets. But they almost yelled for an appointment. They might have had a bad day but I will let them know tomorrow that they were not fair. Only on the way home I realized that even if I guessed that my cat would have a vomit crisis, I still couldn't make an appointment, because they were closed yesterday. I hope they didn't mean that I should have made an appointment for tomorrow and keep my cat dehydrated one more day coz then I'll definitely replace them. Damn, it's so hard to find good vets. I was satisfied with these, I hope we manage to get along again.
nattyfetish
08-17-2019, 02:42 AM
The older I get, the more I hate my birthday. I am not sure what it is. Maybe the pressure to make it a perfect day ? I am greatfull for another year of my life buttttttttt !
TheBrownFox
08-17-2019, 02:53 AM
So I'm now on day 13 of my period. WHYYYYY. I'm losing so much blood.
The older I get, the more I hate my birthday. I am not sure what it is. Maybe the pressure to make it a perfect day ? I am greatfull for another year of my life buttttttttt !
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seicento
08-17-2019, 03:13 AM
The older I get, the more I hate my birthday. I am not sure what it is. Maybe the pressure to make it a perfect day ? I am greatfull for another year of my life buttttttttt !
Happy birthday! It doesn't have to be perfect but enjoyable :)
seicento
08-17-2019, 03:17 AM
And I guess I'll keep my vets. They might have had a bad day yesterday. I told them how I felt yesterday and asked what am I supposed to do when the cat is having a vomit episode that I can not know of the day before so I can make an appointment and I was told to call and then take her there. Oh well, that's what I did yesterday too, damn it, you could have been nicer.
Miss_ShaSha
08-17-2019, 05:48 AM
The older I get, the more I hate my birthday. I am not sure what it is. Maybe the pressure to make it a perfect day ? I am greatfull for another year of my life buttttttttt !
Happy birthday!!! I hope this year is full of wealth, health, & abundance.
Sweet_Sadie
08-17-2019, 07:10 AM
So I'm now on day 13 of my period. WHYYYYY. I'm losing so much blood.
Have you been checked for Fibroids? I had a HUGE mass, freakish blood clot loss, and eventually, I had to have my uterus removed. :-\
Glamourmilf
08-17-2019, 07:22 AM
The older I get, the more I hate my birthday. I am not sure what it is. Maybe the pressure to make it a perfect day ? I am greatfull for another year of my life buttttttttt !
My Dad died on my birthday. So, needless to say, I hate my birthday too.
It's also a holiday of sorts ( Cinco de Mayo), so it's always in my face.
All birthdays are cancelled.
I even had to take it off of my Facebook profile.
All those birthday wishes sends me right over the edge.
My friends know to give me gifts either way before the day, or way after.
It's too painful.
Sweet_Sadie
08-17-2019, 07:43 AM
My Dad died on my birthday. So, needless to say, I hate my birthday too.
It's also a holiday of sorts ( Cinco de Mayo), so it's always in my face.
All birthdays are cancelled.
I even had to take it off of my Facebook profile.
All those birthday wishes sends me right over the edge.
My friends know to give me gifts either way before the day, or way after.
It's too painful.
I wish there was another way to respond to these type of posts besides "thank you" button. It's not appropriate. I'm sorry for your loss and how it affects you.
Marina Starr
08-17-2019, 07:46 AM
Happy Saturday. I hope something WONDERFUL happens to you today if you're reading this :)
I started my morning off with Starbucks then headed to Walmart to do something light shopping and terrorize people. You know small minded people are very uncomfortable around Trans people so it always gets me high when I get them all twisted in their panties.
I got Jersey Mike's whole wheat turkey sub for lunch and dinner with diet pepsi and salt and vinegar chips. Feeling so blessed and thankful. #blessedhoe #spoiledhoe
Sweet_Sadie
08-17-2019, 08:04 AM
Happy Saturday. I hope something WONDERFUL happens to you today if you're reading this :)
I started my morning off with Starbucks then headed to Walmart to do something light shopping and terrorize people. You know small minded people are very uncomfortable around Trans people so it always gets me high when I get them all twisted in their panties.
I got Jersey Mike's whole wheat turkey sub for lunch and dinner with diet pepsi and salt and vinegar chips. Feeling so blessed and thankful. #blessedhoe #spoiledhoe
Is Jersey Mike's any good? I never gave that place a chance because I'm originally from that area, and I'd be so disappointed if the subs weren't tasty, lol. Sounds like you and I like to have similar Saturday mornings of light errands and good food.
Glamourmilf
08-17-2019, 08:08 AM
I wish there was another way to respond to these type of posts besides "thank you" button. It's not appropriate. I'm sorry for your loss and how it affects you.
Thank You for touching my :heartbeat
It means a lot.:-*
Marina Starr
08-17-2019, 08:11 AM
I love their subs because they're healthy and fresh. I always get turkey sub on whole wheat bread with mayo, black pepper, extra lecture with vinegar on the side. You can try the smallest size, they call it the mini and see how you like it.
Is Jersey Mike's any good? I never gave that place a chance because I'm originally from that area, and I'd be so disappointed if the subs weren't tasty, lol. Sounds like you and I like to have similar Saturday mornings of light errands and good food.
Miss_ShaSha
08-17-2019, 09:05 AM
Happy Saturday. I hope something WONDERFUL happens to you today if you're reading this :)
I started my morning off with Starbucks then headed to Walmart to do something light shopping and terrorize people. You know small minded people are very uncomfortable around Trans people so it always gets me high when I get them all twisted in their panties.
I got Jersey Mike's whole wheat turkey sub for lunch and dinner with diet pepsi and salt and vinegar chips. Feeling so blessed and thankful. #blessedhoe #spoiledhoe
I'll take all this good energy!!!
PixiieGirl
08-17-2019, 09:20 AM
I really should learn to say no, had planned a hardcore camming session but my friend is now coming over this evening instead with wine lol. On the plus Ive hustled well so far today so can afford to lol
Miss_ShaSha
08-17-2019, 10:13 AM
Just so super grateful for a good day. I slept well without any nightmares, woke in a good mood, no anxiety, ate good food, drank enough water, and listened to binaural beats in peace. No catastrophic thoughts. Just happy. What a blessing!
PixiieGirl
08-17-2019, 10:29 AM
Just so super grateful for a good day. I slept well without any nightmares, woke in a good mood, no anxiety, ate good food, drank enough water, and listened to binaural beats in peace. No catastrophic thoughts. Just happy. What a blessing!
So good to hear girl! I’m feeling the same despite the mountain of stuff I need to do, we’re killing the self care game!
Miss_ShaSha
08-17-2019, 01:31 PM
^^Awwweeee girl, (((hugs))) I applaud your ability to be brave and vulnerable. It doesn't feel like everything will be ok, but it will. Sending you good vibes. And it's a good thing you cried. Doing that releases oxytocin which is super good for you. xoxo
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-17-2019, 03:26 PM
I don't know where else to put this, so sorry if it's in the wrong place, but...
I cried a bit last night. Why? Because I felt ashamed because the influencers I admire are a lot younger and they have their romance/finance shit so much more together than I do. More than that, I realized that in some ways, I just didn't know! How can I know what I didn't know?
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Are you talking about online influencers? If so that can be very hazardous because you really don't always know what's real.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-17-2019, 03:50 PM
^^Awwweeee girl, (((hugs))) I applaud your ability to be brave and vulnerable. It doesn't feel like everything will be ok, but it will. Sending you good vibes. And it's a good thing you cried. Doing that releases oxytocin which is super good for you. xoxo
This so true about crying. It sucks that we're taught that tears are a sign of weakness. Some of the strongest people I know will cry in public. One of my besties has been known to lay down on the ground kicking and screaming when she gets upset. It's entertaining to be honest. Grown Ass Woman behaving like a three year old. But when her episode is over.. it's back to business, better than ever. I honestly wish I could do that sometimes. My pride won't let me.
nattyfetish
08-18-2019, 02:50 AM
I wish there was another way to respond to these type of posts besides "thank you" button. It's not appropriate. I'm sorry for your loss and how it affects you.
I am really sorry. Now I sound like a brat as YOU have a real reason to hate it. Just celebrate life any day of the year that you wish, you could pick a new bday every year if you want to, fuck it ! Do whatever makes you feel good !
Anddd for all the other girls: thank you for beeing so sweet and for all of your wishes ! made my day ! i wish you the same and more ! xoxo
NitaBaby
08-18-2019, 06:08 PM
When I was at the hospital last week my bf was waiting back at the apartment since my girls were still sleeping. The question of pregnancy was still pretty thick in the air since I've gotten false negatives before in my last relationship with my ex-fiance. He texted me while I was in the waiting room like, "well whatever news we get you're not alone. I'm right here."
Today he told me he loved me and kind of looked at me like, "....you want to have a couple kids?" I immediately laughed with him but I'm getting strong "we should make a family" vibes. That's not even a factor until we get married, I'm not going to be yet another man's baby mama. My next child will be with my husband. But just knowing that his stance on not having more kids isn't looking as defined as it once was is.. interesting.
Miss_ShaSha
08-20-2019, 12:28 PM
Dude, I ain't even sweatin SM contest. I'm legit, at 2pm on a weekday, actin like I'm a ritch bitch.
This lil trick guzzlin Pinot Noir, slurpin New England clam chowder, & howlin while watchin Tiffany Haddish: They Ready.
Ladies! This comedy special is so hot it's given me 3rd degree burns!
If you're looking for something funny...watch it. If you're looking for smart ladies who are real, raw, & talented...don't you dare miss it.
Now lemme keep throwin back this red wine :)
Marina Starr
08-20-2019, 02:28 PM
LOVE this so much! No passive aggressive bitches!
Serena113
08-20-2019, 07:45 PM
Omfg. I gotta vent and I don’t know where to post this. Is something going on with twitter? Of course when I decide to start using my account more than just occasionally and try getting retweets shit goes sideways. Without any prompting from me the list of people I was following is gone and I can’t follow anyone. Nor can I make any more tweets. Wtf?
NitaBaby
08-21-2019, 10:47 AM
Dusting off an un-used camming account because fuck streamate.
PixiieGirl
08-21-2019, 11:03 AM
Im about to try out my new bad dragon toy and Im STOKED
Marina Starr
08-21-2019, 11:19 AM
Amen to this. Healthy people OWN their shit.
Miss_ShaSha
08-21-2019, 01:13 PM
Mos def. I believe my vibe attracts my tribe and if most ppl are acting shitty to me, it's because I'm being an asshole. I've lived by treating others how you want to be treated, and as a result I've been treated pretty well. While not everything is my fault, a lot of bad shit has happened because I've been shitty.
If I fuck up, I own that shit. I stopped blaming others for my misfortune a long time ago...as a result, my life is pretty damn decent.
Own your shit and shit will get better.
Sweet_Sadie
08-21-2019, 03:20 PM
A door of opportunity opens. It leads to an extremely feasible, yet life-changing path. Taking the path would be the craziest thing that I've ever embarked on. It would definitely be life-changing. But...it's like that movie, Sliding Doors. You make one choice or another, and the choice leads your life towards different outcomes.
Yeah, exactly like that movie Sliding Doors. But in this case, I know the choice that makes the most sense at the present point of my life. Or maybe it's like the Matrix: blue pill/red pill. Why am I relating to late 1990s films?
crazylilly
08-21-2019, 04:37 PM
Mos def. I believe my vibe attracts my tribe and if most ppl are acting shitty to me, it's because I'm being an asshole. I've lived by treating others how you want to be treated, and as a result I've been treated pretty well. While not everything is my fault, a lot of bad shit has happened because I've been shitty.
If I fuck up, I own that shit. I stopped blaming others for my misfortune a long time ago...as a result, my life is pretty damn decent.
Own your shit and shit will get better.
I live the same way! If you are kind and chill, you attract kind chill people. :)