View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
izshadow
10-21-2019, 12:55 PM
I need to get out of this depression and get back on cam regularly again. The feeling of exhaustion from everything just makes it so hard.
Marina Starr
10-22-2019, 09:21 AM
I think it would be so fun to work as a sale consultant at home for Bluechew. #bluechewnow
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-22-2019, 11:36 AM
I think it would be so fun to work as a sale consultant at home for Bluechew. #bluechewnow
I had to Google this. :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-22-2019, 11:42 AM
I just got my packages from Amazon and I started laughing when the UPS driver handed it to me. If only he knew what was inside: two dildos, a wig, 100 ft of rope and three bottles of stage blood. LOL Imagine if this all went to the wrong house?
NitaBaby
10-22-2019, 01:11 PM
I feel so unhealthy. So headache-y. So tired all the time, so damn tired. So not-in-the-mood. So hungry for something else besides a damn burger. I have to do something different.
Marina Starr
10-22-2019, 01:11 PM
Girl, you seriously didn't know? Lmao
I had to Google this. :)
NitaBaby
10-22-2019, 01:12 PM
Girl, you seriously didn't know? Lmao
I googled it too.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-22-2019, 02:18 PM
Girl, you seriously didn't know? Lmao
Nope! I never heard of it before. Fortunately we don't need those around here. What are they, like Viagra gummies? I love Gummi Bears but I don't know who BlueChew is?
http://www.camhustlers.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/sorry_to_this_man.gif
NitaBaby
10-22-2019, 02:49 PM
^That was my guess. The testimonials sounded very erectile dysfunction-ish.
~Carmen~
10-22-2019, 02:52 PM
I googled it too.
I did too awhile back. I was too embarrassed to admit it so I now confess. LOL
Marina Starr
10-22-2019, 03:11 PM
It's a blue pill, I guess that resembles blue balls can be discreetly send to your door. No appointments needed.
Nope! I never heard of it before. Fortunately we don't need those around here. What are they, like Viagra gummies? I love Gummi Bears but I don't know who BlueChew is?
http://www.camhustlers.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/sorry_to_this_man.gif
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-22-2019, 03:14 PM
Well for the sake of all things relating to SPH and dick fetishes, I guess I should brush up on BlueChew then? I shudder to think that all this time I've still been talking about Viagra when BlueChew is the new wave! :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-23-2019, 02:18 PM
If you're in the US and have Spotify Premium you can get a free Google Home Mini. Go to www.spotify.com/us/ then scroll down and click on “learn more” where it talks about it, then you can sign in with your Spotify account. After that it will email you the link. It may look like it's asking for 49.99, but that gets removed when you select checkout.
Even if you don't have any use for it, I'd still get it anyways. It could be a great gift idea for someone.
Bananabunny
10-23-2019, 03:55 PM
My inner demons officially won this year and I'm getting my first plastic surgery in december :) I'm glad because I can't live with this ugly big nose anymore and I have the feeling it stops me from being pretty, whenever I don't show face on cam I make 10x more than with face, I don't see a coincidence anymore...Contouring won't do shit and looking in the mirror is a daily struggle and pain and it never changed over the years but rather got worse and worse to the point where I stopped showing face on cam. I'm glad I get rid of this insecurity of mine.
NitaBaby
10-23-2019, 04:44 PM
My inner demons officially won this year and I'm getting my first plastic surgery in december :) I'm glad because I can't live with this ugly big nose anymore and I have the feeling it stops me from being pretty, whenever I don't show face on cam I make 10x more than with face, I don't see a coincidence anymore...Contouring won't do shit and looking in the mirror is a daily struggle and pain and it never changed over the years but rather got worse and worse to the point where I stopped showing face on cam. I'm glad I get rid of this insecurity of mine.
So happy for you. And I'm sure you'll look great afterward
golddiggerAF
10-23-2019, 08:58 PM
My inner demons officially won this year and I'm getting my first plastic surgery in december :) I'm glad because I can't live with this ugly big nose anymore and I have the feeling it stops me from being pretty, whenever I don't show face on cam I make 10x more than with face, I don't see a coincidence anymore...Contouring won't do shit and looking in the mirror is a daily struggle and pain and it never changed over the years but rather got worse and worse to the point where I stopped showing face on cam. I'm glad I get rid of this insecurity of mine.
I want a nose job too (and about 4 other Sx procedures lol), so CONGRATS boo! 💚💚💚
golddiggerAF
10-23-2019, 09:02 PM
had to log in to agree with this one ^. at least with a site like bonga (fuck them) i KNOW they're cheap assholes who simply won't spend. but knowing the potential with CB and....never experiencing it. Weird.
Exactly!
I played around with the apps and bots last night and finally settled on a combo I'm comfortable with. Hopefully I'll be able to report some earnings from the improvements. So far, I've made a whopping $2.57 on CB in about 3 weeks of being on there. That shit cray.
Marina Starr
10-24-2019, 10:55 AM
I LOVE me some Britney Spears, I don't care what anyone says. This song and video is so iconic.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-u5WLJ9Yk4
NitaBaby
10-24-2019, 11:05 AM
exactly!
i played around with the apps and bots last night and finally settled on a combo i'm comfortable with. Hopefully i'll be able to report some earnings from the improvements. So far, i've made a whopping $2.57 on cb in about 3 weeks of being on there. that shit cray.
lmaoo
HamNcheese
10-24-2019, 08:05 PM
I could really reeeeeally use a pizza and double fudge cake right now. But I'm on a diet and haven't been approved for SM yet. Sooooooo...
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-25-2019, 08:40 AM
I took my chubby cat to the vet this morning because I was afraid she had an illness. It turns out she's suppose to be this big. She's a ragdoll cat! I'd never heard of those before. I got her about a year ago for my husband's bday and that lady said she was a Siamese mix. A year later and she doesn't look one bit Siamese. This cat can throw her weight on doors to pop them open. But she's really sweet.
Im thinking about getting Vietnamese food again today? I'm obsessed with those grilled pork sandwiches and spring wraps. After I make this gorey custom video I'm gonna pig out and watch horror movies. I think I might even keep my scary make-up on all day too.
NitaBaby
10-25-2019, 04:34 PM
Bf's daughter came over today and the first words out of her mouth were directed to my youngest, "my socks are bigger than yours." lmao swear to god this kid knows how to set the mood. In line with her personality, my daughter's response was, "and your shirt is white". Bf's daughter just gave her this dumb look and was like, "........anyway". No one heard her say that but me and my kid looked unphased so she made a point of saying it again, louder. "...ANYway.....".
My mood has been in the trash since witnessing that little interaction. Bf has been asking if I'm tired. If I have a headache. Am I hungry. Am I just bored.
No. I'm just ready for your daughter to cut the shit. Can't say that though. I don't imagine he'd receive it well if I tried to explain why I now take issue with his kid. Any parent would translate that into a "you vs my child" situation and that's not what it is at all.
Whenever I need to work, bf takes his daughter over his his grandma's or something so that I don't have to worry about her being the one child barging in on me or making all kinds of retarded noises. Sarcasm is clearly a part of her budding vocabulary but "be quiet" somehow isn't? Tonight was already going to be a cam night but I am so glad to use it as an excuse for her to go somewhere else right now and I hate that I truly feel that way. Have fun at grandma's tho.
Miss_ShaSha
10-25-2019, 05:13 PM
^^Look, I know you're trying to be diplomatic...but it's time to say something. And own your feelings. Say something along the lines of "I love your daughter. She's _________ and _________ (good traits), however when she treats my daughter unfairly it hurts my heart." Own your feelings. Express yourself, then ask for resolution.
Kids can act shitty, but still be great kids. It's nothing against her...it's her behavior. The behavior isn't kosher. So mention that and mega highlight it's her behavior you have issue with.
NitaBaby
10-25-2019, 05:30 PM
^^Look, I know you're trying to be diplomatic...but it's time to say something. And own your feelings. Say something along the lines of "I love your daughter. She's _________ and _________ (good traits), however when she treats my daughter unfairly it hurts my heart." Own your feelings. Express yourself, then ask for resolution.
Kids can act shitty, but still be great kids. It's nothing against her...it's her behavior. The behavior isn't kosher. So mention that and mega highlight it's her behavior you have issue with.
I don't know why I feel like crying just from reading this. I really need to cry.
The last thing I want is for him to feel like I don't like his daughter but I can't stand watching the way she interacts with mine. I imagined them becoming best friends when I found out how close in age they are. The fantasy was beautiful. Thinking about it all is seriously making me want to break down. I'll try to discuss it with him when he comes back tomorrow.
Miss_ShaSha
10-25-2019, 05:37 PM
^^Nita, that can still happen. Listen, she's hurting and she's taking it out on your daughter. While it seems hard to mention this, if you don't then your daughter suffers. Not fair to either children.
And what you can do in the future is catch them being "good". Every single instance of good behavior gets highlighted.
You have time yet to save this. You love your BF and his daughter. This is a must to preserve the health of the relationships. It's ok. It'll be ok. You just gotta do it.
It'll go well as long as you emphasis behavior and your emotions.
I feel _______ when she does _______; please have a talk with her so she can do ________ instead.
And cry. Fuck...UGLY CRY it'll release oxytocin. You need that.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-25-2019, 06:03 PM
^^Nita, that can still happen. Listen, she's hurting and she's taking it out on your daughter. While it seems hard to mention this, if you don't then your daughter suffers. Not fair to either children.
And what you can do in the future is catch them being "good". Every single instance of good behavior gets highlighted.
You have time yet to save this. You love your BF and his daughter. This is a must to preserve the health of the relationships. It's ok. It'll be ok. You just gotta do it.
It'll go well as long as you emphasis behavior and your emotions.
I feel _______ when she does _______; please have a talk with her so she can do ________ instead.
And cry. Fuck...UGLY CRY it'll release oxytocin. You need that.
This is good advice. Accept I wouldn't bring it up to him directly, just yet. I would try the positive reinforcement first. Tell them that it makes you happy to see them being so sweet to one another, even if she's not being sweet at all. I'm not sure if you're a hugger but that may warm her up. Hugs feel good and she's gonna want more of those, therefore in order to get them she's gonna play nice. Your boyfriend may appreciate that more than anything else. If that doesn't work then I would gently point it out. She's just a kid.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-25-2019, 06:05 PM
I took my chubby cat to the vet this morning because I was afraid she had an illness. It turns out she's suppose to be this big. She's a ragdoll cat! I'd never heard of those before. I got her about a year ago for my husband's bday and that lady said she was a Siamese mix. A year later and she doesn't look one bit Siamese. This cat can throw her weight on doors to pop them open. But she's really sweet.
Im thinking about getting Vietnamese food again today? I'm obsessed with those grilled pork sandwiches and spring wraps. After I make this gorey custom video I'm gonna pig out and watch horror movies. I think I might even keep my scary make-up on all day too.
Update: My vampire fangs won't come off.
Bananabunny
10-26-2019, 12:11 AM
The longer I am in the sex industry, the more of a feminist I'm becoming.
It was unthinkable in the beginning to me but now it turned out this way. Oh I also became a big man hater. Not all men are shit per say, but I have unfortunately met enough men who turned me more and more homosexual. I was abused, forced into shit, raped, scammed and lied to too many fucking times. Now I'm totally embrassing my homosexual side instead to hide it and I love it. I don't need a man when I can have all my girls LOL
seicento
10-26-2019, 03:12 AM
I took my chubby cat to the vet this morning because I was afraid she had an illness. It turns out she's suppose to be this big. She's a ragdoll cat! I'd never heard of those before. I got her about a year ago for my husband's bday and that lady said she was a Siamese mix. A year later and she doesn't look one bit Siamese. This cat can throw her weight on doors to pop them open. But she's really sweet.
OMG! I love ragdoll cats. Yeah, they get quite big. But so sweet and calm. I had a ragdoll male cat, I loved him so much and he was so loving too. He died at 3 yo unfortunately, cerebral edema. I still miss him although it been like 12 years since I lost him. After losing him I looked for another ragdoll, I couldn't afford pure breed and for months I was hoping to adopt one like him. I ended up with a norwegian forest cat. They're huge. And mine is fat too, I have a norwegian monster lol. I'm not into buying pets, I adopted and some are straight from the street and I can't get any more cats now but if I could, I think I would buy a ragdoll, identical with my beloved Diesel.
Glamourmilf
10-26-2019, 07:54 AM
What's on my mind.....Bank tellers that won't shut up!
I know I've mentioned it before.
I avoid going into the bank at all costs, but sometimes I need quarters, if the ATM is out of order, etc.
Yesterday was one of those days.
Same story. Bank tellers are all female. They start telling me all of their problems, which I don't care about.
Remember the teller who asked me what I did for a Living? Then asked if I could get her niece a job?
Bitch, you don't know me like that!
I had a check to deposit. Pay ATTENTION!!!
52201
NitaBaby
10-26-2019, 08:49 AM
It's getting pretty chilly.
I don't like cold weather and a dirty house. Well, I don't like a dirty house, period, but I REALLY don't like it when it's cold; frigid temperatures are for wrapping up in a blanket on the couch with carmel tea. I need to clean up if I'm to enjoy my day.
anonymous camgirl
10-26-2019, 09:19 AM
Welcome to the CLUB!.. except I can't bring myself to be a lesbian..lol.... it's just eww to me.. unfortunate for me...lol
The longer I am in the sex industry, the more of a feminist I'm becoming.
It was unthinkable in the beginning to me but now it turned out this way. Oh I also became a big man hater. Not all men are shit per say, but I have unfortunately met enough men who turned me more and more homosexual. I was abused, forced into shit, raped, scammed and lied to too many fucking times. Now I'm totally embrassing my homosexual side instead to hide it and I love it. I don't need a man when I can have all my girls LOL
Marina Starr
10-26-2019, 10:17 AM
I think you either like women or you don't. You can't force that. I can say certain women are beautiful, sexy etc but I am not sexually turned on by women. I was told everyone is bi to a certain degree and I highly disagree with that.
Welcome to the CLUB!.. except I can't bring myself to be a lesbian..lol.... it's just eww to me.. unfortunate for me...lol
NitaBaby
10-26-2019, 10:35 AM
I think you either like women or you don't. You can't force that. I can say certain women are beautiful, sexy etc but I am not sexually turned on by women. I was told everyone is bi to a certain degree and I highly disagree with that.
I agree. My first handful of crushes were on the girls at my private christian school. I got caught at school during my first gay experience and my step dad whooped the skin off of my ass. But trying to 'force' liking boys was rough. Either you like pussy or you don't.
Oddly enough, actually being with a girl ruined it for me. I doubt she is indicative of what to expect from women but her um..hygiene wasn't the best down there and I was immediately offended by it. so now I'm completely turned off to girls. Like you said, Marina, I can say that women are beautiful, sexy etc but I am not sexually turned on by them. Not anymore.
Marina Starr
10-26-2019, 10:41 AM
LOL, I'm sorry she was fishy down there. Reading what you wrote cracked me up.
I agree. My first handful of crushes were on the girls at my private christian school. I got caught at school during my first gay experience and my step dad whooped the skin off of my ass. But trying to 'force' liking boys was rough. Either you like pussy or you don't.
Oddly enough, actually being with a girl ruined it for me. I doubt she is indicative of what to expect from women but her um..hygiene wasn't the best down there and I was immediately offended by it. so now I'm completely turned off to girls. Like you said, Marina, I can say that women are beautiful, sexy etc but I am not sexually turned on by them. Not anymore.
NitaBaby
10-26-2019, 10:44 AM
^if anybody is sorry IT'S ME bih lmao.
anonymous camgirl
10-26-2019, 11:04 AM
Same.. I think women are beautiful and hubba hubba yum yum.. but yucko if you think I am licking vagina haha
I think you either like women or you don't. You can't force that. I can say certain women are beautiful, sexy etc but I am not sexually turned on by women. I was told everyone is bi to a certain degree and I highly disagree with that.
~Carmen~
10-26-2019, 11:41 AM
OMG! I love ragdoll cats. Yeah, they get quite big. But so sweet and calm. I had a ragdoll male cat, I loved him so much and he was so loving too. He died at 3 yo unfortunately, cerebral edema. I still miss him although it been like 12 years since I lost him. After losing him I looked for another ragdoll, I couldn't afford pure breed and for months I was hoping to adopt one like him. I ended up with a norwegian forest cat. They're huge. And mine is fat too, I have a norwegian monster lol. I'm not into buying pets, I adopted and some are straight from the street and I can't get any more cats now but if I could, I think I would buy a ragdoll, identical with my beloved Diesel.
I'm so sorry you lost your ragdoll cat. Norwegian forest cats are gorgeous. I have a 15 year old Maine Coon mix. He's the smartest cat I have ever known and very high maintenance. He expects attention 24/7. LOL
seicento
10-26-2019, 12:21 PM
I'm so sorry you lost your ragdoll cat. Norwegian forest cats are gorgeous. I have a 15 year old Maine Coon mix. He's the smartest cat I have ever known and very high maintenance. He expects attention 24/7. LOL
I love Maine Coon too, they're gorgeous. Well, I love all cats lol, crazy cat lady here, obviously :D He's the age of my Birman, I hope he's healthy, my 15 y o has a lot of issues lately. One of my european shorthair is like that, wants non stop attention, he even sleeps in my arms all night. I only had 2 male cats, the ragdoll I lost and this stray but I tend to believe that male cats are like that, needy and more loving. The females come to me only when they want and ignore me completely otherwise.
~Carmen~
10-26-2019, 12:39 PM
I love Maine Coon too, they're gorgeous. Well, I love all cats lol, crazy cat lady here, obviously :D He's the age of my Birman, I hope he's healthy, my 15 y o has a lot of issues lately. One of my european shorthair is like that, wants non stop attention, he even sleeps in my arms all night. I only had 2 male cats, the ragdoll I lost and this stray but I tend to believe that male cats are like that, needy and more loving. The females come to me only when they want and ignore me completely otherwise.
I love all cats too. I hope your Birman feels better!
I'm lucky that my cat is pretty healthy for an old guy. I think you are right about male cats being more needy and loving. I have had 5 cats, 3 males and 2 females. I had 2 Persians who passed away relatively young. Persians are wonderful but have a lot of kidney and bladder issues.
seicento
10-26-2019, 01:03 PM
I love all cats too. I hope your Birman feels better!
I'm lucky that my cat is pretty healthy for an old guy. I think you are right about male cats being more needy and loving. I have had 5 cats, 3 males and 2 females. I had 2 Persians who passed away relatively young. Persians are wonderful but have a lot of kidney and bladder issues.
I'm glad he's healthy and I hope he'll have a long life with you! Yes, persians are known for the kidney disease. I'm sorry you lost them. I lost a cat 2 years ago due to CKD. Sucks.
NitaBaby
10-26-2019, 04:57 PM
I talked to my bf about the relationship between my daughter and his and he was really patient and understanding about it. Ironically, his daughter did something maybe 30 minutes before we had the conversation, right in front of him this time. He had to pull her to the side and reprimand her. So it was a perfect example of the type of thing that happens constantly when she comes over - just somehow outside of his view.
I feel so much better. His reaction was everything I hoped for and his promise to address it really validated my feelings. Immediately afterward he seemed more observant of the girls' interactions with each other and in making sure his daughter didn't treat mine differently. He's never taken an issue I've had lightly but I'm just extra appreciative that he didn't brush me off.
I'm honestly glad to have talked to him about it.
Marina Starr
10-26-2019, 07:57 PM
Words to live by.
Glamourmilf
10-27-2019, 11:12 AM
52207 Has anyone else watched the commercial for these?
All I have to say, is if there's blood coming out of my man's ass or penis, we have a problem.:O:-\
Miss_ShaSha
10-27-2019, 11:34 AM
I talked to my bf about the relationship between my daughter and his and he was really patient and understanding about it. Ironically, his daughter did something maybe 30 minutes before we had the conversation, right in front of him this time. He had to pull her to the side and reprimand her. So it was a perfect example of the type of thing that happens constantly when she comes over - just somehow outside of his view.
I feel so much better. His reaction was everything I hoped for and his promise to address it really validated my feelings. Immediately afterward he seemed more observant of the girls' interactions with each other and in making sure his daughter didn't treat mine differently. He's never taken an issue I've had lightly but I'm just extra appreciative that he didn't brush me off.
I'm honestly glad to have talked to him about it.
I'm really glad it went well. And now you can catch them being good. Reinforce good behavior.
NitaBaby
10-27-2019, 12:53 PM
I'm really glad it went well. And now you can catch them being good. Reinforce good behavior.
yesssss. I kinda wish I'd kept the whole back story on one thread instead of spread out amongst three because as it stands I know it looks like I'm bitching over kids being kids. but what the hell ever. my daughter has a speech delay and is constantly being mistreated by kids so to see that under my own roof was just... no.
I'm glad it worked out, too. Load off my back.
Miss_ShaSha
10-27-2019, 02:26 PM
yesssss. I kinda wish I'd kept the whole back story on one thread instead of spread out amongst three because as it stands I know it looks like I'm bitching over kids being kids. but what the hell ever. my daughter has a speech delay and is constantly being mistreated by kids so to see that under my own roof was just... no.
I'm glad it worked out, too. Load off my back.
Nah, doesn't look like that at all. You're ok. It's ok :)
samuimoon
10-27-2019, 02:57 PM
Im new here and its a delicate issue, but i would posit that the little girl would benefit from some one on one daddy daughter outings, even if its just to the park for half and hour, your baby was just an easy target for those children who get to be with daddy all the time now. The time she spends with dad will help put her mind at ease and come to terms with the changes. I hope i have not overstepped my boundaries, just love children and feel for them, trying to make sense of the world around them.
NitaBaby
10-27-2019, 03:35 PM
Im new here and its a delicate issue, but i would posit that the little girl would benefit from some one on one daddy daughter outings, even if its just to the park for half and hour, your baby was just an easy target for those children who get to be with daddy all the time now. The time she spends with dad will help put her mind at ease and come to terms with the changes. I hope i have not overstepped my boundaries, just love children and feel for them, trying to make sense of the world around them.
Are you suggesting that my daughter spend more time with her dad? You're not overstepping anything. It's fine.
Her dad had to be begged and harassed to call them on their birthdays (i have three). So no, a day at the park isn't happening. Especially not now after he let his mom throw a car seat at my daughter. He'll be lucky if he can explain himself when she turns 18.
samuimoon
10-27-2019, 03:59 PM
No, no, your boyfriends daughter, was possibly bullying your youngest, because your baby is very openhearted and the littlest, but the bullying may be a symptom of your bfs daughter finding it hard to come to terms with her dad having a new family, as she might perceive it. Sorry i wasnt clearer. Sorry to hear you have to cope with a dysfunctional ex. Been there done that, for tooo long. Youre a beautiful protective Momma Bear and i cant believe you have one let alone three. Your children are very lucky.