View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
WendiStarr
11-14-2019, 04:05 PM
There's cuddlecomfort where you can be a pro and get paid to cuddle. You have to screen the guys yourself though. Some guys are not on there for platonic cuddling and some escorts are on there offering services. If you can deal with having to vet the guys yourself, you might do decently and that also depends on your location. I have some platonic cuddle regulars from there but have to weed out a lot of guys who are looking to just message back and forth and waste my time without ever booking a cuddle session or who are not looking for anything platonic.
Miss_ShaSha
11-14-2019, 06:06 PM
Just provided my first cuddling session and it was bad ass.
He wants to make it a regular thing. YASSSSSSS!!!! Thank you Universe!!!
That rocks!
BuffyFlame
11-14-2019, 07:33 PM
Is mygirlfund still a thing? I still have it bookmarked but I havnt been online in years.
Glamourmilf
11-15-2019, 10:13 AM
I def will! :) I keep reading all these complaints on this fb group I'm a part of & when I was skimming thru CL last night for a temp spot where Im at now, I just threw in the towel. It's literally a lost cause in CA looking for suitable and affordable housing anymore. Even for a fuckin temp room, these assclowns feel entitled to first, last AND a security deposit?! Ummm ya just so you know that is in fact illegal to ask of a future tenant.
They can only legally ask for ONE deposit that does NOT exceed the rent. I didn't know that was a legit law until I researched it.
Yes I know that most people want things & to have a permanent spot but honestly with all the shitty neighbors & slumlords these days, Im gonna eat the cost in the end with Airbnb. I love that I can bail whenever I feel like it :)
Agreed. California is the worst when it comes to greedy landlords.
That first, last AND Security deposit USED to be legal ( I have paid it more times than I'd like to admit). But, it's now clearly illegal.
I had just logged onto cam last night, when my phone rang. It was my landlady. No way I'm going to answer it.
She never calls, unless she's wanting to start an argument over something. She already sent a text that morning, alerting me that the maintenance guy was coming next Mon to wash down the exterior.
Naturally, my mind starts racing. My lease is up at the end of December. Is she still not going to renew it, like she's threatened to a few months ago?
Did my annoying neighbors who never leave the apt complain that they hear me camming?
She left a voicemail saying that the bug guy is coming next week, and do I want my yard sprayed?
Huh? Why is she calling me for that, when she usually texts that info?
She STILL hasn't sent anyone over to repair my fence, or replace the vandalized mailboxes. It's been over 3 months, so I'm not holding my breath.
Ugh. I miss my previous landlord ( even though he was a perv).
I miss living in the Airbnb, where the owner minded his business.
This old cranky woman has us all on pins and needles. I hate her.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-15-2019, 07:16 PM
I hope you feel better! This is why I refused flu shots because I don't know how my body will react.
Man, that blows. Sending good vibes for peaceful rest tonight.
Usually flu shots don't hit me this hard. In the past the effects wear off after a few hours after I get some sleep. But this time it was so bad I had to go to the doctor today. I feel better even though I'm still a bit achey. I only went to make sure I didn't already have the flu when I got the shot. I would still recommend that people get one to avoid getting sick. My situation is rare and could have something to do with my immune system. I hadn't been sleeping as much as I should and have been hustling around the clock. Thanks for the concern.
Here's a funny story from when I was in the waiting room:
An old man sat down beside me and said hello. His voice was extremely faint but I was able to hear him enough. I said hello back and then started to listen to a podcast while I waited for the doctor. Every now and again I'd hear him say something but I didn't know what he was saying.
I got curious and turned the volume down and homeboy was like "Bitch! You stunting on me? I can make yo life better." I noticed he had a phone in his hand and he was holding it like he was talking into the mic. I go back to listening to my podcast.
A few minutes later I see a nurse walk over to speak to him and everyone is staring at me! I turn the volume back down and he goes "I was just trying to talk to the bitch!!"
Y'all this old man had been cussing me out and calling me names for ten minutes and I didn't even know it. He was trying to shoot his crusty ol shot and got mad because he thought I was ignoring him.
They walked him out and I asked the lobby what else did he say and this woman said "Oh Honey, it's best that you don't know."
Wow
miss.a.p1600
11-15-2019, 07:24 PM
Sex
...or lack thereof
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-15-2019, 09:35 PM
Sex
...or lack thereof
Who do you mean?
miss.a.p1600
11-15-2019, 11:13 PM
^well this celibacy has been going on waaaaay too long
izshadow
11-16-2019, 12:58 PM
Why do all the sites seem to be dead at once then when you get busy on one they ALL get busy? I think there's some universal 'cam traffic switch' and some god/goddess somewhere is having a right laugh with it!
Literally just happened to me as we speak.... cam call on NF coming in, as well as a PSO call from another account and another guy wanting to go EXC.... fuck... come on!
Marina Starr
11-16-2019, 01:02 PM
Must be by choice because with so many hook up sites these days you should have no problem getting dick! You got tinder, plenty of beast, bumble, adultfriendfinder and so many more that I just can't keep up, LOOL.
^well this celibacy has been going on waaaaay too long
Glamourmilf
11-17-2019, 10:14 AM
I'm beyond sick of these 90 degree days.
Mid November?
How is a hoe gonna stay looking cute, when she's sweating bullets, and her coochie and anal cavity are dripping wet? Butt crack sweat is no joke yo.
:'(:butthead::crackup:
Esixxx
11-17-2019, 12:24 PM
My happy ass is keeping away from Twitter today. Some people's post have got me like this
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NitaBaby
11-17-2019, 12:42 PM
^^Titty sweat is the reason I'm getting a boob job. I want air to be able to pass under these things at all times of the day.
anonymous camgirl
11-17-2019, 01:34 PM
Ok I got a boob job and that's when the boob sweat started.. I have 550 CC's and I had lil b cups before and then they went to DD's.. can't wait to get rid of them and have cute perky lil tits.
^^Titty sweat is the reason I'm getting a boob job. I want air to be able to pass under these things at all times of the day.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-17-2019, 02:35 PM
I've been doing some research on Etsy, big cartel and Shopify. Basically drawing comparisons between them all when I stumbled upon some discussion forums. These mainstream sellers are complaining about paying $10 a month for fees!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Or having to pay $1 for six featured items. I couldn't help but think about bidding on Niteflirt. They would lose their minds. On the flip side e-commerce sites give way more features for mainstream providers than these adult companies. Reading vanilla vents is interesting.
TheBrownFox
11-17-2019, 02:58 PM
I've wondered this too.
I loved the Airbnbs I stayed in.
For me, it's a matter of being able to move out if a bad neighbor moves in next door.
When I first moved into my place, I had the loveliest neighbor.
She moved out, and drug dealers moved in. They blasted their bass 24/7.
Now, I'm dealing with an older, but extremely loud couple, who never leave the place.
They follow me around too.
If this was an Airbnb, I would have moved on a long time ago.
Let me know if you decide to go that route, and how you like it.
Edit to add: I have a nice patio, and fenced in yard.
Can I ever use it?
No.
There's a neighbor next door, in a 2 story apt, who chain smokes outside from early morning (4 am, until 2 am the next day). He's hanging out on the railing next to me. It a non smoking building too. I spoke to the owner. Nothing he will do.
Cigarette smoke is the bane of my existence.
I also live in a non smoking building. Yet, the bitch next door leaves all her doors and windows open and also chain smokes.
My son and I also HATE cigarette smoke with a passion. We've been living in a "non-smoking hotel" since October 24, and I got an Air Wick plug-in because I couldn't stand how much it reeked of smoke when we moved in. Even with that + spraying and wiping things down, there's just no getting that smell out completely. And the one day our bathroom actually smelled like weed.
NitaBaby
11-17-2019, 03:43 PM
My sister has Disney+ for a year and came over, sign into the app on my Roku, and created a profile for my daughters.
Thank you Jebus.
NitaBaby
11-17-2019, 03:50 PM
Ok I got a boob job and that's when the boob sweat started.. I have 550 CC's and I had lil b cups before and then they went to DD's.. can't wait to get rid of them and have cute perky lil tits.
I seriously hope that's not the case, but I guess I wouldn't be able to tell the difference since they sweat anyway.
Big boobs are truly overrated. I envy the women who can wear cute little bras and move around without having to constantly consider the two grocery bags on their chest . Whereas us big titty bitches have to settle for monochromatic colors and hold these bad boys down the second you break into a fast walk. Might get a reduction.
WendiStarr
11-17-2019, 07:11 PM
I hope I get some shows tonight. I plan on camming until 2am. I've got my bag of apple chips with me and a big bottle of water. I'm set for a couple hours, lol.
I seriously hope that's not the case, but I guess I wouldn't be able to tell the difference since they sweat anyway.
Big boobs are truly overrated. I envy the women who can wear cute little bras and move around without having to constantly consider the two grocery bags on their chest . Whereas us big titty bitches have to settle for monochromatic colors and hold these bad boys down the second you break into a fast walk. Might get a reduction.
Please dont envy 'me' cause i never got proper tits, when i was slim i almost had nothing on my chest and now that i am a big girl i finally got 'something' but not enough for my curvy body and not enough for this job 1st of all, i could be a lot more successful if i had a pair of 'proper tits'... on the street i wear bras just to show i got something there but i really dont need a bra if u know what i mean, i am just ashamed to look flat chested considering my body type.
I know life is not easy with big breasts but u dont know how lucky you are to have them for camming use cause big tits are not over rated, not at all, not having tits is a serious issue.
Ok, young slim petite girls with small tits are a thing but curvy older lady with small tits is something u rarely see.
Just love ur breasts pls :)
NitaBaby
11-18-2019, 04:18 AM
^^You make a good point. Kinda feel silly when i think about it.
samuimoon
11-18-2019, 04:21 AM
I seriously hope that's not the case, but I guess I wouldn't be able to tell the difference since they sweat anyway.
Big boobs are truly overrated. I envy the women who can wear cute little bras and move around without having to constantly consider the two grocery bags on their chest . Whereas us big titty bitches have to settle for monochromatic colors and hold these bad boys down the second you break into a fast walk. Might get a reduction.
I really dony think you quite realise the level of your beauty. One day imma have to break it down for you...:)
queenelayliah
11-18-2019, 04:33 AM
I've been doing some research on Etsy, big cartel and Shopify. Basically drawing comparisons between them all when I stumbled upon some discussion forums. These mainstream sellers are complaining about paying $10 a month for fees!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Or having to pay $1 for six featured items. I couldn't help but think about bidding on Niteflirt. They would lose their minds. On the flip side e-commerce sites give way more features for mainstream providers than these adult companies. Reading vanilla vents is interesting.
One of the reasons why i wanted to start my own e-commerce store. It cheaper to “bid”, more ways to get customers and you can use google Adsense on your blogs.
Midwest-Mistress
11-18-2019, 05:26 AM
Solange Said "I saw things I imagined" & I saw money going into my bank account. So I'm about to go get my ass on Cam after avoiding it like the plague all week. Cheers Hopefully my phone line will be busy this morning as well if not busier lol.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-18-2019, 08:44 AM
One of the reasons why i wanted to start my own e-commerce store. It cheaper to “bid”, more ways to get customers and you can use google Adsense on your blogs.
You definitely don't have to do all the different work arounds that we go through in adult as mainstream industries. I have a vanilla merchant account that I use for my food truck. It's completely legit but yet I still have the urge to lie whenever I deal with the bank or anything with marketing. After hiding behind aliases for so long it's kinda hard to shake the instinct. But I do think working in the sex industry this long has helped with starting other ventures. The things mainstream people complain about seem so trivial to me because it's not as restricted.
After some thinking I'll probably go with Etsy for advertising because it already has it's own built-in traffic. Plus I'll start a blog to build my own. But I won't be doing any of this until at least February. Right now I don't have the time because it's all about getting this sad lonely holiday money.
Glamourmilf
11-18-2019, 10:14 AM
My son and I also HATE cigarette smoke with a passion. We've been living in a "non-smoking hotel" since October 24, and I got an Air Wick plug-in because I couldn't stand how much it reeked of smoke when we moved in. Even with that + spraying and wiping things down, there's just no getting that smell out completely. And the one day our bathroom actually smelled like weed.
Argh! I feel for you. That lingering smell of cigarette smoke is a bitch to get out of a place.
The couple who lived in my apartment previously were smokers.
They never smoked inside, probably because they had a baby.
But, my yard was littered with cigarette butts after they moved. Which is probably where they smoked.
I was the one to remove all those butts, because my landlord wouldn't.
Gross!!!!:yuck:
I can not believe that in the year ( almost 2020) that people are still smoking.
I can't even get away from it when I'm out.
Inevitably someone driving in front of me is smoking. Or is outside every store that I go in chain smoking.
And the coughing. They're all coughing with their mouths open.:toldoff:
Kill me now.
Marina Starr
11-18-2019, 11:40 AM
I fucking hate this cold ass weather so fucking much. How cold? 60s is cold if you're a Floridian. My body hates it. Give me 90s and sunny anyday.
NitaBaby
11-18-2019, 12:18 PM
I can't wait for my diet to translate into weight loss. I like being vegan again but I like the end result even more.
My belly damn near sits in my lap these days. Why TF did I stop being vegan in the first place???
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-18-2019, 12:18 PM
I fucking hate this cold ass weather so fucking much. How cold? 60s is cold if you're a Floridian. My body hates it. Give me 90s and sunny anyday.
It's 71° here, 60% humidity. If it weren't for the rain, I'd call it balmy beach weather. You'd be impressed to know we actually turned the ac off finally. :) My windows have been open all day. I understand how you feel but I just can't get enough of this weather. I'll be in Philly in a couple of days and if it's windy, I will probably feel like you do. Cold and Windy weather is bullshit.
AlexiaJacobs
11-18-2019, 01:09 PM
I can't wait for my diet to translate into weight loss. I like being vegan again but I like the end result even more.
My belly damn near sits in my lap these days. Why TF did I stop being vegan in the first place???
I've gone vegan before but I'm gonna try going back to just cutting out all sugars and processed foods. Lean meat and veggies seem to work for me. I been tryin' to talk myself into a diet for weeks now. I knew I was getting bigger when I tried painting my toes and suddenly they're further away than the last time. -_-
NitaBaby
11-18-2019, 02:01 PM
I've gone vegan before but I'm gonna try going back to just cutting out all sugars and processed foods. Lean meat and veggies seem to work for me. I been tryin' to talk myself into a diet for weeks now. I knew I was getting bigger when I tried painting my toes and suddenly they're further away than the last time. -_-
I got called a "cute little piggy" on cam during an exclusive show this past weekend. and couldn't even work up the nerve to be offended. I'm officially a fat ass.
I hope you stick with it, it sounds like you know what works for you. I might add a gym membership to the mix since I get paid tomorrow.
izshadow
11-18-2019, 02:15 PM
Trying to set up whatsup for a texting platform... I put my username as my profile name and then it asked to add my contacts from my phone... I clicked on no but now I cant add a contact.... I dont want my friends to know... should I have just put my real name? I'm so confused... its for my little secret... new texting platform and can be connected to boylen models for pay.
xxxGothBarbie
11-18-2019, 06:42 PM
My son and I also HATE cigarette smoke with a passion. We've been living in a "non-smoking hotel" since October 24, and I got an Air Wick plug-in because I couldn't stand how much it reeked of smoke when we moved in. Even with that + spraying and wiping things down, there's just no getting that smell out completely. And the one day our bathroom actually smelled like weed.
Try a cheap air purifier, I've noticed a huge difference with them :)
Also burning sage might help eliminate that stale smoke odor as well. I grew up with parents that both smoked & I always had bronchitis bc of it & haven't had it since thankfully since I haven't been in a smokers environment.
TheBrownFox
11-18-2019, 11:23 PM
I fucking hate this cold ass weather so fucking much. How cold? 60s is cold if you're a Floridian. My body hates it. Give me 90s and sunny anyday.
I hate it too! I get the blues this time of year.
SapphireXO
11-19-2019, 08:48 AM
I got called a "cute little piggy" on cam during an exclusive show this past weekend. and couldn't even work up the nerve to be offended. I'm officially a fat ass.
I hope you stick with it, it sounds like you know what works for you. I might add a gym membership to the mix since I get paid tomorrow.
I remember when an alpha regular was in the middle of degrading me and called me a "fat bitch." Since he buys shows from me all the time he specifically told me it was just what came to his mind when we was "using me." He didn't mean I was unattractive or letting myself go in any way. Men are so weird. Don't take it personally.
NitaBaby
11-19-2019, 09:15 AM
I remember when an alpha regular was in the middle of degrading me and called me a "fat bitch." Since he buys shows from me all the time he specifically told me it was just what came to his mind when we was "using me." He didn't mean I was unattractive or letting myself go in any way. Men are so weird. Don't take it personally.
He said "piggy" like he liked that shit. And THAT'S what made me think "oh damn".
If somebody came in trying to insult me I would have just brushed it off and flipped him the finger. But the positive way that he said it had the opposite effect lol. Probably makes no sense.
Marina Starr
11-19-2019, 11:51 AM
You know what really cracks me the fuck up? It is when ugly ass men think you want them knowing damn well the only way they can get pussy is paying for it, LOOOOOL.
AlexiaJacobs
11-19-2019, 01:55 PM
He said "piggy" like he liked that shit. And THAT'S what made me think "oh damn".
If somebody came in trying to insult me I would have just brushed it off and flipped him the finger. But the positive way that he said it had the opposite effect lol. Probably makes no sense.
I totally get this lol. Years ago back when I went out I was standing outside a nightclub smoking a cigarette and I heard some dude tell another dude "Look at that girl. I love em thick like that." And back then I think I was smaller than even now. But I remember being so offended he considered me bigger. Which is stupid. Some of the most gorgeous women are considered plus size. You may remember her from Bonga but the girl who legit takes 1st place every week in the Top 100 is plus size and she is beautiful. I would watch her to get tips on how to climb the ranks and I was totally mesmerized lol. She exuded so much confidence you couldn't help but fall in love with her.
I would love to just be ok in my own skin but society has conditioned us so hard lol. Honestly I think most men prefer real looking women and media has us believing the opposite. Also, men who want that unattainable look are children anyway and don't understand most images are photoshopped like crazy.
I think I just talked myself outta dieting lol
NitaBaby
11-19-2019, 02:21 PM
^^lmao!
felt this in my soul.
xxxGothBarbie
11-19-2019, 04:56 PM
I totally get this lol. Years ago back when I went out I was standing outside a nightclub smoking a cigarette and I heard some dude tell another dude "Look at that girl. I love em thick like that." And back then I think I was smaller than even now. But I remember being so offended he considered me bigger. Which is stupid. Some of the most gorgeous women are considered plus size. You may remember her from Bonga but the girl who legit takes 1st place every week in the Top 100 is plus size and she is beautiful. I would watch her to get tips on how to climb the ranks and I was totally mesmerized lol. She exuded so much confidence you couldn't help but fall in love with her.
I would love to just be ok in my own skin but society has conditioned us so hard lol. Honestly I think most men prefer real looking women and media has us believing the opposite. Also, men who want that unattainable look are children anyway and don't understand most images are photoshopped like crazy.
I think I just talked myself outta dieting lol
Girl I feel u! I used to be so self conscious about my weight & how tiny I was 10 years ago yada yada but camming helped me change that mindset. Fuck what guys think! Shit, I just made a dam cake last night & enjoyed all those calories ;)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-19-2019, 05:10 PM
Girl I feel u! I used to be so self conscious about my weight & how tiny I was 10 years ago yada yada but camming helped me change that mindset. Fuck what guys think! Shit, I just made a dam cake last night & enjoyed all those calories ;)
Ha! We may have been baking a cake at the same time! It was 2am here when I made it. It came out so pretty and then I sat my fat ass right on top of it. It was for a cake sitting custom. My husband woke up because he smelled it but then got sad when he saw it all mangled in the trash. I really should have baked two of them. I think I'm gonna hit up Publix after reading this post.
xxxGothBarbie
11-19-2019, 07:13 PM
Ha! We may have been baking a cake at the same time! It was 2am here when I made it. It came out so pretty and then I sat my fat ass right on top of it. It was for a cake sitting custom. My husband woke up because he smelled it but then got sad when he saw it all mangled in the trash. I really should have baked two of them. I think I'm gonna hit up Publix after reading this post.
Dam girl that sounds awesome! LOL You totally just gave me an idea for a video :)
But yes I LURV my cake!!! I made a butter pecan cake with cream cheese buttercream frosting.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-20-2019, 09:40 AM
Dam girl that sounds awesome! LOL You totally just gave me an idea for a video :)
But yes I LURV my cake!!! I made a butter pecan cake with cream cheese buttercream frosting.
A butter pecan cake sounds divine. Do you put the pecans in the cake batter?
minibagel
11-20-2019, 01:49 PM
I have to leave the house today
queenelayliah
11-20-2019, 02:18 PM
money. How to make money. How to save money.....HOW TO MAKE MONEY. Im so broke. Sigh. Im literally daydreaming about a situation where i get kidnapped by aliens and become their queen And sex work is so glorified in this intra galactic community of 3,000 species i become the most richest person & infamous with a gazillion galactic dollars in my bank account.
Sigh pathetic i know but it keeps me happy and not get lost in a fog of depression.
Isn’t this lovely: —>
Each band is $10,000
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xxxGothBarbie
11-20-2019, 05:31 PM
A butter pecan cake sounds divine. Do you put the pecans in the cake batter?
Well it was a boxed cake mix that I doctored up by adding milk & butter instead of water & oil. I should've added them in plus in the frosting but the dam things hurt my teeth & also were kinda pricey so I skipped out this time.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-21-2019, 08:19 AM
Y'all ever listen to songs when you were young thinking it's all good...but then you grow up and realize those songs were toxic af? Betty Wright is still one of my favs. I've even met her twice, but No Pain No Gain is messy and problematic. :) I use to sing this at the top of my lungs. I just listened to it while cleaning the house and then a couple of lines hit me. Like Betty, say what?
https://youtu.be/D5eFG5TYx-Y
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-21-2019, 08:23 AM
Here's another one by Benny Mardones "Into The Night".
She's just sixteen years old. Leave her alone they say....
Yuck! I use to sing my heart out to that song in elementary school. My parents didn't pay attention to shit!
https://youtu.be/ZF5o8Z45TTk
Esixxx
11-21-2019, 12:18 PM
The $5 Nacho Box from Taco Bell is calling my name. My happy is indulging after this afternoon shift.
Miss_ShaSha
11-21-2019, 03:32 PM
The $5 Nacho Box from Taco Bell is calling my name. My happy is indulging after this afternoon shift.
Fuck, that sounds good! I might get a Mexican cheeseburger, but if there was a Taco Bell nearby I'd be there. I love their Gorditos and Doritos Locos tacos.
Dude, I'm so hungry my bellybutton is eating my asshole LOLOL