View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-11-2020, 09:05 AM
If that's what 43 looks like then kill me now.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-11-2020, 04:08 PM
I just pre-purchased movie tickets for The Photograph with Issa Rae. It looks really good too! We're doing a matinee date for vday. I can't stay awake during night time movies plus I think l wanna go to the keys? A Saturday morning drive shouldn't have much traffic. I can't wait until Spring. I'm rambling. ☺️
https://youtu.be/amDpFI2yviU
miss.a.p1600
02-11-2020, 08:22 PM
I’m bored and stripper webs is not live.....well except the cam section! It’s always live
Speaking of valentines- i May try some freestyling hoping some single sugar daddy gone be out looking for me
For sure I’m stocking up on chocolate strawberries and champagne
Has anyone seen that movie escort? It’s staring one of my fav actresses
Marina Starr
02-12-2020, 11:17 AM
I need Epsom salt!
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naomi_doll
02-13-2020, 07:23 PM
Valentine's Day is my favorite holiday. My Grandpa used to give me flowers and chocolate (in a not creepy way lol) every year when I was a kid. He's been gone for 20 years, but he really taught me that this holiday is about the people you love, even if its not romantically. I hope you all have an awesome Valentine's Day!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-13-2020, 07:56 PM
I love Valentine's Day too. Even when I was single I still loved it. I know people like to say it's a commercial holiday but I just ignore it. For me it's a feel good holiday and I love the hot pinks and red colors all over the place.
DonaDiabla
02-13-2020, 07:57 PM
I love Valentine's Day as well too :) My family celebrate it as more of family day.
Valentine's Day is my favorite holiday. My Grandpa used to give me flowers and chocolate (in a not creepy way lol) every year when I was a kid. He's been gone for 20 years, but he really taught me that this holiday is about the people you love, even if its not romantically. I hope you all have an awesome Valentine's Day!
izshadow
02-13-2020, 09:56 PM
I've been dealing with a migraine again for the past two days so its messed me up with camming but I'll be back at it tomorrow night. I had hoped to take the dogs out for V day ice cream but my head won and the PSO lines were ringing so I hope I can get them to the ice cream shop tomorrow late morning and then I'll hit the farm in the afternoon.
I'm tempted to stop by Sally's on the way home and pick up some hair color. Not the kill your hair permanent one but the soft like conditioning color.... like pink or purple or something like that. Part of me is starting to hate the wigs. Stupid Fibro and lupus. It is what caused me to shave my head due to the pain I was in. I'm going to keep it short but needed to "start over" and within a year I'll have the style I wanted and can upkeep from there. But like maybe if I just put some extreme color in it and hop on cam... I know I'll lose some regulars but I'm not banking anyways. Sooooooo ugh. I dunno. Not many girls on SM or NF have a shaved head (or they do and wear a wig) so it may be tossing gasoline in to an already open flame of hell.
Esixxx
02-13-2020, 11:16 PM
I've been dealing with a migraine again for the past two days so its messed me up with camming but I'll be back at it tomorrow night. I had hoped to take the dogs out for V day ice cream but my head won and the PSO lines were ringing so I hope I can get them to the ice cream shop tomorrow late morning and then I'll hit the farm in the afternoon.
I'm tempted to stop by Sally's on the way home and pick up some hair color. Not the kill your hair permanent one but the soft like conditioning color.... like pink or purple or something like that. Part of me is starting to hate the wigs. Stupid Fibro and lupus. It is what caused me to shave my head due to the pain I was in. I'm going to keep it short but needed to "start over" and within a year I'll have the style I wanted and can upkeep from there. But like maybe if I just put some extreme color in it and hop on cam... I know I'll lose some regulars but I'm not banking anyways. Sooooooo ugh. I dunno. Not many girls on SM or NF have a shaved head (or they do and wear a wig) so it may be tossing gasoline in to an already open flame of hell.
I use ION Color Brilliance Brights- you just apply it straight on
sexysusie
02-14-2020, 12:05 AM
How lonely this work really is especially when times are tough and models start backstabbing others to get rid of the competition.
NitaBaby
02-14-2020, 04:37 AM
Valentine's Day is my favorite holiday. My Grandpa used to give me flowers and chocolate (in a not creepy way lol) every year when I was a kid. He's been gone for 20 years, but he really taught me that this holiday is about the people you love, even if its not romantically. I hope you all have an awesome Valentine's Day!
Sameeee. I absolutely love this holiday and pretty much ignore everyone who gripes about it. What they say is never original. Valentines Day is Love Day and I hope everyone has the best day with their loved one/s today.
Cutie101
02-14-2020, 02:06 PM
All of those people sad on Valentine's and holidays for being single, while I wish I was single.
I know some are not like me, I am a solitary person and I like to be with myself. But still, aaahhhh, how would that be to be all alone?
I mean, I may be biased, because it's something I never had. I lived with my parents till 18, then I moved with my bf. I can barely sleep if he is not home, I get scared and panicky, but in the same time, I wanna be alone and work& play on console and never leave the house. Maybe just for gym, nails and wrecking my bank account at sephora. No human interaction.
I think I am crazy lol.
naomi_doll
02-14-2020, 02:09 PM
Maintenance finally came and painted my wall so I'm free! No more awkwardly waiting for them while I keep missing shows. I'm ready to collect all the money now.
MissAdriana
02-14-2020, 03:03 PM
Mentally debating with myself if continuing to do custom orders is worth the hassle. And they always seem to be a hassle. The most clingy, needy customers. More than half of my requests are turned down due to them just wanting illegal stuff or violating site TOS. So I'm declining at least 1 a week. What am I getting from responding to these emails? Nothing. Maybe I should stop responding altogether. Then the people who are serious have 20 questions who can't just ask them in 1 message they have to play phone tag with you doing the back and forth game for days before they decide to commit. I don't know anymore.
Cutie101
02-14-2020, 03:06 PM
Mentally debating with myself if continuing to do custom orders is worth the hassle. And they always seem to be a hassle. The most clingy, needy customers. More than half of my requests are turned down due to them just wanting illegal stuff or violating site TOS. So I'm declining at least 1 a week. What am I getting from responding to these emails? Nothing. Maybe I should stop responding altogether. Then the people who are serious have 20 questions who can't just ask them in 1 message they have to play phone tag with you doing the back and forth game for days before they decide to commit. I don't know anymore.
Raise the price to make it worth. I charge $10/min for a custom. Because I don't have too many requests. But I'd ask $15 or more, if it becomes more and more requested.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-14-2020, 03:17 PM
Honestly, kinda sad that Camming Sucks is now closed indefinitely it seems. Yeah, maybe there arent other sites where we can complain and vent and its not the norm, but also maybe that was part of what makes this forum special. Id say a lot of us dont really have a lot of friends who can relate so its nice to be able to blow off some steam while on a shift so as not to take it out on custies....i mean, i respect the decision, just kinda sucks, personally. I cant really think of a better, healthier way to vent than to my peers who understand what im going through day to day...but maybe thats on me. Idk. It sucks to no longer Suck lol
I respect your opinion. But this thread will not become Camming Sucks Part Two. Nor will it be the place to discuss it. If anyone has a question you can send me a private message. Please be respectful. I was having a lovely day but once again someone who forgot that there's life outside their misery loaded up my inbox.
naomi_doll
02-14-2020, 03:26 PM
Honestly, kinda sad that Camming Sucks is now closed indefinitely it seems. Yeah, maybe there arent other sites where we can complain and vent and its not the norm, but also maybe that was part of what makes this forum special. Id say a lot of us dont really have a lot of friends who can relate so its nice to be able to blow off some steam while on a shift so as not to take it out on custies....i mean, i respect the decision, just kinda sucks, personally. I cant really think of a better, healthier way to vent than to my peers who understand what im going through day to day...but maybe thats on me. Idk. It sucks to no longer Suck lol
Maybe you or someone could set up a private group here? Or maybe a discord server or skype group?
ETA: Sorry just saw the other posts, this is only thing I'll say about it.
MissAdriana
02-14-2020, 03:26 PM
Raise the price to make it worth. I charge $10/min for a custom. Because I don't have too many requests. But I'd ask $15 or more, if it becomes more and more requested.
I will do that thanks
That being said the only other things on my mind rn is trying to make enough money to get my electric bill paid and the smell of the spaghetti sauce my roomate is making right now that is making me drool on myself on cam lol. #glamour
Drool is a fetish you better record that bb!
DahliaSimone
02-14-2020, 03:39 PM
Well, since my already tenuous mood was shat on and you can only use this thread if you have something super positive to say, im just going to wish you lovely ladies a Happy Valentines Day and I hope you all kill it. Im going to drown in spaghetti and weed tonight lol. Much love.
Esixxx
02-14-2020, 05:41 PM
Anyone else find cooking therapeutic?
This I have found myself wanting to cook all kinds of dishes :)
Marina Starr
02-14-2020, 05:52 PM
I do, I love cooking. I enjoy take outs but there are things only good #hoemade.
Anyone else find cooking therapeutic?
This I have found myself wanting to cook all kinds of dishes :)
NitaBaby
02-14-2020, 06:34 PM
Anyone else find cooking therapeutic?
This I have found myself wanting to cook all kinds of dishes :)
Cooking pastelillos as we speak. I'm so ready for the first bite.
I actually found this really beautiful video that shows how to make it. My family hasn't eaten this in over six months - a tragedy.
https://www.facebook.com/wearemitu/videos/2121004541533310/
~Carmen~
02-14-2020, 06:44 PM
I am pescatarian. I eat seafood but no meat. I just heard that Red Robin has an impossible veggie burger that's supposed to be delicious. Burgers are what I miss most. I'm going to try one tomorrow. So excited!
izshadow
02-14-2020, 08:19 PM
Tried to color my hair and it didnt take. I'm just beside myself. I should have never shaved off three years worth of hair. Yes the headaches and scalp pain are way way way less but I feel so freaking ugly. I'm already over wearing a wig on cam but unless color took, I just cant and I dont have the money to keep trying brands nor do I want to damage my hair again. Which was also another reason for shaving it all off. It was so damaged from all the box dye and hairdressers had it so screwed that no one could properly fix what the other did without screwing up something else. Ugh.
On the upside, the dogs were super excited to be taken out for ice cream on VDay and my farm pets were happy to see me. They dont care what I look like hahahaha.
sexysusie
02-14-2020, 09:55 PM
I am pescatarian. I eat seafood but no meat. I just heard that Red Robin has an impossible veggie burger that's supposed to be delicious. Burgers are what I miss most. I'm going to try one tomorrow. So excited!
I'm vegan and LOVE my burgers! Weirdly they are something i never ate as a pescatarian or meat eater before that. Can you get the beyond burgers and quorn ultimate burgers over there? DELICIOUS!!!
sexysusie
02-14-2020, 10:01 PM
I respect your opinion. But this thread will not become Camming Sucks Part Two. Nor will it be the place to discuss it. If anyone has a question you can send me a private message. Please be respectful. I was having a lovely day but once again someone who forgot that there's life outside their misery loaded up my inbox.
I for one am SO glad you did that! Venting now and again is normal but some people are so dedicated to being perpetually miserable and glass half empty, and they try to drag everyone else down with them. Unfortunately there are other forums with threads like that - the adultwork forum is pretty much entirely moan moan moan, it's why i left.
IvyRose
02-14-2020, 10:06 PM
Laying in hospital recovering from surgery day#1 and all I think is how badlyyyyyy i want to hustle and cam! I love the moneyhunt, I love freechatselling and the constant adjusting to different clients! Cannot wait to be healed and are my regs again (and work on crushing goals)
IvyRose
02-14-2020, 10:13 PM
I respect your opinion. But this thread will not become Camming Sucks Part Two. Nor will it be the place to discuss it. If anyone has a question you can send me a private message. Please be respectful. I was having a lovely day but once again someone who forgot that there's life outside their misery loaded up my inbox.
Just wanted to take a small moment to Thank PGD formoderating this forum and Hugs for having to go through this rough spot. Its my first posting in a loooooong time, thanks PGD for investing free time and your energy in keeping this a great place for us all <3
IvyRose
02-14-2020, 10:21 PM
I for one am SO glad you did that! Venting now and again is normal but some people are so dedicated to being perpetually miserable and glass half empty, and they try to drag everyone else down with them. Unfortunately there are other forums with threads like that - the adultwork forum is pretty much entirely moan moan moan, it's why i left.
Funny! Susie I was writing while you just posted yours!
It was also why i left
And it is now also why i return!
Thanks PGD!! <3
Nice to be back esp now in surgery recovery time. I bought a big stack of books a lot related to sales/influencing/psychology for upping the camming game. Now with sw combined iam super excited
sexysusie
02-14-2020, 10:26 PM
Funny! Susie I was writing while you just posted yours!
It was also why i left
And it is now also why i return!
Thanks PGD!! <3
Nice to be back esp now in surgery recovery time. I bought a big stack of books a lot related to sales/influencing/psychology for upping the camming game. Now with sw combined iam super excited
What books, what books? Next week i am gonna stock up on more before my kindle membership ends!
~Carmen~
02-14-2020, 10:35 PM
I'm vegan and LOVE my burgers! Weirdly they are something i never ate as a pescatarian or meat eater before that. Can you get the beyond burgers and quorn ultimate burgers over there? DELICIOUS!!!
I just did a search and found out the store I shop at has beyond burgers. I will try them and report back. Thanks so much!
IvyRose
02-14-2020, 10:37 PM
What books, what books? Next week i am gonna stock up on more before my kindle membership ends!527445274552746
Hope the screenshots are well visible! <3
Have not read them yet, but they looked promising to me (and ive yet to face the first book that teached me nothing)
sexysusie
02-14-2020, 10:48 PM
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Hope the screenshots are well visible! <3
Have not read them yet, but they looked promising to me (and ive yet to face the first book that teached me nothing)
I've read influence and flow, both brilliant. Highly recommend the follow up to influence 'presuasion'. Thanks, gonna grab the others x
naomi_doll
02-15-2020, 05:15 AM
You guys are going to make me read while I'm waiting for my new wig to get here! 4 Hour Work Week is ok, but Don't Bullshit Yourself is really really good. I'll also check out the others!
IvyRose
02-15-2020, 06:37 AM
You guys are going to make me read while I'm waiting for my new wig to get here! 4 Hour Work Week is ok, but Don't Bullshit Yourself is really really good. I'll also check out the others!
From all the bought books i started with Dont bullshit yourself , because Iam a fan of The writer and agree with you; awesome book ...loved the book too so far (did not have the chance yet to finish it)
Marina Starr
02-15-2020, 07:20 AM
Welcome back, Ivy! I hope you feel better!
Laying in hospital recovering from surgery day#1 and all I think is how badlyyyyyy i want to hustle and cam! I love the moneyhunt, I love freechatselling and the constant adjusting to different clients! Cannot wait to be healed and are my regs again (and work on crushing goals)
IvyRose
02-15-2020, 09:25 AM
Welcome back, Ivy! I hope you feel better!
Thank you Marina! Hoping to be able to leave hospital at monday. Was feeling a lot better last night and in morning when narcose was still in body. Hopefully they give a Nice strong painkiller at night!
nattyfetish
02-15-2020, 12:01 PM
Thank you Marina! Hoping to be able to leave hospital at monday. Was feeling a lot better last night and in morning when narcose was still in body. Hopefully they give a Nice strong painkiller at night!
Get well soon ! When you are down, your body beeing sick and incapable to work... That is when you learn how much you actually wish to be able to do it ! Somehow like a lesson to apreciate it more. Been there , done that.
You will kick ass in no time Ivy ! :)
~Carmen~
02-15-2020, 01:02 PM
It is really great to have you back Ivy! I hope your recovery is quick and smooth!
IvyRose
02-15-2020, 01:09 PM
Thanks Natty and Carmen! <3 ! When I get through this night all will prob be easier, getting extra painmedication now and hope to sleep tight:)
Genoveve
02-15-2020, 02:30 PM
I love Valentine's Day too. Even when I was single I still loved it. I know people like to say it's a commercial holiday but I just ignore it. For me it's a feel good holiday and I love the hot pinks and red colors all over the place.
Same! And I'm a chocoholic so because Valentine's is all about pink and red and purple and chocolates and hearts everywhere it's my favorite holiday. Valentine's and Easter because with Easter I love all the pastel rainbow colors and bunny and chick stuff and candy everywhere.
TheBrownFox
02-15-2020, 03:42 PM
I went to Valentine's Day karaoke last night (Yes, by myself), wearing this sexy pink dress I got from Goodwill for only $7. :) Now I'm about to leave soon for a former coworker's bachelorette party (She'll have strippers there!). Tomorrow I'm gonna see that new Fantasy Island movie in theaters.
Marina Starr
02-15-2020, 03:44 PM
You go girl, living life!!!
I went to Valentine's Day karaoke last night (Yes, by myself), wearing this sexy pink dress I got from Goodwill for only $7. :) Now I'm about to leave soon for a former coworker's bachelorette party (She'll have strippers there!). Tomorrow I'm gonna see that new Fantasy Island movie in theaters.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-15-2020, 04:43 PM
Just wanted to take a small moment to Thank PGD formoderating this forum and Hugs for having to go through this rough spot. Its my first posting in a loooooong time, thanks PGD for investing free time and your energy in keeping this a great place for us all <3
Thank you Ivy! I have a lot of respect for you and I appreciate your kind words. Also thank you to everyone else for being so sweet to me. I needed that and truly appreciate it. ♥️
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-15-2020, 04:47 PM
Same! And I'm a chocoholic so because Valentine's is all about pink and red and purple and chocolates and hearts everywhere it's my favorite holiday. Valentine's and Easter because with Easter I love all the pastel rainbow colors and bunny and chick stuff and candy everywhere.
You know one of my favorite things about Valentine's Day? It's all the discounted decorations and chocolates the next day! I walked out of the store this morning feeling like I stole something.
PixiieGirl
02-15-2020, 05:00 PM
speaking of chocolate I bought a big bar for my partner cause he had a long shift at work and it'd be a nice treat
I came on my period when I got home and ate it all lol
~Carmen~
02-15-2020, 05:33 PM
Oh my gosh, the impossible veggie burger from Red Robin was delicious! Best burger ever. I ate almost all of it and I'm not a big eater.
Marina Starr
02-15-2020, 05:57 PM
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TheBrownFox
02-15-2020, 10:29 PM
You go girl, living life!!!
I'm now Facebook friends with the first guy who stripped. :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-17-2020, 08:03 AM
I'm feeling like a blessed stuffed pig. My Mother made breakfast for us two mornings in a row. She's not that great a cook... except for breakfast and other random stuff. She knows how to make more pudding infused deserts than anyone I know. And her Mangu is the bomb. I just woke up three hours ago and I might already need a nap.