View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
TheBrownFox
04-10-2020, 11:56 AM
never had anything homegrown and let me tell you, i am 100% satisfied.
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lmfao!!!!!
TheBrownFox
04-10-2020, 02:34 PM
My new iPhone 11 (I chose the purple one) arrived today in the mail, and it's so pretty!
MissAdriana
04-11-2020, 09:47 AM
There is a pandemic going on but I want to buy a new purse. I don't need it. I only have 3 places I can wear it. I will use it for less than 1 hour a week. WHY DO I WANT IT SO BAD. It's on sale. I haven't bought a new handbag in 4 or 5 years? I still don't need 1. I just want 1. Something's wrong with me. Am I a terrible human, am I a fucking dumbass because I don't want to hoard every single cent I have while we lockdown for the next 6 months UGH
sexysusie
04-11-2020, 03:17 PM
There is a pandemic going on but I want to buy a new purse. I don't need it. I only have 3 places I can wear it. I will use it for less than 1 hour a week. WHY DO I WANT IT SO BAD. It's on sale. I haven't bought a new handbag in 4 or 5 years? I still don't need 1. I just want 1. Something's wrong with me. Am I a terrible human, am I a fucking dumbass because I don't want to hoard every single cent I have while we lockdown for the next 6 months UGH
Nope. I feel the same. Have spent so much money in the last two weeks!!!
NitaBaby
04-11-2020, 07:33 PM
Spent over an hour doing hair and makeup. Fire up the ole Streamate account, get all comfy, my mouse hovering over the Start Show button and boom. Power outage. Still sitting here almost three hours later just waitin. What a waste of makeup. Grrr.
Same thing happened to me, at around 6 or 7pm the same day. My outage lasted until 3pm the next day - and pissed isn't a colorful enough word to describe what I was. Hot as hell with three kids in the house, I went back and forth between Centerpoint blaming my apartment complexes equipment and my apartment complex blaming Centerpoint. My aunt came to pick us up and we've been staying over her house ever since but sheesh. Complete waste of eyelashes.
AlexiaJacobs
04-13-2020, 01:15 PM
Same thing happened to me, at around 6 or 7pm the same day. My outage lasted until 3pm the next day - and pissed isn't a colorful enough word to describe what I was. Hot as hell with three kids in the house, I went back and forth between Centerpoint blaming my apartment complexes equipment and my apartment complex blaming Centerpoint. My aunt came to pick us up and we've been staying over her house ever since but sheesh. Complete waste of eyelashes.
Yup, I feel you. I lost power at around 9pm til 6pm the next day. I live in northern New England so I was freezing my tits off haha. And we both wasted lashes and those suckers aint cheap. -_-
TheBrownFox
04-13-2020, 05:34 PM
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You guys...I just tried IBC cherry limeade for the first time the other day. LOVE IT! And I can tell right now this particular flavor isn't gonna be easy to find in stores around here.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-13-2020, 05:43 PM
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You guys...I just tried IBC cherry limeade for the first time the other day. LOVE IT! And I can tell right now this particular flavor isn't gonna be easy to find in stores around here.
Limeades over crushed ice are the bomb! Especially fresh limeades.
sexysusie
04-13-2020, 05:57 PM
my new studio room is really coming together and it looks amazing! I've laid wood style laminate flooring, got a velvet chaise longe and a tall mirror. I really wanted one of those vanity light mirrors but couldn't afford it so i fixed copper wire fairy lights all around the edge of this cheap ebay mirror and it's perfect! Next is to paint the walls, install a roller blind green screen and fix up the mirrored name sign on my filming wall :)
NitaBaby
04-13-2020, 09:35 PM
I'm a different level of 'over it' these days. Truly, honestly, utterly, completely, absolutely over it.
izshadow
04-13-2020, 09:54 PM
I wish I could figure out how to "stay up" 24/7 for PSO work and train my body to just nap between calls. I'm failing so bad on SM that its just making me feel so ugly since I cant even get anyone to like me in real life. I've always been friend zoned. Except my narc ex who zoned in on that cause thats apparently what they do. Ugh!
I also need to figure out this clip store thing I think. But it may be to much work haha, I dunno.
Marina Starr
04-14-2020, 07:13 AM
I am beyond over this lockdown, stay at home whorantine shit. I am so ready for America to reopen. Pandemic kills many but staying at home leads to death also because extended isolation can be dangerous for people with serious mental health conditions or substance abuse issues. It's dangerous for domestic violence victims. What's good for public safety as a whole can also harm individuals. #reopenAmerica #overit
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MissAdriana
04-14-2020, 08:11 AM
Pandemic kills many but staying at home leads to death also because extended isolation can be dangerous for people with serious mental health conditions or substance abuse issues. It's dangerous for domestic violence victims. What's good for public safety as a whole can also harm individuals.
I saw something on CNN website I think it was? "Most people" are worried about the affects of the pandemic such as the economy, the lockdown etc rather than the virus itself. I think that would be an argument for sure. I'm surprised crime hasn't gone up more and relieved by that. Co parents with shared custody of their children makes for a difficult situation to navigate too.. Sweden is taking the interesting approach of gathering instead of distancing,we'll see what happens.
TheBrownFox
04-15-2020, 09:39 AM
My sister and I both got our stimulus payments today via direct deposit, which we're thrilled about. I'm gonna watch Governor Hogan's live broadcast on FB later, and I'm hoping he has an announcement about schools. As of now, Maryland students are to return to school on Monday, April 27th. I believe they're gonna do like these other states, and keep schools closed for these remaining two months of the 2019-2020 school year. But they need to decide soon, because that's just 12 days away.
I feel so bad for all those high school seniors. No prom...senior trip...or graduation ceremony. I remember on December 31, telling myself "2020 IS GONNA BE MY YEAR!" But what a strange, strange year this has been so far...
Then I found out these people at the leasing office did some wacky "freak accident" shit, and totally messed up my rent balance. I wound up overpaying and shit.
Marina Starr
04-15-2020, 09:50 AM
Congrats on getting your money!
Secondly, it is time to slowly reopen America. #reopenAmerica #overit
My sister and I both got our stimulus payments today via direct deposit, which we're thrilled about. I'm gonna watch Governor Hogan's live broadcast on FB later, and I'm hoping he has an announcement about schools. As of now, Maryland students are to return to school on Monday, April 27th. I believe they're gonna do like these other states, and keep schools closed for these remaining two months of the 2019-2020 school year. But they need to decide soon, because that's just 12 days away.
I feel so bad for all those high school seniors. No prom...senior trip...or graduation ceremony. I remember on December 31, telling myself "2020 IS GONNA BE MY YEAR!" But what a strange, strange year this has been so far...
Then I found out these people at the leasing office did some wacky "freak accident" shit, and totally messed up my rent balance. I wound up overpaying and shit.
TheBrownFox
04-15-2020, 10:13 AM
Congrats on getting your money!
Secondly, it is time to slowly reopen America. #reopenAmerica #overit
Thanks! I can't wait for shit to get back to normal. I haven't been wearing one of those face masks, but someone told me they're gonna eventually REQUIRE that everyone wear one? And my son needs a haircut BADLY. He's looking rough...like he's just come home from Rikers Prison or something. Lmao.
And I miss karaoke nights.
And dammit, I wanna be able to go to Six Flags for my birthday in August...
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-15-2020, 12:50 PM
It's been nice being boo'd up during quarantine. ♥️ Now that it's back down to the usual number we can cuddle anywhere we want.
Serena113
04-15-2020, 09:15 PM
I had no idea how far I’d come as a SW until a newbie messaged me today on another site asking for advice. I’ve always looked up to the ladies here (despite having been involved in SW in various forms for the past 12ish years) because I was in awe of the business acumen quite a few of you display. Organization has never been my strong point, and never in my life did I think I would ever have anything like a business plan. But I realized that describing what I do to make my business work sounds kinda like *drum roll* a business plan. I’m also drawing up paperwork to incorporate so I can expand my business. Shit, the first thing I thought of when I got my stimulus check was to reinvest the money in my business. Crazy.
The scared, broke, desperate 18-year-old version of me that first set foot in a strip club years ago would be both horrified and amazed at the control SW has given me over my life. So thank you ladies for sharing your experiences and helping me (and many others, I’m sure) turn into a business owner in control of my life and my income :)
Genoveve
04-15-2020, 09:19 PM
Is there a pornstar named Rachel Ray? I had a guy in a camshow talking about the fleshlight he was using and he said it was the 'Rachel Ray kind,' I said "Rachel Ray??? That awful cook?" (I hate her recipes) and then he got disconnected before I got an answer lol.
TheBrownFox
04-16-2020, 10:59 AM
I NEEDED to use my vibrator last night, but couldn’t because the damn thing died on me! Getting a new one ASAP, because fuck this shit...
miss.a.p1600
04-16-2020, 11:25 AM
^lol! I hate when that happens.....
TheBrownFox
04-16-2020, 11:55 AM
^lol! I hate when that happens.....
My friend said to just use my phone. Nope, cell phone vibrations aren’t nearly strong enough (or even CONTINUOUS) to do anything. Lol. I’m buying a new vibrator TODAY. It’s “essential!”
miss.a.p1600
04-16-2020, 01:38 PM
Rechargeable batteries?
I remember one time being super horny and grabbed my vibrator then like 30 seconds in that mf died
I wanted to scream - and not in a good way.
I suppose it’s a good idea to have more than one vibrator and some rechargeable batteries on deck lol!
Although these days I just use my hand.
You could have hit that massaging shower head hehehe
TheBrownFox
04-16-2020, 02:55 PM
Rechargeable batteries?
No, it’s not a battery issue. It died.
I got a new vibrator from the condoms/lube aisle at Target. Lol. I’m about to test it out now.
PixiieGirl
04-16-2020, 02:59 PM
I forgot day drinking = headache by the evening lol
Marina Starr
04-16-2020, 04:07 PM
“To preserve the health of our citizens, we must also preserve the health and functioning of our economy.”
AMEN! #openingupAmericaagain
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Marina Starr
04-17-2020, 09:24 AM
Days 76834343 of #whorantine... so fucking bored in the house, in the house fucking bored.
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PixiieGirl
04-17-2020, 10:20 AM
3 more weeks minimum of lockdown here - but Im actually getting into the groove of things nicely and honestly - not too worried about it :D
Marina Starr
04-18-2020, 06:45 AM
Not surprised, not surprised one bit!
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JackAlexander
04-18-2020, 10:22 AM
I forgot day drinking = headache by the evening lol
:) I love day drinking! If I time it just right, I fall asleep before headache and wake up never knowing what happened! I am a huge fan... night drinking, for means, the entire next 1-2 days are hosed.
TheBrownFox
04-18-2020, 10:36 AM
As of now, the date for Maryland schools to reopen is Monday, May 18. Today is also the first day that face coverings/masks are mandatory in public.
PixiieGirl
04-18-2020, 12:17 PM
:) I love day drinking! If I time it just right, I fall asleep before headache and wake up never knowing what happened! I am a huge fan... night drinking, for means, the entire next 1-2 days are hosed.
it was definitely needed tbh, been hustling so hard I was super burnt out but having a few drinks with friends on zoom helped!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-18-2020, 06:06 PM
Babyface verzus Teddy Riley is about to go down on Instagram.
Marina Starr
04-19-2020, 05:23 AM
What's even the point of reopening school that late? In Florida schools are out by the end of May. Our Governor just announced that schools are to remain closed for the year.
I think schools should be closed but give kids short breaks to make up for loss.
Florida is slowly reopening and I couldn't be more excited. It is time to reopen! #openingupAmericaagain
As of now, the date for Maryland schools to reopen is Monday, May 18. Today is also the first day that face coverings/masks are mandatory in public.
NitaBaby
04-19-2020, 05:33 AM
My kids would be at a high risk of failing the entire year if Texas decided to open the schools back up. There's just no way in hell I'd let them be the first batch of crash test dummies to check and see if everything turns out alright. The school district for my kids sent out an email last week officially stating that school has been cancelled for the duration of the 2019-2020 school year. Good call.
But, then Texas had to be the one to say that we're reopening everything else again. MY school has let us know that we'll be returning to campus classes in two weeks. I feel like the entire world is sitting back and watching Texas and Florida with smirks on their faces like "look at this....watch what happens".
MissAdriana
04-19-2020, 11:41 AM
As of now, the date for Maryland schools to reopen is Monday, May 18. Today is also the first day that face coverings/masks are mandatory in public.
OMG it SUCKS wearing a mask I fucking HATE the feeling of it. Hope that's over soon!
I've logged out 2 days in a row in tears. Being full time on cam has been really hard for me during the lockdown I feel like I'm already approaching burnout. My health is taking a down turn. Physically, emotionally, mentally all of it. I'm getting consistent death threats online. I thought it was just sm but on other sites too it's happening. These new customers are abusive and gross. I need real people interaction. I miss people. I need to exercise and go outside. I feel robbed of my summer. The sun is finally coming out. I just put the winter boots away for the year and this shit starts. I feel like I can't even stand outside my car without people peeking out their windows and staring, judging if I'm leaving, judging if I'm going out for an essential reason - so I just end up sitting in there. No parks are open so there's nowhere I can drive to. My condo is starting to feel like a prison. I have no backyard space, no green space. The best I can do is go for a walk by myself it has been helping but as soon as I get back to work I feel the stress come back
naomi_doll
04-19-2020, 05:00 PM
I'm loving seeing all this new advice, opinions and success pour into the forums lately. :D
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Genoveve
04-19-2020, 05:01 PM
I've logged out 2 days in a row in tears. Being full time on cam has been really hard for me during the lockdown I feel like I'm already approaching burnout. My health is taking a down turn. Physically, emotionally, mentally all of it. I'm getting consistent death threats online. I thought it was just sm but on other sites too it's happening. These new customers are abusive and gross. I need real people interaction. I miss people. I need to exercise and go outside. I feel robbed of my summer. The sun is finally coming out. I just put the winter boots away for the year and this shit starts. I feel like I can't even stand outside my car without people peeking out their windows and staring, judging if I'm leaving, judging if I'm going out for an essential reason - so I just end up sitting in there. No parks are open so there's nowhere I can drive to. My condo is starting to feel like a prison. I have no backyard space, no green space. The best I can do is go for a walk by myself it has been helping but as soon as I get back to work I feel the stress come back
Why are you getting so many death threats??? I've been camming for years and I honestly don't think I've ever gotten one, and I am really mean on cam and piss a lot of dudes off so you'd think I'd get plenty. I'm not blaming you for these guys being psychos because I know very well how many of them there are out there and how they require literally zero provocation to be psycho, but like is there something on your profile or some fetish you have listed that is attracting super violent guys?
As far as being burned out from camming all the time, is there any way you can set a strict schedule for yourself? Like determine how many hours you feel you need to work a week, set a schedule(like what times to cam on what days) and then stick to it rather than being logged on all the time or constantly logging on and off? I think a big part of why your condo feels like a prison is that---in addition to the fact that you're basically not allowed to leave it---you now live where you work. You live at your job, and so you're always at work. Even when you're not on cam, you're still at your place of employment. Makes it harder to compartmentalize, makes it easier for work to bleed into and take over the rest of your life, especially now when you literally can't go anywhere else.
If you're itching to get out maybe you could go for a long drive to nowhere with the windows down and the music playing? It's technically an essential reason because it's keeping you from going insane lol and you're not actually going anywhere or going to be getting out of your car. Or maybe the next time you need to grocery shop purposely drive to a store that's really far away so again you can have a nice drive and actually be out of your condo for a while.
naomi_doll
04-19-2020, 05:07 PM
Why are you getting so many death threats??? I've been camming for years and I honestly don't think I've ever gotten one, and I am really mean on cam and piss a lot of dudes off so you'd think I'd get plenty. I'm not blaming you for these guys being psychos because I know very well how many of them there are out there and how they require literally zero provocation to be psycho, but like is there something on your profile or some fetish you have listed that is attracting super violent guys?
Sometimes guys are just persistent assholes. I had a guy banned from C4S for threatening to kill me and my profile (and the fetish I filmed the custom for him) was insanely normal. He had been banned from other sites proudly but I didn't know that before he threatened me. Funny enough he was from Germany and I went there last year. He never pulled up. :thinking: It may be one person on multiple accounts.
Genoveve
04-19-2020, 05:30 PM
It may be one person on multiple accounts.
I'm wondering if it's that, I have some psycho stalkers who make TONS of accounts. I'm wondering too if all of her death threats are of a sexual nature, like the guy/s are fetishizing killing her or if the tone is just straight up angry and wanting to harm her solely out of anger. Not that either is okay, obviously.
I had one guy years ago who used to tell me that he printed out my pictures and made wallpaper out of them that he covered his entire room with. I knew instinctively that it was BS and I felt like he was trying to creep me out, so I'd always be like "No way! Show me, that sounds so cool! I'd love to see me as wallpaper." And yet he never did......because he was full of it. I had one guy maybe a year ago in the freechat tell me he was outside looking at my front door or something, I knew he wasn't. I said something like "Well the door's unlocked." Surprise surprise he didn't come in and visit. I think that's technically the worst I've gotten.
naomi_doll
04-19-2020, 05:47 PM
I had one guy maybe a year ago in the freechat tell me he was outside looking at my front door or something, I knew he wasn't. I said something like "Well the door's unlocked." Surprise surprise he didn't come in and visit. I think that's technically the worst I've gotten.
lmao I've had a guy say he was looking in my window and I was like "I'm on the fourth floor, are you spiderman?" Ends that really quick }:D
Genoveve
04-19-2020, 06:48 PM
lmao I've had a guy say he was looking in my window and I was like "I'm on the fourth floor, are you spiderman?" Ends that really quick }:D
LOLLLLL :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Arwen25
04-20-2020, 05:50 AM
I'm sorry to hear some of you have had issues with such horrid males. I've been fortunate but a lot of it is my very low tolerance for free chat, I imagine.
I took a spontaneous Sunday off. If rules allow where you are and you can get somewhere quiet enough, a walk in the countryside is just wonderful. I feel refreshed after spending all of lockdown doing home workouts. It's not the same as getting out for a walk in nature. I ache though; my body obviously isn't used to walking.
The main thing on my mind is that while I think I needed a day away from the computer, I find it sooo hard to get online after even a day off. It's like you remember how nice it is to switch off in all senses Ugh just CBA but backed to it all the same!
TheBrownFox
04-20-2020, 11:45 AM
Not surprised, not surprised one bit!
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A guy on FB was actually laughing and joking about this shit, and so were his friends in his comments section. Smh. Hmmm, I doubt they’d be laughing if it was THEIR sister/mother/gf/wife.
TheBrownFox
04-20-2020, 11:49 AM
OMG it SUCKS wearing a mask I fucking HATE the feeling of it. Hope that's over soon!
It really does. People keep saying shit like “Ohmigod, you’re not supposed to touch your face!” But I’m gonna touch my face more now when this fuckin mask keeps sliding down. Lmfao...
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-20-2020, 12:52 PM
I've started to get use to wearing a mask when I step out. I'm just happy to hear so many of you are wearing them.
I second the road trip idea. We drove to the Key Largo yesterday just to smell the ocean....from the car! :) We may go further down the Keys next week if things work out with accommodations.
izshadow
04-20-2020, 12:59 PM
I tried putting up my photography lights again and I'm getting super nauseous. Ugh guys may just have to deal with the overhead lights, even if it does yellow me a bit. Light sensitivity blows!
NitaBaby
04-20-2020, 01:24 PM
Why are you getting so many death threats??? I've been camming for years and I honestly don't think I've ever gotten one, and I am really mean on cam and piss a lot of dudes off so you'd think I'd get plenty. I'm not blaming you for these guys being psychos because I know very well how many of them there are out there and how they require literally zero provocation to be psycho, but like is there something on your profile or some fetish you have listed that is attracting super violent guys?
As far as being burned out from camming all the time, is there any way you can set a strict schedule for yourself? Like determine how many hours you feel you need to work a week, set a schedule(like what times to cam on what days) and then stick to it rather than being logged on all the time or constantly logging on and off? I think a big part of why your condo feels like a prison is that---in addition to the fact that you're basically not allowed to leave it---you now live where you work. You live at your job, and so you're always at work. Even when you're not on cam, you're still at your place of employment. Makes it harder to compartmentalize, makes it easier for work to bleed into and take over the rest of your life, especially now when you literally can't go anywhere else.
If you're itching to get out maybe you could go for a long drive to nowhere with the windows down and the music playing? It's technically an essential reason because it's keeping you from going insane lol and you're not actually going anywhere or going to be getting out of your car. Or maybe the next time you need to grocery shop purposely drive to a store that's really far away so again you can have a nice drive and actually be out of your condo for a while.
I enjoyed and agreed with all of this.
Marina Starr
04-21-2020, 05:31 AM
Got 50 disposable masks... Made in Chiiiiina. Thank you, Chiiiina! #openingupamericaagain #pandemic
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TheBrownFox
04-21-2020, 05:33 PM
Has anyone on here tried the $8.99 basic Netflix plan (where it isn't HD) on a LAPTOP? If so, did it play smoothly, or did you have issues with skipping, etc.? I'm asking, because with this quarantine bullshit some friends and I are gonna start using that Netflix Party feature once a week. The standard Netflix plan (which DOES include HD) is $12.99/month, and I will not be using it on my T.V. I'll be using it on my laptop for this Netflix Party feature. Do you think I should just spend the extra $4 for the standard $12.99 plan, or will the basic $8.99 plan be good enough for viewing on a laptop?
Hulu, which is only $5.99/month, is what I had been using, and I barely even used that. I was just trying to get caught up on all the episodes of Castle Rock, and I have. So I don't need to keep being charged $5.99/month if I'm not using it.