View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
sexysusie
06-01-2020, 09:52 PM
I just typed in JOI in youtube for the fuck of it a bunch of stuff came up so I don't see what their problem is.
I'm still waiting for their response, nothing yet. IDK if I will make another 1 my phone # is probably blocked or still used from the other 1 so I'm not sure how to even get around that BS without buying another phone which I won't do for twitter.
I was able to easily make a new twitter, number didn't seem to be an issue. I'm toying with the idea of trying a new youtube, purely vanilla, and figuring out a way to guide them to my adult stuff.
TheBrownFox
06-03-2020, 08:30 AM
I love that they are making this available to rent for free (across digital platforms in the U.S.) during the month of June. This movie is excellent.
https://www.justmercyfilm.com/
TheBrownFox
06-04-2020, 08:33 PM
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itsnightlight
06-05-2020, 08:59 AM
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-05-2020, 09:35 AM
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Did you make this sign? I haven't gone to any protest yet because I'm still worried about the rona. I may deliver some supplies to a group in the morning. I have mad respect for everyone who's going out and making their voices heard. But for me..I'm gonna sit this one out and make donations from my home.
Arwen25
06-05-2020, 10:34 AM
There is a protest in a small UK city near me but I'm too apprehensive to go too. For covid reasons rather than the reasons you have to worry about in the US..I have calmed down a lot - my best friend put it very well..it's like we used up all our worry in the first 6 weeks and don't feel like we can sustain it at that level any longer. I'm cautious, as I always have been hygiene and hand-washing wise but I don't feeling like bursting into tears worrying about my parents everyday like I did in the beginning! I just couldn't keep it up.
TheBrownFox
06-05-2020, 11:09 AM
Did you make this sign? I haven't gone to any protest yet because I'm still worried about the rona. I may deliver some supplies to a group in the morning. I have mad respect for everyone who's going out and making their voices heard. But for me..I'm gonna sit this one out and make donations from my home.
Yes, I made that sign. Since I've been getting boxes shipped here lately from Amazon (and Forever 21...lol!), I've been able to cut them up to make even bigger and better signs. I just made another one saying the same thing. I might even tape my son's school picture to it. I've been to two protests so far. They were both so beautiful...I was proud to be a part of it, and see so many people of different races showing up. There's another one this evening I plan on going to, as well as one tomorrow, and two more on Sunday.
itsnightlight
06-05-2020, 04:55 PM
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TheBrownFox
06-05-2020, 06:14 PM
Shoutout to Asians for caring about Black Lives Matter! yall should look up the hashtags for #alllivesmatter, #whitelivesmatter, and #buildthewall right now. I fucking love it <3
These past three protests I've participated in, I've been so proud to see all the people - of different races and ages - coming out to show their support and being so PASSIONATE about this. Even with it raining and thunderstorming (I know that's not a real word) today.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-06-2020, 07:05 AM
We had a wasp nest outside our utility room and the exterminator just quoted us $300 to remove it. You guys I can not tell you how fast my husband threw on two shirts, a hoodie, some oven mitts, safety goggles and a Winter Coat! He had that nest down in thirty seconds. He looked absolutely insane.
miss.a.p1600
06-06-2020, 11:24 AM
^^^now you gots to pay him :D}:D
Cutie101
06-07-2020, 01:14 AM
We had a wasp nest outside our utility room and the exterminator just quoted us $300 to remove it. You guys I can not tell you how fast my husband threw on two shirts, a hoodie, some oven mitts, safety goggles and a Winter Coat! He had that nest down in thirty seconds. He looked absolutely insane.
AHAHAHHAHA!! I just saw my bf, while reading this!! HAHAHAHAHAA!!!!!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-07-2020, 10:54 AM
^^^now you gots to pay him :D}:D
Not in this lifetime.
minibagel
06-10-2020, 07:40 AM
Aaaah $TSLA is currently up 6.75% today! I woke up when the markets opened and it was ^5% and has kept climbing, I had to do a double take on my portfolio balance ��
PixiieGirl
06-10-2020, 09:22 AM
Ive moved, I have fibre net, I've uploaded ten clips already today while my boyf uses netflix
I love LIFE <3
gotta keep positive as while offline we found out my partner wont have a job to go back to after lockdown is fully over, but with the new internet hoping my earnings will increase :)
MissAdriana
06-10-2020, 10:02 AM
Is the whole entire world out protesting ?? Wish I could afford to do that but I need $ Guess I'm going beyond 40 hrs this week
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-11-2020, 09:19 AM
I've been trying to build a huge greenhouse animal enclosure and now my left arm stopped working. I can barely lift it after cutting the wire screen and nailing it up. I think I need to surrender my pride and wait for help.
MissAdriana
06-11-2020, 10:07 AM
I've been trying to build a huge greenhouse animal enclosure and now my left arm stopped working.
OMG what happened are you ok? That sounds so cool. Is it for an iguana?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-11-2020, 10:27 AM
OMG what happened are you ok? That sounds so cool. Is it for an iguana?
I think I put too much strain on myself. The wire mesh is very heavy and even with heavy scissors it hurt my hand and arm cutting it. I'm mostly left handed and I need to rest with ice. It's gonna be for a caiman lizard and maybe an iguana. I wanna set my yard up like a botanical garden. And then have enclosures tucked in different places.
I haven't gotten the caiman lizard yet but he's do to arrive in three weeks. I need to have it setup before he gets here. Currently I have 2 snakes, 2 yellow foot tortoises, 2 tegus (going to my brother soon), box turtles, spotted turtles, a cat and the King of the castle, my dog. The snakes, cat and dog are the only indoor pets.
TheBrownFox
06-12-2020, 02:08 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uRPtsc0OUg
June 12 is Loving Day! Based on the interracial couple whose case made it to The Supreme Court and made history! <3
https://www.southcoasttoday.com/news/20200612/what-is-loving-day-june-12-marks-landmark-supreme-court-decision-for-interracial-marriage
TheBrownFox
06-12-2020, 02:17 PM
Is the whole entire world out protesting ?? Wish I could afford to do that but I need $ Guess I'm going beyond 40 hrs this week
You could protest during the day, and work at night. All of the protests I've done so far have been in the afternoon. And you can stay there as little or as long as you want to. People were walking around giving bottled waters, Gatorade, and snacks to people. A guy from Pat's Pizzeria was nice enough to walk over to me and my sister, and gave us pizza. So sweet.
MissAdriana
06-12-2020, 04:46 PM
Feel better soon Phat! Sounds like you worked too hard !!Love the botanical garden idea sounds heavenly
kamiliam
06-12-2020, 05:07 PM
I think I put too much strain on myself. The wire mesh is very heavy and even with heavy scissors it hurt my hand and arm cutting it. I'm mostly left handed and I need to rest with ice. It's gonna be for a caiman lizard and maybe an iguana. I wanna set my yard up like a botanical garden. And then have enclosures tucked in different places.
I haven't gotten the caiman lizard yet but he's do to arrive in three weeks. I need to have it setup before he gets here. Currently I have 2 snakes, 2 yellow foot tortoises, 2 tegus (going to my brother soon), box turtles, spotted turtles, a cat and the King of the castle, my dog. The snakes, cat and dog are the only indoor pets.
that sounds amazing. I mean other then the arm stuff. I haven’t had a lizard since I was a teenager, but now the idea is in my head.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-12-2020, 05:39 PM
that sounds amazing. I mean other then the arm stuff. I haven’t had a lizard since I was a teenager, but now the idea is in my head.
Kamp Kenan is my inspiration. I don't quite have as much property as him but I still get lots of ideas from his YT channel. I love how he keeps his reptiles in natural settings while making it pleasing to humans as well. It's like walking around in a tropical zoo. Here's a recent video showing off his enclosures around his house.
https://youtu.be/3I7bOj8VYL4
What kind of reptiles are you thinking about getting?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-12-2020, 05:42 PM
youtube;5uRPtsc0OUg]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uRPtsc0OUg
June 12 is Loving Day! Based on the interracial couple whose case made it to The Supreme Court and made history! <3
https://www.southcoasttoday.com/news/20200612/what-is-loving-day-june-12-marks-landmark-supreme-court-decision-for-interracial-marriage
I never knew there was a movie about the Lovings from the 90s. I've watched a documentary and the most recent film. Have you seen this one?
https://youtu.be/zRXuCY7tRgk
sexysusie
06-13-2020, 08:17 AM
I'm not shoving a stupid furry tail up my ass, spreading my pussy, or begging other girls to share my link to their followers any time soon.... sooo i guess i am destined to be stuck at top 4/5% on onlyfans f o r e v e r! Depressing...
Arwen25
06-13-2020, 09:08 AM
I'm not shoving a stupid furry tail up my ass, spreading my pussy, or begging other girls to share my link to their followers any time soon.... sooo i guess i am destined to be stuck at top 4/5% on onlyfans f o r e v e r! Depressing...
LOL I'd thank you for that 20 times if I could. So very, very true.
PixiieGirl
06-13-2020, 09:27 AM
the my chemical romance gig I was meant to be going to would have been next week
the emo in me is grumpy lol
TheBrownFox
06-13-2020, 09:25 PM
I never knew there was a movie about the Lovings from the 90s. I've watched a documentary and the most recent film. Have you seen this one?
https://youtu.be/zRXuCY7tRgk
Yeah, I've seen that most recent one, and didn't think it was as good as the 90s one I'd mentioned.
TheBrownFox
06-14-2020, 01:16 PM
What is your favorite brand of root beer?
izshadow
06-16-2020, 11:35 AM
I'm making boiled peanuts for the first time ever! Just using salt for my first time but eventually I'd like to try non-spicy flavors once I get the hang of it. The market I used to go to for them no longer has the person working there who made the BEST boiled peanuts I have ever had. Haha so now I'm like well, I might as well try my hand at it and make them at home. Wish I had his recipe though!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-16-2020, 03:05 PM
What is your favorite brand of root beer?
I'm more into cream side personally or champagne kola. But I sell lots of AW Root Beer on my truck. It seems to be the one most requested so I stick to it.
I'm making boiled peanuts for the first time ever! Just using salt for my first time but eventually I'd like to try non-spicy flavors once I get the hang of it. The market I used to go to for them no longer has the person working there who made the BEST boiled peanuts I have ever had. Haha so now I'm like well, I might as well try my hand at it and make them at home. Wish I had his recipe though!
This is something people ask me for all the time and I have yet to make them. I think I've had them like twice and wasn't a fan. I may do some research and add them. They all want the spicy kind.
caramelcraze
06-16-2020, 11:12 PM
Found out a couple hours ago that I may have to move at the end of Aug. I've lived here for almost 5 years and was planning on doing a major move Nov 1st to another state, but this bumps up my leave date by 2 months and i'm just in shock and a little pissed off. idk if i'll be able to swing the move I had planned for basically 4.5 months from now in 2.5 instead. Another consideration is that I just put down a deposit for some plastic surgery in late august so it would be healed for the end of the year and my original move date, but now there's no effing way that's happening until after the end of the year because the down time is over a month. rescheduling shouldn't be an issue but still, I was so excited to finally take a step towards the body I want and it just feels like someone threw a gigantic mountain at me to hurdle over before i can make that happen. ugh ok done venting.
nattyfetish
06-16-2020, 11:28 PM
Found out a couple hours ago that I may have to move at the end of Aug. I've lived here for almost 5 years and was planning on doing a major move Nov 1st to another state, but this bumps up my leave date by 2 months and i'm just in shock and a little pissed off. idk if i'll be able to swing the move I had planned for basically 4.5 months from now in 2.5 instead. Another consideration is that I just put down a deposit for some plastic surgery in late august so it would be healed for the end of the year and my original move date, but now there's no effing way that's happening until after the end of the year because the down time is over a month. rescheduling shouldn't be an issue but still, I was so excited to finally take a step towards the body I want and it just feels like someone threw a gigantic mountain at me to hurdle over before i can make that happen. ugh ok done venting.
i feel you caramel. i call that "murphy's a bastard laws" LOL ! happens to me all the time, I am sure you can do it tough. I usually cry in frustration when my plans are screwed up so yeah haha.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-19-2020, 06:24 AM
You ever wonder how life must be for people who start their day picking fights on the internet? There's a theory that internet trolls are miserable people and I can definitely wrap my head around that. But now the trolls are stepping away from the keyboards and taking their anger on the go. Everyone has a smart phone now and can fire off a hate tweet/forum rant/troll post waiting in line for coffee. They're not even using mobile devices! People are yelling things with covid breath right into peoples faces. 2020 is the year of the TROLL. Here's the study Internet Trolls Are Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Sadists (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-online-secrets/201409/internet-trolls-are-narcissists-psychopaths-and-sadists)
Cutie101
06-21-2020, 05:04 PM
You ever wonder how life must be for people who start their day picking fights on the internet? There's a theory that internet trolls are miserable people and I can definitely wrap my head around that. But now the trolls are stepping away from the keyboards and taking their anger on the go. Everyone has a smart phone now and can fire off a hate tweet/forum rant/troll post waiting in line for coffee. They're not even using mobile devices! People are yelling things with covid breath right into peoples faces. 2020 is the year of the TROLL. Here's the study Internet Trolls Are Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Sadists (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-online-secrets/201409/internet-trolls-are-narcissists-psychopaths-and-sadists)
I am mostly reporting those guys. I don't like that people are trying to fight them back, instead of hitting that "report" button. Would be so much better.
But I guess there are a lot of people who are waiting for the trolls to trigger them, so they can argue to someone.
Cutie101
06-21-2020, 05:09 PM
I am drinking some instant iced coffee right now. And I suddenly remembered how, when I was a kid, my parents would let me buy a lot of iced coffee (those Nescafe Frappe 1 serving packs), just because you were making it with cold water, so, basically, that's for kids :)))))
Don't ask. Post communism country, in the early 2000 when even that cup with straw, or the paper bag from Mcdonalds was something to brag with, because we were only seeing that in the US movies. We didn't have anything like that untill the late 90's :))))))
Any EE models, who remember the early 2000's how you were taking that soda cup from McDonalds at school and filled it with water and drank from it untill it was falling appart, making you feel rich, just because your parents could afford to buy you a Happy Meal once a year?:)))))))))))))
gbjenna
06-25-2020, 11:49 PM
I can’t even begin to fully explain the sheer happiness I felt when I woke up this morning to a grey sky and it not being ridiculously hot outside.
My flat has huge floor to ceiling windows and turns into what I would class as a living greenhouse in the summer. Then the sun shines right on it in the afternoon and I’m pretty much a human puddle, pouring sweat and going for multiple cold showers whilst working.
Maybe today I’ll survive. In the mean time I’m going to invest in some sort of air conditioning or a decent fan so I hopefully don’t have to suffer again.
nattyfetish
06-26-2020, 09:33 AM
With everything happening in this world, it makes me think more and more about WHY would I bring a child into this world. I swear I loose my faith into humanity. Jenna Marbles made me laugh as crazy and now she is dragged because she is slut-shaming, doing blackface and God knows what. Those without sin may throw the first stone, it looks there are lots of saints in this world (not necesarly about Jenna but talking as a general matter). People are evil, they find pleasure into destroying lifes, bringing other people on the edge of mental collapse. They should sign up for bdsm shit if they like pain so much.
BambiCutie
06-26-2020, 09:46 AM
I am genuinely curious what makes some people want to change others or make them into their perfected fantasy.
I think back to one comment ex made about "When I dated someone I tried to see beyond their physical image and question how I could change them into looking different or better in a sense."
"I am not controlling, I am just trying to make them a better version of themselves and help them look the best they can, better makeup, better looking clothes, ect."
What makes them feel that it is their duty is to change others? If you were dating someone, wouldn't you accept them as a whole? And if you don't like their style, why continue to date them? :-\
Isn't this based on false intentions and considered deceitful behavior? Similar to claiming your taller than you actually are, but in your demeanor.
I feel bad if he does this to the next person and how it will potentially affect them.
Cutie101
06-26-2020, 03:02 PM
With everything happening in this world, it makes me think more and more about WHY would I bring a child into this world. I swear I loose my faith into humanity. Jenna Marbles made me laugh as crazy and now she is dragged because she is slut-shaming, doing blackface and God knows what. Those without sin may throw the first stone, it looks there are lots of saints in this world (not necesarly about Jenna but talking as a general matter). People are evil, they find pleasure into destroying lifes, bringing other people on the edge of mental collapse. They should sign up for bdsm shit if they like pain so much.
Exactly, I posted on Twitter about it. Wtf, she grew up because of the jokes. Why nobody reacted back then? Because they enjoyed the jokes, that's why. Now they decided to put her down, when they were finding it funny. Full of hypocrites and imbeciles.
Besides, we were all idiots 10 years ago. I don't remember to be like I am today. I grew up, changed my mentality, met new cultures and adapted to them, learned new things and so on.
Cutie101
06-26-2020, 03:05 PM
I am genuinely curious what makes some people want to change others or make them into their perfected fantasy.
I think back to one comment ex made about "When I dated someone I tried to see beyond their physical image and question how I could change them into looking different or better in a sense."
"I am not controlling, I am just trying to make them a better version of themselves and help them look the best they can, better makeup, better looking clothes, ect."
What makes them feel that it is their duty is to change others? If you were dating someone, wouldn't you accept them as a whole? And if you don't like their style, why continue to date them? :-\
Isn't this based on false intentions and considered deceitful behavior? Similar to claiming your taller than you actually are, but in your demeanor.
I feel bad if he does this to the next person and how it will potentially affect them.
It's their own inferiority. Because a perfect person wouldn't look at a flawed person that they are. So they are trying to shape an imperfect person, that will accept them the way they are, so they can stay comfortable in their own narcissism and self consciousness, while holding a trophy partner.
Basically: You're not perfect, I am not perfect either. You liked me the way I am, I didn't like you the way you were, but I accepted you and changed you into better, now be grateful and keep staying with me, while I enjoy your "perfection".
ggminx
06-28-2020, 01:39 PM
this sounds so spot on to my first love oh so many decades ago...how naive i was to waste almost a decade on him...
this dude wanted me to get surgery on my upper lip, second toe, get rid of any facial hair of mine whatsoever at scarring lengths, and the list goes on. He was perfect in EVERY way! when I finally wised up (at great psychological cost) he had the gall to say all I'd remember were the bad times...
DAMN...I just LOVE how direct you are Cutie! Wish we had truth filters like these on all narcissits!
It's their own inferiority. Because a perfect person wouldn't look at a flawed person that they are. So they are trying to shape an imperfect person, that will accept them the way they are, so they can stay comfortable in their own narcissism and self consciousness, while holding a trophy partner.
Basically: You're not perfect, I am not perfect either. You liked me the way I am, I didn't like you the way you were, but I accepted you and changed you into better, now be grateful and keep staying with me, while I enjoy your "perfection".
BambiCutie
06-28-2020, 02:58 PM
He had the gall to say all I'd remember were the bad times...
Holy shit...I've heard this countless times.. Guess this runs thick with narcissists.
If they did something horrible that affected me emotionally in the relationship, if I ever brought it up they would say "All you remember were the bad times. You don't remember anything I did good for you."
ggminx
06-28-2020, 03:18 PM
brings back lots of hilarious memories...at the time, they were damaging though
i remember one time i basically told him i didn't believe in plastic surgery bc of all the infinite number of problems with my body (at 5'2" 105-110lbs)...he started in on my ability to make friends and even the ability to judge character
so so so so so so so so so so so glad that bullet was dodged...
the straw that broke the camel's back for me took a long time to get over...like, a good 15 years. over the years if we would cross each other's paths i would ask for closure, he would be like, that's all you ever bring up every single time i see you or hear from you. idiot apologized to my sister about 5 years ago, then when i contact him thinking he would finally give me closure, he wouldn't fess up to why he called my sister. i'm finally over it, thank goodness and healed without it! narcissists are the worst!
Holy shit...I've heard this countless times.. Guess this runs thick with narcissists.
If they did something horrible that affected me emotionally in the relationship, if I ever brought it up they would say "All you remember were the bad times. You don't remember anything I did good for you."
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-29-2020, 04:43 PM
Closure only occurs when YOU close the door. Asking for it or waiting on it is a dangerous game that can't be won. Fortunately I learned that lesson early on in my 20s. There is so much freedom and power in walking away from a messy situation.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-29-2020, 04:58 PM
Torrid took a month to send me my last order. By the time it arrived I forgotten about it. And here I am about to give them more money, just like a clown.
miss.a.p1600
06-29-2020, 05:48 PM
Closure only occurs when YOU close the door. Asking for it or waiting on it is a dangerous game that can't be won. Fortunately I learned that lesson early on in my 20s. There is so much freedom and power in walking away from a messy situation.
i totally agree
i used to be THAT woman who would be like “just give me some closure”
till I realized that I don’t need “closure” per say. I would just analyze a situation and if I’m not happy - I leave
plus unsavory men use that “yeah this woman wants me to give her closure” as a means of stringing you along and seeing that you don’t have self respect/emotional intelligence to walk away from something emotionally harmful makes them further avoid giving you what you want/possibly treat you worse.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-30-2020, 02:49 PM
I got a text saying Ay I got that new Covid Sativa! I told him to come through when he has that Vacina Indica. F*ckin Miami, I swear.
minibagel
07-02-2020, 08:43 AM
$TSLA hit $1,228 today! Thank you Jesus 🙏🏼