View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
NitaBaby
07-02-2020, 10:36 AM
camming is on my mind. I just passed my semester finals by literally the exact point that I needed. luckily, I vlogged about it (me panicking beforehand and my reaction after seeing my score) but, as I upload the video, I just realized that my YouTube channel is heavily branded towards cam-life. I never want to go back but thinking about cam is so nostalgic. I ...miss?....something about it. I don't get it.
izshadow
07-02-2020, 11:56 AM
camming is on my mind. I just passed my semester finals by literally the exact point that I needed. luckily, I vlogged about it (me panicking beforehand and my reaction after seeing my score) but, as I upload the video, I just realized that my YouTube channel is heavily branded towards cam-life. I never want to go back but thinking about cam is so nostalgic. I ...miss?....something about it. I don't get it.
I've been wondering how you have been doing. Maybe you miss us? I do think about some of you girls that have friended me and helped me through and even if I ever stopped camming, I would miss you guys for sure. But sometimes to we can also just miss how "easy" this money was even though its not easy. I just dont know how to explain that.
EllieGold
07-02-2020, 01:58 PM
A good guy friend of mine's new gf is a cammodel. I wish I could give her pointers on some stuff, but she kinda doesn't like me too much. She merged her Facebook account as both personal/cammodel so that's how I found out. Shes only on OnlyFans for now which seems to be where everyone seems to go now? Gosh, I'm so out of the loop in 2020.
NitaBaby
07-02-2020, 02:05 PM
I've been wondering how you have been doing. Maybe you miss us? I do think about some of you girls that have friended me and helped me through and even if I ever stopped camming, I would miss you guys for sure. But sometimes to we can also just miss how "easy" this money was even though its not easy. I just dont know how to explain that.
I honestly think that has to be it. I miss you guys.
There are 14 women in my class and I'm really, really cool with them. We help each other out a shit ton. But I still know that I can never be my absolute self around these women. Cam girls were my judgement-free circle of bad asses. The real world is so PG13...I'm only myself in my head now.
Emanuelle
07-03-2020, 05:56 PM
Are there any private groups here where girls talk about where they live and arrange meetups? I would like to meet up with other camgirls in my area since I just moved and just started camming in March. That's what's on my mind recently. Please PM me if anyone wants to let me know anything. Thanks.
izshadow
07-06-2020, 12:55 PM
Ugh a friend of mine/old boss is trying to hook me up with one of her family members. I think she said brother in law. I dunno. First...... I'm gay. I only date women or transgender men (FTM). And even if I did date men, he is far from the redneck country boy type that I would be interested in. Sigh. Also, I hate having to explain what I do for work and what my health issues are that prevent me from living any type of "normal" life. I wish people would pay better attention to their friends and what they do and how they live. I get she is trying to be nice but it puts me in a frustrating position.
gbjenna
07-09-2020, 03:06 PM
We're into July weather is still really shit in my country. In all the time I've been alive, I think this is the first time ever where I've ever been happy about horrible weather I'll take this alllllll summer long if it means so I can do my thing on cam without dripping sweat whenever I so much as lift an arm or stand up. Apart from when I go on a little staycation in August anyway lol
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-12-2020, 06:37 AM
Not today Satan.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-12-2020, 06:46 AM
I had to google satan btw. I couldn't remember how to spell it and it's a good thing I did. Y'all may have thought I was denouncing textiles.
Esixxx
07-12-2020, 06:58 AM
I had to google satan btw. I couldn't remember how to spell it and it's a good thing I did. Y'all may have thought I was denouncing textiles.
LOL.
I use this phrase on a regular basis when someone is trying my patience or making an attempt to ruin my day. :D
PixiieGirl
07-12-2020, 07:09 AM
haircut tomorrow - cant wait to get it shaveddddd - treating my partner to lunch after cause I can now (honestly, its so nice having actual money <3)
Miss_ShaSha
07-12-2020, 02:27 PM
I've missed so many ladies here. My digital marketing business isn't doing so well with the pandemic and I'm here camming my ass off. It's good to be back and see such inspirational posts from you ladies.
PixiieGirl
07-12-2020, 03:40 PM
I've missed so many ladies here. My digital marketing business isn't doing so well with the pandemic and I'm here camming my ass off. It's good to be back and see such inspirational posts from you ladies.
SHASHAAAAA I've missed you <3
Esixxx
07-13-2020, 06:47 AM
Deleted my FB account last night (was for personal use) because I needed the peace.
My sister and my daughter deleted theirs years ago, and haven't looked back.
During this pandemic I initially thought it would be good to stay connected to people. What I witnessed was a lot of people acting like two year olds. Felt like high school all over again lol.
Last week for a brief moment I felt irritated. A friend sent me a message on FB telling me that one of their friends needed help with starting an OF account.
This set me off for multiple reasons- in real life there are select few that I have told about camming, some I have regretted revealing.
I was kind of pissed that he would let some stranger know what I do. Then there is that this type of work isn't easy, it takes work, studying and learning about various things. You can't just spread your legs and bam- guys are making it rain lol. Then the fact that I don't use OF.
Forgive me I just need to process.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-13-2020, 07:04 AM
Facebook is evil. We should all delete it. I use to love it for fandom groups etc, but around the end of 2015 I began to notice some things. The misinformation and how it made certain suggestions in my news feed. Articles about "black girl magic" that really had nothing to do with the black experience at all. It was click bait for conspiracy theories. By 2016 it was out of control and none of the people I followed seem to realize it? They were just filling out surveys and passing along propaganda. Even now after all thats come out some will still believe everything they read on there.
I havent deleted it yet because of a certain group of travel buddies I made on fb. We all bonded over a common interest and for those sentimental reasons I havent deleted it yet. I can't wait until outside opens up again and I can travel without bubble wrap on my face.
Essix I'd be pissed too if someone I trusted was that wreckless with one of my secrets. I would have to put him in check.
Esixxx
07-13-2020, 07:32 AM
Lol FB is good for the groups about interests. That's why I was hesitant to delete it.
My daughter suggested that I start a new one in the future and not add people as friends. Which I may do in the future-right now I just need my peace :)
I feel that about the bubble wrap lol. Our city passed the mask ordinance here and I am super grateful for that.
My friend is going to be put in check and called out for trying to score brownie points with this chic. Fortunately enough she didn't message me.
izshadow
07-13-2020, 10:35 AM
Good self tanner? So many choices. I need super easy cause I'm impatient and I really just want to do my legs to get rid of my sock and short tan line I get from being at the farm. I'm not worried about the rest of me since I have no one to do my back haha. I really just want to even out my legs.
BambiCutie
07-13-2020, 10:42 AM
Good self tanner?
Recommend Tanwise! Really great coverage, goes on without feeling sticky.
Lasts for about a week before needing to reapply and depending on how often you shower.
Tips
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Exfoliate
Shave
DO NOT MOISTURIZE before self tanning
But DO put some lotion on your knuckles, fingers, wrists, knees, elbows, ankles and toes to prevent splotches!
Wear loose clothes after your tan to protect your tan/ furniture
Wait at least 6 hours for your tan to develop before you shower
izshadow
07-13-2020, 10:56 AM
Thank you soooooooooooooooooooo much Bambi, I'm heading to amazon now haha! And ty so much for the tips. I've never done this before!
kamiliam
07-13-2020, 11:09 AM
Good self tanner? So many choices. I need super easy cause I'm impatient and I really just want to do my legs to get rid of my sock and short tan line I get from being at the farm. I'm not worried about the rest of me since I have no one to do my back haha. I really just want to even out my legs.
If you are only trying to even things out one of those gradual lotions will work just fine. As touched on fake tans take a lot of steps. If you do pick one with a more intense effect make sure there is a guide color so you know where it’s going.
izshadow
07-13-2020, 12:04 PM
If you are only trying to even things out one of those gradual lotions will work just fine. As touched on fake tans take a lot of steps. If you do pick one with a more intense effect make sure there is a guide color so you know where it’s going.
I'll check this out to! Thank you. I dont even need dark. I just want the obvious sock/short line to go away and then maintain with it to keep it away this summer!
Cutie101
07-13-2020, 01:19 PM
My favourite for years has been the Bioderma one. That spray, because I simply spray my legs (and arms) before sleep and in the morning, I got golden sun kissed legs. I spray it for 2 days in a row and the effect lasts for a week (or I spray once in the morning and once in the evening). I like that it's like a mist, you don't have to use your hands to rub anything onto the skin. Super comfy and easy to use.
https://www.bioderma.us/all-products/photoderm/self-tanner
I recently discovered this one (Jump to 7:45 to see the final result)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIMS-XBVgnM
It's a little expensive and I gotta purchase the glove too, I like that it's an express tanner, you just apply it, wait for 2 hours and then shower. It's a little more tricky than the Bioderma one, but I might try it at some point.
IvyRose
07-14-2020, 07:34 AM
Been adding new workclothing and actually for the first time in years I have actually gone in a second time (weeks after purchasing new workclothes) and bought myself real life, outdoor, vanilla life (but still sexy) clothes!!!!
I thought it was funny but also kinda sad that i have been buying for work but nothing in last years for myself for personal life (as in clothing/fashion stuff).
Since I left my old relationship (of 13 years) behind , I def feel the need to dress up daily in new, fresh, clothing (instead of being brought back in time by wearing old clothes most of which allready owned for 6+ years)
Cannot wait for my order to arrive!!!!
Planning on packing all old clothing on top drawer, and keeping only the things I really love. Going to donate/bring to recycle place the rest that i feel disattached from after a longer resting/thinking period
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-14-2020, 07:55 AM
Good for you Ivy! Im excited for you. We all gotta do what we gotta do to feel some normalcy right now. Retail therapy does wonders.
Although some people are going a bit overboard. Take my uncle for example. Six years ago he was diagnosed with lung cancer and went through chemo, plus a partial lung removal. He survived it all! But Ive been worried sick about him during the pandemic. He comes to my house almost every day to sit on my porch. We dont hug, we just speak through the screen. A few days ago he revealed that he tested positive for covid but not to worry because it had been 12 days before he got the results. Yesterday at his hospital visit he was completely cleared. This is all great news. But this morning he goes out and buys a Tesla! He's like a little kid driving around showing off his new toy but he needs to be at home taking care of himself.
PixiieGirl
07-14-2020, 08:49 AM
I could do with some new real life clothes tbh, I live in vest tops and a shirt atm - which is fine I like that look on me especially with my hair short again but maybe I should get some more vest tops so Im not rotating the same 3 lol
izshadow
07-14-2020, 10:42 AM
Well thats always fun when you get your period on cam. I havent had a period in two, maybe three years. I'm actually have been in menopause. And as I typed that, I now realize that can also mean a serious health issue and I need to go get checked. Damn it! Goodness, I feel bad for the guy I was in exclusive with. I backed right up to the cam, spread my cheeks and I was horrified. He left immediately. He probably wont ever come back. Sigh.
moneybags
07-14-2020, 05:32 PM
Finally got approved for a gold shows! I’m surprised it took so long.
Cutie101
07-14-2020, 05:53 PM
Finally got approved for a gold shows! I’m surprised it took so long.
Me too, I just got a message today from SM, lol :))
izshadow
07-17-2020, 01:09 PM
I've been on hold for two hours now and my head has been screaming all day. I'm so over this damn pandemic. I go to the farm today and my horse's fan is not working...... again. I swear its getting wet or its the outlet or something but not my barn so it is what it is. Call Lowes and I'm on hold for an hour but because its still under manufacturer warranty (I got fan number 4 in Jan... literally 4 fans in 2 years), I have to be connected to the actual company since its not under my extended warranty protection yet that I purchased. So here I sit.... another hour has gone by and the automated system keeps telling me what a bitch this is going to be because of covid 19. Like all I want is my damn fan so I can hang it back in her stall on Sunday. Its hot here and I'm over this. Pick up the freaking phone already! They tell me they cant help me and I'm going to flip, I'm now beyond agitated over being on hold for two hours and counting. I could have been working!
izshadow
07-17-2020, 02:08 PM
THREE HOURS!!!!! Three hours later I'm told I just have to bring the receipt in. The amount of anger in me right now is unreal. The first lady I spoke to within the first hour couldnt tell me that?!?!?! Really?!?!?!!
sexysusie
07-17-2020, 02:32 PM
WTF was this about and did anyone else get it? At first i from what they said i thought maybe it was a model under a different name which is the only reason i replied at all..
sexysusie
07-18-2020, 08:39 PM
Planning TO plan is on my mind! How do you set up a schedule when you've got so many things you need to do before you can make the schedule??
I need to schedule out time to do the things that will bring me the most income, but right now i also need to make money NOW and set aside time to schedule OF posts and social posts, MAKE the actual content, and also talk to my fans
:help2:
gbjenna
07-19-2020, 05:15 AM
The shop I buy a lot of my lingerie from just reopened this week so I went in for a look and nearly everything was at up to 50% discount. I went crazy and bought so much stuff. I’ve also got two matching sets coming in the post this week too. When I took it all to the counter I saw the woman take a bit of a double take, probably wondering why tf I need so much lingerie lol
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-19-2020, 05:55 AM
Uber Eats is mad aggressive. I loaded up my cart with some breakfast stuff and then decided not to waste money. I mean I have all the ingredients to make this at home. I close the app. Ten minutes later I get a notification that says You forgot to check out! Anyways, I hope the food is good when it gets here.
In other news I love Sundays. I mean Saturday's are my forever boo thang, but Sundays... there's just so many layers. I'm gonna go fishing and then chill on a raft and then come home and take a nap.
ggminx
07-19-2020, 08:46 AM
was totally daydreaming when i realized i was wearing my bra as bottoms...thank goodness i caught myself before going back live :rotfl:
nattyfetish
07-20-2020, 08:30 AM
I saw this comment on a cam girls video on youtube. I felt the need to share it with you girls and was not sure on which thread to put it into. Camming rocks? Self-care? I think we should make a general positivity thread in here haha !
Here we go:
"morality"? What morality? Do you think it's moral to have a college degree and work long and hard to make just enough money to survive? To have a job that steals your happiness and your energy and your time and gives you just enough money so you can keep going to that same job?
Like it or not, most people are whores, trading their lives in exchange for money. Very, very few get to do something that fulfills them professionally, makes them financially independent, and allows them to have a happy personal life. Extremely few.
Not admitting that and claiming the moral high ground is just good ol' fashioned hypocrisy and/or self-delusion.
I find the ENTIRETY of the work field, all over the world, to be immoral.
Sure, some jobs are worse than others. On that spectrum, I find cam modeling to be average. Not as respectable as a decent paying job that makes the world a better place, like working in medical research, but also not nearly as bad as, say, working in the tobacco industry, or for a chemical plant that dumps waste in rivers, polluting them, etc., etc.
And I would prefer my sister to be a cam girl instead of being metaphorically fucked in the butt at a shitty job for a barely living wage, while her boss is making tons of money by exploiting his employees and not paying many taxes. They are both immoral, but the first one is far, far better than the second variant from all points of view, including morality."
PREACH !
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-20-2020, 05:54 PM
I woke up this morning and immediately felt super anxious despite having an amazing Sunday. It be that way sometimes, right? I started my routine and just couldn't calm down. So I decided to take a ride down to the keys by myself..one of our fishing spots we go to often. The difference this time was I did it solo. I use to go fishing by myself all the time but after an incident four years ago I got away from that. Today I drive all the way there without telling anyone where I was going. It's crazy because I never thought I'd become that type of woman and I panicked a bit. I don't know where I'm going with this to be honest? Haha, this is also a response to little dick energy trying to stifle my essence here. It's wild when you know what's up but you still have to swat gnats. But overall I had a great day.
moneybags
07-21-2020, 03:44 AM
Really proud of myself. Decided to take advantage of the SM contest and log 25 hours this week. With school I haven’t been able to long anything but a few hours here, there, and yonder.I think this week should be a good week. Which is good cause I’m almost out of financial aid for the summer. I think come fall I’m going to try to log 3 shifts a week for 7-9 hours with school. If I actually manage my time well I can do it. I really need to start writing a weekly schedule of every little thing I’m doing, but that takes time to plan my time.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-22-2020, 06:46 AM
Tory shot Meg in her feet. Kanye crying and throwing shade at Harriet Tubman. Jeff Bezos "earned" 13 billion in one day while people still can't pay rent. 2020 is wild.
Esixxx
07-22-2020, 12:28 PM
Tory shot Meg in her feet. Kanye crying and throwing shade at Harriet Tubman. Jeff Bezos "earned" 13 billion in one day while people still can't pay rent. 2020 is wild.
I think 2020 has become the year of throwing logic and reason out the window lol.
My daughter and I took a little roadtrip today. We listened to the Flagrant podcast- they mentioned Kayne's rant. I wonder now if half the stunts he pulls is clever marketing.
Cutie101
07-22-2020, 05:54 PM
Tory shot Meg in her feet. Kanye crying and throwing shade at Harriet Tubman. Jeff Bezos "earned" 13 billion in one day while people still can't pay rent. 2020 is wild.
In my wet dreams, Jeff Bezos is my paypig.
TheBrownFox
07-24-2020, 07:00 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9rSBcoX9ak
Scroll to 2:52 of the video. I wanna re-enact this scene with a guy. LMAO.
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moneybags
07-25-2020, 03:56 PM
Annoyed that sex work pays so little when you consider the emotional and psychological cost. I know some girls are happy making peanuts-good for them if they are happy-but I don稚 see the point in doing sex work if one can稚 make a lot of money easily.
I was gonna do an awesome shower show! I set my gold high, but I think $350 for a PUBLIC show is worth it! I may have to lower my gold show price....grrrr! I値l run it as a special today, and hopeful I can start charging more once I get more regulars. Just pissy about lowering my show price when I know I知 absolutely worth it. I guess I値l just have to find out what the market will bear. Not take it personally.
I知 grateful to have a way to make money. I知 grateful for food. I知 grateful for shelter.
I知 just gonna finish this coffee and get the fuck on and make the best of it.
sexysusie
07-25-2020, 05:34 PM
Annoyed that sex work pays so little when you consider the emotional and psychological cost. I know some girls are happy making peanuts-good for them if they are happy-but I don’t see the point in doing sex work if one can’t make a lot of money easily.
I was gonna do an awesome shower show! I set my gold high, but I think $350 for a PUBLIC show is worth it! I may have to lower my gold show price....grrrr! I’ll run it as a special today, and hopeful I can start charging more once I get more regulars. Just pissy about lowering my show price when I know I’m absolutely worth it. I guess I’ll just have to find out what the market will bear. Not take it personally.
I’m grateful to have a way to make money. I’m grateful for food. I’m grateful for shelter.
I’m just gonna finish this coffee and get the fuck on and make the best of it.
You don't have to do that. Only do things that serve you and make you happy. If you can't get what you want for gold shows, find another avenue where you can. Accepting less than *you* think you're worth is the fast track to burn out and feeling shitty.
Cutie101
07-25-2020, 06:35 PM
Annoyed that sex work pays so little when you consider the emotional and psychological cost. I know some girls are happy making peanuts-good for them if they are happy-but I don’t see the point in doing sex work if one can’t make a lot of money easily.
I was gonna do an awesome shower show! I set my gold high, but I think $350 for a PUBLIC show is worth it! I may have to lower my gold show price....grrrr! I’ll run it as a special today, and hopeful I can start charging more once I get more regulars. Just pissy about lowering my show price when I know I’m absolutely worth it. I guess I’ll just have to find out what the market will bear. Not take it personally.
I’m grateful to have a way to make money. I’m grateful for food. I’m grateful for shelter.
I’m just gonna finish this coffee and get the fuck on and make the best of it.
Susie is right. Don't bother offering something that makes you uncomfortable and it's not even gonna pay.
Keep you head up, prices where they are and push for better customers, instead of lowering yourself for the losers. Not worth it!
MissAdriana
07-26-2020, 08:13 AM
Annoyed that sex work pays so little when you consider the emotional and psychological cost. I know some girls are happy making peanuts-good for them if they are happy-but I don’t see the point in doing sex work if one can’t make a lot of money easily.
Hey hun I know you are having a bad day. It'll pass. It's rough times for a lot of us rn. Easy is subjective. I know as hard as sw has been lately I still feel like less of a slave doing this than my old jobs. Listen to susie. You are imagining that "because they aren't tipping me right now it means I'm not worth it" and that's just not true. Also you are right about not taking it personally. Its not about what you are worth it's what the market is like that matters and there will always be exceptions anyways. I've never really had a 'successful' gold show imo so I'm not in any position to give you advice there but just because it doesn't work today, or on that site doesn't mean that hustle + price won't work on some other site or another day. SM is rampant with tech issues lately so that's probably the reason why it didn't work out tbh.
izshadow
07-27-2020, 10:47 AM
My friend cut my hair to short. We are trying to grow it out but at the same time create a style to grow out from and now its like noooooo ugh god grow faster! Haha please grow faster!
Esixxx
07-27-2020, 11:53 AM
My friend cut my hair to short. We are trying to grow it out but at the same time create a style to grow out from and now its like noooooo ugh god grow faster! Haha please grow faster!
It took several tries for me to find that right haircut. Do you ever look on Pinterest for ideas as far styling?
izshadow
07-27-2020, 12:03 PM
It took several tries for me to find that right haircut. Do you ever look on Pinterest for ideas as far styling?
I'm honestly just wanting it long with an undercut. I have no idea why she chopped it this time around knowing we were suppose to be growing it out. I thought she was just shortening up the back to have it grow out kinda angled but she took the front with it.
Esixxx
07-27-2020, 12:21 PM
^^^ Ouch. How long/short is the top?
Depending on the length of the you could style it with some pomade to give it a texture look or do some spiky looks.