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sexysassylux
10-28-2020, 01:17 PM
I'm worried that if I get back on the horse, I won't be able to make money. :( Anyone else feel this way?
Cutie101
10-28-2020, 01:32 PM
I wondering, why am i sitting alone in my room all night long during my shift?
it s so dead, like i cant make money anymore.
Try to splitcam on more sites? Can your PC handle that?
Cutie101
10-28-2020, 01:33 PM
I'm worried that if I get back on the horse, I won't be able to make money. :( Anyone else feel this way?
You are able to make money and you can make money, but you must be aware that you will have to pull your teeth out for it. It's not like a few years ago, when you were making them quick. There's a huge influx of camgirls, new sex workers, pandemic is making the clients be more savy with their money (I am talking about those with average income), they are choosing the super cheap or free option when it's about to jerk, but there are money to be made, still. But it's only for those who hang in there and pull trough it.
Hard work and.. LOTS AND LOTS of patience. That's all you need.
sexysassylux
10-28-2020, 02:57 PM
Do you think $1200 a month would be reasonable?
Cutie101
10-28-2020, 04:43 PM
Do you think $1200 a month would be reasonable?
Yes, it's totally doable and kinda easy to reach, if you stick to a schedule. I don't know your level, how many sites you work on, but if you are starting over, you should put 40 hours a week at least.
There's a thread here called "$500 a week challenge" https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?181591-500-a-week-challenge!/page121
And the $250/week one https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?215618-250-per-week-challenge-for-total-newbies-P
Take a look trough it, it's gonna help you motivate yourself!
TheBrownFox
10-28-2020, 07:20 PM
I missed the deadline for that ManyVids talent contest. *Sigh* I wanted to sing some Mary J. Blige.....
ggminx
10-29-2020, 07:07 AM
over an inch of gray/white root growth on my black hair and i'm just too lazy to do it...i quit dyeing my hair...ugh...and then dreading going on cam with them :rotfl: can't win
Genoveve
10-29-2020, 01:59 PM
^^^You need that hair spray paint made for guys to mask their bald patches with....spray it down your part LOL.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GeF7A05zQ8
bigbum
10-29-2020, 08:01 PM
I did some vanilla work this week, mostly today. I signed up for instacart, doordash and uber eats. I worked all 3 today and didn't even break $100. I worked 5 freaking hours, used gas and put miles on my car. I was quickly reminded of why I cam.
The contest weeks on SM aren't worth it for me, but I need to get back to working 20+ hours a week. I've gotten so depressed and lazy lately. I've stopped pushing myself to get online and I'm paying for it now. I was hoping that vanilla gig work would be a good temporary solution, but it definitely isn't worth it for me.
Fuck vanilla work. I'll be back to showing ass and titties on Monday lol
omg my life exactly! lets do this
Miss_ShaSha
10-30-2020, 09:28 AM
I've been with my BF for 6 months today. He really is great. We share 3 love languages, he has a secure attachment style, & is extremely supportive. I'm happy with him & he helps me do better.
We train together, eat clean together, & laugh a lot.
While cam has been pretty horrible recently, he's been super special.
I feel loved & it feels amazing.
Juliette25
10-30-2020, 10:54 AM
I went on a date with a guy I grew up with like 6 or 7 years ago and his fucking card was declined for dinner and I had to pay for it lol. Fucking idiot. Just laughing at this to myself today while working.
Juliette25
10-30-2020, 10:55 AM
I'm worried that if I get back on the horse, I won't be able to make money. :( Anyone else feel this way?
Don’t feel this way. I’ve taken multiple breaks. If you were on the horse and making Money before there’s no reason you won’t be able to again.
bigbum
10-30-2020, 04:55 PM
I've been with my BF for 6 months today. He really is great. We share 3 love languages, he has a secure attachment style, & is extremely supportive. I'm happy with him & he helps me do better.
We train together, eat clean together, & laugh a lot.
While cam has been pretty horrible recently, he's been super special.
I feel loved & it feels amazing.
so happy for you!!
TheBrownFox
11-01-2020, 05:10 PM
I have a question for those of you who use (have used) MyUsedPantyStore. Do you actually pay the $19.95/month for premium membership (to be able to message buyers...WTF?), or do you just include your Skype and/or Kik details in your profile for interested parties to contact YOU?
moneybags
11-01-2020, 11:29 PM
I want to build a fitness community for cam models. Like fuck those vanilla bitches. What should I call it? Fit Whores...lol. I want something that a vanilla person wouldn’t know, but sex workers would. I would post fitness as well sex positive messages? Anyone got any suggestions? I won’t even think about starting it until January-too busy. I know the red umbrella is the symbol of sex workers?
TheBrownFox
11-02-2020, 06:12 PM
I want to build a fitness community for cam models. Like fuck those vanilla bitches. What should I call it? Fit Whores...lol. I want something that a vanilla person wouldn’t know, but sex workers would. I would post fitness as well sex positive messages? Anyone got any suggestions? I won’t even think about starting it until January-too busy. I know the red umbrella is the symbol of sex workers?
LOL at "Fit Whores." I used to cringe over the fact that there was a cam site called Cam Whores. Lol.
Fit Babes? Fit Queens? Fit Babes Slay? Fit Girls Slay? Fit Ladies Slay? Fit Queens Slay? Lol.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-03-2020, 11:10 AM
Just put in a massive order for instacart and the generators are on standby. My pot guy came through yesterday and I have enough toilet paper to last until Spring. If anyone needs me I'll be in my bunker.
moneybags
11-03-2020, 12:36 PM
I wonder if I can put whip cream in my squirting dildo? I suppose I would need to clean it as sugar would invite bacteria. I think as long as I cleaned it REALLY good! I would use it for cum facial. Maybe yogurt would be better. I wouldn’t put it in my lady parts just for facials. I already have to nut butter. Can’t wait to use my new toys!
kamiliam
11-03-2020, 12:58 PM
I wonder if I can put whip cream in my squirting dildo? I suppose I would need to clean it as sugar would invite bacteria. I think as long as I cleaned it REALLY good! I would use it for cum facial. Maybe yogurt would be better. I wouldn’t put it in my lady parts just for facials. I already have to nut butter. Can’t wait to use my new toys!
if you are gonna use food, yogurt is better. (Check sugar/artificial flavors)I wouldn’t play with the bacteria sugary whipped cream would produce.if your toy is actually pure silicone(most aren’t even if they say they are) you need to get in in hot soap and water every time, other materials are porous and will suck the bacteria in no matter how well you clean it. You really don’t want to put sugar on your face at all.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-03-2020, 03:57 PM
if you are gonna use food, yogurt is better. (Check sugar/artificial flavors)I wouldn’t play with the bacteria sugary whipped cream would produce.if your toy is actually pure silicone(most aren’t even if they say they are) you need to get in in hot soap and water every time, other materials are porous and will suck the bacteria in no matter how well you clean it. You really don’t want to put sugar on your face at all.
Yea what she said, also sticky stuff tends to hurt. Once its all over you it feels like glue because things start to stick together. I do lots of wet and messy content and most of the sauces are watered down and then I add corn starch or geletin. I use coconut oil, water and corn starch for my dildo (no insertion). BUT I rarely get request for it. If I do I have time to prepare.
Cutie101
11-03-2020, 04:46 PM
I want to build a fitness community for cam models. Like fuck those vanilla bitches. What should I call it? Fit Whores...lol. I want something that a vanilla person wouldn’t know, but sex workers would. I would post fitness as well sex positive messages? Anyone got any suggestions? I won’t even think about starting it until January-too busy. I know the red umbrella is the symbol of sex workers?
There's already one in the Body Business thread hahaha https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?227864-Accountability-Support
Esixxx
11-04-2020, 07:55 AM
Can we just have a fast forward button for this week so we can get back to business as usual? Please and thank you :)
AuroraJade
11-04-2020, 08:25 AM
When will we know who won the US elections, like for sure? I am from Europe and I understand the US political system only a little bit, but this is confusing:O
Esixxx
11-04-2020, 08:50 AM
When will we know who won the US elections, like for sure? I am from Europe and I understand the US political system only a little bit, but this is confusing:O
They have to finish counting mail in ballots then we will now from my understanding
AuroraJade
11-04-2020, 09:45 AM
Yeah, the local news here says it could take until Friday! Omg! Cant wait to see who has won. I love the USA so I always follow these things.
TheBrownFox
11-04-2020, 04:15 PM
Biden has 264 electoral votes while Trump has 214. You need 270 to win. Trump is throwing a temper tantrum, threatening to sue certain states, and trying to get them to stop counting votes. Trump made a comment about how he wants them to just STOP counting votes (Doesn't work that way, buddy!), and his minions cheered. Smh. I swear, that man can say/do ANYTHING, and his minions will continue kissing his ass. They're like a cult.
I'm also disgusted that his followers go around making fun of Biden's stutter. They are bullies, just like their leader. That disgusts me. My son has a stutter. People need to grow up.
moneybags
11-04-2020, 04:25 PM
When will we know who won the US elections, like for sure? I am from Europe and I understand the US political system only a little bit, but this is confusing:O
you and me both. They said they should have a final count soon, but with legal challenges who knows. December 14th is when the electoral college meets, so at least by then? I heard that tomorrow they (the new media) should have a final count to at least make a call based on probability of most of the votes counted in Michigan and Wisconsin-the states needed to get the majority in the electoral college to win. I’m guessing by the end of the week we’ll have a better idea, but it’s gonna take awhile to get everything counted and certified.
Arwen25
11-05-2020, 12:57 AM
Biden has 264 electoral votes while Trump has 214. You need 270 to win. Trump is throwing a temper tantrum, threatening to sue certain states, and trying to get them to stop counting votes. Trump made a comment about how he wants them to just STOP counting votes (Doesn't work that way, buddy!), and his minions cheered. Smh. I swear, that man can say/do ANYTHING, and his minions will continue kissing his ass. They're like a cult.
I'm also disgusted that his followers go around making fun of Biden's stutter. They are bullies, just like their leader. That disgusts me. My son has a stutter. People need to grow up.
Yess!!! All of this, every word. I'm winning so let's stop the game at half time so my opponent can't catch up. And the cult thing is so true. Utterly, utterly bizarre what some are coming out with in Sky News.
TheBrownFox
11-05-2020, 09:11 AM
Yess!!! All of this, every word. I'm winning so let's stop the game at half time so my opponent can't catch up. And the cult thing is so true. Utterly, utterly bizarre what some are coming out with in Sky News.
ABC News keeps showing Biden's number at 253, but if you Google search "election results" it has Biden at 264 and Trump at 214. :) My friend said that's because Fox News gave Arizona to Biden the other night. They said if they actually do a recount (Which Sore Loser Trump is demanding), that could take about ten days. Time for people to stop kissing this guy's ass, and get him the fuck outta there. This man is such an overgrown child (and a bully), and telling people he's won already. Gtfoh. You ain't won SHIT! Biden has handled this with such grace...while Trump is just a hot mess as usual. Lol. These election results got him (and his minions) shook, and it's a little amusing.
Arwen25
11-05-2020, 09:14 AM
ABC News keeps showing Biden's number at 253, but if you Google search "election results" it has Biden at 264 and Trump at 214. :) My friend said that's because Fox News gave Arizona to Biden the other night. They said if they actually do a recount (Which Sore Loser Trump is demanding), that could take about ten days. Time for people to stop kissing this guy's ass, and get him the fuck outta there. This man is such an overgrown child (and a bully), and telling people he's won already. Gtfoh. You ain't won SHIT! Biden has handled this with such grace...while Trump is just a hot mess as usual. Lol. These election results got him (and his minions) shook, and it's a little amusing.
Agreee 100% "Time for the orange man to go" I heard someone say haha. I was wondering about that number discrepancy. Makes sense now!!
sexysusie
11-06-2020, 03:56 PM
Really wish I had sex worker friends. 10 years is such a long time to keep my work secret :( watching (yet another) documentary about the adult biz and while all these people are chavvy as fuck, they all have friends who know what they do or who also work in the biz.
MsJess
11-06-2020, 04:23 PM
Really wish I had sex worker friends. 10 years is such a long time to keep my work secret :( watching (yet another) documentary about the adult biz and while all these people are chavvy as fuck, they all have friends who know what they do or who also work in the biz.
Same!!i wish i had at least one real life friend to talk to or rant with about camming at the end of the day.
Esixxx
11-07-2020, 09:59 AM
Tears of joy! all I have to say right now.
Now let's get to cracking- we got work to do!
Arwen25
11-07-2020, 10:58 AM
Tears of joy! all I have to say right now.
Now let's get to cracking- we got work to do!
So happy for my US friends! Delighted for you, and us all!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-07-2020, 11:46 AM
I just woke up from my nap and have over a dozen notifications! I think the dicks are gonna be up with open wallets this weekend? The excitement is starting to spread. Good luck ladies. ❤️
TheBrownFox
11-07-2020, 01:18 PM
My son was the one who texted me the news (I had just woke up, and was just laying there before getting his text)! I turned on my laptop to tune into ABC News to see what they were saying. I was (am) so happy! And just like that...this pain that I've been having in my neck (stressing out) is gone.
TheBrownFox
11-07-2020, 02:11 PM
That sexy-ass ABC News reporter Matt Gutman needs to just move here to Maryland, so I can make him mine. Daaaaamn!
moneybags
11-07-2020, 02:20 PM
I just woke up from my nap and have over a dozen notifications! I think the dicks are gonna be up with open wallets this weekend? The excitement is starting to spread. Good luck ladies. ❤️
I wonder how this will effect earnings. Only one way to find out.
LaurenAus
11-07-2020, 06:15 PM
My goodness what a day. The excitement and joy in the air is crazy
sexysusie
11-07-2020, 09:15 PM
I'm happy too. Amazing news!!
moneybags
11-08-2020, 12:02 PM
Well...someone from my city found me. I geo block off, so I could see myself. He mentioned wish he could hook up with his hot older neighbor lady...omg! I have no idea if he’s in the same apartment complex or not. Needless to say my georestriction will be on permanently. I’m not too worried about it. 1) I have no shame 2)I’m not afraid of a 21 year old kid. If anything happens I’ll just deny, deny, deny.
It is what it is. It’s a risk we all take. But I need to raise my rates thinking about how much risk we take Guys don’t think about that or how expensive camming really is. I’m gonna raise my rates.
Genoveve
11-08-2020, 03:27 PM
Well...someone from my city found me. I geo block off, so I could see myself. He mentioned wish he could hook up with his hot older neighbor lady...omg! I have no idea if he’s in the same apartment complex or not.
Did he identify you? Guys say this kind of stuff all the time.
moneybags
11-08-2020, 04:28 PM
Did he identify you? Guys say this kind of stuff all the time.
Nah. It could have been any girl in the city. Guys think us blondes with big tit girls all look the same. The hot older neighbor could have been any girl from any time. If anyone asks, “How dare you!” I’ll Gaslight the hell out anyone who tries to out me. Also, I’m wearing a mask everywhere I go.
I’m leaving the geo block on from now on...lol.
Juliette25
11-08-2020, 07:22 PM
Another money conversation with the husband gone inexplicably wrong. Happy Sunday evening everyone. I am married to a toddler.
miss.a.p1600
11-09-2020, 06:31 AM
Biden has 264 electoral votes while Trump has 214. You need 270 to win. Trump is throwing a temper tantrum, threatening to sue certain states, and trying to get them to stop counting votes. Trump made a comment about how he wants them to just STOP counting votes (Doesn't work that way, buddy!), and his minions cheered. Smh. I swear, that man can say/do ANYTHING, and his minions will continue kissing his ass. They're like a cult.
I'm also disgusted that his followers go around making fun of Biden's stutter. They are bullies, just like their leader. That disgusts me. My son has a stutter. People need to grow up.
he’s like the typical narcissist - hasn’t developed mentally past the age of 13
Ignorant and immature af
i was done when he was caught bragging about grabbing women’s pussy and pretty creeped out that women voted for him. I bet if he grabbed their daughters they would have been singing a different tune.
this goes to show you of DT can become leader of the country —- ANYONE (with some money) can
Esixxx
11-12-2020, 02:26 PM
May have a bartering deal (not SW related) hoping it works out :)
TheBrownFox
11-14-2020, 11:12 AM
Pretty annoyed that I did all of that shit to complete my model profile for MyGirlFund TEN DAYS AGO, and they still haven't verified my account. What...am I not good enough for them now (I was good enough for them before) because I'm not a skinny little 20-something year old anymore? I put on an uncomfortable-ass wig, and spent my time taking several photos (holding a sign saying "MyGirlFund") just to get one good pic. And I can't even get a response from them.
sexysusie
11-14-2020, 05:36 PM
Someone purchased the brand new canon DSLR off my wishlist and I have 3 top selling video clips. I am feeling SUPER grateful for the success in my life right now!
Juliette25
11-14-2020, 09:06 PM
I worked out today. A win for work life balance.
Juliette25
11-16-2020, 08:49 AM
Holy shit Trello is completely down and I have no idea what I'm supposed to do next on my to-do list LOL. Does this mean I can just take the day off? Wow. Technology dependent much?