View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
Miss_ShaSha
12-17-2020, 06:39 PM
BF bought a leather jacket, boots, and dress for our New Year's Eve trip and they arrived today. OMFG!!! Everything fits perfectly and the items are stellar. I'm so happy right now and totally stoked for the 5 hr trip to San Antonio to meet more of his Rwandan friends.
Super excited to bring in the new year with him!!!
Juliette25
12-17-2020, 07:23 PM
Wow. How did it go?
Not bad. I didn’t go into much detail and said she could ask me anything about it. I explained the stigma and that being a part of why I didn’t tell her and also that I wouldn’t think she’d understand. Unfortunately thanks to social media and her shitty little friends she knows quite a bit more than I was aware of. That’s an ongoing, heartbreaking battle between her and me.
That shit is not good for young girls. She keeps going behind my back and making new accounts etc.
TheBrownFox
12-17-2020, 07:33 PM
Not bad. I didn’t go into much detail and said she could ask me anything about it. I explained the stigma and that being a part of why I didn’t tell her and also that I wouldn’t think she’d understand. Unfortunately thanks to social media and her shitty little friends she knows quite a bit more than I was aware of. That’s an ongoing, heartbreaking battle between her a I.
That shit is not good for young girls. She keeps going behind my back and making new accounts etc.
Oh, no! :( Are you thinking about blocking your state on your site(s)? Or do you prefer not to do that? I know that it's not 100% foolproof, and some models do it (I do) and some don't. It's a matter of personal preference.
Juliette25
12-17-2020, 07:52 PM
Oh, no! :( Are you thinking about blocking your state on your site(s)? Or do you prefer not to do that? I know that it's not 100% foolproof, and some models do it (I do) and some don't. It's a matter of personal preference.
I’m not too concerned with blocking my state at the moment but who knows down the road. She hasn’t seen or been shown any of my stuff yet. She just talks way more grown than I ever knew to her online “friends” that are just soooo important.
Funny and scary thing: she made a sugardaddy0752475 type Instagram account because she said she wanted to start scamming people. This is on a LOCKED DOWN friggin iPhone with all kinds of restrictions and limits etc. It’s like there’s no winning against this shit I swear.
Oh but my sites ARE blocked. At least my main sites and I think a few cam sites, Twitter etc. I’ll probably add some more clip/cam sites to be safe.
sexysusie
12-17-2020, 08:30 PM
Not bad. I didn’t go into much detail and said she could ask me anything about it. I explained the stigma and that being a part of why I didn’t tell her and also that I wouldn’t think she’d understand. Unfortunately thanks to social media and her shitty little friends she knows quite a bit more than I was aware of. That’s an ongoing, heartbreaking battle between her a I.
That shit is not good for young girls. She keeps going behind my back and making new accounts etc.
Oh yeah they know so much. My niece is 12 and just getting in to TikTok. I dread to think...
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-19-2020, 07:40 AM
Oh yeah they know so much. My niece is 12 and just getting in to TikTok. I dread to think...
Have y'all watched that show Euphoria? Thats a terrifyingly accurate show.
sexysusie
12-19-2020, 09:09 AM
Have y'all watched that show Euphoria? Thats a terrifyingly accurate show.
A quarter of the way in to the first episode it was all looking a bit rapey/abusive so I gave it a miss.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-19-2020, 09:39 AM
A quarter of the way in to the first episode it was all looking a bit rapey/abusive so I gave it a miss.
I got to the second episode and got creeped out. But then I decided to give it another try because I wanted to know what they were watching. I swear the internet and social media makes it so much easier to get in trouble these days. We did some wild stuff growing up, but we didnt all walk around with a network in our pockets.
DariJo
12-19-2020, 03:06 PM
A quarter of the way in to the first episode it was all looking a bit rapey/abusive so I gave it a miss.
I thought so too, and I think the director gave that impression intentionally (still not sure why), but that turns out not to be the case.
Love this show. It's my new favorite.
gbjenna
12-19-2020, 04:44 PM
My partner and I had our application accepted yesterday for our first place together. I'm so excited to move in with him. Specifically, I can't wait to sit down and have dinner with him in the evenings haha. I'll also have my own separate bedroom specifically for camming which will be a novelty. It'll be nice to "go to" work instead of waking up at work!
sexysusie
12-19-2020, 05:27 PM
I got to the second episode and got creeped out. But then I decided to give it another try because I wanted to know what they were watching. I swear the internet and social media makes it so much easier to get in trouble these days. We did some wild stuff growing up, but we didnt all walk around with a network in our pockets.
Yeah exactly. I was a wild child but we didn't have social back then haha! I remember an interview with will and jaden smith where will explained this perfectly, the difference between the generations now!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-21-2020, 09:12 AM
Yeah exactly. I was a wild child but we didn't have social back then haha! I remember an interview with will and jaden smith where will explained this perfectly, the difference between the generations now!
Please link me if you can. ❤️
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-21-2020, 09:18 AM
I just got a DMV care package: crab chips, coddies and crab cakes, salt water taffy, mumbo sauce and wine!!! I know some of you are probably like "They have all of that at your DMV?" LMAO I can't touch the wine yet... but soon.
sexysusie
12-21-2020, 08:15 PM
Please link me if you can. ❤️
I wish i could but it was a few years back now. May have been graham norton or something, i remember them singing fresh prince together on it :) He said something like he can't imagine what it's like for kids now, he did a lot of crazy stuff in his youth but there was no social media to worry about, no mobile phones to capture it. Whereas Jaden was saying every little thing he does is out there and scrutinised.
Genoveve
12-21-2020, 08:57 PM
^^^Might have been on the Graham Norton show.
AuroraJade
12-23-2020, 12:07 PM
I am all finished with moving. I wasn't able to do the Bonus Week, that sucks but the home is beautiful! I even put up the Christmas tree. Time to get back on cam tomorrow :)
naughtybabe1
12-24-2020, 05:45 PM
I DID IT!! I just did my "alt payment" indy cam show and it went GREAT! It was so damn easy....WHY DID I WAIT SO LONG TO DO THIS???
A nice guy just wanted to chat and found me on "pornhublive"...no idea what that was so I was...ok! He did double the time he wanted at first
and included a nice holiday tip. I asked him to be patient and do a amazon card and he was fine. The card was legit and it was SO EASY to load
and deal with. Now I know why models do it. FUK THE SITES that take a huge cut of my $$$...I'm taking it all back baby!
I'm setting up the non real life amazon account on another computer so I can do this again.
THIS WAS A GREAT XMAS GIFT!! THANK YOU SANTA!
get that money ladies....how ever you did...do it! Im done playing by others rulz!
AuroraJade
12-25-2020, 12:29 PM
I DID IT!! I just did my "alt payment" indy cam show and it went GREAT! It was so damn easy....WHY DID I WAIT SO LONG TO DO THIS???
A nice guy just wanted to chat and found me on "pornhublive"...no idea what that was so I was...ok! He did double the time he wanted at first
and included a nice holiday tip. I asked him to be patient and do a amazon card and he was fine. The card was legit and it was SO EASY to load
and deal with. Now I know why models do it. FUK THE SITES that take a huge cut of my $$$...I'm taking it all back baby!
I'm setting up the non real life amazon account on another computer so I can do this again.
THIS WAS A GREAT XMAS GIFT!! THANK YOU SANTA!
get that money ladies....how ever you did...do it! Im done playing by others rulz!
Congrats and merry xmas! Amazon is safe but watch out which payment methods you take. Pornhublive is a white label for Streamate :)
naughtybabe1
12-25-2020, 03:36 PM
Congrats and merry xmas! Amazon is safe but watch out which payment methods you take. Pornhublive is a white label for Streamate :)
THANK YOU JADE! I logged on and saw pornhublive was for SM..live and learn. I saw you are moving and hope that went well! I know it's exciting. I'm moving myself in a few weeks and can't wait. I know from now until about Jan 2 or 3 is going to be busy busy with guys home and horny. I think this is still the best week(s) of the year to cam and I'm going overtime to milk it. So far so good. There IS $$$ out there girls. Get it ANY WAY YOU CAN! I know I am....
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-26-2020, 08:31 AM
Christmas ham with eggs hit different the day after. :P
sexysusie
12-26-2020, 09:05 AM
Just reading about camming makes me tired now:yawn::yawn:
I want a new car!!
TheBrownFox
12-26-2020, 07:22 PM
My son got his first college acceptance letter today (He's applied to four)!
naomi_doll
12-26-2020, 07:40 PM
My son got his first college acceptance letter today (He's applied to four)!
congrats!!!!
naughtybabe1
12-26-2020, 09:48 PM
My son got his first college acceptance letter today (He's applied to four)!
Is he cute? Maybe he can cam! Heck..he will have his college paid for in the first 6 months!...lol
Sorry. I'm in a snarky mood tonight. To be honest, if I had a daughter, or son, and they came to me about wanting to cam I'd be over the moon.
I can't have children so I live through other people's kids. I'm a terrific aunt though....they know they can come to me for the "but I can't ask
mom and dad this questions."...What are aunts for?.
CONGRATS on your sons success. I'm sure he will be splendid in school!!!!
LaurenAus
12-27-2020, 04:51 PM
got the vaccine today! Shot didn't hurt, so far so good! <3 science
sexysusie
12-28-2020, 10:28 PM
Wishing everyone abundance
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-30-2020, 12:46 PM
Wishing everyone abundance
Just got my stimulus money. Thank you for the wish m'lady. ❤️
miss.a.p1600
12-30-2020, 01:04 PM
^Yas!! I’m coming over to celebrate.....steak n lobster?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-30-2020, 01:13 PM
^Yas!! I’m coming over to celebrate.....steak n lobster?
I had to give up redmeat for awhile. But I'm down for Scallops and Lobster. Can you bring a bag of ice please and thank you.
miss.a.p1600
12-30-2020, 01:16 PM
^got ya on the ice bags
naughtybabe1
12-30-2020, 02:58 PM
WOW...REALLY??? That's cool news. I closed the bank account I had with the last gov stim check due to a name change and I didn't like the bank. I guess they'll send a check to the address on file. I'm cool with that. This check is going in savings!! Although I will buy the instapot I've been coveting. Again, despite alllll of the ups and downs of being a FT cam model, I'm grateful I earn good $$ even in these times and I can weather this storm until I feel it's safe to get a job again in my field when this is all over. It's all about perspective I guess.
ORDER TWO STEAK AND LOBSTERS FOR ME!! I'll bring the wine and champagne!
PixiieGirl
12-30-2020, 05:22 PM
I don’t post much, but during first lockdown my partner lost his job, took 6 months to find a new one and now 2 weeks in we’re back in lockdown and he’s not been there long enough to be furloughed, I can’t complain too much as I’m earning well but this year has been so bad for him :(
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-31-2020, 03:03 PM
My neighborhood smells like a war zone. They've already started with the fireworks. Full disclosure: I chipped in on those fireworks. I friggin love them and I can't wait til it get's completely dark. Then I'll be able to see them in every direction. Y'all stay safe tonight. ❤️
TheBrownFox
01-01-2021, 06:12 PM
https://youtu.be/jcedUHpyxMg
This was posted to Facebook with the caption "When dat stimulus hits....." HAHA!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-03-2021, 11:16 AM
https://youtu.be/jcedUHpyxMg
This was posted to Facebook with the caption "When dat stimulus hits....." HAHA!
I might dance around like this if they give us that $2000. I can't wait to act bougie at the grocery store with my Cruella DeVille fur coat. The things I do to stay entertained. smdh
miss.a.p1600
01-03-2021, 11:44 AM
^Irish Jig or Crip Walk?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-03-2021, 12:00 PM
^Irish Jig or Crip Walk?
Dub-C is my MIDDLE NAME! ;D
https://youtu.be/ERNms0E9Fvc
LaurenAus
01-06-2021, 06:12 AM
Thank you for voting GA!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-06-2021, 02:51 PM
Welp, it looks like we'll be getting that $2,000 stimmy. Thanks Georgia!
sexysusie
01-08-2021, 12:31 AM
Just bought an obscenely expensive bed, and a carpet cleaner. I feel like legit adult now:rotfl:
Arwen25
01-08-2021, 06:44 AM
There's nothing like a good bed! Best investment ever. I sleep in a super king now and could never go back, haha. Granted bf is a giant so it is needed!!
gbjenna
01-08-2021, 10:29 AM
Just bought an obscenely expensive bed, and a carpet cleaner. I feel like legit adult now:rotfl:
I was about to buy a pair of trainers last year but went full adult instead and bought a hoover and a steam mop. I didn't realise how crap my old hoover was until I used the new one. I can say with full confidence that I got a lot more satisfaction out of the hoover than I would have with the trainers haha.
whirlerz
01-08-2021, 03:17 PM
That's great, Brown Fox!
Is there anything about using the encoder for SM?
I did a search, & got like 20 pages!
Thanks!
PixiieGirl
01-08-2021, 05:26 PM
Life is beyond strange right now, 2021 has started much worse than 2020 I hope it turns around
Genoveve
01-08-2021, 07:59 PM
^^Yeah but 2020 started fine and still went to shit, so if a good start doesn't guarantee a good year then a bad start doesn't guarantee a bad year. :meditate:
TheBrownFox
01-09-2021, 12:09 PM
Lol. I'm expecting an eye patch in the mail tomorrow. Maybe I'll do a pic set of me wearing that + my pink scarf, and try to sell it on OnlyFans. I mean...why not?
TheBrownFox
01-09-2021, 09:13 PM
STILL getting kicked out of my MFC chat constantly, so I logged the fuck off frustrated. Fucking ridiculous. I finally get me a good spending regular (after recently returning to the site)...see my cam score going up...and this b.s. happens. This bullshit doesn't happen on ManyVids Live. Just MFC.
sexysusie
01-09-2021, 09:41 PM
I fucking HATE being surrounded by people who have no higher goals in life, have limited thinking, and question why someone would want to do something (to them) different, expensive, or unusual. It sucks not having a circle that can lift me up. Been thinking this for a while but what set it off today was my hubby saying he'd told his mom the reason I'm buying furniture (yes he said me and not us!) Is because I started doing some extra work on the side. And felt he needed to justify it cause she was questioning why I'm spending money. WTF??! Why can't I be around people that say "fuck yeah I love how you're upgrading your shit" and tell me how excited they are about whatever new thing they're up to or are proud of. And ESPECIALLY around people who aren't so limited they think a few hundred quid is SO MUCH to spend!! Ugh. I swear if I wasn't so independent minded I'd have never done anything in my life!
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gbjenna
01-10-2021, 11:51 AM
^ I do my best to stay well away from those sorts of people. If I haven't really got a choice, then I make sure they get to know as little of my business as possible. I can't be doing with people who want to put their own limitations on others like that.
I had a boyfriend when I was younger who was financially and mentally the definition of broke. I'd just moved into my first ever house, had an alright job for my age and I was just beginning to find my independence. Then he came on the scene and I ended up becoming exactly like him. I started lending/giving him money all the time, which eventually then lead to me attempting financially support him on a wage that certainly wasn't meant for two people and totally fucked myself over whilst he bled me dry in every way possible. I picked up all his bad money habits and ended up miserable and broke as shit. I was only with him 2 years and it took me the same length of time to get my life back in order after I got rid.
I learned an extremely harsh lesson. So now I avoid broke minded people at all costs.
TheBrownFox
01-10-2021, 05:12 PM
^^Yeah but 2020 started fine and still went to shit, so if a good start doesn't guarantee a good year then a bad start doesn't guarantee a bad year. :meditate:
This. I'm already seeing "doom and gloom" Facebook posts about how 2021 is gonna be a shitty year, and I just refuse to think like that. Yeah, I know that shitshow in D.C. was a few days ago. We're also about to get a new president in ten days. My son turns 18 and graduates high school this year. Too much doom and gloom online and on the news, which is why I don't really watch the news (though I WILL be watching the inauguration, and had decided to keep my pretty, white Christmas tree up for that day).