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~Carmen~
03-03-2021, 04:25 PM
I am officially over this pandemic.

My grandmother was hospitalized last week- she started slipping with her memory- it sounds like she maybe developing Alzheimer's (I really hope it's just an episode.) My aunt called me yesterday to ask if I could go visit her today- I told her I could for a couple hours in the afternoon- unfortunately she can have only one visitor per day because of covid. It sucks. I told her that I can spend the day with her on Friday.
Soon she will be transferred to a short term facility to work with a physical therapist and she can't have any visitors while she is there because of covid. Thankfully this is one of the few places that has not had a covid outbreak, but it sucks that we can't go visit her.

There's a lot going on with my family- regarding health issues. All of this feels like a big chaotic mess.

I'm so sorry to hear that you're dealing with family health issues. I'm glad you get to visit your grandma on Friday before she's transferred. Stupid covid! It's hard enough...ugh.
Hugs!

~Carmen~
03-03-2021, 04:26 PM
Girl, I'm right there with you. So many of us are. I'm so sorry to hear about your relatives. As much as I try to keep pushing on, in the back of my mind I feel a little unresolved. Is this our new normal? Soon I may have to say goodbye to another family member. We're all getting older and these things were gonna happen anyways, but damn! Right now I take refuge in my faith and recite the serenity prayer as often as I can. We will get through this. ❤️

I'm really sorry to hear that Phat.
Hugs to you too!

Esixxx
03-03-2021, 04:52 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that you're dealing with family health issues. I'm glad you get to visit your grandma on Friday before she's transferred. Stupid covid! It's hard enough...ugh.
Hugs!

Thank you. We have someone on the inside of the rehab center to give us updates on her. My cousins live next to the place so we "might" be able to talk to through the window :D

kamiliam
03-03-2021, 10:29 PM
I see that the fake union is still spreading fear and trying to be a power player rather then be upfront about what their goals* are and what is necessary to reach said goals. They should be ashamed given the political climate.

*make us all employees, that is the goal. A group of lobbyists would do so much more for us then them which is just messed up.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-04-2021, 02:53 PM
I see that the fake union is still spreading fear and trying to be a power player rather then be upfront about what their goals* are and what is necessary to reach said goals. They should be ashamed given the political climate.

*make us all employees, that is the goal. A group of lobbyists would do so much more for us then them which is just messed up.

And I don't understand why so many believe that they're truly fighting the good fight? But I will just sit over here, eat my food and shut up.

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TheBrownFox
03-04-2021, 03:53 PM
I don't know if any of y'all ever used that dating app Bumble, but they had a feature called Bumble Boost (which I used once back in 2019). Apparently there was a Bumble Boost settlement, and they just sent me $36.

https://www.bumbleboostsettlement.com/

TheBrownFox
03-05-2021, 12:15 AM
I may have already asked this before recently, and if so I'm sorry. But those of you (I guess on token sites) who do 'Highest tipper of the day/month/etc. gets ______' incentives...do y'all A) go by the highest SINGLE tip? Or do you B) go by the member who's spent the most tokens TOTAL on you in that time frame? I know option B may kinda be a pain in the ass to tally up...especially if a person who does a lot of 1-token tips or whatever.

Esixxx
03-05-2021, 09:21 AM
Excuse me while I have a fan girl moment

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adLGHcj_fmA

Who is that guy on drums? I MUST KNOW :D

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-05-2021, 09:48 AM
Excuse me while I have a fan girl moment

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adLGHcj_fmA

Who is that guy on drums? I MUST KNOW :D

That's Anderson Paak and he is amazing. This colab with Bruno is perfect and has been on repeat all morning long.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-05-2021, 09:58 AM
If you're into New Neo Soul artist here's a great playlist on Spotify called Soul Coffee

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DXaXDsfv6nvZ5?si=d1aWOi-5SsOYkSYjo8-1xw&utm_source=copy-link

There's so much new music coming out all the time that it's so hard to keep up. Lucky Daye, Leon Bridges, Jazmine Sullivan, Kirby, Alex Isley....

Esixxx
03-05-2021, 10:08 AM
That's Anderson Paak and he is amazing. This colab with Bruno is perfect and has been on repeat all morning long.


Thank you!!!! I am going to make a new playlist now on Spotify called "Feeling Myself."


If you're into New Neo Soul artist here's a great playlist on Spotify called Soul Coffee

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DXaXDsfv6nvZ5?si=d1aWOi-5SsOYkSYjo8-1xw&utm_source=copy-link

There's so much new music coming out all the time that it's so hard to keep up. Lucky Daye, Leon Bridges, Jazmine Sullivan, Kirby, Alex Isley....

Love it!!! So many artists I almost forgot about it!!!

illuminaughty
03-05-2021, 01:19 PM
I miss working and I am so tired of being sick.

TheBrownFox
03-05-2021, 06:24 PM
My "No Soliciting" sign + big-ass yellow Post-It note on my door saying "NOT discussing my bill with you...NOT buying anything or donating...NOT interested in flyers" seemed to have work until tonight...when one of these Statewise Energy people saw it, and STILL decided to bang on my door like they're the fuckin' police! These people are relentless!

TheBrownFox
03-05-2021, 10:42 PM
Just finished the movie 'Let Him Go' with Kevin Costner and Diane Lane.

https://media2.giphy.com/media/3o6wrvdHFbwBrUFenu/200.gif

~Carmen~
03-06-2021, 12:55 AM
Just finished the movie 'Let Him Go' with Kevin Costner and Diane Lane.

https://media2.giphy.com/media/3o6wrvdHFbwBrUFenu/200.gif

Oooh that looks really good! I had not heard of it. I've been looking for something to watch. Thanks for the recommendation!

TheBrownFox
03-06-2021, 08:37 PM
Oooh that looks really good! I had not heard of it. I've been looking for something to watch. Thanks for the recommendation!


You're welcome. When I saw that it's not available on Hulu or Peacock, I was like okay, I'll pay the $5.99 to watch this on Amazon Video.

Since it's the month of March, I'm gonna check out all of these Leprechaun movies soon on Peacock. I've never seen any of those movies.

TheBrownFox
03-06-2021, 09:43 PM
https://youtu.be/vNFc85ZQt7c


Mommas...try listening to this song "You're Only Little For A Little While" without getting teary-eyed.

nattyfetish
03-11-2021, 07:49 AM
I am so sick of this misconception and phrase "camming is easy money". It is used very often when people talk about it (and it affects me evan more when it's famous ones sayin this). People literally think we show our tits and get 10000 $. Easy breezy. They are clueless I swear. It pisses me off cause I know how tiring, mentally fucking and not easy it is. How many things you must know in order to make money. Studios makin stupid overrated commercials, to attract woman into it, do not help either. They are makin look like: "you are going to win 5000 $ in the first 2 weeks superduper easy girlies AND we give you a free car too !!!!!". Fuck off !

gbjenna
03-12-2021, 01:42 AM
^ I see that on social media a lot on any sort of sex work related media report. It doesn't phase me when men say it. But when women say it??? How many women have complained at some point in their lives cause they've repeatedly had their time royally wasted by men? Being strung along, bullshitted too, not getting texts back, manipulated into giving up alsorts of shit etc etc.

Do they really think that men suddenly have a change of heart, stop wasting our time forever and always then drop to their knees and start showering us with money to make us rich AF, for doing absolutely NOTHING just because we charge a fee???

If I ever have to spell that out to someone I'll do the biggest eyeroll imaginable lol

~Carmen~
03-12-2021, 02:40 AM
You're welcome. When I saw that it's not available on Hulu or Peacock, I was like okay, I'll pay the $5.99 to watch this on Amazon Video.

Since it's the month of March, I'm gonna check out all of these Leprechaun movies soon on Peacock. I've never seen any of those movies.


I just watched 'Let Him Go' and it was even better than I expected. Totally worth the rental fee.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-12-2021, 07:03 AM
Good Morning! May we all love ourselves the way this woman does! ❤️

https://twitter.com/kamsendoo/status/1369767000428449798?s=19

TheBrownFox
03-12-2021, 12:34 PM
Well, General Hospital...you broke my heart again, and killed off a character I ADORED.....

https://media0.giphy.com/media/3o6wrvdHFbwBrUFenu/200.gif

TheBrownFox
03-13-2021, 12:23 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wb2boZxfnrs

I love dancing to "Con Calma" on the Just Dance 2020 Wii game, but THIS is absolutely incredible...omg!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-15-2021, 06:16 AM
I just completed THIRTEEN custom videos in one week! I cheated on the last two and used my webcam because those dslr files are huge. I've never had that many in one week before and probably should of asked for more time. But I do like a challenge and it kept me busy. Plus the money was too good.

Esixxx
03-15-2021, 08:31 AM
I just completed THIRTEEN custom videos in one week! I cheated on the last two and used my webcam because those dslr files are huge. I've never had that many in one week before and probably should of asked for more time. But I do like a challenge and it kept me busy. Plus the money was too good.


This makes my inner productivity nerd gush... Damn impressive!!!

TheBrownFox
03-15-2021, 12:05 PM
I went and bought bubble gum (I don't even chew bubblegum anymore) with the intention of trying to make a bubble gum clip, and I couldn't make any damn bubbles. Lmao. It's just me chewing and TRYING to blow bubbles...but failing miserably.

https://media2.giphy.com/media/l41oys9n3QHrOFPck/giphy.gif

nattyfetish
03-16-2021, 12:39 AM
I went and bought bubble gum (I don't even chew bubblegum anymore) with the intention of trying to make a bubble gum clip, and I couldn't make any damn bubbles. Lmao. It's just me chewing and TRYING to blow bubbles...but failing miserably.

https://media2.giphy.com/media/l41oys9n3QHrOFPck/giphy.gif

it totally depends on the gum ! some gums i can do bubbles with some i can't ! hubba bubba always does the trick ! haha

TheBrownFox
03-16-2021, 10:00 PM
LOL. Yay!

https://media.distractify.com/brand-img/AKQ2qllee/0x0/screen-shot-2020-04-15-at-114459-am-1586965514845.png

Esixxx
03-17-2021, 03:18 AM
I am stupid stoked- just ordered these to step up my lighting game.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07T593JR5

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-17-2021, 05:44 AM
I am stupid stoked- just ordered these to step up my lighting game.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07T593JR5

That's a great deal. Do they come with the stands?

Esixxx
03-17-2021, 05:58 AM
That's a great deal. Do they come with the stands?

Yeah they come with the desktop stands with clamps and a remote :D

TheBrownFox
03-17-2021, 07:48 PM
I just haaad to forget to buy some Zyrtec when I was at the store earlier. Omg...

~Carmen~
03-17-2021, 07:57 PM
I am stupid stoked- just ordered these to step up my lighting game.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07T593JR5

Sweet!! When are they supposed to arrive?

Esixxx
03-18-2021, 07:04 AM
Sweet!! When are they supposed to arrive?


Saturday :) I can't wait to get them set up and test them out!!!!

~Carmen~
03-18-2021, 12:38 PM
Saturday :) I can't wait to get them set up and test them out!!!!

That's so exciting! Please let us know how they work out :)

Cutie101
03-19-2021, 09:45 PM
When I struggle for 10 minutes, to fix the stockings in the garter, on the backside of the leg...

And then diarrheea strikes...

Luci Fer
03-19-2021, 11:07 PM
I am stupid stoked- just ordered these to step up my lighting game.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07T593JR5

They are SO amazing! I feel oldschool with my softbox xD

TheBrownFox
03-20-2021, 09:31 PM
I just started watching that movie Promising Young Woman, and I can tell I'm gonna really like it!

~Carmen~
03-20-2021, 11:31 PM
I just started watching that movie Promising Young Woman, and I can tell I'm gonna really like it!

That looks like a good one! I'm watching "The Undoing" series right now and it's really good too.

TheBrownFox
03-20-2021, 11:56 PM
That looks like a good one!


OMG, Promising Young Woman was an excellent movie! It's considered a revenge thriller (Not actually a scary movie though), and it's described as:


Critic reviews (https://www.google.com/search?rlz=1C1GCEA_enUS932US932&q=promising+young+woman+critic+reviews&stick=H4sIAAAAAAAAAONgFuLVT9c3NMwwKElPKTcrUULlaolm J1vpp2Xm5IIJq6LUsszU8uJFrCoFRfm5mcWZeekKlfmlQLI8Pz cxTyG5KLMkM1kBqgwAaUWpYF4AAAA&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjhoY_T5sDvAhXaZs0KHUA-BkoQMTA8egQIIhAC)
Carey Mulligan stars in this feminist revenge thriller that too often backs away from its potentially searing setup.




Emerald Fennell's razor-sharp feature writing and directing debut could do for sexual assault what Fatal Attraction did with cheating: Scare men into thinking twice.

Esixxx
03-21-2021, 09:16 AM
That's so exciting! Please let us know how they work out :)

The lights are amazing! I'll post results soon in the All About Lighting Thread. I'm still playing with the settings there is a little bit of a learning curve with all the different settings and working the remote.

naughtybabe1
03-21-2021, 12:25 PM
I've had this thought in my mind and heart for awhile but venting it out loud seems to help. It's GUILT. It's an old guilt but today it came back and clawed my heart out. There was a time..short time ago..that I had less than $40 in my checking account and a sick cat with a UTI. I couldn't even afford to take her to the vet the next day. I had to wait for my stupid paycheck. (The vet was understanding and took the cat in the next day with payment pending..cat was ok!). But having the guilt that I couldn't even have extra money to cover for a stupid vet visit and simple anti biotics for my precious pet was so guilt renching. Thank FUK for caming. It has imporved my life...and finacial life...like never before and I am so grateful. I just had to say it outloud. I AM SOOO GRATEFUL FOR CAMING! Where else can I go earn an extra $200 for something and never have a "job" where I'm limited in hours and pay. screw that. never again! I'm almost 50 and if I cam until I'm in the ground then so be it! Granny cam it is!

Luci Fer
03-22-2021, 02:51 AM
Just so tired of clenching my teeth tight during sleeping. When I wake up I feel like a bulldog biting someone's ass. ;(

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-22-2021, 08:38 AM
Just so tired of clenching my teeth tight during sleeping. When I wake up I feel like a bulldog biting someone's ass. ;(

Have you tried sleeping with a mouth guard? I don't use mine nearly as much as I use to. I guess I'm more relaxed now? But at one point I actually lost a molar because I was grinding my teeth so hard.

TheBrownFox
03-22-2021, 05:22 PM
I really hope my favorite regular got these panties in the mail. I know the mail has been slow lately, but if I hear back from him that he hasn't received them...that's a waste of a pair of panties + 4 or 5 stamps + a bubble mailer. And I'll have to do the shit all over again. As a person who has to pay every week to walk over to use the laundry room...plus the fact that I'm still bleeding all the damn time, this panty thing is a pain in the ass. The first pair I tried to wear for him...I ended up getting blood on them, so I couldn't use those and had to find a different pair (to wear for a day for him).

Is there a way to do the certified mail receipt thing (Where they tell you that such and such was delivered to ___) without having to provide YOUR address? Because obviously I can't be having my address revealed to people.

Luci Fer
03-22-2021, 10:22 PM
Have you tried sleeping with a mouth guard? I don't use mine nearly as much as I use to. I guess I'm more relaxed now? But at one point I actually lost a molar because I was grinding my teeth so hard.

Just ordered it today! Did you get your mouth guard customized at dentist's? I decided to try a standard one at first, which gets (I hope!) a needed shape. My friends jokingly advised me to get a pacifier lol
PS. So happy to know it helps not only to stop grinding teeth, but completely relaxes jaws!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-23-2021, 10:56 AM
Just ordered it today! Did you get your mouth guard customized at dentist's? I decided to try a standard one at first, which gets (I hope!) a needed shape. My friends jokingly advised me to get a pacifier lol
PS. So happy to know it helps not only to stop grinding teeth, but completely relaxes jaws!

The first one was straight out of the box and I practically chewed it apart. It didn't fit my mouth and kept popping off. And that's not good. The second one is bulkier and molded to fit my mouth. It helps with my snoring too.

TheBrownFox
03-23-2021, 02:16 PM
May be adding daytime camming to the mix starting April 12. I already do MFC and MV Live at night, and I feel like doing MFC TWICE in the same day could just be shooting myself in the foot. I remember that daytime on there used to be a lot quieter than nighttime. And I really don't wanna be dragging my camscore even further into the ground. So for daytime maybe MV Live + a different token site. I'm gonna check out Flirt4Free and Stripchat to see what I think.

I'd also love to get some of those gentlemen from the UK (One of the things I miss about the site AdultWork). That afternoon slot would be evening time in the UK.

MissAdriana
03-23-2021, 02:47 PM
I tried branching out into a couple different fetishes for me that I was interested in, similar to what I usually do, only different, spread them out over the past year as I enjoyed the change of content, and it didn't pay off. Actually I screwed myself a bit because I could've spent that time doing the same old, same old style content and probably would have made more $. I guess the guys don't really get bored like I do. I scroll my page and see similar thumbnails and think 'hmm lets try something NEW' Then it never sells. I tried. They like what they like. I'll be careful trying too many new things from now on.

TheBrownFox
03-23-2021, 06:22 PM
So if I do that delivery receipt thing (where I can get confirmation that panties were delivered to this person), how much does that shit cost, and am I required to tell the post office MY address in order for them to do the delivery receipt/confirmation? Because I'm not doing anything that risks them revealing my address to my panty buyer (I don't want them trying to stamp MY address on the envelope once I walk out of there). My #1 reg STILL hasn't gotten my panties in the mail yet, so I'm gonna have to send him ANOTHER pair now, and waste more stamps...and waste my time taking the bus to the post office.