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TheBrownFox
06-23-2021, 06:57 PM
I've gotten some Kindle books on sex work online as I prep to get back in the game. One of them was called Creating Your Camgirl Empire. OMG!!! This one must have been written by a man. The author encourages panty sales even if you as a cam girl feel uncomfortable (??!!) and then goes on to say that if that is more than you can bear, spray your panties with perfume before shipping and call it a day. WTF!!! LOLOLOLOL that is NOT what panty guys want.

Another WAS written by two men who claim they watched their favorite camgirl falter and wanted to tell cam girls alllll the things they can do to keep from screwing up. That one is Camgirl 2.0

OMG some of these books are so horrible! I found a couple that were actually helpful on how to market and expand with foot fetish, but I cannot believe some of this advice to naïve girls entering the industry!

LMFAO! It's a TERRIBLE idea for women to be spraying perfume into their "drawz" (Haha). Bacterial vaginosis, anyone? *Facepalm* Hell, I stopped buying scented body washes a long time ago, and started using regular Dove soap. Panty fetish dudes usually want your panties WORN...with your natural scent, and they like it when you've worn them for at least a day.

Erika_Xstacy
06-23-2021, 08:16 PM
I've gotten some Kindle books on sex work online as I prep to get back in the game. One of them was called Creating Your Camgirl Empire. OMG!!! This one must have been written by a man. The author encourages panty sales even if you as a cam girl feel uncomfortable (??!!) and then goes on to say that if that is more than you can bear, spray your panties with perfume before shipping and call it a day. WTF!!! LOLOLOLOL that is NOT what panty guys want.

Another WAS written by two men who claim they watched their favorite camgirl falter and wanted to tell cam girls alllll the things they can do to keep from screwing up. That one is Camgirl 2.0

OMG some of these books are so horrible! I found a couple that were actually helpful on how to market and expand with foot fetish, but I cannot believe some of this advice to naïve girls entering the industry!
http://www.thecamguide.com/
I found this when I googled the ones you mentioned. Emma is known and has a good reputation. The bottom says to simply enter the email for a free version.

naomi_doll
06-23-2021, 08:52 PM
http://www.thecamguide.com/
I found this when I googled the ones you mentioned. Emma is known and has a good reputation. The bottom says to simply enter the email for a free version.

If you click the link, the publisher has completely shut down. I tried to enter my email, I'll let you know if the mailing list still works.

ETA: No email so far :(

Miss_ShaSha
06-24-2021, 01:33 PM
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-25-2021, 06:07 AM
I finally broke down and got one of those Instapot Air fryers on Prime day. Tried it out with salmon and root veggies and it came out perfectly! My only complaint is the touch pad. You can't punch in the temperature or time for cooking. Instead you need to keep pushing up or down for what you need. Now I'm wondering if I should have spent $30 more for the other one?

Here's the one I got

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07VM28XTR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_XAD771XWW402TRJD7YK7

JenniferNorth
06-25-2021, 06:20 AM
Yeah, I wanted that guide Emma offers for $$ but the publisher is gone. I wonder if there is a way to contact Emma? Maybe she's on Twitter or something.

AuroraJade
06-25-2021, 07:33 AM
Yeah, I wanted that guide Emma offers for $$ but the publisher is gone. I wonder if there is a way to contact Emma? Maybe she's on Twitter or something.

Search emmalovett on twitter, she should pop up ;)

Marina Starr
06-25-2021, 09:48 AM
I have no idea what to cook or eat today. Sometimes cooking or simply deciding on what to eat feel so difficult.

~Carmen~
06-25-2021, 02:09 PM
I have no idea what to cook or eat today. Sometimes cooking or simply deciding on what to eat feel so difficult.

I made chickpea tacos. It was very easy and delicious. You can never go wrong with Mexican :). Thankfully, it's still available since the wall's coming down.

Marina Starr
06-25-2021, 02:23 PM
Lmaooooo!

Love chickpeas. Chick Fil A sent me a free chicken sandwich so I'll redeem it for dinner. Crispy, delicious and homophobic. Be jealous, sis!


I made chickpea tacos. It was very easy and delicious. You can never go wrong with Mexican :). Thankfully, it's still available since the wall's coming down.

~Carmen~
06-25-2021, 02:48 PM
Lmaooooo!

Love chickpeas. Chick Fil A sent me a free chicken sandwich so I'll redeem it for dinner. Crispy, delicious and homophobic. Be jealous, sis!

Are you a freeloader at Chick Fil A now sis? Be sure to wear your "Make America Gay Again" shirt. Make them give you free fries and a coke too.

Marina Starr
06-25-2021, 03:18 PM
Loool, Chick fila hoe, sis! Free sandwich, drinks and fries. #theartoffreeloading


Are you a freeloader at Chick Fil A now sis? Be sure to wear your "Make America Gay Again" shirt. Make them give you free fries and a coke too.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-26-2021, 05:27 AM
Was gonna go fishing in the Keys but mother nature decided to rain on us. I love rain but I don't like being out in it.

JenniferNorth
06-26-2021, 07:32 AM
Loool, Chick fila hoe, sis! Free sandwich, drinks and fries. #theartoffreeloading

My daughter keeps asking for Chick Fil A but I don't want to go there since they don't offer any vegetarian options. Are they worried a soy Chick sandwich will contribute to turning one LGBTQIA? Fuck it, maybe I'll just go in and get her the chicken nuggets and order a diet coke for myself....while wearing a shirt supporting Pride.

Marina Starr
06-26-2021, 01:19 PM
Are you Vegan? You could order a diet coke and waffle fries if you don't eat meat. They also have salads.

Take your daughter, she will love it :)


My daughter keeps asking for Chick Fil A but I don't want to go there since they don't offer any vegetarian options. Are they worried a soy Chick sandwich will contribute to turning one LGBTQIA? Fuck it, maybe I'll just go in and get her the chicken nuggets and order a diet coke for myself....while wearing a shirt supporting Pride.

JenniferNorth
06-27-2021, 09:21 AM
^ I'll try it. I can't say no to waffle fries. I'll have to see their salads-cheese and eggs are okay, meat is a no.

Damn, now I am wishing we had In-N-Out over here. I think they are super religious too? But they have "secret" menus with all kinds of options and it's soooo good.

Marina Starr
06-27-2021, 09:24 AM
I think In-N-Out burger is not religious. But yeah, you need to wear all things that display your support for LGBTQ when you go to Chick Fil A. Troll and get their panties all twisted ;D

I'm gonna go again on Monday. They're close on Sunday to worship the Lord.


^ I'll try it. I can't say no to waffle fries. I'll have to see their salads-cheese and eggs are okay, meat is a no.

Damn, now I am wishing we had In-N-Out over here. I think they are super religious too? But they have "secret" menus with all kinds of options and it's soooo good.

JenniferNorth
06-27-2021, 09:46 AM
In and Out is low-key religious (I remember they had bible verses on the wrappers and looked it up): https://www.today.com/food/why-does-n-out-print-bible-verses-its-cups-wrappers-t164235

Ohhh so Chick fil a is like Hobby Lobby and can't work at all on Sunday? LOLOL even plenty of religious people work on Sunday.

I will troll them for sure. }:D I'm looking for some cute Pride/LGBTQ shirts. I'm also ordering "It's a beautiful day to leave me alone" today too. You always have good suggestions and I can't wait to see some reactions when I go out! ;D

Marina Starr
06-27-2021, 10:23 AM
Chick never open on Sunday no matter where. They're known for that. You should ask if they wanna make donations to LGBTQ groups.

In and Out is low-key religious (I remember they had bible verses on the wrappers and looked it up): https://www.today.com/food/why-does-n-out-print-bible-verses-its-cups-wrappers-t164235

Ohhh so Chick fil a is like Hobby Lobby and can't work at all on Sunday? LOLOL even plenty of religious people work on Sunday.

I will troll them for sure. }:D I'm looking for some cute Pride/LGBTQ shirts. I'm also ordering "It's a beautiful day to leave me alone" today too. You always have good suggestions and I can't wait to see some reactions when I go out! ;D

Miss_ShaSha
06-28-2021, 10:11 AM
Reminiscing about when the pandemic started and I was a live streamer on POF. I met some really cool people and one girl turned me on to Kim: I fell in love. I played this song quite a bit while live streaming and her album Clarity, but this song is my all time favorite!!!


https://youtu.be/5CPeHQHAQyo

Marina Starr
06-28-2021, 01:29 PM
I love Amazon return so much. They made it super easy. All I have to do is request return and take it to UPS store located a few steps down by Starbucks.

~Carmen~
06-28-2021, 04:53 PM
I love Amazon return so much. They made it super easy. All I have to do is request return and take it to UPS store located a few steps down by Starbucks.

It's even easier if you have a drop box nearby. You just print the label, drop it in like a mailbox and don't even have to get out of your car. Of course, that only works for envelope packages and not big boxes.

JenniferNorth
06-29-2021, 04:32 AM
Or take it to Kohl's. Not sure if you ladies have Kohls by you. But you just take it to the return desk like any normal in store item, along with the slip via paper or phone and tell them it's for Amazon.

Marina Starr
06-29-2021, 06:54 AM
I need to hand it over to a live person, I feel paranoid using the drop box, lol.


It's even easier if you have a drop box nearby. You just print the label, drop it in like a mailbox and don't even have to get out of your car. Of course, that only works for envelope packages and not big boxes.

Marina Starr
06-29-2021, 06:55 AM
I've taken stuff to Kohl's. It's all depends on what's convenience for you when you request returns. Amazon will give you options.


Or take it to Kohl's. Not sure if you ladies have Kohls by you. But you just take it to the return desk like any normal in store item, along with the slip via paper or phone and tell them it's for Amazon.

~Carmen~
06-29-2021, 09:15 AM
I've taken stuff to Kohl's. It's all depends on what's convenience for you when you request returns. Amazon will give you options.

I did that once and ended up spending money at Kohls. lol

Marina Starr
06-29-2021, 09:18 AM
LOL, I went to Kohl's once and was so overwhelmed, LOL.

Good Morning, Sis!
You're up EARLY. This is very unusual!


I did that once and ended up spending money at Kohls. lol

~Carmen~
06-29-2021, 09:28 AM
LOL, I went to Kohl's once and was so overwhelmed, LOL.

Good Morning, Sis!
You're up EARLY. This is very unusual!

Good MORNING! Haha, you noticed! My cat was attacking my feet and I have a hair appointment in a couple of hours so I gave up on sleeping. LOL

Kohl's draws you in and keeps you there. They have their ways just like hoes do}:D.

Marina Starr
06-29-2021, 09:33 AM
Hair is always worth waking up early for! Don't look too WHOREGEOUS!



Good MORNING! Haha, you noticed! My cat was attacking my feet and I have a hair appointment in a couple of hours so I gave up on sleeping. LOL

Kohl's draws you in and keeps you there. They have their ways just like hoes do}:D.

~Carmen~
06-29-2021, 09:39 AM
Hair is always worth waking up early for! Don't look too WHOREGEOUS!

I try but it's impossible when you're born whoregeous!! You know how it is;D.

Marina Starr
06-29-2021, 09:44 AM
I know how you feel. It's a blessing but also a curse when you can't leave the house without being bombarded by fuckboys. #fuckboyseverywhere #fuckboysgalore


I try but it's impossible when you're born whoregeous!! You know how it is;D.

~Carmen~
06-29-2021, 10:20 AM
I know how you feel. It's a blessing but also a curse when you can't leave the house without being bombarded by fuckboys. #fuckboyseverywhere #fuckboysgalore

A fuckboy walked by yesterday and told me the 4th of July tee shirts I was looking at were not worth it. I need a tee shirt that says "I didn't ask for your opinion".

Have you tried Redken's new Acidic Bonding line yet? I love Olaplex but this stuff is even better.

Marina Starr
06-29-2021, 10:24 AM
Fuckboy needed attention badly!

I prefer Opalex much better. If you have Opalex I wouldn't bother with Redken's Acidic Bonding.



A fuckboy walked by yesterday and told me the 4th of July tee shirts I was looking at were not worth it. I need a tee shirt that says "I didn't ask for your opinion".

Have you tried Redken's new Acidic Bonding line yet? I love Olaplex but this stuff is even better.

Marina Starr
06-29-2021, 05:06 PM
FLOTUS is looking beautiful and radiant on the new cover of Vogue.
Love that they didn't remove all the lines and wrinkles on her face because lines and wrinkles are not flaws. She's 70 and doesn't look it. #afirstladyforallofus indeed.

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TheBrownFox
06-29-2021, 06:49 PM
^I love FLOTUS! I remember telling myself in 2020 that my 6-foot white Christmas tree (Got it from Dollar General!) was staying up throughout Inauguration Day in January 2021. And it didn't come down until the last weekend of February. :) And I've watched clips of the inauguration sooo many times, as well as Barack Obama's inauguration.

Marina Starr
06-30-2021, 06:04 AM
I feel people always take their Christmas decorations down way too soon.

I still watch inauguration clips, they brought tears to my eyes. I remember being up past 2am on election night and was devastated when it looks like we were heading down 2016 when Hilary lost. My nerves were shot but then elect POTUS and FLOTUS came out and calm me down with their calm and reassuring speech. Woke up early morning with such relief Biden was gonna win. You could see in the video how calm he was:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ph8dqqlsKI&t=23s






^I love FLOTUS! I remember telling myself in 2020 that my 6-foot white Christmas tree (Got it from Dollar General!) was staying up throughout Inauguration Day in January 2021. And it didn't come down until the last weekend of February. :) And I've watched clips of the inauguration sooo many times, as well as Barack Obama's inauguration.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-30-2021, 07:15 AM
I hate mechanical pencils.

Marina Starr
06-30-2021, 05:07 PM
The price was crazy and hard to find during the pandemic. Glad it's back to normal so I ordered :)

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08DRQ66WP?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details

TheBrownFox
06-30-2021, 09:22 PM
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~Carmen~
07-01-2021, 12:54 AM
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Amen to that!!!

~Carmen~
07-01-2021, 12:55 AM
I feel people always take their Christmas decorations down way too soon.

I still watch inauguration clips, they brought tears to my eyes. I remember being up past 2am on election night and was devastated when it looks like we were heading down 2016 when Hilary lost. My nerves were shot but then elect POTUS and FLOTUS came out and calm me down with their calm and reassuring speech. Woke up early morning with such relief Biden was gonna win. You could see in the video how calm he was:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ph8dqqlsKI&t=23s


Oh yes, I loved that speech! I'm going to watch it again. Doesn't he have the nicest smile too?

~Carmen~
07-01-2021, 12:59 AM
FLOTUS is looking beautiful and radiant on the new cover of Vogue.
Love that they didn't remove all the lines and wrinkles on her face because lines and wrinkles are not flaws. She's 70 and doesn't look it. #afirstladyforallofus indeed.

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She is so gorgeous and classy.

Marina Starr
07-01-2021, 07:30 AM
He sure does!


Oh yes, I loved that speech! I'm going to watch it again. Doesn't he have the nicest smile too?


Her and Joe were total babes in their younger years and still are!
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She is so gorgeous and classy.

Marina Starr
07-01-2021, 07:45 AM
Happy Birthday to Princess Diana, The People's Princess. Today would have been her 60th's birthday.
She inspires us all to live an authentic life with purpose and having compassion for others.

I still can't watch how paparazzi harassed her without crying.

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naughtybabe1
07-01-2021, 10:50 AM
Ok...I just have to share this. I moved into my new lux apartment one month ago today. I have a view of a "pond"..it's ok but looks like a nuclear waste dump site. From the first night I've been hearing the weirdest and most annoying sound I've ever heard...kind of like a really loud combo of a huge kazoo and a tuba. I was like..WTF IS THAT SOUND? I thought maybe it was some AC units on the fritz. I couldn't sleep so last night i went out on the balcony at 4am and recorded the sounds. This morning I went to the apartment complex office and asked them to listen to the video and put in a maintnenace request. I played the video and all the office gals started laughing. They told me the sounds I'm hearing are BIG ASS BULLFROGS!! I was like...WWWWWWHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTT? God.Damn.FROGS! they pulled up a youtube video and sure enough...the exact same sounds I was hearing. They were like...WELCOME TO IOWA!". This just proves I am SUCH a city girl. Now i have to get a white noise machine to drown out that damn frogs. They are annoying to listen to!

kamiliam
07-01-2021, 12:48 PM
going to be a bit vulnerable but here goes.

I just had my 5 year anniversary on SM. I had forgotten the date and it was my top guy who remembered for me. Since that reminder I have been thinking a lot about how camming really has allowed me to come into my own in ways I never imagined. I knew I had the traits and skills to be successful in SW, but I had always used those skills to further other people's dreams. I wanted and made the first attempts to go into SW a number of times throughout my life. Often when the crushing social obligations/expectations of my upbringing conflicted with my personality. I always chickened out until I didn't.

The other positive changes in my life didn't happen overnight, but wouldn't have happened perhaps at all without camming. I would have continued to be scammed by society and not been able to harness that for myself.

I have always been strong/resilient but these last 5 years have made me brave. Thanks for letting me share. And to all my fellow cammers who have sent me good wishes!

Cutie101
07-01-2021, 01:21 PM
Ok...I just have to share this. I moved into my new lux apartment one month ago today. I have a view of a "pond"..it's ok but looks like a nuclear waste dump site. From the first night I've been hearing the weirdest and most annoying sound I've ever heard...kind of like a really loud combo of a huge kazoo and a tuba. I was like..WTF IS THAT SOUND? I thought maybe it was some AC units on the fritz. I couldn't sleep so last night i went out on the balcony at 4am and recorded the sounds. This morning I went to the apartment complex office and asked them to listen to the video and put in a maintnenace request. I played the video and all the office gals started laughing. They told me the sounds I'm hearing are BIG ASS BULLFROGS!! I was like...WWWWWWHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTT? God.Damn.FROGS! they pulled up a youtube video and sure enough...the exact same sounds I was hearing. They were like...WELCOME TO IOWA!". This just proves I am SUCH a city girl. Now i have to get a white noise machine to drown out that damn frogs. They are annoying to listen to!

Ahahahahha!! This is so funny!! At least I hope you don't get a horrible smell coming from that pond, because near my city, there's a small lake that was in the middle of nowhere 10 years ago, but now the area developed so much, that those who sell the homes there, advertise it as "your relax oasis, lake view, luxury bla bla bla". What they don't say about, is the summertime smell, because some companies spill the toilet waste in that "lake" and when you pass by that area, it smells in the car, with windows closed even! :))))))))) I was actually talking to my bf and we concluded that they sell the homes only during winter, cuz no sane person would pay $200k to get that "oasis" in their nose whenever they open the windows :))
But yeah, frogs are freaking loud.
I am about to move at the country side and some of the neighbors have pigs and horses. You don't know what "breeze" i enjoy when I try to have my coffee in the morning :)))) Ok, horses don't smell that bad, it reminds of my grandpa horses and cows, but the pig smell is something special :))) At least it smells better than the sewer scent :))

AuroraJade
07-02-2021, 11:43 AM
I live by the water. Always wanted to. My apartment building is literally IN THE WATER. But boy oh boy, the smell. Its vile. Nobody told me but stagnant water is the worst.

Genoveve
07-02-2021, 03:09 PM
Ok...I just have to share this. I moved into my new lux apartment one month ago today. I have a view of a "pond"..it's ok but looks like a nuclear waste dump site. From the first night I've been hearing the weirdest and most annoying sound I've ever heard...kind of like a really loud combo of a huge kazoo and a tuba. I was like..WTF IS THAT SOUND? I thought maybe it was some AC units on the fritz. I couldn't sleep so last night i went out on the balcony at 4am and recorded the sounds. This morning I went to the apartment complex office and asked them to listen to the video and put in a maintnenace request. I played the video and all the office gals started laughing. They told me the sounds I'm hearing are BIG ASS BULLFROGS!! I was like...WWWWWWHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTT? God.Damn.FROGS! they pulled up a youtube video and sure enough...the exact same sounds I was hearing. They were like...WELCOME TO IOWA!". This just proves I am SUCH a city girl. Now i have to get a white noise machine to drown out that damn frogs. They are annoying to listen to!

You got me sitting here watching this youtube video laughing LOL:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M02_dnl9zCA

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-03-2021, 06:33 AM
Watermelon & Strawberry smoothies are life! It's such a refreshing start to such a beautiful Saturday. I'm gonna run some errands before these torrential rains come through.