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~Carmen~
07-08-2021, 12:16 AM
You know it doesn't take much with fuckboys.

I'll wear my 'Trans Rights Are Humans Rights' shirt with no make up next time I shop Trader Hoes. You know I love to terrorize folks, hahahahaha ;D

I can't stop laughing. I scared a fuckboy real good. I took my trash out with a peel off mask on my face. I also had pepper spray in my hand. A fuckboy came around the corner and went "Whoaaa". I must have looked like a glowing ghost. I said "Sorry, I didn't mean to scare you." (not really sorry). He said "It's okay, just not quite what I expected to see. Have a great night." Oh I did! Hahahaaaaaa

JenniferNorth
07-08-2021, 05:39 AM
I can't stop laughing. I scared a fuckboy real good. I took my trash out with a peel off mask on my face. I also had pepper spray in my hand. A fuckboy came around the corner and went "Whoaaa". I must have looked like a glowing ghost. I said "Sorry, I didn't mean to scare you." (not really sorry). He said "It's okay, just not quite what I expected to see. Have a great night." Oh I did! Hahahaaaaaa

Proud of you for showing those fuckboys who the boss is, and proud of you for carrying pepper spray! I don't trust certain types of people #sorrynotsorry. Stay safe, always!

Marina Starr
07-08-2021, 06:40 AM
I have so many questions, lol

why do you need to carry pepper spray, sis?
I may have to break my July spending freeze and order this from amazon
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07XLX163D/ref=ox_sc_saved_image_1?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&psc=1

I bet fuckboy can't stop thinking of you all night. Sometimes I feel ugly leaving the house but fuckboys still want it. You and I are built in fetish so it doesn't matter much. We could read newspapers at Starbucks and they would still go 'oh my God that's so fucking kinky". Lol


I can't stop laughing. I scared a fuckboy real good. I took my trash out with a peel off mask on my face. I also had pepper spray in my hand. A fuckboy came around the corner and went "Whoaaa". I must have looked like a glowing ghost. I said "Sorry, I didn't mean to scare you." (not really sorry). He said "It's okay, just not quite what I expected to see. Have a great night." Oh I did! Hahahaaaaaa

JenniferNorth
07-08-2021, 07:16 AM
I want to copy Carmen now. Come out in my hemp face mask looking like I just did a bukkake and scare the shit outta everyone.

Marina, research your state laws and make sure whatever you get is legal by you. Where I live I can only have one type of pepper spray, no stun/zapper or anything like that. But brass knuckles are legal! lol makes no sense.

If you are gonna break your no-spend day, get this too, I use it and it is awesome: https://www.amazon.com/Uncle-Buds-masks-total-Organic/dp/B08CYC1N4S/r

I meant to ask, what's the rules with the no-spend challenge you all are doing? Just no silly spending like ordering all the things on Amazon etc? I assume buying food, toilet paper etc does not count.

Marina Starr
07-08-2021, 07:46 AM
Gonna make red curry for lunch and dinner. Feeling Thai food.

JenniferNorth
07-08-2021, 09:12 AM
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My mom told me this would be petty and upsetting, but I don't care.

Marina Starr
07-08-2021, 10:42 AM
You're gonna get a lot of panties twisted if you wear that in public, lol!


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My mom told me this would be petty and upsetting, but I don't care.

~Carmen~
07-08-2021, 12:58 PM
I have so many questions, lol

why do you need to carry pepper spray, sis?
I may have to break my July spending freeze and order this from amazon
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07XLX163D/ref=ox_sc_saved_image_1?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&psc=1

I bet fuckboy can't stop thinking of you all night. Sometimes I feel ugly leaving the house but fuckboys still want it. You and I are built in fetish so it doesn't matter much. We could read newspapers at Starbucks and they would still go 'oh my God that's so fucking kinky". Lol

I have been carrying pepper spray for years for self protection. I especially need it now that my upstairs neighbors have been harassing me. I think you should definitely order that. We won't count it for your spending freeze because it's a necessity.

I was thinking that too. Fuckboy can't get me out of his head. Just to see a woman with the nerve to go out like that is a turn on. Never mind that I also had a towel on my head. Plus the built in fetish thing. You know what he did when he got home. LOL

~Carmen~
07-08-2021, 01:03 PM
I want to copy Carmen now. Come out in my hemp face mask looking like I just did a bukkake and scare the shit outta everyone.

Marina, research your state laws and make sure whatever you get is legal by you. Where I live I can only have one type of pepper spray, no stun/zapper or anything like that. But brass knuckles are legal! lol makes no sense.

If you are gonna break your no-spend day, get this too, I use it and it is awesome: https://www.amazon.com/Uncle-Buds-masks-total-Organic/dp/B08CYC1N4S/r

I meant to ask, what's the rules with the no-spend challenge you all are doing? Just no silly spending like ordering all the things on Amazon etc? I assume buying food, toilet paper etc does not count.

Omg, I didn't even think of bukkake. lmaooooo. Those masks look nice. I put them in my cart for next month.

The spending freeze rules are groceries and gas only but I think Marina should get an exception for pepper spray. If you break your no-spend challenge, you have to add on another week in August. That's what I'm doing. I love that shirt!

Marina Starr
07-08-2021, 01:12 PM
I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Trash are everywhere.

LOL, you should have gave him the towel on your head so he can use when he got home ;D


I have been carrying pepper spray for years for self protection. I especially need it now that my upstairs neighbors have been harassing me. I think you should definitely order that. We won't count it for your spending freeze because it's a necessity.

I was thinking that too. Fuckboy can't get me out of his head. Just to see a woman with the nerve to go out like that is a turn on. Never mind that I also had a towel on my head. Plus the built in fetish thing. You know what he did when he got home. LOL

~Carmen~
07-08-2021, 01:46 PM
I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Trash are everywhere.
Thank you sis.

LOL, you should have gave him the towel on your head so he can use when he got home ;D
Ewwww:yuck:

Miss_ShaSha
07-08-2021, 02:28 PM
Omg, I didn't even think of bukkake. lmaooooo. Those masks look nice. I put them in my cart for next month.

The spending freeze rules are groceries and gas only but I think Marina should get an exception for pepper spray. If you break your no-spend challenge, you have to add on another week in August. That's what I'm doing. I love that shirt!

I agree Carmen, an item like pepper spray is essential. I think that's totally ok. I'm still doing good. I got beef jerky, but that's like a food item and ok. I really wanna get a couple off the shoulder shirts since I didn't get myself anything for bday, but fuck...I have enough off the shoulder shirts AND this luxury apt is my bday gift.

Miss_ShaSha
07-09-2021, 09:01 AM
Carmen, Jennifer, and Marina:

I am failing the challenge due to buying ashwagandha for my daughter. She has been having severe anxiety and I told her about how the supplement has really worked to not only lower stress levels, cortisol, and even anxiety.

I'll add a week in Aug just like Carmen to make up for it.

Bummed :(

JenniferNorth
07-09-2021, 09:24 AM
Hey girls! Sha, I am going to start next week, so I will join you then. I gotta make some last minute purchases, but then it's work like a dog and save!

I think adding a week is a good idea.

I hope your daughter feels better! I am going to look into that supplement because I have been having anxiety lately myself.

We can do it!

Marina Starr
07-09-2021, 10:14 AM
You're still in the challenge. Ashwagandha is a necessity. I think the challenge is only against buying shit for yourself :)


Carmen, Jennifer, and Marina:

I am failing the challenge due to buying ashwagandha for my daughter. She has been having severe anxiety and I told her about how the supplement has really worked to not only lower stress levels, cortisol, and even anxiety.

I'll add a week in Aug just like Carmen to make up for it.

Bummed :(

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-09-2021, 10:20 AM
I'm going to see the Zola movie today with a bunch of friends. This will be the first time in a theatre since before lock down. Not gonna lie I'm a little nervous.

~Carmen~
07-09-2021, 12:17 PM
Carmen, Jennifer, and Marina:

I am failing the challenge due to buying ashwagandha for my daughter. She has been having severe anxiety and I told her about how the supplement has really worked to not only lower stress levels, cortisol, and even anxiety.

I'll add a week in Aug just like Carmen to make up for it.

Bummed :(

I agree with Marina. We won't count the ashwagandha because it's for your daughter. Plus I would say it's a necessity if it helps her feel better. I sure hope it does!

Miss_ShaSha
07-09-2021, 03:14 PM
Hey girls! Sha, I am going to start next week, so I will join you then. I gotta make some last minute purchases, but then it's work like a dog and save!

I think adding a week is a good idea.

I hope your daughter feels better! I am going to look into that supplement because I have been having anxiety lately myself.

We can do it!


You're still in the challenge. Ashwagandha is a necessity. I think the challenge is only against buying shit for yourself :)


I agree with Marina. We won't count the ashwagandha because it's for your daughter. Plus I would say it's a necessity if it helps her feel better. I sure hope it does!

Well shit, thanks ladies. Then I'm still going strong. It's hard tho. Fuck, let's do this shit haha <3

Marina Starr
07-09-2021, 03:45 PM
Using the word cunt around vanilla people is like holding the bible up to the devil.

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TheBrownFox
07-09-2021, 04:07 PM
Using the word cunt around vanilla people is like holding the bible up to devil.

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The word "cunt" has also gotten my ass sent to Facebook Jail in the past. LMFAO!!! I'm currently in FB Jail AGAIN (14 days left) for defending myself against some dumb CUNT who insisted on fighting with me over a damn T.V. show. :P She turned out to be another one of those racist bitches who wants to call someone an "ape" and say "Go back to Africa," but has a flower as her profile pic. Lol. People still say "Go back to Africa!" during a fight? LMAO! LAAAAAME!

Marina Starr
07-09-2021, 04:18 PM
LMAO @ Facebook Jail. Go back to Africa because you're black? #racistCUNT.

In my experience, bitches that have a problem with the word CUNT are way worse with their passive fucking aggression. People are more okay with that but they'd lose it with word cunt.


The word "cunt" has also gotten my ass sent to Facebook Jail in the past. LMFAO!!! I'm currently in FB Jail AGAIN (14 days left) for defending myself against some dumb CUNT who insisted on fighting with me over a damn T.V. show. :P She turned out to be another one of those racist bitches who wants to call someone an "ape" and say "Go back to Africa," but has a flower as her profile pic. Lol. People still say "Go back to Africa!" during a fight? LMAO! LAAAAAME!

JenniferNorth
07-09-2021, 09:38 PM
Tell that stupid bitch we all originated from Africa long ago. Fucking honestly. I hate people.

~Carmen~
07-10-2021, 03:11 AM
Well shit, thanks ladies. Then I'm still going strong. It's hard tho. Fuck, let's do this shit haha <3

Yes, you are doing great! I read that you gave your savings to your daughter who is having a rough time. What a wonderful mom, wow!!!

It has been hard but this has inspired me to start budgeting for the things I want instead of buying on impulse.

~Carmen~
07-10-2021, 03:13 AM
Hey girls! Sha, I am going to start next week, so I will join you then. I gotta make some last minute purchases, but then it's work like a dog and save!

I think adding a week is a good idea.

I hope your daughter feels better! I am going to look into that supplement because I have been having anxiety lately myself.

We can do it!

I must have missed your post earlier. Better starting late than never and you are adding a week so you're good;D.

Miss_ShaSha
07-10-2021, 06:00 AM
Yes, you are doing great! I read that you gave your savings to your daughter who is having a rough time. What a wonderful mom, wow!!!

It has been hard but this has inspired me to start budgeting for the things I want instead of buying on impulse.

Yeah, she had a job that paid about $500 a month. She has no credit, a lower credit score, no car, no savings, well...nothing really. She just worked a little and took very good care of my granddaughter. When she decided to leave her husband she literally had ZERO.

Let me tell you...he had bad vibes, but I never wanted to be the mother that told my daughter to divorce. I suggested counseling. However, when she called me crying saying she had to go (and she had been talking here and there about his toxic behavior) I told her I supported her 100%.

Yes, I made a transfer of my whole savings into her account. Shit, I just knew...KNEW I could make it even during the summer slump so giving it to her was ok.

I really appreciate the acknowledgement and now you all know why I'm grinding soooooo hard. This freeze on purchasing unnecessary items is so fuckin perfect during this time.

Great idea Carmen, and one more thing to keep me the fuck on track. THANKS!!!

Marina Starr
07-10-2021, 01:10 PM
Good afternoon!

No caption needed. #wisdom #hoewisdom
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~Carmen~
07-10-2021, 01:18 PM
Yeah, she had a job that paid about $500 a month. She has no credit, a lower credit score, no car, no savings, well...nothing really. She just worked a little and took very good care of my granddaughter. When she decided to leave her husband she literally had ZERO.

Let me tell you...he had bad vibes, but I never wanted to be the mother that told my daughter to divorce. I suggested counseling. However, when she called me crying saying she had to go (and she had been talking here and there about his toxic behavior) I told her I supported her 100%.

Yes, I made a transfer of my whole savings into her account. Shit, I just knew...KNEW I could make it even during the summer slump so giving it to her was ok.

I really appreciate the acknowledgement and now you all know why I'm grinding soooooo hard. This freeze on purchasing unnecessary items is so fuckin perfect during this time.

Great idea Carmen, and one more thing to keep me the fuck on track. THANKS!!!

Good for your daughter on getting out of that toxic relationship. That is never easy in any circumstance, especially when you have nothing. She's a strong women, like her mama.

I can see why you've been grinding so hard, especially since you will be moving soon too.

Marina Starr
07-10-2021, 01:38 PM
Lessons from Mom

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Yeah, she had a job that paid about $500 a month. She has no credit, a lower credit score, no car, no savings, well...nothing really. She just worked a little and took very good care of my granddaughter. When she decided to leave her husband she literally had ZERO.

Let me tell you...he had bad vibes, but I never wanted to be the mother that told my daughter to divorce. I suggested counseling. However, when she called me crying saying she had to go (and she had been talking here and there about his toxic behavior) I told her I supported her 100%.

Yes, I made a transfer of my whole savings into her account. Shit, I just knew...KNEW I could make it even during the summer slump so giving it to her was ok.

I really appreciate the acknowledgement and now you all know why I'm grinding soooooo hard. This freeze on purchasing unnecessary items is so fuckin perfect during this time.

Great idea Carmen, and one more thing to keep me the fuck on track. THANKS!!!

~Carmen~
07-10-2021, 09:49 PM
There's nothing more relaxing than a purring kitty in your lap.. I must have done something right to earn this privilege because she has not been on my lap in almost a week. She climbed on my lap twice tonight.
#Purecontentment

Marina Starr
07-11-2021, 02:34 PM
You know it cracks me up when vanilla girls found out I sell pussy online... they will slut shame and talk trash about me to their men on top of their usual 'that's a man' insult. Their goal is to warn and keep their men away. Little do they know that ignites a spark, they planted a seed, LOL.

Word of mouth is the best advertisement... ;D

Miss_ShaSha
07-11-2021, 03:23 PM
You know it cracks me up when vanilla girls found out I sell pussy online... they will slut shame and talk trash about me to their men on top of their usual 'that's a man' insult. Their goal is to warn and keep their men away. Little do they know that ignites a spark, they planted a seed, LOL.

Word of mouth is the best advertisement... ;D

I just love how you handle these things. You're such a fuckin boss girl. It's fuckin badass.

Marina Starr
07-11-2021, 03:33 PM
Thanks, girl! I'll make cammodel link business cards and give them out to their men when they holler so I'll get a higher % cut ;D


I just love how you handle these things. You're such a fuckin boss girl. It's fuckin badass.

~Carmen~
07-11-2021, 05:41 PM
I had the last 2 days off and the temptation to spend was strong but I resisted.

I'm hustling harder than usual this month, trying to get out of cc debt by the first week of August.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-12-2021, 06:45 AM
I just got into a pair of skinny jeans I bought online four years ago. They still have the tags on them because I couldn't fit them back then. But now after losing so much weight I seem to have lost my butt? I knew I should have been doing more aggressive lunges.

Miss_ShaSha
07-12-2021, 07:38 AM
I had the last 2 days off and the temptation to spend was strong but I resisted.

I'm hustling harder than usual this month, trying to get out of cc debt by the first week of August.

Yee haw! I'm taking it one day at a time hahaha I used to just buy whatever whenever just cause I could. Marina was right: spoiled bitch lolollll

You gotta feel good about that!!!

Marina Starr
07-12-2021, 11:06 AM
Mmmmmm these blueberries scones from Panera are so good! They're made with fresh blueberries versus dry berries from Publix.

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Marina Starr
07-12-2021, 02:19 PM
Who the fuck bring their own coffee to Starbucks: sit inside, taking up seats and tables for hours without buying anything? The AUDACITY of it all. I'm bold and shameless but I couldn't do that. Tacky is an understatement.

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Teddy_Bear
07-12-2021, 02:59 PM
Who the fuck bring their own coffee to Starbucks: sit inside, taking up seats and tables for hours without buying anything? The AUDACITY of it all. I'm bold and shameless but I couldn't do that. Tacky is an understatement.

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Cam freeloaders? Sounds like their level of entitlement, I'll sit here all day contributing nothing and soaking it all in then bounce when I feel like it.

I'm sure it's not just us they do it to so why not Starbucks.

Marina Starr
07-12-2021, 03:10 PM
Hi Teddy!
I hope you're doing great and make lots $$$

You're right on that!

Cam freeloaders/free chat in real life, lmao!


Cam freeloaders? Sounds like their level of entitlement, I'll sit here all day contributing nothing and soaking it all in then bounce when I feel like it.

I'm sure it's not just us they do it to so why not Starbucks.

Teddy_Bear
07-12-2021, 03:16 PM
Hi Teddy!
I hope you're doing great and make lots $$$

You're right on that!

Cam freeloaders/free chat in real life, lmao!

Great to see your awesomeness back on the forum Marina! Back to work for me tomorrow but I've been enjoying a week off and you've been making me giggle with your contributions as always ;D

Marina Starr
07-12-2021, 03:21 PM
I'm glad I can make you laugh :)

You totally deserve time off, you hustle hard. Drain those wallets!!!!


Great to see your awesomeness back on the forum Marina! Back to work for me tomorrow but I've been enjoying a week off and you've been making me giggle with your contributions as always ;D

~Carmen~
07-13-2021, 12:16 AM
My daughter told me about a hair product I should try. I told her I have to resist because of the spending freeze.

This is harder than I imagined.

Marina Starr
07-13-2021, 11:12 AM
Scheduled an appointment with a psychiatrist l... I hope she's a good fit. There should be no stigma with mental health. #stigmafree

Miss_ShaSha
07-13-2021, 11:57 AM
My daughter told me about a hair product I should try. I told her I have to resist because of the spending freeze.

This is harder than I imagined.

Mhmm, I feel you on that. You're doing it tho :D It's my day off and I bought groceries and gas only. I wanted to buy some wine to celebrate some good news, but that is not essential PLUS I'm not even supposed to drink it, but damn it is hard!!!

We got this. How are you doing Marina and Jennifer?

Marina Starr
07-13-2021, 12:18 PM
Still in! Only bought gas and food :)


Mhmm, I feel you on that. You're doing it tho :D It's my day off and I bought groceries and gas only. I wanted to buy some wine to celebrate some good news, but that is not essential PLUS I'm not even supposed to drink it, but damn it is hard!!!

We got this. How are you doing Marina and Jennifer?

naughtybabe1
07-13-2021, 12:32 PM
Scheduled an appointment with a psychiatrist l... I hope she's a good fit. There should be no stigma with mental health. #stigmafree

Good for you!! You made a HUGE first step. You won't regret it. But it can take patience to find a good match. I supper from really bad GAD (Generalized anxiety and depression) and it took me a year to find the right therapist and about 4 months to get my meds right but I don't regret any of it. I take 20mg of paxil everyday and it was a life changer. I was borderlife agorophobic and couldn't work or focus on anything. Total game changer. Good luck!

~Carmen~
07-13-2021, 12:44 PM
Scheduled an appointment with a psychiatrist l... I hope she's a good fit. There should be no stigma with mental health. #stigmafree

I hope she works out for you! Let us know how it goes.

I was lucky to find a good one on my first try. She really cares and listens.

Agreed, there should not still be so much stigma in 2021. Treatment can pull you out of whatever is wrong and make you feel like a new person.

Mental health problems are not a sign of weakness. It takes strength to recognize that something is wrong and ask for help. I'm proud of you!
#stigmafree

~Carmen~
07-13-2021, 12:47 PM
Good for you!! You made a HUGE first step. You won't regret it. But it can take patience to find a good match. I supper from really bad GAD (Generalized anxiety and depression) and it took me a year to find the right therapist and about 4 months to get my meds right but I don't regret any of it. I take 20mg of paxil everyday and it was a life changer. I was borderlife agorophobic and couldn't work or focus on anything. Total game changer. Good luck!

That's wonderful! It's amazing how much meds can help when you find the right one.

I recently went on a new medication after years of trial and error and I feel like I have been lifted out of a dark cloud.

Marina Starr
07-13-2021, 01:01 PM
Thanks, sis!

I can do my session with her on video so that makes me glad I don't have to leave the house.


I hope she works out for you! Let us know how it goes.

I was lucky to find a good one on my first try. She really cares and listens.

Agreed, there should not still be so much stigma in 2021. Treatment can pull you out of whatever is wrong and make you feel like a new person.

Mental health problems are not a sign of weakness. It takes strength to recognize that something is wrong and ask for help. I'm proud of you!
#stigmafree

~Carmen~
07-13-2021, 01:06 PM
Thanks, sis!

I can do my session with her on video so that makes me glad I don't have to leave the house.

Nice!! It's so much easier. My first appointment was on video. I was glad I wore pants because she wanted to know which vitamins I take. I had to get up to grab them in the other room. "Can you stand bb?" haha!