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~Carmen~
08-01-2021, 02:04 PM
Yes this! I just moved into a nice new high end lux apt and for the most part it's nice and quiet except for the asshole downstairs from me. I call him "Old Yeller"...everyday when he gets home from works he goes out on the patio to smoke and gets on his phone and yells into it...LOUDLY...for several hours. He goes in and outside and it's driving me nuts. Then last night he starts to blast his damn music at 1am when I'm camming and people commented on it. I had it. I went downstairs and BAM BAM BAM on his door like 5 times. The asshat never answered the door but I went back upstairs and it was all quiet. I don't know who or what this guy yells at all the time but he doesn't even have the balls to answer his own door. Men are such pussies!

Wow, that sounds awful. You would think that a lux high end apartment would be quieter but I guess assholes are everywhere.

It's hard enough living with it but when you work from home it's twice as bad. I hope all these douchebags move out. It's always men, isn't it? I never have issues with women.

~Carmen~
08-01-2021, 02:08 PM
Sorry about your car, that's horrible but fuck him. There's no taking the high road with trash.

I don't feel bad for trash, let them all get evicted. I've learned that living under someone is one of the worse things. There's something about noise coming above you that's so disruptive.

Thanks sis. I don't believe the car damage was serendipity.

The punks upstairs are moving at the end of this month. I was told by my bully property manager that it's not because of me. She had to get all her digs in. According to her, I'm the bad guy.

At least I'll have a little peace when nobody lives up there for awhile. Hopefully the next people will be normal.

Now if the guy next door would just move.

Marina Starr
08-01-2021, 02:09 PM
We know when something is off. Hoes are very intuitive.


Thanks sis. I don't believe the car damage was serendipity.

The punks upstairs are moving at the end of this month. I was told my my bully property manager that it's not because of me. She had to get all her digs in. According to her, I'm the bad guy.

At least I'll have a little peace when nobody lives up there for awhile. Hopefully the next people will be normal.

~Carmen~
08-01-2021, 02:22 PM
We know when something is off. Hoes are very intuitive.

How is your situation? Is your new neighbor still blasting music?

Marina Starr
08-01-2021, 02:26 PM
Yes, randomly lol!


How is your situation? Is your new neighbor still blasting music?

~Carmen~
08-01-2021, 02:40 PM
Yes, randomly lol!

Trash doesn't usually stay long. Hoes need peace!

naughtybabe1
08-01-2021, 03:13 PM
Trash doesn't usually stay long. Hoes need peace!

DAMN STRAIGHT!
i wish I could buy a nice high rise tower with all the good shit..pool, gym, etc and have nothing but cammers, escorts, strippers etc live in it. There would be STRICT enforcemet of the rules...1 time u fuk up and over the balcony you go!...lolol. People who hustle hard are usually tired AF and just want some damn peace and quiet!! Oh yeah...i'd have super hi speed fiber optic wifi in every apt for FREE!!

We could name it HOE TOWERS....HAHHAHAHA

~Carmen~
08-01-2021, 03:27 PM
DAMN STRAIGHT!
i wish I could buy a nice high rise tower with all the good shit..pool, gym, etc and have nothing but cammers, escorts, strippers etc live in it. There would be STRICT enforcemet of the rules...1 time u fuk up and over the balcony you go!...lolol. People who hustle hard are usually tired AF and just want some damn peace and quiet!! Oh yeah...i'd have super hi speed fiber optic wifi in every apt for FREE!!

We could name it HOE TOWERS....HAHHAHAHA

YES PLEASE! Now THAT would be a dream cum true!!! Let us know when you erect it and we will all move in;D. Make sure you put the rule for one fuk up/you get thrown over the balcony in the lease. Hoes have no mercy, none AT ALL!! We put up with enough bull:tapedshut!!!

Marina Starr
08-01-2021, 04:17 PM
Carmen and Sha, how are you hoes doing with spending freeze for new month?

~Carmen~
08-01-2021, 04:31 PM
Carmen and Sha, how are you hoes doing with spending freeze for new month?

It's going really well. It has actually become easier over time.

I'm so glad we did this because it has taught me patience in buying stuff.

How is yours going sis?

~Carmen~
08-01-2021, 04:33 PM
Oh my gosh, the people upstairs are moving out RIGHT NOW!!!

Marina Starr
08-01-2021, 04:40 PM
It's going well, sis! I haven't bought anything but I do need Laura Mercier setting powder and I want to get an air fryer oven.


It's going really well. It has actually become easier over time.

I'm so glad we did this because it has taught me patience in buying stuff.

How is yours going sis?

~Carmen~
08-01-2021, 05:11 PM
It's going well, sis! I haven't bought anything but I do need Laura Mercier setting powder and I want to get an air fryer oven.

Good job!! Mama Bear is very proud:).

~Carmen~
08-02-2021, 02:14 AM
I have been in tears all day but in a good way.

I have been putting off knee surgery for awhile, mostly because I live alone. My wonderful son and his wife just offered to come pick me up (He lives about 8 hours away in a different state), have the surgery in their town and take care of me while I recover. I am blown away at their generosity.

I'm still putting it off as long as I can so I can save a little money first, but what a comfort to know I have this option. I am blessed beyond belief!

Marina Starr
08-02-2021, 11:25 AM
I didn't know you need knee surgery, sis! That's wonderful of your son and his wife but I hope they gonna get vaccinated when taking care of you because the last thing you need is catch delta variant while recovering.


I have been in tears all day but in a good way.

I have been putting off knee surgery for awhile, mostly because I live alone. My wonderful son and his wife just offered to come pick me up (He lives about 8 hours away in a different state), have the surgery in their town and take care of me while I recover. I am blown away at their generosity.

I'm still putting it off as long as I can so I can save a little money first, but what a comfort to know I have this option. I am blessed beyond belief!

~Carmen~
08-02-2021, 01:36 PM
I didn't know you need knee surgery, sis! That's wonderful of your son and his wife but I hope they gonna get vaccinated when taking care of you because the last thing you need is catch delta variant while recovering.

Yes, I haven't talked about it but I was diagnosed with arthritis in my knee several months ago. It's swollen. Sometimes it pops out of place and that's pretty painful but some days aren't too bad. I wish C and H would get vaccinated but unfortunately they are firmly against it.

TheBrownFox
08-02-2021, 02:16 PM
What does one have to do to get retweeted by places like IWantClips, SextPanther, etc. on Twitter? I keep seeing them retweet all these other girls, and I've tagged these companies before in some of my tweets (Hoping they'd show me some love with a shout-out), and I never get retweeted. Lol. Is this only something they do for top models?

Erika_Xstacy
08-02-2021, 03:06 PM
Covid will not come back this fall. nope sure wont.
its already back and hitting full force, tripling cases day by day at the beach amongst residents and who are their customers? Tourists.

Marina Starr
08-02-2021, 03:09 PM
Kneel surgery is major. Madonna also just had kneel/hips surgery. I can't believe she's older than you, lol!


Yes, I haven't talked about it but I was diagnosed with arthritis in my knee several months ago. It's swollen. Sometimes it pops out of place and that's pretty painful but some days aren't too bad. I wish C and H would get vaccinated but unfortunately they are firmly against it.

Erika_Xstacy
08-02-2021, 03:10 PM
What does one have to do to get retweeted by places like IWantClips, SextPanther, etc. on Twitter? I keep seeing them retweet all these other girls, and I've tagged these companies before in some of my tweets (Hoping they'd show me some love with a shout-out), and I never get retweeted. Lol. Is this only something they do for top models?

they are all bougi and hard to get a rt from.
Email them, IWC RT me one time (lol) after I asked why they don't RT

Marina Starr
08-02-2021, 03:12 PM
LOL, Florida is at the top girl! We have more cases now than during the high of the pandemic. ICU at full capacity, deaths are inevitable.

Small good news is for the past 5 ways, vaccinations are close to 1 millions each day so I guess being scared of death and Biden threatened forced vaccination is "working".


Covid will not come back this fall. nope sure wont.
its already back and hitting full force, tripling cases day by day at the beach amongst residents and who are their customers? Tourists.

~Carmen~
08-02-2021, 04:21 PM
Kneel surgery is major. Madonna also just had kneel/hips surgery. I can't believe she's older than you, lol!

Oh she did? I didn't know that. I hope she heals and recovers well!

I know! I'm as old as the hills;D.

Marina Starr
08-02-2021, 04:32 PM
Old is Gold!

She'll be 63 this August! She looks half her age, LOVE her!
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Oh she did? I didn't know that. I hope she heals and recovers well!

I know! I'm as old as the hills;D.

~Carmen~
08-02-2021, 04:41 PM
Old is Gold!

She'll be 63 this August! She looks half her age, LOVE her!
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She looks INCREDIBLE!! Wowzers!!

TheBrownFox
08-02-2021, 06:18 PM
Old is Gold!

She'll be 63 this August! She looks half her age, LOVE her!
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She looks amazing! I just looked it up, and her birthday is the day after mine. I share my birthday with Anthony Anderson. :)

~Carmen~
08-02-2021, 10:28 PM
I have to say, I think it's great that Madonna looks half her age. Rock on Madonna! I have always loved her too.

For me personally, I'm not trying to look younger. I have been letting my hair go silver and owning my wrinkles and I'm loving it.

To each our own:).

Marina Starr
08-03-2021, 04:00 AM
You and Madonna look great for any age!

It's obvious that Madonna took great care of herself, she had work done but there's no shame in that.

Whether you want to age naturally or get surgery, both should be normalize.



I have to say, I think it's great that Madonna looks half her age. Rock on Madonna! I have always loved her too.

For me personally, I'm not trying to look younger. I have been letting my hair go silver and owning my wrinkles and I'm loving it.

To each our own:).

~Carmen~
08-03-2021, 12:55 PM
You and Madonna look great for any age!

It's obvious that Madonna took great care of herself, she had work done but there's no shame in that.

Whether you want to age naturally or get surgery, both should be normalize.

Amen to that sis!

~Carmen~
08-03-2021, 01:00 PM
You and Madonna look great for any age!

It's obvious that Madonna took great care of herself, she had work done but there's no shame in that.

Whether you want to age naturally or get surgery, both should be normalize.

Thank you! And Amen to that! No judgment for surgery. Whatever makes everyone happy, it's all good.

Marina Starr
08-03-2021, 02:33 PM
I LOVE it! You can't make homophobic remarks like it was in the old days and get away with it. How the fuck do you go from being oppressed, discriminated (and still is) to being an oppressor?!

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~Carmen~
08-04-2021, 03:29 AM
I think I'm going to give up my tip vibe. It seems to have lost it's luster lately. I have only been getting 1 gold tips for it. I might use it by request for regs but not leave it on all the time.

Update: Now everyone is asking for it. LOL

~Carmen~
08-05-2021, 02:48 AM
It's great to see you back Sha! Did you get all moved in?

izshadow
08-05-2021, 12:12 PM
Its so hard having a landlord who is a narcissist. Finally break free of my ex four years ago and then poof, new narcissist in my life. She is also the type of person you would see on that show "cheapsake". She is awful and a hoarder and so freaking cheap. I got 90% of her hoard out of here, she is coming back soon for the rest. The roofers are finally getting the roof done this weekend but it took months cause she had to find the cheapest dude possible, meanwhile we have ceiling water damage now that will probably take her a million years to fix and at that she will just smack sealer on it and call it good. I want to buy this house just so I can be free of her for real. The roof was like the one thing I wanted her to fix, after that i dont even care. Go away. I can do the rest my way and in my style. Just to be free of her. I moved in for severly reduced rent due to the condition of this house but I needed a yard for my dogs and I wanted my chickens out of foster. I love my neighbors and this neighborhood. So I'm hoping in a year or so I can save up a down payment for a first time home buyers loan and buy this place. If anything, if it becomes to much work, I can sell it but at least I'll be stable with no more threats from her of selling it or dealing with her cheapness in rehabbing what could be a beautiful home.

~Carmen~
08-06-2021, 01:13 AM
^^That sounds like a royal pain in the ass. I hope things work out for you and soon.

My head has been spinning all day. I made the mistake of talking to my neighbor about his loud TV and music. He told the landlord and once again, I got chewed out for complaining. I'm sure others are complaining too, especially after today's loud music. You could hear it throughout the building.

Not only that, but I was told they are resurfacing and painting upstairs (I guess the perfect angels upstairs were not so perfect), from Wednesday through Friday. There will be strong toxic fumes. Therefore, I can risk my and my cat's health by staying here, or get out for 4 days. I choose getting out. I just checked into another apartment in a different area. I used to live there in the 80's and I don't remember much noise. I think the buildings from back in the 60's were better insulated for sound. I was told that they will let me out of my lease.

It's going to be expensive the hotel and moving, which neither are my fault. I'm just too miserable here.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-06-2021, 09:48 AM
I was told that they will let me out of my lease.

It's going to be expensive the hotel and moving, which neither are my fault. I'm just too miserable here.

I have never understood how some rental properties are willing to say goodbye to well behaved paying tenants? It's great that they're willing to let you out of your lease but why continue to rent to people who're driving the good folks away?

Marina Starr
08-06-2021, 10:07 AM
This could be a blessing in a disguise, sis!

You deserve so much better. Moving is never easy, even harder when you're being pushed out. Thank God you are financially able to do so. Praying you'll find peace and quiet at this new place!


^^That sounds like a royal pain in the ass. I hope things work out for you and soon.

My head has been spinning all day. I made the mistake of talking to my neighbor about his loud TV and music. He told the landlord and once again, I got chewed out for complaining. I'm sure others are complaining too, especially after today's loud music. You could hear it throughout the building.

Not only that, but I was told they are resurfacing and painting upstairs (I guess the perfect angels upstairs were not so perfect), from Wednesday through Friday. There will be strong toxic fumes. Therefore, I can risk my and my cat's health by staying here, or get out for 4 days. I choose getting out. I just checked into another apartment in a different area. I used to live there in the 80's and I don't remember much noise. I think the buildings from back in the 60's were better insulated for sound. I was told that they will let me out of my lease.

It's going to be expensive the hotel and moving, which neither are my fault. I'm just too miserable here.

~Carmen~
08-06-2021, 01:55 PM
I have never understood how some rental properties are willing to say goodbye to well behaved paying tenants? It's great that they're willing to let you out of your lease but why continue to rent to people who're driving the good folks away?

I will never understand either. He's going to drive the other decent people out too. He was literally hollering and screaming with his loud music last night.

~Carmen~
08-06-2021, 01:58 PM
This could be a blessing in a disguise, sis!

You deserve so much better. Moving is never easy, even harder when you're being pushed out. Thank God you are financially able to do so. Praying you'll find peace and quiet at this new place!

I just might be a blessing sis! I'm not in the best place financially, especially having to leave for 4 days next week and I just moved in December. But if it's a choice between your health and money, you have to choose your health.

The place I'm looking into doesn't have a vacancy right now but she said to check back after the first. I'm still looking at others.

I'm wondering if I'll be able to hoe in the hotel. I'm going to try. It will be a nice break from here anyway.

Marina Starr
08-06-2021, 02:31 PM
You could or you could do Airbnb! Some will give huge discount if you stay a while that may be equal what you're paying on rent now. You could rent the whole place all to yourself.

Anything that costs your peace and well being is not worth it!


I just might be a blessing sis! I'm not in the best place financially, especially having to leave for 4 days next week and I just moved in December. But if it's a choice between your health and money, you have to choose your health.

The place I'm looking into doesn't have a vacancy right now but she said to check back after the first. I'm still looking at others.

I'm wondering if I'll be able to hoe in the hotel. I'm going to try. It will be a nice break from here anyway.

~Carmen~
08-06-2021, 03:05 PM
You could or you could do Airbnb! Some will give huge discount if you stay a while that may be equal what you're paying on rent now. You could rent the whole place all to yourself.

Anything that costs your peace and well being is not worth it!

That's an excellent idea. My daughter suggested the same thing but we couldn't find anything around here for a reasonable price. All the cheaper ones were close to downtown.

"Anything that costs your peace and well being is not worth it!"

LaurenAus
08-07-2021, 12:51 PM
China is banning ESL tutoring services--all the major sites like VIPKID will be dropping their teachers. Wonder how that's all gonna play out as many are employed through those companies.

Marina Starr
08-07-2021, 01:09 PM
Oh okay. When I read you just checked into another apartment I thought you had found a place to move and getting out of your lease.

Was this the asshole neighbor that you have to bang on the walls when he's playing loud music or the one that you said hi to a few days ago and just stared at you?


That's an excellent idea. My daughter suggested the same thing but we couldn't find anything around here for a reasonable price. All the cheaper ones were close to downtown.

"Anything that costs your peace and well being is not worth it!"

~Carmen~
08-07-2021, 01:50 PM
Oh okay. When I read you just checked into another apartment I thought you had found a place to move and getting out of your lease.

Was this the asshole neighbor that you have to bang on the walls when he's playing loud music or the one that you said hi to a few days ago and just stared at you?

Landlord told me a few months ago that she would let me out of my lease. That was when the loud people upstairs lived here. He's the one who just stared at me.

This is another neighbor who's bedroom adjoins mine. I did bang on the wall a few times. He's blasting right now. I can no longer use my bedroom. I'm going to have to work and sleep on an air bed in the living room until I move.

The apartments I checked into didn't have any vacancies but she told me to call back at the first of the month. I have a lot of people trying to help me find a house or duplex for rent.

I'm really glad I booked the hotel for 4 nights next week because I need a reprieve.

Marina Starr
08-07-2021, 02:02 PM
I hate assholes!

Check their long stays rates! Good thing is you know you can walk away from your lease. Now you can freely look for a new place.


Landlord told me a few months ago that she would let me out of my lease. That was when the loud people upstairs lived here. He's the one who just stared at me.

This is another neighbor who's bedroom adjoins mine. I did bang on the wall a few times. He's blasting right now. I can no longer use my bedroom. I'm going to have to work and sleep on an air bed in the living room until I move.

The apartments I checked into didn't have any vacancies but she told me to call back at the first of the month. I have a lot of people trying to help me find a house or duplex for rent.

I'm really glad I booked the hotel for 4 nights next week because I need a reprieve.

Marina Starr
08-07-2021, 02:13 PM
I'm so tired. Feels like taking a few days off to unwind.

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DonaDiabla
08-07-2021, 02:19 PM
:)Oh those companies can just located to Korea, Russia, or Japan. Vipkid is great to get your feet wet in the ESL teaching world but they had many issues when it came to favouritism and many of their top teachers left to go to Outschool and Zebra English. I hope those teachers effect by this go to Outschool.


China is banning ESL tutoring services--all the major sites like VIPKID will be dropping their teachers. Wonder how that's all gonna play out as many are employed through those companies.

TheBrownFox
08-07-2021, 04:23 PM
China is banning ESL tutoring services--all the major sites like VIPKID will be dropping their teachers. Wonder how that's all gonna play out as many are employed through those companies.


HOLY SHIT...that sucks, and I hope this doesn't affect Cambly!

LaurenAus
08-07-2021, 07:15 PM
HOLY SHIT...that sucks, and I hope this doesn't affect Cambly!

Actually I'm pretty sure Cambly will be okay because they have students from around the world and not just China from what I know

TheBrownFox
08-07-2021, 07:23 PM
Actually I'm pretty sure Cambly will be okay because they have students from around the world and not just China from what I know


Okay. Yeah, I've had Cambly chat sessions with people in other areas besides China. Just making sure Cambly won't be affected too, since there are a lot of Chinese students on there.

That really is a shame though.

~Carmen~
08-07-2021, 07:53 PM
I'm so tired. Feels like taking a few days off to unwind.

55767

Do it sis! Recharge your batteries. You will be a fresh hoe when you get back.