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~Carmen~
12-13-2021, 11:39 AM
To help release the bad vibes from Streamate thread, made myself some Eggplant parmesan to help cleanse that.
https://i.ibb.co/28QnjGS/20211213-132946.jpg (https://ibb.co/FsMxBRX)
Oh my gosh, that looks so good I want to eat it off my screen. You know I always want spaghetti with it so get cooking. I'm hungry!
Erika_Xstacy
12-13-2021, 02:09 PM
^^^^ lmao dont be a screenlicker.
Genoveve
12-13-2021, 02:38 PM
That Streamate thread really put me in some kind of mood this week. I’m not even in the mood to deal with anybody that wants to complain this week. this is when I wish we had the vent thread so I don’t even have to go near bad vibes. Ignore ignore ignore.
It was pretty annoying, I was about four seconds away from telling her to actually read through the site and/or start her own thread but mercifully PGD stepped in. It didn't put me in a funk though because for as long as there has been a camming section here, it has been full of doom and gloom.
~Carmen~
12-13-2021, 05:13 PM
^^^^ lmao dont be a screenlicker.
Even worse: A two finger screen licker.:yuck:
Marina Starr
12-13-2021, 05:16 PM
Good thing there are mozzarella cheese this time for you.
If you want to have it with spaghetti that would be less work. I would just fry the eggplants but don't bake them. Just add a little tomato sauce with spaghetti and you're all set.
Sprinkle a bit of parsley on top for garnishing and don't forget garlic bread with that!
I always forgot to have it this way but I will try next time.
Oh my gosh, that looks so good I want to eat it off my screen. You know I always want spaghetti with it so get cooking. I'm hungry!
Marina Starr
12-13-2021, 07:14 PM
Now you are a fully vaccinated and highly medicated hoe!
If he prescribed TWO anxiety drugs at the same time, how would he know what works and what doesn't?
I wish my psychiatrist would let me take that high dosage of Lamotrigine. It's been so helpful for my diagnosed bipolar type 1. That's as batshit crazy as you can get.
When my psychiatrist asked when do I shift between highs and lows I told her
https://i.ibb.co/gtNTJv5/tumblr-4a3460ca48db6d629a3d033b4bec0bd7-f4a39d5d-250.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
I had a call-in from my psychiatrist this morning that I forgot I had scheduled.
He Increase my lamotrogine my to 400 and prescribed two anxiety drugs to take as needed. Try and see which one works.
I haven’t been getting more than four hours of sleep at night and I wake up every 30 minutes during that four hours for no reason.
Don’t mind me being a bitch and high anxiety with a short fuse , it should be fixed and my attitude should be better by the end of the week.
~Carmen~
12-13-2021, 08:05 PM
Good thing there are mozzarella cheese this time for you.
If you want to have it with spaghetti that would be less work. I would just fry the eggplants but don't bake them. Just add a little tomato sauce with spaghetti and you're all set.
Sprinkle a bit of parsley on top for garnishing and don't forget garlic bread with that!
I always forgot to have it this way but I will try next time.
Thank you for adding mozzerella just for me. I can't wait to try it with spaghetti. I'm glad you are finally making it how I like it.
You will be proud of me. I COOKED tonight!!! I made vegetable stir fry with sesame seeds and general tso's Asian sauce. I also made quinoa instead of rice. I bought everything at Aldi (Trader Hoe's sibling). It was amazing.
Erika_Xstacy
12-13-2021, 08:13 PM
Now you are a fully vaccinated and highly medicated hoe!
If he prescribed TWO anxiety drugs at the same time, how would he know what works and what doesn't?
I wish my psychiatrist would let me take that high dosage of Lamotrigine. It's been so helpful for my diagnosed bipolar type 1. That's as batshit crazy as you can get.
When my psychiatrist asked when do I shift between highs and lows I told her
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one is used during the day, propranolol. his explanation to me they use it on Broadway and live performances. I don't want it to effect the Vyvanse
the second one is to be used at night, it is used to treat depression, when taken as needed it adds a nice sleep effect if i react the way he hopes
I have used Xanax, klonopin and valium in the past high doses and formed a tolerance that they had no effect over time. He offered them but there is no point, unless he can give me Valium in a drip, that shit is nice.. I love the drip bc its instant, still doesn't last long. I had to have it for a MRI bc I started freaking out so they did that and put Madonna in my ears
first I am going to see if the higher dose of lamictal helps before adding either of those drugs. Anytime he ups it I always feel better and it usually stays with me. its nice to have something emergency on me.
Hes stingy with my Vyvanse. I use to take 70 and he has me on 40.
~Carmen~
12-13-2021, 09:41 PM
I take 3 medications. I have been on Trazadone and a very small dose of Lorazepam for years. It helps me sleep, otherwise I have insomnia. Lamotrigine was added this summer. I now take 150mg of Lamotrigine twice a day, so 300 total. I think that's enough for me. Everyone is different.
I have tried many others. We finally found the right ones after much trial and error.
~Carmen~
12-13-2021, 09:42 PM
Thank you sis. The kids are sick too. They got the rapid test so we should know soon.
Not so rapid. We are still waiting, but pretty sure they have it but very mild symptoms.
Erika_Xstacy
12-14-2021, 12:47 PM
I'm applying to a private dog park.
100.00 yearly per dog, there are two parks and they are building more bc of the popularity.
The facility keeps information on owners, dogs, there is a number to text if any issues rise up.
and access to the well lit park with a key card until 10 pm.
The downfall is I have to drive to the park.
yesterday I was approached by two drunk men and I didnt have my phone, there were kids playing in the park w parents so i wasnt worried but imagine being alone in that situation. A foxhound isnt protective lol as she just started at them, no reaction.
Usually weird ppl walk by but never come inside the fence asking a stranger very personal leading to sexual questions. I had to get mean but easy to do when shit turned sexual.
~Carmen~
12-14-2021, 02:44 PM
I'm applying to a private dog park.
100.00 yearly per dog, there are two parks and they are building more bc of the popularity.
The facility keeps information on owners, dogs, there is a number to text if any issues rise up.
and access to the well lit park with a key card until 10 pm.
The downfall is I have to drive to the park.
yesterday I was approached by two drunk men and I didnt have my phone, there were kids playing in the park w parents so i wasnt worried but imagine being alone in that situation. A foxhound isnt protective lol as she just started at them, no reaction.
Usually weird ppl walk by but never come inside the fence asking a stranger very personal leading to sexual questions. I had to get mean but easy to do when shit turned sexual.
That's frighening! I think $100 a year and driving a little farther for your safety will be worth it.
~Carmen~
12-14-2021, 02:49 PM
I'm thinking of sending Judge Judy's stripping gif to my ex. Get his panties all twisted. Should I?
I'm reading SW on my laptop on my second floor balcony (only 8 steps up). The mailman just walked by. I have it turned at an angle where he might see. I heard him laughing when he got in his truck. Hahaaa
Marina Starr
12-14-2021, 03:30 PM
Madonna makes it all better!
I've been a fan for many years and are very protective and will come to her defense when people try to slut shame and age shame her. That's not okay on my watch.
Madonna is otherworldly!
I had to have it for a MRI bc I started freaking out so they did that and put Madonna in my ears
whirlerz
12-14-2021, 03:54 PM
To help release the bad vibes from Streamate thread, made myself some Eggplant parmesan to help cleanse that.
https://i.ibb.co/28QnjGS/20211213-132946.jpg (https://ibb.co/FsMxBRX)
Looking Fantastic!
Marina Starr
12-14-2021, 05:51 PM
The most offensive thing you can say about a Trans woman is 'that's a man!'. Those are fighting words.
Some gen z bitch at the mall said that about me today as I was picking up Chick Fil A. She wasn't discreet because she was with her other bitches so she felt emboldened.
So I call that bitch a CUNT right to her face and she got all upset like I held the Bible up to the Devil but there wasn't a damn thing she could do about it.
Names calling goes both ways, it's fair game and I do it VERY well and very quickly. If you can't take it then don't dish it out.
A lot of these gen z bitches are horrible. They would go on Instagram and social medias and use she/her, they/them/theirs as their pronouns, as a way of showing support for LGBTQ people.
Yet in real life, they bully relentlessly. Take that fake ass shit down.
I'm not Caitlyn Jenner, I will cuss every fucking single one of these bitches out that try that shit with me and tell them to work on their self-esteem.
Happy, confident and secure people don't bully or start shit with other people. They have no reason.
And people that feel good about themselves don't let other people bully them.
Erika_Xstacy
12-14-2021, 08:11 PM
The most offensive thing you can say about a Trans woman is 'that's a man!'. Those are fighting words.
Some gen z bitch at the mall said that about me today as I was picking up Chick Fil A. She wasn't discreet because she was with her other bitches so she felt emboldened.
So I call that bitch a CUNT right to her face and she got all upset like I held the Bible up to the Devil but there wasn't a damn thing she could do about it.
Names calling goes both ways, it's fair game and I do it VERY well and very quickly. If you can't take it then don't dish it out.
A lot of these gen z bitches are horrible. They would go on Instagram and social medias and use she/her, they/them/theirs as their pronouns, as a way of showing support for LGBTQ people.
Yet in real life, they bully relentlessly. Take that fake ass shit down.
I'm not Caitlyn Jenner, I will cuss every fucking single one of these bitches out that try that shit with me and tell them to work on their self-esteem.
Happy, confident and secure people don't bully or start shit with other people. They have no reason.
And people that feel good about themselves don't let other people bully them.
56303
this day and time I get really shocked when people don't stay in their lane about anything.
~Carmen~
12-15-2021, 02:51 AM
The most offensive thing you can say about a Trans woman is 'that's a man!'. Those are fighting words.
Some gen z bitch at the mall said that about me today as I was picking up Chick Fil A. She wasn't discreet because she was with her other bitches so she felt emboldened.
So I call that bitch a CUNT right to her face and she got all upset like I held the Bible up to the Devil but there wasn't a damn thing she could do about it.
Names calling goes both ways, it's fair game and I do it VERY well and very quickly. If you can't take it then don't dish it out.
A lot of these gen z bitches are horrible. They would go on Instagram and social medias and use she/her, they/them/theirs as their pronouns, as a way of showing support for LGBTQ people.
Yet in real life, they bully relentlessly. Take that fake ass shit down.
I'm not Caitlyn Jenner, I will cuss every fucking single one of these bitches out that try that shit with me and tell them to work on their self-esteem.
Happy, confident and secure people don't bully or start shit with other people. They have no reason.
And people that feel good about themselves don't let other people bully them.
Busybodies with no life whatsoever. Trying to show each other up with their "inside knowledge". They never grew up because they are spoiled brats who don't know what life is. Some kids are given way too much these days without having to lift a finger.
If they actually had to work for a living, they wouldn't have time for this nonsense. Pathetic.
~Carmen~
12-15-2021, 02:56 AM
56303
this day and time I get really shocked when people don't stay in their lane about anything.
Me too! Someone asked why I still associate with my ex when we are no longer together. I refuse to engage.
Marina Starr
12-15-2021, 11:02 AM
Made some comfort food today because it's good for the soul and the body wants what it wants.
Hoemade and Hoebaked with love, Spinach and Cheddar Souffles. The whole house smells so damn good!
https://i.ibb.co/P4X8ZCm/20211215-124153.jpg (https://ibb.co/q9qwM1y)
Marina Starr
12-15-2021, 11:51 AM
I KNOW what I am, I wasn't born female at birth but that doesn't invalid that I'm a woman, that doesn't make me less than those that were. I've accepted that, took ownership of that and are very comfortable with that. There are many kinds of women: Black, Asian, White, Latino, Indian, you name it. I'm just a different kind of woman and that's completely okay, that's beautiful!
I love when an insecure biological woman gleefully say shit like 'you're not a real woman!'. She won't be for long when I educate her that real women are kind and respectful. They don't shame someone for living their truth. Something she should try!
I don't hide the fact that I am Trans, online and in real life so that isn't inside knowledge, lol. I am very privileged because I can assimilate, I am always perceived as female so that definitely made my life so much easier as I navigate through society. Many people don't know that I am Trans just by looking at me but that privilege comes with some grief.
Folks feel the need to announce 'that's a man!' to let me know I am not getting away with fooling anyone or "tricking" men, lmao.
I could never take their behaviors personally because they came from a place of ignorance, uneducatedness and close-mindedness but that doesn't mean I have to take it.
Those with a strong sense of entitlement don't like to work!
Busybodies with no life whatsoever. Trying to show each other up with their "inside knowledge". They never grew up because they are spoiled brats who don't know what life is. Some kids are given way too much these days without having to lift a finger.
If they actually had to work for a living, they wouldn't have time for this nonsense. Pathetic.
Erika_Xstacy
12-15-2021, 02:07 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hD0P1DNtSwg has anyone seen this?
https://www.mylifetime.com/movies/web-cam-girls or this?
I watched CAM last night on netflix and the ending pissed me off. I dont know how to explain that I was expecting more
Marina Starr
12-15-2021, 02:31 PM
I have no interest in watching shit like that, gives my migraines lol.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hD0P1DNtSwg has anyone seen this?
https://www.mylifetime.com/movies/web-cam-girls or this?
I watched CAM last night on netflix and the ending pissed me off. I dont know how to explain that I was expecting more
Erika_Xstacy
12-15-2021, 02:44 PM
I have no interest in watching shit like that, gives my migraines lol.
lol it took years and watching everything possible on Netflix before I watched CAM.
today i google how many camgirl movies are there and there are a lot
TheBrownFox
12-15-2021, 03:02 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hD0P1DNtSwg has anyone seen this?
https://www.mylifetime.com/movies/web-cam-girls or this?
I watched CAM last night on netflix and the ending pissed me off. I dont know how to explain that I was expecting more
I watched Cam on Netflix a couple years ago after someone on here had mentioned it. At the time, I'd been fucking some guy who had given me access to his Netflix account...so that's how I was able to watch it. LOL. I liked it, even though the whole "Ohmigod, you guys!" ditzy camgirl act irks my nerves. And I rolled my eyes at the fact that she had a wall calendar with an appointment time for when she's meeting up in person with a cam site regular. I remember hoping that women (considering camming) don't watch that, and think it's the norm to meet up like that with your customers.....
But that movie Girl House was creepy (and I really loved that movie)! That dude was scary af. I don't think that was on Netflix. I think I had to pay $2.99 to watch it on Amazon Instant Video or YouTube.
~Carmen~
12-15-2021, 03:55 PM
I have no interest in watching shit like that, gives my migraines lol.
It was an hour and a half of wasted time.
Marina Starr
12-15-2021, 05:11 PM
It's so odd that we're now almost at the end of December and it's been raining so much. Actually rained so much in most of November and same for December.
I don't remember it was like this from past years. I hate it!
I need inputs on this: if you were going to get your hair done and running late, how much of a grace period do you think should be for lateness? 10 minutes? 15 minutes?
The same goes if your stylist was running late, how long would you wait before it annoys you?
~Carmen~
12-15-2021, 05:40 PM
It's so odd that we're now almost at the end of December and it's been raining so much. Actually rained so much in most of November and same for December.
I don't remember it was like this from past years. I hate it!
I need inputs on this: if you were going to get your hair done and running late, how much of a grace period do you think should be for lateness? 10 minutes? 15 minutes?
The same goes if your stylist was running late, how long would you wait before it annoys you?
The weather has been unreal here too. We have not had a winter yet. Every day is in the 60's and 70's. 60 and 70 mph winds right now. A big storm moved through very fast. We were lucky we didn't get it too bad. The tornado warning siren went off for about two minutes. It's supposed to snow tomorrow.
I would say anything after 20 minutes would annoy me, either way. My biggest pet peeve is people who have no regard for other people's time. This includes doctor's offices.
Marina Starr
12-15-2021, 06:11 PM
Oh wow, you are generous sis! I feel 10-15 max minutes grace period should be enough. If a hairstylist is running later than that she should credit you $1 for each minute late.
As for client, if they schedule a two hours appointment for color and cut and showed up 20, 30 minutes late, it's acceptable for stylist to do their hair and should stop when her next client arrived and charge the late client for the full service or she would lose money.
People who are habitually late will take advantage so it's important to have clear policy on papers, have them sign and date with credit card on file.
The weather has been unreal here too. We have not had a winter yet. Every day is in the 60's and 70's. 60 and 70 mph winds right now. A big storm moved through very fast. We were lucky we didn't get it too bad. The tornado warning siren went off for about two minutes. It's supposed to snow tomorrow.
I would say anything after 20 minutes would annoy me, either way. My biggest pet peeve is people who have no regard for other people's time. This includes doctor's offices.
Erika_Xstacy
12-15-2021, 09:37 PM
It's so odd that we're now almost at the end of December and it's been raining so much. Actually rained so much in most of November and same for December.
I don't remember it was like this from past years. I hate it!
I need inputs on this: if you were going to get your hair done and running late, how much of a grace period do you think should be for lateness? 10 minutes? 15 minutes?
The same goes if your stylist was running late, how long would you wait before it annoys you?
15 minutes max has always been my rule for nails and the hairdressers do that to but when its over and over book them 15-30 minutes later and if they show up early makes up for all the times you waited or the last client of the day. 15 minutes max
~Carmen~
12-16-2021, 12:37 AM
Okay 15 minutes. I was feeling generous at the moment.
Today has been strange. High winds and a big fast moving storm. We didn't get it too bad but I feel bad for those who did. Trees falling on houses and a bus and large hail.
I'm glad I watched the news because they said there were wildfires in Kansas. I might have thought the building was on fire. I could smell the smoke pretty strong here in Missouri.
My heart goes out to the people in Kentucky and all the states who were hit so hard.
Erika_Xstacy
12-16-2021, 01:21 AM
https://www.tiktok.com/@dailymail/video/7041590901763820805?lang=en&is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1
I want a puppy
Erika_Xstacy
12-16-2021, 01:29 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRaeuiSmRB0
poor nick
my god
laurielegs
12-16-2021, 04:21 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRaeuiSmRB0
poor nick
my god
Man, that was rough to watch. I was sad about it when I read the news but watching him talk about his son made me tear up. He seems like a beautiful sensitive soul. It seems so unfair.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-16-2021, 10:36 AM
Man, that was rough to watch. I was sad about it when I read the news but watching him talk about his son made me tear up. He seems like a beautiful sensitive soul. It seems so unfair.
Yes! I saw it last week and it wrecked me. I don't think I could have done that?
Marina Starr
12-16-2021, 03:17 PM
I've tried many drug stores make up to save money but they never worked then I ended up not using them so I'm actually not saving money.
Doesn't matter if a drug store foundations is $13, if you only use it once or twice that's too expensive.
If a $50 foundation that you love and used it 50 times, that's only $1 per application. So the expensive foundation is a much better deal.
Let's also talk about drug stores lipsticks, they always break on me and once that happened, shit got messy then I won't use them. I would gladly pay for Mac lipsticks, $19 but they never break and I'll use them til they're empty.
Marina Starr
12-16-2021, 03:26 PM
She was so profound. May she rest in power. This is my favorite quote by her.
For those who are marginalized and experiencing prejudice and discrimination, this is so empowering!
https://i.ibb.co/7Vv3X3h/267144012-5272670336079685-2102358547834291738-n.jpg (https://ibb.co/VDVFtF6)
Erika_Xstacy
12-16-2021, 07:04 PM
I've tried many drug stores make up to save money but they never worked then I ended up not using them so I'm actually not saving money.
Doesn't matter if a drug store foundations is $13, if you only use it once or twice that's too expensive.
If a $50 foundation that you love and used it 50 times, that's only $1 per application. So the expensive foundation is a much better deal.
Let's also talk about drug stores lipsticks, they always break on me and once that happened, shit got messy then I won't use them. I would gladly pay for Mac lipsticks, $19 but they never break and I'll use them til they're empty.
https://www.ilmakiage.com
I ordered from here. I hope it does what it says.
I use lipliners as lipstick but Ive tried
https://www.lagirlusa.com/collections/lips/lipstick
and
https://www.wetnwildbeauty.com/lips/lip-color.html
both matte and they lasted
Erika_Xstacy
12-16-2021, 11:24 PM
My body will hurt tomorrow I fell down concrete stairs which was about a 20 stairs, into a welded metal fence. My shoe fell off when I fell, I hit the fence so hard that it buckled and the clasp that holds it together, welded together to hold the fence flew off.
It didn’t register what happened until after I was laying there on the fence like what the fuck did I just fall on and thank god I didn’t hit my head.
My foot was jammed in the fence and my knee has criss cross bruises. I crushed that fence.
Of course it’s the same leg in recovery from the last injury
Marina Starr
12-17-2021, 05:19 AM
Oh girl that sounds awful! I hope you're not in too much pain and feeling better. That must be so shocking.
My body will hurt tomorrow I fell down concrete stairs which was about a 20 stairs, into a welded metal fence. My shoe fell off when I fell, I hit the fence so hard that it buckled and the clasp that holds it together, welded together to hold the fence flew off.
It didn’t register what happened until after I was laying there on the fence like what the fuck did I just fall on and thank god I didn’t hit my head.
My foot was jammed in the fence and my knee has criss cross bruises. I crushed that fence.
Of course it’s the same leg in recovery from the last injury
Erika_Xstacy
12-17-2021, 11:53 AM
Oh girl that sounds awful! I hope you're not in too much pain and feeling better. That must be so shocking.
The rust that I thought was a bruise washed right off. I had to go this morning and get a tetanus shot.
My knee hurts. That’s what took the most hit.
I imagine I look like a dead bug on a windshield. I felt like it
LaurenAus
12-17-2021, 04:13 PM
I could really use a year in Tulum, Mexico and frequent Ayahuasca ceremonies to replenish my soul right now
~Carmen~
12-17-2021, 04:45 PM
The rust that I thought was a bruise washed right off. I had to go this morning and get a tetanus shot.
My knee hurts. That’s what took the most hit.
I imagine I look like a dead bug on a windshield. I felt like it
Knee pain is awful because it's a major joint. Ice and elevation can help. I hope you feel better!
Marina Starr
12-17-2021, 06:25 PM
I know I'm a ragey hoe but I just realized I'm also a grude-gy hoe...
Secondly, I haven't been to the movie in a hot minute, thinking of going to see the latest Spiderman movie.
Thirdly, haven't gone make up shopping in a short while, will have to stop by Sephora and Mac this weekend. It doesn't take much to spend a few hundreds but I'm worth it!
I'm proud of many many things but one of the thing I'm most proud with is I've always thought very highly of myself because I've ALWAYS been the most CONSISTENT person in my life.
Erika_Xstacy
12-20-2021, 12:15 PM
The evil side of dementia is back, just in time for the holidays.
I noticed the "twinkle" in her eyes saturday. I was hoping the pull of the full moon would skip us this time around. NOPE
the holidays are not celebrated on a normal year in my family but this year mom was so excited and I put the tree up in her home, decorated, put all the presents under her tree. she better get her shit right before friday. santa dont like assholes :)
she has lewybody dementia. paranoia and confusion at its highest peak once a month
as far as homes, I'm looking (not 3 hours away tho)
I figured out how to find nice medicaid/medicare homes. DO NOT TELL ANYONE what you need. the minute medicaid is mentioned the doors are shut before you can get your foot in the door. I have learned to search for posts in my neighborhood and read bc in these posts people mention who takes what bc they want their neighbors in nice homes "see if she can get Medicaid bc ____________ takes medicaid". The nextdoor app isn't popping like facebook but it's more helpful looking for something close to home. I wish there was a booklet with all the homes listed and % of medicaid patients they can take in.
~Carmen~
12-20-2021, 12:30 PM
Erika, have you talked with a geriatric social worker? I remember one coming to the hospital when mom was in there and she was very helpful. There is a lot of information and links for services on aging.com.
Erika_Xstacy
12-20-2021, 01:36 PM
Erika, have you talked with a geriatric social worker? I remember one coming to the hospital when mom was in there and she was very helpful. There is a lot of information and links for services on aging.com.
good call, I do not have a local geriatric social worker. we did a hour away and he gave me information last year but it was outdated for the homes accepting medicaid.
Marina Starr
12-20-2021, 02:08 PM
Went to The Cheesecake Factory with a casual friend today for lunch and oh my fucking God, I am so FULL. They ALWAYS give you so much food.
So full but I'm thinking about what to bring to my family for Christmas dinner. I want to make spinach lasagna, shrimp scampi
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-20-2021, 03:35 PM
good call, I do not have a local geriatric social worker. we did a hour away and he gave me information last year but it was outdated for the homes accepting medicaid.
If you haven't already it might be helpful to reach out to your local Legal Aid Society. If they can't assist you directly they may be able to connect you with someone who specializes in elder care. Also take a look at your local behavioral health organizations and bug tf out of them. I've found that they tend to be more sympathetic when it comes to medicaid and won't dismiss you. These places tend to know about all the loopholes and up to date information, but you have to chat them up. It's exhausting.
Kayden
12-21-2021, 03:15 PM
I love how 70% of sites put a character limit on your video description (which might be loaded with keywords and barely takes 1 kilobyte on the servers) goes to show me to their "business acumen" lol