View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
Marina Starr
05-31-2022, 01:51 PM
The way some women speak about other women will never sit right with me.
https://i.ibb.co/5WzG6Mw/sis-spill-the-tea.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
Erika_Xstacy
05-31-2022, 04:20 PM
Erika stay safe girl, stay safe. Talk to your neighbors and let them know to keep an eye out. And if you haven't already get a ring camera. Put one on your car too! Check the footage periodically.
i do have a ring camera on my front and back door (not the car, yet)
I called just about everyone including the police non emergency number to see what I can do.
Police said it is possible getting the order reinstated even if its expired and going tomorrow to the courthouse
Genoveve
05-31-2022, 04:44 PM
^^^If you own a gun or are open to, I would look up your state's gun laws/self defense laws and see how you can get away with shooting him to death if he were to show up.
~Carmen~
05-31-2022, 11:22 PM
i do have a ring camera on my front and back door (not the car, yet)
I called just about everyone including the police non emergency number to see what I can do.
Police said it is possible getting the order reinstated even if its expired and going tomorrow to the courthouse
I hope you get that restraining order reinstated right away. I'm sorry you are going through this stress and I hope that asshole leaves you the fuck alone.
~Carmen~
05-31-2022, 11:25 PM
I just found out that my best friend since I was 12 passed away. She moved several hours away so I had not seen her for quite some time but we talked on the phone occasionally.
She took in 3 of her grandchildren 6 years ago and even adopted them. She was the strongest person I have ever known. I miss her.
Erika_Xstacy
06-01-2022, 08:39 AM
I just found out that my best friend since I was 12 passed away. She moved several hours away so I had not seen her for quite some time but we talked on the phone occasionally.
She took in 3 of her grandchildren 6 years ago and even adopted them. She was the strongest person I have ever known. I miss her.
my deepest condolences
im so sorry
you have good memories and she sounds heroic <3
~Carmen~
06-01-2022, 03:30 PM
my deepest condolences
im so sorry
you have good memories and she sounds heroic <3
Thank you Erika. She was exactly one month younger than me and she never let me forget that.;D
I had told her that I'm a hoe and there was no judgment. You can feel when there is.
bigbum
06-02-2022, 01:22 AM
I love it. I would wear them. I'm a sparkle Hoe.
Sponge Bob! Too cute, lol. I'd love to see pics.
ok yes ill send pics when i have time , i even got some "THE SHINNING" shoe collection lol! like as in the terror movie! rofl so weird. i love it.
Erika_Xstacy
06-02-2022, 12:08 PM
I do have a permanent protection order. It never expires.
No kids were home but CPS got involved bc children did live w me.
CPS went to court w me back then
I got 2 copies 1 for my car and one in the house
Why the fuck police can’t look up a restating order is beyond me.
This is his 3rd time violating
The first time he was given a warning
The second time he got a misdemeanor charge but no jail time. He was put on probation but he lost his job.
The third time is a felony charge
NitaBaby
06-03-2022, 02:47 PM
I've been getting back on cam to pay the odd bill here and there. But I'm at the stage in my life where I'm having a hard time understanding the purpose of any man in my life if he isn't paying all of my "odd bills".
I broke up with my bf four times this year - each time convincing myself to take him back because I felt like a bad person for leaving him over money standards I didn't start the relationship with.
But each time we get back together... I wanna break up again smh. Love is literally useless.
Erika_Xstacy
06-06-2022, 10:58 AM
I've been getting back on cam to pay the odd bill here and there. But I'm at the stage in my life where I'm having a hard time understanding the purpose of any man in my life if he isn't paying all of my "odd bills".
I broke up with my bf four times this year - each time convincing myself to take him back because I felt like a bad person for leaving him over money standards I didn't start the relationship with.
But each time we get back together... I wanna break up again smh. Love is literally useless.
stg all i have to is think about someone and within days the person pops up.
you randomly came through my head last week for absolutely no reason lol
Cutie101
06-06-2022, 12:35 PM
I've been getting back on cam to pay the odd bill here and there. But I'm at the stage in my life where I'm having a hard time understanding the purpose of any man in my life if he isn't paying all of my "odd bills".
I broke up with my bf four times this year - each time convincing myself to take him back because I felt like a bad person for leaving him over money standards I didn't start the relationship with.
But each time we get back together... I wanna break up again smh. Love is literally useless.
Force him do better, then. I mean, he's a fucking grown up man, if love it's still there, then he must upgrade his lifestyle standard and his income. That's the means of a power couple, when both work hard, not just one. There's a saying in my country: "Eventually, love will go trough the stomach". Like... okay we fall in love and shit, but we gotta be grown ups too and hold some responsibilities of growing financially and secure our asses and our household, in case one of us can't work anymore. That's the idea of a relationship, otherwise you can just meet once a week for intimacy and take your dose of dick and cuddles. A form of semi long distance relationship lol.
Marina Starr
06-06-2022, 03:58 PM
God bless her.
https://youtu.be/SCQbZYX1vA0
Genoveve
06-06-2022, 04:21 PM
I felt like a bad person for leaving him over money standards I didn't start the relationship with.
People are allowed to change, your standards are allowed to change. And raising your standards is I think a sign of maturation.
~Carmen~
06-08-2022, 02:11 AM
The city randomly chose my apartment to be one of the 20% for inspection tomorrow.
I'm going to wear my spiderweb leggings and Minnie Mouse Tshirt.
Marina Starr
06-08-2022, 10:29 AM
I was told the best way to pass inspection with ease is to leave all your toys out.
The city randomly chose my apartment to be one of the 20% for inspection tomorrow.
I'm going to wear my spiderweb leggings and Minnie Mouse Tshirt.
~Carmen~
06-08-2022, 03:56 PM
I was told the best way to pass inspection with ease is to leave all your toys out.
Dang, I forgot about that. Next time I will line them up in my window. They don't want anything blocking windows so they will have to move them.
MasqueradeEntertainment
06-09-2022, 01:32 PM
Hey lovelies
I used to own a Dublin strip club and am now looking for cam models to join our new camsite, due to launch by the end of this month.
If anyone is interested, please let me know. €50 signup fee!
Kisses
Selene xx
Genoveve
06-09-2022, 01:47 PM
^^^That's gonna go over really well. LOL.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-10-2022, 09:12 AM
$50????
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-10-2022, 09:16 AM
I just got my passes for the World Perfumery convention. I'm shocked that I got two full passes for every single event. I thought because I received a student discount that it would be limited, but NOPE! I guess whomever was tasked with that job just said f*ck it! I sincerely appreciate them because I'm going to everything.
Erika_Xstacy
06-10-2022, 01:37 PM
https://www.npr.org/2022/06/10/1104134521/geico-lawsuit-std-hpv-insurance-car?fbclid=IwAR1Jfjv4I2ZQJi0vTUXnobOQ_yQTHkxoBOlmL hyuNvAXNpDM3ltNpS3THw8
I have so many questions :D
like... why in the car? what are yall doing in that car? is this a legal activity or illegal??
so many questions lol
eta: the news reported he was her boyfriend and something about geico did nothing bc they assumed they were not liable? I need to pay attention more
kortneykay
06-11-2022, 10:05 AM
Money. Period. It's been my obsession from the first thought of waking up, til I crash at night.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-11-2022, 10:22 AM
Y'all I just watched a marriage proposal where the girl fainted! Her legs started to buckle and then she went to the ground. The guy was propping her up and giving her some water and when she finally got it together she goes, "Where's the ring?" My girl needed to see the ring first!!!! LMAO Finally she nodded her head yes. We were so nervous watching that. Whoever they are I hope they have a happy life together.
Genoveve
06-11-2022, 11:24 AM
^^You saw it in person?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-11-2022, 12:44 PM
^^You saw it in person?
Yes! We were at a park. Beautiful setting with a giant fountain in the middle. They were walking and holding hands and then he stopped and pulled something out of his pocket. For some reason I knew he was about to propose? Homegirl was still walking ahead and it seemed like forever before she turned around. When all the drama was over we congratulated them. It was a BIG ROCK!
Marina Starr
06-11-2022, 06:03 PM
One of the most effective ways to deter whiners and their constant whining is with positive reinforcement and ignore the negative each time they whine.
It's like training puppies, lots of positive reinforcement for desired behaviors. The constant whining and complaining without making changes will be ignored because attention is what they're seeking.
https://i.ibb.co/sRpN8pp/yes-oprah.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
rosietta
06-12-2022, 12:44 PM
a calm sea does not make a good sailor.
I am growing little by little along with all these difficulties in my way
:heartbeat
LizzyMe
06-13-2022, 04:46 PM
It has been a rough 9 months! I fell in love with a guy that could never except the fact that I was a cam model and PSO. Every time we got in a big fight he used it as leverage. I finally left him for good a week ago, when I found out he was messaging girls on Facebook and asking them out for a drink. I never thought I would give up so much for a guy. I rarely went out with my friends and spent all my time with him, just so he could feel more secure. He constantly asked me to marry him. I would tell him that I am not ready and it was way too soon. In the next breath, he would tell me he was not ready to get married anyways. I also quit camming, but I secretly did PSO. I did Uber Eats and Uber and Lyft, just so he would not feel so insecure. That was not good enough for him either, because he thought I could do better that that. He also complained that he did not see me enough now and that I really need to get a 9-5 job, so I could be free for him at night and weekends. WTF... I am hurt, but glad it is over. He was super jealous and controlling most of the time, while he flirted around. I am getting back into adult work full time again, I vow to never let another man control me like that again.
~Carmen~
06-14-2022, 02:55 AM
The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. I am super grateful for what I have.
Marina Starr
06-14-2022, 04:16 AM
The grass is greener where we nurture it. That means taking care of ourselves, our mental health and not surround ourselves with people that drain our energy.
The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. I am super grateful for what I have.
~Carmen~
06-14-2022, 05:13 AM
The grass is greener where we nurture it. That means taking care of ourselves, our mental health and not surround ourselves with people that drain our energy.
You are brilliant at putting thoughts into words. I will read this over and over because it's a very important thing to remember.
Thank you sis.
Erika_Xstacy
06-14-2022, 01:26 PM
I find myself happiest living my basic life not pleasing anyone
lol so living my best life at 2:30 am the other night i wanted brownies and i was making them, licking the bowl but it didn't taste right so i tossed it
I woke up 2 hours sick as a dog
i gave myself food poisoning, my eggs expired march 26 i was sick for 24 hours
check your eggs lol
Marina Starr
06-14-2022, 01:38 PM
I hope you feel better but damn, expired since march 26? I'm surprised the eggs wasn't hashing.
I find myself happiest living my basic life not pleasing anyone
lol so living my best life at 2:30 am the other night i wanted brownies and i was making them, licking the bowl but it didn't taste right so i tossed it
I woke up 2 hours sick as a dog
i gave myself food poisoning, my eggs expired march 26 i was sick for 24 hours
check your eggs lol
Cutie101
06-14-2022, 02:34 PM
I hope you feel better but damn, expired since march 26? I'm surprised the eggs wasn't hashing.
Haha it happened to me too, to have 1-2 months expired stuff in the fridge, including dairy or eggs. I usually smell/ taste a little and see if it's still good, before throwing them away. Sometimes they are fine, sometimes they don't. I think it has to do with how it has been stored and transported to the grocery store, because my fridge and the temp inside is the same. Because sometimes I'd buy fresh meat and in 24h it would stink already. Even tho I didn't open the package or something.
I often buy organic stuff that's 50% off because the label says it expires in 1-2 days, but they can stay in my fridge for even a month, before I open and consume :))).
The most ridiculous experience was with some feta cheese I bought from Greece, in 2018. I found a pack in 2021 and it was still fresh when I opened it :O.
Erika_Xstacy
06-14-2022, 03:13 PM
My tummy hurt all day yesterday.
the eggs had white stuff in the clear part
:)
Cutie101
06-14-2022, 03:59 PM
My tummy hurt all day yesterday.
the eggs had white stuff in the clear part
:)
Omg I hope you're better. There's no joke with this stuff!! Damn!
rosietta
06-14-2022, 04:09 PM
simply happy
~Carmen~
06-15-2022, 01:56 AM
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I made these for you Erika. Hoemade with farm fresh eggs.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-15-2022, 05:05 AM
I just discovered that my father in law refers to me and my husband (his son) as Beavis and Butt-Head behind our backs?
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caramelcraze
06-15-2022, 05:23 AM
I just discovered that my father in law refers to me and my husband (his son) as Beavis and Butt-Head behind our backs?
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https://66.media.tumblr.com/f4fd9b01282d5f6985f19515af3d53dc/tumblr_oa6zd0p9CV1tq4of6o1_500.gif
He sounds like a charmer.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-15-2022, 05:38 AM
https://66.media.tumblr.com/f4fd9b01282d5f6985f19515af3d53dc/tumblr_oa6zd0p9CV1tq4of6o1_500.gif
He sounds like a charmer.
He's actually a really nice dude, but he is incredibly sarcastic. I really hope I'm not Beavis.
~Carmen~
06-15-2022, 02:12 PM
Butthead is a little more sophisticated and a better dancer.
rosietta
06-15-2022, 04:02 PM
I have many ideas to do thematic shows soon.
Marina Starr
06-15-2022, 06:11 PM
Sometimes we could use a little attitude adjustment!
https://i.ibb.co/6bzMz52/original.jpg (https://imgbb.com/)
~Carmen~
06-15-2022, 07:11 PM
Sometimes we could use a little attitude adjustment!
https://i.ibb.co/6bzMz52/original.jpg (https://imgbb.com/)
I was just thinking this! As a child, my dream was to have my own apartment with a peep hole. I still appreciate having one.
Oh yeah, and a chain lock.
euro_princess
06-18-2022, 02:52 PM
I’m so pissed right now! I had vacation and took a break from Tiktok. I got back to it a few days ago, my first decent clip made 200K views, but I noticed no conversion. And there it was, Russian and Ukrainian soldiers liking my clip. I legit got semi viral on the battlefield and I wanna scream.
WHY TIKTOK, why?! Ofc, I made no money from it, cause I can’t convert any of those people. :(
Marina Starr
06-18-2022, 03:07 PM
I like myself more when I have boundaries and in return, I enjoy other people's company who respect them and cut off those that don't like the way I cut food off that are unhealthy mental and physical well being.
~Carmen~
06-18-2022, 10:51 PM
Laughter really is the best medicine when you're in a mental funk.
caramelcraze
06-19-2022, 07:58 AM
Ugh my pet insurance policy for my two dogs went up $35 overall monthly, so now it's over $100 monthly with dental.