View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-31-2022, 12:50 PM
Starbucks has all their pumpkin shit out yesterday!
Although Panera is my usual people watching spot, I'm currently at a Starbucks typing this.
Marina Starr
08-31-2022, 02:26 PM
LOOOOOOOOL, what you get?
Although Panera is my usual people watching spot, I'm currently at a Starbucks typing this.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-31-2022, 02:48 PM
LOOOOOOOOL, what you get?
I got a green tea iced latte with a shot of pumpkin spice. I would love to share a pic but SW is ghetto.
I can't handle too much caffeine.
Marina Starr
09-02-2022, 08:19 AM
I am so overwhelmed by their pumpkin shit. There are just so many to choose from.
I love to go when they're quiet then get busy as I'm there. Love people watching. There are so many fuckboys.
I got a green tea iced latte with a shot of pumpkin spice. I would love to share a pic but SW is ghetto.
I can't handle too much caffeine.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-02-2022, 03:07 PM
Someone just gave me $40 cash because life had just blessed them with a huge offering. I was walking my dog and they just walked up to me and handed me the money. We're not complete strangers but I wouldn't say that we're close friends either. I asked why and her words were so pure, she just wanted to share a beautiful moment with someone else. We've bonded previously and I just so happened to be walking by. I'm not sure how great of a blessing that she just received, but I'm so grateful and pray that this energy moves on to the next one. ❤️
Marina Starr
09-05-2022, 01:26 PM
https://i.ibb.co/7Xzs2c4/heat-wave-hot-dog.gif (https://ibb.co/g37kz1V)
NitaBaby
09-05-2022, 06:25 PM
I don't know what brand of the common cold I caught from my kids but they've recovered and are happy and full of energy while I'm still dealing with exhaustion and this godforsaken cough. The headaches and the runny nose and the sore throat, jesus christ. It's been so bad that I took two covid tests 5 days apart just to make sure that I wasn't losing my mind.
Apparently, I'm covid-free and definitely losing my mind.
NitaBaby
09-05-2022, 06:27 PM
https://i.ibb.co/7Xzs2c4/heat-wave-hot-dog.gif (https://ibb.co/g37kz1V)
The freakin' dog arm lmao
~Carmen~
09-06-2022, 01:36 AM
https://i.ibb.co/7Xzs2c4/heat-wave-hot-dog.gif (https://ibb.co/g37kz1V)
Haha;D. Are you having hot flashes sis?
Marina Starr
09-06-2022, 04:21 AM
I’m sure it’s both, lol.
but really the heat is so intense this year all over the country. I either do my errands before noon or after six or I won’t leave the house. It’s TOO HOT!
Haha;D. Are you having hot flashes sis?
~Carmen~
09-06-2022, 05:02 AM
I’m sure it’s both, lol.
but really the heat is so intense this year all over the country. I either do my errands before noon or after six or I won’t leave the house. It’s TOO HOT!
It has been a miserably hot summer here too. 80 feels chilly now. lol
Erika_Xstacy
09-06-2022, 09:16 AM
Took 5 days off to set up the house and ended up @ lowes dropping 900.00 on plants and accidently bought two trees. lol They looked like plants to me.
My backyard is so pretty
I ordered a bubble machine bc TikTok showed me they keep mosquitos away and it’s fun. I usually use a fan to avoid mosquitos and not kill my neighbors bee hives.
Erika_Xstacy
09-08-2022, 09:08 AM
I realize this sounds stupid but these placnts have grown quick. I wasn’t expecting that so soon. I used miracle grow.
Ugly attitude people are always physically ugly too. It’s probably just me seeing the stank ass attitude making her a skank.
Marina Starr
09-08-2022, 09:28 AM
My hot chocolate was $3.59. I made a complaint and got a $10 gift card after I scolded Starbucks baristas this morning.
This is not why I complained but I'll take it, lmao. It's a joy bitching them out.
NitaBaby
09-08-2022, 04:44 PM
I just ordered a cigarette lighter adapter for my vehicle so that I can bring my laptop with me and start doing shows in my car.
I would rather just use my cell phone but I can't use the lovense extension on my iPhone. I really love that damn extension and would rather not cam without it.
Genoveve
09-08-2022, 07:29 PM
I'm excited for Halloween this year; last year I moved Halloween week and didn't get to celebrate and the year before that I was lazy and just recycled my old Ren Faire outfit for my costume. This year I'm doing 2 costumes.
TheBrownFox
09-11-2022, 09:08 AM
I'm so happy that my dad came by early this morning, and removed all THREE of these wasp nests for me! #Superhero
A maintenance guy was sent over here on Friday afternoon to deal with it, and he had a spray can and was like "Oh, they didn't tell me you have THREE of them!" (Um...it's right there in my maintenance request that there are THREE of them). And then he told me that unfortunately he has very little spray left in this can. *Sigh* I wanted them REMOVED...not just sprayed, but okay.....
This morning my dad came by as soon as he got off from his overnight job, and removed all three of those nests for me. :iloveyou: At the same time, it upset me that he even had to do that. Last month he got stung in his back yard, and had to drive himself to the E.R. :( I wasn't even gonna tell him about these wasp nests I had, but I think Mom said something to him because I'd showed her pictures I'd taken of them.
TheBrownFox
09-12-2022, 07:03 PM
It'd be nice if Arousr would e-mail me back (with my login details) after I went and did that three-step account verification with them, which was kind of a pain in the ass. The reason I'm interested in them is that I'm pretty sure I'd read on here that that Linda chick no longer works for them.
Marina Starr
09-14-2022, 08:58 AM
I feel fat!
https://i.ibb.co/cNWtpJV/oprah-crying.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-14-2022, 09:28 AM
I feel fat!
https://i.ibb.co/cNWtpJV/oprah-crying.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
Awww girl just have a salad for lunch. 57653
These are the types of salads that my mother makes at Golden Corral. So much meat and cheese that you can't even see the lettuce!
Marina Starr
09-14-2022, 10:12 AM
LOL, I'm actually on a keto diet. I love salad. Just had one for lunch. My salad has baby lettuce, avocados, mozzarella ball cheese, sweet potato fries with balsamic vinaigrette dressing. I don't like heavy salad.
Awww girl just have a salad for lunch.
These are the types of salads that my mother makes at Golden Corral. So much meat and cheese that you can't even see the lettuce!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-15-2022, 01:20 PM
I was just accused of stealing at Walmart. Not by an employee. Not by a security guard, but by another shopper!!!
She looks over while in the self checkout line and says, "You better be careful because even I saw you stealing."
I was so confused and was like Huh???
She's like "It's okay, I'm just looking out because I've been caught before."
Lady, wtf are you talking about? I'm here with my kids why tf are you bothering me? Y'all this woman told me that she saw me stealing dish detergent. Dish DETERGENT!!! I stopped what I was doing and walked over to the security guard and said, "I just saw that lady stealing. Go check on her!" Don't play with me.
So to speed things up...yes, SHE had been stealing!!! They made her empty her bags and matched it up with what was on the screen. Because she hadn't walked out yet they let her go. Can you imagine? The audacity!!!! Girl this isn't a thieves guild. And if you're wondering...yes she was.
kamiliam
09-15-2022, 02:03 PM
I was just accused of stealing at Walmart. Not by an employee. Not by a security guard, but by another shopper!!!
She looks over while in the self checkout line and says, "You better be careful because even I saw you stealing."
I was so confused and was like Huh???
She's like "It's okay, I'm just looking out because I've been caught before."
Lady, wtf are you talking about? I'm here with my kids why tf are you bothering me? Y'all this woman told me that she saw me stealing dish detergent. Dish DETERGENT!!! I stopped what I was doing and walked over to the security guard and said, "I just saw that lady stealing. Go check on her!" Don't play with me.
So to speed things up...yes, SHE had been stealing!!! They made her empty her bags and matched it up with what was on the screen. Because she hadn't walked out yet they let her go. Can you imagine? The audacity!!!! Girl this isn't a thieves guild. And if you're wondering...yes she was.
it’s always been my gfs who used to steal compulsively as teens who are always on alert about what others are doing. From shoplifting to homeless. Like I know they don’t want others in their business like that, why do it to strangers?
projection is just so obvious when you begin to see it elsewhere. It’s everywhere
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-15-2022, 02:19 PM
it’s always been my gfs who used to steal compulsively as teens who are always on alert about what others are doing. From shoplifting to homeless. Like I know they don’t want others in their business like that, why do it to strangers?
projection is just so obvious when you begin to see it elsewhere. It’s everywhere
Girl! This is a different type of projection. LMAO I can honestly say that I've never witnessed it in this type of scenario? She even cussed me out and called me a snitch on her way out the door??? My niece was the one who whispered, "I think SHE stole something?", before I reacted. It was wild.
kamiliam
09-15-2022, 02:24 PM
Girl! This is a different type of projection. LMAO I can honestly say that I've never witnessed it in this type of scenario? She even cussed me out and called me a snitch on her way out the door??? My niece was the one who whispered, "I think SHE stole something?", before I reacted. It was wild.
wild. You can’t be a snitch if someone is trying to get you caught up in their bullshit. The staff probably knew her ass too.
whirlerz
09-15-2022, 02:27 PM
Was this, by chance at the self checkout?
I've heard to be very careful of those, people being accused by the store itself..
Sounds like she points the finger falsely at you, to cover up her own theft?
Wow.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-15-2022, 02:30 PM
wild. You can’t be a snitch if someone is trying to get you caught up in their bullshit. The staff probably knew her ass too.
The staff looked confused at first but once I said she just accused me while also admitting to previous theft...they came together like Voltron!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-15-2022, 02:34 PM
Was this, by chance at the self checkout?
I've heard to be very careful of those, people being accused by the store itself..
Sounds like she points the finger falsely at you, to cover up her own theft?
Wow.
Yes, it was self checkout. I honestly don't know what her true purpose was? However I can tell you as a black woman I've learned how to be careful when shopping. I keep my cellphone in my hands at all time. Not because I need to check it, but because I know if I go into my purse for a call someone might accuse me of stealing. It's so disgusting how automatic my mannerisms become when in public.
Marina Starr
09-15-2022, 03:08 PM
Maybe she's on fentanyl?
I was just at Walmart today. So she was stealing shit but accused you of stealing, this is wild lmfao!
Girl! This is a different type of projection. LMAO I can honestly say that I've never witnessed it in this type of scenario? She even cussed me out and called me a snitch on her way out the door??? My niece was the one who whispered, "I think SHE stole something?", before I reacted. It was wild.
whirlerz
09-15-2022, 03:11 PM
Yes, it was self checkout. I honestly don't know what her true purpose was? However I can tell you as a black woman I've learned how to be careful when shopping. I keep my cellphone in my hands at all time. Not because I need to check it, but because I know if I go into my purse for a call someone might accuse me of stealing. It's so disgusting how automatic my mannerisms become when in public.
Thank you, & I'm sorry this happened, what a terrible thing!
Reason I asked, I don't have it handy, a recent article telling people to be careful at the self checkout, cause people having been wrongfully accused by the big box stores, (Target too) even weeks or months later..
I shop at a chain food store, I only get a few things there, the one Mgr was freaking out cause she didn't want me taking out those hand held carry baskets they have, taking it outside? ..
Okay, that's fine lady, but the other time she was watching me check out, then she reached for my receipt, what?
I snatched it up myself, what the f.
Anyway, back to the article, it said to slowly, deliberately put each item through..it could miss ringing up something, I know WM has a camera on the self checker.
You can pause after self check, stand to the side, skim receipt, making sure everything's been rung up that the machine didn't miss!
I keep my receipt in hand as I walk out the door. I walk slowly past the greeter/door person, sometimes I been stopped for a receipt check, (I don't always use bags), usually not.
They don't always take action (letting someone go) cause they're afraid of lawsuits.
Yeah I still say she was trying to throw the blame on you, while stealing her damn self
Sorry again that happened, ugh.
whirlerz
09-16-2022, 10:20 AM
I just also wanted to say, I was once accused of stealing a friend's purse, which's FALSE!
She'd asked me to drive her new car, (she was wasted, we'd been out bar hopping, w/another chick who I nvr liked/trusted)
Well she told me next day her $ was all gone but didn't say anything else..
Some time later it randomly popped in my head about the other girl asking me to hold our friends purse, I shouldn't have let her) & I casually told her, which she later told me that B accused me of taking it.
To cover her own ass /make me look guilty!
Alway trust gut feelings, never ever liked that c*nt.
Stay Safe, always Ladies!
izshadow
09-16-2022, 11:37 AM
I just recently become more active on TikTok due to wanting to get my candle business out there and share my pets. I have become so addicted to the hotness of lesbians on there. I am a femme and the amount of FTMs and butch that are leaving me not even realizing how freaking thirsty I was. Last night I got so wrapped up for over 5 hours! I had no idea till I looked at the clock! I have become so addicted.
whirlerz
09-17-2022, 01:49 PM
There was a hot thread of Trans people, on tumblr.
Lol, I've so many followers, probably porno blogs.
Anyway, gorgeous Trans on there, can't find it now!
Marina Starr
09-19-2022, 10:27 AM
My regular Starbucks is closed until Friday for renovation and I'm not okay. I'm very particular of which Starbucks I go to.
Tried a new one today and didn't like it because the shopping plaza was old and ghetto.
https://i.ibb.co/mcrggXy/oprah-winfrey-sad.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
TheBrownFox
09-19-2022, 12:38 PM
My regular Starbucks is closed until Friday for renovation and I'm not okay. I'm very particular of which Starbucks I go to.
Tried a new one today and didn't like it because the shopping plaza was old and ghetto.
I'm the saaame way about my Dunkin'. 8) As for the Dunkin' location that I don't care for (In the hood and near me)...the only reason I go there so much is that it's right across the street from the laundromat that I take the bus to on Mondays. Mondays is when Dunkin' has their Bonus Points Monday "100 points" offer in their app (With every 200 points, you get a free beverage). I hate it when they're out of the Peach Passion Fruit refresher. That's never a problem when I go to any of these other Dunkin' locations. They gave me the very last of what they had left of Peach Passion Fruit, so that's probably why the taste wasn't so great. I started walking with my rolling laundry bin over to the bus stop, and I saw that some garbage human being had littered Dunkin' trash (cups, cup tray, bag, paper wrapping) in the parking lot. People suck.
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Erika_Xstacy
09-20-2022, 12:28 PM
My old neighbor is my new neighbor :)
I am happy it’s him and not a couple that fights 24/7.
Felt like summer camp, he popped his head out of the back door to say hey neighbor! I got excited and hugged him saying thank you thank you thank you.
I think that made him feel good but I was seriously so happy to see him and not worry about new people I’d have to get use to or have to be quiet. He don’t give a shit and my dog loves him :)
NitaBaby
09-21-2022, 06:23 AM
I broke up with my boyfriend last Saturday. Haven’t been on cam since.
It needed to happen and was long overdue. But we live together and I told him that I’d be okay with him staying until the lease is done - which is the last day of next month, October. I don’t hate the man and he’s never disrespected me (he’s just broke and never fixed it) so I see no point in kicking him out on the street in an unreasonable fashion. I don’t wish homelessness on him. But he most definitely has to go.
I know he has it in his head that he’s going to win me back and that’s annoying. I just want to meld into my new reality of being free and single and that’s going to be hard to do with him still in my face.
But I’m most definitely done. I need to get on cam and start focusing on myself again. I just hate how I’m genuinely….sad? Or down. Kinda mopey.
Like I said, it’s hard to feel relief and like there’s a new beginning ahead of me when you’re around someone who clearly wants to fix the past.
Marina Starr
09-21-2022, 08:35 AM
Chick Fil A sent me two rewards: large waffle fries and chocolate chip cookie just because!
Thank you, Chick Fil A! You know how much I love your crispy and homophobic chicken sandwich!
Marina Starr
09-21-2022, 08:47 AM
You are allowed to feel sad and whatever you want to feel. Change is a process.
I broke up with my boyfriend last Saturday. Haven’t been on cam since.
It needed to happen and was long overdue. But we live together and I told him that I’d be okay with him staying until the lease is done - which is the last day of next month, October. I don’t hate the man and he’s never disrespected me (he’s just broke and never fixed it) so I see no point in kicking him out on the street in an unreasonable fashion. I don’t wish homelessness on him. But he most definitely has to go.
I know he has it in his head that he’s going to win me back and that’s annoying. I just want to meld into my new reality of being free and single and that’s going to be hard to do with him still in my face.
But I’m most definitely done. I need to get on cam and start focusing on myself again. I just hate how I’m genuinely….sad? Or down. Kinda mopey.
Like I said, it’s hard to feel relief and like there’s a new beginning ahead of me when you’re around someone who clearly wants to fix the past.
NitaBaby
09-21-2022, 08:47 AM
Chick Fil A sent me two rewards: large waffle fries and chocolate chip cookie just because!
Thank you, Chick Fil A! You know how much I love your crispy and homophobic chicken sandwich!
A couple years back my aunt made a comment kind of side-eyeing the fact that I still eat Papa Johns pizza like “they’re gonna put a noose with your food like a happy meal toy” and all I could say was “and they better make it a large, too”.
I’m not canceling them or Chick fil A lol
VioletH
09-21-2022, 09:16 AM
Yes, it was self checkout. I honestly don't know what her true purpose was? However I can tell you as a black woman I've learned how to be careful when shopping. I keep my cellphone in my hands at all time. Not because I need to check it, but because I know if I go into my purse for a call someone might accuse me of stealing. It's so disgusting how automatic my mannerisms become when in public.
I definitely recommend watching the latest episode of Atlanta after having this experience... They touch up on this kind of thing too well
VioletH
09-21-2022, 09:19 AM
What sucks about this is my local shops are ALWAYS out of receipt paper... I don't trust self check out anymore... But sometimes that's the only option they give you at WM. So no more WM for me!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-21-2022, 02:48 PM
I definitely recommend watching the latest episode of Atlanta after having this experience... They touch up on this kind of thing too well
I thought that the last season was THEE Last Season?!? Imagine my surprise when I got the notification on Twitter? I will check it out.
VioletH
09-21-2022, 02:57 PM
I thought that the last season was THEE Last Season?!? Imagine my surprise when I got the notification on Twitter? I will check it out.
Ahh I missed an episode, it was the first episode of the season! So damn good. They're saying this season (4th) will be the last:(
~Carmen~
09-21-2022, 06:37 PM
The Handmaids Tale is back for season 5! I'm trying not to watch so I can binge watch at the end of the season.
I always give in.lol
Esixxx
09-22-2022, 07:12 AM
The Handmaids Tale is back for season 5! I'm trying not to watch so I can binge watch at the end of the season.
I always give in.lol
You shouldn't have said this :) Now you have opened the door to temptation.
Last season was sooooo good.
Marina Starr
09-22-2022, 09:06 AM
Starbucks Pumpkin spice creme is so good! I'm loving keto diet. Lost 5lbs so far. I just wanna lose another 5.
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VioletH
09-22-2022, 09:44 AM
Keto did absolute wonders for me losing some serious depression weight! Wasn't sustainable for me long term, but definitely led to healthier habits!
Dreamqueen
09-22-2022, 09:48 AM
The Handmaids Tale is back for season 5! I'm trying not to watch so I can binge watch at the end of the season.
I always give in.lol
"Under his eye."
Season 5 is SO good!
I'm thinking of having a t-shirt made with "Don't let the bastards get you down" on it. Lol
There are lots of discussion groups on Facebook and Reddit.
I like reading through them, because I've never read the book, so it's good for explaining scenes that I don't quite understand, from people who have read it.
"May The Lord Open"
Marina Starr
09-22-2022, 09:49 AM
There are many ways to keto diet from mild to strict keto. It's a good foundation for good habits as you stated.
The skinnier I get, the better I feel.
Keto did absolute wonders for me losing some serious depression weight! Wasn't sustainable for me long term, but definitely led to healthier habits!